WHY YOU KEEP THEM BLOCKED

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  • Why you keep them blocked. Blocking is a tool that should be used to protect your energy and to save you from toxicity. Blocking is part of the healing path. Blocking will benefit you not only in the short term but in the long term. The narcissist has been blocked over and over and over again this will be nothing new to them. The narcissist wanted to steal your beautiful bright shining light and to capture your energy and they accomplished this for a period of time. Once you go, no contact and block these people the healing really begins.This is when you do the deep dive and you understand that you are the priority that you come first second and third. Maintain blocking maintain no contact. Don’t look back. Watch the full video for more wisdom.
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  • @Green89_
    @Green89_ หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    Andrew is literally saving lives. He is a real life superhero.

  • @aldelgado9343
    @aldelgado9343 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    Never acept the Hoover and block this monsters, they dont care about you at all, at all.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      😌😌🙏

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Amen!!! 👍💥❤🙏
      🌈🎀😘

    • @serratus9747
      @serratus9747 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sex is not worth it, even if you think you won't fall for their games, slowly, but surely you will be stuck in the same confusing nightmare.
      NO contact is the only option for someone lacks the capacity neurologically/spiritually to even care about you, let alone love you.
      Save your love for someone who has the capability to truly love you.
      Life is short and you can NOT fix someone without empathy, nor should you spend a decade+ to end up with someone resembling a normal human, but the storm is still raging inside, just better veiled.

    • @tauruschorus
      @tauruschorus หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Realizing the narc NEVER loved me has helped my healing immensely.

  • @marieeakin8534
    @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I keep them blocked to preserve my peace. Enough chances, being nice & excusing the imbalanced bad behavior! I will not allow myself to be entwined with the clear toxicity, self serving myth of a relationship.
    NO to narcissism!!!
    Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😊💜🙏⛰️

    • @Mack98421
      @Mack98421 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not even a relationship. They just poke, prod and agitate relentlessly to get a reaction so they can take the high ground and starting ordering you around like a dictator, that's all they want. A relationship means there's some form of connection. If the narcs sole purpose is to manipulate and control there's no connection.
      They're either in control of you or they're proactively and relentlessly trying to destroy your self-image and self-confidence. That's no relationship. If they can't control you and they can't get a reaction then all they want is to watch you suffer, fail and ultimately die.
      Narcissism is very close to psychopathy in the complete lack of empathy. It's a dangerous situation being around narcissists. What you call a relationship is a life and death situation.

  • @roslyncerro1263
    @roslyncerro1263 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Stay blocked. Stay safe. Rock on😊❣️

  • @EasyRussianLessons
    @EasyRussianLessons หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Been practicing no contact for the last 6 mo. Hasn't been easy, but I have got back my peace. And I've realized how little that group of people actually means to me. What was I thinking!

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Many have said the same darn thing 👍❤
      🌈🎀😘

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😌😌🙏

    • @pcblues
      @pcblues หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm doing boring-work at work at the moment so my mind wanders. When I find myself thinking about anyone I have blocked (which happens all the time!) I say to myself, "If they are blocked on my phone, they are not going to be in my mind, either"

    • @Roni5
      @Roni5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      YES MAN. Same here, been 6 months

  • @76_Red_Pills
    @76_Red_Pills หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I thought I was the only one until Andrew exposed their exact Playbook 😮

  • @emmalodge8218
    @emmalodge8218 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I was in a long distance relationship with him so I was constantly on my phone and feeling drained from it. The plus side is I've got 7 years of evidence that I have analyzed and can now read through the lines of how I much was manipulated.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌💜🙏

    • @curtriedel5036
      @curtriedel5036 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Do yourself a favor and delete all of it. Reading all that sh*t drains you too

    • @beautifulbuds
      @beautifulbuds 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@curtriedel5036 yes!!!

  • @callmemarcie9156
    @callmemarcie9156 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    No contact for over 2 years.
    I changed my phone number, deleted all social media... I moved. For my safety I have cameras in my car and at home. I became friends with a security guard at the workplace.
    I love peace and quiet.
    I know who I am and what I want.
    I won't let anyone abuse me.

    • @johncbr650re
      @johncbr650re หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're not alone
      And many of us did that
      Some even relocated
      Maintain your peace and keep the guards up
      Have a good day

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😌😌🙏

  • @bronchiectasismustgo3043
    @bronchiectasismustgo3043 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Brother I think I've broken the trauma bond. Today's been my best day please keep me in your thoughts

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😌😌🙏

    • @L.Fontein7
      @L.Fontein7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good for you - keep up the good work. 😊

    • @TimothyMoreno-q5p
      @TimothyMoreno-q5p หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      T h ats right. You got this, conserve your energy

    • @Eric-ny5sj
      @Eric-ny5sj 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How are you doing now?

  • @roslyncerro1263
    @roslyncerro1263 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I have unblocked two "friends" in the past. Never unblock. Remember why you got away from them that first time. You are 1st, 2nd, 3rd remember?❣️

    • @Andrew-zr1jt
      @Andrew-zr1jt หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Right on point , always good to remenber!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯💯💯

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thanks for speaking to what needs to be heard! 👍💥❤🙏
      🌈🎀😘

    • @FernFokes-tu6vs
      @FernFokes-tu6vs หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I won't say it's easy but I seem to be getting better at blocking see I didn't even want to write the word because my mantra has to find the good in people so sigh it's not easy. Thank you for sharing and making me feel as if I'm not alone.🌹🙏🇦🇺😎

    • @roslyncerro1263
      @roslyncerro1263 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fern, we aren't alone. We are a tribe. Be well. Be discerning.❣️

  • @nvbccjarbohum
    @nvbccjarbohum หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Because they are dangerous predators that want to destroy their victims' lives.

  • @SweepDailyWin
    @SweepDailyWin หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    BLOCKING = SELF LOVE, SELF RESPECT! STAY FREE & HAPPY! LIVE A DRAMA FREE, PEACE-FILLED LIFE!💟💟💟💟💟💟

  • @coryhodge1266
    @coryhodge1266 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    During my stage of the abusive cycle, I was heartbroken, then confused by her behavior, and finally understanding that she was just a toxic human being who never cared about me to begin with. I went from thinking about her constantly to realizing that she isn't worth a spec of sand on the beach that is my inner peace

    • @hettyhopper
      @hettyhopper หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did you get over constantly thinking about them?

  • @sharonroberts6697
    @sharonroberts6697 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    At first I thought no contact was an immature response to my ex. I don’t any longer. It’s taking back your power over your own life. Best decision I made in this whole drama.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌💜🙏

    • @369-b1f
      @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      probably because the partner immaturely blocks and unblocks at their whim to punish you then hoover... your block is for your sanity. keep it permanent

  • @Dean-zn8du
    @Dean-zn8du หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I use my hurt as a burning desire to better myself.
    Im on my way and getting in the best shape of my life pysically and mentally.
    I thank the narcissist for everything.
    Next year will be the best of my life.
    Giodluckk to them with the new supply.
    Enjoy the ride.

    • @MillieSmolKittyo
      @MillieSmolKittyo หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here. What was initially overwhelming pain and confusion eventually set me on a path of personal growth and mental /physical health I never would have undertook otherwise. They really are great for this, aren’t they? I’m so happy for you❣️🛤️🌲👣❤️

    • @ladyredd6857
      @ladyredd6857 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly I feel like you feel me and my husband are 14 years have separated September and he moved in with somebody before Halloween as if he was not married with kids or nothing I am using this time to work on myself and make myself the person I was before I met him

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌💜⛰️

    • @Dean-zn8du
      @Dean-zn8du หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ladyredd6857 make yourself even better

  • @johnbruce3224
    @johnbruce3224 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Thank you Andrew..you have given me sooo much power...bless you heart...

  • @Seventhletter0807
    @Seventhletter0807 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Andrew, you have been on fire with these videos. Thank you. All facts. Block, door slam, padlock the door and throw away the key. You deserve to heal and live your best life - the only way to do that is to remove these toxic people from your life.

  • @thompsonschwabbel6622
    @thompsonschwabbel6622 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Thank you so much Andrew and all you beautiful people out there.
    I survived as the scapegoat for 30 years now and went no contact about two years ago from my sad narc father.
    i knew since at least 15 years ago something was not right, and turns out you can't begin to understand how bad it was if not experienced yourself........ we are all deserving of love, and that's why we are still here.

  • @tanyaprendeville9425
    @tanyaprendeville9425 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My God Andrew this message couldn't have come at a better time!😅.
    I blocked my Narc now 10 months and he Still is blocked!
    Today I was feeling a bit nostalgic, and I thought of you Andrew and I could hear your voice in heart!!! "Don't do it!!"
    And then this message appears!!
    Thank you so much again!!
    And Thank God to for your tuition!
    God bless you!!❤

  • @susanjeffrey9947
    @susanjeffrey9947 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ve had to block my adult son, so painful, but I can’t stand any more, years of emotional abuse, gas lighting. My second adult son won’t let me see my grandkids, he doesn’t bother at all.
    I left a marriage to a narcissist of 19 years.
    He “s remarried,
    I’m still getting smeared 23 years after my divorce, by my one oldest son,
    I know I’m not the only one going through this,
    I’m working on my self to heal.
    Adult child narcisst, is the most painful as you blame yourself,
    As his mother, I was kind and respectful but ignored in my marriage.
    Plus other things,
    I’m totally alone but at peace.

  • @MysTerry317
    @MysTerry317 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thanks Andrew, you're right on time. When we're at our weakest and need your reminders we can find our strength here with you! REALLY appreciate you, Andrew!!!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome..⛰️💜🙏

    • @pamilaknapp203
      @pamilaknapp203 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I watch at least one video a day, it's been so healing. Thank you Andrew for creating this safe space for all of us to share and heal

  • @ednamason4784
    @ednamason4784 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I will not unblock. The hardest thing I feel right now, is knowing I was never loved! 😞

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😌😌🙏

    • @pamilaknapp203
      @pamilaknapp203 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's the hardest thing for me to accept as well. But it's getting easier and easier every day. In other words, I'm healing with no contact. So I'm more able to accept this new reality of who he really is, the shallow narcissist who is incapable of really connecting to anybody

  • @irinaparker8657
    @irinaparker8657 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Right on point 👉👉👉💯 block those evil spirit 😈 people. Life is beautiful again 🙏 thank you 🙏 God bless y'all 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nvbccjarbohum
    @nvbccjarbohum หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The person I met feigned ignorance, to put it politely. He constantly claimed to have no understanding of computers. Yet, he owned several phones and, to my knowledge, six Facebook accounts, and likely multiple Instagrams. He masqueraded as having the naivety of a young boy, behaving as such, but I remember him from his youth, and he was nothing like that. Now, nearing seniority, he uses this to attempt to deceive others.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😌😌🙏

    • @MattyNelson-rs3ik
      @MattyNelson-rs3ik หลายเดือนก่อน

      Covert narc,,I knew one,she pretended not to drive,but had a drivers license from NYC,,Now living on the west coast, like i lived there IN NY for 18 years. got my license from NY TOO,.HoW do you have a license from NYC and you cant drive? people taking her around, did not want the responsibility of having a car.OR THE EXPENSE,SHE WAS CHEAP TOO,PRETENDS to not know stuff,even to look up ,simply Google an address,distance,pretender.just wanting for you to do the simple work,control,,manupulator,,man I told her off so badly,told her about herself short of being a narcissist,her disingunioysity..she was reeling,even a simple thing as dropping her off 5 minutes away,filled with drama,like how simple is it to say,"can you drop me off at the job,which was 5 minutes away, On your way home,? Like she wanted me to say it,,I'll take you to work,,which I did,but I caught on fast, she had already showered,dressed, eaten so she can scoot on out.. So full of pride and piety..pretending to be so late when work begins at 7 pm,,and it's 6 pm,looking at her watch "omg I'm going to be so late for work" like how? ..she did not want to pay for an unber,,or take the bus,,it was all calculated before I got there..she thought I was not up to her game..God revealed her tactic right away..I just shook my head, wow!!..would never offer to go anywhere, she'd wait for you to say it and jump on board..it became your responsibility to feel sorry for her..to get there and back..so many stories like that..

  • @ImNerdybynature
    @ImNerdybynature หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Andrew , im 4 months no contact. Today was a roigh one, i so badly wanted to break no contact and defend myself about something vile he said to mea while ago. But i came to my senses and realized it wouldnt change anything. Stay strong everyone. Im still in the midst of breaking the trauma bond, its been a Rollercoaster. Im not giving up! Thank you!

    • @johncbr650re
      @johncbr650re หลายเดือนก่อน

      You might have drug withdrawal symptoms at the beginning
      But 4 months is good time
      You can go forever no contact
      Do not contact because there will be a trap
      And you it will be worse if you get it
      Your energy will be drained
      And same shit happen
      If you feel lonely you're not alone
      And alone is different than lonely even feeling alone is better than being with these creatures
      Work on yourself and heal childhood wounds and how to appreciate yourself that you deserve something better
      Do not accept poor behaviors
      Since you reached here you're safe
      Have a good Day

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome..😌🙏💜

    • @user-rq4nk4ir6b
      @user-rq4nk4ir6b หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what they want, an emotional reaction. Just give deadpan responses, yes, no, last week, not that I know of, etc.

    • @PeterShort-c6u
      @PeterShort-c6u หลายเดือนก่อน

      "But i came to my senses and realized it wouldn't change anything." NICE!! You caught yourself is key, since you are not getting submerged in MEMORY"s filthy pit. Live in The Now...Good show, keep it up n your power NATURALLY grows...

    • @ImNerdybynature
      @ImNerdybynature หลายเดือนก่อน

      @PeterShort-c6u thanks for the help and advice!

  • @ERnarcfree
    @ERnarcfree หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I have blocked the narcissist, his family and the friends who took his side during the smear campaign because I am putting myself first.
    I keep all toxic people out of my life because I deserve better.
    I will never unblock the narcissist because I am a wonderful, caring and loving person and I deserve better in my life!!!
    Every day I watch your video Andrew to remind myself that I must stay vigilant and strong !

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Keep them blocked..the frustration will dissipate and the sun will shine in your life

  • @stephendaly3621
    @stephendaly3621 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Shock and Aww !!! You have just wipped any lingering webbs of doubt left in us . 🙌🏻💪

  • @henryburchenal3999
    @henryburchenal3999 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Was in a narc relationship 2 years ago. We share a 4 year old daughter. She tried her best to ruin my life but failed. Largely because I got the support from your channel. Thanks for being so dedicated to help educate people about narcissist

  • @sarahh3061
    @sarahh3061 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I feel like I will never be the same again. Thanks for your insight.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome..😌🙏💜

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You won't be the same but, a much better, stronger version like Andrew says. It will take time & healing. You can do it! I'm not the same either, but a super wise, discerning, still loving, careful version.

  • @OSTARAEB4
    @OSTARAEB4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    After two decades, she was only a friend and I answered the phone which I knew was a mistake. I have never blocked anyone in my life. Catching up quickly ended and then insults about my mother she only met once and her stories I heard her repeat back in the nineties. Yes, she was checking her Rolodex and the devaluation and her eternal victimhood in life as excuses. She’s spent a lifetime living off of people. She was an energy vampire and at times literally gave me a headache and tightness in the chest. I realize she’s an envious, jealous hateful person with black, dead shark eyes. I blocked her and she’s started hoovering me on another phone and she’s finally stopped. You’re so right Andrew. Toxic vampires that are predators and very frightening when you realize you were on their menu. I’m now very mistrusting of everyone now and much more guarded in daily going about in life.

  • @nikkired4925
    @nikkired4925 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Facts 💯🎯 Keep them blocked. Never go back! ✌️

  • @kimsteed9401
    @kimsteed9401 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I used to wonder why my X would hang out with serious losers in society while projecting himself to be so far above them. It was the fuel he got from having people look up to him. Thanks Andrew. Doing good on the path.

    • @OSTARAEB4
      @OSTARAEB4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kimsteed9401 Exactly. It reinforces their need for control of others and elevate their own perceived sense of superiority because they don’t want you to see their fragility.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welcome..💯💯😌🙏

    • @beautifulmystery
      @beautifulmystery หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex did the same thing! Wow...

  • @thebigh9324
    @thebigh9324 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    It's like the evil queen in Snow White holding out that shiny succulent red apple that looks so delicious , looks so good , so delicious , but you know one bite will eventually lead to being poisoned again , ...so you make sure YOU DON'T order any more apples !!! 🍏😝❤️

  • @MadonnaMead
    @MadonnaMead หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Will keep them blocked FOREVER! Thanks Andrew, you’re amazing!

  • @estelle5686
    @estelle5686 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Illusion is important to remember. We create an illusion of others. In my case, I had to look at how a few good times were blown up into more than it really was. I was stuck in the illusion, especially of the beginning and then noticed it wasn't at all what he portrayed and lied about. The rest of the relationship was fraught with disappointment, gaslighting, financial infidelity, losses after losses, chaos, misunderstanding, being treated worse than a stranger. Reputation savaging and real contempt for me was my thanks in the end for being understanding and doing way more than I ever should have.. It blew my mind! I don't miss anything about him. I am sorry for him and how his life just plummeted into real darkness. I have no idea what he does anymore. Pro Tip: Anyone in your life who keeps bringing the narc up, red flag on that person. I have someone who says they love and miss him all these decades later. Very strange and out of context. The narc didn't care about this person ever. I knew it.

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I've got to keep my cup overflowing. Thank you, Andrew.

  • @amandaliverpool3374
    @amandaliverpool3374 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    It's necessary for my own sanity 😌

  • @MaureenBonanno
    @MaureenBonanno หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Also had to leave many persons behind, leave some groups I had enjoyed. Practicing grey rock for a time now. No longer jumping into conversations. Thinking better and enjoying peace! Thank you Andrew for the wisdom.

  • @barbpace-lamb
    @barbpace-lamb หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m so ashamed to how blind I was

    • @mvbigmagic4048
      @mvbigmagic4048 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There's no need to be ashamed. Narcissists are good at manipulation. It's a skill they've developed since their childhood. But once you see what and who they really are, you cannot unsee it. That's when you can begin to heal. I've been re-reading my childhood journals and it's so obvious now, in hindsight 47 years later, how my malignant narcissistic mother lied to everyone in our family. For decades. Isolating my father and me from other family members. Accusing others of wrongdoing, when decades later, the truth is revealed. It was her all along. Don't blame the victims for being deceived. Blame the person who tricked so many people, in order to achieve their evil goals.

  • @HelenaLake
    @HelenaLake หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes keeping them blocked works. It is lonely when also entering the cocoon of boundaries and removing yourself from all people you suspect and know are associated with the narcissist. However, makes a huge positive impact on mental and emotional well-being. The less they know, the less they can use against you. Energy is conserved, healing potential increases and comes on sooner. It is miraculous what occurs when you stay away. I'm grateful for your help 😊

  • @lindajh5672
    @lindajh5672 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Instead of blocking the narcs, I just didn't respond to them and stayed 100% no contact. That way I knew when they tried contacting me and what their message was, and my knowing they tried to contact me and my not responding gave me a feeling of satisfaction because I know they didn't like it that I didn't respond to their messages, and they have no way to ever know for sure whether or not I even got their message or not. By the time I went no contact, I had had more than enough of their abuse and there was no way in hell that I was ever going to communicate with them again not ever----but I wanted to know when they tried to contact me. not out of any kind of longing to connect with them rather I get a feeling of satisfaction knowing that it bothers them I don't respond to their messages.

  • @AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg
    @AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Speaking Facts! 💯💯💯Nothing ever changes! No accountability whatsoever.

  • @aliciabell7631
    @aliciabell7631 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I unblocked mine on fb after over three years. We have a 4 year old son who doesn't know him. He's been mia for years. We had a meet and greet 11/23 so he can meet our son. He walked out when he was 10 months old. I can tell he's trying to pretend like he wants to be a father to get close to me. Now, he's sending me random selfies of himself. His appearance has changed so much in the past 4 years. He looks terrible now. I dont think it's gonna last bc as soon as i tell him im not interested in a romantic way, im sure he will get the hell on

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌🙏

    • @mvbigmagic4048
      @mvbigmagic4048 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There's nothing more scary than an aging narcissist's hoover. :( Be careful, and protect your son from him. Much love and strength to you. I wish my father had the strength to protect me from my malignant narcissistic mother. He died still married to her, after being abused by her for decades. While he was in the hospital, diagnosed with cancer, my malignant narcissistic mother was messaging her already-married ex-boyfriend on Facebook. Disgusting. They never change.... :( As they age, they realize they need supply. They hoover old supply..... don't fall for it. Protect your children from them. :(

    • @aliciabell7631
      @aliciabell7631 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @mvbigmagic4048 omg how horrible. Im sorry for your loss

  • @jp-rs6ns
    @jp-rs6ns หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Let's say there is a person or family member who you have chosen to not communicate with. Let's say that you have to speak to them or know they will be at the same event as you. Have a sheet of paper that lists the reasons you have decided not to communicate with them. Re-read it before you will see them. This keeps you on guard.
    When it comes to a toxic or narcissist person, blocking (or having very minimum contact if that is the only option) buys you peace. Peace buys you clarity & healing.
    ".. when you go no contact & block the narcissist, or anybody, it's sending a clear succinct message to them that you no longer will play the games.. "
    Great video Andrew 🙌. Truth. Thank you. Love the Banana tree in your background. God bless 🌟

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️

    • @jp-rs6ns
      @jp-rs6ns หลายเดือนก่อน

      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙂🙌

    • @mvbigmagic4048
      @mvbigmagic4048 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. It's so important to journal/write down/chronicle what is happening when you're experiencing narcisisstic abuse. I've journaled since I was 5 years old. :( I recently went no-contact with my family of origin due to severe narcissistic abuse. I re-read my old journals, even tax documents I've saved, and I can see now.... I've been told decades of lies. :( The proof is there in writing. I had no idea I was being lied to, decades ago. But to see it there in writing.... it is both heart-shattering, and illuminating. I can never go back. No contact is survival. Keep records. It helps in the fight against the gaslighting.

  • @marieeakin8534
    @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I thought she was my friend....she thought she owned me.
    I lost the delusion.... she lost a friend!
    Be Well, Be Wise
    🌈🎀😘

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Good! More weight and distraction eliminated. Life can be hard enough, steering away from potholes, you
      don't need anyone that's questionable or a "walking betrayer." 👍☕☕🍪

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @JHavaJo2-m1z
      Deep hearts have deep hurt.
      God knew & wanted to show me & he did!
      What's that cookie business you're throwing in there?
      I want a bite NOW! 😋👍 ☕☕

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      Ok Joe.......
      You tempted me with banana cream pie, 😋
      now chocolate chip cookie 😋
      if a box of Sees Chocolates appear,
      I'm a gonner! 😋😋😋😋😋
      👍☕☕❤

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      On 2nd thought......if you intended that to be a pothole & not a chocolate chip cookie,
      I've already lost it!
      Ha Ha Ha....fill me in!

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marieeakin8534 The occasional sin of chocolate candy from Sees ? You are forgiven!🙌

  • @julespowell4896
    @julespowell4896 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My lights gone out. He's a manipulative evil emotional abuser. Wasted so many years.

  • @shwetajoon6409
    @shwetajoon6409 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Blocking is the path and stopping all forms of communication is that path of freedom and peace to save our grace and sanity. Thank you Andrew for this great advice and important reminder. 👍❤️‍🩹

  • @InvisibleWarrior279
    @InvisibleWarrior279 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Once you have decided to go no contact; yes, keep them blocked. There is an extremely high probability they will try to worm their way back in months or even many years down the road. And if they are able to contact you somehow, you will be absolutely shocked at how little they have changed over that period of time. For you it will be like going back in time - mostly in a bad way but it will serve the purpose of showing you how much you have grown and changed on your healing journey. The new you doesn’t even know how to relate to the sad entity anymore. But you will be amazed that you once tolerated that sad, disrespectful, idiotic behaviour. Best to leave it in the past where it well and truly belongs 🙃

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z หลายเดือนก่อน

      So True. Before this education was seated solidly, within me, I did an e-mail exchange with the ex after many years of no contact. Oddly ( Hoover timing ), it came at the same time, I started on this channel . Within the Narc's words, alone, I could read, nothing had changed. Imagine!- Trying to manipulate me via e-mail with words. Poof! I cut all contact immediately.
      It pays to read carefully- their words still betray their falseness. They don't change.

    • @AsToldByUfa
      @AsToldByUfa หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Beautifully said

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯💯😌🙏💜

    • @Aquarius285
      @Aquarius285 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneHello.How can i leave them and live NORMAL LIFE without them?

  • @Paka96756
    @Paka96756 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hoovered today on her birthday 😆🤣😆 this fish isn’t biting any longer. Also, I always love your quick message after you’re saying take care Namaste. Thank you, Andrew🪐.

  • @sototallyover2359
    @sototallyover2359 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    It takes a long time to figure out. I can remember saying to my friends "How is she still single?"-Now I know why.

  • @Rugbymom
    @Rugbymom หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great message… dealing with some loose ends, but oh what a glorious day it will be when I can block him totally and be done!! Thank you and have a great evening! Stay warm!

  • @Parmis_Dax
    @Parmis_Dax หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you! I needed this on the false friends front - those are the hardest ones for me to permanently let go and stay away from. I've literally lived through the old adage, "Twice bitten, once shy." Anytime I've ever taken back a false friend, I have always regretted it!

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The narc has me blocked on everything again for over 4 months now so I don't have to worry about that. If he were to reach out again, I plan to ignore. I don't want to block out of anger because it feels like he has control over me and making me bitter. I unblocked him to let that grudge go and become indifferent. I have kept 1 ex blocked for years because he was the cheapest narc.

  • @YeshuaReturn
    @YeshuaReturn หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @DP_e-que
    @DP_e-que หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The phone gave them wings but it also traps them. They don't think you know when they are twetter paited 😅😅 when they come out from the corner of the bed with their two phones. All you have to do is observe. If they come out ready for battle it had a moment with home wreckers or flying monkeys. If it comes out fluttered it got good supply it might be a good evening

  • @Glyn-r
    @Glyn-r หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The narcissist only cares about themselves. Blocking them is the only way to start your healing journey. Better still, change your number and whereabouts if possible. That is the way to get your energy back and make the narcissist feel powerlessness.

  • @robpz448
    @robpz448 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My narcissist ex just popped up in my suggested friends on facebook. I blocked her July 2023. While her first name remains the same, she is using a fake last name. She looks PIST in her photo she took. Funny timing. After a year, I updated my profile photo, and then she miraculously popped up. I suspect a hoover at some point. Dont worry. I won't answer. Lastly, stay vigilant. There is no timeframe on a hoover. Be prepared because they will likely reach out to you after they discard you.

  • @katherineandrzejewski8826
    @katherineandrzejewski8826 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Andrew, thank you so much for this video....amazing messages....so helpful to me today....Very True.....wonderful support ....appreciate your work ❤

  • @antonjw
    @antonjw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sick of the diminishing, the flighting-in-with-cape, the opinions, the advice, turning into demands, the insults both to my face and behind my back (for years & years), the being used as a tool to make himself feel better (forever)… and finally, when called out, the stating that our mothers' death at a young age did not bother him… i blocked my brother, and he's stayed blocked & out.
    Now it's pure focus, and daily crafting of a whole new life. And it's pretty blissful, too. And yes… starting from a very small footprint indeed (other very dangerous & toxic narcissists also appeared in this production).

  • @melissarafter1158
    @melissarafter1158 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The more distance the more sanity returns. Found this out the hard way. Excellent advice!

  • @everett8610
    @everett8610 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so true! She complained about her dad playing dumb about things I remember. He is the head narcissist of the family. But she knows all about playing dumb this is one of the well used tools of the narcissist..And these people know EXACTLY what they are doing and OF COURSE they do. She actually one time after I mentioned I miss her said “ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone” like the song says.. She knew exactly what she was doing by pulling away..
    some say, the narcissist isn’t aware they are a narcissist, and that could be true. But narcissism is just a name, their behavior is the real culprit and they are very much aware of what they’re doing is manipulative and coercive and mean and animalistic and cold and low energy.

  • @bethclarke9890
    @bethclarke9890 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My own mother.. talking behind my back, finally I stopped. Blocked sister, brother and niece as well as core narcissist..mother dearest

  • @JessicaNora
    @JessicaNora หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yes! I saw this happen so much with my ex partner. Hobbies were constantly changing!

  • @KatHay27
    @KatHay27 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes!!!
    They’ll still find a way.
    Blocked, then removed contact.
    Email goes to Junk.
    Still peak, but I’m getting stronger

  • @hettyhopper
    @hettyhopper หลายเดือนก่อน

    Married for 20 years. Ended it after one of his worst rage fits towards our kids among many other things. After 8 months of healing I accepted a hoover on Monday. He started pushing my boundaries on the second day and became angry when I refused to budge. Caught him on the phone with another woman on the 5th day. By the evening of the 5th day he was already moved in with another woman and I feel like I am in a worse place than I was when I started 8 months ago. Guard your heart everyone. Keep them blocked.

  • @kenneth7491
    @kenneth7491 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I changed my number and I'm still married gave it all up . Ain't worth the torture .

  • @lesabrydson2526
    @lesabrydson2526 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Block the narcissists 👿 . Power Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏❤️🤲😇

  • @monatoy-hf8lk
    @monatoy-hf8lk หลายเดือนก่อน

    Andrew, all of your videos are awesome!!
    This one however, is so full of the most important information !!
    Community, listen and apply!❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @JoyJohnson-u5e
    @JoyJohnson-u5e หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for helping us

  • @369-b1f
    @369-b1f หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    unable to concentrate on the roads 😮 creator made me have a tiny solo bingle with a pole and that was enough to take that vehicle off the road for a whole year 😢 i know that is so i could properly heal for another year.. the car is fixed and driveable again, and now i am able to drive with proper attention... but my vehicle, me, my vessel, continues on the healing journey... and Andrews content is part of this ❤ TY NarcDaily xXx

  • @RebuldingMeAgain
    @RebuldingMeAgain หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Andrew. Blocking my narc ex was a game changer. He couldn't reach me anywhere. My advice will always be to do it when YOU are ready like Andrew has said. I felt so powerful after blocking him and REMAINING no contact. It's you being kind to yourself, loving yourself and pouring back into you. No longer spending your energy picking up your phone hoping your ex narc would have seen the light, apologise and get back with you. I realised after listening to Andrew daily and replaying certain videos he did over and over you can find it in you to block. It actually helped my healing so much that I wished I had done it earlier. Im still on my healing journey but I'm so much better today than I was months ago after being discarded just weeks before my birthday. Listen to Andrew and replay his videos especially when you have a weak moment, it helps. Like he says you are not alone. God bless you Andrew 💖. I pray that you will speak in arenas across the world enlightening people about narcs and their antics.

  • @badomaji
    @badomaji หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They are still the 3-4yr old trying to pull the wool over the eyes of their caregiver. Someone didn't correct them, someone thought they were 'cute'. It worked when they were 3 or 4 - why change?

  • @Warp75
    @Warp75 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At first blocking was my fk you to the person, but now it just enables my peace & quiet.

  • @sheilahogan7014
    @sheilahogan7014 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It was the best thing I did to really start recovering. Thanks to Andrew and one of his followers (I’m sorry I don’t recall her name) who encouraged me to block.

  • @phillippeo
    @phillippeo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Andrew, you are a shining example of where we need to get to. 😇🙏

  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Have had it all, hovering, I seen it unravel , double standards , he can be evil, felt it, seen it. Seen the tantrum the little boy, totally asshole. “Dark Triad’s “ P/A with social path, with one element of sodium. 24 years invested, just found out two years ago. He has been trying to destroy me (heavily ) 8 years. And before but not as intense. 93 pounds at 5’3” He has been gone 4 months. I now weight 103.10 pounds yah !!! He is in Mississippi with all him family, and x-wife near buy. She left him in 75 from abuse.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌💜🙏

    • @TheRoyalWe123
      @TheRoyalWe123 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm 6ft tall. 30 year old male. I work as a landscaper. I was only 128lbs when I left. They will destroy you. Nothing like seeing your own heart beat in your scrawny chest... wow. It was worse than I thought.

  • @socalfriend6985
    @socalfriend6985 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just wanted to spend time with him, and he bread crumbed, love bombed, future faked, and gaslit me until I gave up. I took the latest ghosting to block him, for good this time. I reached the breaking point. Goodbye

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It definitely does get easier and much better ❤ Initially, it's difficult. You go from speaking to this devil everyday (in my situation 13 years,married to a complete LIE) to being ghosted! Once I educated myself on what he is,I stuck to ZERO contact. If you were married to these weak cowards allow your attorney to do all the communication. Trust and Believe what Andrew shares because it's obvious he's been through it. The more work you do on yourself and heal the ptsd these entities inflicted, the better you will feel. Gotta feel it,to heal it and that's something a Narcissist will NEVER do.

  • @tathe3786
    @tathe3786 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mean while I don’t matter to me that I blocked him! In between I thought to unblock. And I did it. But that was not good for me. I felt the nasty Energie… it makes me nervous. So I blocked him again! . And till now I didn’t unblock. And it’s the first time since I got hocked on him, I feel real save. I now know I didn’t need any kind of contact any more. He is not important any more! He s just a shadow, one day this shadow is gone. Nothing left!

  • @steveobaby6048
    @steveobaby6048 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey Andrew you're right blocking someone is the only way to heal when I blocked my ex narcissist I get a notification that says blocked text message I'm going to try my best not to look at it

  • @PowerGurhl
    @PowerGurhl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes done it multiple times and yup they never change they are the victim in their story no matter how they treat you

  • @r3phlex
    @r3phlex หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always love your content, your choices of place to stop and chat with us. Definitely feels connected when I watch your helpful clips. Thank you!

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think he thought i was going to chase after him no chance he was very much mistaken. His plan backfired on him big time.

  • @faciemus5725
    @faciemus5725 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Darn right, and they will stay blocked!

  • @WayOutWest-i3p
    @WayOutWest-i3p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Blocking wasn't easy. Especially when you have a child with the narcissist, and they have a new supply.
    But now I only have 1 form of communication being txt.
    Unless it's an emergency, then I'm not interested any longer in her. Because once you see them for who they really are, you can't unsee them!

  • @EBB9667
    @EBB9667 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I blocked him last week after he contacted me about things I left at his house. After over 3 months. And by coincidence, a few days before Thanksgiving. I dont care about the things. I'm not giving him another opportunity to hurt me. Never again

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good, cause he would! 👍👍👍💥❤
      🌈🎀😘

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😌😌💜🙏

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you. You can replace "stuff," but your peace of mind can't be bought.

  • @everett8610
    @everett8610 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everybody I am still devastated and heartbroken a lot…

  • @Darbysplace
    @Darbysplace หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This really is true!

  • @Roni5
    @Roni5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No to their fantasies as ways of life, no to drama.

  • @LauraShields-ho9mu
    @LauraShields-ho9mu หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video

  • @laurenceevans1026
    @laurenceevans1026 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Andrew , god bless you mate , keep helping us we need you in our lives.
    Laurie . Australia . 🎉♥

  • @Patricia_Stewart337
    @Patricia_Stewart337 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you!!!
    This topic!!
    This reminder is wanting to be on: press play, at convenient locations, so I can LEARN fully about the why and where to block. ( always? fully?)

  • @lucyadams2790
    @lucyadams2790 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Useful lessons Andrew, thank you, from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You take care of you and I will take of me

  • @lindavincent678
    @lindavincent678 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    His daughter said you knew how he was before you married him, I did not

  • @kathylatta6540
    @kathylatta6540 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Andrew your teachings have saved me literally......i had no idea how to get to the healing path❤

  • @HighLow66
    @HighLow66 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Squirrel! 18:34
    I'm sorry, I saw one in the vid, hahahaha
    Thanks Andrew! Much love brotha!

  • @karldunne5595
    @karldunne5595 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "same debilitating - toxic people"🥺...
    Well stated 👍✨🙏😎🎖️🥇🏆

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I blocked him everywhere and left in complete silence because he started giving me intermittent silent treatments and being passive aggressive the day after I came back from spending 3 days with him. No reaction from me just silence no chasing him nothing just silence. I waited 3 days to see if he apologised nope so I blocked him just over 10 weeks ago.