To everyone: How awkward did you feel? Which scene had the most takes? How would you rate your own acting skills? Are you going to be doing more short films?
1) What equipment/gear did you use for filming? Camera, lenses, gimble, etc. 🤔 and 2) what was your general process for planning how to record the short film?
I've had this so much that; Now I have reached a point, that I don't know what love feels like anymore. I have forgotten how to love myself, lost my motivation of life, wanting to be alone for eternity. I thought to myself "Man, if I can't stay motivated I can just forget about life as a whole; Who would love me for who I am?" But then I realized and thought to myself that I lost motivation because people called me smart, that they said that I help people because I am smart; I wouldn't succeed. What gives you motivation is something you worked hard for; which gives you happiness, which would attract every normal human being. Basically, motivation beats everything and if you fail, great! You have just tried a way that didn't work out for you and you've gotta work slightly harder to keep on fighting. Fight against the coping mechanism.
The "falling in love with strangers" part hit me like a truck. I feel so starved of love, appreciation & care that the smallest gesture of kindness from a stranger is enough for me to think of them for days.
No bc I’m literally still thinking about a stranger that went to my job over a year ago, he was so sweet and handsome and I literally can’t let the thought of him go, maybe if I had someone I wouldn’t be so strung up on this stranger.
And you are precisely the very kind of person that would appreciate and enjoy that love more than those that have always had it but the fact that you dont have it is tragedy. I pray it finds you.
@@star12345-l I'm not on snapchat (do i belong in the Stone age? Probably yes🙃) but i appreciate your kindness. I too wish you find whatever you are seeking😊
All of these hit me. I’m 23 and I have never been loved. The part where “Am I really that ugly, that unwanted, that unintestering, that boring” hit me so much especially after the experiences of falling in love with people but not loving you back. I really wished there is someone who made me feel valued, loved, and heard.
Don't worry my guy. It doesn't get better, get used to it. Find a hobby, something to do. You will remember you're all alone just once a year, maybe twice, it is what it is.
Eh people need to chill. We think our happiness will increase artificially if we are "loved" by someone but it really doesn't. With it also comes more responsibility, more drama, more insecurities, more financial instability, etc. Rather than focusing on getting a significant other, just have a couple of good friends and you're set. Focus the rest of your attention on your career and health. If the right person comes, cool, but if it doesn't, it's cool as well.
@@Manic_Panic ive got some of the best friends you could ask for, i also am focusing the rest of my time to fitness, boxing and school but i still feel incomplete and i still get jealous of friends i have who are in a relationship
I honestly thought I was the only one that did that and that there was something wrong with me! I'll fall in love with a random boy in class that literally just smiled at me once; I'll fall in love with the guy at the grocery store that looked at me for more than 1.2 seconds, etc. Hahaha how sad, I know
Honey Bunny no. Because I use to do that too! I thought something was wrong with me too. But I got over it. So it’s just that I can’t talk to guys.. I get to nervous in front of guys. I don’t know what else to say, they say hi, how are you. I say good how are you. And that’s about it! 😔 how that is sad!! Because I don’t know how to change the topic...
I hate how some people in this com section say: "You don't need to be in relationship to be happy", bullshit. Some people (including me) need exactly that. To be loved. Its a missing part in our lifes. Finding love will make me happiest man in the world, I don't ask for anything else, im already happy with my life but being alone hurts.
Exactly! People don’t understand they say “you don’t need a relationship to be happy” well no you don’t .. but what if you recognise that this is the part of you’re life that’s missing and you long for that human contact and to feel loved and to feel special
Exactly. I wasn't really loved at all growing up, and now I yearn for it more than anything. More than money, sex, fame, etc. Also, I love how people say "everyone's different in their own unique way," but everything's the same when it comes to love. Miss me with that bs. SOMEONE LOVE ME ALREADY.
True. All i need right now is just someone who can love me the way i love them. You know , i have been giving and keep giving my loves for others , but nobody ever give it back to me , even a tiny bit. Am i really that ugly ? Am i really unworthy of love ?
I feel that way too. I have my family and some discord friends, but that's not really enough for me. I tell myself I'm fine, but sometimes I do yearn for that intimacy with a guy who's also looking for that intimacy like me. And right now, we need that more than evee, because I've already encountered guys who rather text forever versus meeting face to face. We need that loving connection. And I hate to admit this, but even I need it now.
@Carter Swinton Unfortunately you're correct. For then to understand they need to know what it's like to not ever have that deep love in their lives before.
@@Anonymous-cs5ui hm.. my advice is, this helped me break a 4 year dating / physical intimacy spell; I got in bed with a girl recently finally! My thing was I just focused on having fun and being humorous but be genuine, be you yeah? No intense talks about emotions until we build a good rapport, and remembering details about that person! People love when you ask them about them. Let it flow, don’t think if it as you selling yourself, get in a dance with them so to speak, slowly start stepping, then go in for the complicated moves, and take your time my friend!! Be your own best friend and advocate.
"Falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return" Has got to be my favorite line. Love this.
The more I get older, school was never really about education, it was about becoming socially sophisticated. I focused too much on the first and now I’m lost mentally
@@brendielahooha I feel like I can’t hold a regular conversation that’s after hey, if you know any thing that helps that sort of thing then I’m listening
exactly I just want one friend who makes me a priority...like someone who talks with many ,walks with many but will just think of me when asked about priority
I´m a 23 year old hopeless romantic who has never had a boyfriend, nor a first kiss/ date ... and I felt like this video spoke to me, I loved it and couldn't help but cry
Your comment is literally about me but the only difference that I am 22 and I had a date but we have not kissed or something....Only we drank an orange juice lol
Hey.. I'm a fellow 23 year old girl too, this September. You're not alone! This video itself feels like a warm hug that soothes the pain. I think I spoilt myself a little too much with disney movies and rom-coms from my childhood until now..
I was 18 years old when I first watched this video. I really hoped I could make things change before I turned 20. I turned 20 recently and things are still the same... I pretty much missed out on everything you can miss out on in your teens.
21. Had a look at online dating. Never sent anything. I just feel like I will be moving too much whilst at uni. Also I'm very quiet and don't like drinking.
4 years later I rewatch this video ... I was 20, I'm 24 now and a lot has changed since but one thing didn't. I'm still single. I'm happier now and much proud of myself, I love who I became even if everybody still points out how "bad" it is to be a 24yo girl who never had a bf, but guess what... I realized that every person their pace, some faster than others. Maybe I'm from the VERY slow side hahaha
Funny things is - who makes it bad? Us or someone else? It’s one thing when we do not find it desirable but it’s debatable when it’s someone else... Also I wanna know at what point what counts as slow as molasses
I'm still 20 and haven't fall in love. Thank you for saying that. It makes me think that it's okay to be single lol. It's not that I don't want to fall in love. I still want to explore myself and everything else in the world. So having a partner is not on my mind yet.
26 year old guy and I've only had one girlfriend. We initially were very attracted to each other another physically. But in the end, it was an awful relationship that should have never happened, as I allowed her to use me to buy things for her because I was too loveless to myself and naive to know any better. We eventually broke up after like 2 months. Four years later, and I'm still single. But the feeling still hurts the same, and it feels as if I haven't grown at all.
I'm 21, and it's kind of depressing how there's billions of people in the world and not one single soul really loves me enough to be in a relationship. Sometimes i get so fucking sad to think about how i can't have something special with someone, and that the love i'm willing to give is slowly fading cause there's no one around to take it
Same here, it’s so sad 😞. I’m trying very hard no to think of relationship so that I won’t feel depressed. But when I do that I know I’m gonna be doing it forever Sad af life , they say get a job and love will eventually come. It’s complete BS , at job when you are stressed out, wouldn’t it be nice if you have someone to talk to and share your day. I’m out
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 bro feel ya, what you have to do is believe, create your on fate, don't carry your past everywhere you go, let it go, if you were bad at girls, that is past, focus on now, do nice things for others and be happy bro!!!
@@shreyakhanna1708 hahaha yeah right . when i was in highschool they used to call me freak. so i kinda feel sorry for the girl who is just right for me
It’s ok I’ll talk to you. All I need is your credit card number, the expiration date, and the those three lonely numbers on the back. Don’t worry I’ll be there for you friend.
Its sad how we all know that love won't just come out of nowhere and, in reality, you won't just bump into your soul mate on the street and fall in love. I didn't think I would cry to this, yet an uncontrolled tear rolled down my cheek as I couldn't think of anyone worthy of my love, as they don't even know I exist. I really need a hug bros.
I understand what you're saying but I don't wanna believe it. I really wanna believe if it's meant to be, it will happen. I don't want to believe that I will have nobody in my corner for forever. And I don't want you to give up too. Sending you lots of virtual hugs and love🖤
Estoy arto de los que dicen ya llegara la indicada carajo siempre dicen eso y no pasa nada me independice a los 19 compre ropa me duchaba segudo usaba perfume algo que no hacia antes y aun asi nadie se fija en mi asi que deje de hacerlo.
chimi w For my personal experience (I know some people won't like this), my best comfort in anything I can go through, is my best friend, the one who will never let me : Jesus Like, even if I love my girlfriend so much, she never know what is really happening in me, whereas He does
I don't know. Being single since birth, without ever experiencing someone say that he has a crush on me at least, got me so curious how it feels like to be appreciated. No matter how many times people around me say that I'll eventually find the one, still, I can't erase the thought that maybe I'm bound to be alone forever, or that I'm too ugly to be someone else's love interest. And that thinking worn me out so much that what I am doing now is learning to love myself to the extent that I won't ever long for someone else to love me anymore.
That is so true. I feel the same way. I will be 20 this summer and have never had a boyfriend...not even close. I haven’t had a mutual crush with anyone, at least that I know of. On the bright side, I don’t know what it’s like to go through a breakup or see an ex boyfriend find someone else. I think it’s much easier to be alone since birth than it would be to have dated a lot in the past and then find yourself alone.
Ignore the BS advice to wait for the perfect person and "you'll find someone" - absolute crap. It won't automatically happen. We must take personal responsibility and put ourselves out there consistently, get rejected, learn, improve and then things will work out.
True, but even then some people will still fail. And atleast for me when that time should come, i wont have any regrets because knowing i tried my Best will put me at ease.
My parents bumped into each other in the bus. My father stalked my mom for months, tried to get her attention everyday. Now they are married for 22 years, they have two children and one dog. And they are pretty pleased with their small happily ever after
I relate to that so badly. I crush on every 2nd guy I meet but get over them after around a day, maybe to make room in my mind for new ones. And I'm disgusted by it. I'm literally a crush slut. But I can't help it. At least now I know the reason for that, and that it'll probably change the day I'll finally find requited love ^-^
For me, the hardest part of being 20 and single probably is all of my friends forgetting about me after finding love. I knew that when people fall in love they often start paying less attention to their friends but I wasn't mentally prepared for how harsh it would actually be. Friends that I used to hang out with a lot now barely keep any contant with me. It's weird and sad how people are ready to ditch a long-term friendship for someone they met just a few months ago. I've never had anyone being interested in me and I have zero romantic experience. I don't see myself as a person anyone would fall for in the first place. I've even thought about paying for sex or cuddling etc. so that I could experience it at least once in my life. Some people are fine with being "single forever" but I long for love and affection. It's kind of comforting to read about other people's similar experiences.
I'm 20, never been kissed and never dated. Sure, I had 3 am convos, been pursued once but that's it. My friends will talk about past relationships and I'll just keep my mouth shut. Right now I'm at the point of my life where I have stopped wondering what's its like to be in a relationship. I have successfully convinced myself that I do not need one to be fulfilled and happy.
I'm in a very similar situation! When everyone is talking about their relationships, I'm like quietly disappointed and sad but I'm kind of accepting it as well. So you are not alone!
River Liz *high five!* OR friends will ask me about my opinion and I'd give them the most rational answer (like "leave him. you dont deserve that kind of toxic relationship") and they're like, "No. You dont understand. Why dont you try to be in a relationship?" Well... point taken. Only if I can just buy a relationship. Jk haha I'm just thinking, probably I'm not that attractive enough to be asked out or what but oh well, it's not the end of the world.
Faith Gabriel Omg I know that so well! That a lot of people are like don't you want a relationship? But I think it just has to happen and if I look after one it wouldn't work. I also have the feeling that the things I like, for example playing the ukulele or writing poems and short storys aren't that interesting for many people. But it isn't the end of the world, I'm okay with being single. I know it sound kind of stupid, but sometimes I think that creativity is like my boyfriend.
River Liz Nope you're totally wrong about one point. You have really awesome talents! And I do appreciate them ( btw I have the same interests too :D). Anywayz let's just live our lives to the fullest. If love comes, then it comes. No expectations, no pressure, no frustrations.
I’ve been “loved” but normally only for shallow reasons. Either for someone to use me to get over their ex, or for my money and status. I deeply want a love that I can call my own. That I can pour into someone and they’d appreciate and see all the effort I put in. I hope to meet them soon. Maybe I already have. I want to make someone happy. Someone smile. Be kind and virtuous. Help them be their best selves. If you’re reading this don’t give up the love in your heart. It’s part of what makes being alive wonderful.
I dont know if im wrong, but i think that girls definitily have more chances of getting in a relationship than man; Thats beacuse guys aproach women, but most of the women dont aproach men, so in the end being a shy man is the worst thing. That means sooner or later you are going to get along with someone.
I feel it's not true for some people. For people like us, we have to accept that no one is going to love you back ever. We are gonna end up alone, and that's the hard truth. Being unloved is one of the most depressing feeling for sure
The whole falling in love with random strangers thing is so true for me. I always wondered if anyone else did that and I'm glad to know I'm not alone. It does suck tho bc after that brief encounter, you can't stop thinking about that person and it drives you crazy throughout the day.
This is the most relatable thing ever. I’m 18, never been in a relationship and feel so deprived of love. I’m literally desperate. I see a good looking guy and I imagine what being in a relationship with him would be like
Can you imagine being a good looking guy with the same problem ? I mean I know my personality wouldnt be a match for everyone, but being 26 and never having anything reciprocated feels like life is telling me I am somehow worth less than most people I know.
Lately I have stopped watching most of the movies, because they always show people falling in love so easily and deeply. When I see those things I get at the same time both depressed and frustrated, because I say to myself" it cannot be that easy to fall in love and succeed like that".
@Aaron Salamante you really are not. It’s the voice in our heads that tries to makes us feel miserable and hopeless. Everyone goes through that in their lives. Try not to take serious that thoughts. You really are precious.
It hurts how much I relate to this. I'm 20 and nobody has ever even crushed on me. Never been on a date, never been kissed. Growing up you tend to question how easy it is for everyone else, or rather how hard it is for you to find someone. I'm thankful that I'm such an independent person, and I know when I meet someone, they will mean something.
21 year old and in the same boat. The closest i ever got was a long distance relationship with a girl from America, but that only lasted until she found someone else closer to her. Maybe i'll find someone, maybe i won't. Atleast it helps to know that i'm not the only one
You're def not the only one. tbh I don't think I've met someone like me (never kissed etc etc) but I've met people that haven't been in a relationship since middle school, and they don't count those relationships because they weren't considered real to them. I feel like it's just hard for people to really connect now.
I haven't really met anyone who haven't been in a relationship. Even my clostest friend who is a lot like me and has openly stated many times that he's not interested in relationships still managed to have a girlfriend for a couple of months. It's hard to tell if it's harder for people to connect these days in general, or if it's just harder for someone as shy, introverted and not-goodlooking like me. And even then, i still see other people just as introverted and average looking as me somehow land a relationship and me still having no luck. It's discouraging to say the least
It would be nice to meet someone who's in the same situation, but as the years pass by, the less likely it seems to happen. And that's just so depressing..And I'm tired of people saying "Love yourself first, just learn to be happy on your own". Yeah, that's what I've been trying to do for way too long and it's just not the same as having someone to share your moments with.
Be patient sis and if nothing is really working maybe you need a little help finding someone or need to make a few changes idk your situation but i know for me i can start by being more approachable and taking better care of myself. There's no point in me buying takeout all the time, gaming ,not showering or going out and just staying at home yet expecting myself to find a man when I "feel" like it. Not taking care of myself and adhering to my responsibilities and values automatically isn't going to make me feel ready for marriage or even consider it so that's why it's those steps for me. Also I've always been a little shy, especially towards the opposite sex so that's why I need to work more on my communication and social skills. Even my childhood and limiting beliefs that I need to let go of but yeah we really just all need to take some steps to cut out the bad habits and learn to put our foot down and start doing what we know we gotta do. Like I'm sure we all know that we have to pray, or shower, or dress presentably, be a warm and kind person,, get good grades or earn money doing a job, etc. Ofc we won't always feel like doing these things but allowing yourself to fall into a hopeless downward spiral because you just continuously choose to procrastinate is so damaging not only to your physical health but your mental as well. Anyways this was a lot for me to type but if anyone can relate please know you're not alone and always keep trying to learn from your mistakes and strive to do better
"For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day..." That's so me 😂. The cashier, sometimes people at work, on the bus... What is wrong with me?! 😂😂
Omg finally I found people who can relate to me, Espically since Im bisexual I legit fall in love with dozens of girls and guys a day. I tought I'm weird but reading these comments and knowing I'm not alone finally made me feel better.
The last time I'm watching this was 2 years ago, I was 17 at that time. I thought "Would I have a boyfriend before I turn 20?" And then in 2020, youtube recommend me this, and this year I'm gonna turn 20, and still single. Never in loved for the past 2 decades. Idk if youtube would recommend me this video again before I turn 30 lmao I wish when youtube recommend me this video again, I would have a boyfriend or someone who love me the way I am... Edit : it's freaking 16th of december 2023 that means I'm 23 now in college and STILL no signs I'm gonna be in a relationship soon lmao I've talked to some guys, thinking that I will end this journey soon but god say "nah ah, not today" 😂 I hope you guys in this reply already found your other half now, stay healthy guys 💜
I’m 22 now. Still single and not been in love ever before . I’m normally fine with not dating but there’s sometime that it just hit you so hard; that you don’t have that special person to share moments with. I’ll come back every year. Let’s see where life goes
Are you a girl? BTW I am a 22 year old guy so same age as you and never had a girlfriend and if you are a female then I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I bet I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college or something. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile. Hugggggs. Do you know what makes a girl cuter? Its her sweetness. I honestly feel a girl is too cute if she is a very sweet person but I might pinch her cheeks gently and softly a lot if I find her too cute hehe.
I've actually given up on both dating & relationships since the last guy I dated never wanted a relationship & just dated me. And this trope seems to be super popular with Gen-Z now
I watched this at 17 thinking "Meh, I still have time. Can't relate." I am now 21 sitting here shocked at how accurate this is. Esp the "falling in love w/ strangers" bit. Lol
But some of those bitches are always sharing them boyfriend like they had nothing to do with them life. Like them only achievement in life was finding a partner. Im single but not a garbage
I've had too much sex, almost all kinds of it, but believe me, it's nothing, you still feel empty and hungry, because your soul hasn't found that only one person for you. I'm abstaining from sex now, and nofap too. Feeling a lot better.
I'm too terrified of relationships to even try. I've never fallen in love, dated, or anything. I'll be 28 this year. I've basically given up and I want to focus more on myself but the loneliness burns my soul sometimes.
Frickenrock Nearly everything I know about relationships is from friends and family and that it doesn't last, it's abusive and there's no love, just tolerance. I know better than to gauge it from other people's experiences but it's what I've witnessed for most of my life. Why should I take a chance and get hurt or worse to see if I can find someone? I'd rather be pained with loneliness than be hurt by someone else, toying with my heart and leaving it worse than how I started.
"Are you really that ugly? That unwanted? That uninteresting? That boring??" Oohhh..I never felt attacked like this one. This is totally my normal train of thoughts.
STOPPP I'M SAD NOW... I know for me my standards are very high, I don't settle 😂 It's not us, it's just that better is in store for us. We need to learn to appreciate other things in life...
It's funny that this is just 2 months ago.Tomorrow I'm turning 21, I'm proud to say that I'm now in the progress of loving myself more. Sometimes i still have those thoughts, but now I can remind myself that those are untrue and brought only by my emotions. And that there is a long list of people who accepted and love me. For the days that I can't feel their love, I still have the most important person to love me who will never leave me, which is MYSELF.
My psychologist diagnosed me with antisocial personality disorder, with sociopathic tendencies, so that it's impossible for me to make friends. I don't even know what people mean by words like 'sad', 'happy', or 'love', because of my disorder. It also makes me violent, so if I have any emotions at all it's usually just violent anger. I smashed a wine bottle over a girls head because she said I was "beautiful but crazy".
As stupid as this is, I feel so much better upon finding this video and reading the comments. I knew I couldn't be the ONLY person who felt this way/was in this position, but to know so MANY of you can relate makes me feel a million times better. All of you deserve love and happiness in life :)
AFAVWVQUSHSBAB I'M SCREAMING. I seriously thought IT'S ONLY ME. but when I watch the video and read the comments section,, there are actually people who are just like me... The video tho... it's just too accurate.... I fall in love temporarily with dozens of people even with strangers!! Like what the heck!!!
@youtube person I had someone before.. but it's meaningless when you realize love doesn't exist. I have my noose. It's an extension cord with visegrip pliers. Because I live in my car and don't have a place to hang. I have tried a few times, But I have a hard time getting past no breathing. I wish I could afford the max dog brewing suicide kit. I hate hurting, and I know it's only going to get worse. I want out.
"Love is overrated, I don't need anyone, I'm happy to be alone. Single life is the best life" -This is me when I lie to convince myself. Edit: I wrote this comment 10 months ago & now I think finding a purpose in life is more important than finding a partner. I've given up. I don't even know if I am capable of loving anyone.
Used to be me until I did hit a date💀 tho he dumped me 2 months later, I'm thankfully moving on & doing a bit better but yeah you'll find someone, you just have to try out new things tho.
Meet someone like me? Depressed, jobless, virgin, introvert, negative, pessimist, nihilist, no energy, only eat sleep and play video games or watch stupid video, skinny, short You sure someone wants this? I don't even want myself
@crawlingrainbow GAWD SAME!! I am proud of my genes but it's not helping. 23 but I look and sound like a 14 year old and the only people who give me the second look are just a bunch of creepy old men.
Wild Bloody Rose There is a SIGNIFICANT difference in your case. Most men are attracted to women with child-like faces. You are thinking of it as a pedo thing but that's not the case. Apparently it has been scientifically proven. Personally as a 22 year old man. I've never looked at a woman and liked her because she "looks KIND OF childish". But that's not the case for most men.
No stop saying that. You are not ugly. God has plans for you. But it will take time. You just have to be patient. When you don't want something you actually get that thing. Just wait more. Love yourself please. If you don't love yourself you can't love others. Baby steps okay? Start loving yourself from today. But remember I love you. I truly love you
You are not ugly, actually, I believe that no one is ugly. I've been in your place and still am you feel like your ugly and you don't have anything to be proud of and literally nothing to enjoy. I feel this every day but I'm realizing that nothing can help me if I'm not willing to help myself. I mean how can I expect love and acceptance from other people when I don't even love myself. I know all are just old stuff that everyone says it but it is true we don't want to believe it, I don't want to believe it, because not believing it, is much easier than believing it. I'm not like others saying that you will find a one or God has a plan because no matter what everybody tells you if you don't have a plan for yourself or you only think negative nothing is going to happen. I felt lonely and unwanted for the last four years of my life and I'm still feeling it and it feels terrible, these feelings just consume you from inside you have to stop them I'm trying and I know it is hard but nothing is easy in this life :D. You just have to move forward and believe in yourself even if others don't believe you. The only thing that matters is that you believe yourself if you do others gonna believe you too. You can do this don't give up
Over time, perception will change - and accordingly, things will eventually play out differently than what you are used to. Your actions, your passions, your social skills and even your smile - are playing a much bigger role than sheer looks. Sounds cheesy, but that's just how it is.
I'm 23. And I finally met someone this year. He's 22. He's my first relationship, and I'm his first too. We became best friends before getting into a relationship and we trust each other completely. We're really really similar, and like a lot of the same stuff so it's always easy to spend time together. And I'm happy I've waited for someone worth waiting for. :) Because I feel like I could spend my whole life with him. So it's worth waiting for that special someone. Don't rush into relationships you're not sure about. Just wait for the right one.
I saw this video for the first time when I was 15, five years ago. Every year since then I have watched it on my birthday. Today I turn 20 years old, and have never been loved. Here's hoping for next year.
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Fancy Nancy TV were all of your friends youtubers or your friends .
To everyone: How awkward did you feel? Which scene had the most takes? How would you rate your own acting skills? Are you going to be doing more short films?
How long did it take you to film? (it's so beautiful and well done 💕)
To whay extend do you relate yourself to this story? Really nice one btw! 💖
1) What equipment/gear did you use for filming? Camera, lenses, gimble, etc. 🤔 and 2) what was your general process for planning how to record the short film?
The saddest part about this video is that TH-cam didn't recommend me,I searched for it
same
Same here unfortunately
Haha same man
Carry on boys our time to shine will come eventually 🙏
@@CaioOLino Hope so dude
Am I the only one who went to the comments to prove it to myself that I'm not the only one
sameee
Hehe jea boy
Antonio Durante it made me even more scared
Brother ✊
Same
“Falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return.” I felt that hard.
I have been through this! 😥
The desperation is nigh. 😎
same
I've had this so much that; Now I have reached a point, that I don't know what love feels like anymore.
I have forgotten how to love myself, lost my motivation of life, wanting to be alone for eternity.
I thought to myself "Man, if I can't stay motivated I can just forget about life as a whole; Who would love me for who I am?"
But then I realized and thought to myself that I lost motivation because people called me smart, that they said that I help people because I am smart; I wouldn't succeed.
What gives you motivation is something you worked hard for; which gives you happiness, which would attract every normal human being.
Basically, motivation beats everything and if you fail, great!
You have just tried a way that didn't work out for you and you've gotta work slightly harder to keep on fighting.
Fight against the coping mechanism.
Personal Dedicated Humor Not Found you are a wonderful person! Thanks for this :)
The "falling in love with strangers" part hit me like a truck. I feel so starved of love, appreciation & care that the smallest gesture of kindness from a stranger is enough for me to think of them for days.
No bc I’m literally still thinking about a stranger that went to my job over a year ago, he was so sweet and handsome and I literally can’t let the thought of him go, maybe if I had someone I wouldn’t be so strung up on this stranger.
@@imeatingaburgerful 😭 i feel you.
And you are precisely the very kind of person that would appreciate and enjoy that love more than those that have always had it but the fact that you dont have it is tragedy. I pray it finds you.
@@andrewfreiji4647 Thankyou for your kind words. I wish the best for you too🌼
@@star12345-l I'm not on snapchat (do i belong in the Stone age? Probably yes🙃) but i appreciate your kindness. I too wish you find whatever you are seeking😊
The TH-cam algorithm is becoming too advanced.
Ikr😂😂
TH-cam is just a depressing website for all of us
I'm getting scared cause of it 😭 see you in another comment section
Ik right?
hahaa. omg. so advanced that it is able to read my mind
Watched this 8 months ago : single
Watching it again : still single
Watching 5yrs later : in a relationship!
Kkoochkie BTS me lmao cuz my mom remind me of it ughh I hate when ppl remind me of it
yes still
This Plot twist suprised me
Ghost_Gamer 😂 It's confirmed I have a sad life😂
@@shafeeqahj6955 nah I wouldn't say so. But who is responsible for you current Situation?
This comment section makes me feel at home lol...
Elijah Swift 😂😂😂😂 same here
Well atleast I am not alone 😅
Ahelee Guha tell me about it lol
Elijah Swift same
same
All of these hit me. I’m 23 and I have never been loved. The part where “Am I really that ugly, that unwanted, that unintestering, that boring” hit me so much especially after the experiences of falling in love with people but not loving you back. I really wished there is someone who made me feel valued, loved, and heard.
same 😭 it hurts to see all of my friends dating guys since I've never dated anyone, guys call me pretty and stuff, but that's all
Don't worry my guy. It doesn't get better, get used to it. Find a hobby, something to do. You will remember you're all alone just once a year, maybe twice, it is what it is.
@@sabinaleichtova5134 same, it hurts seeing my friends with their girlfriends, and I can't even get a girlfriend
@@cameronbondwe_the_cuz uhhhhh ikrr :((
welll I'm bi and i like my female friend, she's also bi. I'll update u xd
I actually curse myself at 20 since I did dated a guy who lost interest in me so quick I regretted even stepping into this dating zone
This has got to be the most depressing comment section in the history of comment sections
Eh people need to chill. We think our happiness will increase artificially if we are "loved" by someone but it really doesn't. With it also comes more responsibility, more drama, more insecurities, more financial instability, etc. Rather than focusing on getting a significant other, just have a couple of good friends and you're set. Focus the rest of your attention on your career and health. If the right person comes, cool, but if it doesn't, it's cool as well.
Literally go into any Monday FA Monday comment section and it’s like this every time
@@Manic_Panic nah.
Some people like myself need more.
@@Manic_Panic ive got some of the best friends you could ask for, i also am focusing the rest of my time to fitness, boxing and school but i still feel incomplete and i still get jealous of friends i have who are in a relationship
Ruseau he’s a TH-camr who talks about the forever alone/incel thing
Why youtube...don't remind me
Here as well...
Wooow u seriously are everywhere
WHY ARE HERE OH MY GAWD WHAAAT
Morgan Lemons That explains why you comment everywhere.
It's just so sad whyyyyyy 😭
"For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day was a copping mechanism, for not having anyone to love you in return."
So true!! :'''(
I'm over it. What's meant to be is meant to be... you can't force anything :') it just happens...
This is so true
clarebieber28 yes I agree
I honestly thought I was the only one that did that and that there was something wrong with me! I'll fall in love with a random boy in class that literally just smiled at me once; I'll fall in love with the guy at the grocery store that looked at me for more than 1.2 seconds, etc. Hahaha how sad, I know
Honey Bunny no. Because I use to do that too! I thought something was wrong with me too. But I got over it. So it’s just that I can’t talk to guys.. I get to nervous in front of guys. I don’t know what else to say, they say hi, how are you. I say good how are you. And that’s about it! 😔 how that is sad!! Because I don’t know how to change the topic...
I hate how some people in this com section say: "You don't need to be in relationship to be happy", bullshit. Some people (including me) need exactly that. To be loved. Its a missing part in our lifes. Finding love will make me happiest man in the world, I don't ask for anything else, im already happy with my life but being alone hurts.
Exactly! People don’t understand they say “you don’t need a relationship to be happy” well no you don’t .. but what if you recognise that this is the part of you’re life that’s missing and you long for that human contact and to feel loved and to feel special
Exactly. I wasn't really loved at all growing up, and now I yearn for it more than anything. More than money, sex, fame, etc.
Also, I love how people say "everyone's different in their own unique way," but everything's the same when it comes to love. Miss me with that bs. SOMEONE LOVE ME ALREADY.
True. All i need right now is just someone who can love me the way i love them. You know , i have been giving and keep giving my loves for others , but nobody ever give it back to me , even a tiny bit. Am i really that ugly ? Am i really unworthy of love ?
I feel that way too. I have my family and some discord friends, but that's not really enough for me. I tell myself I'm fine, but sometimes I do yearn for that intimacy with a guy who's also looking for that intimacy like me. And right now, we need that more than evee, because I've already encountered guys who rather text forever versus meeting face to face. We need that loving connection. And I hate to admit this, but even I need it now.
@Carter Swinton Unfortunately you're correct. For then to understand they need to know what it's like to not ever have that deep love in their lives before.
i am genuinely finding it difficult to imagine another person loving me wtf how do people do this
I feel like i cant be the loved one
I can't see anyone loving me romantically either
I had that thought too.
It's just a completely strange concept. It gives you some sort of hope when in reality the hope just hurts more.
Exactly menash
@@VenganceWarrior exactly
Forever alone level : so high that even TH-cam sees that and puts it into your recommendations page
Filip Milosavljević hahahhahahahahah crying because i relate to this 100000%😢😢😢😂😂😂
😂😂
falling temporarily in love with anybody who slightly touches me or glances at me is too relatable :/
tRUTH
TRUE 😭😭 That's literally me...
Tfw you can't tell if your bi or just really desperate for anyone to show interest. 🤔
@koma SAME idk if i'm keeping my options more open or what
It's me
Everyone seems so lucky in finding someone for themselves , it looks so easy for them
Exactly it feels like relationships are on difficult mode only for me
@@Anonymous-cs5uihm.. may I ask, in any situation with dating, did you ever feel it was your mindset stopping you?
@@ajrhy6243 yes many times. I feel like the problem is with me😅
@@Anonymous-cs5ui hm.. my advice is, this helped me break a 4 year dating / physical intimacy spell; I got in bed with a girl recently finally! My thing was I just focused on having fun and being humorous but be genuine, be you yeah? No intense talks about emotions until we build a good rapport, and remembering details about that person! People love when you ask them about them. Let it flow, don’t think if it as you selling yourself, get in a dance with them so to speak, slowly start stepping, then go in for the complicated moves, and take your time my friend!! Be your own best friend and advocate.
plss don't compare your life to them,we all have struggles,we never know even in relationships,they have many fights and frustrations
TH-cam knows me so well that it's kinda sad
pablo andres Acosta 😂😂😂 same boat
same
Bruh. Same.
Same
Tru
"Falling in love with dozens of people a day was a coping mechanism for not having anyone to love you in return"
Has got to be my favorite line. Love this.
Sue T. Ikr i related to that line so much ㅠㅠ
The more I get older, school was never really about education, it was about becoming socially sophisticated. I focused too much on the first and now I’m lost mentally
Wow this one hit hard
But still you are not alone
@@brendielahooha I feel like I can’t hold a regular conversation that’s after hey, if you know any thing that helps that sort of thing then I’m listening
Well well. If only I had someone tell me this before
damn that really got me thinking, same here
I don't even want love anymore, I just want a genuine friendship.
I am ur genuine friend lol
Same :(
Oh, I just want to get rid of my virginity already, I don't care about relationships or friendships.
exactly I just want one friend who makes me a priority...like someone who talks with many ,walks with many but will just think of me when asked about priority
I Can be your friend! Respond and I’ll give you my email…
"...was a coping mechanism for not being loved in return" So THATS why I crush so hard on so many strangers in a single week
baby i am daaaamn
Sameee
Omg me
May b mee too😛
SAME.
I´m a 23 year old hopeless romantic who has never had a boyfriend, nor a first kiss/ date ... and I felt like this video spoke to me, I loved it and couldn't help but cry
I'm 19 and the rest your comment said everything about me ...lol ..but it's sad
Your comment is literally about me but the only difference that I am 22 and I had a date but we have not kissed or something....Only we drank an orange juice lol
I’m a 24 year old guy with the same problem.
I’m a 30 year old guy with same problem
Hey.. I'm a fellow 23 year old girl too, this September. You're not alone!
This video itself feels like a warm hug that soothes the pain.
I think I spoilt myself a little too much with disney movies and rom-coms from my childhood until now..
TH-cam how did you know
HeyItsRin why this was on our recommended? 😁
RapChim 장미 hellooo =)
youtube is a stalker xD
Maybe cause i visited pornhub 5 minutes ago
That's exactly what I said as soon as I saw this on my feed.
I was 18 years old when I first watched this video. I really hoped I could make things change before I turned 20. I turned 20 recently and things are still the same... I pretty much missed out on everything you can miss out on in your teens.
Same :(
You're not alone same here
i watched this when i was 18 too and im turning 22 and i feel the same myself
I feel you
Igual yo, no puedo creer que nunca tuve un romance en la adolcecencia como todos, que tuvieron pareja antes de los 18.
im almost 25 and i have a feeling i'll keep coming back to this video for the rest of my life lmao
I’m almost 27, I feel your pain 😭
24! 😢
22 😅
21. Had a look at online dating. Never sent anything. I just feel like I will be moving too much whilst at uni. Also I'm very quiet and don't like drinking.
28 , a guy same condition. And sad part is our Indian parents don't understand and if they do they don't care
*crying virgin tears*
ARMY!!
ARMY'S will never be alone forever :D
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
For real though. 20 year old male virgin here!
Me too fam!
My biggest fear is the fact that every person I meet will know how to do all the relationship stuff while I can't even kiss
@I'm jungkook's dynamite milk U know I'm also 14 and I feel the same lol I want to fall in love life is so sad
@Claudiu 985 haaaa
@Claudiu 985 now, I recently grew up, I'm actually 25 now
@Claudiu 985 oh man happy birthday
28 kissless guy that's the main reason i stay away from family meetings cause its hurts so much you dont wanna know
4 years later I rewatch this video ...
I was 20, I'm 24 now and a lot has changed since but one thing didn't. I'm still single.
I'm happier now and much proud of myself, I love who I became even if everybody still points out how "bad" it is to be a 24yo girl who never had a bf, but guess what... I realized that every person their pace, some faster than others. Maybe I'm from the VERY slow side hahaha
Funny things is - who makes it bad? Us or someone else?
It’s one thing when we do not find it desirable but it’s debatable when it’s someone else...
Also I wanna know at what point what counts as slow as molasses
It’s harder when ur Muslim
We are in the same age, hope you always happy and healthy
I'm still 20 and haven't fall in love. Thank you for saying that. It makes me think that it's okay to be single lol. It's not that I don't want to fall in love. I still want to explore myself and everything else in the world. So having a partner is not on my mind yet.
26 year old guy and I've only had one girlfriend. We initially were very attracted to each other another physically. But in the end, it was an awful relationship that should have never happened, as I allowed her to use me to buy things for her because I was too loveless to myself and naive to know any better. We eventually broke up after like 2 months. Four years later, and I'm still single. But the feeling still hurts the same, and it feels as if I haven't grown at all.
I just turned 20 and I dont think its a coincidence that youtube recommended this to me.
Ishe Dulay I KNOW!!!!! It's creepy as hell!
Maria Gonzales 0--0 who knows probably youtube secretly stalks us
I'll be 20 soon, and right, I don't think it's a coincidence.
Ishe Dulay Same, I'll be 20 exactly in two months today wtf
Omg same it's been only a month for me
I'm 21, and it's kind of depressing how there's billions of people in the world and not one single soul really loves me enough to be in a relationship. Sometimes i get so fucking sad to think about how i can't have something special with someone, and that the love i'm willing to give is slowly fading cause there's no one around to take it
Same here, it’s so sad 😞. I’m trying very hard no to think of relationship so that I won’t feel depressed. But when I do that I know I’m gonna be doing it forever
Sad af life , they say get a job and love will eventually come. It’s complete BS , at job when you are stressed out, wouldn’t it be nice if you have someone to talk to and share your day. I’m out
Yeah. Your gift is slowly dying and you along with it.
San Angelo Central High School
I'm with you🥲
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 bro feel ya, what you have to do is believe, create your on fate, don't carry your past everywhere you go, let it go, if you were bad at girls, that is past, focus on now, do nice things for others and be happy bro!!!
See yall in 5 years when youtube recommends this again and I'm still single lol
See you in 20 years
Bold of you to assume TH-cam will be around in five years.
@@ajsouza3720 very bold indeed.
actually feels bad, seeing that I've already seen this video and liked it and here I am again lol
Leaving comment here so I can come back after 5 years.
Does anyone still comes back to this video and gets more depressed each year?
yes
me T__T
Every day
Even she found someone at the end but you're still single
🙃
😭
Hagh cough gahghg
well....
@@shreyakhanna1708 hahaha yeah right . when i was in highschool they used to call me freak. so i kinda feel sorry for the girl who is just right for me
my fbi agent knew i needed to see this
Literally what I thought to myself :'D
*nsa
@I'm done 😂
Franziska Vazquez somebody in the World will Love you so much it‘ll feel like you‘ve always been loved
Franziska Vazquez somebody in the World will Love you so much it‘ll feel like you‘ve always been loved
Roses are red
I have a phone
Nobody texts me
Forever alone
Hey mate, dont worry. You can send me a friend request on facebook and we
can have weekly chats. WHAT DO YOU SAY?
At least you can play the new Diablo immortal.
Congrats on the phone though
I know right? i´m so upset that they´d think i have a phone.... now i can´t even play diablo :( @@greetingstraveler7962
It’s ok I’ll talk to you. All I need is your credit card number, the expiration date, and the those three lonely numbers on the back. Don’t worry I’ll be there for you friend.
Its sad how we all know that love won't just come out of nowhere and, in reality, you won't just bump into your soul mate on the street and fall in love. I didn't think I would cry to this, yet an uncontrolled tear rolled down my cheek as I couldn't think of anyone worthy of my love, as they don't even know I exist. I really need a hug bros.
I feel you man, it's a weak time period for love all around.
I understand what you're saying but I don't wanna believe it. I really wanna believe if it's meant to be, it will happen. I don't want to believe that I will have nobody in my corner for forever. And I don't want you to give up too. Sending you lots of virtual hugs and love🖤
Estoy arto de los que dicen ya llegara la indicada carajo siempre dicen eso y no pasa nada me independice a los 19 compre ropa me duchaba segudo usaba perfume algo que no hacia antes y aun asi nadie se fija en mi asi que deje de hacerlo.
it's ovER
@@farzeen7475 cope, we will never find anyone, ITS OVER
*Falling in love with a dozen of people a day was a coping mechanism* this hit me hard 😭😭
The sad thing is: it isn’t actually real love :’(
Well, that would explain about myself
Same ):
@Lucy Coco I feel this on too many levels
I’m sick and tired of having crushes...
“Someone out there is wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you”
I don’t kid myself with that anymore
lmfao same
Riight? Tired of this bullshit
Right...no females ever watch me I feel like I failed as a man because I'm not attractive
ikr, that so bullcrap
@@dose869gad5 your worth and masculinity isn’t determined by a woman’s opinion even if it feels like it does. i promise.
Video title: For 20 y/o's...
Me, a 19 y/o: _It's free real estate_
Im 19 yo too (00 liner) but even before 2020 comes I was feeling like a 20 years old hopeless adult. Now I have months to be that useless trash
Jup!, same feel
sameee
@@zml8025 same same same
Yes!💰💰
“Don’t do this, don’t give me hope.” - A 24 Year Old Girl Who Comes Back To This Video Every Once in A While
1 year after watching this I am now 21 and still alone 😂 TH-cam recommending it again just to rub it in my face
Time is all it takes :)
lmfao same, when I first watched it a year ago I felt hopeful but now watching it again I just feel bitter af lmao
@@valenzine9423 just wait the right will come :)
I am 21 and I fear watching it again at 22
Victoria Dsunny Same and it's getting worse everytime I come back lol
Sometimes I be like 'I don't need anyone I'm good' but then night comes and I feel alone, in need of someone to hug me idk it's weird
Saaaaame!!!
It's just human being human, that's normal. We all crave love, we need love to survive
Same, but then when I had someone to hug, I couldn't get to sleep at all.
Go figure.
@@Ironmaniacs7 I never had anyone so I don't know 😅 but yeah that's possible
chimi w
For my personal experience (I know some people won't like this), my best comfort in anything I can go through, is my best friend, the one who will never let me : Jesus
Like, even if I love my girlfriend so much, she never know what is really happening in me, whereas He does
I don't know. Being single since birth, without ever experiencing someone say that he has a crush on me at least, got me so curious how it feels like to be appreciated. No matter how many times people around me say that I'll eventually find the one, still, I can't erase the thought that maybe I'm bound to be alone forever, or that I'm too ugly to be someone else's love interest.
And that thinking worn me out so much that what I am doing now is learning to love myself to the extent that I won't ever long for someone else to love me anymore.
Hey,how old r u?
That is so true. I feel the same way. I will be 20 this summer and have never had a boyfriend...not even close. I haven’t had a mutual crush with anyone, at least that I know of. On the bright side, I don’t know what it’s like to go through a breakup or see an ex boyfriend find someone else. I think it’s much easier to be alone since birth than it would be to have dated a lot in the past and then find yourself alone.
@@agees924 I understand you, feel the same way
@@dark_screed_5640 23
@@agees924 I agree. Each time I get sad, I just think to myself that maybe, being alone at the moment is better cause I got spared from heartaches
Ignore the BS advice to wait for the perfect person and "you'll find someone" - absolute crap. It won't automatically happen. We must take personal responsibility and put ourselves out there consistently, get rejected, learn, improve and then things will work out.
The most sober advice I've seen in this comment section
True, but even then some people will still fail. And atleast for me when that time should come, i wont have any regrets because knowing i tried my Best will put me at ease.
@@marceldavisss1815 exactly
And even then we still fail
Yea if you fail at least you have some piece of mind knowing you put your best foot forward
omg the falling in love on public transit I RELATE this was really creative - great work girl!!
hahah thanks! that's like me every day XD just checking out people on the subway
Me too, I thought it was weird. Sometimes I don't even want to look at people (when I see a very handsome guy) I don't want my head to imagine things.
same haha
IKRR sometimes i'll just see a cute guy and get all shy but then one of us just walks the other way and i never see him again :(
My parents bumped into each other in the bus. My father stalked my mom for months, tried to get her attention everyday. Now they are married for 22 years, they have two children and one dog. And they are pretty pleased with their small happily ever after
"Fell in love with everybody" MAN THAT'S MY ENTIRE LIFE
Yeah. Me too.
@@MiracleAstonvilla Like everytime someone is nice to me or cute.
@@dvbgnn4379 different places, different people and same situation .
@@MiracleAstonvilla Yep.I think I'm too single and alone to live lmao.
I relate to that so badly. I crush on every 2nd guy I meet but get over them after around a day, maybe to make room in my mind for new ones. And I'm disgusted by it. I'm literally a crush slut. But I can't help it. At least now I know the reason for that, and that it'll probably change the day I'll finally find requited love ^-^
As a 20-year-old who this was recommended to, I feel personally attacked
the disrespect
I was just depressing over this situation and youtube litteraly gave me the middle finger
Ok bu same...
Same, I was minding my own business. What the hell, TH-cam?
Sameee
Same....
For me, the hardest part of being 20 and single probably is all of my friends forgetting about me after finding love. I knew that when people fall in love they often start paying less attention to their friends but I wasn't mentally prepared for how harsh it would actually be. Friends that I used to hang out with a lot now barely keep any contant with me. It's weird and sad how people are ready to ditch a long-term friendship for someone they met just a few months ago. I've never had anyone being interested in me and I have zero romantic experience. I don't see myself as a person anyone would fall for in the first place. I've even thought about paying for sex or cuddling etc. so that I could experience it at least once in my life. Some people are fine with being "single forever" but I long for love and affection. It's kind of comforting to read about other people's similar experiences.
I feel exactly the same way, my friends grew distance & ditched me too after getting gfs. Brutal world
@@kosta5706 I must have a fucking awesome friend then, cause he didn't abandoned me after getting a gf.
brutal, its truly over my dude
I was friend with one girl for 11 years... Yep, since elementary school... She ditched me for her bf :))
@@samanthasamsimpson7201 When you guys say "they ditched" me, do you mean that they stopped talking with you at all? Like, they broke up with you?
Last time I was someone's type was when i donated my blood
And I can't even do that coz I'm anemic😶
😂😂😂😂
**insert cry-laughing emoji**
bruh
and I can't even do that due to health issues in the past. oof
How the hell does TH-cam know I'm single
Jams N'butters Youre always here
Maybe because of a crying meme as your profile picture
samee
i really want a boyfriend but suddenly this video pop up on my youtube😂
Jams N'butters tbh
I'm 20, never been kissed and never dated. Sure, I had 3 am convos, been pursued once but that's it. My friends will talk about past relationships and I'll just keep my mouth shut.
Right now I'm at the point of my life where I have stopped wondering what's its like to be in a relationship. I have successfully convinced myself that I do not need one to be fulfilled and happy.
I'm in a very similar situation! When everyone is talking about their relationships, I'm like quietly disappointed and sad but I'm kind of accepting it as well. So you are not alone!
River Liz *high five!* OR friends will ask me about my opinion and I'd give them the most rational answer (like "leave him. you dont deserve that kind of toxic relationship") and they're like, "No. You dont understand. Why dont you try to be in a relationship?" Well... point taken. Only if I can just buy a relationship. Jk haha I'm just thinking, probably I'm not that attractive enough to be asked out or what but oh well, it's not the end of the world.
Faith Gabriel Omg I know that so well! That a lot of people are like don't you want a relationship? But I think it just has to happen and if I look after one it wouldn't work.
I also have the feeling that the things I like, for example playing the ukulele or writing poems and short storys aren't that interesting for many people.
But it isn't the end of the world, I'm okay with being single. I know it sound kind of stupid, but sometimes I think that creativity is like my boyfriend.
River Liz Nope you're totally wrong about one point. You have really awesome talents! And I do appreciate them ( btw I have the same interests too :D). Anywayz let's just live our lives to the fullest. If love comes, then it comes. No expectations, no pressure, no frustrations.
Still single?
I’ve been “loved” but normally only for shallow reasons. Either for someone to use me to get over their ex, or for my money and status.
I deeply want a love that I can call my own. That I can pour into someone and they’d appreciate and see all the effort I put in.
I hope to meet them soon. Maybe I already have. I want to make someone happy. Someone smile. Be kind and virtuous. Help them be their best selves.
If you’re reading this don’t give up the love in your heart. It’s part of what makes being alive wonderful.
Im 20 years old and never had a boyfriend, youtube knows me so well
Same 😳
I dont know if im wrong, but i think that girls definitily have more chances of getting in a relationship than man; Thats beacuse guys aproach women, but most of the women dont aproach men, so in the end being a shy man is the worst thing. That means sooner or later you are going to get along with someone.
Same lmao
I’m already 21 and still single 🤣 . I didn’t know how I got to this videos!
Welcome to the squad
Don't do that. Don't give me hope.
Ronin.
This comment is both sad and hilarious.
@@mementomori5388 Why hilarious?
@@peacemekka yeah, dont gimme hope (stare desperatefully)
I don't think I'll ever find someone. I do believe in soulmates but I just have this feeling that I'm never gonna meet mine.
It’s safe to say that TH-cam knows me so well they put this in my recommendation list........
Juberiya Abdi
Lmao
me too, I wasn't even looking for any of this!
Juberiya Abdi same
same LMAO
Dude ikr 😂😂
I feel it's not true for some people. For people like us, we have to accept that no one is going to love you back ever. We are gonna end up alone, and that's the hard truth. Being unloved is one of the most depressing feeling for sure
Yep unfortunately some people genuinely never find love
@@iminlove1148"It's gotta be me"
You won't be sure about that till you live your life and try to connect to people when you have the chance.
@@iminlove1148 yes mannnn...I am 18 and I see each of my friend getting in and out of relationship but here I am not able to find a single one
The whole falling in love with random strangers thing is so true for me. I always wondered if anyone else did that and I'm glad to know I'm not alone. It does suck tho bc after that brief encounter, you can't stop thinking about that person and it drives you crazy throughout the day.
AshDani It absolutely happens with me!!
Yea its true..
Exactly! That thing hits the bullseye😂
Happens to me as well it's pretty fucking obnoxious trying to get over the hump of knowing they dont give a damn which makes sense honestly
falling in love is a strong way to put it though
"Please don't do that, don't give me hope"
-Clint Barton.
Why was this in recommendations?? What is TH-cam trying to say?? I feel attacked
SSS Bri from the comments section in this video, i concluded that all ARMYS are single, and even youtube recommended this vid for us!!
Omg my whole recommendations was bts then this popped up. WTF is youtube trying to say😂😂😂
Sara Akhrouf ikrrr
SSS Bri same 😣😂
ARE YOU JUNGSHOOKED?
This is the most relatable thing ever. I’m 18, never been in a relationship and feel so deprived of love. I’m literally desperate. I see a good looking guy and I imagine what being in a relationship with him would be like
Can you imagine being a good looking guy with the same problem ? I mean I know my personality wouldnt be a match for everyone, but being 26 and never having anything reciprocated feels like life is telling me I am somehow worth less than most people I know.
@@michalthekind Not really. I found someone at 25.
I dont even want a romantic relationship, i just want someone that has the same excitment as me and urge to talk a lot like long conversations
I couldn't agree more...
same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lately I have stopped watching most of the movies, because they always show people falling in love so easily and deeply. When I see those things I get at the same time both depressed and frustrated, because I say to myself" it cannot be that easy to fall in love and succeed like that".
We need MGTOW movies.
That's a narrative trick. Nobody wants to spend 5 extra hours chronicling 3 months of dating.
And seriously, serious relationships take work, a giving-heart, and so many other things. Why don’t we teach that in our movies?
“Are you really that ugly? That unwanted? That uninteresting? That boring?”
These are the questions on my mind right now 😞
Same
By looking at your profile pic u seemed like an attractive one, you'll find someone someday.. If its not you then ok my bad
Actually I am
If someone is as good looking as you still have those question pop up in your head, then i'm doomed
@Aaron Salamante you really are not. It’s the voice in our heads that tries to makes us feel miserable and hopeless. Everyone goes through that in their lives. Try not to take serious that thoughts. You really are precious.
I remember watching it when I was 18, now I'm 23 and this vid is still relatable 🥲
Samee 🥹🥹
Same
Same here 😔
Sameee lol
same
The comment section is more depressing than my upcoming exams
Hahhaha lmao 😂😂😂 btw good luck ❤ you'll make it!☺
Gratings from library at 3 am. I feel you bro
ooomph
While I'm here waiting for my big exam results
@@ms.violet7930 me too!! First year of university, probably gonna fail 2 out of 3 theory exams lmao
It hurts how much I relate to this. I'm 20 and nobody has ever even crushed on me. Never been on a date, never been kissed. Growing up you tend to question how easy it is for everyone else, or rather how hard it is for you to find someone. I'm thankful that I'm such an independent person, and I know when I meet someone, they will mean something.
lol same and im ugly
Dang girl don't say that!!
21 year old and in the same boat. The closest i ever got was a long distance relationship with a girl from America, but that only lasted until she found someone else closer to her. Maybe i'll find someone, maybe i won't. Atleast it helps to know that i'm not the only one
You're def not the only one. tbh I don't think I've met someone like me (never kissed etc etc) but I've met people that haven't been in a relationship since middle school, and they don't count those relationships because they weren't considered real to them. I feel like it's just hard for people to really connect now.
I haven't really met anyone who haven't been in a relationship. Even my clostest friend who is a lot like me and has openly stated many times that he's not interested in relationships still managed to have a girlfriend for a couple of months. It's hard to tell if it's harder for people to connect these days in general, or if it's just harder for someone as shy, introverted and not-goodlooking like me. And even then, i still see other people just as introverted and average looking as me somehow land a relationship and me still having no luck. It's discouraging to say the least
I'm pretty much settled on the idea that no matter what, I'm only going to be friends with the people I meet.
SAME 😂😂
stfu girls will people will love you i know so many people who are willing to fall in love
I don't even have friends :)
atleast u got friends. in my highschool days they used to call me loner wolf .
Me 2
It would be nice to meet someone who's in the same situation, but as the years pass by, the less likely it seems to happen. And that's just so depressing..And I'm tired of people saying "Love yourself first, just learn to be happy on your own". Yeah, that's what I've been trying to do for way too long and it's just not the same as having someone to share your moments with.
Exactly!
Couldn´t be more true
Facts
absolutely brutal, ITS OVERRR
Be patient sis and if nothing is really working maybe you need a little help finding someone or need to make a few changes idk your situation but i know for me i can start by being more approachable and taking better care of myself. There's no point in me buying takeout all the time, gaming ,not showering or going out and just staying at home yet expecting myself to find a man when I "feel" like it. Not taking care of myself and adhering to my responsibilities and values automatically isn't going to make me feel ready for marriage or even consider it so that's why it's those steps for me. Also I've always been a little shy, especially towards the opposite sex so that's why I need to work more on my communication and social skills. Even my childhood and limiting beliefs that I need to let go of but yeah we really just all need to take some steps to cut out the bad habits and learn to put our foot down and start doing what we know we gotta do. Like I'm sure we all know that we have to pray, or shower, or dress presentably, be a warm and kind person,, get good grades or earn money doing a job, etc. Ofc we won't always feel like doing these things but allowing yourself to fall into a hopeless downward spiral because you just continuously choose to procrastinate is so damaging not only to your physical health but your mental as well. Anyways this was a lot for me to type but if anyone can relate please know you're not alone and always keep trying to learn from your mistakes and strive to do better
Why fall in love when you can fall asleep
Big facts
Faxxx
Lol you remind me of my friend
Can't agree more totemgamon XD
I fall in love in my sleep...
"For you, falling in love with dozens of people a day..." That's so me 😂. The cashier, sometimes people at work, on the bus... What is wrong with me?! 😂😂
SY Territory it scared me for so long.... but reading these comments here I feel better 😅
Omg finally I found people who can relate to me, Espically since Im bisexual I legit fall in love with dozens of girls and guys a day. I tought I'm weird but reading these comments and knowing I'm not alone finally made me feel better.
I hope that when we finally find that someone we don't think it's just 'the usual' falling in love routine we do everyday 😂😂😅
me everyday. hahaha
That’s not love, then lol. That’s fleeting attraction.
The last time I'm watching this was 2 years ago, I was 17 at that time. I thought "Would I have a boyfriend before I turn 20?" And then in 2020, youtube recommend me this, and this year I'm gonna turn 20, and still single. Never in loved for the past 2 decades. Idk if youtube would recommend me this video again before I turn 30 lmao I wish when youtube recommend me this video again, I would have a boyfriend or someone who love me the way I am...
Edit : it's freaking 16th of december 2023 that means I'm 23 now in college and STILL no signs I'm gonna be in a relationship soon lmao I've talked to some guys, thinking that I will end this journey soon but god say "nah ah, not today" 😂 I hope you guys in this reply already found your other half now, stay healthy guys 💜
Rizma's Frappe I relate to this so much
Good luck
I send you luck 🍀
Can relate
Best of luck to you and take it easy
I’m 22 now. Still single and not been in love ever before . I’m normally fine with not dating but there’s sometime that it just hit you so hard; that you don’t have that special person to share moments with. I’ll come back every year. Let’s see where life goes
Are you a girl? BTW I am a 22 year old guy so same age as you and never had a girlfriend and if you are a female then I am sure you are a very beautiful girl and I bet I would have got a crush on you if we were in the same college or something. Here is one virtual hug for you just to make you smile. Hugggggs. Do you know what makes a girl cuter? Its her sweetness. I honestly feel a girl is too cute if she is a very sweet person but I might pinch her cheeks gently and softly a lot if I find her too cute hehe.
@@manosijroy8282 I have seen your comment before. Life is tough bro. I’m 24 and forever single 😅
I've actually given up on both dating & relationships since the last guy I dated never wanted a relationship & just dated me. And this trope seems to be super popular with Gen-Z now
I watched this at 17 thinking "Meh, I still have time. Can't relate." I am now 21 sitting here shocked at how accurate this is. Esp the "falling in love w/ strangers" bit. Lol
I feel you.. I saw this when I was 17 years old and I don't even care about this but I'm 21 now i feel so sad 😭
Been like you since 17 too. I'm 26 now. I'm SURE you will do better than me.
I’m 17 rn watching it😭
I’m 26 and now I’ve given up .. before I know it 4 years will of passed and I’ll be 30 and alone
I'm 17 rn I've already accepted my sad single life.
Y’all ever hate going on social media cause you see couples happy and wonder why you could never have that?...
JeremyS You just inspired me to unfollow people that make me jealous. Thanks
Because I am very ugly, ugly to the core
Yes
I never really fee jealous. I just feel saddened and crushed and wish I could get the same too.
But some of those bitches are always sharing them boyfriend like they had nothing to do with them life. Like them only achievement in life was finding a partner. Im single but not a garbage
Why don't all of us just find a pair in the comments section?! 😂
Great idea 😂
So far the greatest idea of this decade
everyone here knows that won't happen. And even if everyone did that, it'd be a wonder if it was a good match
Well I'm single
@@drogenfeld bruh this is a joke 😂
watching this at 17 and joking: haha that would be me
watching this at 20 and still single: 😐😐
Same here. I'm about to be 22 next month.
There's people who've had plenty of french kisses and plenty of sex even yet have never been loved.It's a tricky thing
Absolutely true
Just because people have sex doesn’t mean it’s real love.
Yess it's ok to be alone.
I've had too much sex, almost all kinds of it, but believe me, it's nothing, you still feel empty and hungry, because your soul hasn't found that only one person for you. I'm abstaining from sex now, and nofap too. Feeling a lot better.
Atleast they have some sort of contact
*Waits for the One*
*Dies*
HERPY DERPEDY there is no the one be cautious n try dating idk u make ur fate. N choose the person. Its rarely to find the one ur lucky if u meet it.
Lmao so dramatic
HERPY DERPEDY me
The person is you
LOL great comment I just cracked up xD
I'm too terrified of relationships to even try. I've never fallen in love, dated, or anything. I'll be 28 this year. I've basically given up and I want to focus more on myself but the loneliness burns my soul sometimes.
MezzoForte4 why does the idea of a relationship scare you.
Frickenrock
Nearly everything I know about relationships is from friends and family and that it doesn't last, it's abusive and there's no love, just tolerance. I know better than to gauge it from other people's experiences but it's what I've witnessed for most of my life. Why should I take a chance and get hurt or worse to see if I can find someone?
I'd rather be pained with loneliness than be hurt by someone else, toying with my heart and leaving it worse than how I started.
MezzoForte4 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Try!
Omgg i feel u~ dont be sad. Ur not alone.🤗
Mycroft Holmes u not gonna die of rejection and you prob never gonna meet the person again (if its a stranger). Better try than regret
21 year old nursing student. What scared me more than dying alone is ending up with someone who settled for me because I'm the last available option.
Real
Bold of you to assume that i go outside
Lol funny that true
Yes. So online bf.
"Are you really that ugly?
That unwanted?
That uninteresting?
That boring??"
Oohhh..I never felt attacked like this one. This is totally my normal train of thoughts.
STOPPP I'M SAD NOW... I know for me my standards are very high, I don't settle 😂 It's not us, it's just that better is in store for us. We need to learn to appreciate other things in life...
I just got reminded...
It's funny that this is just 2 months ago.Tomorrow I'm turning 21, I'm proud to say that I'm now in the progress of loving myself more. Sometimes i still have those thoughts, but now I can remind myself that those are untrue and brought only by my emotions. And that there is a long list of people who accepted and love me.
For the days that I can't feel their love, I still have the most important person to love me who will never leave me, which is MYSELF.
My psychologist diagnosed me with antisocial personality disorder, with sociopathic tendencies, so that it's impossible for me to make friends. I don't even know what people mean by words like 'sad', 'happy', or 'love', because of my disorder. It also makes me violent, so if I have any emotions at all it's usually just violent anger. I smashed a wine bottle over a girls head because she said I was "beautiful but crazy".
@@veronicataylor8430 wow that's bad.
But life if not fair anyway we have to through .
Nice profile tho..👍
My other half, where are you?
Himanshu Nawalkar “wya tho”
In Antarctica
You don't need another half. You are a complete heart, a complete soul, a complete person all on your own ☺️
@@caitlin2649 Yeah, that's cool and we get it... but being loved by other person and have sex is very important too xD
Caitlin thank you for that!
First part is relatable, last part I just tell myself "No, it won't happen. EVER."
Chin xong xing xiao xong
As stupid as this is, I feel so much better upon finding this video and reading the comments. I knew I couldn't be the ONLY person who felt this way/was in this position, but to know so MANY of you can relate makes me feel a million times better. All of you deserve love and happiness in life :)
Kimberly Hobson you deserve love and happiness too :)
AFAVWVQUSHSBAB I'M SCREAMING. I seriously thought IT'S ONLY ME. but when I watch the video and read the comments section,, there are actually people who are just like me...
The video tho... it's just too accurate.... I fall in love temporarily with dozens of people even with strangers!! Like what the heck!!!
Well.. a lot of us saw ourselves in that video.
Kimberly Hobson i relate 100 % you deserve it as well
😭😘😘😘😘
"Someone in the world is wondering what it's like to meet someone like you"
And other hilarious jokes you can tell yourself
youtube person no
stop breaking my hope now xD
@youtube person I had someone before.. but it's meaningless when you realize love doesn't exist. I have my noose. It's an extension cord with visegrip pliers. Because I live in my car and don't have a place to hang. I have tried a few times, But I have a hard time getting past no breathing. I wish I could afford the max dog brewing suicide kit. I hate hurting, and I know it's only going to get worse. I want out.
@@fluffyfeather39 sometimes, that's the only way to stop the pain.
@@yourallbrainwashed 🙁 are you ok this pass few weeks
" Dont worry you"ll find someone someday "
Said every individual i met the last 20 years ☺
Relatable
... feel you
Same
I know right. It’s the worst thing anyone can say to a single person.
Right, it's like washing a burn with hot water
"Love is overrated, I don't need anyone, I'm happy to be alone. Single life is the best life"
-This is me when I lie to convince myself.
Edit: I wrote this comment 10 months ago & now I think finding a purpose in life is more important than finding a partner. I've given up. I don't even know if I am capable of loving anyone.
brutal, we're all going to suffer through life and die alone, its OVER
Used to be me until I did hit a date💀 tho he dumped me 2 months later, I'm thankfully moving on & doing a bit better but yeah you'll find someone, you just have to try out new things tho.
That's me too
Same
But you can fill this void with something other than love
Video: someone is wondering what it’s like to meet someone like you
Me: *doubt*
Everybody: doubt
Meet someone like me? Depressed, jobless, virgin, introvert, negative, pessimist, nihilist, no energy, only eat sleep and play video games or watch stupid video, skinny, short
You sure someone wants this? I don't even want myself
@@HeyMomonia fucking same man
heymomonia One Damn man, just summed up my existence in a sentence.
the43rdGuru X
The hard reality is that some people will never meet love and will die alone...
That's a reality I've learned to accept :)
@crawlingrainbow GAWD SAME!! I am proud of my genes but it's not helping. 23 but I look and sound like a 14 year old and the only people who give me the second look are just a bunch of creepy old men.
@@wildbloodyrose9311 on that with you. Turning 20 this year, still asked if I'm even 16 yet. I have a round baby face and that ain't helping lol
Same
Wild Bloody Rose There is a SIGNIFICANT difference in your case. Most men are attracted to women with child-like faces. You are thinking of it as a pedo thing but that's not the case. Apparently it has been scientifically proven. Personally as a 22 year old man. I've never looked at a woman and liked her because she "looks KIND OF childish". But that's not the case for most men.
Mom: I wanna meet your boyfriend
Me: Me too Mom, me too...
😔😧
🤣🤣🤣
If you are like +- 18 and live near the Netherlands, hmu
I hope someday i will return to this video after finding love. Wish me luck folks
I'm tired of being the ugly one ,the unwanted one.......the one who's always losing
No stop saying that. You are not ugly. God has plans for you. But it will take time. You just have to be patient. When you don't want something you actually get that thing. Just wait more. Love yourself please. If you don't love yourself you can't love others.
Baby steps okay? Start loving yourself from today. But remember I love you. I truly love you
Liar Mask don't worry I'm ugly too never have I ever being liked by a girl or anyone.
Do nofap my dude
You are not ugly, actually, I believe that no one is ugly. I've been in your place and still am you feel like your ugly and you don't have anything to be proud of and literally nothing to enjoy. I feel this every day but I'm realizing that nothing can help me if I'm not willing to help myself. I mean how can I expect love and acceptance from other people when I don't even love myself. I know all are just old stuff that everyone says it but it is true we don't want to believe it, I don't want to believe it, because not believing it, is much easier than believing it. I'm not like others saying that you will find a one or God has a plan because no matter what everybody tells you if you don't have a plan for yourself or you only think negative nothing is going to happen. I felt lonely and unwanted for the last four years of my life and I'm still feeling it and it feels terrible, these feelings just consume you from inside you have to stop them I'm trying and I know it is hard but nothing is easy in this life :D. You just have to move forward and believe in yourself even if others don't believe you. The only thing that matters is that you believe yourself if you do others gonna believe you too.
You can do this don't give up
Over time, perception will change - and accordingly, things will eventually play out differently than what you are used to.
Your actions, your passions, your social skills and even your smile - are playing a much bigger role than sheer looks. Sounds cheesy, but that's just how it is.
Why is TH-cam recommending me this? Are they trynna tell me some. Wtf
o.o!
Saaaaame
same bro idk ........
They know about us
TH-cam is a member of Illuminate
CONFIRMED!!!
I'm 23. And I finally met someone this year. He's 22. He's my first relationship, and I'm his first too. We became best friends before getting into a relationship and we trust each other completely. We're really really similar, and like a lot of the same stuff so it's always easy to spend time together. And I'm happy I've waited for someone worth waiting for. :) Because I feel like I could spend my whole life with him. So it's worth waiting for that special someone. Don't rush into relationships you're not sure about. Just wait for the right one.
Mia P I'm happy for you.
Mia P congratulations and the best of luck to both of you, I hope it all works out!!
Mia P Im so happy for you! Good luck💕
I am so happy for you. Hope you guys stay happy.
aw, cute! Especially cuz y'all were best friends 😊
I saw this video for the first time when I was 15, five years ago. Every year since then I have watched it on my birthday. Today I turn 20 years old, and have never been loved. Here's hoping for next year.
Lonely girls with K-Pop idol avatars and lonely boys with cute anime girl avatars is the same
D Kh me af 😂 I'm 23 😂🤣🤣✌
The kpop/anime virgins squad 😆
D Kh kpop pfp girls and anime pfp boys need to start mingling with each other.
D Kh Why is this accurate omg 😂
Lool xdd
Why is TH-cam personally atacking me?
You need a hug.
@@noonebossesthegarnet2890 24y/o already.
what do you think?
Don’t worry, you’ll be okay. ^^
@moist faucet i'm into migtow (men involuntarily going their own way)
True
Imagine if all people in comment section had a big meeting, some would find their love there😳
True
Yaa agreed
Wow..
I often think about that O_Q
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