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Many of these ladies fell for the Pookie and Ray Ray dude, ignoring the good brother, he was lame according to these same ladies. Now years later after that troublesome dude has done everything to them, used them, abused them, played them and the list goes on then they want to settle with the men they used to call lame.. A womans respect and reputation depends on who she has been with, nobody want to deal with a Pookie and Ray Ray left over.
Many truths spoken here……have been rejected several times ,in favor of a pookie / ray ray type But in time the shoe does go on the other foot , so just stand strong and be selective in your choices Also ….be careful with pookie or ray ray children , they tend to bring excess drama because they’re just like their father
You sound so bitter and still butt-hurt. Many of these ladies were duped by men pretending to be good men. Men do that sometimes you know, pretend to be something they're not.
Many women just like to have sex and feel good they don't care about the consequences or their future at that time imagine the woman repeating the process 60 times with this mentality. Her mental illness is going to be present
Doesn’t matter if the man has kids or not. He already has to invest his resources into his kids. It’s sucka shyt to invest resources into something another man’s 🥜. Take those resources and strengthen your own legacy and securement. These brawds don’t appreciate your sacrifices and neither does those seeds that aren’t yours. Hell your own kids barely appreciate it often times.
Oh yeah.. you ain’t never lied about that bro).. I was just talking to this fine young Latino woman. At planet fitness last week.).. so I ask for her number.. she said oh sure.. but I have 2 kids. !! …. Nope. Let’s just say. I never called her.
No such think as a step dummy market. The black community makes up titles for every abnormal behavior out there. It’s delusional. Men did it for access to the women. Simple. It’s a bum deal.
Oh yeah you’re definitely right about that bro. I was just talking to this fine young Latin honey last week. At planet fitness. And when I ask for her number.. she just told me .. oh yeah sure. I have 2 kids. !! Let’s just say I never called her. !!
Don’t forget that other saying that women used to say, “We come as a total package so you want me you gotta want my kids.” That don’t work anymore these days either.
Have you ever heard a child call the step-dummy, "Hey step-dad?" No. Its because there's no such thing. The black community continues to grant titles to low quality behaviors while making excuses as to reasons why they do it. Simps want continued access to the recycled roast beef and they indirectly agree to be a fool and clean up the mess the women enjoyed with other men. Simple in mostly all cases.
A bitter single mom sent her new baby daddy down stairs to "deal with" her old baby daddy who was my friend. Dude stabbed my friend to death and the bitter baby mom tried to get dude off on a self defense charge. Saying my friend was the aggressor when all he wanted to do was see his kids
They gave their best years to the worst men like pookie and ray ray. Then when the baby is born then they want to look you up on social media after years of friend zoning you as if you are actually going to wait on them. Hell no ! Take your baby and your wide back extra post baby lbs back to the streets. I got my passport
@@12Gates. Low quality men that are thirsting for access to severely used roast beef in exchange for his life and resources for another man's secretions. And dudes be out here wifing them up, which is utterly funny. Living in a house full of different last names and being proud of it. Sad
Whter you had kids or not, it's a n obligation to protect your lineage with your life; not another man's. It's good to see a brother with some standards and principles.
My grandmother once said the problem women with a lot of kids by different men it’s the multiple personalities clashing with each other! When the kids argue and fight they’ll talk about each other’s daddies! She also said, women who have kids by a lot of men were not wrapped too tight! Today, we call them TOXIC!
Just remember Mr. P. Scott. These same women CHOSE to ignore the average man. You gave up your womb and birth right. Live with it. To each their own. Disobedience causes this. Real men. These same women and men are all up in the church too. Beware
A lot of times, creeping in late at night after the kids go to sleep is about all you can do with a single mother, if you want to have some one-on-one adult time with them with no kids interrupting or without having to take her and all her kids on a "date" to Chuck E. Cheese. Also, single mothers are usually the easiest women to sleep with because most are so desperate for male attention since their children keep most men far, far away.
Exactly! That's all it would be for me. Meeting up for adult time then send her back to her kids. No I don't want to meet her kids. Mines are grown so she definitely ain't meeting mines.
@@Aenarion28 That's on you though. You choosing to let the kids sleep in bed with y'all. Even with that being said just cause they are sleep in y'all bed don't mean y'all can't go to another room an handle your business unless you using the kids as an excuse not to get physical. A lot of women tend to use that excuse.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 Whether your kid are grown or not, its only commendable for you to lay your life down for your lineage. Not another man's secretions. Stay strong brother and enjoy the ride.
I’m a 18 year old black female and growing up I seen some of my cousins get pregnant young, me? I was more lonesome because I preferred being by myself, never dated, never had sex, until I turned 18 I was finishing nursing school and had this guy I was talking to, he seemed so good, so sweet, until one day we got into the mood and I thought wait are we even dating he said “whatever you want” I was like “no I feel like you’re only into me for sex” he was like “you see I knew you were going to hard to get” im like “as in sex” he said “yea” I was like okay cool take me home we are done” next day didn’t hear back from him and I was like yk what I’m glad I’m still a virgin because I value myself more then I value a guy who’s not ready.
Good for you!! Study for that nursing degree, get your masters degree and become an NP and wait for a decent man with good values to have a family with
I wish single mothers would just commit to dating single fathers. Why are you trying to ruin our lives with your chaotic lives. Leave us childless people alone, for the love of all that is holy!
Single fathers don't want them either and why would they. All the negatives that make single mothers a bad deal for childless men are equally true for single fathers as well.
Why would a guy want pay for a mess he didn't create. Single mother is another word for debt. Expenses that he didn't even get to have fun generating. It's an investment that has very low probability of any real return. Saving women is not a good activity for men to engage in.
Marrying a single mother is like deciding to be the fool that's dumb enough to actually decide to purchase a 🚘Rent-A-Car that's been dogged out by dozens of dudes, knowmatter what you do, you can never roll back the thousands of miles that she's put on living her 🔥 hot girl life.
Can you roll back yours?? acting as if your mileage is better damnnn some men show why women need to step their game up $$$ even higher and do them I'm sure she want not born join together is ok to get a companion and be submissive but some guys here acting as if the wear the panties cause their mileage are alawys way up but don't want it to be a subject
There’s not a woman in the Bible who had multiple husbands. But there are plenty of men in the Bible who did have wives and were blessed. Men were built for this…women were not.
@@cliftonrichards3522 Stop being dense, men and women are inherently different and cannot do the same things and expect the identical results. Both are equally and individually responsible for their own decisions as consenting adults. Men determine their standards of attraction for women. They don't change their imperatives, preferences, or inclinations based on browbeating from women or effeminate men who kowtow to women. Do the world a favor and wake up to reality and take that battery out of your back. If what he said offended you that much, you're likely part of a larger problem.
@@cliftonrichards3522 his mileage is low yes. He doesn’t have a kid. Even if he slept with 100 women, if he didn’t get them pregnant, his miles are lower than a sm
From the age of 18 to 30 years old women literally have a head start in life vs men and they use up their best years traveling, having fun, and making bad decisions that results in trauma and kids by men they realize wasn’t the right choice long term. 😅 oh well I just turned 35. Women say their done playing games. I just got started 😆🔥
@ tried it once against my better judgement. I always said I never wanted to deal with someone with a child gave it a shot for some odd reason and EVERY SINGLE REASON I had for never wanting to date someone with a child came true. It was a nightmare. I am childfree by choice. A man with kids is an automatic deal breaker. I ask UPFRONT if a man has a child as as soon as he says yes that’s the end of the conversation. Dating someone with kids when you have none is settling for less. It’s the bottoms of the barrel when you’re childfree. Kids are baggage and I’m not a luggage carrier.
@@Laoriginal718 woow!! I couldn't agree more !!! You said nothing but facts! Was it just one child? And did you deal with a lot of baby mama drama? Also were you counted to be a mom like figure and even support the kid financially ?😭.. but yes that's so true, it honestly is the bottom of the barrel for someone without kids, I feel like someone thats considered unattractive would be a better option than the person with kids.. at one point I was close to homelessness and was considering a single mom of 3 with 3 different baby daddies that had shelter for me, and I still was like nah , don't think I can do that 😂😅
@@johnnytsunami3558 no I was never expected to do anything. He did try to ask me to baby sit. I said no. He asked if I could get him a happy meal….i said no. I told him to call that boys mother and tell her her kid was hungry. I wasn’t tryna be bothered with nobody’s child. I left the relationship. NEVER AGAIN.
@@johnnytsunami3558 yes there was baby mama drama. The baby mama wanted to be with him but he didn’t want her. She looked like shrek. When I saw what she looked like I questioned if he was into men because she had a masculine face. She def looked like a dude from the neck up.
I remembered back in 2018-19 i was dating a S.M for 2 years just to tell me that she didn't want me anymore, lol the nerve of her when i provided for her and her son (plus she wasn't all that good lookin), well after we broke up the following summer i landed my apartment car and CDL class A driving job, now in 2023 i have a son of my own with a beautiful woman inside & out, with a stable job Herself.
Congrats 👏🏽 my boy you dodged a bullet, saved a lot of time, and mental health, I'm still with one but 2020-23 and IDK how to break it off 😂 I mean I do like her but it's just not worth it to me anymore especially after realizing they not looking for love, just looking for help! Wish me well bro 🙏🏽
These single mothers have "standards" higher than childless women. And the solution is right in their face but their egos wont allow it. Theyre in a position now where theyre going to have to "settle". Same with the ran through post wall chicks. The same way every man doesn't get his top of the litter pick the same goes for women. But see thats going to require them to humble themselves, and you know how that goes....
It’s an incomplete statement: the men that they want. Chad & Tyrone. The guy that would take them and their kids on: they don’t want those. Single moms are a bridge to a very complicated relationship where you as a man are deadlast on her list of priorities. While she has to be on top of yours. It’s just not worth the effort and “modern man” realize this. I’m a dad of 1 & I don’t even look at single moms. There are plenty of women without all that baggage out there.
Nobody wants to take care of another man’s kids unless he has no better options. Go get back with your bd. No one told you to lay down and have multiple kids by maybe multiple men. That’s the decision you made so accept the fact that you might only be worth a smash and dash. Being a step father is a dummy mission
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 , and there it is. Men desperately want to punish women who aren't with the father of their children. Unfortunately too many men dont care. Lol, we're never going back to the glory days of men so you guys are just frustrated. Lol
Ladies very few men want to take the responsibility for another man's kids. These guys now see you as sex period. That BS gaslighting doesn't work today.
Oh yeah..) you’re definitely right about that bro. I was just talking to this fine Latin lady at planet fitness last week).. I ask for her number. She said oh sure.. but I have 2 kids.. !! NOPE. I’m out. Let’s just say I never called her. !! 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽🥵👊🏽🥵👊🏽🥵
Firstly it's nasty🤢🤮 other men have been shooting up the club and you go right in behind him. Thats basically polygamy. You're basically in a relationship with a child's father and his woman. Secondly, you're not respected or appreciated. Thirdly it's emotionally difficult and could be physically dangerous. It's a hard pass for me.
I see your point. However even the ones who ain't got no kids are still out here getting shot up as well. This one chick left her boyfriend house an hit me trying to come over. I told her no I'm good you just left there im sure he busting all in you. Her response was she can stop at the store an get a summer eve an shower before we have sex. Hell no it's the fact I know he did. That's why I don't be out here in the streets chasing multiple of women. Been dealing with the same two women the last four years an even with that I can't even say that I was or have been the only guy.
Respectfully, you have a right to your preference I totally agree with you, but there are women without children, that are seen as "good women" that's ran through and u will never know it.. what's worse have 3 baby daddies, or 100 men? I'm not advocating for anyone to be a "stepfather" if they don't want to be, I don't blame men for not wanting the drama, but u can't measure promiscuity by children. 😊😊
I feel like many single moms don't really respect the stepfather, so the kids mimic the same energy the mother has. Kids disrespecting the stepfather drive alot of men away.
Gotta be fly, she gotta be 100% cooperative. It's too much possible baggage that come along with baby mommas. Gotta worry about if the baby daddy got some simpin in his heart so you don't know what dude is capable of doing. Then not being able to discipline the child. 😩😫😮💨
Too much liability with marrying a woman with kids. You can be financially responsible for kids accordingly to the court system. There is no reward in being a step-dad.
I DID.. after my several experiences. I've learned that S.M. often unable to heal from trauma and unhabor resentment. A woman is unable to be a full nurturing mother . S.m. have to be nurturing as well as the provider, which is not a healthy mix. If you're around children all the time, you become built for children like Tendencies.
Myth Buster Here: They don't heal. They learn to live with the pain and hide the dysfunction long enough to get you hooked and then you either wifed them up or impregnated them. You can't erase the colors that have stained the canvas. They only paint it with other life experiences (colors).
@The Crimson Cure tells the truth about Black Women and refund checks or anything else they get for free. Plus they want the kids to feel indebted to them for retirement
i refuse to date a woman with kids! women be saying them and they kids are a package deal lmao yea u a package deal alright that's gon remain on the market for a sucker! aint no way i am gonna take care of someone else's responsibilities plus who knows what kind of drama and history that comes with all that!
I'm Not black mysef but the amount of women I've seen shame men into raising their bastard children under the guise of "community" "mentorship" and that "it takes a village to raise a child" .........Women need to take responsibility and accountability and stop sleeping with the type men who they they wouldn't want mentoring their kids
More than likely, Single Mothers tend to be bad Long Term Partners. Because, they're usually tied to or unapolagically desire the types of Men that are not interested in Long Term Relationships. So, many Single Mothers end up being Bad Investments for the Men that are willing to entertain Single Mothers and their individual Situation-ships. Bad Single Mothers are a Good Single Mother's worst enemy in relationships. And every time a Bad Single Mother does a Good Man Bad; 200 Good Single Mothers lose the opportunity to be chosen. Facts on commentary.
For every 200 Good Single mothers there are atleast 400 Bad Single mothers so those numbers could never math. Out of 200 single mothers atleast 130 of them just want a helper/atm and aren't good. So the good ratio is 1 in 3 at best and more like 1 in 5.
@@mateaukalua4426 If we're talking ratios; I would guess 1 in 10 Single Mothers at best would be a Good Single Mother; so to speak. And those Single Mothers would have most likely come from a two parent household and just messed around with the wrong Type of Guy; "trying to fit in." Otherwise, Single Mothers that come from Single Mothers will probably remain Single Mothers because that's the Heritage/Legacy they came from. And no one in the family has made a serious effort to change it.
@@whenniceguysretaliate5619 I was being very liberal in what I was saying. Your numbers are far more accurate. However the ratio of 1 bad single mom to 200 good single moms isn't accurate in America Mexico Canada Asia or Africa 🤣. Whoever said that was disillusioned.
Even them lesbo women have been speaking out against single mothers and then coming back "men, im sorry, y'all right...I understand now" ..im seeing many of these testimonies
A male lion, king of the jungle, kills any cubs that are not his, then he mates with the lioness. You can't (and shouldn't) kill the little ones so stay away from single baby-mommas.
Of course most men don't want to date single mother. Most men don't have kids themselves. He's not trying to take care of another man's children. He's not trying to deal with a "You ain't my daddy" child. He isn't obligated to take on a woman that already has a family. He doesn't want the headache.
It's gotten so bad now that even if the woman has grown children they are still not datable because of the grandchildren being around and their failure to launch children
Being a step father is a thankless job there’s a lot of attractive single mothers out there though but I’m good on dealing with all that baggage and trauma.
Funny enough it's rarely about the kids. It's the emotional damage and attitude many single mothers bring to the table that scare men away. They seemingly take out all their frustrations about the men that left them on what ever man is dating them right now.
I've been there when I was younger, in a relationship with a woman with four kids, it lasted for about a year and a half then i split, i seen the future of that and wasn't with it.
I understand. I feel the same way towards men with kids. I will never ever date another man who has kids. Keep that stress and disrespect to yourself so I completely agree with these men for not wanting to deal with the blatant disrespect. People want you to help them take care of a child but won't require that child to respect you. That's a hard no and unrealistic request. You might need to tell these baby daddies the same thing Phillip because if they have kids they definitely can't talk about a single mother 🤸🏾♀️🏃🏿♀️✌🏾😊 cause some of these men have baby mamas but want you because you don't have kids. Go away 😊
Most men don’t have children. Additionally many of the men commenting said the same applies to woman with no children and men children. A comment above stated he would tell his son and daughter to find someone equally yoked. The point is to say single parents aren’t a good deal for anyone without children to take on.
This for the single men with no kids. Most of us don’t have kids. Many of the women in this generation do however. Which is why we have to look elsewhere now.
1 child is one too many for me from another man. The best sex partner I ever had was a single mom on and off 2 years. We literally went out one time to meet in a restaurant then it was on 😈 We went running and biking outside of that it was great sex at my place or her place. She has a PhD was living with her mom. I'm not trying to pull her out of that struggle for over a decade with her young kids. I was certainly there to fall in the 😺 😊 Single moms y'all do it to yourself. You have no business getting pregnant by someone you don't want to spend 18+ years if not the rest of your life with. No excuses. Any excuse a single mom gives remember that is the individual that is going to be in charge if something bad happens to y'all, her kids, your kids, you're in a comma. This individual has already proven they don't make good like decisions. Always a hard pass outside of sex. Single moms don't want you raising their kids. They will take your resources though. Single moms chose the struggle life and I respect their FREEDOM to do so. I have enough struggles being black.
I’m a very responsible single father of adult sons….with options. GUYS LIKE ME DON’T WANT BABY MOMMAS EITHER!! Worked too hard to obtain my resources. I ain’t giving them to Pookie and Ray-Ray kids.
Well for one,they continue to listen to any certain types of people,They have a problem controlling their children,They don't want the man to discipline their children,even though the man/men are buying them the thing's they need,etc.
In my experience, the reason I don't want anything to do with them had nothing to do with their kid and everything to do with their character as a person. Me and the kids were cooler than a fan.
Why should a single man have to put up with an unwanted headache? Some women come with too much baggage. Them badass kids and crazy jealous baby daddy’s ain’t worth it. Sometimes them grandparents can be a problem also. I’d rather be single.
Im a single mom and honestly I don’t want a man in my house. My kids and I love the peace in our home. I don’t invite men over and I will not be letting any man move in, at all!!!!! Guys hit on me and we never get pass the talking stage because I don’t bring men to my house and Im not going to theirs😂😂😂😂 And im very happy with this boundary. I’m abstinent from s3x so I dont have to worry about a fluctuating PH balance😂 🤷🏽♀️ I guess I’ll start collecting cats
My brother dated a single mom at one point. She had two girls...but that didnt last long , and she ended up hacking one of his IG accounts because he didnt wanna deal with her anymore. lol
Statistics data and facts from the CDC 78 percent of black ladies are having babies out of wedlock 78 percent ladies we have more babies showers then we have weddings 😢
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Most of them just refuse to own up to their own failure.
Hey brother Phil I'm sorry this off topic but you here That AOC asking Reparations for migrants
Many of these ladies fell for the Pookie and Ray Ray dude, ignoring the good brother, he was lame according to these same ladies. Now years later after that troublesome dude has done everything to them, used them, abused them, played them and the list goes on then they want to settle with the men they used to call lame.. A womans respect and reputation depends on who she has been with, nobody want to deal with a Pookie and Ray Ray left over.
🎯 this comment deserves a pin 📌
Many truths spoken here……have been rejected several times ,in favor of a pookie / ray ray type
But in time the shoe does go on the other foot , so just stand strong and be selective in your choices
Also ….be careful with pookie or ray ray children , they tend to bring excess drama because they’re just like their father
💯
You sound so bitter and still butt-hurt. Many of these ladies were duped by men pretending to be good men. Men do that sometimes you know, pretend to be something they're not.
Many women just like to have sex and feel good they don't care about the consequences or their future at that time imagine the woman repeating the process 60 times with this mentality. Her mental illness is going to be present
It’s a bad deal. Men without kids shouldn’t get emotionally involved with single mothers. Same goes for women without kids.
Doesn’t matter if the man has kids or not. He already has to invest his resources into his kids. It’s sucka shyt to invest resources into something another man’s 🥜. Take those resources and strengthen your own legacy and securement. These brawds don’t appreciate your sacrifices and neither does those seeds that aren’t yours. Hell your own kids barely appreciate it often times.
@@dezcuts5319 that's some real spit because my kids don't appreciate all the countless hours I work to try to get them what they want.
@@areasonablethought610 exactly there’s nothing sensible about it. Idk why dudes keep saying that goofy shyt
@301tg...
I will agree, women without children shouldn't get involved with men with children....either.
Baby Daddy= Run in the other direction.
@@akilahbrooklyn8236 That’s not always the case….because majority of the time it’s the women that ruined the relationship…
I don't want no baby mommy. Period.
Oh yeah.. you ain’t never lied about that bro).. I was just talking to this fine young Latino woman. At planet fitness last week.).. so I ask for her number.. she said oh sure.. but I have 2 kids. !! …. Nope. Let’s just say. I never called her.
Cut dry and to the point 😂🔥
Nope
On the flip side ...I dont want no baby daddy!
@@I2AmUS L🤡
They can only blame themselves with their own actions and behaviors of ruining the step daddy market 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
No such think as a step dummy market. The black community makes up titles for every abnormal behavior out there. It’s delusional. Men did it for access to the women. Simple. It’s a bum deal.
Oh yeah you’re definitely right about that bro. I was just talking to this fine young Latin honey last week. At planet fitness. And when I ask for her number.. she just told me .. oh yeah sure. I have 2 kids. !! Let’s just say I never called her. !!
@@harveyhankerson8359 Good job bro. She never would have picked you if she was childless lol
@@DeaconChriss yeah I was just thinking about that too. !! 👀👀👀👀
@@harveyhankerson8359 right
Don’t forget that other saying that women used to say, “We come as a total package so you want me you gotta want my kids.” That don’t work anymore these days either.
They may be a 'package', but are hardly a deal.
@@oldhag2881 Amen brother!
@@oldhag2881 im gud with escort there cheaper lol
I don't accept those packages ....straight return to sender
Yep quickly write return to sender
"Man, you can't tell me what to do. You're not my father." 😂😂💯
Phone rings at 2 am. It’s Junior. “Waaahhh, I got in trouble and they took me to jail. Come down, and put up the $ to bail me out”
@@devilsadvocacy Let your real dad bail you. ✌🏿😂
Ok here's the deal go to your daddy's house and let him pay for everything that you have.
My house my rules!!
Have you ever heard a child call the step-dummy, "Hey step-dad?" No. Its because there's no such thing. The black community continues to grant titles to low quality behaviors while making excuses as to reasons why they do it. Simps want continued access to the recycled roast beef and they indirectly agree to be a fool and clean up the mess the women enjoyed with other men. Simple in mostly all cases.
Well feed yourself, bastard😂
A bitter single mom sent her new baby daddy down stairs to "deal with" her old baby daddy who was my friend. Dude stabbed my friend to death and the bitter baby mom tried to get dude off on a self defense charge. Saying my friend was the aggressor when all he wanted to do was see his kids
So sad that some women can be so evil. Dads have every right to see their kids. She will get her share soon and as your friend may he R.I.P 😢
Damn, that's sad.
My GAWD!!!! That is incredible. I will always say this to men.....RUN from the baby mommas. The come with too much baggage and drama!
My condolences
Bro that's really sad. 😢😢
I don't care how many children she has, I want nothing to do with single mothers.
They gave their best years to the worst men like pookie and ray ray. Then when the baby is born then they want to look you up on social media after years of friend zoning you as if you are actually going to wait on them. Hell no ! Take your baby and your wide back extra post baby lbs back to the streets. I got my passport
Dayuum 😁
Its the expectation of a man waiting for them to be done getting ran thru that gets me
@@12Gates. 😂😂
LOL!!!
@@12Gates. Low quality men that are thirsting for access to severely used roast beef in exchange for his life and resources for another man's secretions. And dudes be out here wifing them up, which is utterly funny. Living in a house full of different last names and being proud of it. Sad
Being a Gen Xer with no kids, marrying a single mother never entered my mind.
Whter you had kids or not, it's a n obligation to protect your lineage with your life; not another man's. It's good to see a brother with some standards and principles.
My man!
Nor should it. Plenty of single dads out there.
My grandmother once said the problem women with a lot of kids by different men it’s the multiple personalities clashing with each other! When the kids argue and fight they’ll talk about each other’s daddies! She also said, women who have kids by a lot of men were not wrapped too tight! Today, we call them TOXIC!
Our grandparents made sense…. there was shame back then, and family values…. not today 😢
Single men with no kids, with single mothers, is like missing the party, but they want you to help "clean up."
I know I definitely don't. I don't believe in taking care of another man's child. My parents didn't raise me that way
😂 facts glad men are waking up and smelling the coffee ☕ oh and I like your username 💪🏽
@@mindstein2823 Lmao 💯 and thanks brotha
@@pinkskincanthandlethesunlight you're welcome broski keep speaking facts keep your foot on the necks! :)
Step daddy season is over 😂🤷♂️🤣. Guys are not playing that game anymore....for the most part
Hilarious that women thought they could leave men on the bench then pick them up for Step Dummy (worst deal known to man)
Facts
It should have never started
@@toddpacker1015especially if their tubes are tied
Just remember Mr. P. Scott. These same women CHOSE to ignore the average man. You gave up your womb and birth right. Live with it. To each their own. Disobedience causes this. Real men. These same women and men are all up in the church too. Beware
A lot of times, creeping in late at night after the kids go to sleep is about all you can do with a single mother, if you want to have some one-on-one adult time with them with no kids interrupting or without having to take her and all her kids on a "date" to Chuck E. Cheese. Also, single mothers are usually the easiest women to sleep with because most are so desperate for male attention since their children keep most men far, far away.
Exactly! That's all it would be for me. Meeting up for adult time then send her back to her kids. No I don't want to meet her kids. Mines are grown so she definitely ain't meeting mines.
Ain't easy even if your kids either.
Kid still sleeps in bed with us.
@@Aenarion28 where's your balls at?
@@Aenarion28 That's on you though. You choosing to let the kids sleep in bed with y'all. Even with that being said just cause they are sleep in y'all bed don't mean y'all can't go to another room an handle your business unless you using the kids as an excuse not to get physical. A lot of women tend to use that excuse.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 Whether your kid are grown or not, its only commendable for you to lay your life down for your lineage. Not another man's secretions. Stay strong brother and enjoy the ride.
I’m a 18 year old black female and growing up I seen some of my cousins get pregnant young, me? I was more lonesome because I preferred being by myself, never dated, never had sex, until I turned 18 I was finishing nursing school and had this guy I was talking to, he seemed so good, so sweet, until one day we got into the mood and I thought wait are we even dating he said “whatever you want” I was like “no I feel like you’re only into me for sex” he was like “you see I knew you were going to hard to get” im like “as in sex” he said “yea” I was like okay cool take me home we are done” next day didn’t hear back from him and I was like yk what I’m glad I’m still a virgin because I value myself more then I value a guy who’s not ready.
If you continue the good work you can get the famous 1% of high desirable man to commit: 6 ft 6 figure income etc! Youre the price! Congratulations! 🎉
@@arthurdevrome8925Disney movie talk🤣😂
Good for you!! Study for that nursing degree, get your masters degree and become an NP and wait for a decent man with good values to have a family with
@@arthurdevrome8925height doesn’t matter to all women. I’m only 4’10” so for ME 5’8” is tall
Good on you
Single mothers aren’t traditional or they wouldn’t be single mothers, unless she is a widow
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They did it to themselves bruh.
Hell it might be a brother outchea who would date/marry a woman with multiple kids. Just not me.
Worst things ever is a men with no kids raising another men kid.
Use spell check
I got ZERO time for those problems. Straight problems out the gate.
Not true. Your comment proves that! 🌳
Yo phil please do not stop doing the plane engine sound lol. I was just waiting for it lol.
I wish single mothers would just commit to dating single fathers. Why are you trying to ruin our lives with your chaotic lives. Leave us childless people alone, for the love of all that is holy!
I agree 🎯🤷🏽♀️
Agreed. I definitely don't want nobody's daddy. Go find someone who has kids sir or ma'am.
I’m a responsible single father of adult sons and I’m not dating baby mommas. Different energy between the two genders.
Single fathers don't want them either and why would they. All the negatives that make single mothers a bad deal for childless men are equally true for single fathers as well.
@@611mellissanobody wants you to ma'am. Like the other gentleman said, it's always a different energy!
Why would a guy want pay for a mess he didn't create. Single mother is another word for debt. Expenses that he didn't even get to have fun generating. It's an investment that has very low probability of any real return. Saving women is not a good activity for men to engage in.
Some single mothers are extremely lucky that get wifed up by a childless man
Unfortunately many women dont see it tht way sum still feel like they doing u a favor. 😅😅😅
@@goofynigga8456 that’s pathetic
It’s because they got low standard
Marrying a single mother is like deciding to be the fool that's dumb enough to actually decide to purchase a 🚘Rent-A-Car that's been dogged out by dozens of dudes, knowmatter what you do, you can never roll back the thousands of miles that she's put on living her 🔥 hot girl life.
Can you roll back yours?? acting as if your mileage is better damnnn some men show why women need to step their game up $$$ even higher and do them I'm sure she want not born join together is ok to get a companion and be submissive but some guys here acting as if the wear the panties cause their mileage are alawys way up but don't want it to be a subject
There’s not a woman in the Bible who had multiple husbands. But there are plenty of men in the Bible who did have wives and were blessed. Men were built for this…women were not.
@@cliftonrichards3522 Stop being dense, men and women are inherently different and cannot do the same things and expect the identical results. Both are equally and individually responsible for their own decisions as consenting adults. Men determine their standards of attraction for women. They don't change their imperatives, preferences, or inclinations based on browbeating from women or effeminate men who kowtow to women. Do the world a favor and wake up to reality and take that battery out of your back. If what he said offended you that much, you're likely part of a larger problem.
@@cliftonrichards3522 his mileage is low yes. He doesn’t have a kid. Even if he slept with 100 women, if he didn’t get them pregnant, his miles are lower than a sm
@@cliftonrichards3522 is a woman 👩 trolling lol!
From the age of 18 to 30 years old women literally have a head start in life vs men and they use up their best years traveling, having fun, and making bad decisions that results in trauma and kids by men they realize wasn’t the right choice long term. 😅 oh well I just turned 35. Women say their done playing games. I just got started 😆🔥
Preach 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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just got started making bad decisions? :D
Nah nah nah!!! It’s all fun and games until we want to play too….. and let me tell you! It’s fun
@@polpol1005he worked hard, he wants to enjoy what he sowed..
That airplane noise always have me laughing keep up the good work phil lol 😂
Oh yeah.. I love it..
If she's a Single Mother Run For Your Life 🏃🏿♂️💨💨💨💨
Facts 😂
Run for you life after you smash😉
On 🎯
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If you have no kids…..NEVER date someone that does.
@@Laoriginal718 have you ever came close to dating someone with kids ?
@ tried it once against my better judgement. I always said I never wanted to deal with someone with a child gave it a shot for some odd reason and EVERY SINGLE REASON I had for never wanting to date someone with a child came true. It was a nightmare. I am childfree by choice. A man with kids is an automatic deal breaker. I ask UPFRONT if a man has a child as as soon as he says yes that’s the end of the conversation. Dating someone with kids when you have none is settling for less. It’s the bottoms of the barrel when you’re childfree. Kids are baggage and I’m not a luggage carrier.
@@Laoriginal718 woow!! I couldn't agree more !!! You said nothing but facts! Was it just one child? And did you deal with a lot of baby mama drama? Also were you counted to be a mom like figure and even support the kid financially ?😭.. but yes that's so true, it honestly is the bottom of the barrel for someone without kids, I feel like someone thats considered unattractive would be a better option than the person with kids.. at one point I was close to homelessness and was considering a single mom of 3 with 3 different baby daddies that had shelter for me, and I still was like nah , don't think I can do that 😂😅
@@johnnytsunami3558 no I was never expected to do anything. He did try to ask me to baby sit. I said no. He asked if I could get him a happy meal….i said no. I told him to call that boys mother and tell her her kid was hungry. I wasn’t tryna be bothered with nobody’s child. I left the relationship. NEVER AGAIN.
@@johnnytsunami3558 yes there was baby mama drama. The baby mama wanted to be with him but he didn’t want her. She looked like shrek. When I saw what she looked like I questioned if he was into men because she had a masculine face. She def looked like a dude from the neck up.
I remembered back in 2018-19 i was dating a S.M for 2 years just to tell me that she didn't want me anymore, lol the nerve of her when i provided for her and her son (plus she wasn't all that good lookin), well after we broke up the following summer i landed my apartment car and CDL class A driving job, now in 2023 i have a son of my own with a beautiful woman inside & out, with a stable job Herself.
Congrats 👏🏽 my boy you dodged a bullet, saved a lot of time, and mental health, I'm still with one but 2020-23 and IDK how to break it off 😂 I mean I do like her but it's just not worth it to me anymore especially after realizing they not looking for love, just looking for help! Wish me well bro 🙏🏽
So you’re still a baby daddy 😂
PROVERBS 21:19 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE WILDERNESS,THAN WITH A CONTENTIOUS AND ANGRY WOMAN.
PREACH 🙏
Amen, brother
"that wasn't a high five" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Don't want a single mother at any term period
Don't swim where other men have drowned
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That needs to be printed on a million tee shirts
I've heard similar sayings for other subjects. But this is dead on for THIS one!!
These single mothers have "standards" higher than childless women. And the solution is right in their face but their egos wont allow it. Theyre in a position now where theyre going to have to "settle". Same with the ran through post wall chicks. The same way every man doesn't get his top of the litter pick the same goes for women. But see thats going to require them to humble themselves, and you know how that goes....
It’s an incomplete statement: the men that they want. Chad & Tyrone. The guy that would take them and their kids on: they don’t want those.
Single moms are a bridge to a very complicated relationship where you as a man are deadlast on her list of priorities. While she has to be on top of yours. It’s just not worth the effort and “modern man” realize this.
I’m a dad of 1 & I don’t even look at single moms. There are plenty of women without all that baggage out there.
Nobody wants to take care of another man’s kids unless he has no better options. Go get back with your bd. No one told you to lay down and have multiple kids by maybe multiple men. That’s the decision you made so accept the fact that you might only be worth a smash and dash. Being a step father is a dummy mission
Same thing, not his ki
It's hilarious that when parents break up, only the mother made bad decisions?? Haaaaaaaaaaaaa
@nataliewalton8590 You're not entitled to a step dad lol. Don't care who fault you wanna pin blame to.
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 , and there it is. Men desperately want to punish women who aren't with the father of their children. Unfortunately too many men dont care. Lol, we're never going back to the glory days of men so you guys are just frustrated. Lol
Ladies very few men want to take the responsibility for another man's kids. These guys now see you as sex period. That BS gaslighting doesn't work today.
Oh yeah..) you’re definitely right about that bro. I was just talking to this fine Latin lady at planet fitness last week).. I ask for her number. She said oh sure.. but I have 2 kids.. !! NOPE. I’m out. Let’s just say I never called her. !! 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽🥵👊🏽🥵👊🏽🥵
You wish
Don't no man wanna deal with a bunch of MOUF from the mama & Bad @ss kids or DRAMA from a deadbeat non-active baby daddy❗
Firstly it's nasty🤢🤮 other men have been shooting up the club and you go right in behind him. Thats basically polygamy. You're basically in a relationship with a child's father and his woman. Secondly, you're not respected or appreciated. Thirdly it's emotionally difficult and could be physically dangerous. It's a hard pass for me.
I see your point. However even the ones who ain't got no kids are still out here getting shot up as well. This one chick left her boyfriend house an hit me trying to come over. I told her no I'm good you just left there im sure he busting all in you. Her response was she can stop at the store an get a summer eve an shower before we have sex. Hell no it's the fact I know he did. That's why I don't be out here in the streets chasing multiple of women. Been dealing with the same two women the last four years an even with that I can't even say that I was or have been the only guy.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 you're right, but the kids are a constant reminder of that.
Respectfully, you have a right to your preference I totally agree with you, but there are women without children, that are seen as "good women" that's ran through and u will never know it.. what's worse have 3 baby daddies, or 100 men? I'm not advocating for anyone to be a "stepfather" if they don't want to be, I don't blame men for not wanting the drama, but u can't measure promiscuity by children. 😊😊
@@chemay5803 I will never tale care of another man's nut off spring. Being. Step father is feminine and beta.
Yes because only females with children have been with other men before you?? Lol
I feel like many single moms don't really respect the stepfather, so the kids mimic the same energy the mother has. Kids disrespecting the stepfather drive alot of men away.
Single mothers are done
I'm a GenX.
I have NEVER Dated a Single Mom.
I Always Knew Better......
Recreational use only if not avoid at all costs.
And she's the only one surprised??? 🤣🤣🤣
Gotta be fly, she gotta be 100% cooperative. It's too much possible baggage that come along with baby mommas. Gotta worry about if the baby daddy got some simpin in his heart so you don't know what dude is capable of doing. Then not being able to discipline the child. 😩😫😮💨
Too much liability with marrying a woman with kids. You can be financially responsible for kids accordingly to the court system. There is no reward in being a step-dad.
I DID.. after my several experiences. I've learned that S.M. often unable to heal from trauma and unhabor resentment. A woman is unable to be a full nurturing mother . S.m. have to be nurturing as well as the provider, which is not a healthy mix. If you're around children all the time, you become built for children like Tendencies.
Myth Buster Here: They don't heal. They learn to live with the pain and hide the dysfunction long enough to get you hooked and then you either wifed them up or impregnated them. You can't erase the colors that have stained the canvas. They only paint it with other life experiences (colors).
Daaaamn 🤔@@robsawyer8034
The bank is closed.
Maybe they should give custody to the dads, if that's an option anyway.
They do in Korea
That's always the option but they don't want to risk being out on child support
@@evos469 💯 I’m good on females with kids
@The Crimson Cure tells the truth about Black Women and refund checks or anything else they get for free. Plus they want the kids to feel indebted to them for retirement
UK that's not happening she wants that cs
Drink in hand, tats, sunshades, deep voice, overbearing impressions... And she can't even see it...
No man wants a instant family we will make our own.
We finally waking up thank god never go back to putting these woman on a pedestal let them lay in the bed they made
i refuse to date a woman with kids! women be saying them and they kids are a package deal lmao yea u a package deal alright that's gon remain on the market for a sucker! aint no way i am gonna take care of someone else's responsibilities plus who knows what kind of drama and history that comes with all that!
I'm Not black mysef but the amount of women I've seen shame men into raising their bastard children under the guise of "community" "mentorship" and that "it takes a village to raise a child" .........Women need to take responsibility and accountability and stop sleeping with the type men who they they wouldn't want mentoring their kids
Shame?? Haaaaaaaaaaaaa, no responsibility on men for anything
Keep ‘em coming Philly
Don't feel sorry for them. They made their bed now they gotta lay in it.
Raising another man's kids its a no no for me, i love myself too much.
More than likely, Single Mothers tend to be bad Long Term Partners. Because, they're usually tied to or unapolagically desire the types of Men that are not interested in Long Term Relationships.
So, many Single Mothers end up being Bad Investments for the Men that are willing to entertain Single Mothers and their individual Situation-ships. Bad Single Mothers are a Good Single Mother's worst enemy in relationships. And every time a Bad Single Mother does a Good Man Bad; 200 Good Single Mothers lose the opportunity to be chosen.
Facts on commentary.
Damn that's wisdom right there
For every 200 Good Single mothers there are atleast 400 Bad Single mothers so those numbers could never math. Out of 200 single mothers atleast 130 of them just want a helper/atm and aren't good. So the good ratio is 1 in 3 at best and more like 1 in 5.
@@mateaukalua4426 If we're talking ratios; I would guess 1 in 10 Single Mothers at best would be a Good Single Mother; so to speak. And those Single Mothers would have most likely come from a two parent household and just messed around with the wrong Type of Guy; "trying to fit in." Otherwise, Single Mothers that come from Single Mothers will probably remain Single Mothers because that's the Heritage/Legacy they came from. And no one in the family has made a serious effort to change it.
@@whenniceguysretaliate5619 I was being very liberal in what I was saying. Your numbers are far more accurate. However the ratio of 1 bad single mom to 200 good single moms isn't accurate in America Mexico Canada Asia or Africa 🤣. Whoever said that was disillusioned.
Even them lesbo women have been speaking out against single mothers and then coming back "men, im sorry, y'all right...I understand now" ..im seeing many of these testimonies
A male lion, king of the jungle, kills any cubs that are not his, then he mates with the lioness. You can't (and shouldn't) kill the little ones so stay away from single baby-mommas.
Of course most men don't want to date single mother. Most men don't have kids themselves. He's not trying to take care of another man's children. He's not trying to deal with a "You ain't my daddy" child. He isn't obligated to take on a woman that already has a family. He doesn't want the headache.
It's MILF not MILM for a reason.
Amen to that Bro 🙏🏿🙌🏿😁
@@joeyken7791Facts u just a nut rag
I am a man and the US Constitution be damned if I pay for another man's mistakes.
These new era chicks will book you for a death match and then take the stand for her baby daddy… let them be of hunger and stay focus brother..
You're right bro,thank you for letting them know.
I saw how my mother made my step father cry
I will never be that Man
He ended it so very well with, "your gonna end up marrying yourself if you keep on... "
Well, I'm a woman that doesn't have any children, my man doesn't either. We both lucked up...
How do men benefit from being a step father?
It's gotten so bad now that even if the woman has grown children they are still not datable because of the grandchildren being around and their failure to launch children
As a former single mother I appreciate the commentary you gave on this topic Unc. Nothing but the truth.
Being a step father is a thankless job there’s a lot of attractive single mothers out there though but I’m good on dealing with all that baggage and trauma.
I dont want no man's leftover stale beer...
I'll pass...😂😂😂
It is best for a single mother to get with a single father.
Funny enough it's rarely about the kids. It's the emotional damage and attitude many single mothers bring to the table that scare men away. They seemingly take out all their frustrations about the men that left them on what ever man is dating them right now.
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
God bless and thank you for the biblical reminder sir 🙏🏽
Answer is because we see what these women are about these days
Everything he said in this video word for word was 100% all facts
Dang right. Zero appreciation - zero respect - zero honor. ALL TROUBLE - ALL PROBLEMS. Been there and done that. Got divorce roped. No - DON'T
marrying a woman with multiple children is like buying a lemon car.
what's a lemon car
@polpol1005 a defective from factory car
More like buying a used taxi cab.
@@toddpacker1015 I see :D
Thank you. I'm a single mother and I can see what you're saying. It's okay to be alone. And easier in ways. It would have to be a magical Disney
I've been there when I was younger, in a relationship with a woman with four kids, it lasted for about a year and a half then i split, i seen the future of that and wasn't with it.
Statistics data and facts from the CDC boys that are in the 12th grade is reading on a 4th grade level comes from single mothers homes 😢
I understand. I feel the same way towards men with kids. I will never ever date another man who has kids. Keep that stress and disrespect to yourself so I completely agree with these men for not wanting to deal with the blatant disrespect. People want you to help them take care of a child but won't require that child to respect you. That's a hard no and unrealistic request. You might need to tell these baby daddies the same thing Phillip because if they have kids they definitely can't talk about a single mother 🤸🏾♀️🏃🏿♀️✌🏾😊 cause some of these men have baby mamas but want you because you don't have kids. Go away 😊
Oh, they not ready for that conversation! How many have kids but look down on a woman who has kids?!
Most men don’t have children. Additionally many of the men commenting said the same applies to woman with no children and men children. A comment above stated he would tell his son and daughter to find someone equally yoked. The point is to say single parents aren’t a good deal for anyone without children to take on.
@@keciabrown8321 L🤡's
This for the single men with no kids. Most of us don’t have kids. Many of the women in this generation do however. Which is why we have to look elsewhere now.
There are more men in today’s society who are virgins then women.
🗣*Ball of Confusion* dating (SOME) of these *single women drama/ready-made-family *😟.
I wouldn't even do one child no kids period I'm good
Thank U!!! Bro...Blessings 2 U keep it coming Bro...
1 child is one too many for me from another man. The best sex partner I ever had was a single mom on and off 2 years. We literally went out one time to meet in a restaurant then it was on 😈 We went running and biking outside of that it was great sex at my place or her place. She has a PhD was living with her mom. I'm not trying to pull her out of that struggle for over a decade with her young kids. I was certainly there to fall in the 😺 😊
Single moms y'all do it to yourself. You have no business getting pregnant by someone you don't want to spend 18+ years if not the rest of your life with. No excuses. Any excuse a single mom gives remember that is the individual that is going to be in charge if something bad happens to y'all, her kids, your kids, you're in a comma. This individual has already proven they don't make good like decisions. Always a hard pass outside of sex. Single moms don't want you raising their kids. They will take your resources though. Single moms chose the struggle life and I respect their FREEDOM to do so. I have enough struggles being black.
They need to date men with Kids
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I’m a very responsible single father of adult sons….with options. GUYS LIKE ME DON’T WANT BABY MOMMAS EITHER!! Worked too hard to obtain my resources. I ain’t giving them to Pookie and Ray-Ray kids.
That makes sense
Ppl can date who they want
@nataliewalton8590 Who said they couldn't? Men are just telling other men what's better and what's better to avoid lol.
I refuse to date a woman with kids unless the kids are grown and out of the house. But even that's doubtful
Nowadays the grown kids are a problem. These women still want to hangout with the grown kids then give you leftover time...sndh
Babymammas are a no-no, period !
Well for one,they continue to listen to any certain types of people,They have a problem controlling their children,They don't want the man to discipline their children,even though the man/men are buying them the thing's they need,etc.
The sm I'm dealing with doesn't care if I discipline them but I don't because #1 nothing ever changes with their behavior and it just don't feel right
In my experience, the reason I don't want anything to do with them had nothing to do with their kid and everything to do with their character as a person. Me and the kids were cooler than a fan.
We need a song by The four tops keeper of the castle don't let the message go over your head🎉
Why should a single man have to put up with an unwanted headache? Some women come with too much baggage. Them badass kids and crazy jealous baby daddy’s ain’t worth it. Sometimes them grandparents can be a problem also. I’d rather be single.
Im a single mom and honestly I don’t want a man in my house. My kids and I love the peace in our home. I don’t invite men over and I will not be letting any man move in, at all!!!!! Guys hit on me and we never get pass the talking stage because I don’t bring men to my house and Im not going to theirs😂😂😂😂 And im very happy with this boundary. I’m abstinent from s3x so I dont have to worry about a fluctuating PH balance😂 🤷🏽♀️ I guess I’ll start collecting cats
Leave single mother's alone.
My brother dated a single mom at one point. She had two girls...but that didnt last long , and she ended up hacking one of his IG accounts because he didnt wanna deal with her anymore. lol
Statistics data and facts from the CDC 78 percent of black ladies are having babies out of wedlock 78 percent ladies we have more babies showers then we have weddings 😢