What Is your Horror Story About Terrible Parents?
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some people are not worthy of raising another human life
Facts
Yo that's my fear,im 15 an cant wait to have a family when im older,its not like id abuse them of stuff like that.i just wanna be able to give my kid the best life
Jm 115 periodt
Some people don't deserve to live
If only that could be put into law, but oh no “bodily autonomy”
"E for Illiterate" - I'm dying 🤣
J is Scoobysmom funny
For people saying call CPS
I know first hand that CPS or any services similar to that will not help and might ignore it, through out the case work and might even make the situation worse.
This is sadly true. Social workers are so overwhelmed with cases and inquiries, that they have to prioritize who they are able to help. A lot of kids/families that need help don’t get it, because their situation isn’t bad enough. CPS is incredibly underfunded, as are social programs that help support vulnerable kids/families.
You also need a lot of info about a family to report them...
BETTER TO TRY THAN TO DO JACK SHIT.
@@kgirl1992 depends where. We reported dog abuse, and they sent out cps too. Both were definitely needed
Plus it's also worth mentioning that sometimes the kid won't say that they're being abused out of fear that their abuser will kill them or something, so without that CPS literally can't do anything.
Source: Basically what happened with my mom and her abusive step-dad whenever her school called CPS because she would often show up to school with bruises and whatnot.
A grandpa turned himself into a pickle to get out of family counseling
Pickle Rick!
Funniest shit i have ever seen
Yea, but I heard he only did that because he wanted to see if it was possible... not because he was passive aggressively avoiding responsibilities
Lol, not better than this guy who turned into a rat for like, 20 years to escape his friend
IM PICKLE RICK
One day when I was like 1 or 2 years old I was left alone with my dad as my mom got off to work early in the morning.
My dad didn't do shit. He just fell asleep. He never changed my diaper and I legit stood infront of the main entrance to the apartment for 5 or 6 hours, crying, with a full diaper. My dad woke up, still didn't do shit, he called my mom though, she came home and she saw me, she yelled at him and slapped him and took me with her to her place of work at the dentist.
He was never meant to be a parent(obviously).
I feel sorry for you
How did you remember that?
@@thenorthwillow1536 He was probably told later.
OH BOO SPARE ME YOUR LIFE STORY WHEN I WAS TWO YEARS OLD I GOT BACTERIAL MENINGITIS AND ALMOST DIED SO I’M STUCK WITH BRAIN DAMAGE EPILEPSY AND PTSD OH YEAH I WAS ALSO. ABUSED SO I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR ANYONE
@@williekupfer6932 That’s sad and all but you don’t have to be all rude, yes your life story is more horrible compared to the other story teller but you don’t have to “Scream” and I’m saying “Scream” because it’s like your saying that because your doing all caps, but seriously you don’t dint have to “Scream” that your life story is more bad than others. Well actually you could but they didn’t do anything wrong they just wanted to tell a story that’s all.
I've said it once, and I'll say it again. Some people shouldn't have kids.
My dad apparently shouldn't have kids but he had plenty of us
@@justiceforjohnnydepp750 Your username and profile pic makes this comment. :3.
and some of the kids hear relly dont deserve parents but most do
@@timohara7717 As a 14 year old, I can confirm 😂
8:49
"Dad feeds daughter like a dog"
No, my friend has two dogs and he at the very least holds up food scraps for them until they grab it with their teeth and take it
More like dad feeds daughter like a seagull.
Some people shouldn’t be parents.
Dad feeds daughter like an animal that he thinks will bite him and he's trying to trap it it to kill and eat ....
True and dog food is at least given in a bowl
my dog knows how to eat from a fork
Hell, even my cat at least has a plate to eat from
4:20 NO no no no no. You should in no way shape or form be approving of a parent scolding or telling their child to not feel pain or be hurt. This wasn't a toddler who was crying because they fell down and were fully ok it was a kid hit and knocked onto the ground by a bicycle he has every right to cry and feel hurt. It's not ok and it will lead to the kid never telling anyone if he's hurt and just suppressing it.
Honestly, some kids cry when barely hurt and sometimes not at all. At least for me, I was a sturdy kid and had stuff like this happen. ( ankle got trapped in bike spokes when I was on the back going fast, didn't cry ) and I think as long as the mom communicates with the kid, it's fine.
Jasper
I feel like maybe the mother has done way worse than scolding the child when he does something wrong. He was about to start crying after being hit by a bicycle, but with a few words his mother could petrify him to the point that he would hold it in. Why would the kid react that way if not afraid of what his mother might do to him if he didn’t?
Suzied 2019 That's china for you.
My parents did that to me and my siblings all the time.
Princess Marlena doesn’t make it okay?
That last one was so wholesome. Amazing parenting and willingness to grow and try something new. Respect
Long ago I was in junior high and the school started busing. I live two blocks away and the kids on the bus drove 25 minutes just to be let out. It suck for them, anyway I had to walk pass the buses everyday to get home. One day I was jumped by someone I never met. And my glasses were thrown across the sidewalk somewhere. So the fight started, I really don't know what happen as I don't remember the fight as I've been told 8 more people jump in to stomp me until I didn't move. I came to in the hallway by the Principal office, School call my mother and she passed me 3 times looking for me. I know I didn't look like myself as I was pretty messed up. She took me home after she screams up a storm and she guided me to my bed room. She ask me about the fight and wanted to know if I fought back. Told her I didn't remember the fight at all. So she took that as I didn't fight back at all. So she took a metal broom and beat me for the next 15 minutes. Near the end I didn't protect myself at all just took the blows. I never talk to my mother for over a year. She found out from friends that I put up a good fight but had too many blows to the head to remember them. That was the worst day of my life an I've never trusted anyone again.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope everything turned out ok after that
@@haylestormable sorry to say but that's something that sticks to you
@@1anglen1 I understand
The "ghetto mom" story reminds me of something my mom told me her sister, my (rich, white) aunt did with my cousin. Namely, left her in the Ikea childcare while she got lunch with a friend. Not in the Ikea cafeteria, mind. She'd drop my cousin off and then leave Ikea to go meet her friends for lunch. This was before cellphones, so it was like 3-4 hours later before one time the Ikea staff figured out what was up and banned her from the store.
In the 2000s the Orange County FL public library locations had to admonish a few parents who would drop off small kids, toddlers at kids areas then expect the staff to watch them! 1 worker told me he'd be pissed at these jerks.
This just makes me think of my cousins kid, he's nearly 3 and mostly only drinks coke. She let's him because he refuses to eat normaly and would otherwise be underweight. Most of his existing teeth are rotten.
That is so sad! Especially for his teeth but Lucky they are only baby teeth.
Funny thing about kids is they will never ever starve themselves to death. I hate people like that. They get hungry ebpugh and they will eat the healthy stuff but part of child psychology is them pushing. You just have to stand your ground. FRS sorry for that kid.
When I was 10, my dad started allowing me to drink coke. But only 1 or 2 per day and not late at night or really early. That was reasonable. What your cousin is doing is not.
@@0mfgeeze Yeah, no. A kid with texture issues or a sensory based eating disorder will absolutely starve because they're unable to eat triggering foods. But that's beyond picky eating, which you definitely shouldn't give up, but you should try to find healthy foods your kid will eat rather than forcing them to eat foods they refuse. You don't choose to eat foods you don't like either. 😊
@@juliefarrell6688
Yeah, because no one wants a kid hyped up on soda at 1:00am running around like a headless chicken on cocaine.
Yes, yelling at kids is sooooooooo effective. They either freeze in a panic (and tune you out), get angry (and tune you out), or just blank out (and tune you out. Yep, I got it the first time in the first 30 seconds parental unit and after that I would just tune out.
I have noticed that when i get frustrated trying to get through to my 5yo, if i kneel down to his level and speak softly to him while making eye contact, he starts to get it.
@@dehydratedwatr This is why Mr. Rogers had such an effect on kids. *He realized, and knew, and acted properly.* It's not hard.
My mom didn’t understand why I would wince when she yelled (rarely even at me). I have sensory issues with touch and sound, anything loud causes serious pain… and most touch registers as mild pain.
yea but what else or you supposed to do? ignore them? every other thing has a highre chancwe od being abusive
@@darkstarr984 did she know or did she ignore you
Had I seen that one where the father threw fries onto the lawn I would have either called the police or clocked him as hard as I could with an elbow.
That's exactly what my father did when he saw a couple beating their two children senseless in the middle of the street. He ran over to them, sent both parents flying (guess the mother broke her nose and the father lost some teeth) and then proceeded to call the police. I was just 12 at the time, but I still think they deserved it.
LeCielIndigo about time they get hurt in the middle of the road rather than their kids
My dad seems to forget that i am a human being as well, and he constantly -expects- forces me to hang out with him. Also, when I told I thought I had adhd, he made fun of me. I asked him not to and he said he was fully justified to because he has adhd. I cant wait for my mom to get full custody
I was raised by a dad like some of these stories. It's ruined a good part of my life so far, but I'm still hoping I can undo at least some of the damage and effects.
I know you can do it! :-)
Mine was too, except he always tried to hide it.
kinda sexist if you ask me
I watch this crap to scare myself into being a good parent when the time comes. So I know what makes kids turn out bitchy and how to respond when a kid says he likes playing with dolls.
AWESOME! :D Good for you! :-) I'm doing the same thing, myself!
This hurts me so much. My daughter was just born and I sit there looking at her wondering how someone can mistreat such blessings, like as a parent you should feel a great love for your own children. If you don't then you're not human.
Why wouldn’t the manager call the police....like ok
I think that would be getting involved!!
Guess some people just get their kicks stomping on a dream.
Yes, espishaly parents
Justice Martinez especially*
I genuinely can’t believe 4:15 got praised, that kid could’ve got a concussion but hey, he may grow up to be tough right. WTF
Sonny Fox EXACTLY. Like “nah, you could be severely injured but I don’t care ehehhehe
I remember trying to study for my GCSEs. Kind of a difficult feat in of itself because my alcoholic single mother was the type of parent who wouldn't bother to help their kid with homework because they didn't understand or that your child should just do it by themselves, drunk or not. Anyway, she goes out drunk off her head and hooks up with some dude while 14 year old me was left to make dinner. This went on for just over a year, I was being shunted around different relatives and eventually the bf was done for beating up my mum. Mum went into rehab when I was 17 but still has on and off relapses. Current recovery record is a year so far. Being brought up with an emotionally neglectful, abusive and irresponsible hippie alcoholic is a lot of fun. Also, I'm the shy, obedient, sensible, asexual nerd who was always the "good, smart kid." Who still gets yelled at for not being like so-and-so's daughter who has a house and a car and a husband and kids who went on a gap year and had a PHD while yours truly has never had a stable career for longer than a year, failed my exams, stayed on until 18 and still am a failure and still lives at home in her 30s. Fun.
The worst part about this questioning that these are stories of things witnessed by others, I can imagine how worse it is when they have no witnesses
A mom broke her 1 year old's leg and didn't take her to the hospital until 2 weeks later.
HOW?
My dad didn't take my brother to the hospital when he broke his leg until like a week, and I, myself, thought it was a sprain or something. Man, why were I so dumb
@@hydranonymmous blame your dad, not yourself
@@johnnycochicken Nah man, I don't wanna blame other people
I was once that kid in the first story.. the dad would probably take out his anger on the kid later outside the shop, the smart thing to do is pretending nothing's happened but record evidence, get as much info of the father as possible, then call the police
People who want to be parents should pass a test first
who makes the test? what is passing and what country makes these decisions? how did they get in office?
Chastity belts make a come back!
Some of the replies to these posts are just as worrying.
Parents should NEVER, EVER hit their children. The moment you lay a finger on your child in anger, you've lost control & are committing abuse. By physically hurting your children, you're teaching them to fear you, & that fear will last the rest of their lives.
I'm speaking from personal experience. My parents smacked & hit me until I was 18, & the damage that did is hard to articulate. I'm in my 30s now, but the shame, humiliation, anger & fear from my childhood is still there, although therapy & time have helped. I spent years shutting my parents out of my life because I didn't feel safe enough around them to open up. The bulk of my mental health issues are a direct result of being slapped about & spanked for misbehaving - misbehaviour which only got worse in response to being hit, because I started 'acting out'.
Just think about it - we're not allowed to hit our peers when we perceive them to misbehave, so why the hell would it be okay to hit CHILDREN?
When you flinch and it makes them angrier so they hit you harder
My parents are alcoholics and my older sibling is smoking weed and I am suicidal. I wonder what will happen to my sister. Great family! Also spanking is no different then slapping ur kid
Why isn't all physical harming towards children illegal? That just sucks. People like that should be put in prison and share a cell with a sex offender.
Parents like that just need to have the ever-loving SHIT beaten of them. Especially the "father" who smacked his kid for needing to use the bathroom, the "father" who tore up his son's drawing and smacked him repeatedly afterwards, and the "mother" who smacked her kid because he wanted, of all things, a GODDAMN hug. And no, I don't give good golly goddamn if she's a woman or not. If your child comes up to you looking for affection from you, the parent, and your first instinct is to physically attack the child for it, you need to be made to eat your fucking teeth.
Oh to the 16 yr old Hero Babysitter..you are an Angel and a wonderful human being and so young to have such a understanding of life... ✨🌺✨
my mother was abusive (as well as my father) CPS failed me and my sister, but when my mother slapped my little brother for asking for more juice, I called CPS. she lost custody aside from strict visitations. i urge people to always report child abuse.
Honestly people should have to get a parenting liscense to have kids.
How will you make sure they have it?I mean this is a great idea but how do you make sure people have it.Because how would we make sure they have it before getting pregnant and having a kid? It's an amazing idea but how do we enforce? Also would you have to take classes before getting tested for liscence? How many classes? What would the test involve? What would the classes teach? What about unknown pregnancies until labor? What would be done with the kids of people who don't have liscence? Please answer
@@walkerunite9763 bro i think imma make a whole discord server for these types of disscussions
we should also implement a medical card for drugs and alcohol. some people just cant handle it.
while we are at it, a license for the following: youtube comments, playing any sport, cooking in a kitchen or at all, flying a drone, hosting a party at your house during a pandemic that has no science involved but only politicians, and a car. just a license for everything. also there is no vote. it just is.
What type of requirements would this license have? It's really easy for something like this to become corrupt
that's a slippery slope into eugenics
I was working at a mall pet store as the cashier and on Halloween the mall would have it's own "trick or treat". There would be a map of stores participating where kids could get candy from. I was handing out the candy and this mom of 3 or 4 yelled at the children on what to do. "SAY TRICK OR TREAT, NEXT, SAY IT, NEXT" at these small children who looked quite scared. The last one was very polite to me and told me "Thank you" with a smile, and the mother proceeded to yell at her for not being fast enough. Honestly all the parents and children waiting in line were stunned.
When I was a barista, there was the nanny who used to come in to the cafe where I worked and she was always chit chatting with other customers and ignoring the three year old little boy she was with. One day she was talking and the boy kept coming behind the counter where we keep knives, a 400 degree sandwich grill, a very hot espresso machine, ect. and running up to the front door and trying to push it open. I blocked him from coming behind the counter four times before I noticed how good of a job he was doing at getting that front door open, so I grabbed him and put him in the high chair we kept tucked in the corner and set him up at one of the tables. TEN MINUTES LATER, this woman notices the kid is in the high chair, looks at me and goes "Oh, did you do that? Thanks."
Mountain Dew one had to be WV or KY. I’m from that region...🤦🏻♀️
But seriously, if you see a child obviously being harmed, or neglected, the best course of action is to gather information. Yelling at the parent will only result in a more violent beating behind closed doors. “Do you see what a you’ve done? You got mommy in trouble, I hate YOU, I wish you would die, I wish you’d never been born!” (Gulp actual words) If out in public, get as much essential info. As possible. Can you casually follow them out to their car to get license plate number? Can you get contact info from others that witnessed the abuse? Call emergency 911/999 and give as much identifying info. Stay calm. I watched a mom beat her child upon his head with a hard plastic brush at super cuts. The manager yelled and threatened the woman. It only escalated the situation to the point that the mom began kicking her son who now was in self preservation mode, curled up trying to cover his head with his hands. She was trying to kick him thru the door. I got up, (I was about 16 at the time) and opened the door as if I was leaving, but it was so the boy had a chance to get up or run, or whatever. I acted as thou I was just going to get in our car, it was parked several cars down, but it was so I could see what car she got into. While she was putting her kids in the car, yes there was another younger boy with her, I got a look at her license plate and just kept saying it over and over under my breath until I reached our car and could find a pen. I wrote the info on my hand, then went back inside. The manager was on the phone with the police department. We had to stay until the cops arrived. I will never know for sure what happened to that little boy, he was around my little brothers age, at the time, who was with us. He was 6 and so shocked. He just sat there, his little shoulders sagging. The cop asked us if we had anything more to add. My brother said. “I see him at my school, he has a Batman lunch box.” And that is how my 1st grade brother saved a 2nd grader from the boogie man.
This is the way. Don't like when such bad people just leave and no one goes and stops them.
These people shouldn't be parents
As a paramedic, I’ve seen the results of bad parenting.
When your battalion chief issues a no women near the crime scene call while doing his best not to break down, you know it is really bad.
This is done to shield us women from bad cases dealing with kids. It’s actually a good thing. It doesn’t mean we’re weaker in any way. It prevents us from possibly murdering the parents or having a mental breakdown.
I’m fine with the order. My mind is dark enough as it is.
"It prevents us from possibly murdering the parents... " When a parent is a good one, I think they're known as mama bears/papa bears. Which is awesome, because it means that the person cares and is a decent human being
Why do some people have children when they clearly have no love inside them 😢😢
Because people are sadistic assholes and they want to make other people, even their own kids, suffer, for their own _sick_ amusement or delusional, crazy, obsessive and/or controlling power fantasies.
For the money, they get benefits for children. I don't know how much exactly, but I know people have lots of kids cos they get money for each kid. They get even more if there's kids with disabilities.
Running their 13 year old daughter's Insta and responding to the 70 year old men commenting inappropriate things under the photos of their young child in bikinis.
What
Oh that's awful!! She should call the police and report it.
I work in a grocery store. Once saw a woman and her young daughter (about 5 or 6) at self check out. Kid was asking her mom if she could scan something. Mom totally ignored her. Eventually kid decided to scan the toilet paper. She picked it up and when she tried to scan it, it slipped out of her hands because she was too short to reach the scanner. The toilet paper fell on the Mom's hand. Keep in mind this was a 12 pack of toilet paper, so it wasn't that heavy nor hard. But Mom yowled like a trapped wolf. She snatched the toilet paper from the kid and yelled, "ARE YOU R*****ED OR SOMETHING?!" Customers and staff alike gawked at her. We're not allowed to even raise our voices at customers, let alone question their bad parenting, or we could be fired. (I've seen people fired for less.) So we had to let them go. It was awful. I hope that girl turns out alright
That's rough. 😖 I ate a 🍔 at a Orlando FL Red Robin by OIA ✈. At the table next to me, a large family had a boy, 9-10 spill a glass of chocolate milk. The "dad" went ape %&*÷ screaming at the kid. I had to keep my temper in check. Part of me, wanted to order a huge chocolate milk then slowly drink it in front of the a hole father. My own father was a jerk sometimes and I felt bad for the young boy.
Bro. I get upset when my son is crying for 30 seconds for food. She was gonna let her baby be hungry for 3 days?! I just wanna love that baby😭 that poor little baby😭💔
Back when Holly wild was still very popular, they would round up all the guests in these animal themed buses that had giant opened windows so we could feed all the animals as we drove around. This mother was on her phone the whole time talking loud and proud on it with her baby that looked to only be about a few months in her lap. This baby was sleeping and had a round bald head that kind of looked like an egg. This wouldn't been a big problem if the ostriches and emus there weren't blind or had poor eyesight. I don't know why they where blind, but I remember the conductor saying they were. While the small baby's mom wasn't paying attention, I couldn't help but glance over to check on the kid every now and then to make sure it was okay. One or both of these birds are very fast eaters with very fast reflexes, and I low key feared that they would mistake the child's head for something else. Also, I got a bone to pick with every mother who takes their tiny babies to the zoo alone. I was watching her, she came by herself with her tiny baby who stayed asleep the whole time.
Children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children. To deny a child the opportunity to go to the bathroom and to abuse them for a normal bodily function is disgusting. I know that kid is probably being abused for urinating the bed from psychological trauma. My friend went through it from a young age and wet herself reactively all the way into college because of shit like this. She actually had an accident during graduation and her mom told her "you had to do this to me today?!" And tried to push her over. Like her college graduation was her mother's achievement. Me and two other people escorted her out of the ceremony and waited with her and security until police showed up to make a report. My friend is 29 now and has gotten better with therapy and cut ties with her mother and father. Even has a restraining order against her.
So this man had to teach this woman how to not verbally abuse her child and then married her cuz she understood a movie reference? Yeah, what a hero.
I don't think my dad is a bad parent but when I was 13 I was having horrible body aches all over and couldn't walk properly. My dad called me dramatic and ignored it. I had a slight fever that was raising and I was anemic. All this started after a day of sore throat. We went to a community care after a ten days of agony and they told me it was just the flu, go take some antibiotics and it will go away. Then he got very angry at me for limping because I was "making fun of disabled people". We get home and I cant even sit still without sobbing and writhing. My dad asks me to stop being dramatic. I still writhe and cry. He finally realizes I'm not faking and takes me to the ER. I get morphine and a bunch of tests. My fever had raised from 100° to 105° on my way to the hospital. Turns out I had Scarlet Fever all along and the sore throat was strep throat which had become Scarlet Fever. Finally got appropriate treatment and got my tonsils out to prevent any more throat problems. My dad felt horrible for assuming I was faking for so long. To this day I have problems with my right hip and leg mobility and pain.
Whenever I watch these I sometimes think like “is this kind of thing not normal” cus apparently I’m traumatized cus of bs in my childhood
If you wonder, it might not be trauma but (dis)socialisation.
18:40 wow so they actually train Karen's, they aren't just born nuts
Any channels that show + read UNCENSORED texts like that? I will literally pay money to never hear shit like "frick, crap, corncob" etc
I like it
I don't mind it at all, really.
Hmm, I'd make a bad cop... There would be some missing parents.
i saw a little girl get smacked by their mom at a gift shop located in the henry vilas zoo, i interfered, which caused the mom to snap and yell "EXCUSE ME?!" at me, at which point my mom stepped in and chewed that rude mother out.
That last one was nice, I think it's always good to get an outside view of the situation
Years ago I worked for EB Games. Had a young kid come in with his parents. GTA San Andreas just came out and he wanted to get it. I go through the required parental warning and advise them of the game's content and that they need to give permission for him to purchase it. The dad looks at me and says, PROUDLY, "Pfft, man that ain't nothin. This boy's 10 years old and drinks beer and smokes pot.". To say I was not expecting that answer would be an understatement. Good job there, dad.
I have no words
Please tell me this is fake
Some people really need to be forcibly sterilized.
Say sike right now 🙃
Sounds like he drinks and smokes with him
Its super sad because it's either one extreme or the other with parents now!!!! They either abuse their kids and teach them how to scam and shoplift or there is no kind of punishment at all and the kid runs wild and acts like they have no sense and expect other people to look after their kids.....my sister does the last!!! Either way these poor kids don't stand a chance!!!
Why do these people not call CPS?
Cps don't do shit
From what I've heard (Don't live in USA) they send a report back to the parents
Foster familys are commonly reported to be similarly bad.
Sheryl Massie they don’t do anything most of the time
@@fionafiona1146 *families
As someone who can’t wait to be a dad (I probably never will) and who had a shitty childhood (like a lot of those in the video), I will NEVER treat my kids like this. The behaviour by some of these ‘parents’ is beyond shocking.
When my mother was still a Jehovah's Witness, she'd gone to the parent room/bathroom at a special meeting - kinda like a giant church service for JW's - and saw this mother shouting at her son for being 'loud'. (Apparently she'd seen the boy just quietly talking to another kid near him and his Mum kept telling him to be quiet). At some point, she is trying to change him and drags him across the floor so roughly this safety pin came undone started stabbing him in the stomach.
Religious parents, unless you're going to treat them with as much respect as the adults around you, please don't take small children to church!
This is a concerted effort to make young adult parents just give their own children up to the state. If you don’t see how monstrous this is for the health and happiness of people in general, I don’t know what. It makes me want to fall on the floor sobbing.
Happy Mother’s Day.
ITT people who don't realize their parents were abusive.
Props to the last guy for helping mend years of verbal abuse. He definitely did the right thing
listening to these stories makes me realise more and more how much the justice system has failed
In Japan, an empreror *bows* to a teacher.
Go to the Disney parks, you’ll see some real dumpster fire parents.
I’m sorry? Three-ways, with the literal child involved? I.. honestly cant blame the kid. Their mother was letting people do shit to her kid. Disgusting.
Some people just should not reproduce....
The folks who work in retail see some truly horrible things. I've heard some really terrible tales from those who work in retail. Most stores encourage employees to call child services if they see abuse.
“He’s 15 or 16 and doesn’t need the board enema” wtf was that sentence supposed to be?
"Anymore."
The bot just reads what's written, if the word is wrong, he will spell it wrong. However, I have seen other videos like this and sometimes the text has a barbarized word and the bot spells it correctly, so I'm pretty sure there's some way to fix that.
The bot just reads what's written, if the word is wrong, he will spell it wrong. However, I have seen other videos like this and sometimes the text has a barbarized word and the bot spells it correctly, so I'm pretty sure there's some way to fix that.
@@danielm.595 I think the bot just reads what you write into it, or in this case copy and paste. But I think that some people just correct the words instead of copypasting and calling it a day
What i don't understand is the amount of people that don't say anything. Speak up people, it's the only way we can change behaviour. Instead of looking away.
4:20 "I approve of this parent" Are you fucking serious? What kind of sociopath considers this good parenting? It's how you raise an emotionally stunted manchild who can't deal with any pain or hardship properly.
6:44 My class at school is the accelerated learning class (we are the smart ones) and our slogan is 'E for Entelligent'
I've been turned down to adopt a dog from a pound before because I had a yard but not a fence.
Yet I could go get pregnant if I was a homeless alcoholic meth addict with a boyfriend who beat the shit out of me everyday and probably keep the child.
There really needs to be some kind of permit or class or something. I know, personal freedoms, but still, this is another life you're talking about, not a doll.
Though, on the other hand, speaking of my own childhood, I won't deny that my mother is genuinely loving and supportive and has truly made an effort to succeed where she perceives her own (very decent) parents failed. But, she's still not the most stable person in the world and she went through a period of several years in her early 40s where a combination of mental illness, the medication to treat said illness, and a midlife crisis made her an incredibly unstable, shitty parent who made my life hell and scarred me possibly forever. She's tried to make up for it since she stabilized, but it's extremely hard to forgive.
So, I guess even parents who have the best intentions are still unpredictable humans who can fuck their kids up in ways they didn't set out to. Even if there was some kind of test for parenthood, it wouldn't prevent everything, as people are so changeable.
You 100% correct! You also sound like a genuinely really nice and equally smart person!🏆🏅👍
22:50 Therein lies a problem when you want to discipline your kid but others will see it as abuse when it's something reasonable and they see it as cruelty.
Violence doesn’t teach shit. Be a good parent & this shit won’t happen. We aren’t in the boomer ages anymore where we beat kids with everything we can find & call it “reasonable”
Something that happened to me : Being exposed for conversations I had with friends when I was in middle school during the sexually curious stage of puberty , parents (mainly my step parent) had older brother record me being scolded by them and talked about what I was talking about . Yes there are certain subjects that were not age appropriate, however it is a normal curiosity during that age AND those things should be discussed between the parents (should also be the bio parents mainly one of same gender IMO) and definitely do not involve other siblings to embarrass someone on something especially so personal.
Reading things like this makes glad my mom just bought a bag of books on sex Ed and told me to read them.
Why didn't the friend who was a teacher go and say she previously tried getting the little girl out that house but CPS did nothing?
14:03 I had to listen to this again because I thought I heard it wrong the first time.
What.
The.
Heck.
Ok, but manager should've called the cops immediately without warning. I witness you do that imma call, idc, imagine what goes on behind closed doors
It's for reasons like these that I have my state CPS department's number saved in my phone. I don't go out much even without a pandemic, but I want to be ready.
👏good thinking!
That Rabbit story was the worst. Threatening to kill pets is a particularly hellish form of child abuse. Especially since it's often carried out.
This is why people should not put societal pressures on everybody to have children. Not everybody is parent material, and some people realize it.
My mom was mentally, emotionally, and physically abusive and neglectful to everyone in the house starting when I turned around 7. The first instance of neglect I can remember was when I broke my wrist. I was knocking on her door, sobbing because I was in pain and my arm starting halfway through my arm and going down to my hand was swollen. She didn't even unlock the door and the most she did was tell me to go to my room.
As years went on, she would harass me about chores she never asked me to do, scream at me when I did anything wrong, threaten me, steal my money, shoes and clothes and as things got worse, throw me around, grab my hand or wrist so tight I felt popping or grab my hair. She would also break my things and degrade me when I argued with her or fought back.
She acted this way toward me and my younger brother, as well as my dad for years.
I don't talk to her anymore, and it's been about two and a half years since I was taken from the house so I'm doing better, but that trauma has always stuck with me.
For the guy saying the dad should beat his child for throwing a burger- the kid was in a high chair! He was probably about 2 years old, if that. What do you think he's going to learn from that?
I know a few (or USED to know)
Couple people who give their children allergy medicine to make them go to sleep.
Girl leaves kids in house alone so she can go to the market (ages 6, 2, and 3months).
Girl who pretty much doesnt raise her kids, her mom raises them. DHS won't let her see her children.
The Vegas kids saddened me
An ex best friends mom told her younger daughter she won't make it into veterinary school bc she doesn't have brains for it and then proceeded to laugh about it
Even though I'm just an uncle this just gave me like energy to do better
I was in group therapy around age 11. I believe this was on my last day, but I saw this 4- or maybe 5-year-old beating on his 2-year-old sibling and the mom was just lightly telling him to stop. The mom also looked over three months pregnant.
I simply hope that the 4-year-old is now getting help of his own, because he was not right in the head.
However, regarding the way the mother reacted to the situation at therapy, the kid's likely in juvenile detention for a heinous crime. Not sure about what happened to everyone else including the baby.
The guy from the first story reminds me of some people I used to know. I used to know a guy who was really mean to his son and anytime they were anywhere and the kids had to go to the bathroom his dad wouldn't let him. I don't know anything about the kids mom. I never asked. He was a really nice and funny boy though Haven't seen him in five years, but I really hope he's doing better.
I do too
If my kid threw a burger at me, publicly, where people can see, it sure as fuck isn't getting more food. Rewarding that behaviour just breeds spoiled brats, and allows them to think wasting resources is ok.
These horrible assholes who blow smoke in their kids faces and smack or yell at them for normal, not even disruptive kid stuff… at least my dad would happily give me a hug when asked, or check a restroom and watch that nobody tried following me, take me out of a store when I started melting down from exhaustion, listen to my crazy stories, and usually played with me when he wasn’t about to leave the house. Has he been awful and threatened me and made up stories about me being violent and having no friends? Yeah, which sucks. Did he give me enough attention? Not when it really counted when I was little, though admittedly he was also managing to keep track of two teenage boys who were constantly everywhere but home and school at the time and my mom was home with me, and attempted to do things right, even if she was too depressed and burnt out to be very effective. In other words, the amount of effort it takes to not completely suck like 80% of the parents in this isn’t even that high of a bar. Feed your kids, make sure they’re reasonably clean and comfortably dressed for the weather, don’t let them beat up other kids, address their needs and concerns without hurting them. Oh yeah and don’t bully them or cover for every single thing or force them to break up your fights. Those are ways my parents failed, but it only resulted in me having deeper problems causing my depression than therapists actually think. Literally couldn’t find anyone yet who didn’t chalk everything up to just recent stress. Yeah I have a ridiculously stressful life, but the stress started at age *3,* not 22!
The poor kid that got babysitted. I hope her family is better now.
How does 8/9 yr old beat the crap out of their parent so bad they end up paralyzed? Sounds like some of that might be a lie towards the end of the story
Sounds to me like the plot of Marnie.
Used to have a neighbour who would repeatedly call her kids bastards and had abusive/drink guys around. I remember seeing her covered in blood at one point. The kid got kicked out of so many nurseries cause his behaviour was out of control.
Apparently the last I heard she’s cleaned up and going back to church. Means Jack shit to me when you’ve caused so much emotional and physical damage to your children
Growing up I couldn't believe how hard it was to convince anyone that some parents aren't deserving of love, no matter who I was talking to it was always the same, "they take care of you" yeah because that kid with half a jug of 2 week old milk in the fridge sure was taken care of. It's like if the child doesn't die the parents can do no wrong...
...and now as an adult I'm even more frustrated, because CPS turns out to be ill-named, it's just a bunch of the worst people imaginable aching to go on power trips and having the perfect job to ruin anyones life that happens to catch them in a foul mood. They send well cared for children to abusive foster parents just to spite the biological parents, and then totally ignore obvious cases where intervention is desperately needed.
There really is no justice, it's like nobody *really* cares, and anyone who does will either turn away and hope and pray... or quickly learn that there's nothing they can actually do about it.
I am so messed up, I wound up jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend just to get away and then mysteriously landed on a keeper, just the best luck ever and somehow HE think's HE'S the lucky one between us. He couldn't be more wrong about anything ever but nothing I say changes his mind. He had to FIX me, I am not proud of what I was.
This reminds me of an incident I witnessed in a popular chain store. There was an elderly, disabled woman in a handicart, an adult couple and two small children, an older boy and a younger girl.
I was in a toy aisle looking for a present for my grandkid when they came into the same aisle. The small girl was excited (in a happy way) about something, chattering away. She touched her mother, trying to get her attention. The mother became annoyed at her, “ if you do not stop that, we will get grandpa’s saw and cut off your hand.”
I was horrified. I immediately left and found a security man, relating what I overheard. A manger also came over to hear my story, as I was in tears. I gave them a description of the people involved, including the grandmother who apparently thought such parenting was normal and made no objection to terrorizing a small child in that manner.
The manager called the police while the security man went to locate the family. I don’t know the ultimate ending, as I was too upset to continue shopping. I got a ride home and went back for my car after I calmed down.
I do hope that their surveillance system caught the audio. The manager allowed me to leave, so I believe they did have the incident recorded. I sometimes think of that incident and hope that the little girl got the help she needed.
Thanks for trying to help. You are probably that kids hero!
15:02 is anyone really surprised this place is called "Wokingham?"
"Wokingham" means "Wocca's people's home." It's old Saxon. It doesn't mean what you think it means, as the term "woke" is from modern vernacular, genius.
Let your kid read. It's quieter and takes hella more time. Also reading is important so like..
Sad thing with the kids from the mall is that more than likely, CPS would do nothing at all, probably visit once then never again.
I was working at an orange themed home improvement store, this man who was the grandparent of two small kids he had with him, started punching the little girl in the face because she took a lollipop from her bigger brother. I stood in and said we don’t do that here he stopped apologized and I went and told my manager. I got a write up and she was bleeding and bruised
Me realizing my childhood was horrible: 👌👄👌 yeah at 11 i didn't really understand being abused and living in a shelter for 2 months and getting taken away from my dad from social services
By social services
I'm a cashier and I see it constantly. Little boys being told "be a man, pick up and carry all the groceries" and when it's too heavy "you're weak. Come on, be a man!" It makes me more uncomfortable than the little girls wearing skimpy clothes and heavy make-up. Not to mention the morbidly obese people in wheelchairs and on foodstamps and they just get only junk food. All their kids are overweight as well and it slowly gets worse and worse their whole life. You will never meet your grandkids. Maybe your kids won't even meet your grandkids. Just because you didn't want to be healthy and teach your kids to do so.
Cruel
Most of this stuff is nothing compared to how me and my brothers were raised some of it strikes me at the heart
Most likely karma will hit these parents, most people like these will end up in jail accept for parents who don't understand when to discipline their child correctly which those people I just feel bad for cause they can't see right from wrong, to everyone watching this video if you see anything like these happening no matter where you are. Please call CPS cause when parents even call their kids horrible things it's a good sense there is more going on
Awesome, that last one with the board
I was at a skatepark with my friends when this happened. A little toddler was on his balance bike and he decided he would go off a small ramp. Ended up falling off and landing on his back. He immediately started bawling and looking over at his mother. His mother was looking back at him, not even getting up to help him. She then turned back to the person she was talking to. One of my friends had to walk over and tell her that her kid fell off his bike. This thick woman really said "Oh, sorry I had no idea." She thankfully left once she helped her child.
I’m scared to have kids because I’m scared they won’t like me I’m not very vocal or all happy in their face but I could never imagine doing this to my child or anyone’s else’s for that matter.
One time the parents of one of my classmates from 4th grade were pissed off about a sudden case of head lice. The day I felt sudden itchiness was the exact same time I got them from that classmate. My parents were able to get rid of them in an instant, so I went back to school the next day without problems. Because my mom instantly called the school and left a message, they immediately got the classmate to go into the office when school started the next day; Halloween morning. My mom noticed the parents weren't happy to see her when they claimed something "urgent" came up last minute and needed to take their child home. I really did not understand why they were upset because my classmate was absent for a whole day or two due to her massive infestation. My mom figured that they assumed I gave them to her, but she agreed that would not make any sense.