I can empathize with you but to me the root cause of all this what is we consider "SUCCESS" in India (or the world). we are just running blindly after it and making compromises. It seems all we want is material success and nothing else matters. What about connection with the spirit. No one is taught that in India anymore. Without Adhyatm outer success is empty. I'm happy to do a collab video on this topic with you.
🙏 Bhai I am the most luckiest and blessed to be born in a family and to my parents. I am sure everyone feels same about their family and parents. 🙏🙏 God gave me the opportunity to be with my dad during his last days and I can’t ask for anything more.
Yes sir. You are a very sensitive and emotional person...i too attached to my father very much. ..miss him so much...he is no more in this world...i feel same as u
Just say Thank you to your parents. I do the same to my parents. They are magnificent in the way they raised us. So I understand and identify with your feeling of immense affection, gratitude, highest respect for the two wonderful people ... what they went through to raise their children. How incredibly lucky we are.
Fathers are generally quite and doesn't like to share their emotions. I understand what you are saying. My father is same. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I can relate to it. Please keep making such videos.
Thanks Amit bhai for your appreciation and comment 🙏 I was always shy of sharing this feeling with anyone but then I realized people may relate to my stories.
Great video, and very rightly said spend time with parents when they are mobile. There is always some amount of guilt while living in US that one cannot give time and happiness to parents specially when they are retired and they have more time to spend and listen to you.
@@no-oneknows9236 I am going through the same situation as you were in, and I have sometimes disrespected my dad in so many ways. Fortunately, my dad is alive and healthy and I want to rectify my mistakes Because your facial expressions and pains tell me everything. And I just don't want to live with regrets in life... Thanks so much man..
@@nikolairomanov8692 My only suggestion is to the best possible you can. I did same and I am at peace with my decisions. Best part is parents always understand you better then you think and they would always support you. Talk to them today and express what you feel and don’t hide your emotions. 🙏 All the best man 🙏 May god give your parents best of the health.
Great video. There is not even a single day pass by without thinking about parents in India. We go through the same emotions during my last week of stay in my every visit to my hometown. Thanks for thought provoking video.
Pavan bhai, I have been watching your videos, and I understand the exact feelings that you described in the video. Every time I leave home to come back to the US, I feel like I am leaving so much behind. I will return to India in 2025 and be more with the people that matter the most to me in life. Thank you for sharing.
Akshat, I have gone through your messages but I can say, I am in same boat, not sure how are we going to come out from this challenge. Every day is like when we all things about family, parents, culture. When you say, you are planning on 2025, is it final. Have you plan the things to take this step , what planning you are doing. May be it will help me also. Good luck mate.
Immigration is super difficult. Somethings will have to be sacrificed. If one is unable to make those sacrifices, best to not immigrate. In your case, it is clear that the best decision was to return to India.
I wish my dad said that more often on time and may be I could have returned few years ago. But he is the one who says that no one talks about coming back except you. What is left in India, you must think of your future and not look backwards. We will be gone in few years and even if you come back who will be left here for you. And at that time India will become same as US for you. So , he is the one who is against my going back to India. He keeps talking every bad thing about India and how miserable our lives will be there.
I am sorry to hear that sometime we don’t know the other side feelings and make the judgment. I am not the only child, I have 2 siblings and they live in same town. There is nothing like parents in the world so I would try to fix the relationship even if it is satisfying their ego because it matters to me most. Sorry I am taking liberty here to advice with limited knowledge of situation🙏 All the best to you and your family, may god bless y’all with best health and prosperity.
Hi Sir, I need help I'm also in the similar boat, in stormy Sea rather. Half of the issue is Loved ones missing each other Another half is working 9 to 5 is screwing me everyday. That's enough for motivation And I'll be back in March 2026 I need help to handle the dilemma of where to move in India, for kids safety and lifestyle I think I should move to Tier 1 City, but I personally want to live in my home town with is a tier 2 City , with parents
I can empathize with you but to me the root cause of all this what is we consider "SUCCESS" in India (or the world). we are just running blindly after it and making compromises. It seems all we want is material success and nothing else matters. What about connection with the spirit. No one is taught that in India anymore. Without Adhyatm outer success is empty. I'm happy to do a collab video on this topic with you.
Your father is so lucky to have you 👏👏👏👌
🙏 Bhai I am the most luckiest and blessed to be born in a family and to my parents. I am sure everyone feels same about their family and parents.
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God gave me the opportunity to be with my dad during his last days and I can’t ask for anything more.
Thank you for making this video! 🙏
What you are describing is making me cry.
🙏 It was not easy for me to make this video but I really wanted to share my feelings through this medium.
Yes sir. You are a very sensitive and emotional person...i too attached to my father very much. ..miss him so much...he is no more in this world...i feel same as u
Just say Thank you to your parents. I do the same to my parents. They are magnificent in the way they raised us. So I understand and identify with your feeling of immense affection, gratitude, highest respect for the two wonderful people ... what they went through to raise their children. How incredibly lucky we are.
Thanks S Dev appreciate your comment 🙏
Fathers are generally quite and doesn't like to share their emotions. I understand what you are saying. My father is same. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I can relate to it. Please keep making such videos.
Thanks Desi Travel appreciate your comment 🙏
Another great video. Words can't express ,what this video made me feel like..
Thanks Amit bhai for your appreciation and comment 🙏
I was always shy of sharing this feeling with anyone but then I realized people may relate to my stories.
Great video, and very rightly said spend time with parents when they are mobile. There is always some amount of guilt while living in US that one cannot give time and happiness to parents specially when they are retired and they have more time to spend and listen to you.
Thanks Suchita ji for your comment.
You are doing a great job. We are learning from your videos. Thanks for your thoughts.
Hi Ganesha, Thanks for your comment and appreciation.🙏
Thanks for sharing. Emotional and thoughtful video. A good reminder about thinking of father and taking care of him in whichever way one can.
Thankyou for this vedio sir😊
Thanks 🙏
eye opening, thanks very much for this insight.
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@@no-oneknows9236 I am going through the same situation as you were in, and I have sometimes disrespected my dad in so many ways. Fortunately, my dad is alive and healthy and I want to rectify my mistakes Because your facial expressions and pains tell me everything. And I just don't want to live with regrets in life... Thanks so much man..
@@nikolairomanov8692 My only suggestion is to the best possible you can. I did same and I am at peace with my decisions.
Best part is parents always understand you better then you think and they would always support you.
Talk to them today and express what you feel and don’t hide your emotions. 🙏
All the best man 🙏
May god give your parents best of the health.
Great video. There is not even a single day pass by without thinking about parents in India. We go through the same emotions during my last week of stay in my every visit to my hometown. Thanks for thought provoking video.
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Pavan bhai, I have been watching your videos, and I understand the exact feelings that you described in the video. Every time I leave home to come back to the US, I feel like I am leaving so much behind. I will return to India in 2025 and be more with the people that matter the most to me in life. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks Akshat bhai. Thanks for your comment and appreciation.
I think your heart knows where you belong.
Akshat, I have gone through your messages but I can say, I am in same boat, not sure how are we going to come out from this challenge. Every day is like when we all things about family, parents, culture. When you say, you are planning on 2025, is it final. Have you plan the things to take this step , what planning you are doing. May be it will help me also. Good luck mate.
Awesome Video …
Thanks!
Immigration is super difficult. Somethings will have to be sacrificed. If one is unable to make those sacrifices, best to not immigrate. In your case, it is clear that the best decision was to return to India.
@thirdman Thanks for your comment. Immigration and its sacrifices are not known to many but they realized with time and age.
I wish my dad said that more often on time and may be I could have returned few years ago. But he is the one who says that no one talks about coming back except you. What is left in India, you must think of your future and not look backwards. We will be gone in few years and even if you come back who will be left here for you. And at that time India will become same as US for you. So , he is the one who is against my going back to India. He keeps talking every bad thing about India and how miserable our lives will be there.
Same situation here brother. Exactly same. I am more excited to see me and my family in India next year.
Amazing World, All the very best and hope all works out well for you.
May be you are the only son. My husband's father and mother dont even consider him, as if he is dead, and another son becomes their fav.
I am sorry to hear that sometime we don’t know the other side feelings and make the judgment.
I am not the only child, I have 2 siblings and they live in same town.
There is nothing like parents in the world so I would try to fix the relationship even if it is satisfying their ego because it matters to me most.
Sorry I am taking liberty here to advice with limited knowledge of situation🙏
All the best to you and your family, may god bless y’all with best health and prosperity.
Hi Sir, I need help
I'm also in the similar boat, in stormy Sea rather.
Half of the issue is Loved ones missing each other
Another half is working 9 to 5 is screwing me everyday.
That's enough for motivation
And I'll be back in March 2026
I need help to handle the dilemma of where to move in India, for kids safety and lifestyle I think I should move to Tier 1 City, but I personally want to live in my home town with is a tier 2 City , with parents
Hi , you can reach out to me at nooneknowsr2i@gmail.com
@@no-oneknows9236 thanks, just sent you an email