Story Time: I was FIRED from my NEW Nursing Job!
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When a job becomes frequently vacant, this is a red flag. People don't leave good jobs where they are valued.
Wow! So profound! Thank you for this!
Reminds me of an old job I had.
Going Through 1/3 of this video I said ouch! And get the heck out!!! You told your family you dont know get real. No regululatory Comm. No policy and procedure. No this or that means No license for you! If you have an emergency they are going (the 2 doctors), to cover their butts with you. And dont use them on your resume. They are a guaranteed catastrophe and you dont want your name attached to that. I worked in something similar but i kept my standards with no help from them but it is taxing and when they go down they will try to take you with them. Be smart! You dont know what the future holds but you know who holds the future! Amen.
Or those with humility who don't need to feel valued by narcissistic management......dangerous for patients/staffing ratio. It's not about me/us. It's about safely taking care of people.
True
Girl you didn't get fired, you got delivered in Jesus name!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️💯👍
Amen on that 😊
Yes
I went to school with Jesus..Jesus Gomez the dumbest human to this very moment I've ever met...Believe me Jesus can't deliver you.
Amen!
Same
Honestly as a licensed nurse it is your duty to report this facility for the safety of the patients. This is scary to think this is going on, but there is no need to dwell on it, but rather attempt to find a solution for the patients. You could potentially save a life. God removed you from a shady situation and spared your license from a possible malpractice lawsuit in the future.
Instead of youtube
@@lrcooksey She can talk about it on youtube if she wants.
The god deity didn't do anything. It exists only within your imagination ✨️. 😶
If you don't believe, then don't but don't tell others how to believe.
@@BWayofLife
I tell others the truth. They are free to pretend all they want. 😶
Been in HR for 27 years and this company is a lawsuit waiting to happen. Apply for unemployment and keep it pushing.
HR in Cambridge, UK are dishonest.
🙏🕊️✝️☮️🫂
The lesson here is never gossip with coworkers or ex coworkers. You got played by the previous infusion nurse. It would have been better to leave on your own terms.
Absolutely. Those people are all in bed together. The axiom says: "A dog bring a bone, a dog take a bone". Skip the gossip and leave the same way you came in quietly, unattached. No offense, you should have followed your first thought and left silently.
She didn't gossip, she investigated, and she had the right too.
I can think of a couple of ways she could have gone about the whole thing without calling the previous nurse.
That is exactly what I was thinking. The former nurse may have used you to get her job back with higher pay. Damn, people are shady as hell.
It was a setup the whole time!!
I got fired once but it was a blessing. What a toxic environment. It was depressing, people were unhappy, complaining all the time, constantly backstabbing. I felt bad for the few sane, kind people that I left there. I had so many knives in my back I could barely sit for my termination meeting.
Me 2 when I did God bless me triple time more in I'm able sit on 4 a while look at God
Me too!! The boss yelled at me in front of people on my 3rd day of orientation. made my life hell for the short period I worked there. But I kept trying but for some reason the more I tried the more she just wanted to put me down. Everyone is numb there and so I got a call by her on my last orientation day. I just quit and turns out I quit before they planned to have a termination meeting with me.. lol ridiculous. But fast forward I got a job at Kaiser with much better pay and better everything else.
I quit a job and they made it seem as though I was fired. OK, It was proven false and I qualified for Unemployment and a tidy settlement. LOL :)
I kno the feeling but yet it was a COMPLETE BLESSING!!!!
@@TheMomseloc😂😂😂😂 Me Too
I’ve been a nurse for 12 years and I can’t even tell you how many times God has given me signs when it was time to leave a job. He will make you feel uncomfortable and give you a hard time so you can leave because he wants you to go somewhere else where you are needed. He also keeps you in certain places for a certain amount of time to meet certain people and learn from it, because where He is taking you, you might need what you learned at your previous place to advance where He is taking you. I’ve been put in this position several times and I know that’s what He was doing. As long as you put it in Gods hands, He will take care of the rest. God bless you, and always remember Gods in control ALWAYS. :)
You couldn't have said it better.
I laughed, but I really wanted to cry, I thought I'd written this, I was looking for my TH-cam name on your post. lol Wow. TMH is so dynamic. Well said
New Subscriber Here. RN for 22 years & I’m counting down the day that I can hang up my Stethoscope. Doctors are very greedy, cheap and poor business managers.
There’s over 100 different jobs you can do as a Nurse that are not bedside. My friend only worked two years in Labor and delivery and loved it. However, she wanted to be her own boss and now she’s making over $5K a week doing Botox. My mom is a Nurse and does I.V. Hydration and loves it. My aunt does Legal Nursing. I’m going to teach CPR.This lady does Zoom classes for new Nursing students and charges $200. I signed up and there was 35 students in her first class. That’s good money over $6k
Tell the Truth on some of these lying high price greedy unconcerned dead beat Doctors.
@@fitnessbabe7958 yes it’s so many opportunities. Bedside can become so draining and not even because of the patients because I love my pts but because of management and lack of organization in the facility. I’m now preparing and trusting in the Lord to bless me with my spa so I can do Botox injections and I’m so excited. ❤ GODbless you all
And am surprised to see a large number of them turn to disrespect nurses who especially have attained DNP or NP statuses.
They also are nasty mean
“If we don’t move fast enough, God moves us” True!!! Lived thru something like this.
So true
Sis, I got fired from my job! I had been there 23years! Now there mad at me! Denied my unemployment! But I know God will make a way!
So sorry to hear that but I would definitely appeal it!!! Don’t let them get away with it!! Good luck hun! 💜
Please appeal that immediately. You have a good chance of winning on appeal.
Girl u r owed an unemployment. I got one n I didn't work long as you
One door closes the next door opens.it’s god telling you h3 had something else in place.doctors can be greedy.I was at medical office for 14 yrs.and fired.p fo4 no reason.Probably wanted to pay someone else for much lower salary.it was the bes5 thin* that ever happened.
Appeal the decision and keep on appealing.
This was the juiciest nursing video I’ve ever watched lol. It really felt like I was listening to one of my homegirls tell a story. That office was a hot mess! I am glad you got out of there.
lol thanks!!! 💜
I had to sit down, from cleaning, so I wouldn’t miss anything😂. Hard to pass on a, right is right and wrong is wrong. Man, I’m glad you got out in time.
@allthingsbrittany frfr
I’m not even a nurse but this story was JUICY!!!!
The doctor's memory wasn't bad; her memory is great, she needs all her employees to stay vague about what's going on in their work place & vague about their relationship with their employer
She has to keep her turnover flowing to keep her taxes and salaries low
The former nurse, that "spilled the beans" did that deliberately with you; to use you as part of her bribery plan
She let the doctor know that you could be a witness against her, in an investigation
The saddest part is: that's how some people, in the "crime world" come up missing or...
Right part of her conditions were to let the other lady go too. Instead of putting her husband and daughter down, why not just get a real office manager, she clearly needs one.
Right, usually when they say “tell me about yourself”, they’re asking who you are professionally instead of personally. Sounds like they didn’t care, just needed a body. 2:43
Phew! Girl you weren’t fired …. That was a release. Praise Him!!
When I got fired, I thought it was the end of the world. I was 57 years old and I had NEVER been fired from a job. It turned out to be a great blessing. I didn't realize how stressed out I was and how toxic the work environment had become. At the time, I was a wreck but now as I look back, they did me a favor. I'm now happy to be working 3 eight hour shifts a week. Is it perfect? Heck no, but I know that I can leave at any time and have another job in a minute. I'm sure you will look back on this and shake your head...."what was I thinking????" I've been there...this sort of thing makes you stronger.
Nesha you dodged a bullet, I once stayed at a shady place for a year and it was absolutely miserable - you're going to be just fine!! x
Yea she did
Yesss she dogged a bullet but handled everything so cool mannered cause let it had of been somebody else “ ghetto “ would have turned that office upside down- PERIODDTT
Why is she discussing this with you. If she is going to let you go. This office is in shambles and not well ran. She should not be a doctor at all if she don't know certain things and is that forgetful. This is red flags everywhere even the patients noticing it. I would have left after the first interview..
No need to hire me. Clearly she don't know what she's doing.
This place should be closed down the black of proper management.
Exactly! These places will never get full time out of me again! Ever!
A big bullet
I grew up in a family in NY that were all union members.. I went to college and became a white collar worker... But recently I am noticing in medical and high tech fields that people are getting walked over . I think it is time to join a union in your occupation for job protection from incompetent management.
I wish Mississippi had a nursing union.
Union leaders are corrupt. And companies with unions never get squat done. Tour southern factories and see the difference.
Union talk in Indiana is grounds for management to threaten termination. They KNOW they wouldn't have a leg to stand on if nurses were backed by a union.
@davidjohn4326 U went college became black collar worker
You handled that like a professional, their loss. God will show you exactly what you need to do. Baby he’s got your back.🙏🏾❤️
You're too smart they were not going to keep you around. More power to you
It’s unfortunate that young lady was so deceitful! She literally spoke with you then shared the conversation with them. I’m sure she didn’t tell them all she said. God always finds away for his ppl ❤️❤️.
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She totally set her up. Dr. offices are worse than working in corporate. I’d totally blow the whistle on them.
Exactly
I thought the very same thing upon hearing this story. Nurse 1 was upset she was being “let go.” After conversations with Nurse 2, she realized she could use what she heard to get what she really wanted and that was her job. How underhanded! The doctor also came to the realization that paying Nurse 1 $10 extra an hour was far better than the trouble Nurse 2 might bring.
Kudos to you. Something was wrong with that office. She actually did you a favor.
God closes doors for reasons, and he has something more in store for you....
Sending some love
First time I’ve ever seen or heard of you.....kinda “fell in love” with your intelligence, professionalism and kind confidence !
Thank you!! 💜
Me, too. I stumbled on this channel and went along for the ride. Then I Subscribed. 👍
I am a Rheumatology patient myself and I can tell you I would NOT want this woman as my doctor. She sounds like a quack and a flake. My doctor is amazing and stays on top of everything. You are blessed to be out of the joke of a doctor's office.
It's so crazy how no matter where you work it's like different toilet same poop. As nurses the world can never understand what we go through just to do our job, stay out of prison, and keep our patients safe. It's also crazy how we don't have each other's back as nurses as well. I feel like the other nurse took advantage of the situation and your kindness. Giving you all the tea just to step back into the job. It just baffles me how wicked people aka the devil's puppets be advancing but the bible clearly states the 1st will be last and the last will be 1st. Let's not change the awesome ppl God created us to be. We do have to continue to be open to God's voice. I've been an LPN 17yrs and will be graduating Dec 22 with my RN and it's just crazy what we put up with. Like you L&D has always been my 1st love in nsg and why I went from Surgical Tech to nurse. Keep being the awesome person you are and let GOD deal with the rest
First off, CONGRATS!!! I started off as a LPN as well!!! Next, I definitely believe in karma! But I know my God has something bigger & better for me so he removed me from that situation so I could focus (just gotta figure out what he want me to see! 😂)
@@livinglavishlywnesha8927
Wait on GOD HE will show you!!!! I didn't read your Post, but when, you Mentioned GOD that's all I needed to hear I work in the Heath Care field also and I k ow GOD WILL SHOW UP RIGHT ON TIME 🙌🙌🙌🙌!!!!
We used to say. The only thing that changed, was the "Geography." Same foolishness different location. 😖
I've been an RN 45 years...taught nursing for a while..and I can tell you some nightmare stories..especially from my timelines beginning in the 70's. It is appalling..infuriating and character- testing just trying to fulfill your duties with integrity. I had to answer my Supervisor about why I didn't "support" a male co-worker who sexually assaulted a young PREGNANT patient..and I responded.."I assumed I was here to be an advocate for my PATIENTS..not a "professional" man who was dead wrong..what he did was criminal. Went through some persecution but really didn't care. I've been blamed for dangerous incidents of negligence and incoherence that occured
ed when I was at home in my bed..lost my shift..and waa suspended without pay for 3 days..being sacrificed because of ",porch n*****s who sat in the office and smoked and told all their business were that low down..and so very much more.
My counsel to this present generation of nurses is this..if you're in it because you love the profession and you love truly helping God's people and giving them hope..hang in there prayerfully.. because that part will keep you grounded and motivated..but if it's for the cash only..move out of the way and let those dedicated do their jobs.
Nursing is SCANDOLOUS and treacherous ..they even will try to persuade you to falsify records and sign things felonious. I've never seen soooo many incompetent..ill-trained..medically illiterate "nurses" who don't even seem to "like" their jobs..God help the sick and infirm..everything is cost effective for the cash elephants...
Yes sis, the JEZEBEL Spirit has taken over the workplace. Spiritual Warfare was on me hard, but now I'm covered by the blood of Jesus.
Girl. These companies are a trip. In 2011 I quit my job without securing a new one. I remember a lady telling me I was crazy because I didn't have a plan. I told her I didn't need a plan because I had a promise from God that he would meet all my needs. I started my on consulting business and secured a position working for a grant project aimed at reducing African American Infant Mortality; I made more money in those 3 years than I ever have in my career. Unfortunately I could not secure another big money project, so I entered the traditional workforce again. I say all that to say this, sometimes in our season of "no's", it's a "yes" from God. Matta-of-fact, I'm bout 10 minutes from chucking up the dueces to these jokas I work for now. In my Nesha voice, Babyyyyyy this is your YES season! You got his Bob! Much love to ya sis ❤️.
Definitely our seasons of YES, and SUDDENLY! To GOD be the glory!
Girl that was a blessing!! Your license could’ve been on the line down the road!
I was going to say the same thing.
Yup that too 😞
She let you go because you are asking the right questions. You did the right thing! They need you more than you need them.
Yes, but that is secondary to love and care for the patient. Conscience is more important than license.
And that's a joke too! All it takes is a disgruntled boss to flag your license and then you gotta go through hell to get it back, or get off probation. I quit my last job after my boss started stalking me so she couldn't do that to me.
I experienced the same thing with a Kelsey-Seybold manager. Petty, messy and evil is the best way to describe her. The interview questions were a bit "off". I was asked how I'd respond to gossip in the workplace, at the same time being told unflattering things about the current staff. This concerned me, but I accepted the position anyway. After 6 months of DRAMA, I quit. I, too, learned to listen to my intuition, and to not ignore the red flags. If God is for us, who can be against us? Stay strong... Stay blessed
Its suspicious when OSHA does not come to a medical company. I work in healthcare and every company I worked for talked about OSHA and HIPPA
Exactly!!!
We got fired on the same dang day! I gave over 2 yrs to the company that did me dirty and you're absolutely right! Everything does happen for a reason. I'm now going back to school for nursing to live my passion and found an amazing weekend job to help out while I'm in school! Give it a month or two and see if YT produces like you hope. If it doesn't then nurse's are always in High demand. I wish you the best of luck and thank you for sharing your story 🙏 it honestly made me feel so much better about my situation
Yeah sis, I would have left on the spot as well. I don't feel you were fired either. I feel like God released you from foolishness you didn't need and HE didn't want you in. Blessings unto you girl. Your craft is in demand and you will get what you want. NEXT!!
Thanks hun!! That’s the beauty of being a nurse, there’s always another job! Lol I still have clients thru my PRN job and hopefully I figure out soon what God is trying to tell me! 😂💜
Yes, my daughter is an RN as well so I get it.
You sound like you were set up by the previous nurse. You were used as leverage for her gain.
You went n there telling these ppl you was gong on vacation… to Mexico
She called you and you was in Mexico
How dear you sister…
Don’t you know ppl can’t handle your Luxury Lifestyle… stop sharing your business… at work… that’s where the hates hangout…
Black folks not supposed to live that life…
@@caligirl6610 That is exactly what I thought. That snake told her all the shenanigans going on there. Then told her old boss that her replacement was not happy, because she wanted her old job back. She, the snake was looking pass all the not so honest things that was going on. The "boss", realized this nurse was too professional, seemed too honest and probably would not put up with all the unprofessional mess that was/is going on.
I am an allied health professor and this would be a great example to have my Medical Law and Ethics students watch and give feedback on! This is great information for healthcare professionals ‼️Thank you.
You’re welcome!!! I’m up now, texting with the doctor because she shorted my last paycheck!!! 🤦🏽♀️
You need to sue her!
Teach them how to defend themselves against regulators
Nesha I know you will find a new job. My job of 33 years a supervisor let me go. I’m going back to school next week. Me taking an online class gave me courage to back to school.
Wow! 33 years! 😲😲😲💞
This is really encouraging to see my job let me go last week and what's crazy is earlier that day I kept saying idk for some reason I feel like I'm not going to be at this job by the end of the week. I spoke this Monday and was off on Tuesday and just so happened to call in to ask a question Tuesday and was let go. Funny because as soon as I heard it I knew God was releasing me for some reason. I could feel the plot from them low key on Monday. The Lord told me to finish my Real Estate classes. He said do what I told you to do and the rest leave up to Me.
Same thing I had an Accounting position there but they told me that they couldn't keep anyone(African-American) in this position. I was there for only 5 weeks and they had me doing Accounts Payable, Receivable, Bookkeeping and Payroll. It was overwhelming and the training was over the phone like they all worked from home in different states and it was just 5 of us in office. Not to mention I'm a Evangelist so the spiritual warfare wasn't no punk. I was the only believer there so I looked at it as an opportunity to slay🙅🏾♀️🙌 but God pulled me out so I was cool
@@hislight5114 Wishing you the best. I have to take a refresher course after I finish Nursing school.
Well had band 7 nurse left and then band 6 nurse left and I know i was not safe as a band 5 returning nurse I like the patients and the enviornment but was not fitting in with a few other staff. The other manager called and inform me that she has to many staff that she need to cancel all my shifts.
When i work earlier that week God was telling me its time to mive on and cancel my shift as that day all the signs was there but refused to do thst due to many battles going on with family health ect. GOD is good when dont want you in a place he will make most people to rise up against you to get out as you are not where he wants you to be. Sometimes we feel bad as the enermy want us to think we are the problem but looking you will know it was God guiding you from destruction. ❤️🙏❤️🙏
Whew sis!! The red flags!! Sounds like God really protected you and being fired was a blessing. I’ve been going to the same rheumatology clinic for 3 years and have never had a different nurse but it does annoy me that the main NP can’t ever seem to remember I’m allergic to Benadryl. Becuase she asks me every single time. And it drives me nuts lol! But you’ll be just fine. That place sounds like it’s in shambles.
First of all this was not a RANT, this was a total Blessing and I appreciate you for sharing this with us. Secondly I definitely just had to subscribe to you. I am a traveling surgical first assistant and surgical technologist for over 16 years now. I completely understood all of this and unfortunately I've been to few hospitals that just were awful. You are awesome and I appreciate you so much for what you do!!! God bless you!!! ❤️🦋❤️🦋❤️
Awww…thank you! I’ve been really considering taking travel assignments but always Chicken out! Also, welcome to the fam! 💜
@@livinglavishlywnesha8927 Seems like you got set up from the former girl?
Lol, this is like a soap opera. I was fired after 15 years when new management step “I no longer fit the tires on his bus” his words during staff meetings! First time being fired in my 30 years of nursing! Always listen because God speaks in in wisdom then he hits you over the head with a brick!
I am so glad you did not stay ! As nurses, We often feel bad -guilty for patients but at the end of the day she did not put her patients first. This was a blessing ! You got out at the right time. There are better opportunities ahead. ❤️🙏🏽
God knows how hard you worked for that license! He made a way for you to get away from that awful, jeopardizing situation! Prayers for the path to open to your new journey soon! 🙏🏼 Blessings to you and yours.
I don't know how I stumbled upon your channel, but OMGosh! All I can say is God got you! He didn't want you in that mess! You know that wasn't your fit and God has something much better. Now about the lady that was there for 15 years, I was at my job for 23 years, we got bought out and new owners let me go. When I say the Lord lifted that burden and I thank him - cause my peace & integrity mean more than money and I know you can relate. Looking forward to seeing more content (just subscribed) and blessings to you in your new endeavors, because better is coming!
Thank you so much and welcome to this crazy family!!! 💜
I hope you landed on your feet
As a Human Resources Assistant I see violations already. They do not have a SOP or handbook. You should have reported them. So many fraudulent act.
I loved this juicy office story 😩. It’s a blessing you got out early. I would’ve been petty and told the patients to call all these different companies and complain.
Bahahahah it was juicy.. I felt like I was watching a lifetime movie
Sending love
Lmbo!!! That’s why I grabbed my bag & left because ain’t no telling what I would’ve been saying to those pts about that doctor if I would have finished the week! 😂😂
As a new LPN for almost 6 months these jobs are very ghetto. I’m still trying to find my fit though but it’s rough. Then they have the audacity not to want to pay well. I’m so over it already. I quit two jobs already 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ Girllll you dodged a bullet, god knew you didn’t need that job
Very ghetto!!!
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@LifeWithChan
You are 💯
RN of 27 years and ready to run for the hills. 😅
These jobs are crazy as all outdoors from the ghetto and ratchet staff they hire which creates extremely toxic work environments and as you say they have the audacity to want to pay very little……Unprofessional, unorganized, etc etc etc etc etc. It’s absolutely unbelievable.
At the end of the day, not only do nurses suffer but unfortunately the patients suffer too and when you are a caring, compassionate and conscientious nurse it’s hard. It’s actually very stressful.
U should relocate
A lot of places are ghetto I will dip quick fast & in a hurry lol but don’t be discouraged you’ll find ya spot, don’t let no one low ball you, I learned to set my price and places will meet it if they want u.
The thing at this point is to ask the Lord to show you what you learned from the short period of time you were there. I posted on this same page of yours about 6 days ago about being let go Tuesday from a job I was only at for 5 weeks. Since then Lord blessed me with a permanent full time job, full benefits, 100% remote job in the same field. Crazy because that whole week I was stressing about how to get my kids to school and the day before they let me go my kids had school the next day and I was at peace knowing I was the one to get them to and from safely. The blessing again was a few days after I started work another temp lady started and the same lady we were laughing about because we didn't know where she even came from..her and I ended up connecting and were super cool as she was the 3rd black woman there...Yall listen..God had a plan before the plan. That same woman called me the day after they let me go and said her daughter was a doctor with her own practice and was in need of a Accountant/billing specialist. Ya'll..she called me..interviewed me Friday like yes its only part-time but eventually will become full time. The pay was just $2 less but heck I was putting $100 a week in my tank for the other job and this one was remote so I was good good. Well by the time the interview was over she called me a few hours later and offered me the job but for full-time and I start tomorrow🤣🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 won't He do it!!. God was telling me the whole time I was at the job to take a ton of notes and learn what I can for the next job. I'm like ok I'm tripping that can't be God because I only been there for 5 weeks lol.. He said thats all you needed. HALLELUJAH 🔥.Again we must trust His no just as well as when we trust His yes!!!! God got you sis trust the process!!
OMG!! Congrats to you!!! Such a testimony!!! 💜
That was a blessing, your license was on the line.
It’s always like that in healthcare .. I’ve been in some bad situations.. it’s a liability too!
I’m so glad I’m out of it.. good you got out!
Hi. I just got fired. I was happy when I had been hired, but it felt like the boss and the assistant resented me for my education (or whatever). I never felt comfortable there. There was no policy/procedure manual, no job description, no detailed description of duties, etc. They hated that I wrote everything down. So the boss texted me and said I was underperforming. I probably was. But I so appreciate you relating your experience. I don't feel quite so bad now. Thanks!
I am in the same boat. Almost. I haven’t been fired.
I related to this so much ❤
Your a wonderful story teller it kept me intrigued. Bad business. God's got you and your family all day. Keep trusting and believing in HIM. Amen.🙌🙏🏽🙌🏽
Just tuned into your channel for the first time and I could tell by the comment the lady made about not being able to keep someone was a NO GO for this position! Always, use the spirit of discernment and ask "how did this position become opened"? That will always give you a sense of whether it's a high turnover role or what is the real reason why it's hard to keep or get someone for that role. And also, pick the interviewer's brain and ask them to describe a typical day in that role? Because, what you're really doing is seeing how well they know the role, their body language on how they explain the role and if the role matches the job description. And lastly, ask if you can meet with anyone you would report to or interact with on a day to day basis. I guarantee if you do your due diligence with interviewing n meeting some of these people, it will save you a lot of frustration n time! All the best sis! ❤️
One thing she's doing is getting a great right off on taxes. They lady who threatened to leave knew just how much the in owner needed her and she took advantage of that, cutting throats along the way. Greed is a great evil.
I was fired from a Phlebotomy Lab i worked for, the no good unprofessional supervisor did me a favor...a blessing in disguise 🙏🏾
Girl! I don’t know how I fell into your channel or this video, but this story time pulled me right in! I’m so invested in this story! 😂
Lol thanks!! I could’ve kept talking about that crazy job!! 😜💜
Sheesh! Unfortunately the toxic work environment is alive and well. I just left a job 2 weeks after starting. I’m a behavioral technician and get sent to homes to work with special needs children. I was sent to a client where I was constantly getting groped (to a painful extent) my a child and mom stands there thinking it’s cute…boys will be boys. After letting the company know and being told it’s just part of the job…I did something I never thought I’d do I didn’t even give a notice I just quit! You are 100% correct when you say the writing is in the wall
I thought FOR SURE.. the madness would stop when it comes to disabled children. But nope. I've tried it all. It's all toxic. The only one that wasn't was a hospice position. But that's because you're out on the road all day with no one to mess with you. That was the longest nursing job I held.
Girl everything happens for a reason. God released you because that Lady was just playing games with you.
I’m a retired nurse after 45 years and I had very similar experience with a clinic position. Wow was I bullying. You’re so amazing. Keep your beautiful head up. You got this.
Omg don't stress you got this! So proud of you!
Thanks hun!!!
I'm glad you got out of there. It sounds very toxic. I left a job I loved due to the environment. Follow your gut. If something seems off, especially if upper management admits the position is difficult to keep staffed, keep it moving. That's a red flag for sure.
Someone needs to call OSHA and the health department and Medicaid/Medicare to report that office.
Same situation I just went through but I left doing nursing I need a new field I’m over it but I’m so happy you left the best is yet to come.
i’ve learned my lesson working with those lil janky clinics. they never have their ish together and they short you on pay. the management and structure is always sketchy. this def was a blessing. on your behalf!
That’s every speciality to.
She did a Good Thing for you !! Keep your Dignity & Pride High . Young Lady you have , Too much Class & Experience in your field for that Ex Employer . Thanks for sharing story.
Thanks!!
Just this minute you made me fall in like with you. YOU HANDLED THAT SITUATION JUST RIGHT! I would have handled it the same way. You are a smart woman. Good job.
Thank you!!
I swear nurses tell the best stories. One of the very few things I miss about the healthcare field.
As a medical professional somewhat new to this field....I find the Doctors are very nice...it's the people under the Doctors and office managers that are very flaky and they want to be on the same level with the Doctors.
Some are not up to par with computers, or EMR but yet they are the 'Head' person.
I’ve witnessed this at a chiropractor office . I am not a nurse but I studied health information technology which deals with EHR/EMRs. It was the staff who was was toxic not mainly the doctors. People who are not even educated but lucked up to get into management are trying to be the doctors.
Hello Nesha I lost u for awhile but with knowledge I found u thank God love your shop and ideas god bless u my sister
Nesha you did the right thing.
It takes a very confident person to discuss things like this. Congratulations.
Sis.. that was a whole mess.. I love your story times.. God got you outta there just in time.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I know nothing about nursing but your videos are so captivating!
I’m not even a nurse - I’m a digital technologist but BABY - I subscribed to your channel over this video! You are REFRESHING! As a black man - your husband is the luckiest one among us.
Oh wow, thank you!
Wowww sis that’s a message in a gem 💎 “ God gives us signs but when we don’t move fast enough God moves us out the way” 💕💕💕💕 . I found this video and like we say “ God does everything for a reason!! I found another inspiring positive vibes TH-camr💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Sis why am I up getting ready for work at 2AM watching your vlog LOL 🤣🤣 Sis you called it a rant, but really this was a testimony for everyone "When God says move you better move". God shows us all signs of trouble coming, he will even speak to us in a loud voice and sometimes in a whisper (coming from other people of course), but you have to have the ear to hear it and the faith to acknowledge it.
Always bring your CV with you to the interview. Bring 3 copies if you can, even if it's on Indeed. Join your local/national nursing association. Get everything in writing next time.
~M, NP
Yes, always!
Agree on that although most places don’t need them
Sis! I’m watching this as I’m in my Rheumatology office getting an Infusion. And you have not lied about the turn over with infusion nurses. But I have to say I’m proud of you! There’s not many woman of color in a Buffalo Ny that does infusions. You’re such a inspiration sis!
Hi! We sorta have something in common. I was fired for my last nursing job. I was ill long term and I kept my employer updated with doctors appointments, as per I was supposed to do. I even came in to get my laptop after going to the ER, at the same hospital I worked! So they weren't short handed. They fired me for being sick. Illegal to do in the state I live in. Short story is I sued them and won. The reason I sued them was because they denied me unemployment.
Truth! God speaks to us, shows us red flags on the interviews, but often times we ignored the red flags. I’ve been there!!
I am a health care assistant of 23 years. I gave it up completely to be free from that system and free I am!
Whew! That was a story!! Like you said when you don’t move fast enough, God will move you. I’m so glad that He saw fit for you to exit stage left. It was definitely a blessing because it sounds like that physician just shot herself in the foot - good luck to her. Have you ever considered opening an infusion clinic? I know there are a lot in Atlanta, but maybe not as many in your corner of Atlanta. Continue to be you, you’re awesome and I love your content!
You seem like a very sweet woman, God Bless You❤
Thank you for this video. I recently had a similar situation where I saw some shady things before I began my first day and decided not to ever start. I had wondered if I’d made a mistake, if I had overthought the situation, and passed up a job I needed for being overly cautious. Your video (that showed up in my feed out of nowhere) was my confirmation that I did the right thing and my gut wasn’t wrong.
Here is your confirmation
I am so glad you walked out of there! I am surprised that place has existed that long!
So glad you escaped the purely toxic job! Congratulations 🎉
Girl lol am on the floor 😂 “u might wanna get your bag too cuz she gonna let u go too” took me out😂😂😂
Well dang, Nesha. The bad news is they are so unprofessional and CROOKS. The great news is in your profession you'll get another job easily, plus you got your bag and slid on out. One day you'll be in your home doing something home decor and in the background on the TV you'll hear local business closed due to fraudulent illegal activity. SMH 🤦🏽♀️
Gurl, hot mess!!! I was just starting to pick up on some of it but found out so much more than I even thought. Smh
Exactly 🧐😡
You did the right thing through the dam door. Blessing in disguise.
Just happened on your channel...I had a similar situation with a job (not nursing but small office, my position had a ridiculously high turnover rate) and I have to say, not everyone can be a boss. Smaller businesses usually start out on the strength of that one person. When they go to grow the business and add on others, they lose touch with reality I think. Which is why your office had no timecard system or regulatory oversight. You have been given a huge break, by leaving when you did. You will have your choice of jobs, know this!
Am so happy that you’ll are talking about these things because my daughter is hell bent on getting into nursing and dont care how I try to persuade her she’s not listening to me👍👍👍
Wheeeeeew Nesha, I was sitting at the edge of my chair hoping that you walked out 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾. Sounds like Ole girl is setting herself up for a big law suit and Karma.
I thought you were one of the nurses from Tik tok nurses that were fired from L&D. I really wished I had met you when I was still nursing. You're beyond an exceptional nurse! Thank you for all that you do! You have no idea how many lives you touch, not just in your nursing jobs but especially in your youtube videos. God bless you and I beg you, please keep making these superior videos to shape the future of nursing. You're really someone very, VERY special!!!! Thank you for making a huge difference!
Hi Sweetie!!! I just watched your vlog on tv. I'm one of your new subscribers. I've been watching for a minute and I just love your beautiful personality. Now as far as today, you know GOD has something better waiting for you. That door is about to open and blow you away. Get ready, get ready, get ready!!! GOD is about to show up and show out in your life. Take care and enjoy everyday living. Love ya!!🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
Thank you so much!!!! I’m keeping my eyes AND ears open so I don’t miss whatever he is trying to say or lead me to.
The nurses are the heroes, I wish the doctors would stand up for something and protect the oath of First do No Harm. Love you nurses. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your story! I sometimes wonder what is going on behind the scene… you know how as a patient you sometimes catch a vibe…. I went to a dr’s office with high turnover for a while, I stopped going because of billing disagreements and the way he handled them. Shortly after his entire remaining staff quit and sued him for non payment of wages. I own my own business and ALWAYS pay my staff 1st, before any other bills or myself, which frankly isn’t ever a problem if you run your business right. Just goes to show that you can be smart enough to be a dr but not smart enough to know that managing an office and business is an entirely different skill set. Thank you!
I’m glad you got out of there. On a totally different note, you have the most beautiful smile and contagious laugh.😊
Awww…thank you!! 💜
Yes Nesha everything happens for a reason and we do often ignore the signs God show us. I'm glad you got out of there because something is definitely about to be revealed and God gave you an escape route. Poor management and way too much shade going on. I'm trying to figure out how super nurse is going to run and grow this business from Alabama 🤔😆
The previous nurse played you as well, she called the Dr. And spilled her tea..she wanted the doctor eating of her hands.. and got the mula she was wanting. But seems like it's a blessing though..when one door closes God will open a gate for you.. stay blessed 🙌 😇
These jobs these days are a whole new low….. smh. I been a nurse a long ass time and i am beyond over it. I’m PRN now which makes me feel better…… but they do not value us. They do not care how hard they try to work you as long as they don’t have to do it. They don’t treat people right and wonder why no one stick around. I will never feel sorry for them. Hang in there. It will be ok. You don’t need them.
😂😂😂I know right sis! Y’all did the right thing! Walk out and let the other nurse to take the wheel!
I went through the same thing a couple years ago. I've been taking care of people at the time for over 25 years. I decided to work in a nursing home. After always work in private duty alone. Youngsters take off on the clock go eat go to the house leave me with the patients. But I was always the one getting something told to. I went above and beyond because I already knew how to do the work. But then I see sometimes I guess I was a threat. God made it to where I had a clean exit and I took it same like you. All the patients who liked me. Two houses no one would change them they full of pissed barely feed them right. And hygiene with the workers was terrible. After I would leave my morning shift job. And come there which was my second job everyone should be clean and watching TV full after 1:00. Don't you think. Some people just don't need that dream of taking care of people. U have to have a heart to.
Smh. I completely feel where you’re coming from. I didn’t lose not one minute of sleep over being let go because I knew it was for the best and God was moving me.
You. Should report them. We learned this in Nursing school. You don’t just let people get abused and neglected. I have picked up the phone and called the State.
Girl...that story....smh. red flags all over. Thanks for sharing
I'm hooked! TH-cam suggested you & Nailed it! You are a great story teller & now I'm invested ❤ I'm on a mission now to find out more, if the shtf, if those doors got painted, Shirts... you make shirts! I Have To know more so I'm off to watch more of your videos!
Lmbo!!!!! I started painting them freaking doors today!! 😩 It’ll be in Sunday’s vlog! 😂💜
That's okay what's for you, will be for You❤
Whew chile....that was some tea! I was trying to watch and do my hair. I had to stop and listen 😆 I'm so glad God got you out of that mess!!🙌🏽
I really admire how you presented and handled this difficult situation. I need to emulate your vibe! Ty