Hello beautiful. I was diagnosed with early menopause at the age of 28. I'm now 56, and my menopause is not so bad. It was worse when I was in my twenties. I do sympathize with each one of you beautiful Queens. But trust me, waking up with night sweats and drenching wet, hot flashes, insomnia, weight gain, and depression. I'm praying for all of you, beautiful Queens. Much love 💜
Hey Friend 💜 Thank you so much for sharing your story and for your encouraging words. Being diagnosed with early menopause at 28 must have been such a challenging experience, and I’m glad to hear that it’s not as bad now. It means a lot that you're sending out love and support to others who are going through it-those night sweats, hot flashes, insomnia, and everything else are no joke! Your prayers and kindness are truly appreciated. Much love back to you!🤗🤗🤗
You're so right! People often don't talk about the behind-the-scenes of posting videos-whether it’s the editing, dealing with feedback, or just how much work goes into it all. It can be a lot, but it’s also super rewarding when you see people connecting with your content
Hey Friend and the lovely v Assistant 😊 I like the dark too or minimal light. Ain't trying to run up this darn light bill honey. I need one of those for my Ernest. Have me telling him to turn off all those lights man. I'm heading right over to the store front for the one. Thank you. You said it out loud. That's a huge step Friend. I'm one of the strong too. Check on your strong friend people. Please... Ooh wow! Sorry to hear that Friend. Sounds like anxiety or your body just saying you need a break. Your body will let you know. You have to make time for YOURSELF. I feel you on that competition. I'm back on a job search as well after being with a company for 7 years. I have to do what's right for me and make ME happy. That funky heffa Menopause is something else. My body definitely has changed and shes the main culprit. I feel like I've lost a part of myself. Weight gain, and hard to get it off! Joint pains. I no longer have a cycle, Thank God. Yes, forgetting definitely happens. Walk in the room to say something to Ernest, then say Babe I forgot that fast. My eye been twitching lately. That might be apart of it too. Life is lifing even when you don't feel like being an adult some days. The back pain at times is crazy. I stay twisting, stretching trying to get relief in my lower back. Geeeesh! Thanks for giving the insight regarding the world of TH-cam. We shall overcome Friend/ ladies and out desires will be fulfilled. 🙏🏾🤗🤗🫶🏾
Hey Friend! 😊 I can totally relate to keeping the lights low ain’t nobody trying to see that light bill spike! 😂Menopause really does change everything, and it can feel like a loss of yourself in a way. The joint pains, weight gain, forgetting things-it all adds up, and some days it’s overwhelming. But, like you said, we’re strong, and we keep going, even when life is "lifing" hard! I’m so sorry to hear about the job search after seven years, that’s tough, but I love that you’re prioritizing your happiness. You deserve that! And yes, anxiety and body signals are real, it’s like our bodies are screaming at us to slow down sometimes. I hope you're finding time for YOU because self-care is everything, especially in this season of life. That twitching eye could definitely be part of the mix. Everything just seems to come together at once, doesn't it? 😩 But I’m right there with you, stretching, twisting, trying to manage this back pain and everything else. 🙏🏾🤗🫶🏾
Ms Kaye i was the same way. I would go to work only to be transported to the ER, get out and go back to work. God brought me to my knees. I haven't worked in 6 months. I now have gout and just been diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, haven't walked since May. One thing God will make us stop for reasons. Learn to stop and smell the roses because one day you want be able to. Thank God im walking a little. God bless you Queen. 💜
I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been going through. It’s tough when our bodies force us to slow down, especially with everything you’re dealing with. It sounds like a challenging journey, but I admire your resilience and faith in finding the silver lining, like learning to stop and appreciate the little things. I’m grateful to hear you’re able to walk a little now that’s a positive step forward! God truly has a way of bringing us to our knees for our own good, even when it feels heavy. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom. God bless you too! Keep taking care of yourself🤗🤗🤗
Kaye my love 💖💖💖 this life is not easy at all. However this menopause struggle is so so real just last week my body collapsed and I had no choice but to just stay in bed, and there was nothing I could do about it. Please be safe and stay strong.. 💪 Much love, we’ll get through it 🤗🤗🤗
Friend , I hear you! 💖💖💖 This menopause journey can feel overwhelming at times. Just last week, I had a similar experience where my body just gave out, and I had to surrender to it. It's tough, but we’re in this together! Thank you for your strength and support. Let’s keep lifting each other up and staying strong through it all! 💪 Much love to you, and we will absolutely get through this! 🤗🤗🤗
Hey Sis! ❤ being the strong person/friend is so draining. I’m like you , I have to go into seclusion to recharge myself. Last year I stopped taking on other ppl problems. That has helped me. Perimenopause is a worldwind. Now I can catch myself when I’m about to fall into when of those depressive spells. There’s light at the end of the tunnel, we got this❤❤❤.
Hey Sis! ❤ I totally feel you on that! Being the strong friend can be so draining, and knowing when to pull back and recharge is so important. I’m glad you’ve taken that step for yourself by setting those boundaries, it really does make a difference! Perimenopause truly is a whirlwind, but it’s amazing that you’re able to catch yourself before those depressive spells hit hard. You’re so right, there’s light at the end of the tunnel, and we’ve got this! We’re in this together! ❤❤❤
Sending hugs, thanks for sharing 🤗 I’m a 55 year old Flight Attendant in Menopause and BAEBE when I tell you I can relate. Getting ready to start Hormone Replacement Therapy. Help me Jesus🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sending big hugs your way! 🤗 I’m so glad you shared. As a 55-year-old flight attendant, I can only imagine how tough it must be balancing everything while going through menopause. Starting hormone replacement therapy is a big step ,I’ll be praying for you, and I’m sure it’ll help bring some relief. You got this, and I’m cheering you on! 🙏🏽💪🏽
Thank you so much for this I needed this and you bless my soul I thought something was wrong with me now I understand I will be 62 in January I needed this thank sis much love ❤️
You’re so welcome! I’m so glad this touched your soul and helped you feel understood. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you’re not alone in this journey. Much love to you, sis🤗🤗🤗
You're very welcome! I truly appreciate your kind words. Sharing my story and being honest about my experiences is important to me, and I’m glad it resonates with you. We’re all in this together, and it helps to have open conversations. Thank you for being part of this journey! 💖
@@kayelanhi : We got you K...... Continue standing ten toes down about your story and experiences,like seriously I hope other ladies were really listening to you not just hearing you. ,life to short to be living In a fantasy word not accepting reality ,listen I'm 45 and whhheeeeww chile (lol) these experiences are experiencing ,lol, but you know what God got us for real........... >>>>>Internet hugs
OOUUU LAAWWDD…I’m going through some of those symptoms too friend except I still have a cycle. Sometimes I feel like I’m suffering in silence. But I know I’m not alone. You my Best Good Friend(in my head) and Imma Stick Beside You My Gurl!!!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🤗🤗❤❤❤
@@jacquelinehubert7421 Thank you so much, Jacqueline! 🙏❤️ I feel you, this journey can definitely feel isolating, but it’s comforting to know we’re not alone in it. We’re in this together, my friend! Sending you hugs 🤗 and strength. 💪❤️”
Oh Friend, I feel you!! 🙌🏽 The crying outbursts hit you out of nowhere, right? It’s like, one minute you’re fine, and the next, the tears just start flowing for no reason! 😩 You’re definitely not alone in this-I’m right there with you, and so many of us are feeling all the emotions. We’ve just got to ride through it together and take care of ourselves as best we can. Sending you love and strength, Sis! 💖 You’ve got this!
Morning Sis, I know what your going through. I'm 58 and my menopause is serious!!! I had a severe episode in the lady's bathroom last week, I was sweating so hard that I thought I was having a heart attack!!! my legs, and arms could not move. I didn't have the strength to get up off the toilet. I wanted to text a co-worker but was afraid. After 15 minutes my strength came back enough to get up and make it to the sink to put cold water on my face and neck.....I like you always there for everybody else. Stress is something else....I started those non-steroid hormone replacement 3 months ago and nothing improved.... I did realize that alcoholic drinks amps it up.
Hey Sis! Wow, I’m so sorry you had to go through that-it sounds terrifying! I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to feel like you couldn’t move or reach out for help. These menopause episodes can really hit hard, and stress just makes it even worse. It’s so tough being the one who’s always there for everyone else, but you’re right-it’s so important to take care of ourselves too. I hear you on the hormone replacement; it’s frustrating when it doesn’t feel like it’s making a difference. And yes, alcohol can definitely amp up those symptoms! Sending you strength and love, Sis! Take it one day at a time, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. We’re in this together! 💖🙏🏽
@@kayelanhi thanks Sis🙏🏽 for all of us!!! I remember hearing grandma saying as I was a lil kid “ Child these heart flashes a Mess!!! “Just as show as you born!!!”🤣🤣🤣
Hey beautiful!! Yes I totally understand. We must listen when God is speaking to us… I love you praying for you & us all… I’m 56 we gotta just listen & pay attention ❤
Hey Friend! ❤ I’m so glad we’re on the same page about listening to God’s voice. It’s so important to pay attention to the signs and guidance we receive, especially during these challenging times. Thank you for your prayers; they mean a lot! Sending you love and strength as we navigate this journey together. We’ve got this! 🙏🏽💖
Good Morning Kaye Lanhi I will be 54yo on Friday if it's the Lord's will. I actually left my career a year and a half ago because I had a hysterectomy and internal struggles afterwards. I'm now ready to go back to work but the weight gain, hair thinning, sudden crying is ridiculous. I am blessed to have my babe so he's very supportive and since I'm home I'm happy 95% of the time. I am from Miami been living in the Caribbean for over 15y so the beautiful water and simple life helps too. Praying for all of us ladies ❤ we will make it through 😊
Good morning! 🌞 First off, happy early birthday! 🎉 I’m glad to hear you’re feeling blessed and have a supportive partner by your side. It’s totally understandable to be dealing with those changes after your hysterectomy-the weight gain, hair thinning, and emotional ups and downs can be really challenging. Living in the Caribbean sounds beautiful and must bring so much peace and joy to your life! . Praying for you and all of us as we go through these changes together! We’ve got this! ❤😊
Oh Kaye 🥹don't cry. I'm with you. I created a channel to help and inspire others, and that requires being vulnerable. We are at a "questionable" age. I ask myself all the time am I being ungrateful for questioning everything rather than just going with the flow? Menopause is definitely a CHANGE! It has changed me to the point where I feel like I'm losing my mind at times.🥴 I never had anxiety before, but now I get heart palpitations and everything. Gummies help, but I don't want to be in that state of mind every day just to get through. So I stopped taking them and just been dealing with it. Thank you for this vlog. You are definitely helping others. Sending you love and hugs. 🤗❤ So true about TH-cam. Everyone can do it, but it's not for everyone. We just have to keep pushing!
Friend, thank you so much for your understanding and support! 🥹 It really means a lot. Creating a channel to help and inspire others is such a beautiful way to turn vulnerability into strength, and I admire you for that. It's completely normal to question everything during this time-you're not ungrateful; you're just navigating a significant change. Menopause can definitely feel overwhelming, especially with anxiety and heart palpitations showing up unexpectedly. It’s good to hear that gummies help, but I completely understand your concern about relying on them daily. Sending you lots of love and hugs back! 🤗❤ Keep pushing forward; we’ll navigate this together!
❤❤Good morning everyone! Thank you for this video. I definitely relate to this and today I’m taking a sick day and this video is right on time! Thanks for being transparent with us!
Good morning! 🤗🤗 I’m so glad the video resonated with you, and I hope your sick day gives you the rest you need. Sometimes, taking a break is exactly what we need to recharge. Take care of yourself today, and feel better soon!
Thank you so much for your kind words! ❤ It means a lot to know that sharing my experiences can help others. God truly is good, and I believe that being honest and vulnerable can create connections and support among us. We’re all in this together, and every little bit of encouragement helps! Sending you love and blessings! 🙏🏽💖
Haha, I totally feel you! 😂 Sometimes you just have to mentally quit a job to get through the day! I’m definitely going to post that video of getting fired on my day off, it’s too relatable not to. Thanks for the support!
Hi Kaye, I’m started going through surgical menopause at 40. Listen to your body and rest. Thanks for sharing your experience. A lot of women going through menopause share your experiences. Thank God for HRT because it has really helped. Also, you do not look 50 so anyone interviewing you wouldn’t know. 😊
Hi Friend! Thank you for sharing your journey with surgical menopause. It’s so important to listen to our bodies and prioritize rest, especially during such a big transition. I’m glad to hear that HRT has been helpful for you! And thank you for the compliment-I appreciate it! 😊 It’s great to connect with others who understand these experiences. Your support means a lot, and I’m here for you as we navigate this journey together! 💖
I’m proud of you for putting out what you’ve been going through because there are plenty of people going through the same thing! And don’t worry about the age name there are people working as new hires at 50 something years old doing work from home
Thank you so much! It means a lot to hear that. 💖 Sharing my journey feels important, especially knowing so many others are going through similar struggles. And you’re right-age is just a number! There are so many inspiring folks starting fresh at 50-something and thriving in remote work. It gives me hope! 🙌🏽
Hugs Babe! Currently resting…. Rest babe(but I understand) cuz if you don’t your body will make you❤ Had the same talk with the lord all year. I’m being still so I can hear his order for my steps.
Hugs right back at you, Babe! 🤗 I’m so glad to hear you're resting-that’s exactly what we need sometimes. You’re so right, if we don’t take the time to rest, our bodies will definitely force us to. It’s like God’s way of telling us to slow down so we can truly hear His guidance. Being still and letting Him order your steps is such a beautiful and powerful move. Take care of yourself, Sis, and keep listening to His voice. Much love to you! ❤🙏🏽
Thank you 🤗🥹 this video really helped me to understand some of what my mom may be going through. We don’t have the closest bond but it makes me want to check in on her more and give her more grace. ❤
@@SimplyKeeSamone Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m really touched that the video helped you reflect on your relationship with your mom. It’s beautiful that you’re wanting to check in more and show her more grace. Relationships can be complicated, but that extra effort can mean so much. Sending you both love and positivity as you reconnect! ❤️
Happy Tuesday, Kaye Lanhi🔆⭐️. I'm a newbie to the channel - will take time to look at other videos soon, but thank you for making this one - so needed⭐️ I like the dark too - I purchased 15 watt light bulbs 💡 It's serious for me😂 Menopause is NO joke- you will get through soon! The symptoms - i.e. chin hairs, mood swings, dry skin, vision issues, UNABLE TO FOCUS - on point💯💯💯
Hey Coco 🌟 I’m so glad you found the channel and that the video resonated with you. It sounds like you’re navigating quite a few challenges with menopause-those symptoms can really hit hard! I totally get the struggle with chin hairs, mood swings, and everything else you mentioned. It’s definitely no joke! But just know that you’re not alone in this journey, and we’re all in it together. Thank you for being here, and I hope you find support and community as you explore more of the videos! 💖 Keep shining!
@kayelanhi Good morning and thank you, Kaye - I truly appreciate your encouragement! I've gotten through 4 videos and can't wait to look at more- you are such an inspiration and shining light, so don't change - stay YOU- your YT friends/tribe love it!!! Have a wonderful day🔆⭐️💛
Hey Kaye! 💕🦋✨🌻I too am going through functional depression. I didn’t really realize that’s what it was, but it is. Nonetheless, my darling I am sending you many, many blessings. I thank you for this video 💚
Hey Ladee 🤗🤗 Thank you so much for sharing that with me. It’s tough realizing we’re going through something like functional depression, but acknowledging it is such a powerful step. I’m sending you so many blessings and good vibes right back your way. 💚 I appreciate your support, and I’m glad the video resonated with you. We’ve got this!
You're welcome Niece! Oh wow, entering perimenopause at 37 can be really overwhelming! It’s a lot to process, especially when it feels like things are happening earlier than expected. But trust me, you’re not alone in this-so many of us are going through it, and it’s definitely scary at times. I’m glad we can share these experiences and support each other. Sending you love, strength, and big hugs! 🤗🤗🤗
It's definitely comforting to be able to discuss the symptoms with other ladies and verify that I'm not CRAZY!!!! LOL It's tough, but manageable when you figure out how to compromise with Ole Meni! 😂 Cotton EVERYTHING! Sheets, clothes, etc. Cooked veggies, fresh fruits, fish, evening primrose, and even finding what wines I can still drink. We can do this!!
Blessings to you, my friend! 🤗 Thank you for your kind words and for sharing that you can relate. Your support and positivity mean so much. I’m sending all the hugs🤗🤗, strength, and blessings your way. Stay strong, and may you continue to be blessed in everything you do!
Thank you so much for the virtual hugs! 🤗 I truly appreciate it. I'm glad I could shed some light on the subject, and I'm grateful for your support. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. ✨
KL I can relate to the menopause journey ! I’m 71 now and I sometimes feel like the journey hasn’t ended ! lol But we keep going ! Thank you for sharing ❤
I love that spirit! 😂 It’s amazing how menopause can feel like a never-ending journey, but your resilience shines through. Thank you for sharing your experience-it really helps to know we’re not alone in this! Here’s to keeping on and supporting each other through every twist and turn. Sending you lots of love! ❤✨
Gm thank you for sharing, Kaye please take care of YOU. I'm going through the same thing in life. GOD has kept you and will continue to keep U. Please keep you head up and continue to read your word. God Bless you Queen!! Praying for you
Good morning! Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers! It means a lot to know we’re in this together. I truly appreciate your encouragement to take care of myself, I’ll definitely keep that in mind. Your faith and positivity shine through, and I’m sending those blessings right back to you. Let’s keep supporting each other on this journey! ✨
@@ToneitDown-b1w You’re so right! The struggle is definitely real, but knowing we’re all going through it together makes it a little easier. Stay strong! ❤️
You’re so welcome! Keeping it real is so important, especially when it comes to topics like perimenopause and menopause that aren’t often discussed openly. I’m glad you appreciate it! Your support means a lot.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
As a 62 year old woman I can relate to everything that you are saying. You are correct no one ever speaks about menopause. I appreciate you for doing that. It’s the hot flashes and night sweats for me.
It’s so true! Menopause isn’t talked about enough, but it’s something so many of us go through. I’m glad we can have these conversations and support one another. Those hot flashes and night sweats can be tough to deal with! Sending you strength as we navigate this journey together. 💖
👍👍👍 I pray for you and all of us going through the m word it's hitting me like a ton of bricks 🙏 but I'm pushing 🫸 thru and knowing the Gemini you are like my mom was you got this Ms K 😊much respect and appreciation for sharing your story
Thank you so much for your prayers and kind words! 🙏 Menopause really can feel like it's hitting hard, but I love your spirit-you’re pushing through, and that’s what matters. As a fellow Gemini like your mom, I’m sending you all the strength and love to keep going. We’ve got this! 😊 Much respect and appreciation right back at you for your support. 🤗🤗🤗
Hi Friend 🤗 I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through it, but I’m glad you found a place to connect. It really helps to share our experiences, doesn’t it? Just know you’re not alone in this journey, and I’m sending you lots of love and support! 💖 We’ve got each other! 🙏🏽❤
I understand friend!!!! 🥹🫶🏽 I cant stand this peri menopause...smh i already struggle w depression and anxiety this def isnt helping 😢 .....hugggsssssss!!!! 🫶🏽
I totally understand, friend! 🥹🫶🏽 Perimenopause on top of dealing with depression and anxiety is so overwhelming-it’s like everything is amplified, and it can feel like too much. Just know you’re not alone in this; I’m right here with you, and so many of us are feeling the same struggles. It’s okay to feel all the emotions, but also know we’re in this together!
Hi Friend 🤗 I’m so glad to hear you can relate! It’s all about lifting each other up and never giving up, no matter how tough things get. Thank you for the big hugs-sending them right back to you! 🫂
Hey sis! ❤ Thank you for the encouraging words! It means a lot to know you understand what I'm going through. I’ll keep reminding myself to breathe and trust that this too shall pass. Your support is invaluable-sending love your way! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your heartfelt prayer! 🙏 Your support and kindness mean the world to me. I truly appreciate you keeping me in your thoughts, and I’m sending all those blessings right back to you! May we both find strength and comfort as we navigate this journey together. Take care! 💖
Thank you for being transparent Friend. I am going through peri…and let me tell you it’s a rollercoaster ride. 🤗 It’s good to see you smiling! Thanks for the TH-cam tips as well ❤️
You're so welcome! It really is a rollercoaster, and peri can bring its own unique set of challenges. I’m glad the TH-cam tips helped, and keep smiling❤
Yes yes yes… you hit those menopause symptoms on the nose. I too have them and it can be scary. Thank you for sharing. I’m a new subscriber so I look forward to more of your videos.
Yes, girl! 🙌🏽 Those menopause symptoms are no joke, and they can definitely be scary at times. I’m so glad you found the video helpful! Thank you for subscribing, and welcome! 🤗 I appreciate your support, and I’m excited to share more with you. We’re in this together! 💜
Hey Kaye!! I appreciate this video I've been feeling the same lately just a lot of changes and adjusting. All we can do is let nature take its course and ride this thing out and just be grateful in this unfamiliar and uncomfortable part of life and know we are blessed. I really hope you feel better and yes take time out for yourself I had to dial it back some too if you don't it will take over but always keep smiling and showing up for yourself and the people that you inspire on you tube and in your personal life.❤
Hey! Thank you so much for your thoughtful message! 🌟 I completely agree-it’s all about navigating these changes, being grateful for the lessons they bring, and allowing nature to take its course. Taking time for ourselves is essential; I’ve learned that the hard way. It’s easy to get overwhelmed, but we have to prioritize our well-being to keep inspiring others. Your support and positivity mean a lot to me! Let’s keep smiling and lifting each other up through this journey. Sending you lots of love! ❤😊
I really needed to hear this, cause I thought I have been losing my mind around here... I turned 50 this year, but I think I started going through the "change" during my late 30s early 40s...
I’m so glad this resonated with you! You are not losing your mind, Sis-it’s just this wild ride called menopause that makes us feel all kinds of ways. Turning 50 is a big milestone, but starting to experience the "change" in your late 30s or early 40s is totally possible. Our bodies have a way of sneaking up on us with these shifts when we least expect it! You’re definitely not alone, and it helps so much to know we’re in this together. Hang in there, and give yourself grace through it all. Sending you love and peace-one step at a time! 💖
Hey friend I'm so sorry you are going through all the things I am going through with menopause, everything you said I get it. You are not alone. I pray that God provides you with all you need to get through each day Amen, Thank you so much for sharing because it definitely helps so many🙏🏽🤗💕
Hey friend! Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers! 🙏🏽 It really means a lot to know we’re not alone in this journey. I’m glad that by sharing, we can help each other and others who are going through similar struggles. Together, we’ll get through each day, one step at a time. Sending you lots of love and hugs! 🤗💕
Heyyyy Friend. Omg! I’m sending u the biggest 🤗. Listen the way I needed to hear this about perimenopause, cause I’m going through it over here. I understand in all so well and I’m not sure if it’s cause we both or Gemini’s but when u said u are a private person but yet u on TH-cam and also when I spoke on keeping and holding stuff in. Friend that is so me. This video was for me. Thank u so much. And I pray u are feeling better and doing better 🥰🤗.
Heyyyy Friend! Sending you the biggest 🤗 right back! I’m so glad this resonated with you, especially when it comes to perimenopause, Babyyyy I know how real the struggle is. And yes, maybe it’s the Gemini connection, but I totally get you on being a private person while still sharing things publicly. Holding stuff in feels so familiar, doesn’t it? I’m so glad this video spoke to you, and thank you for your prayers and kind words. I’m sending all the positive energy your way and praying you’re feeling good too! 🥰🤗 Stay strong, friend!
I hear you! It’s so frustrating dealing with the confusion, clumsiness, and depression, and those night-time hot flashes can really add to it all. Menopause or perimenopause can feel like a whirlwind sometimes, especially when it all hits at once. Sending you strength and a big virtual hug 🤗 to get through those tough moments.
I couldn't do my insta cart because of what I was feeling. This was promo weekend too. I got heart palps yesterday all day which caused anxiety if I drank to much coffee. I experience all of the above! Help us Lord!!
I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling this way! Those heart palpitations and anxiety can be really unsettling, especially when you’re already dealing with so much. It’s understandable that it affected your ability to do your Instacart during promo weekend. , It’s important to listen to your body, sometimes taking a step back is the best thing you can do for yourself. If cutting back on coffee helps ease those symptoms, that might be worth considering, even if it’s just temporarily. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your health over everything else. Sending you strength and comfort! 🙏🏽💖
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Oh wow, I hear you! Dry eyes, gum swelling, itchy ears, and that ringing in the ears-it’s like menopause has its own list of surprises, right? 😩 But we’re definitely in this together! Hang in there, and thank you for sharing your experience too. Sending lots of love and strength your way! We’ve got this! 💪🏽💖
Good morning kaylani It is 607 a.m. and I have not been to sleep yet. Welcome to my world with the menopause I am 59 years of age. In 2018 I had my thyroids removed And my body has not been the same since. That was in April of 2018 and around August of 2018 I found out I had stage 1 uterine cancer . in October of 2018 I had a total hysterectomy. Girlfriend when I tell you instant menopause. So I can sympathize with everything you saying you're speaking on .I am watching you now and you just started 16 minutes ago. I'm not worried about going to sleep, I suffer from insomnia many many years. I take my meds and it helps me sleep. But earlier , today i my orthopedic doctor. I got my cortisone shots in both knees and had fluid removed. So I've been in pain all day and even now I'm in pain that's probably why I can't sleep. But I so appreciate you responding back whenever I comment on your post. I don't get out much because of my Mobility so my TV is my best friend. I go where I need to go and back home. But we are going to be okay we just have to take it one day at a time. I'm going to keep you in my prayers.
It sounds like you had a panic attack. Something I also have and by the way since the thyroid removal and now I'm on a pill for the rest of my life I started having anxiety attacks girlfriend I pray that you never happened to you but that's what mother nature and her menopause does for us beautiful women. Good like you said you're not all right but you will be all right. Remember one day at a time
Good morning Brigette🤗 Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. It sounds like you've been through so much, and I can truly empathize with the challenges you've faced. Menopause, combined with the health hurdles you’ve been through since 2018, sounds incredibly tough, and yet you seem to keep such a positive spirit. I’m glad to hear that your TV and these connections online can be a source of comfort and companionship for you. It’s important to have those small joys, especially when mobility is limited. Thank you for keeping me in your prayers-please know I’ll be keeping you in mine as well. You’re right, we’ll get through this one day at a time, and it’s so good to know we can share these moments together. I hope you find some rest soon. Stay strong, and feel free to reach out whenever you need to.🤗🤗🤗
Yeah, they don’t tell you about what happens after you post. You really can’t feel bad after you post that first video and get low views or no views and no comments, it takes a lot of consistency
Absolutely! They really don’t prepare you for what happens after you post. It can be tough to see low views or no comments on that first video, but it’s all part of the process. Consistency is key, and we just have to keep pushing through! Every step counts, and eventually, we’ll find our audience. 💪🏽 Keep going!
Hey Girl Hey! I am a woman of a particular age who will cut you... straight out of my timeline if you start bothering me. I'm an introvert and I'm good at home alone. This past weekend, I sat down on my couch and stayed there for 2 days. I only answered the phone because if I didn't, my kids would come over looking for me. I'm not sure if it's menopause or me not wanting to entertain fake people. 🤷🏾♀️ Sending you hugs, love, Peace and Blessings.
Hey Girl 🤗🤗 I totally get where you’re coming from! Sometimes, a good couch sit is just what we need to recharge, especially when dealing with all the complexities of life and menopause. It sounds like you needed that time to yourself, and that’s completely valid. Prioritizing your peace and avoiding fake people is a strong move! 🫶Sending you all the hugs, love, peace, and blessings right back! You take care of yourself, and keep enjoying that alone time-it’s essential! 💖✨
Haha, that’s awesome! 😂 It sounds like we’ve got a lot in common! Same drink, same glass, and navigating this wild ride of menopause together who knew we’d be kindred spirits? Let’s keep sharing the laughs and supporting each other through it all! Cheers to us! 🍹💁🏾♀PS. I subscribed
Thank you but I just got out the shower, still no sleep. Just took my thyroid meds and all the rest of the meds. As far as my spirt. It's because I know this too shall pass. My faith in God and His holy spirit has brought me through so much. I don't really put any of my personal business on the internet I do interact with Facebook & Instagram and tick tock. I share positive things like I have 14 Grand children. And 4 living adult children. My oldest daughter passed away in 2011 from stomach cancer she was 27 years of age. And for the last 13 years I have been raising her 4 children & my 4 oldest grandchildren. The youngest of four just graduated in June thank God. It was a uphill battle. But God sent people in our lives for the better.. NOW HERE'S WERE MY MIND WENT LEFT😂. NOT FUNNY, SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO😂...AS I WAS SAYING! my daughter and son's birthday is this month and I have two grandchildren's birthday this month. I post like HAPPY events i don't mind sharing..nothing that I wouldn't want anyone knowing I'm like you I'm getting off subject. But anyway I get what you're saying when you say you're a private person ,I am too and just like you say it's 24 hours in a day ,we have no clue what the day brings... I couldn't shower after I came home because of the shots of the doctor doesn't want to get wet. So I just got out the shower I feel so much better. Sleep is no where near😂. I'm quite sure by now you can tell I don't have many friends . I only have one and I'm not sure about that. I'm going to let you go now I'm going to watch some more of youtube. And later have some coffee and finish my dinner maybe I'll fall asleep early. Have a beautiful rest of your day🤗
Thank you for opening up and sharing your story with me, it’s so heartfelt, and I can feel your strength and faith shining through every word. It’s incredible how you’ve been there for your family, raising your grandchildren while holding onto your faith through everything life has thrown your way. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter; I can’t imagine how hard that journey has been for you. You’ve been through so much, yet you’re still showing love, care, and positivity-that’s truly inspiring.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Thank you so much Kay for sharing . I’m going through menopause also and this is a journey I was not ready for, but God willing we will get through this. I also have been feeling a season of great change coming and this video is confirmation that God is preparing the table for you right now!🩷😘#youarenotalone
Thank you for your heartfelt message! 🌸 I’m glad to hear my video resonated with you. Menopause can be such an unexpected journey, and it's comforting to know we’re not alone in this. I truly believe that these changes often lead to new beginnings, and it sounds like you're embracing that perspective too. Sending you positive vibes as we navigate this together-God truly has a plan for us! 🩷 !
I really like you and what you speak upon menopause. YES I feel you I can't deal sometimes. When I fist saw you it was funny. Because I am 55 2 time breast cancer and menapause all the extra stuff. Well you can take a break. Don't be hard on yourself. I had to retire. So I am on the private. Oh I was getting Temu stuff as well. I cut my hair in summer. But I say it's something to do here. But I hope you read this.✌🏾🩷🍁🍂❤️🍁🌻 these chin hair and mine be course. I am with you🙏🏾 and love the way you dress.
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🩷 I really appreciate you sharing your journey with me. It’s incredible how we can connect through these experiences, especially with everything you’ve been through as a two-time breast cancer survivor. That strength is truly inspiring! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I completely understand about the struggles with menopause-it can be a lot to handle. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes! ✨
Hello beautiful. I was diagnosed with early menopause at the age of 28. I'm now 56, and my menopause is not so bad. It was worse when I was in my twenties. I do sympathize with each one of you beautiful Queens. But trust me, waking up with night sweats and drenching wet, hot flashes, insomnia, weight gain, and depression. I'm praying for all of you, beautiful Queens. Much love 💜
Hey Friend 💜 Thank you so much for sharing your story and for your encouraging words. Being diagnosed with early menopause at 28 must have been such a challenging experience, and I’m glad to hear that it’s not as bad now. It means a lot that you're sending out love and support to others who are going through it-those night sweats, hot flashes, insomnia, and everything else are no joke! Your prayers and kindness are truly appreciated. Much love back to you!🤗🤗🤗
😮I need that light❤
you can even use it for your phone
Enjoyed the video❤❤
Thank you
Yes they don’t tell you the aftermath of posting videos
You're so right! People often don't talk about the behind-the-scenes of posting videos-whether it’s the editing, dealing with feedback, or just how much work goes into it all. It can be a lot, but it’s also super rewarding when you see people connecting with your content
Hey Friend and the lovely v Assistant 😊 I like the dark too or minimal light. Ain't trying to run up this darn light bill honey. I need one of those for my Ernest. Have me telling him to turn off all those lights man. I'm heading right over to the store front for the one. Thank you. You said it out loud. That's a huge step Friend. I'm one of the strong too. Check on your strong friend people. Please... Ooh wow! Sorry to hear that Friend. Sounds like anxiety or your body just saying you need a break. Your body will let you know. You have to make time for YOURSELF. I feel you on that competition. I'm back on a job search as well after being with a company for 7 years. I have to do what's right for me and make ME happy. That funky heffa Menopause is something else. My body definitely has changed and shes the main culprit. I feel like I've lost a part of myself. Weight gain, and hard to get it off! Joint pains. I no longer have a cycle, Thank God. Yes, forgetting definitely happens. Walk in the room to say something to Ernest, then say Babe I forgot that fast. My eye been twitching lately. That might be apart of it too. Life is lifing even when you don't feel like being an adult some days. The back pain at times is crazy. I stay twisting, stretching trying to get relief in my lower back. Geeeesh! Thanks for giving the insight regarding the world of TH-cam. We shall overcome Friend/ ladies and out desires will be fulfilled. 🙏🏾🤗🤗🫶🏾
Hey Friend! 😊 I can totally relate to keeping the lights low ain’t nobody trying to see that light bill spike! 😂Menopause really does change everything, and it can feel like a loss of yourself in a way. The joint pains, weight gain, forgetting things-it all adds up, and some days it’s overwhelming. But, like you said, we’re strong, and we keep going, even when life is "lifing" hard!
I’m so sorry to hear about the job search after seven years, that’s tough, but I love that you’re prioritizing your happiness. You deserve that! And yes, anxiety and body signals are real, it’s like our bodies are screaming at us to slow down sometimes. I hope you're finding time for YOU because self-care is everything, especially in this season of life.
That twitching eye could definitely be part of the mix. Everything just seems to come together at once, doesn't it? 😩 But I’m right there with you, stretching, twisting, trying to manage this back pain and everything else.
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Yes I can’t wait to get my cider pills❤
Best thing ever
Ms Kaye i was the same way. I would go to work only to be transported to the ER, get out and go back to work. God brought me to my knees. I haven't worked in 6 months. I now have gout and just been diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, haven't walked since May. One thing God will make us stop for reasons. Learn to stop and smell the roses because one day you want be able to. Thank God im walking a little. God bless you Queen. 💜
I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been going through. It’s tough when our bodies force us to slow down, especially with everything you’re dealing with. It sounds like a challenging journey, but I admire your resilience and faith in finding the silver lining, like learning to stop and appreciate the little things.
I’m grateful to hear you’re able to walk a little now that’s a positive step forward! God truly has a way of bringing us to our knees for our own good, even when it feels heavy. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom. God bless you too! Keep taking care of yourself🤗🤗🤗
Claim your healing in the name of Jesus. Matt 7:7 Amen
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Kaye my love 💖💖💖 this life is not easy at all.
However this menopause struggle is so so real just last week my body collapsed
and I had no choice but to just stay in bed, and there was nothing I could do about it.
Please be safe and stay strong.. 💪
Much love, we’ll get through it 🤗🤗🤗
Friend , I hear you! 💖💖💖 This menopause journey can feel overwhelming at times. Just last week, I had a similar experience where my body just gave out, and I had to surrender to it. It's tough, but we’re in this together!
Thank you for your strength and support. Let’s keep lifting each other up and staying strong through it all! 💪 Much love to you, and we will absolutely get through this! 🤗🤗🤗
Hey Sis! ❤ being the strong person/friend is so draining. I’m like you , I have to go into seclusion to recharge myself. Last year I stopped taking on other ppl problems. That has helped me.
Perimenopause is a worldwind. Now I can catch myself when I’m about to fall into when of those depressive spells. There’s light at the end of the tunnel, we got this❤❤❤.
Hey Sis! ❤ I totally feel you on that! Being the strong friend can be so draining, and knowing when to pull back and recharge is so important. I’m glad you’ve taken that step for yourself by setting those boundaries, it really does make a difference!
Perimenopause truly is a whirlwind, but it’s amazing that you’re able to catch yourself before those depressive spells hit hard. You’re so right, there’s light at the end of the tunnel, and we’ve got this! We’re in this together! ❤❤❤
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Sending hugs, thanks for sharing 🤗 I’m a 55 year old Flight Attendant in Menopause and BAEBE when I tell you I can relate. Getting ready to start Hormone Replacement Therapy. Help me Jesus🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sending big hugs your way! 🤗 I’m so glad you shared. As a 55-year-old flight attendant, I can only imagine how tough it must be balancing everything while going through menopause. Starting hormone replacement therapy is a big step ,I’ll be praying for you, and I’m sure it’ll help bring some relief. You got this, and I’m cheering you on! 🙏🏽💪🏽
Thank you so much for this I needed this and you bless my soul I thought something was wrong with me now I understand I will be 62 in January I needed this thank sis much love ❤️
You’re so welcome! I’m so glad this touched your soul and helped you feel understood. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you’re not alone in this journey. Much love to you, sis🤗🤗🤗
*****Kaye, thank you so much for your raw & uncut story and honesty......
You're very welcome! I truly appreciate your kind words. Sharing my story and being honest about my experiences is important to me, and I’m glad it resonates with you. We’re all in this together, and it helps to have open conversations. Thank you for being part of this journey! 💖
@@kayelanhi : We got you K......
Continue standing ten toes down about your story and experiences,like seriously I hope other ladies were really listening to you not just hearing you.
,life to short to be living In a fantasy word not accepting reality ,listen I'm 45 and whhheeeeww chile (lol) these experiences are experiencing ,lol, but you know what God got us for real...........
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OOUUU LAAWWDD…I’m going through some of those symptoms too friend except I still have a cycle. Sometimes I feel like I’m suffering in silence. But I know I’m not alone. You my Best Good Friend(in my head) and Imma Stick Beside You My Gurl!!!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🤗🤗❤❤❤
@@jacquelinehubert7421 Thank you so much, Jacqueline! 🙏❤️ I feel you, this journey can definitely feel isolating, but it’s comforting to know we’re not alone in it. We’re in this together, my friend! Sending you hugs 🤗 and strength. 💪❤️”
Omg!!! I’m going through it now at 45 and I’m experiencing everything you listed… Jesus take my wheel!! Don’t forget the crying outburst randomly 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Oh Friend, I feel you!! 🙌🏽 The crying outbursts hit you out of nowhere, right? It’s like, one minute you’re fine, and the next, the tears just start flowing for no reason! 😩 You’re definitely not alone in this-I’m right there with you, and so many of us are feeling all the emotions.
We’ve just got to ride through it together and take care of ourselves as best we can. Sending you love and strength, Sis! 💖 You’ve got this!
Morning Sis, I know what your going through. I'm 58 and my menopause is serious!!! I had a severe episode in the lady's bathroom last week, I was sweating so hard that I thought I was having a heart attack!!! my legs, and arms could not move. I didn't have the strength to get up off the toilet. I wanted to text a co-worker but was afraid. After 15 minutes my strength came back enough to get up and make it to the sink to put cold water on my face and neck.....I like you always there for everybody else. Stress is something else....I started those non-steroid hormone replacement 3 months ago and nothing improved.... I did realize that alcoholic drinks amps it up.
Hey Sis! Wow, I’m so sorry you had to go through that-it sounds terrifying! I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to feel like you couldn’t move or reach out for help. These menopause episodes can really hit hard, and stress just makes it even worse.
It’s so tough being the one who’s always there for everyone else, but you’re right-it’s so important to take care of ourselves too. I hear you on the hormone replacement; it’s frustrating when it doesn’t feel like it’s making a difference. And yes, alcohol can definitely amp up those symptoms!
Sending you strength and love, Sis! Take it one day at a time, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. We’re in this together! 💖🙏🏽
@@kayelanhi thanks Sis🙏🏽 for all of us!!! I remember hearing grandma saying as I was a lil kid “ Child these heart flashes a Mess!!! “Just as show as you born!!!”🤣🤣🤣
Hey beautiful!! Yes I totally understand. We must listen when God is speaking to us… I love you praying for you & us all… I’m 56 we gotta just listen & pay attention ❤
Hey Friend! ❤ I’m so glad we’re on the same page about listening to God’s voice. It’s so important to pay attention to the signs and guidance we receive, especially during these challenging times. Thank you for your prayers; they mean a lot!
Sending you love and strength as we navigate this journey together. We’ve got this! 🙏🏽💖
Good Morning Kaye Lanhi I will be 54yo on Friday if it's the Lord's will. I actually left my career a year and a half ago because I had a hysterectomy and internal struggles afterwards. I'm now ready to go back to work but the weight gain, hair thinning, sudden crying is ridiculous. I am blessed to have my babe so he's very supportive and since I'm home I'm happy 95% of the time. I am from Miami been living in the Caribbean for over 15y so the beautiful water and simple life helps too. Praying for all of us ladies ❤ we will make it through 😊
Good morning! 🌞 First off, happy early birthday! 🎉 I’m glad to hear you’re feeling blessed and have a supportive partner by your side. It’s totally understandable to be dealing with those changes after your hysterectomy-the weight gain, hair thinning, and emotional ups and downs can be really challenging.
Living in the Caribbean sounds beautiful and must bring so much peace and joy to your life! . Praying for you and all of us as we go through these changes together! We’ve got this! ❤😊
Oh Kaye 🥹don't cry. I'm with you. I created a channel to help and inspire others, and that requires being vulnerable. We are at a "questionable" age. I ask myself all the time am I being ungrateful for questioning everything rather than just going with the flow? Menopause is definitely a CHANGE! It has changed me to the point where I feel like I'm losing my mind at times.🥴 I never had anxiety before, but now I get heart palpitations and everything. Gummies help, but I don't want to be in that state of mind every day just to get through. So I stopped taking them and just been dealing with it. Thank you for this vlog. You are definitely helping others. Sending you love and hugs. 🤗❤ So true about TH-cam. Everyone can do it, but it's not for everyone. We just have to keep pushing!
Friend, thank you so much for your understanding and support! 🥹 It really means a lot. Creating a channel to help and inspire others is such a beautiful way to turn vulnerability into strength, and I admire you for that.
It's completely normal to question everything during this time-you're not ungrateful; you're just navigating a significant change. Menopause can definitely feel overwhelming, especially with anxiety and heart palpitations showing up unexpectedly. It’s good to hear that gummies help, but I completely understand your concern about relying on them daily.
Sending you lots of love and hugs back! 🤗❤ Keep pushing forward; we’ll navigate this together!
Oh wow! I might be in peri menopause 😩 definitely experiencing a lot of that
Whew chile !!! The Struggle of it all 😂
❤❤Good morning everyone! Thank you for this video. I definitely relate to this and today I’m taking a sick day and this video is right on time! Thanks for being transparent with us!
Good morning! 🤗🤗 I’m so glad the video resonated with you, and I hope your sick day gives you the rest you need. Sometimes, taking a break is exactly what we need to recharge. Take care of yourself today, and feel better soon!
Wow, your honesty and vulnerability is so helpful to so many people ❤ God is good 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for your kind words! ❤ It means a lot to know that sharing my experiences can help others. God truly is good, and I believe that being honest and vulnerable can create connections and support among us. We’re all in this together, and every little bit of encouragement helps! Sending you love and blessings! 🙏🏽💖
@@kayelanhi ❤️🤗
Hey 👍🏾 yes, post your video of you getting fired on your day off. I’ve quit my job twice this month in my head 😂. I’m tired or working.
Haha, I totally feel you! 😂 Sometimes you just have to mentally quit a job to get through the day! I’m definitely going to post that video of getting fired on my day off, it’s too relatable not to. Thanks for the support!
Definitely in peri 😢😩
Cyber Hug sis!!
Hi Kaye,
I’m started going through surgical menopause at 40. Listen to your body and rest. Thanks for sharing your experience. A lot of women going through menopause share your experiences. Thank God for HRT because it has really helped. Also, you do not look 50 so anyone interviewing you wouldn’t know. 😊
Hi Friend! Thank you for sharing your journey with surgical menopause. It’s so important to listen to our bodies and prioritize rest, especially during such a big transition. I’m glad to hear that HRT has been helpful for you!
And thank you for the compliment-I appreciate it! 😊 It’s great to connect with others who understand these experiences. Your support means a lot, and I’m here for you as we navigate this journey together! 💖
I’m proud of you for putting out what you’ve been going through because there are plenty of people going through the same thing! And don’t worry about the age name there are people working as new hires at 50 something years old doing work from home
Thank you so much! It means a lot to hear that. 💖 Sharing my journey feels important, especially knowing so many others are going through similar struggles. And you’re right-age is just a number! There are so many inspiring folks starting fresh at 50-something and thriving in remote work. It gives me hope! 🙌🏽
Hugs Babe! Currently resting…. Rest babe(but I understand) cuz if you don’t your body will make you❤ Had the same talk with the lord all year. I’m being still so I can hear his order for my steps.
Hugs right back at you, Babe! 🤗 I’m so glad to hear you're resting-that’s exactly what we need sometimes. You’re so right, if we don’t take the time to rest, our bodies will definitely force us to. It’s like God’s way of telling us to slow down so we can truly hear His guidance.
Being still and letting Him order your steps is such a beautiful and powerful move. Take care of yourself, Sis, and keep listening to His voice. Much love to you! ❤🙏🏽
Thank you 🤗🥹 this video really helped me to understand some of what my mom may be going through. We don’t have the closest bond but it makes me want to check in on her more and give her more grace. ❤
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Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m really touched that the video helped you reflect on your relationship with your mom. It’s beautiful that you’re wanting to check in more and show her more grace. Relationships can be complicated, but that extra effort can mean so much. Sending you both love and positivity as you reconnect! ❤️
Happy Tuesday, Kaye Lanhi🔆⭐️. I'm a newbie to the channel - will take time to look at other videos soon, but thank you for making this one - so needed⭐️ I like the dark too - I purchased 15 watt light bulbs 💡 It's serious for me😂 Menopause is NO joke- you will get through soon! The symptoms - i.e. chin hairs, mood swings, dry skin, vision issues, UNABLE TO FOCUS - on point💯💯💯
Hey Coco 🌟 I’m so glad you found the channel and that the video resonated with you. It sounds like you’re navigating quite a few challenges with menopause-those symptoms can really hit hard!
I totally get the struggle with chin hairs, mood swings, and everything else you mentioned. It’s definitely no joke! But just know that you’re not alone in this journey, and we’re all in it together. Thank you for being here, and I hope you find support and community as you explore more of the videos! 💖 Keep shining!
@kayelanhi Good morning and thank you, Kaye - I truly appreciate your encouragement! I've gotten through 4 videos and can't wait to look at more- you are such an inspiration and shining light, so don't change - stay YOU- your YT friends/tribe love it!!! Have a wonderful day🔆⭐️💛
Hey Kaye! 💕🦋✨🌻I too am going through functional depression. I didn’t really realize that’s what it was, but it is. Nonetheless, my darling I am sending you many, many blessings.
I thank you for this video 💚
Hey Ladee 🤗🤗 Thank you so much for sharing that with me. It’s tough realizing we’re going through something like functional depression, but acknowledging it is such a powerful step. I’m sending you so many blessings and good vibes right back your way. 💚 I appreciate your support, and I’m glad the video resonated with you. We’ve got this!
@@kayelanhi Aww, thank you so much responding .🤗💚
@@LadeeKay You're more than welcome Friend
I'm definitely in peri at 37 and it is SCARY!!! Thanks for sharing Aunty!
You're welcome Niece! Oh wow, entering perimenopause at 37 can be really overwhelming! It’s a lot to process, especially when it feels like things are happening earlier than expected. But trust me, you’re not alone in this-so many of us are going through it, and it’s definitely scary at times.
I’m glad we can share these experiences and support each other. Sending you love, strength, and big hugs! 🤗🤗🤗
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It's definitely comforting to be able to discuss the symptoms with other ladies and verify that I'm not CRAZY!!!! LOL It's tough, but manageable when you figure out how to compromise with Ole Meni! 😂 Cotton EVERYTHING! Sheets, clothes, etc. Cooked veggies, fresh fruits, fish, evening primrose, and even finding what wines I can still drink. We can do this!!
Blessings Friend 🤗 I definitely can relate. I appreciate your transparency. Continue to be blessed and all you do ❤🙌🏽💪🏾💪🏾
Blessings to you, my friend! 🤗 Thank you for your kind words and for sharing that you can relate. Your support and positivity mean so much. I’m sending all the hugs🤗🤗, strength, and blessings your way. Stay strong, and may you continue to be blessed in everything you do!
Sending virtual hugs. God bless you. You hit everything on the head. Thank you for shining light on this subject❤
Thank you so much for the virtual hugs! 🤗 I truly appreciate it. I'm glad I could shed some light on the subject, and I'm grateful for your support. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. ✨
KL I can relate to the menopause journey ! I’m 71 now and I sometimes feel like the journey hasn’t ended ! lol But we keep going ! Thank you for sharing ❤
I love that spirit! 😂 It’s amazing how menopause can feel like a never-ending journey, but your resilience shines through. Thank you for sharing your experience-it really helps to know we’re not alone in this! Here’s to keeping on and supporting each other through every twist and turn. Sending you lots of love! ❤✨
Gm thank you for sharing, Kaye please take care of YOU. I'm going through the same thing in life. GOD has kept you and will continue to keep U. Please keep you head up and continue to read your word. God Bless you Queen!! Praying for you
Good morning! Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers! It means a lot to know we’re in this together. I truly appreciate your encouragement to take care of myself, I’ll definitely keep that in mind. Your faith and positivity shine through, and I’m sending those blessings right back to you. Let’s keep supporting each other on this journey! ✨
Yes all them those you named we're going through the struggle is real❤
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You’re so right! The struggle is definitely real, but knowing we’re all going through it together makes it a little easier. Stay strong! ❤️
@@kayelanhi ASE blessings to you
Thank you for keeping it REAL with regards to YT and perimenopause/ menopause !
Much appreciated!
Keep the videos coming!!
You’re so welcome! Keeping it real is so important, especially when it comes to topics like perimenopause and menopause that aren’t often discussed openly. I’m glad you appreciate it! Your support means a lot.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
As a 62 year old woman I can relate to everything that you are saying. You are correct no one ever speaks about menopause.
I appreciate you for doing that. It’s the hot flashes and night sweats for me.
It’s so true! Menopause isn’t talked about enough, but it’s something so many of us go through. I’m glad we can have these conversations and support one another. Those hot flashes and night sweats can be tough to deal with! Sending you strength as we navigate this journey together. 💖
👍👍👍 I pray for you and all of us going through the m word it's hitting me like a ton of bricks 🙏 but I'm pushing 🫸 thru and knowing the Gemini you are like my mom was you got this Ms K 😊much respect and appreciation for sharing your story
Thank you so much for your prayers and kind words! 🙏 Menopause really can feel like it's hitting hard, but I love your spirit-you’re pushing through, and that’s what matters. As a fellow Gemini like your mom, I’m sending you all the strength and love to keep going. We’ve got this! 😊 Much respect and appreciation right back at you for your support. 🤗🤗🤗
Hi queen I'm going through menopause 😢it's everything you explained. I hope 🙏 you feel better sister ❤🤗
Hi Friend 🤗 I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through it, but I’m glad you found a place to connect. It really helps to share our experiences, doesn’t it? Just know you’re not alone in this journey, and I’m sending you lots of love and support! 💖
We’ve got each other! 🙏🏽❤
@@kayelanhiThank you so much 💓
I understand friend!!!! 🥹🫶🏽 I cant stand this peri menopause...smh i already struggle w depression and anxiety this def isnt helping 😢 .....hugggsssssss!!!! 🫶🏽
I totally understand, friend! 🥹🫶🏽 Perimenopause on top of dealing with depression and anxiety is so overwhelming-it’s like everything is amplified, and it can feel like too much. Just know you’re not alone in this; I’m right here with you, and so many of us are feeling the same struggles. It’s okay to feel all the emotions, but also know we’re in this together!
Hello Kaye , I can relate… yes sis never gives up. Sending a big hugs 🫂
Hi Friend 🤗 I’m so glad to hear you can relate! It’s all about lifting each other up and never giving up, no matter how tough things get. Thank you for the big hugs-sending them right back to you! 🫂
Hey sis I know exactly what you’re going through and it will get better just breathe this to shell pass ❤❤❤
Hey sis! ❤ Thank you for the encouraging words! It means a lot to know you understand what I'm going through. I’ll keep reminding myself to breathe and trust that this too shall pass. Your support is invaluable-sending love your way! ❤❤❤
Prayer for you that God continues to bless you through all you're going through...🙏
Thank you so much for your heartfelt prayer! 🙏 Your support and kindness mean the world to me. I truly appreciate you keeping me in your thoughts, and I’m sending all those blessings right back to you! May we both find strength and comfort as we navigate this journey together. Take care! 💖
Hey friend, I’m here!
🤗 Thanks for being so transparent 💚
You're very welcome! I'm glad I can be here for you. 🌟 It's all about supporting each other through these journeys. You've got this!
Thank you for being transparent Friend. I am going through peri…and let me tell you it’s a rollercoaster ride. 🤗 It’s good to see you smiling! Thanks for the TH-cam tips as well ❤️
You're so welcome! It really is a rollercoaster, and peri can bring its own unique set of challenges. I’m glad the TH-cam tips helped, and keep smiling❤
Yes yes yes… you hit those menopause symptoms on the nose. I too have them and it can be scary. Thank you for sharing. I’m a new subscriber so I look forward to more of your videos.
Yes, girl! 🙌🏽 Those menopause symptoms are no joke, and they can definitely be scary at times. I’m so glad you found the video helpful! Thank you for subscribing, and welcome! 🤗 I appreciate your support, and I’m excited to share more with you. We’re in this together! 💜
Hey Kaye!! I appreciate this video I've been feeling the same lately just a lot of changes and adjusting. All we can do is let nature take its course and ride this thing out and just be grateful in this unfamiliar and uncomfortable part of life and know we are blessed. I really hope you feel better and yes take time out for yourself I had to dial it back some too if you don't it will take over but always keep smiling and showing up for yourself and the people that you inspire on you tube and in your personal life.❤
Hey! Thank you so much for your thoughtful message! 🌟 I completely agree-it’s all about navigating these changes, being grateful for the lessons they bring, and allowing nature to take its course.
Taking time for ourselves is essential; I’ve learned that the hard way. It’s easy to get overwhelmed, but we have to prioritize our well-being to keep inspiring others. Your support and positivity mean a lot to me! Let’s keep smiling and lifting each other up through this journey. Sending you lots of love! ❤😊
I really needed to hear this, cause I thought I have been losing my mind around here... I turned 50 this year, but I think I started going through the "change" during my late 30s early 40s...
I’m so glad this resonated with you! You are not losing your mind, Sis-it’s just this wild ride called menopause that makes us feel all kinds of ways. Turning 50 is a big milestone, but starting to experience the "change" in your late 30s or early 40s is totally possible. Our bodies have a way of sneaking up on us with these shifts when we least expect it!
You’re definitely not alone, and it helps so much to know we’re in this together. Hang in there, and give yourself grace through it all. Sending you love and peace-one step at a time! 💖
Hey friend I'm so sorry you are going through all the things I am going through with menopause, everything you said I get it. You are not alone. I pray that God provides you with all you need to get through each day Amen, Thank you so much for sharing because it definitely helps so many🙏🏽🤗💕
Hey friend! Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers! 🙏🏽 It really means a lot to know we’re not alone in this journey. I’m glad that by sharing, we can help each other and others who are going through similar struggles. Together, we’ll get through each day, one step at a time. Sending you lots of love and hugs! 🤗💕
@@kayelanhi Thank you so much kaye, we will get through it together and with the grace of God 🙏💕
@@msdeesway AMEN
yasss that punch looks goodddd 😍
It was soooo good!
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Heyyyy Friend. Omg! I’m sending u the biggest 🤗. Listen the way I needed to hear this about perimenopause, cause I’m going through it over here. I understand in all so well and I’m not sure if it’s cause we both or Gemini’s but when u said u are a private person but yet u on TH-cam and also when I spoke on keeping and holding stuff in. Friend that is so me. This video was for me. Thank u so much. And I pray u are feeling better and doing better 🥰🤗.
Heyyyy Friend! Sending you the biggest 🤗 right back! I’m so glad this resonated with you, especially when it comes to perimenopause, Babyyyy I know how real the struggle is. And yes, maybe it’s the Gemini connection, but I totally get you on being a private person while still sharing things publicly. Holding stuff in feels so familiar, doesn’t it? I’m so glad this video spoke to you, and thank you for your prayers and kind words. I’m sending all the positive energy your way and praying you’re feeling good too! 🥰🤗 Stay strong, friend!
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Yes we feel it ....... your normal 😊❤
Absolutely! It’s so important to remember that what we’re feeling is normal, even when it doesn’t always feel that way. Thank you for your support! 😊
@@kayelanhi love the concept of your channel, supporting all the way, have a great week 😃😇
Hi beautiful thanks for sharing this with us
Hey Robyn! Thank you for watching!!🤗🤗🤗
Great info!
Enjoyed the conversation ❤
Thank you so much sis!!!
Me...confusion clumsy depression... I only hot flush at night
I hear you! It’s so frustrating dealing with the confusion, clumsiness, and depression, and those night-time hot flashes can really add to it all. Menopause or perimenopause can feel like a whirlwind sometimes, especially when it all hits at once. Sending you strength and a big virtual hug 🤗 to get through those tough moments.
@@kayelanhi Virtual hug right back at yah hun 😘
I couldn't do my insta cart because of what I was feeling. This was promo weekend too. I got heart palps yesterday all day which caused anxiety if I drank to much coffee. I experience all of the above! Help us Lord!!
I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling this way! Those heart palpitations and anxiety can be really unsettling, especially when you’re already dealing with so much. It’s understandable that it affected your ability to do your Instacart during promo weekend. , It’s important to listen to your body, sometimes taking a step back is the best thing you can do for yourself.
If cutting back on coffee helps ease those symptoms, that might be worth considering, even if it’s just temporarily. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your health over everything else. Sending you strength and comfort! 🙏🏽💖
@@kayelanhi thank you for the inspiring words.
I agree about TH-cam
Thank you sis!!! This TH-cam streets can get rough ..lol
Heyy sis ❤
Heyyyy Sis
Hi Kate I enjoy your videos ❤ May I ask where did you buy your eyeglasses thanks
Hi there! Thank you so much for enjoying my videos! ❤ I got my eyeglasses from FYTOO, which is an affordable online store for prescription eyeglasses. They have a great selection! I have detailed video coming 10/17/2024 with discount code 😊
@@kayelanhi thanks so much 💐I’ll keep watching be blessed from your 50+ friends ❤️
Let me add a couple more - Dry eyes, gum swelling, itchy ears, ringing in the ear. Hang in there girl! I’m in it with you!
Oh wow, I hear you! Dry eyes, gum swelling, itchy ears, and that ringing in the ears-it’s like menopause has its own list of surprises, right? 😩 But we’re definitely in this together! Hang in there, and thank you for sharing your experience too. Sending lots of love and strength your way! We’ve got this! 💪🏽💖
@@kayelanhi Sending love right back at you Sis! We'll make it through this by the Grace of God!🙏🏽
Good morning kaylani It is 607 a.m. and I have not been to sleep yet. Welcome to my world with the menopause I am 59 years of age. In 2018 I had my thyroids removed
And my body has not been the same since. That was in April of 2018 and around August of 2018 I found out I had stage 1 uterine cancer . in October of 2018 I had a total hysterectomy. Girlfriend when I tell you instant menopause. So I can sympathize with everything you saying you're speaking on .I am watching you now and you just started 16 minutes ago. I'm not worried about going to sleep, I suffer from insomnia many many years. I take my meds and it helps me sleep. But earlier ,
today i my orthopedic doctor. I got my cortisone shots in both knees and had fluid removed. So I've been in pain all day and even now I'm in pain that's probably why I can't sleep. But I so appreciate you responding back whenever I comment on your post. I don't get out much because of my Mobility so my TV is my best friend. I go where I need to go and back home. But we are going to be okay we just have to take it one day at a time. I'm going to keep you in my prayers.
It sounds like you had a panic attack. Something I also have and by the way since the thyroid removal and now I'm on a pill for the rest of my life I started having anxiety attacks girlfriend I pray that you never happened to you but that's what mother nature and her menopause does for us beautiful women. Good like you said you're not all right but you will be all right. Remember one day at a time
Good morning Brigette🤗 Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. It sounds like you've been through so much, and I can truly empathize with the challenges you've faced. Menopause, combined with the health hurdles you’ve been through since 2018, sounds incredibly tough, and yet you seem to keep such a positive spirit.
I’m glad to hear that your TV and these connections online can be a source of comfort and companionship for you. It’s important to have those small joys, especially when mobility is limited. Thank you for keeping me in your prayers-please know I’ll be keeping you in mine as well. You’re right, we’ll get through this one day at a time, and it’s so good to know we can share these moments together.
I hope you find some rest soon. Stay strong, and feel free to reach out whenever you need to.🤗🤗🤗
Just know that God is in charge and if you believe in God he said he will not put more on you than you in Jesus name amen
Prayers for you 🙏
Yeah, they don’t tell you about what happens after you post. You really can’t feel bad after you post that first video and get low views or no views and no comments, it takes a lot of consistency
Absolutely! They really don’t prepare you for what happens after you post. It can be tough to see low views or no comments on that first video, but it’s all part of the process. Consistency is key, and we just have to keep pushing through! Every step counts, and eventually, we’ll find our audience. 💪🏽 Keep going!
Hey Girl Hey! I am a woman of a particular age who will cut you... straight out of my timeline if you start bothering me. I'm an introvert and I'm good at home alone. This past weekend, I sat down on my couch and stayed there for 2 days. I only answered the phone because if I didn't, my kids would come over looking for me. I'm not sure if it's menopause or me not wanting to entertain fake people. 🤷🏾♀️
Sending you hugs, love, Peace and Blessings.
Hey Girl 🤗🤗 I totally get where you’re coming from! Sometimes, a good couch sit is just what we need to recharge, especially when dealing with all the complexities of life and menopause. It sounds like you needed that time to yourself, and that’s completely valid.
Prioritizing your peace and avoiding fake people is a strong move! 🫶Sending you all the hugs, love, peace, and blessings right back! You take care of yourself, and keep enjoying that alone time-it’s essential! 💖✨
Hello, how did you get fired on your day off?
Hi Friend! Stay tuned! Story time coming soon
Please forgive me if I did not spell your name properly I speech text
No worries at all! I totally understand how speech-to-text can go sometimes, so no need to apologize. 😊 You're all good!
Oh that’s a drank drank friend 😂
😂😂 Right!!! it was sooo good too
Girl you need to check me out.....we liking the same drink same glass....single....menopause....... loooool ...... gurllllllllll 😂
Haha, that’s awesome! 😂 It sounds like we’ve got a lot in common! Same drink, same glass, and navigating this wild ride of menopause together who knew we’d be kindred spirits? Let’s keep sharing the laughs and supporting each other through it all! Cheers to us! 🍹💁🏾♀PS. I subscribed
@@kayelanhi Awesome and motivating, cheers my dear, happy dayzzz 💯❤😃
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Thank you but I just got out the shower, still no sleep. Just took my thyroid meds and all the rest of the meds. As far as my spirt. It's because I know this too shall pass. My faith in God and His holy spirit has brought me through so much. I don't really put any of my personal business on the internet I do interact with Facebook & Instagram and tick tock. I share positive things like I have 14 Grand children. And 4 living adult children. My oldest daughter passed away in 2011 from stomach cancer she was 27 years of age. And for the last 13 years I have been raising her 4 children & my 4 oldest grandchildren. The youngest of four just graduated in June thank God. It was a uphill battle. But God sent people in our lives for the better.. NOW HERE'S WERE MY MIND WENT LEFT😂. NOT FUNNY, SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO😂...AS I WAS SAYING! my daughter and son's birthday is this month and I have two grandchildren's birthday this month. I post like HAPPY events i don't mind sharing..nothing that I wouldn't want anyone knowing I'm like you I'm getting off subject. But anyway I get what you're saying when you say you're a private person ,I am too and just like you say it's 24 hours in a day ,we have no clue what the day brings... I couldn't shower after I came home because of the shots of the doctor doesn't want to get wet. So I just got out the shower I feel so much better.
Sleep is no where near😂. I'm quite sure by now you can tell I don't have many friends . I only have one and I'm not sure about that. I'm going to let you go now I'm going to watch some more of youtube. And later have some coffee and finish my dinner maybe I'll fall asleep early. Have a beautiful rest of your day🤗
Thank you for opening up and sharing your story with me, it’s so heartfelt, and I can feel your strength and faith shining through every word. It’s incredible how you’ve been there for your family, raising your grandchildren while holding onto your faith through everything life has thrown your way. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter; I can’t imagine how hard that journey has been for you. You’ve been through so much, yet you’re still showing love, care, and positivity-that’s truly inspiring.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Thank you so much Kay for sharing . I’m going through menopause also and this is a journey I was not ready for, but God willing we will get through this. I also have been feeling a season of great change coming and this video is confirmation that God is preparing the table for you right now!🩷😘#youarenotalone
Thank you for your heartfelt message! 🌸 I’m glad to hear my video resonated with you. Menopause can be such an unexpected journey, and it's comforting to know we’re not alone in this. I truly believe that these changes often lead to new beginnings, and it sounds like you're embracing that perspective too.
Sending you positive vibes as we navigate this together-God truly has a plan for us! 🩷 !
I really like you and what you speak upon menopause. YES I feel you I can't deal sometimes. When I fist saw you it was funny. Because I am 55 2 time breast cancer and menapause all the extra stuff. Well you can take a break. Don't be hard on yourself. I had to retire. So I am on the private. Oh I was getting Temu stuff as well. I cut my hair in summer. But I say it's something to do here. But I hope you read this.✌🏾🩷🍁🍂❤️🍁🌻 these chin hair and mine be course. I am with you🙏🏾 and love the way you dress.
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🩷 I really appreciate you sharing your journey with me. It’s incredible how we can connect through these experiences, especially with everything you’ve been through as a two-time breast cancer survivor. That strength is truly inspiring! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I completely understand about the struggles with menopause-it can be a lot to handle.
Sending you lots of love and positive vibes! ✨
Thank you for sharing your experiences!
You're so welcome! I'm glad we can share and connect through our experiences here on TH-cam
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