Bride Is Forced To Buy Dress That Her UNCLE Has Fallen In Love With | Say Yes To The Dress

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  • @SayYestotheDress
    @SayYestotheDress  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

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    • @kathymacmannis3712
      @kathymacmannis3712 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel so sorry for how manipulating this mom and uncle are. I'm pretty sure they've each already had their own weddings. Let Kayla have her day! Hopefully, her husband has ears and will hear and respect her opinion.

  • @janetgray8737
    @janetgray8737 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    The uncle and the bride’s mother did not even consider what the bride wanted. It was all about them and their wants. How selfish can they be?

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If I get married someday I know I'll have to fight with my mom who has complete other tastes than me. I'm considering to go shopping by myself, pick up 2 or 3 dresses I really like, and then come back with her and just let her chose between these 2 dresses. x) I'm note sure it could work.

    • @kristensilber1522
      @kristensilber1522 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@grenade8572 You’re right, better to go alone or with someone you truly trust not to be pushy and just be supportive. It’ll be your wedding and your fiancé’s not anyone else’s.

    • @respecthewoman
      @respecthewoman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FACTS!

    • @mapatterson173
      @mapatterson173 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I bought my own dress. Picked it out, and my hubs and I paid for it.

    • @tarascott8000
      @tarascott8000 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes they were the fit and flare she looks like a sausage $3,000 sausage she looks ridiculous and a fit and flare she's a block

  • @jessiejoseph1093
    @jessiejoseph1093 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +814

    Uncle Steve needs to get his own dress.

    • @Alinasinging
      @Alinasinging 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Yep, uncle Steve needs his own appointment

    • @kristensilber1522
      @kristensilber1522 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      So does mom. People need to stop living vicariously through their kids.

    • @traceyhuntstreasure2890
      @traceyhuntstreasure2890 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@kristensilber1522 I totally get Mothers wanting their daughter to try on their own preferred style of dress. I certainly would ask my girls to try on something I loved because I have never married and I'm fat. My girls are beautiful and both slim. Never in a million years would I ever push them to choose what I liked best. I am halfway through this video while making this comment and am currently feeling so bad for this poor girl. The ballgown is not what she wants at all and she's letting them guilt her into taking it.

    • @mariehartmann8182
      @mariehartmann8182 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Exactly my thoughts! He 8:51 is clearly a dragqueen, which is absolutely fine!, but this was about the bride, not about him.
      And the mother? Don't even get me started...

    • @maryh-w8647
      @maryh-w8647 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Maybe uncle Steve is paying that’s why he has so much to say.

  • @lorijohnson8425
    @lorijohnson8425 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    Where's Randy when you need him. He would definitely be fighting for this bride to get the dress she wants.

    • @nancy9c7
      @nancy9c7 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. That consultant Lisa is always fighting for her commission and it’s always so obvious. Do not like her at all.

  • @natashakuzmanoska9656
    @natashakuzmanoska9656 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +491

    That is not a good way to find a compromise. Both dresses were awful on her.

    • @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah
      @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      And Lisa (the consultant) wasn't helping at all! I thought she was supposed to be in the bride's corner but she was going with the uncle and mom's picks. 🤬🤬

    • @natashakuzmanoska9656
      @natashakuzmanoska9656 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah The bride needs to stand Up and say what she like decisively. If you see some "strange" situation you are not willing to risk the sale.

    • @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah
      @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      If Randy had been there, you can bet he'd have said something about it.

    • @Mftjan2000
      @Mftjan2000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I actually think a 3rd would have bee good on her...Her figure is different. And some dresses look better on a given figure.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@Mftjan2000 she does have a very boxy figure, none of the dresses looked right on her. the ballgown made her look almost completely torso-less and borderline pregnant, and the reception dress made her look flat as a pancake with no curves.

  • @johnlogan3908
    @johnlogan3908 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +226

    I hope this girl has a happy marriage where her opinion counts too.

  • @tastymedleys
    @tastymedleys 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    The mom and uncle were obviously terrible, but I can't believe the consultant just went along with it too. I can understand putting her in one ball gown just to show them and make sure that she doesn't in fact like it (sometimes the brides end up pleasantly surprised after all), but what happened to putting the bride first? She obviously did not like the ball gown and wanted to keep looking. But of course the consultant took advantage of the family's manipulations to just sell a second dress instead of just putting her in some beautiful fit and flairs to change their minds. The entire thing was a trainwreck.

    • @mimib8032
      @mimib8032 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And both dresses looked awful on her.

    • @rachelmaddowswife8713
      @rachelmaddowswife8713 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yeah, it also wasn't that flattering on her. Even if the bride agreed to the two dress compromise, they should have kept shopping for a better ballgown option with a more structured top.

    • @heatherbeach4696
      @heatherbeach4696 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@rachelmaddowswife8713EXACTLY...out of all 3 they were beautiful dresses but none of them looked that great on her!

    • @nusratridi
      @nusratridi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly my point! I can't believe Lisa did that

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +448

    The Uncle should just wear the dress himself. These people are awful. Poor Kayla. (I don’t like either dress on her if I’m being honest. She can look better.)

    • @chryssesandchaos
      @chryssesandchaos 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Maybe the bride should just pay for the dress herself and yes, both dresses don't look good on her, the dresses don't fit her body type.

    • @KPolinger
      @KPolinger 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I don’t like either of the dresses she picked either. Mom should just be happy Kayla agreed to wear the first dress at all. All of her pictures of the ceremony and the rest of the day’s posed pics will be in the ball gown.

    • @jessiejoseph1093
      @jessiejoseph1093 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Agreed, neither are flattering and her entourage were no help at all in executing HER vision - of the biggest day of her life.

    • @mandycoleman1394
      @mandycoleman1394 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Totally agree. It doesn’t suit her shape at all. Neither of them. But she left happy and that’s all that counts ! All the best to her I say ! X

    • @heatherjohnston5427
      @heatherjohnston5427 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      The associate lady was forcing that ball gown on her and then the two dresses. This isn’t a good advertisement for the show.

  • @trishgift7959
    @trishgift7959 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    That first dress did not flatter her at all!! And the fact that her mother and uncle didn't see how unhappy she was in that dress is upsetting.

  • @madelynl.5351
    @madelynl.5351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I can’t bear to watch bullying. Neither of them have a clue what the bride wants. It’s sickening. That guy saying yes to the dress??!!! Disgusting.

  • @SpiritHeart176
    @SpiritHeart176 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    This was awful to watch. The way they bullied her into getting a dress she didn't want was bad enough without the consultant helping them do it! Her mum's horrible begrudging "well alright" would have shattered me. I hope the bride felt beautiful, special, and valued on her wedding day, because she didn't get that for a second in this appointment.

    • @kristensilber1522
      @kristensilber1522 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m wondering why the sales person didn’t fight for her, they usually do.

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The bride needs a voice and a backbone and her mother needs to tone down her annoying laugh. If you're getting married but still haven't grown a spine, you might not have a happy marriage. The ball gown looked unflattering af.

  • @rosallumetta2864
    @rosallumetta2864 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    No to both dresses!

  • @sarahdee374
    @sarahdee374 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    uhhh, she looks so dumpy in the ceremony dress. I hope she's happier than she looks. The emotional blackmail from her family really triggers me!

  • @jeanroughley1126
    @jeanroughley1126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Why ask the bride what she wants then give her the opposite. They do this a LOT.

    • @chloeb8530
      @chloeb8530 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Heard unlimited budget and the consultant saw $$$$ signs and upsold to two dresses. Very clever 😂

    • @cecily3797
      @cecily3797 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      For drama and money

    • @dy9278
      @dy9278 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A lot of times the bride doesn't know what is ideal or most.flattering

    • @Anon.5216
      @Anon.5216 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Neither of those dresses are nice!

  • @TheGreeneBead
    @TheGreeneBead 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I HATE that they basically forced her into picking that ballgown. This is the *exact* reason I *refuse* to accept money or "gifted" things when I get married- because I *refuse* to allow ANYONE to guilt-trip me/feel entitled to making me choose what THEY want over what I want 🤬

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I'd only accept a family member to deposit money in my bank account to do with as I please, as long as it is wedding related. Otherwise, I could go without the gift

    • @louiem5778
      @louiem5778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My Nan died a few years before both me and my sister got married and my mother used some of the inheritance from her to buy our dresses. We both had very different dresses that we loved and that suited us. There was no manipulation at all. Just sensible considerations about venue, vision for the day, etc. If someone else is paying for the right reasons they don’t have any ‘control’- they just want you to have exactly what you want and what is right for you.

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The bride needs a voice and a backbone and her mother needs to tone down her annoying laugh. If you're getting married but still haven't grown a spine, you might not have a happy marriage. The ball gown looked unflattering af.

  • @sdbelland
    @sdbelland 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Horrible dresses, both of them. They fit her body type at all, and shame on her mom and uncle for not helping her find HER vision. This just made me sad.

  • @paganpines
    @paganpines 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    God even the consultant was gaslighting this poor woman. She’s pretending to like the ball gown to appease her family. Just awful.

  • @joanpadley7480
    @joanpadley7480 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    The mother is a nightmare it’s not her wedding.

  • @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah
    @shiliela_rhymes_with_delilah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Being forced to pick what the uncle wants. 🤬🤬🤬

  • @marysheffield190
    @marysheffield190 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

    I was very opinionated about what dress I wanted to wear, and no one could change my mind. This bride needs to get a backbone with her family and choose a dress for HER day!

    • @kittybeck151
      @kittybeck151 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn't pay anything at all for my wedding dress. A friend gave me one. I loved the dress & it still was a wonderful wedding.

    • @marysheffield190
      @marysheffield190 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kittybeck151 Actually, I wore my mother’s vintage dress from 1948. All my friends and even my father thought it was too old fashioned, but then he changed his mind when he realized how much money he’d save ❤️

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      if the uncle is paying, she can let him order whatever dress he wants, and then SHE can go to a separate appointment WITHOUT him and buy a dress SHE likes.

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The bride needs a voice and a backbone and her mother needs to tone down her annoying laugh. If you're getting married but still haven't grown a spine, you might not have a happy marriage. The ball gown looked unflattering af.

  • @figmo397
    @figmo397 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I kind of feel for the bride. She's stuck compromising on her vision for her mother and her uncle.

  • @bookmagicroe9553
    @bookmagicroe9553 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The fit and flare dress doesn't fit her through the top. She should have tried on several more. The bride doesn't look
    happy with the big dress. She caved.

  • @wombatnumbat989
    @wombatnumbat989 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Neither of the 2 dresses were at all flattering! What a shame.

  • @cherrybomb4102
    @cherrybomb4102 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Is it me or are those dresses not up to snuff

    • @derby685
      @derby685 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It isn't you....

  • @Caramel50
    @Caramel50 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why does a person think they should CONTROL what the person wears if they offered or agreed to purchase the dress. Just pay for it and let the person wear what THEY want to wear!!!

  • @pjb2773
    @pjb2773 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Neither dress is flattering. She should have tried on dresses until she found one that was.

  • @jeswainston
    @jeswainston 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    What the hell this mom and uncle? What is wrong with them? It’s not their wedding. Do I have to scream at them?

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I hate Mom and Uncle…I truly hate them….I hate them so much.

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes…it’s what she f-ing wants. She wants a dress that she likes. Screw you Uncle and Mom!

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell Mom to go buy her own wedding dress and get married again in the biggest ugliest monstrosity of a ball gown she can find.

  • @NH-tb2sm
    @NH-tb2sm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That's a mess of a dress. The consultant should've focused on what the bride wants instead of trying to please the entourage. Uncle Steve needs his own appointment for his own dress. This was a very sad appointment.

  • @ema629
    @ema629 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    The mom and uncle kept saying, "That's what we want....her mother and I envision....." and so on. They could care less about what the bride wanted. Complete narcissistic behavior from the both of them. The uncle bursting into tears was such emotional manipulation on his part. They both wanted to make the bride feel bad for even thinking about not getting the gown they wanted to see her in.
    The fact that at the end, after she compromised and got the dress she never wanted, they were telling her she could only wear the dress she loved at the very very end of the reception. Disgusting behavior from mom and uncle, I feel so bad for the bride that she's been conditioned to think that this is normal behavior.
    Lisa, the consultant, should have never had given mom and uncle so much control over her brides appointment. She should have bolstered her up to give her the confidence to stand up to those horrid people. Randy would have circled it back to what the BRIDE wanted.

    • @lilfoot3660
      @lilfoot3660 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, and after she is married, they do not have a say as to when she wears what ... at all. Not that they have a right to now.

  • @nancysmith4529
    @nancysmith4529 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Wow I can’t believe how they’re trying to manipulate this poor girl. It’s more about her day not reliving what you want! I’m glad mom came around to the second dress. Which I thought was beautiful on her. She did look more bridal in the first gown. Then they try to control when she gets to wear reception gown. Stop being so controlling!

  • @AlizMari23
    @AlizMari23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "I don't know where that came from." I do. He's trying to manipulate her into a dress she doesn't want to get married in, let alone wear.

  • @JessicaBeee
    @JessicaBeee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Seems to me the bride was bullied/forced/manipulated into getting the dress the uncle cried about but.... let's continue

  • @Eldyra
    @Eldyra 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Those two wouldn't only be out of the bridal shop, but also uninvited to the wedding. And what's wrong with the consultant?

  • @Pamtorres2003
    @Pamtorres2003 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Uncle Fred should be trying the dresses on, and the bride should come back with a different entourage.

  • @msshey9
    @msshey9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    They double teamed and bullied the bride. They clearly have been doing this her entire life. Toxic and horrible.

  • @jeanroughley1126
    @jeanroughley1126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I'd buy 6 dresses just to show them how selfish they are. What I want NOT the bride

  • @amandasweeney6686
    @amandasweeney6686 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ive been in the wedding industry for over 25 years and it still stuns me how some family members want what they like, and pay zero attention to the bride. A lot of "me me, me" its shocking!😠

  • @caroljohnson4939
    @caroljohnson4939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Horrible people…..that ballgown was not flattering at all, and I don’t think much of the second dress.

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    And the brides Uncle has a say on the dress..... how?

  • @913willow
    @913willow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Because the consultant knew who was paying and what they wanted 😂!

  • @gracielou1407
    @gracielou1407 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    IMO it isn't just the dress: these two have probably hijacked the entire wedding: venue, flowers, bride's colors, etc. They are probably paying for everything to ensure that they get the wedding of their dreams, and she doesn't want to disappoint them. But where does she draw the line? Are they going to have a say in what house she and DH buy, what colors to do the nursery, what to name their baby and the list goes on. If I were the bride, I would feel suffocated being forced even through love to live out mom/uncle's fantasy. Of course, if it were me, I would elope rather than become their living Barbie doll. These two mean well and obviously love the bride to bits but it is time for them to let go and allow her, her own choices.

  • @futurexoxoo1431
    @futurexoxoo1431 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Hm no .. both dresses where not flattering on her body shape especially on the top area..

  • @pearlsaphier3458
    @pearlsaphier3458 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don't think she's happy. I think she settled because she knew her family would never give up.

  • @debramccabe5476
    @debramccabe5476 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They completely manipulated her. The fake sobbing.....good grief.

  • @emberkai1693
    @emberkai1693 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why did Lisa put the bride in ball gowns to begin with? Who cares what this rude entourage has to say, give the bride what she wants. It’s literally their job to plead the bride not the family. That uncle should’ve never been invited along with the mother smh. This poor woman 😢

  • @Jelena2022
    @Jelena2022 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's an unlimited budget, but you don't get to pick what YOU want. Kind of sad.

  • @AkireMaru
    @AkireMaru 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Unlimited budget and she picks 2 of the plainest most unflattering dresses in the store? I’m seriously confused.

  • @jenniferlerch7836
    @jenniferlerch7836 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Why is her uncle even there? Damned if I would have ever invited my uncles to pick out my wedding gown.

  • @samiestewart6109
    @samiestewart6109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I didn’t think either dress was flattering. So sad she didn’t get what she really wanted.

  • @ginzagal7740
    @ginzagal7740 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Worst possible entourage I have ever seen on this show. They didn't care at all about what she wanted and both dresses were awful.

  • @amysilin8122
    @amysilin8122 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The family didn't even pretend to care about her real wishes. How messed up.

  • @rebeccafreelin7515
    @rebeccafreelin7515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    These parent are not loving. They are self serving and unkind. The bride is the one who should be making the decision. I bet they have bullied her all her life. The bride needs to stop them now because your new husband will not appreciate your parents running your marriage.
    Let uncle or mom wear the ball gown.

  • @carnationemerald
    @carnationemerald 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As the consultant Lisa needs to listen to the bride and not her Mom and uncle Steve. The bride wants fit and flair NOT BALL GOWN.

  • @lisadavis4279
    @lisadavis4279 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Neither.

  • @triciag3311
    @triciag3311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I will always love ballgowns the best, but I wouldn't project that onto someone else. What is wrong with these people? I don't understand it at all.
    Both dresses she picked are stunning.
    Her mom deserves to pay for 2 dresses if she is gonna dictate what the bride wears.

  • @christinebrument6851
    @christinebrument6851 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Theres something wrong with the uncle, seriously

    • @keithgiblin2636
      @keithgiblin2636 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not the mother? Or the bride?

    • @keithgiblin2636
      @keithgiblin2636 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or the consultant..?

  • @krystalrobin3164
    @krystalrobin3164 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Omg!!!😢 The big poofy dresses do not suit the bride at all. You can tell the difference, even in her body posture, when she puts on the type that she loves! I could not imagine doing that to my daughter!!

  • @jackiehowell3646
    @jackiehowell3646 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Why does uncle have a say in the dress? This is sickening how they treated her.

  • @tonyamoony
    @tonyamoony 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The uncle is a little...he makes me feel like HE wants the dress!

  • @hydzjms6742
    @hydzjms6742 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This short clip of this episode makes the bride look like she just settled. It wasn't her appointment at all 😢

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I like the second dress way more than the first. As long as they're all happy though.

    • @xxxx-qo9dh
      @xxxx-qo9dh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Neither looked good on her body shape, her body doesn’t have much shape and the dresses she picked don’t look good on her. Lisa sould have done a better job.

  • @barefootcontessa3112
    @barefootcontessa3112 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That poor bride, nobody, not even the assistant , was listening to what she wanted. Neither dress suited her.

  • @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem
    @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    that poor bride. i understand having an opinion and wanting input, but they were telling her what she would wear and giving in to nothing for her. the ball gown made her look pregnant and not in an attractive way.

  • @miguellugo1200
    @miguellugo1200 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Uncle: "I'm saying yes to this dress"
    You're not the one getting married

  • @tott3457
    @tott3457 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    That was weird!!! I thought the bride makes the decisions.
    Get a life mom and uncle!!!!!

  • @dardarmissesv
    @dardarmissesv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You have a dramatic uncle. He’ll steal the show for sure

  • @JustMe-gh7ib
    @JustMe-gh7ib 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    For those of us Moms who could only dream of being included in our daughter's lives, let alone a wedding....we have a few words: Say thank you, and let her go.

  • @juliejohnson1481
    @juliejohnson1481 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Don't get it twisted, that mother is pure evil. Get married and MOVE FAR AWAY.

  • @Thewitchesflame
    @Thewitchesflame 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Wow. Girlee needs to grow a spine. Elope, something.

  • @hollyd.4793
    @hollyd.4793 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So many of the comments say that the bride needs to stand up for herself or get a backbone but imagine what her life was like growing up with those two. Her thoughts and opinions and desires have probably been beaten down her entire life up until that point. I imagine the way she compromised like this is what she has always had to do to survive and try and get anything near what she would like to have. So I completely support this bride and hope her husband fully understands the type if people her mother and uncle are so he can help the bride to heal and learn to stand up to those who would run her over with their opinions.

  • @maharet58
    @maharet58 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG nobody asking the bride WHAT ??????

  • @kiarimarie
    @kiarimarie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The mom and uncle are awful and I hate this consultant giving into them.

  • @claira8601
    @claira8601 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The bride didn't love the wedding dress, and the mother and uncle didn't care. They only cared about their dress dreams. I've never such total selfishness of a bride's family. It was so sad to see the bride asking what time could she put on the reception dress. That makes me think she's lived a life of being controlled. I hope she is not marrying a controlling man.

  • @pamm3776
    @pamm3776 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why is no one listening to the bride?

  • @bevie8089
    @bevie8089 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1st dress - No. 😝
    2nd dress - Yikes! 😖
    3rd dress - Better. 😏
    Mom and Unc - 😤😠😡

  • @RevLeigh55
    @RevLeigh55 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So what if her mom and uncle want a ball gown. The bride has to wear the dress. They need to LISTEN to the bride.

  • @tammymcc-n7652
    @tammymcc-n7652 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got married at age 18. I worked and saved my own money and went all by myself, not my Mom, not my sister, no friend. Just me. I didn’t want anyone else telling me what THEY THOUGHT I should wear.

  • @azeen6821
    @azeen6821 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Something felt so weird and off this entire video... Im creeped the fuck out

  • @yukinohana5583
    @yukinohana5583 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hope she return the dresses, she can get better dress that are look good on her, can’t believe the staff let her tried and chose those dresses, I feel sorry for the bride

  • @nicklebaby
    @nicklebaby 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    No please. Fit and flare is not for her.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yup. A-line all the way.

  • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
    @dorisschneider-coutandin9965 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd call that emotional blackmailing.

  • @kathyb1011
    @kathyb1011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Both of them were awful on her. They needed to find ONE dress that was flattering on her. That sales woman had no idea. Where was Randy?

  • @fabulousfamily564
    @fabulousfamily564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why would a bride NEED to "sneak" her dress on? How controlling is this family?

  • @janececelia7448
    @janececelia7448 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What the uncle does in his own time is his own business, but he doesn't need to be in a bridal salon looking at dresses that he thinks will suit him.
    If she can, I think it's best if a bride can save up for her own gown and then all she has to please is herself. She looked beautiful in both dresses, but that's not the point.

    • @keithgiblin2636
      @keithgiblin2636 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Er, what *is* your point?

  • @xxxx-qo9dh
    @xxxx-qo9dh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ‘I can hardly walk in this’: Selfish uncle: ‘that’s what WE want, the wow factor’. Don’t like her mom, too selfish! And honestly neither of the dresses looked very flattering on her.

  • @mousiebrown1747
    @mousiebrown1747 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Put the “guy” in a wedding dress - he’s sooo interested!

  • @patmccoy8758
    @patmccoy8758 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This bride needs to shine her spine!!!!

  • @jeanroughley1126
    @jeanroughley1126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    No budget. I'd buy 6 dresses $8,000 each and ALL fit and flare . These people are selfish. Don't give a damn about the bride's happiness

  • @burkabrigade
    @burkabrigade 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wonder if her future husband is similarly controlling.

  • @lilfoot3660
    @lilfoot3660 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awful family and awful dresses🥺. The consultant managed the appt very poorly. The bride should have had better choices and her wishes respected. Most likely she is forced to conform in most things in her family. So sad 😭.

  • @luluvsraven
    @luluvsraven 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh man….her mother is not wearing that dress!!! I was so uncomfortable there. That wedding dress makes her look like a trifle and she picked the fit and flare cause it was the only one her family would agree to. What is that about?

  • @adrianapotoroaca2949
    @adrianapotoroaca2949 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm sorry but the consultant didn't do her job right this time. She didnt pull the dresses she wanted and the second fit and flair dress doesnt flatter her at all despite having a great figure. Families can be overpowering but it's the consultant's job to set things straight and make the bride happy.

  • @JenniRubenking
    @JenniRubenking 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The bride needed to put her foot down and speak up on what SHE WANTS!!

  • @moonbuni59
    @moonbuni59 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad it is everything the uncle wants. The consultant needed to work for the bride.

  • @Ladythyme
    @Ladythyme 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “WE” want a wow factor….they really think it’s about them….they don’t freakin care how she feels about it…SHAMEFUL…this bride looks so sad…oh and the salesperson is loving the two dress deal …she’s shameful too…overall there’s got to be a better Fit and Flare dress for her…whatever

  • @rebeccahancock7406
    @rebeccahancock7406 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is why you purchase your own dress because too many people are all me me me only and the hell with the bride.

  • @tammwichowens8846
    @tammwichowens8846 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She didn't seem like she was genuinely happy :/

  • @leannecanty8821
    @leannecanty8821 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The consultant didn't help much either.

  • @adelemartin1528
    @adelemartin1528 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yikes. Hope the bride has learnt to make herself happy, and set boundaries with mother and uncle.

  • @jadejacobs2221
    @jadejacobs2221 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh, that wasn't a compromise.....Their reactions....This one makes me sad.