This happened to me earlier this year. I showed an interest, she politely refused, and she obviously is guarded, and doesn't reply to texts anymore. So I have moved on, she's in the rear view mirror.
Letting go can be very hard sometimes, but when it's the right thing to do, you''ll have God's peace to see you through this hard season. It's counterintuitive to let go, to stop grasping onto something or someone you want with all your heart & soul. But in my life the more I let go of my will & asked rather for God's will to be done, I've never regretted giving God his rightful place in my life. You'll never know what God's peace is all about, till you trust him with 100% of your life not just 60%-80%!! Proverbs 3:5-10 Any version. :)
There’s nothing wrong with a woman being unsure and take time to decide if she likes a man or wants to pursue a man OR not to, but, when a women says no, denies your advances for dates and courtship and then “changes her mind” later it’s usually because she has ulterior motives and to be bluntly honest, she probably thought she could do “better than you” and realizes she can’t, so you’re her back up plan. This is the type of woman who likes to “help God get what she wants”. Keep pursuing God, men💪🏽
I have learned over the years, that most of the girls and women I've known ended up leaving the church and back in the day, they seemed fairly solid. I was endlessly asking "why" and only years later discovered why. I sometimes get rudely told no or "blocked" for just asking if she's interested or suggestions to meet up. Some of them end up growing old alone by choice. I definitely agree that it should be mutual and sometimes it takes a while to warm up to the idea. Also had the "laughing no" turned into a "I wish you would" but waaaay too late unfortunately. You should get a yes, or no, I'm too busy, and she is definitely not dating anyone else. If she tells you no, to then go date someone else, take it as 100% no way Jose and just be buddies only later but you ask out other women instead not be her backup plan.
Biggest mistake I ever made was not listening to God Almighty, she was a absolute nightmare. Only one that didn’t see it was me , but finally he got through to me 🙏🏼 Worst experience of my life, the wisdom I gained was immense though 😉 Hosea 4:6
A painful lesson indeed, but once learned never forgotten! God's peace & love bring joy to you, where there is pain may the Lord bring healing. In Jesus name amen!
Let me guess: you fell in temptation with her, and that boosted your feelings for her, making you kinda blind to who she really is. Why I say this? Because that happened to me.
5:00 Mark, I am unsure if there is much on the topic of wives loving their husbands in the Bible; would you believe that respect, obeying, faithfulness, gentle, quiet, submissive, “keeping the bedroom hot”, helping, pleasing, and doing him good equate to love?
Can I have some Christian advice I know I’ve probably posted this a while ago on this channel but me and a girl like each other but she lives 2 and half hours away and I think she has a boyfriend but she still has interest in me she is a good Christian girl but I’m kinda of getting tired of this idk what to do I’m praying and praying about it still no answer from God
Pray ask God if your heart aint at peace it means God said cut off but read this before you jump to the other side dont let your imagination and feelings cloud God message and your judgement.
Someone please give me some advice. She and I knew of each other for months but never really talked until a bit over 3 weeks ago and it just clicked, everything is just perfect and we pray together, we fast together and everything is going great. We are COURTING but we both understand that marriage is for the rest of our lives and we both want to marry each other but we don't want to rush it. We are fasting this week waiting for God to speak to us if we should date or if it's just our emotions. Can someone please give me some advice?
God will give you promise to you in Bible. The same verses God will reveal to you in message/sermon or prohecy in church. God will surely confirm that girl for you. You just submit to God, pray asking God to give a verse and same should be revealed in message in church . Hope God will reveal to you. Our God speaks. Praise the Lord.
@@AB-xd9jz That seems a bit risky. There's no guarantee that it would be relevant to the situation, and God never tells people that He will give them that kind of sign. You could take the wrong message or a message that's not even applicable, or you might feel that because you failed to receive that message it means YOU need to do something different (when, in reality, it may be that God just isn't speaking this way right now).
I am quite certain Mark has some video, I don’t know which one, and within that video it was said to date to find out. I remember there was a part in it where he says something to the extent of, “that you have to go through the door that’s open to see what’s on the other side.” I believe you will find the answer and I trust things will go well for you two, God has a plan and trust.
I think it's good to trust God. If she checks off things in the Bible that show a godly woman and you believe her heart is sincere as yours as well, ask God when, or if this is the relationship He wants. Make sure to put God 1st . Even when you fail doing so, go back to God's word and study it, place God first even when it doesnt feel like you want. He'll give you the answer, be patient and wait for God.
God said you will reap what you sow with your satanic witchcraft number spells 😢 suffer well... Touch not my anointed and do them no harm you touched me with your tongue😢
All this sounds like sound advice for a man (Christian or not) guessing from his circumstantial evidence what a woman's feelings are. But......What if she is really into the guy, and the guy into her, but he's already betrothed to someone else - pre-arranged perhaps? What if he and she are both into each other, but he believes God told him to wait for someone else? What if the circumstances say it's dead, but he's believing for a miracle? Should we say, "okay mate - but think months not years" - God would never make someone wait years before the fulfilment of a promise, right? You cannot judge the voice of God by looking at your circumstances! Look to the Word, and listen to the inner witness of the Holy Spirit, and have FAITH in God. Blessings x
Very wrong. God wouldn't tell you to marry someone you don't want to marry because marriage is only for those who want it according to 1 Corinthians 7. In that case God says to remain single if you don't want to marry the betrothed, again in 1 Corinthians 7 it states this. Vs 36 states you should only marry if you really want to. If she's betrothed to someone else she's not the one. God is sovereign. He won't say something that doesn't happen
@@agwformen I don't think I mentioned a case of God telling a person to marry someone they didn't want to.... Perhaps you misunderstood my comment. Perhaps I could have been clearer. Not trying to be argumentative. The point I was trying to make is that attraction, even mutual, is not the measure of Gods will. Circumstances are not the measure of His will. Circumstances can be in stark contrast to the promise of God, but the promise and/or Word of God is independent of circumstantial evidence, as what is unseen in eternal and Faith is not necessary if you can already see it. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God. I guess I object to the title of your video - as the subject of you video seems to be more "how to know if you have a shot with her" rather than how to hear the voice of God. Respectfully x
Six years ago, I walked away from God and I started hanging out with my best friend of 12 years I told her that I wanted to find somebody and told her I liked one of her friends and she told me why don’t you be friends with her so I told her friend how I felt about her she told me to slow down let’s be friends first and my best friend of 12 years got married, and her friend at the after wedding party asked me out on a date and then a month later she asks if I want to be in a relationship with her I said yes and now where been dating for three months and the end of this year we’re gonna be moving in together this relationship has helped me go back to church helped me get closer to God and she was the first to tell me that she loves me. I also told her I love her. I believe this was God helping me get back to him. Through this relationship. With me and her.
"God Is Telling You to Let Her Go If" Do you mean someone who is your girlfriend or someone with whom you just interact regularly but she's not your girlfriend ( But you were interested in her )?
“I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all; but whatever I have placed in God's hands, that I still possess.”
― Martin Luther
This happened to me earlier this year. I showed an interest, she politely refused, and she obviously is guarded, and doesn't reply to texts anymore. So I have moved on, she's in the rear view mirror.
Letting go can be very hard sometimes, but when it's the right thing to do, you''ll have God's peace to see you through this hard season. It's counterintuitive to let go, to stop grasping onto something or someone you want with all your heart & soul. But in my life the more I let go of my will & asked rather for God's will to be done, I've never regretted giving God his rightful place in my life. You'll never know what God's peace is all about, till you trust him with 100% of your life not just 60%-80%!! Proverbs 3:5-10 Any version. :)
There’s nothing wrong with a woman being unsure and take time to decide if she likes a man or wants to pursue a man OR not to, but, when a women says no, denies your advances for dates and courtship and then “changes her mind” later it’s usually because she has ulterior motives and to be bluntly honest, she probably thought she could do “better than you” and realizes she can’t, so you’re her back up plan. This is the type of woman who likes to “help God get what she wants”. Keep pursuing God, men💪🏽
Mark once again through the holy spirit you've given me some Golden nuggets appreciate your wisdom
I have learned over the years, that most of the girls and women I've known ended up leaving the church and back in the day, they seemed fairly solid.
I was endlessly asking "why" and only years later discovered why.
I sometimes get rudely told no or "blocked" for just asking if she's interested or suggestions to meet up. Some of them end up growing old alone by choice.
I definitely agree that it should be mutual and sometimes it takes a while to warm up to the idea.
Also had the "laughing no" turned into a "I wish you would" but waaaay too late unfortunately.
You should get a yes, or no, I'm too busy, and she is definitely not dating anyone else. If she tells you no, to then go date someone else, take it as 100% no way Jose and just be buddies only later but you ask out other women instead not be her backup plan.
Biggest mistake I ever made was not listening to God Almighty, she was a absolute nightmare.
Only one that didn’t see it was me , but finally he got through to me 🙏🏼
Worst experience of my life, the wisdom I gained was immense though 😉
Hosea 4:6
A painful lesson indeed, but once learned never forgotten! God's peace & love bring joy to you, where there is pain may the Lord bring healing. In Jesus name amen!
Let me guess: you fell in temptation with her, and that boosted your feelings for her, making you kinda blind to who she really is. Why I say this? Because that happened to me.
More confirmation to keep letting go and move forward. Thanks, Mark.
It might be to late for me but thanks man ima try to i pray i can overcome cowardice and fear and that i let her go
It amazes me how timely these videos are. God bless you Sir
5:00
Mark,
I am unsure if there is much on the topic of wives loving their husbands in the Bible; would you believe that respect, obeying, faithfulness, gentle, quiet, submissive, “keeping the bedroom hot”, helping, pleasing, and doing him good equate to love?
Excellent video. God bless.
Good stuff. Thanks Mark.
Can I have some Christian advice I know I’ve probably posted this a while ago on this channel but me and a girl like each other but she lives 2 and half hours away and I think she has a boyfriend but she still has interest in me she is a good Christian girl but I’m kinda of getting tired of this idk what to do I’m praying and praying about it still no answer from God
Pray ask God if your heart aint at peace it means God said cut off but read this before you jump to the other side dont let your imagination and feelings cloud God message and your judgement.
Sounds like it's not serious and you should move on. Just my opinion
Walk away
She playing the field
Someone please give me some advice. She and I knew of each other for months but never really talked until a bit over 3 weeks ago and it just clicked, everything is just perfect and we pray together, we fast together and everything is going great. We are COURTING but we both understand that marriage is for the rest of our lives and we both want to marry each other but we don't want to rush it. We are fasting this week waiting for God to speak to us if we should date or if it's just our emotions. Can someone please give me some advice?
God will give you promise to you in Bible. The same verses God will reveal to you in message/sermon or prohecy in church. God will surely confirm that girl for you. You just submit to God, pray asking God to give a verse and same should be revealed in message in church . Hope God will reveal to you. Our God speaks. Praise the Lord.
@@AB-xd9jz That seems a bit risky. There's no guarantee that it would be relevant to the situation, and God never tells people that He will give them that kind of sign. You could take the wrong message or a message that's not even applicable, or you might feel that because you failed to receive that message it means YOU need to do something different (when, in reality, it may be that God just isn't speaking this way right now).
I am quite certain Mark has some video, I don’t know which one, and within that video it was said to date to find out. I remember there was a part in it where he says something to the extent of, “that you have to go through the door that’s open to see what’s on the other side.” I believe you will find the answer and I trust things will go well for you two, God has a plan and trust.
I think it's good to trust God. If she checks off things in the Bible that show a godly woman and you believe her heart is sincere as yours as well, ask God when, or if this is the relationship He wants. Make sure to put God 1st . Even when you fail doing so, go back to God's word and study it, place God first even when it doesnt feel like you want.
He'll give you the answer, be patient and wait for God.
God said you will reap what you sow with your satanic witchcraft number spells 😢 suffer well... Touch not my anointed and do them no harm you touched me with your tongue😢
All this sounds like sound advice for a man (Christian or not) guessing from his circumstantial evidence what a woman's feelings are. But......What if she is really into the guy, and the guy into her, but he's already betrothed to someone else - pre-arranged perhaps? What if he and she are both into each other, but he believes God told him to wait for someone else? What if the circumstances say it's dead, but he's believing for a miracle? Should we say, "okay mate - but think months not years" - God would never make someone wait years before the fulfilment of a promise, right?
You cannot judge the voice of God by looking at your circumstances!
Look to the Word, and listen to the inner witness of the Holy Spirit, and have FAITH in God.
Blessings x
Very wrong. God wouldn't tell you to marry someone you don't want to marry because marriage is only for those who want it according to 1 Corinthians 7. In that case God says to remain single if you don't want to marry the betrothed, again in 1 Corinthians 7 it states this. Vs 36 states you should only marry if you really want to. If she's betrothed to someone else she's not the one. God is sovereign. He won't say something that doesn't happen
@@agwformen I don't think I mentioned a case of God telling a person to marry someone they didn't want to.... Perhaps you misunderstood my comment. Perhaps I could have been clearer. Not trying to be argumentative.
The point I was trying to make is that attraction, even mutual, is not the measure of Gods will. Circumstances are not the measure of His will. Circumstances can be in stark contrast to the promise of God, but the promise and/or Word of God is independent of circumstantial evidence, as what is unseen in eternal and Faith is not necessary if you can already see it. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God. I guess I object to the title of your video - as the subject of you video seems to be more "how to know if you have a shot with her" rather than how to hear the voice of God. Respectfully x
Six years ago, I walked away from God and I started hanging out with my best friend of 12 years I told her that I wanted to find somebody and told her I liked one of her friends and she told me why don’t you be friends with her so I told her friend how I felt about her she told me to slow down let’s be friends first and my best friend of 12 years got married, and her friend at the after wedding party asked me out on a date and then a month later she asks if I want to be in a relationship with her I said yes and now where been dating for three months and the end of this year we’re gonna be moving in together this relationship has helped me go back to church helped me get closer to God and she was the first to tell me that she loves me. I also told her I love her. I believe this was God helping me get back to him. Through this relationship. With me and her.
"God Is Telling You to Let Her Go If"
Do you mean someone who is your girlfriend or someone with whom you just interact regularly but she's not your girlfriend ( But you were interested in her )?
Either way
Does this apply to marriage as well?
No