With women, sometimes you're (literally) in,sometimes you're out. Either way you have to let them come and go as they please and DO NOT CHASE AND BLOW UP THEIR PHONES!
Make no mistake about it guys in general underestimate how well pool or bowling can work in the early stages of dating, me and my now girlfriend of 7 months done it on around our 3rd date and had such a laugh, really allows you both to just chill, sets a good fun vibe for you both to have a good time and not take things too seriously as Corey puts it On a side note I think that night I won 5 games of pool and another 3/4 of bowls to her one game of pool. She never let me forget that one game she won the rest of the night 😂 Sometimes for fun we go back to bowling the odd time and have as much laughs as we did when we first started dating 🤣
I agree, I was at a resturant for a first date and it was ok, the chick suggested bowling, we went to the arcade and did bowling and it was really fun and totally turned the dynamic of our date. we're in our early 30s and i thought arcade would be silly as its full of 14-18 year olds but it was actually a very good location for a first date as you mentioned.
I'll say some women who's not totally in to u ,won't have fun doesn't matter what u do :) happened w me even in bowling , u need to find a chick who likes u let her speak bout herself pound her good n that's it tbh if any of these process she have a problem ,she's not in to u
I have been following the book and it is working quite well. I always make sure to come up with new fun things todo, if we make dinner at my place I always find a meal that we can do together. She really likes hanging out with me and enjoys the bedroom Olympics too. She has said several times that I am such a gentleman and she has not met many men like me.
6:00 That’s a read flag for me. I always indirectly ask what’s your father like? Is he a cool dude? Usually women will dump knowledge onto me about their relationship with their dad.
I’d say it’s more about knowing how you deserve to be treated. When a girl doesn’t treat you like you know you deserve, she’s missed her chance. Keep circulating until you find one that does
Hey man step one is flirting and asking for phone numbers. Get comfortable talking to women. Even if they aren't your type just flirt for practice. Trust me it makes a difference! You'll get there bud.
No money needed. I use 3 different hiking trails and end at a nice overlook. Works like a charm. PS Want food? Picnics are considered romantic, by quality women. If a woman wants you to spend money on her move on fast.
i hate the games they play. they ghost me for like days so i ghost back then they message back days to a week later talking bout “where you been” smh tired of these games
I did this , to send them back home on an uber at end of 1st date , and they almost all ghosted me afterwards. I gave them the money for the uber which was probably worse than what this guy did.
Corey is right. I did Dave and busters with a hot philipino women. Had a couple drinks, she paid for her own stuff. Went upstairs and they had live music outside, saw the signs and kissed her and then went downstairs played some games. She calls her 16yo daughter again who was supposedly all the sudden went to her friends for a sleepover lol. Then invited me back to her place and stayed the night and gave her the rocket 3 times lol
Poor guy lol. Of course us men could just eat and bang all day! You gotta keep the excitement and the mystery so the girl feels like she's in a love story. It ends up being fun for both of you when you plan thoughtful, spontaneous adventures for the two of you!
I agree. And we know that Men don't care about the Disney fan to see or whatever.But if we get just a little bit of it, Big time consideration just wanting to be with us and have some fun and get to know us is amazing. My husband and I was broke when we met and we had to do free things to keep each other mentally stimulated.Like talk about our family and funny stuff that happened when we were in school. If we made it and had 0 money and opportunity to go all kinds of places being in school wrong.Folks with a bank account and a vehicle can do way better than we did.
He’s making bad moves but as a guy I’m like lmfaooo I fuck with this guy pretty heavy. She said she was going on the walk of shame, and days later he hit her up to come to his place and hookup 😂😂 legend. Not how you keep a woman, but definitely some g shit
A good friend of mine does hes "dates", he is putting her on a podest (what do you want, where should we go). Thats more a normal meeting of two people, a co-worker, isn't it ? Because recently he told me, he had 7 "dates" with a girl. Must be his imagination to establish a relationship, for the other person its a friendship phase or similar.
What a stupid guy. I am about to do exact the same thing right now. I need to read the book a hundred times. Had a first easy date and it ended in the bedroom, I did a good job there. But I can do better. She's a 9/10 to me an 11. She likes me a lot, she earns so much more. 3 days pased by, I will take her out! Thanks to the writer and Corey. Just lucky in time that video.
Sex wasnt that good thats the main reason. If it was good, it would of been able to distract her from his bad game. Good sex overcompensate for almost anything
Side note and I hate to sound negative but I think there is some truth to the whole "she's not yours, it's just your turn." A woman I was dating for 9 months who would always initiate the bedroom Olympics, tell me she adored me, and would write me paragraph long texts every day in the morning, just broke up with me. Until just days before, her interest level was undoubtedly a 10/10. Maybe the long distance thing contributed to it. We met when we were both living in Texas but then I moved out of state and we would only see each other every couple months and then just have long phone calls nightly when we weren't together
Long distance relationships never work out. Its just your turn dont apply here. She can adore all you want but if your not physically with her it effects everything
hey coach you never talked about women who plays mind games and hard to get, there's even books that teaches women how to obsess a man, like: becoming a femme fatale, or dark femme union guide
@@Cee_Eff yes, in my case this girl is in love with me I guess but she was playing these games then I figured out that she read these two books I also read these books by curiosity and found out that she applied all the things in it strictly on me
@@Cee_Eff yes me too, I told her good bye and told her that I know she was playing games, but after 3 months of no contact she applied another thing from the book: call him and hang up in the middle of the night and when he message you don't reply, I texted her if she was ok but she didn't respond, the good news is that I know all her moves and that she's obsessed so I can wait with patience long time
@@atteindresiempredad damn man what a story, poor you but u handled it good. These Books are dangoures for us man, they bring nothing as chaos to us and woman forfill there egoistic wishes while the tipps we get bring the both of us something like a long lasting relationship and not some mental fuck ups
Doesn't have to be alcoholic, you can always go out for coffee/tea or appetizers at night and still do things like play pool, etc. Gotta be creative... hell, you can even go out for icecream or get milkshakes instead of alcohol.
No i'm not playing hard to get, you're talking about the real word. One on one, but i don't think the chicks in this realm, do one on one. They have so many pages, no time for one on one 🤣lol 😝 😂
Does the advice you give men work if you are a woman. I am a woman and love your podcasts. I always try to turn your advise around to work for me and it is a little confusing. Any suggestions to make you advise applicable for women?
I think men and women are different and you can't apply the same advice to the other side You would need to see yourself in the position of the women in Corey's book Some advice I can give you is that when a woman is interest in/attracted to a guy she is usually very receptive. So you have to make yourself available to him, and ENCOURAGE him to make a move. You do this by responding favorably when he gives you attention, and ideally reciprocate his efforts with efforts of your own. While you may not directly ask him out, you can always be indirect by indicating that you would like to spend time with him, e.g. if he says he likes to play pool, you can say "I'd love to learn how to play pool". Women are not meant to be passive as in doing nothing, but passive as in receptive, like a flower. That's where making yourself available and encouraging him by responding favourably comes in. Don't play hard to get - play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Hard to get is supposed to mean having high standards and being selective, not being difficult to talk to and being a cold fish (i.e. boring to be around) Hope that has been helpful
Real question…if you don’t have a car should you even be dating? I lost my driving privelages awhile back and Idk I be too lazy to be Uber with the girls all over the place or it feels kinda lame that I’m not picking them up😢 honest opinions plz kings I need help
Be your true authentic self. There is a woman out there who will love you for you, actually there are countless women who will love you for you. The only thing I would suggest is working on yourself first. Have you taken care of the version of yourself that lost driving privileges? If you are a better person now, then go out there, live your best life, and give your gift. If not, fix yourself and become the best version of yourself that will attract the women you want. Easier said then done of course. I’m growing most through dating because the ups and downs are making me more resilient. It is what I need now. Figure out what your need. Best wishes!
I don’t mean to be a contrarian coach but sometimes you treat a girl well and she throws it back in your face. You spoon her after segs so she doesn’t feel like a whore and you do other nice things but she basically communicates to you that she wants to be treated like a slut. So frustrating at times.
Then this woman has some mental problems. If you are no longer with her it is for the better. No good respectable woman would reject a nice considerate guy making her feel special and thinking about her reputation or psyche. Sounds like this.Chick has A fetish or some type of degenerate, fantasy that is unnatural.And it's trying to get you to play a role that you're not comfortable with. Some Women watch pornographic material 2.And it gets inside their head which is a bad thing. Leveling undesirable expectations on a love interest.Or a marriage mate.Is not a good thing don't feel bad.
With women, sometimes you're (literally) in,sometimes you're out.
Either way you have to let them come and go as they please and DO NOT CHASE AND BLOW UP THEIR PHONES!
Make no mistake about it guys in general underestimate how well pool or bowling can work in the early stages of dating, me and my now girlfriend of 7 months done it on around our 3rd date and had such a laugh, really allows you both to just chill, sets a good fun vibe for you both to have a good time and not take things too seriously as Corey puts it
On a side note I think that night I won 5 games of pool and another 3/4 of bowls to her one game of pool. She never let me forget that one game she won the rest of the night 😂
Sometimes for fun we go back to bowling the odd time and have as much laughs as we did when we first started dating 🤣
Good man!
Those are literally the best first date activities, even if no sequel comes out of it at least you both have a great time
I agree, I was at a resturant for a first date and it was ok, the chick suggested bowling, we went to the arcade and did bowling and it was really fun and totally turned the dynamic of our date. we're in our early 30s and i thought arcade would be silly as its full of 14-18 year olds but it was actually a very good location for a first date as you mentioned.
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I'll say some women who's not totally in to u ,won't have fun doesn't matter what u do :) happened w me even in bowling , u need to find a chick who likes u let her speak bout herself pound her good n that's it tbh if any of these process she have a problem ,she's not in to u
Corey.......you are the GOAT of dating coaches!
He’s definitely the best.
Without sounding like I'm gluggin him (pause) I agree. Wish Corey got more recognition
I have been following the book and it is working quite well. I always make sure to come up with new fun things todo, if we make dinner at my place I always find a meal that we can do together. She really likes hanging out with me and enjoys the bedroom Olympics too. She has said several times that I am such a gentleman and she has not met many men like me.
6:00
That’s a read flag for me. I always indirectly ask what’s your father like? Is he a cool dude? Usually women will dump knowledge onto me about their relationship with their dad.
Women are keen to the game though and know we men vet and filter for strong father-daughter relationships
That's also an opportunity to be the mountain and meet her unmet needs. Depends if she harbored enough trauma or broke through it.
Honestly it's an orange flag for me. If she says her dad was abusive then it's a red flag .
he already got layed. what else does he want?
Are there any rules for women or do they just act however they want and we keep watch coach Corey videos 😂. Absurd world.
It is quite bizarre
I’d say it’s more about knowing how you deserve to be treated. When a girl doesn’t treat you like you know you deserve, she’s missed her chance. Keep circulating until you find one that does
Yes there’s a book 📕 they’re using it’s called “The Rules!”
Lol
I mean if you listen closely we operate on different mindset and beliefs they do everything based on feelings and emotions
take her to 3 different places? I can't even take her to 1
I laughed alittle to hard at this😂
Hey man step one is flirting and asking for phone numbers. Get comfortable talking to women. Even if they aren't your type just flirt for practice. Trust me it makes a difference! You'll get there bud.
No money needed. I use 3 different hiking trails and end at a nice overlook. Works like a charm.
PS
Want food? Picnics are considered romantic, by quality women. If a woman wants you to spend money on her move on fast.
i hate the games they play. they ghost me for like days so i ghost back then they message back days to a week later talking bout “where you been” smh tired of these games
Its a paradox. 😀
I did this , to send them back home on an uber at end of 1st date , and they almost all ghosted me afterwards. I gave them the money for the uber which was probably worse than what this guy did.
corey god bless you and thanks for what you do
Corey is right. I did Dave and busters with a hot philipino women. Had a couple drinks, she paid for her own stuff. Went upstairs and they had live music outside, saw the signs and kissed her and then went downstairs played some games. She calls her 16yo daughter again who was supposedly all the sudden went to her friends for a sleepover lol. Then invited me back to her place and stayed the night and gave her the rocket 3 times lol
if you read the book 16 times,,, you wouldve given her the rocket at least 9 times...
Love the Chris Rock reference. He is a genius!
My goal is to read this book twice this month.
Rock on
Poor guy lol. Of course us men could just eat and bang all day! You gotta keep the excitement and the mystery so the girl feels like she's in a love story. It ends up being fun for both of you when you plan thoughtful, spontaneous adventures for the two of you!
I agree. And we know that Men don't care about the Disney fan to see or whatever.But if we get just a little bit of it, Big time consideration just wanting to be with us and have some fun and get to know us is amazing. My husband and I was broke when we met and we had to do free things to keep each other mentally stimulated.Like talk about our family and funny stuff that happened when we were in school. If we made it and had 0 money and opportunity to go all kinds of places being in school wrong.Folks with a bank account and a vehicle can do way better than we did.
Hmm... Very interesting 🤔, I've never witnessed Coach Corey Wayne be so disappointed.
Always court her if you like her. 👌🏾
Very good info
He’s making bad moves but as a guy I’m like lmfaooo I fuck with this guy pretty heavy. She said she was going on the walk of shame, and days later he hit her up to come to his place and hookup 😂😂 legend.
Not how you keep a woman, but definitely some g shit
Is it just me or every guy that's sends an email is Bob?
All of them lol but I think it's for privacy
A good friend of mine does hes "dates", he is putting her on a podest (what do you want, where should we go). Thats more a normal meeting of two people, a co-worker, isn't it ?
Because recently he told me, he had 7 "dates" with a girl. Must be his imagination to establish a relationship, for the other person its a friendship phase or similar.
What a stupid guy. I am about to do exact the same thing right now. I need to read the book a hundred times.
Had a first easy date and it ended in the bedroom, I did a good job there. But I can do better.
She's a 9/10 to me an 11. She likes me a lot, she earns so much more.
3 days pased by, I will take her out!
Thanks to the writer and Corey. Just lucky in time that video.
Sex wasnt that good thats the main reason. If it was good, it would of been able to distract her from his bad game. Good sex overcompensate for almost anything
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I love the saxophone
Some women r pretty lame in bad n in my experiences the more hot the girl is the more boring she gets
From her chasing him...ended up him chasing her...
Missed opportunity smh 🤦🏻♂️
still amazes how many BOB's there are in the USA rsrs
This guy in the email has no tact, lol
Only in America
Side note and I hate to sound negative but I think there is some truth to the whole "she's not yours, it's just your turn." A woman I was dating for 9 months who would always initiate the bedroom Olympics, tell me she adored me, and would write me paragraph long texts every day in the morning, just broke up with me. Until just days before, her interest level was undoubtedly a 10/10. Maybe the long distance thing contributed to it. We met when we were both living in Texas but then I moved out of state and we would only see each other every couple months and then just have long phone calls nightly when we weren't together
Sounds like a fruitloop
Long distance relationships never work out. Its just your turn dont apply here. She can adore all you want but if your not physically with her it effects everything
It all worked out until she met Chad thunder cock on girls night out
@@amdstrollo3074 🤣🤣
NEXT PLEASE!
hey coach you never talked about women who plays mind games and hard to get, there's even books that teaches women how to obsess a man, like: becoming a femme fatale, or dark femme union guide
@@Cee_Eff yes, in my case this girl is in love with me I guess but she was playing these games then I figured out that she read these two books I also read these books by curiosity and found out that she applied all the things in it strictly on me
@@Cee_Eff yes me too, I told her good bye and told her that I know she was playing games, but after 3 months of no contact she applied another thing from the book: call him and hang up in the middle of the night and when he message you don't reply, I texted her if she was ok but she didn't respond, the good news is that I know all her moves and that she's obsessed so I can wait with patience long time
@@blair5475 yes it's a complicated story, she is very insecure, she expected me to contact her first etc
@@atteindresiempredad damn man what a story, poor you but u handled it good. These Books are dangoures for us man, they bring nothing as chaos to us and woman forfill there egoistic wishes while the tipps we get bring the both of us something like a long lasting relationship and not some mental fuck ups
what i hate is when a girl agrees to hang out at my place then says no to sex. if they so smart why do they do this and not expect the obvious?
They do want sex. They just don’t want to look easy. That’s where you use banter.
@ i ain’t got time for that smh
Hey so what if I don't drink?
Doesn't have to be alcoholic, you can always go out for coffee/tea or appetizers at night and still do things like play pool, etc. Gotta be creative... hell, you can even go out for icecream or get milkshakes instead of alcohol.
No i'm not playing hard to get, you're talking about the real word. One on one, but i don't think the chicks in this realm, do one on one. They have so many pages, no time for one on one 🤣lol 😝 😂
Best Part is 10:45 lmao!
Does the advice you give men work if you are a woman. I am a woman and love your podcasts. I always try to turn your advise around to work for me and it is a little confusing. Any suggestions to make you advise applicable for women?
I think men and women are different and you can't apply the same advice to the other side
You would need to see yourself in the position of the women in Corey's book
Some advice I can give you is that when a woman is interest in/attracted to a guy she is usually very receptive. So you have to make yourself available to him, and ENCOURAGE him to make a move. You do this by responding favorably when he gives you attention, and ideally reciprocate his efforts with efforts of your own.
While you may not directly ask him out, you can always be indirect by indicating that you would like to spend time with him, e.g. if he says he likes to play pool, you can say "I'd love to learn how to play pool". Women are not meant to be passive as in doing nothing, but passive as in receptive, like a flower. That's where making yourself available and encouraging him by responding favourably comes in.
Don't play hard to get - play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Hard to get is supposed to mean having high standards and being selective, not being difficult to talk to and being a cold fish (i.e. boring to be around)
Hope that has been helpful
LOL...chase? Never going to happen sweetheart. 🤣🤣🤣
Well, you look a lil old, no one gonna chase you at this point only simps…
@@JorgeHernandez-ti1bk 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 only for children like yourself Lil boy 😉
Ull b suprised
@@torhbakalit908 no. I have never "chased" a man in my life and never intend to start. Not my job 😉
Exactly. The only women chasing men are desperate pick mes. But these men sure drink this koolaid up. Lmao.
First!
Such a dope.
Corey’s the dad is young guys never had
Real question…if you don’t have a car should you even be dating? I lost my driving privelages awhile back and Idk I be too lazy to be Uber with the girls all over the place or it feels kinda lame that I’m not picking them up😢 honest opinions plz kings I need help
Be your true authentic self. There is a woman out there who will love you for you, actually there are countless women who will love you for you. The only thing I would suggest is working on yourself first. Have you taken care of the version of yourself that lost driving privileges? If you are a better person now, then go out there, live your best life, and give your gift. If not, fix yourself and become the best version of yourself that will attract the women you want. Easier said then done of course. I’m growing most through dating because the ups and downs are making me more resilient. It is what I need now. Figure out what your need. Best wishes!
I am first
I don’t mean to be a contrarian coach but sometimes you treat a girl well and she throws it back in your face. You spoon her after segs so she doesn’t feel like a whore and you do other nice things but she basically communicates to you that she wants to be treated like a slut. So frustrating at times.
Then this woman has some mental problems. If you are no longer with her it is for the better. No good respectable woman would reject a nice considerate guy making her feel special and thinking about her reputation or psyche. Sounds like this.Chick has A fetish or some type of degenerate, fantasy that is unnatural.And it's trying to get you to play a role that you're not comfortable with. Some Women watch pornographic material 2.And it gets inside their head which is a bad thing. Leveling undesirable expectations on a love interest.Or a marriage mate.Is not a good thing don't feel bad.