So no one is worried about the 9yr old drinking pop but everyone is freaking out about a toddler wanting his pacifier? Hey, I'm not judging EITHER - my kids have pop sometimes and one of my three kids had her paci until she was three (though, admittedly, not in public - but I didn't institute that rule on the fly in the middle of a restaurant full of people!). It's just interesting to see people getting nasty about a TODDLER. A toddler who is having his one real source of comfort removed with no prior warning in the middle of a crowded restaurant. Of course he's going to go off...we all saw that coming.
Oakleaf700 I'm sorry, but that is a horrible thing to say. I hope this mother never reads that. I can't imagine someone seeing one of my kids at their worst and then commenting that I should not have had them!!!! The mother allowed the paci and the behaviors - her parenting techniques needed to be modified. Her TODDLER was not to blame. Jeez.
So many parents just cannot cope with their children [as Supernanny programme shows] ..The families with behavioural problems all seem to have three or more children.
@@Oakleaf700 he was probably a reck at 2 as well its card the terrible twos for a reason typically the oldest child is forced to grow out of it when mom has younger brats and the oldest relatives no ones paying attention to their crap anymore. Lol I'm a bitter oldest child if you cant tell.
She should have put crying one in pushchair and made sure he couldn't get out.its awful children al behaving yet one who misbehaved gets mums love and attention.he needs to realise he wont get attention and give her love to good children.even so young babies and children can manipulate a situation.not that crying like that is fun as it's not.glad I wasnt eating lunch in cafe that day.
J R I don’t understand the expectations here, should she be in two places at once or let the misbehaving one run wild and do nothing? She had to address the problem at hand and luckily one of the kids was behaving to make it easier.
Effective thing my father did when at dinner out, he took me to the car, buckled my seatbelt, closed the door and stood on the outside until I calmed down. He felt (rightfully so) my tantrums were unfair to others around us.
I never understajd why parents cant just take the kud outside and give respect to the customers. Ive seek this so many times in multiple places it's sad.
I think Super Nanny knew exactly what she was doing. The whole trip to the Restaurant was to make the mother face what she had created. The pacifier was the best tool to use for this lesson as he supposedly only used it at bedtime. So why is he using it at lunch? Maybe mom gave it to him thinking it would "pacify" him and he would behave. That was a lesson for mom way more than for the child.
i missed Jo so much omggg, she's such a savage and i love how she doesn't tolerate disrespectful behavior from kids. She definitely got stricter and way more firmer and i love that
If someone let me have something out of the house (the dummy) and then ripped it away from me in a public space where I don’t feel safe, is it not understandable that I’d have a meltdown? Now imagine I have a 2 year old brain and I’m not thinking clearly and communicating my needs in the only way I know how. I hate what they did to this poor child.
Nanny Joe is amazing! I feel so blessed that my boys always acted appropriately when we were it in public. I've looked at people the same way when their kids acted like that .... 😲😲😲😲 I miss this show!
Well I like the brother when he was like,"He does this all the time" and continue to enjoy his drink..It's like he's enjoying the drama in some point..🤣😂
Yeah which is what everyone else should do. Just ignore it and get on with their meal and let the mother teach her child as she is clearly trying to do. Don’t make it any harder on the mother than it needs to be.
Ashley Piccirillo I understand that which is why children need to be taught how to behave but teachings is a process and other people have to understand that. This is all part in parcel of being a child and learning. You cannot learn to swim without actually getting in the water. It’s the same for dining out. You will only learn how to conduct yourself in a certain situation if you actually get to experience being in that situation.
Technically that WAS a threat. And while being picked up may not seem like a bad thing, he did not like it at all, more specifically because of the way that she was speaking to him. They could have avoided all of that if they had planned the pacifier thing ahead of time. And you can't just rip something out of a little kid's mouth and expect them to accept it.
pamela lima Because she was being assertive and talking in a tone that made the boy listen. If the mom did the same thing he most likely would have had the same reaction.
@@pamelalima5401 Because she was being firm and assertive. The mother was always too soft. It's not about being a stranger or a familiar face, its about being someone that children can respect and see as a leader.
I seriously love this woman! In two minutes she had that kid calmed down and listening, without intimidation and without fear. I could use some of her tuff love some days for sure :)
@@RLG36 she wasn't shouting at him. Don't be so stupid. She used another tone of voice. It clearly worked. I feel sorry for your children. She didn't smack. Nor did she shout. You silly person! Please don't reproduce.
@@RLG36 exactly wake up people this is a child, can you imagine if another adult took someone's cigarettes and threw them away, this is the child's comforter RESPECT children
@@flowers6869 Pacifiers won't work once he turns 4. And by that time, his tantrums will only get worse and worse. Sorry not sorry but you don't seem to have experience with children throwing tantrums. Some things you just have to nip it in the bud.
Thankfully I was blessed with good kids and good granddaughter but in the end of the day kids are kids especially little ones now if they were older it’s a different situation
This whole video I was like “god I hope the studio covers the bill for those other customers”. When Jo stepped up and said she was paying for their food I breathed a sigh of relief. Class act 👌🏻
People here are so out of it. This wasnt just about a pacifier but about gabe throwing a tantrum when they go out and he doesnt get what he wants. That is why they dont go out. This needed to be handled in a public setting and not a private one.
@@PeachesofLove Exactly. This was a lesson for both, but more for the mother to see WHY he is throwing these tantrums - and it's exactly as Jo said - because she always gives in to him and never tells him no. If kids have no limits, they know no limits and will act accordingly.
I pulled this tantrum once when I was a child and my mother said right too my face This is kind of behaviour is unacceptable! She grabbed me out of the seat took me too the car put me in the car seat and let me scream it out untill I calmed down. And didnt let me out till I was calm.
She did do her magic. She let it go til Mom was able to see the result of not handling this before--he's out of control and Mom can't stop it. At the end Jo picked him up and got him stopped.
They did it in public to teach THE MOM. She needed to learn. That kid knew what he was doing. He seems like a sweet boy-he just needed boundaries. Lovely children-hope things turned around for them.
faythmomto5 yes so right! It's so not easy though. My son used to always listen to me but since his brother's been born omg!! Not easy at all and the tantrums are so embarrassing but I just have to get on with it until he learns to listen. Some days are good other days not so but I'm learning each day. It will get easier...my son is 3 yrs old and even stopped using the toilet or potty. Makes me so cross but perseverance and different techniques well win over in the end!! Greatful and thankful for my blessings!
faythmomto5 Yes ma'am! I don't know if you ever watch that movie Ray who was done about Ray Charles's life and then they go to his childhood and and showd him becoming blind .....the mother she didn't coddle him, it hurt her she cried she was doing it but had she not use that tough love Ray Charles would not be what we know Ray Charles's...(.please excuse lack of punctuation and the like, rushin through it real quick!!)
I feel for this mom. I have a two year old that throws some real intense tantrums and it’s really embarrassing in public. I’ve gotten those same looks before from strangers. The thing is, it’s not always a reflection of bad parenting. Some kids are high anxiety/ high needs and it makes things super difficult.
I agree. He was just throwing a tantrum because he wasn't getting what he wanted. When I become a parent, I won't tolerate whining or tantrums. If it's a special needs kid, that's different.
Ditsy Pixie This is not something you do at a restaurant. There is no way SN didn’t know this was a terrible idea! If you’re going to wean your child off something, do it at home, not in a public place where he is going to ruin everyone’s meal! If I was a customer in that restaurant, I would have raised bloody hell. Screaming kids need to be removed from restaurants immediately.
Exactly take it off him at home! This was a ploy from the producers to make the kids seem more unsettled and bratty and how this family desperately needs help. Explain to him at home! Not at a restaurant!
and do what with the other children? leave them alone in a restaurant with strangers? lmao, yeah right!!! if there are two parents u can take one outside, if only one, then u have to stay with all kids. reality check.
@@mistymichellerobinson3349 well if you are alone with problem children you discipline them properly at home and practice eating at a table at every meal until they learn, until they do you don't eat out with them.
She took the dummy because he wasn’t eating his food. Has anybody noticed as well when Jo took control of the situation and was stern with him instead of babying him like his mom the child instantly stoped making that noise and responded to her. You’re all skating Jo but she knows what she’s doing.
What's interesting is that he had a tantrum right before they left and didn't have the pacifier in his mouth then. The mom must have given it to him to shut him up knowing he would freak when they got to the restaurant.
Its not even the fact of how stern jo was.. often someone you dont know telling the child off is enough to make them stop. I know my boy would kick off.. wouldnt listen to me but if my mum stepped in he would quieten down pretty quickly.
The child isn’t the problem. It’s the parent. She shouldn’t have let him leave the house with pacifier and then rip it out of his mouth like a raging bull. You have to talk with children and set them up for success. She should have communicated her plan and set a timer. Example: Billy, you can have five more minutes with your pacifier. When the timer goes off I will hold it for you and give it back after lunch. Children are more likely to cooperate when adults do their part consistently and effectively. Poor child.
True, I grow up with mentally deficient parents, and my tantrums was never about not getting the things I want, It was about my parents lying to me to get me to do the things they want. When I found out it was a "lie" a new tantrum was born :) For examplegoing to the doctor to only check my wrats and not burning it, it was a lie and the doctor was about to burn it and I started a tantrum and ran away outside".
Saying no isn’t hard- it’s not being mean, kids need and CRAVE boundaries and saying ‘no’ can prevent massive tantrums and confusion for the kid- as long as it’s consistent
Saying No isn't the tough part. It's how to handle it when the kids don't listen to that No. That mom may have hundreds of things to get done with around the house and sometimes giving in seems like the easier option. Yes it is not right but sometimes things get overwhelming when you face it yourself, although to an outsider it crystal clear.
She's awesome, isn't she? But we do understand how hard it is for other parents to get mad or show authority to their own kids, then there are parents who do not even have to say one word but with a mere glare, their kids would instantly know it's time to behave. It's really nice when there are people like Nanny Jo who's willing to share her expertise on kids.
As much as I love gentle parenting, I really love Jo's approach here. She is firm but age appropriate. Jo knew that Gabe needed tough love in that situation because this was not a big emotion he was feeling, this was pure behavior. Thank God for Jo!
In my favorite restaurant there was a kid screaming at the top of his lungs and everyone was staring at her and when she caught my gaze she went “I’m so sorry” and I told her “Your kid doesn’t belong in public!” She covered her face in her hands and started sobbing. Her husband looked like he was going to get up and say something but I grabbed my drink and he sat back down. Told him “That’s what I thought.” (I was too sober to be dealing with that) The manager told them to leave and when they made them way to the door everyone in the restaurant started clapping.
@Shoo away the Jews the kid was ruining my dinner! So it was already my business you cup of period blood! So what if I added extra stress on her she doesn’t get a medal for what women have been doing for centuries. Mind your own business next time you understand me you pos racist fu€
This was the perfect setting for teaching both the child AND the mother. Although, it was rough on the other diners, the mother and child had to experience this lesson at the restaurant since this was the place where the mother was clueless, and the child was never given rules and guidance. Telling the child ahead of time "we're going to a restaurant so you'll have to behave", would fall on deaf ears. This kid had to experience the lesson right there at the place where he has his tantrums. It's kind of like teaching someone to swim by letting them experience having their bodies in water, and not just looking at the water. Glad the nanny offered to pay for the man's meal at the end.
yeah but see I'd have taken my child to the bathroom, given her three firm swats on the bare butt, and then sat her down for a good long lecture as to why her behavior was unacceptable. You can't let a child have control. This Mom just let the toddler take control, and it wasn't fair on her, on her other children, or on the diners. But most importantly it wasn't fair to the toddler himself. Children need to learn self control. They need to learn what is allowable in public. How far they can push mom and dad before they get an abject lesson in manners. This mom learned how important it is to maintain control over her children. She'll get it now.
@Tracy Lands I think you misunderstood her point. I happen to agree with you about whiny, self entitled adults by the way. We'd probably get on. But you might read her post again and tone down the language since we're talking about respect.
@Tracy Lands Can you,like, chill? I can honestly see you as an individual who jumps from 0 to 100 at minor issues with little to no awareness of the irony of your reasoning.
I don't know. I was "old" when I was still using a pacifier. It's not really up for anyone to decide but there should definitely be a time and place for it, like at the dinner table.
I would not let my kid scream like that in a restaurant. I'd take them outside to handle it. But Jo is amazing and it was nice that she paid for those people's food haha
Amber Britton Can always bring the other kids out as well. Honestly, from perspective of the parent and the other customers, this is really too loud. I get that from my preschooler sometimes. We would all go outside and then deal with the tantruming one.
now I can see why restaurant owners ban kids from their businesses because of this kind of behaviour. no one wants to hear kids screaming for gods know how long.
Oh please. As a waitress is way worse to have a rude customer than a little baby in baby steps crying behind you. I think she probably laughed at it or even enjoyed it. I take this ANYTIME over mean disrespectful diners that treat waiters like trash.
I wish she was older and had come to my house. Spankings did nothing and I just did what I wanted I am pretty sure if I had to sit on a naughty place I would have behaved.
My kids only had tantrums once in public because I knew how to handle it. Also, I didn't remove my sons pacifier in public. Of all my kids friends, the ones who are wild are the ones who got beat or talked to like crap.
@@matthoranofficial Yes I have. It is very interesting. I wish everyone would do research before they have kids. They might realize parenting is a process not a battle and we are all learning and doing better along the way.
Yanking the pacifier out of the boys mouth like that damn even I'd be pissed. Why would you even let him leave the house with it specially going to a restaurant ? 🤦♀️
I was thinking this...I used to think this show was the gospel but now that I have a baby all I can think is why would you let him bring it, grab his little comfort IN THE MIDDLE of a public place and expect him to be calm?? And not even say something like "I know you want the Paci, this must be tough for you etc..." And it absolutely broke my heart that they threw it away in front of him...once his emotions are exploding how on earth do you expect him to calm himself down if you don't show him how??? No longer a die-hard fan of her methods...
Good point. If they didn’t want the kid to have it they should have left it at home. That said I think Jo wanted to put Mum in that situation to prove to her that she could do it. It’s a tough lesson but I think that the Mum grew in confidence because of it.
I don't get passive, timid parenting. I know that helpless feeling with OTHER kids because you aren't the parent, but why actual parents are afraid to discipline or be stern/assertive - I don't know.
Oh my goodness, it sounds dreadful. There is surely something fundamentally wrong with that child? Wishy washy weak parents are just making huge problems for their futures too...if a 2 yr old is ''too strong'' , imagine a testosterone fuelled 12 yr old, or Heaven forfend, a 16 yr old. Children feel 'safe' with good boundaries and discipline.
I wonder why anyone would ever mistake passive and timid parenting for gentleness!! I mean cutting a child's leg off (NOT out of anger of course) will be a very effective way of not getting struck by a car.
To everyone getting upset with Jo taking the pacifier from the kid cuz he was uncomfortable or whatever the case. She was just making a point on how the mom has done nothing but coddle the kid and given in when he pisses and moans. At this age he needs to learn to not get his way and be too old for a pacifier, besides she paid for the other customer’s food for having to deal with that. That boy is too old for that and should have given it up at the age of one or one in a half, whether it’s the pacifier or not point is this mom kept giving into his tantrums and that’s how you get reactions like this.
He is too old for nappies too and if people want quiet dining, they should eat at home. If you eat out you must be prepared that something like this can happen. It was just kid crying, trying to make his point, nothing like a stinky dirty person at the table. The mom just needed this experience and so did the boy, nobody got hurt.
@@BJKage I agree he's too old for nappies. I very much disagree that when people eat out they should be prepared to be exposed to behavior like that. That was not a "crying" child. That was a screaming, badly spoiled child having a major tantrum to get his way, and it was loud and prolonged. Restaurant customers should not be expected to put up having their eardrums blown out and their meals disrupted. If Junior is known to act that way, then he should stay home with a sitter. Hopefully Jo's laying down the law will be a step in the right direction.
As a preschool teaching student, I would look at the child at their level and say, "I understand me taking your binky away is making you feel really mad; it's time to eat. What would you like to drink, milk or juice?" I've learned that taking their focus away from the trigger and redirecting them works wonderfully.
In my favorite restaurant there was a kid screaming at the top of his lungs and everyone was staring at her and when she caught my gaze she went “I’m so sorry” and I told her “Your kid doesn’t belong in public!” She covered her face in her hands and started sobbing. Her husband looked like he was going to get up and say something but I grabbed my drink and he sat back down. Told him “That’s what I thought.” (I was too sober to be dealing with that) The manager told them to leave and when they made them way to the door everyone in the restaurant started clapping.
@@Summerdaze8 If I thought it was old I wouldn't waste my precious time looking for it. It was at the top of all the comments so I just happened to find it once again. And last year wasn't long ago like we barely are getting into 2021 so I don't know what time zone your living in. But the point is, the parents of these kids on Supernanny are the problem. They don't Discipline their kids and that's what happens. So the best brith control is you knowing you can't handle your kids. 🤷
@@subscribee9792 not you telling a stranger on the internet they don’t know how to handle kids they don’t have 🤣 girrrl! What are you even pressed about? Who cares?
@@Summerdaze8 hey.. think what you wanna but I already said what I had to say. So if you want to be on birth control then go ahead. It's not really my business but you can't tell me it's not true that at least part of the reason these kids act like brats is because of the parents.
I agree! The little one could have been warned at home that the p. Is only for sleeping... a little prepping can go a long way to avoid all thay crying...
Exactly. This was so unfair. And I would have said I was a strict parent lol but this was unfair and unnecessary stress on the parent and the child. You set the rules for the pacifier at home. Of course he’s gona kick off 🙄🙄🙄
The mom had told Jo that the pacifier was only for sleeping, yet he had it in his mouth. I think it HAD to happen the way it did for mom to get her sh*t together. This wasn't a lesson for Gabe, it was a lesson for mom.
nichole kock So that should've been discussed before leaving, that he was not to take it out to lunch. I love Jo and respect what she does, I will say it was an eye opener for mom.
The mom picked the wrong time to deal with her kid's temper tantrum. That should have been dealt with a long time ago. I can't even imagine her embarrassment
Time outs and discipline start at around two years of age...before that you redirect their attention and trick them. Anyone who's disciplining their kids before two is not realizing they don't have a firm grasp on cause and effect, repercussions, etc at that age.
Everybody talking about how this kid is ‘bratty’ but it’s really the moms fault. If she took the pacifier away slowly at a younger age, the kid wouldn’t be doing this. He has gotten to the age where he now relies on it as comfort. It is truly the mother’s fault.
He is bratty, and I don’t care who is at fault. No one wants to listen to her demon spawn cry and scream. She can keep him at home and listen to it. It should be legal to slap them both.
It's not just the pacifier at issue... He has learned he gets whatever he wants by throwing a fit. And Mom taught him that. Jo always tackles the parent problem first. Kids Gabe's age aren't responsible for this behavior, their parents are.
My mother, at my father's direction, took my pacifier away when I was a year old. I ended up sucking my thumb for years after that. After all no one could take that away from me. That's not the answer. What is the answer? Being firm with any child from the beginning. When it is time to take the binky out they do so or they get a spanking and a lecture. And as they get older you tell them they need to give it up or their teeth are going to come in all nutty and they will look like a goofy rabbit. By that time most kids have friends at day care or at school, and they will be willing to give it up anyway. My daughter gave up her binky and her bottle on he own at a year and a half. The answer to a child like the one on this video is to be firm. Mom is the boss. Not the kid. If they figure out that all it does is get them pain and a lecture they will quit.
+Naughty Hotdog I am exceedingly rude to ignorant, heartless,stupid people who have lost their compassion, humanity and ability to critically analyse a situation without putting others down to make themselves feel superior. I am fierce make no mistake, and I certainly not be making any apologies.
That mom is trying her best, no matter what anyone says, it's hard being in a public place with a lot of kids being the only adult. It's exhausting and overwhelming. Could she be more firm yes, she is learning, no one is perfect. Does not make her a bad mom. God bless your family and may you all continue to grow happily and stand firm❤
im amazed that she would have been able to get him to sign a waver to have his face shown on tv, no way you would have seen those reactions without one , they would of had to blur his face out. though its highly possible it was a set up.
Wow, when the nanny got a hold of him. He managed to stop crying and answer her questions and did as she told him. He reached for his mother's hand. Wow! Wow! Wow!
When i was a kid, back in the 60's, lol, we would just get the "look" from my parents and that would shut us right up. But we never really behaved like that, nowadays, parents are letting their kids run wild in restaurants.
I agree. I grew up in the 80s and me and my brother never behaved like this. My parents were very loving but strict. We had a healthy fear of getting in trouble. Apparently the worst we would do is get a bit restless and ask if we could sit on their laps once they had finished eating.
They had to know something because there were clearly cameramen with them. Plus, before they left Nanny Jo said to the couple that they were taking care of it. So I assume they were taking care of their bill.
Why why why.. is it so hard for some parents to UNDERSTAND say NO and mean NO!! SERIOUSLY the kid screams like someone is killing him and she would just normally give it back? That taught him that NO means scream until its YES ... I don't care if he is 2... I don't care if he is 9mths NO MEANS NO or don't bother saying it! Love Supernanny!!!
Exactly! Thank you. There are quite a few parents here in the comments that just don't get it! They think Joe is being a bully. Lol. Ridiculous! She's been at this a very long time. There's always a method to her madness. Instead of immediately judging her and saying she's wrong and your ass knows better, try actually listening and paying attention! She's performed miracles with kids. Lol
Leslie Ann So true how is it some parents don get this, ur the parent how can ur own child do this if you cant just whoop his ass till he gets it damn it!!
I like Jo most of the time, I happen to be close to 60 and have more experience with children, even autistic children whom I speak sign language to since they can't speak most of the time. I get them to do LOTS of things without yelling or being aggressive, and I've had autistic children hit me MANY times.
This little boy is 2... not autistic.. he has been let to control everyone his entire life. He screams he gets whatever he wants, scream louder get it faster.... the cycle HAS to be stopped! Jo was trying to get the mom to understand its not going to go away with age, he will just be a bigger monster running the entire house! He might be 2, but he UNDERSTOOD EVERY word Jo said to him!! Seriously don't like it when adults use the excuse they're only 2 they don't understand.. Toddlers aren't stupid they are extremely smart their brains hold information like a sponge. You teach them early or deal with the consequences!! As for me my 1yr old 2yr old 3, 4, 5, 6, 7... ect will NEVER be the boss, and I will be able to go to restaurants, ride on planes, sit in church, go to a store, without dealing with crap like that!! No way!!
The first thing a new therapist is taught in the field of behavior is ***mean what you say and say what you mean***. We’re taught to NEVER give empty promises or make empty threats. Kids catch on to that real quick and will play you like a fiddle😂😂
People are saying "oh why can't this be dealt with at home ?!?" Umm bc they AREN'T HOME. No matter where you are with your kids if they throw a tantrum deal with then right then and there. Not once you get home.
Yasmin Najjar - You've missed the point people are making completely. They aren't saying deal with the tantrum at home, they're (rightly) saying, deal with the issue of the dummy at home. The kid was happy until he had his dummy whipped from his mouth.
LA P this could've happened for any reason. Dummy or not. There could've been a hundred reasons why he started freaking out in public like this. She needs to be prepared to deal with any type of outburst like this for any reason without leaving every time.
Parenting is not easy. There’s not one single perfect method to do it. Adapt and be a parent that truly cares for your children. Each child is different
I'm sorry but if that was me and my child when he started screaming I would pick him up and take him outside until he calmed down instead of annoying the whole restaurant?!
How, Petrio? There's no difference in dealing with the situation and disciplining your child outside, besides keeping the restaurant happy and undisturbed.
It was the f***in nanny that wanted to take the pacifier away....I'm aware of the child's age and he doesn't need it any more....but no need to be a f***in monster. Created stress for the child, the mom, etc. The nanny loved it. She... was able to assert her authority.
@@asheisadora I didnt wait till we get home to correct things with my ex boyfriend. He treats me disrespectful in public just as he does at home so I speak up. Then he accuses me of making him look bad. And says its my fault. Well maybe he aughta smartin up and be a man and no one would get embarrassed.
The mom brought the nanny in because the behavior was so bad. What good does it do unless she lets the nanny charge while she's there? The mom essentially GAVE authority over to the nanny for the duration of her visit when she agreed to the show.. If there wasn't a problem, nanny would not have been brought in.
lol at the 9 year old drinking soda and casually making conversation with the Super Nanny
She should have stopped at that one lovely child.
So no one is worried about the 9yr old drinking pop but everyone is freaking out about a toddler wanting his pacifier? Hey, I'm not judging EITHER - my kids have pop sometimes and one of my three kids had her paci until she was three (though, admittedly, not in public - but I didn't institute that rule on the fly in the middle of a restaurant full of people!). It's just interesting to see people getting nasty about a TODDLER. A toddler who is having his one real source of comfort removed with no prior warning in the middle of a crowded restaurant. Of course he's going to go off...we all saw that coming.
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I'm sorry, but that is a horrible thing to say. I hope this mother never reads that. I can't imagine someone seeing one of my kids at their worst and then commenting that I should not have had them!!!! The mother allowed the paci and the behaviors - her parenting techniques needed to be modified. Her TODDLER was not to blame. Jeez.
So many parents just cannot cope with their children [as Supernanny programme shows] ..The families with behavioural problems all seem to have three or more children.
@@Oakleaf700 he was probably a reck at 2 as well its card the terrible twos for a reason typically the oldest child is forced to grow out of it when mom has younger brats and the oldest relatives no ones paying attention to their crap anymore. Lol I'm a bitter oldest child if you cant tell.
Dude when Jo put her hair up you knew she was about to get _legit_
She was preparing for battle
Don't want a kid to pull on it.
She should have put crying one in pushchair and made sure he couldn't get out.its awful children al behaving yet one who misbehaved gets mums love and attention.he needs to realise he wont get attention and give her love to good children.even so young babies and children can manipulate a situation.not that crying like that is fun as it's not.glad I wasnt eating lunch in cafe that day.
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And of course the well behaved child gets ignored.
J R I don’t understand the expectations here, should she be in two places at once or let the misbehaving one run wild and do nothing? She had to address the problem at hand and luckily one of the kids was behaving to make it easier.
Ada Marten ?
@@hummingbird8707 exactly
It's sad to say but if you're not causing a problem in a public place like THAT then the attention isn't on you
Because the purpose is to stop the misbehaving child from misbehaving that’s what this whole series is about
That server was like, “Do not bring me into the middle of your screaming-child-discipline-reality-show business”
LOL
yeah
As a server I wouldn't either
Yeah I thought that was strange involving the server🤨
I would quit.
*9 year old casually takes a sip of his drink while toddler throws a tantrum*
beans lol!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I suppose he's just used to it and deals with the embarrassment by just being nice but detached.
That’s my P.E teacher
Lmao that's me with my family😅
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When Jo put her hair up I was like "OOOOOHHHH She means business!!!!"
Same here!
Lylah if any of you are mother fans who would win jo or porky
Lylah lmao yeah
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0@@felixlee9645
Effective thing my father did when at dinner out, he took me to the car, buckled my seatbelt, closed the door and stood on the outside until I calmed down. He felt (rightfully so) my tantrums were unfair to others around us.
Yeah my mom did this too when I was a kid. It was super effective... I learned I behave or we will leave. That's it.
Why wont parents do this? I'd do it
I never understajd why parents cant just take the kud outside and give respect to the customers. Ive seek this so many times in multiple places it's sad.
I rarely threw a tantrum in public, but when I did, my mum put her hand over my mouth and pulled me outside and disciplined me
H. Martin-Sandoval same
*kid throwing a huge tantrum*
9 year old: *sips his juice*
9 year old: “ah Yep, same crap as Always!” ~ John Mullaney
it wasn't juice! it was a mystery liquid!
What’s the family name?
@@poshpa738 idk, fam
Poor boy is immune to it now ! Just tunes out .
The way that Jo was able to get the toddler to stop crying pretty much immediately was SAVAGE
She just picked him up and got him to be quiet so fast. It's crazy
It was awful...i wouldnt speak like that to my child. It was like super nanny was and she knew she was losing control
I think Super Nanny knew exactly what she was doing. The whole trip to the Restaurant was to make the mother face what she had created. The pacifier was the best tool to use for this lesson as he supposedly only used it at bedtime. So why is he using it at lunch? Maybe mom gave it to him thinking it would "pacify" him and he would behave. That was a lesson for mom way more than for the child.
@@Sammy-yo1lm Awful?? She didn't yell or hit him, she was firm. What the hell would you do to a child throwing a tantrum like that?
Sammy She’s actually being firm. Not mean. This is actually good how she did it.
I feel these customers’ pain just watching 💀 and the waitress too..
Yup
The least they can do is go out side and deal with the situation n jo was a good person n dealt with this when poor mum had enough , but she tried ☺
I'd be asking for a go box within ear shot of them!!
@@carolmiller8310 The purpose was to put her and the brat in that situation. She needed to learn.
Camille Kalaw what about the mother’s pain huh?
i missed Jo so much omggg, she's such a savage and i love how she doesn't tolerate disrespectful behavior from kids. She definitely got stricter and way more firmer and i love that
Mistakes she came back to super nanny
Just started new season on lifetime this year
Elisa D holy shit no way
disrespectful??? they're just toddlers being toddlers
It's a shame how the older ones always get overlooked. They were behaving so well.
agreed
It’s exactly because they are behaving well parents think it is okay to give them little attention though
Absolutely Trista.
If someone let me have something out of the house (the dummy) and then ripped it away from me in a public space where I don’t feel safe, is it not understandable that I’d have a meltdown? Now imagine I have a 2 year old brain and I’m not thinking clearly and communicating my needs in the only way I know how. I hate what they did to this poor child.
I didn't! I was always in trouble! :(
Jo puts her hair up like a real pro when she's ready for a fight lol
supermanisrad lol true 😂
supermanisrad lol
supermanisrad I
Nanny Joe is amazing! I feel so blessed that my boys always acted appropriately when we were it in public. I've looked at people the same way when their kids acted like that .... 😲😲😲😲 I miss this show!
supermanisrad Just about to comment on Jo putting her hair up !!!! Haha. When I see my boss put her hair in a ponytail...I KNOW she's on the edge.😂
Bruh if I saw Jo Frost in the middle of a restaurant with any family I'd leave immediately
I'd stay and watch what went down
Not me. I'd bunker down lol
harpyxx All I would want to do is go up to the mum and tell her she is doing a good job ❤️
@@Jane5720 Me too.
@@siobhanterry262 No she the mum needed this to learn how to control Gabe, The kids behavior is out of control.
When Jo put her hair up I was like “ooohhhh it’s about to go down!” 😂
Sameee I was Like Whats She Doing Next.
LoL😅😂🤣
Yyyuuuupppp
Yes she doesn’t play!
I seen it coming
I love Noah. Just from that small line with the soda. The attitude, the confidence, the responsibility.
Me Too!
The best advertisement for condoms that I’ve ever seen
You don't have a kid yet oh my God you are so lucky
There are wonderful times too it aint all bad. Nip it in the but early and you wont get to this point
I still want a kid after watching this. It’s about learning what you would do and the parents do’s and don’t’s
😂
Kat 😂😂😂👊🏼
the man in the grey shirt: babe lets not have kids
I think the girl next to him was his daughter. So the right thing to say would be “honey, you sure you want another one?”
@@jonathan_q_arbuckle1976 perfect
@@jonathan_q_arbuckle1976 😂😂😂
I feel bad for currently being a child :(
@@Pastelleraisthebestytchannel Same, luckily my parents said i never really had tanthrums
Well I like the brother when he was like,"He does this all the time" and continue to enjoy his drink..It's like he's enjoying the drama in some point..🤣😂
Yeah which is what everyone else should do. Just ignore it and get on with their meal and let the mother teach her child as she is clearly trying to do. Don’t make it any harder on the mother than it needs to be.
@@mylifepostpain3705 people are also trying to enjoy their meal and carry on conversations with others
Ashley Piccirillo I understand that which is why children need to be taught how to behave but teachings is a process and other people have to understand that. This is all part in parcel of being a child and learning. You cannot learn to swim without actually getting in the water. It’s the same for dining out. You will only learn how to conduct yourself in a certain situation if you actually get to experience being in that situation.
I don’t know if he enjoys it. I feel bad for the older brother.
@@mylifepostpain3705 this is why the mother should have started implementing discipline at home though
“Hold mummy’s hand or I’ll pick you up again” PROOF that you can intimidate a child without threatening or using violence. Well done Jo!
Technically that WAS a threat. And while being picked up may not seem like a bad thing, he did not like it at all, more specifically because of the way that she was speaking to him. They could have avoided all of that if they had planned the pacifier thing ahead of time. And you can't just rip something out of a little kid's mouth and expect them to accept it.
@@matthoranofficial that’s exactly what I was saying. I thought that was cruel. It was a so unnecessary
I love how easy the nanny was able to calm that child within a minute.
Because she is a strange person for the boy...
pamela lima Because she was being assertive and talking in a tone that made the boy listen. If the mom did the same thing he most likely would have had the same reaction.
she’s not a nanny she’s a child psychologist
@@pamelalima5401 Because she was being firm and assertive. The mother was always too soft. It's not about being a stranger or a familiar face, its about being someone that children can respect and see as a leader.
@@pamelalima5401 As is someone who won't take none of his BS unlike his mother.
Sometimes when we are put in UNCOMFORTABLE and EMBARRASSING situations, it opens your eyes!! Clearly this mother needed this!
Yeah Itsme So you haven’t been to many places then. Is that the extent of your travel? If so then that’s really sad
Tatiana Samuels this is a reason why I’m not having children
I seriously love this woman! In two minutes she had that kid calmed down and listening, without intimidation and without fear. I could use some of her tuff love some days for sure :)
without intimidation? she was inches from his face and nearly yelling at him she'd done that to an adult they would have called the police on her.
@@RLG36 she wasn't shouting at him. Don't be so stupid. She used another tone of voice. It clearly worked. I feel sorry for your children. She didn't smack. Nor did she shout. You silly person! Please don't reproduce.
@@RLG36 exactly wake up people this is a child, can you imagine if another adult took someone's cigarettes and threw them away, this is the child's comforter RESPECT children
I doubt it was 2 mins we are only seeing 2 mins of it
@@flowers6869 Pacifiers won't work once he turns 4. And by that time, his tantrums will only get worse and worse. Sorry not sorry but you don't seem to have experience with children throwing tantrums. Some things you just have to nip it in the bud.
I feel bad for everyone else trying to eat lmfao this is crazy.
me 2.
I hate kids doing that. Omg
Thankfully I was blessed with good kids and good granddaughter but in the end of the day kids are kids especially little ones now if they were older it’s a different situation
For real 😳
Children do not belong in public
This whole video I was like “god I hope the studio covers the bill for those other customers”. When Jo stepped up and said she was paying for their food I breathed a sigh of relief. Class act 👌🏻
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People here are so out of it. This wasnt just about a pacifier but about gabe throwing a tantrum when they go out and he doesnt get what he wants. That is why they dont go out. This needed to be handled in a public setting and not a private one.
Yep, you gotta get kids to generalize some of what you're teaching them.
Taking his pacifier and causing a tantrum doesn't do shit
I don’t think it was a lesson for the child, but for the mother so she can see she needs to change.
Uh... you TEACH THEM AT HOME. If you don't give in to tantrums at home, they'll get that you mean business.
@@PeachesofLove Exactly. This was a lesson for both, but more for the mother to see WHY he is throwing these tantrums - and it's exactly as Jo said - because she always gives in to him and never tells him no. If kids have no limits, they know no limits and will act accordingly.
Bruh, when Jo throws her hair up you know it is about to go down!!
Omg 0:47! 🤣 the she goes!!!!
Yep, for real lol 😂👍💕
I pulled this tantrum once when I was a child and my mother said right too my face This is kind of behaviour is unacceptable! She grabbed me out of the seat took me too the car put me in the car seat and let me scream it out untill I calmed down. And didnt let me out till I was calm.
That's a great mom!
Bless your mom!
Sheesh my parents took me outside and Knocked me out cold. I was out the rest of the night I never did it again
@@ianfortuna9385😵😴😂
if a kid is old enough to say the word "paci", he's too damn old to have one.
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He's gonna have duck teeth when he's older.😂
I know!!! Hes like 3 years old
Melanie Jecker I had one till I was 3 my dentist said I need braces
Bruh kids are sometimes breastfeed up to 4 years old and what that kid is going through is called the oral stage and it's absolutely necessary.
Who kept waiting for Jo to intervene and do her magic
Hafsa Bibi me 😁
Hafsa Bibi me
She did do her magic. She let it go til Mom was able to see the result of not handling this before--he's out of control and Mom can't stop it. At the end Jo picked him up and got him stopped.
CJ yeah he stopped because he was scared! That was abusive!
Har bihaver is not good whit baby 👶
This is a prime example why you DO 👏🏾 NOT 👏🏾NEGOTIATE 👏🏾WITH👏🏾 KIDS 👏🏾- EVER! 👏🏾 PERIOD.
BabeRuthuk AGREED. Enough with wimpy ass parents. Show them who the adult is and who is in charge.
Exactly. You are not their friend, you are their parent. When they get to teenage years, then you can negotiate with them.
smart!
Exactly.
You actually can. It's called parenting, you teach them and you can compromise.
ARE WE NOT GOING TO TALK ABOUT HOW MUCH KF A LEGEND NOAH IS OMFG, *casually sips a drink* “Yeah he does this most of the times”
That's the closest to flustered I've ever heard Jo Frost get
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Yeah she’s very flustered
They did it in public to teach THE MOM. She needed to learn. That kid knew what he was doing. He seems like a sweet boy-he just needed boundaries. Lovely children-hope things turned around for them.
faythmomto5 yes so right! It's so not easy though. My son used to always listen to me but since his brother's been born omg!! Not easy at all and the tantrums are so embarrassing but I just have to get on with it until he learns to listen. Some days are good other days not so but I'm learning each day. It will get easier...my son is 3 yrs old and even stopped using the toilet or potty. Makes me so cross but perseverance and different techniques well win over in the end!! Greatful and thankful for my blessings!
Ong that's embarrassing. Why were people staring mind your own business wtf
i feel like im watching 'Human' dog whisperer xD
There's no such thing as a bad child. Working with kids I have learned that all they need is a little guidance. Some kids need more than others.
faythmomto5
Yes ma'am! I don't know if you ever watch that movie Ray who was done about Ray Charles's life and then they go to his childhood and and showd him becoming blind .....the mother she didn't coddle him, it hurt her she cried she was doing it but had she not use that tough love Ray Charles would not be what we know Ray Charles's...(.please excuse lack of punctuation and the like, rushin through it real quick!!)
Jo silenced him quick 😂
Thank god he shut up
Bring your kid to a restaurant to take his pacifier and let all the rest of the people deal.. 🤯
She made him realize his paci wasn’t the problem he was.
Thank Effing god.😭😭😅🤣🙏🤦
Bro that part made me laugh SO FREAKING LOUD 🤣🤣
I feel for this mom. I have a two year old that throws some real intense tantrums and it’s really embarrassing in public. I’ve gotten those same looks before from strangers. The thing is, it’s not always a reflection of bad parenting. Some kids are high anxiety/ high needs and it makes things super difficult.
Sigh yes… and where is daddy?
@@cheresee.ferreira8824 for many reasons a dad may not be around.
@@viviansanchez5018 thats very true🙏
No youre just a push over and suck at parenting and rationalize it with buzzwords like "high needs". Only thing they need is strict discipline
I agree. He was just throwing a tantrum because he wasn't getting what he wanted. When I become a parent, I won't tolerate whining or tantrums. If it's a special needs kid, that's different.
Me: steps in restaurant
*sees this*
Me: aiGht ImmA hEad OuT 😐
Me too. Even my kids would look at his like.. wtf. Lol. They do when they see kids acting crazy in public
😂👏
I would be running out
Same 😂🤣
Kids don’t belong in public
“he does this mostly every time” he says causally drinking 😂
He's very used to it.
Son Rob ccccxf
*sips tea*
😎🥤
I sure hope the producers paid for everyone's meal during this tantrum!
Update: phew just seen that they did ♥️
She paid for the big dude and whomever he was sitting with. Maybe they paid for the others after Jo and the mom with kids left.
Ditsy Pixie This is not something you do at a restaurant. There is no way SN didn’t know this was a terrible idea! If you’re going to wean your child off something, do it at home, not in a public place where he is going to ruin everyone’s meal! If I was a customer in that restaurant, I would have raised bloody hell. Screaming kids need to be removed from restaurants immediately.
Exactly take it off him at home! This was a ploy from the producers to make the kids seem more unsettled and bratty and how this family desperately needs help.
Explain to him at home! Not at a restaurant!
They all got paid to sit in there. Huge line outside to be extras in episode
Cherry Tree try watching her content from the UK. There’s a bit less drama and she thinks more outside the box here.
oh my god that poor waitress lol probably thought to herself "i dont get paid enough for this shit" 😂
agreed
Take the child outside and deal with them until they calm down, bad behaviour is not fair on other diners.
True.
AMEN!
and do what with the other children? leave them alone in a restaurant with strangers? lmao, yeah right!!! if there are two parents u can take one outside, if only one, then u have to stay with all kids. reality check.
@@mistymichellerobinson3349 well if you are alone with problem children you discipline them properly at home and practice eating at a table at every meal until they learn, until they do you don't eat out with them.
Zena, that's what I said.
She took the dummy because he wasn’t eating his food. Has anybody noticed as well when Jo took control of the situation and was stern with him instead of babying him like his mom the child instantly stoped making that noise and responded to her. You’re all skating Jo but she knows what she’s doing.
Gerbil Kinns exactly lol!!!
What's interesting is that he had a tantrum right before they left and didn't have the pacifier in his mouth then. The mom must have given it to him to shut him up knowing he would freak when they got to the restaurant.
she had the title of SUPER NANNY for a reason!!!
Its not even the fact of how stern jo was.. often someone you dont know telling the child off is enough to make them stop. I know my boy would kick off.. wouldnt listen to me but if my mum stepped in he would quieten down pretty quickly.
Didn’t you see they had just got at the table when they told him give his dummy so how was he not eating his food if he didn’t have it
When Jo ties her hair back, you know she means business!
The two older boys are so well behaved
Hmm... I think so....
The child isn’t the problem. It’s the parent. She shouldn’t have let him leave the house with pacifier and then rip it out of his mouth like a raging bull. You have to talk with children and set them up for success. She should have communicated her plan and set a timer. Example: Billy, you can have five more minutes with your pacifier. When the timer goes off I will hold it for you and give it back after lunch. Children are more likely to cooperate when adults do their part consistently and effectively. Poor child.
True, I grow up with mentally deficient parents, and my tantrums was never about not getting the things I want, It was about my parents lying to me to get me to do the things they want. When I found out it was a "lie" a new tantrum was born :) For examplegoing to the doctor to only check my wrats and not burning it, it was a lie and the doctor was about to burn it and I started a tantrum and ran away outside".
I came here to say this exact thing. Like wtf do these.people expect from a BABY.
Poor child ??!!! It's a little tiran !!!
Nelly T jo and the producers set it up to happen that way. They manipulate.
Completely agree I cringed through this whole thing poor baby !
No. Its rude to make others deal with that. I'd leave with my child.
so the kids will never learn to behave and things would get worse, avoidance doesn't solve any problems.
@@Mei087 no it's a consequence. Behave or we leave.
@@Mei087 I'm a mother of 6... mine dont dare throw a fit. They know better. They know if they throw a fit we leave.
I'm sure the crew would have warned them thst it may be bad
@T C nope I have 5 boys who do not throw fits. Maybe your children throw fits but mine dont. Have a nice day
When Jo tied her hair back, I knew... it was ABOUT. TO GO. DOWN.
yep
This show is literally my guilty pleasure. Watching Jo calmly dealing with all these brats is pure gold
I felt so sorry for Noah! He is probably thinking "I wish I never asked for a brother and that I have to put up with him for the rest of my life".
Charlotte _Elephant365 You took the words right out of my mouth! I agree!
That mom just isn’t firm enough. What’s so hard about saying no, and meaning it?
Joi Benjamin it can be very hard but your right what your saying only a parent can know how hard it is though I think.
Saying no isn’t hard- it’s not being mean, kids need and CRAVE boundaries and saying ‘no’ can prevent massive tantrums and confusion for the kid- as long as it’s consistent
Joi Benjamin bec for those ppl it's easier to give in
Saying No isn't the tough part. It's how to handle it when the kids don't listen to that No. That mom may have hundreds of things to get done with around the house and sometimes giving in seems like the easier option. Yes it is not right but sometimes things get overwhelming when you face it yourself, although to an outsider it crystal clear.
WHOA Supernanny!! You sure told that kid!! THAT is how the mother should have reacted right from the get go.
ali xena what’s get go
from the beginning
ali xena thank you
0:45, when supernanny pulls her hair back, you know shit's about to get real
She's awesome, isn't she? But we do understand how hard it is for other parents to get mad or show authority to their own kids, then there are parents who do not even have to say one word but with a mere glare, their kids would instantly know it's time to behave. It's really nice when there are people like Nanny Jo who's willing to share her expertise on kids.
As much as I love gentle parenting, I really love Jo's approach here. She is firm but age appropriate. Jo knew that Gabe needed tough love in that situation because this was not a big emotion he was feeling, this was pure behavior. Thank God for Jo!
In my favorite restaurant there was a kid screaming at the top of his lungs and everyone was staring at her and when she caught my gaze she went “I’m so sorry” and I told her “Your kid doesn’t belong in public!” She covered her face in her hands and started sobbing. Her husband looked like he was going to get up and say something but I grabbed my drink and he sat back down. Told him “That’s what I thought.” (I was too sober to be dealing with that) The manager told them to leave and when they made them way to the door everyone in the restaurant started clapping.
@Shoo away the Jews the kid was ruining my dinner! So it was already my business you cup of period blood! So what if I added extra stress on her she doesn’t get a medal for what women have been doing for centuries. Mind your own business next time you understand me you pos racist fu€
@Shoo away the Jews oh you like kids is that it? You should be on a list
@Shoo away the Jews you said the young man is getting mad you must like kids then you should be on a list
@Shoo away the Jews what you talking about my comment is right there you p3dophil3
This was the perfect setting for teaching both the child AND the mother. Although, it was rough on the other diners, the mother and child had to experience this lesson at the restaurant since this was the place where the mother was clueless, and the child was never given rules and guidance. Telling the child ahead of time "we're going to a restaurant so you'll have to behave", would fall on deaf ears. This kid had to experience the lesson right there at the place where he has his tantrums. It's kind of like teaching someone to swim by letting them experience having their bodies in water, and not just looking at the water. Glad the nanny offered to pay for the man's meal at the end.
^^THIS^^^
yeah but see I'd have taken my child to the bathroom, given her three firm swats on the bare butt, and then sat her down for a good long lecture as to why her behavior was unacceptable. You can't let a child have control. This Mom just let the toddler take control, and it wasn't fair on her, on her other children, or on the diners. But most importantly it wasn't fair to the toddler himself. Children need to learn self control. They need to learn what is allowable in public. How far they can push mom and dad before they get an abject lesson in manners. This mom learned how important it is to maintain control over her children. She'll get it now.
@Tracy Lands I think you misunderstood her point. I happen to agree with you about whiny, self entitled adults by the way. We'd probably get on. But you might read her post again and tone down the language since we're talking about respect.
@Tracy Lands Can you,like, chill? I can honestly see you as an individual who jumps from 0 to 100 at minor issues with little to no awareness of the irony of your reasoning.
@Tracy Lands Wow. So angry.
Pacifier should be trashed forever. He is too old. That’s just the beginning.
Luz Badillo Thank you! I was like he's walking and talking what the hell does he need a pacifier for!? Lol
I don't know. I was "old" when I was still using a pacifier. It's not really up for anyone to decide but there should definitely be a time and place for it, like at the dinner table.
If he's over the age of two he's passed the point where binkies would be used.
Luz Badillo Agreed. No none in my family used a pacifier
I had mine untill i was six because my mom didnt put a stop to it, i eventaly grew out of it
Thanks for the free birth control, TLC!
😂🤣 LMBO
Jo on this show is literally like a fine wine. She ages (mentally and physically) extremely well, and her discipline skills are legit. So refreshing.
She blew it this time
I would not let my kid scream like that in a restaurant. I'd take them outside to handle it. But Jo is amazing and it was nice that she paid for those people's food haha
413drenae so if she was alone, you’re expecting her to leave the rest of her children on their own inside????
Amber Britton Can always bring the other kids out as well. Honestly, from perspective of the parent and the other customers, this is really too loud. I get that from my preschooler sometimes. We would all go outside and then deal with the tantruming one.
413drenae yeah, and let all the other children alone
413drenae
Same
413drenae
me too
now I can see why restaurant owners ban kids from their businesses because of this kind of behaviour. no one wants to hear kids screaming for gods know how long.
gloomybearluver i don’t need screaming kids while trying to enjoy a meal
that poor waitress
Scaryeaglesmithwolf jdf I felt sorry for the waitress
She was like "I don't get paid enough for this shit"
Scaryeaglesmithwolf jdf yes!!
🤣🤣🤣
Oh please. As a waitress is way worse to have a rude customer than a little baby in baby steps crying behind you. I think she probably laughed at it or even enjoyed it. I take this ANYTIME over mean disrespectful diners that treat waiters like trash.
Jo is so patient, even though the kids keep crying and shouting. A true supernanny.
I wish she was older and had come to my house. Spankings did nothing and I just did what I wanted I am pretty sure if I had to sit on a naughty place I would have behaved.
Amazing how these kids always listen to Jo. He shut up REAL QUICK
I feel bad for the customers
Same.... 😑😑😑😑
Ditto
And the kids
They got their dinner paid for, Jo apologised to them and told them that she was going to take care of their bill.
Same
Nanny Jo got him in check. People are too soft on children and that’s why they act the way they do.
My kids only had tantrums once in public because I knew how to handle it. Also, I didn't remove my sons pacifier in public. Of all my kids friends, the ones who are wild are the ones who got beat or talked to like crap.
@@MomLuvsCrafts You seem like a gentle mother who believes in positive discipline for her kids. Have you ever researched RIE parenting?
@@matthoranofficial Yes I have. It is very interesting. I wish everyone would do research before they have kids. They might realize parenting is a process not a battle and we are all learning and doing better along the way.
Yanking the pacifier out of the boys mouth like that damn even I'd be pissed. Why would you even let him leave the house with it specially going to a restaurant ? 🤦♀️
I was thinking this...I used to think this show was the gospel but now that I have a baby all I can think is why would you let him bring it, grab his little comfort IN THE MIDDLE of a public place and expect him to be calm?? And not even say something like "I know you want the Paci, this must be tough for you etc..." And it absolutely broke my heart that they threw it away in front of him...once his emotions are exploding how on earth do you expect him to calm himself down if you don't show him how??? No longer a die-hard fan of her methods...
Good point. If they didn’t want the kid to have it they should have left it at home. That said I think Jo wanted to put Mum in that situation to prove to her that she could do it. It’s a tough lesson but I think that the Mum grew in confidence because of it.
@@capitaldidi this is a funny comment! You're right, everyone thinks they're a perfect parent, until they actually have children, themselves.
I know right how rude of her to snatch it like that
How rude to smoke at the table = how rude to suck at the table. No rude there with asking to stop and butt it/trash it
Ha ha! Jo's amazing - Mom says sit down - Kid runs around hysterically forever, Jo does her thing - Kid stops crying within ten seconds.
lol 😂
She more stern and doesnt take shiieeet. hahaha shes the bomb love her
Jo is wonderful! she does no harm but takes no shit.
Part of that is editing I think, I doubt he calmed down that fast
That’s because kids tend to listen to intimidating strangers more than their parents. With their parents they know they can get away with it.
I don't get passive, timid parenting. I know that helpless feeling with OTHER kids because you aren't the parent, but why actual parents are afraid to discipline or be stern/assertive - I don't know.
Rosalina 90 probably because either way you are judged as a parent
Oh my goodness, it sounds dreadful. There is surely something fundamentally wrong with that child? Wishy washy weak parents are just making huge problems for their futures too...if a 2 yr old is ''too strong'' , imagine a testosterone fuelled 12 yr old, or Heaven forfend, a 16 yr old.
Children feel 'safe' with good boundaries and discipline.
Rob absolutely true.
I wonder why anyone would ever mistake passive and timid parenting for gentleness!! I mean cutting a child's leg off (NOT out of anger of course) will be a very effective way of not getting struck by a car.
Rosalina 90 some dont want to feel like they failed as a parent or get insulted when the kid says that they hate their parents
To everyone getting upset with Jo taking the pacifier from the kid cuz he was uncomfortable or whatever the case. She was just making a point on how the mom has done nothing but coddle the kid and given in when he pisses and moans. At this age he needs to learn to not get his way and be too old for a pacifier, besides she paid for the other customer’s food for having to deal with that. That boy is too old for that and should have given it up at the age of one or one in a half, whether it’s the pacifier or not point is this mom kept giving into his tantrums and that’s how you get reactions like this.
Alexander Garcia ... Well put!
Agreed. You go!
Well said my friend, absolutely right!!
He is too old for nappies too and if people want quiet dining, they should eat at home. If you eat out you must be prepared that something like this can happen. It was just kid crying, trying to make his point, nothing like a stinky dirty person at the table. The mom just needed this experience and so did the boy, nobody got hurt.
@@BJKage I agree he's too old for nappies. I very much disagree that when people eat out they should be prepared to be exposed to behavior like that. That was not a "crying" child. That was a screaming, badly spoiled child having a major tantrum to get his way, and it was loud and prolonged. Restaurant customers should not be expected to put up having their eardrums blown out and their meals disrupted. If Junior is known to act that way, then he should stay home with a sitter. Hopefully Jo's laying down the law will be a step in the right direction.
As a preschool teaching student, I would look at the child at their level and say, "I understand me taking your binky away is making you feel really mad; it's time to eat. What would you like to drink, milk or juice?" I've learned that taking their focus away from the trigger and redirecting them works wonderfully.
In my favorite restaurant there was a kid screaming at the top of his lungs and everyone was staring at her and when she caught my gaze she went “I’m so sorry” and I told her “Your kid doesn’t belong in public!” She covered her face in her hands and started sobbing. Her husband looked like he was going to get up and say something but I grabbed my drink and he sat back down. Told him “That’s what I thought.” (I was too sober to be dealing with that) The manager told them to leave and when they made them way to the door everyone in the restaurant started clapping.
@@ianfortuna9385congrats your an assehole
@@ianfortuna9385 wtf
@@madelineheidler2545 what?
@@LuckyButterfly318your mom
This is the best birth control.
Oh please. This comment is really getting old. If you actually Discipline and teach your child well, there won't be a problem.
@@subscribee9792 you know what’s old? My year old comment, that you scrolled through dozens of comments to get to 😂.
@@Summerdaze8 If I thought it was old I wouldn't waste my precious time looking for it. It was at the top of all the comments so I just happened to find it once again. And last year wasn't long ago like we barely are getting into 2021 so I don't know what time zone your living in. But the point is, the parents of these kids on Supernanny are the problem. They don't Discipline their kids and that's what happens. So the best brith control is you knowing you can't handle your kids. 🤷
@@subscribee9792 not you telling a stranger on the internet they don’t know how to handle kids they don’t have 🤣 girrrl! What are you even pressed about? Who cares?
@@Summerdaze8 hey.. think what you wanna but I already said what I had to say. So if you want to be on birth control then go ahead. It's not really my business but you can't tell me it's not true that at least part of the reason these kids act like brats is because of the parents.
This kid busted my headphone speaker 😖😂
He reminds me of the donkeys in Pinocchio!
@Highland Gaming, how the donkeys couldn't stop crying.
I feel as if that situation was created. A lunch outing was not the time to start taking the pacifier.
I agree! The little one could have been warned at home that the p. Is only for sleeping... a little prepping can go a long way to avoid all thay crying...
Tara Cox yes!!!!
Exactly. This was so unfair. And I would have said I was a strict parent lol but this was unfair and unnecessary stress on the parent and the child. You set the rules for the pacifier at home. Of course he’s gona kick off 🙄🙄🙄
The mom had told Jo that the pacifier was only for sleeping, yet he had it in his mouth. I think it HAD to happen the way it did for mom to get her sh*t together. This wasn't a lesson for Gabe, it was a lesson for mom.
nichole kock So that should've been discussed before leaving, that he was not to take it out to lunch. I love Jo and respect what she does, I will say it was an eye opener for mom.
They should’ve dealt with the child outside and not in the restaurant, very inconsiderate even if they did pay for the others’ meals
My mom just gave us a look. That's it. Old school is much better
Yeah no
That's cuz they followed thru lol!
Exactly 😂😂😂
If you didn’t listen to the first warning or the look you got pinched and you best not cry about it
@@madisonlewis6194 I just got a spanking lol.
The older boy was so well behaved.
Darla Greene yes him and that blond little one. Peaceful little sweethearts.
Darla Greene like me🙂
I feel so bad for him
Because he's older i guess..
Poor kid is probably dying with embarrassment inside
I feel REALLY sorry for the others in that restaurant! I would of probably left.
Rebecca Viljoen same
RebeccaX yeah right I would just leave as well
Yeah bc it’s not safe!
RebeccaX yes but leaving is giving into that child that is having a temper tantrum
Same, but a few of the comments say Jo paid for their lunches. I don’t know that for a fact, but if it’s true, that makes me feel a lot better.
I love the way jo frost is straight up to the parents
The mom picked the wrong time to deal with her kid's temper tantrum. That should have been dealt with a long time ago. I can't even imagine her embarrassment
Good grief people, the kid is 2 years old..
@@sandyandersonadkins.9145 You have to start dealing with that type of behavior at two years old because it only escalates from there.
Time outs and discipline start at around two years of age...before that you redirect their attention and trick them. Anyone who's disciplining their kids before two is not realizing they don't have a firm grasp on cause and effect, repercussions, etc at that age.
Everybody talking about how this kid is ‘bratty’ but it’s really the moms fault. If she took the pacifier away slowly at a younger age, the kid wouldn’t be doing this. He has gotten to the age where he now relies on it as comfort. It is truly the mother’s fault.
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He is bratty, and I don’t care who is at fault. No one wants to listen to her demon spawn cry and scream. She can keep him at home and listen to it. It should be legal to slap them both.
It's not just the pacifier at issue... He has learned he gets whatever he wants by throwing a fit. And Mom taught him that. Jo always tackles the parent problem first. Kids Gabe's age aren't responsible for this behavior, their parents are.
My mother, at my father's direction, took my pacifier away when I was a year old. I ended up sucking my thumb for years after that. After all no one could take that away from me. That's not the answer. What is the answer? Being firm with any child from the beginning. When it is time to take the binky out they do so or they get a spanking and a lecture. And as they get older you tell them they need to give it up or their teeth are going to come in all nutty and they will look like a goofy rabbit. By that time most kids have friends at day care or at school, and they will be willing to give it up anyway. My daughter gave up her binky and her bottle on he own at a year and a half. The answer to a child like the one on this video is to be firm. Mom is the boss. Not the kid. If they figure out that all it does is get them pain and a lecture they will quit.
Definitely took it away the wrong way. You can not just snatch a security object away.
the lady in the back at like 0:50 was like *”omfg control your demons”*
Ravioli Ray I noticed that before anything.
*B O I*
And she is right! This is hysteria!!!!
Ishi Lala she did choose to have four
+Naughty Hotdog I am exceedingly rude to ignorant, heartless,stupid people who have lost their compassion, humanity and ability to critically analyse a situation without putting others down to make themselves feel superior. I am fierce make no mistake, and I certainly not be making any apologies.
Wow when Jo spoke to that little one I was truly impressed with her as a character, as a human being.
Paying for the people’s meal was so classy
O wow. Just noticed it. That's awesome 😻
Discipline start at home!!!!! Don’t let your kids control you!
They paid for everyone's dinner that was there.
That mom is trying her best, no matter what anyone says, it's hard being in a public place with a lot of kids being the only adult. It's exhausting and overwhelming. Could she be more firm yes, she is learning, no one is perfect. Does not make her a bad mom. God bless your family and may you all continue to grow happily and stand firm❤
Poor guy trying to eat his lunch at the other table LOL..
yvonneost12 they paid for his meal though
yvonneost12 I’m pretty sure they were told about the show. Plus there were cameras and I think the workers told them before 😂
He was starting and frowning, embracing the mother who has to deal with this
laura krummen yeah it would make me feel bad for the mom who has to do this IN PUBLIC
Look at the girl in the background at 00:49 lol that's me whenever someone brings a newborn baby to a restaurant
I feel so bad for other people, who just want to relax and have some lunch :/
Cali Angel RIGHT!
they got a free lunch
Cali Angel me too
so does the mom stfu.
Cali Angel I would have asked queen jo for her autograph
The guy in the back look so mad at least Jo paid for his lunch
S.L.V totes
Its the British way of teaching .
He and his family should not have to endure all of that even if the meal ends being paid for... paid to be tortured.
im amazed that she would have been able to get him to sign a waver to have his face shown on tv, no way you would have seen those reactions without one , they would of had to blur his face out. though its highly possible it was a set up.
JW McCabe most likely.
Wow, when the nanny got a hold of him. He managed to stop crying and answer her questions and did as she told him. He reached for his mother's hand. Wow! Wow! Wow!
When i was a kid, back in the 60's, lol, we would just get the "look" from my parents and that would shut us right up. But we never really behaved like that, nowadays, parents are letting their kids run wild in restaurants.
Anne Boleyns 3rd Cousin 16X Removed same but I’m 13 lol😂
holy shit im fifteen and i still get that look
Anne Boleyns 3rd Cousin 16X Removed he is too young to understand that "look".
Hafsa Kamal He's not too young to understand the "look," he just hasn't gotten it before. :-)
I agree. I grew up in the 80s and me and my brother never behaved like this. My parents were very loving but strict. We had a healthy fear of getting in trouble. Apparently the worst we would do is get a bit restless and ask if we could sit on their laps once they had finished eating.
pretty sure customers were informed or they were extras lol
celeryg66 yes they were aware of a show
They had to know something because there were clearly cameramen with them. Plus, before they left Nanny Jo said to the couple that they were taking care of it. So I assume they were taking care of their bill.
Yea they have to otherwise they couldn’t show their faces.
That father sitting at the table looks SOO familiar
Yeah, they have to be aware and let the show use their faces otherwise they have to blur it
Why why why.. is it so hard for some parents to UNDERSTAND say NO and mean NO!! SERIOUSLY the kid screams like someone is killing him and she would just normally give it back? That taught him that NO means scream until its YES ... I don't care if he is 2... I don't care if he is 9mths NO MEANS NO or don't bother saying it! Love Supernanny!!!
Exactly! Thank you. There are quite a few parents here in the comments that just don't get it! They think Joe is being a bully. Lol. Ridiculous! She's been at this a very long time. There's always a method to her madness. Instead of immediately judging her and saying she's wrong and your ass knows better, try actually listening and paying attention! She's performed miracles with kids. Lol
Leslie Ann So true how is it some parents don get this, ur the parent how can ur own child do this if you cant just whoop his ass till he gets it damn it!!
I like Jo most of the time, I happen to be close to 60 and have more experience with children, even autistic children whom I speak sign language to since they can't speak most of the time. I get them to do LOTS of things without yelling or being aggressive, and I've had autistic children hit me MANY times.
This little boy is 2... not autistic.. he has been let to control everyone his entire life. He screams he gets whatever he wants, scream louder get it faster.... the cycle HAS to be stopped! Jo was trying to get the mom to understand its not going to go away with age, he will just be a bigger monster running the entire house! He might be 2, but he UNDERSTOOD EVERY word Jo said to him!! Seriously don't like it when adults use the excuse they're only 2 they don't understand.. Toddlers aren't stupid they are extremely smart their brains hold information like a sponge. You teach them early or deal with the consequences!! As for me my 1yr old 2yr old 3, 4, 5, 6, 7... ect will NEVER be the boss, and I will be able to go to restaurants, ride on planes, sit in church, go to a store, without dealing with crap like that!! No way!!
The first thing a new therapist is taught in the field of behavior is ***mean what you say and say what you mean***. We’re taught to NEVER give empty promises or make empty threats. Kids catch on to that real quick and will play you like a fiddle😂😂
Lol the people in the backgrounds facial expressions 😂
People are saying "oh why can't this be dealt with at home ?!?" Umm bc they AREN'T HOME. No matter where you are with your kids if they throw a tantrum deal with then right then and there. Not once you get home.
Yasmin Najjar - You've missed the point people are making completely. They aren't saying deal with the tantrum at home, they're (rightly) saying, deal with the issue of the dummy at home. The kid was happy until he had his dummy whipped from his mouth.
Yasmin Najjar they shouldn’t have brought the pacifier out then
LA P this could've happened for any reason. Dummy or not. There could've been a hundred reasons why he started freaking out in public like this. She needs to be prepared to deal with any type of outburst like this for any reason without leaving every time.
if this sort of behavior had been dealt with at home before he wouldn't be acting like this now.
LA P so right
The title wasn't misleading when it said "huge toddler tantrum." 🤣😂🙈
Parenting is not easy. There’s not one single perfect method to do it. Adapt and be a parent that truly cares for your children. Each child is different
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I know!! It can be really hard 🙁🙁
Look up RIE parenting
that guy in the grey shirt was ready to hit this girls child 😂
I'm sorry but if that was me and my child when he started screaming I would pick him up and take him outside until he calmed down instead of annoying the whole restaurant?!
That’s exactly it!
omg yes!! that's what I said too!
Yet what does that do? Your child learns he can control the situation by screaming and crying.
How, Petrio? There's no difference in dealing with the situation and disciplining your child outside, besides keeping the restaurant happy and undisturbed.
Why wait until your out in public to do this? Take it away at home first.
It was the f***in nanny that wanted to take the pacifier away....I'm aware of the child's age and he doesn't need it any more....but no need to be a f***in monster. Created stress for the child, the mom, etc. The nanny loved it. She... was able to assert her authority.
What's wrong with asserting authority? Part of the problem is that the mom doesn't. Jo just modeled assertiveness to the mom, and good for her.
@@asheisadora I didnt wait till we get home to correct things with my ex boyfriend. He treats me disrespectful in public just as he does at home so I speak up. Then he accuses me of making him look bad. And says its my fault. Well maybe he aughta smartin up and be a man and no one would get embarrassed.
@@asheisadora I think the authority belongs to the mom not the nanny.
The mom brought the nanny in because the behavior was so bad. What good does it do unless she lets the nanny charge while she's there? The mom essentially GAVE authority over to the nanny for the duration of her visit when she agreed to the show.. If there wasn't a problem, nanny would not have been brought in.
*hears screaming*
Me: it’s so loud...
Me: oh wait. I can turn it down.
Ow, it hurts my ears and heart.... 😵😵😵😵😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Sadly those people at the restaurant can't
LOL
I got so engrossed, legit forgot 😂
Dang, a 9 year old kid named Noah is calm, chill and never throws a single tantrum about anything