Ocho Breaks Down: Real Men Cry Too | I AM ATHLETE with Brandon Marshall, Chad Johnson & More
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When is the last time you have asked the people you care about how they are doing? Brandon, Chad, Fred and Channing open up the discussion talking about the sudden loss of friend and former NFL player Vincent Jackson and how he was found days after passing away. "Did anyone check on him?" Brandon poses the question which leads him into doing a mental check-in with all the guys.
In a special moment of vulnerability and raw emotion, the guys are brought to tears as they sit and talk about deep life discussions. The guys talk about how there's a stigma in society that men and young boys are always raised to be tough and not show emotion or the world will look at you differently. With athletes, that notion is instilled by coaches and teammates saying tears are a sign of weakness when in fact it shouldn't be viewed that way. Being strong is part of dealing with emotions and being able to share with others what's truly going on inside your mind and heart.
After recently losing his mother Hurricane Paula Johnson, Chad opens up about their relationship and how he's struggled with the emotions tied to loss. Recounting the memories and leading up to her final days, Chad is very transparent that the relationship was unique in many factors but he wouldn't have had it any other way. “It hurts to lose the person responsible for who I am,” Chad says, as he breaks down which brings Brandon and Channing to tears too. Fred follows it up saying that sometimes things in life are bigger than sports and different from what people portray on the outside, we all go through things and it's ok to let that emotion out.
After a group hug of comfort and reassurance, Chef Nancie comes out and opens up about tragically losing her brother years ago and how the pain never fades but the good memories help make it easier to cope.
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When a man cry's it's not because he's weak, it's because he's been strong for to long.
This is real talk bro!
Couldn't agree more
Non Fiction 💪🏾👈🏾
Facts
Facts
Man this show never miss. Powerful episode with powerful words.
Factual.
FACTS!!!
Oh shit, a space cadet
Mane Powerful respect to These Men SALUTE
i ain’t know vic watch wsg mane
Chad J ocho is the most poised person ever. That man just sat and listened for a good while before he ever spoke. Listener
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He does that a lot, too. Like Chad don’t just talk to talk if y’all notice a lot of times. He peeps shit out then speaks if he sees need to.
@@raquel4677 u definitely about 20 episodes or more in like me 💯💯👌🏾
Ochoc's face when Brandon came to hug him " OH we gettin hugs??". That was nice.
He was so excited! He didn't know how much he needed that love from his brothers. They all needed it
That was very powerful because he needed that hug , when losing the most important person in our lives .
Facts 💯
Lol chad said “DONT GRAB MY BUTT” when they was hugging 😂😂 I like how he still finds a way to stay strong and laugh with everything that happened.
This the most genuine Athlete show I have ever watched. Love these guys.
1000%
Who you telling?
Ever
agreed! For me it's one of the most genuine shows period. I like sports, but it not my bag, however the topics they discuss and how they bring their authentic selves to the show...it's a blessing to have this perspective! For all the negative folks and comments, I pray their vision enlarges.
No doubt...these brothers are being so real!!!!
After losing my daughter 16 years ago & then the greatest woman I’ve ever known my mother 8 years ago. I realized I’m not mentally ok because I had to be strong for my wife when our daughter passed & then I had to be strong for my dad & brothers when my mom passed from cancer. I really don’t think I ever had a chance to mourn them, but this episode was really deep & when Ocho got to talking about his mother it brought on a flood of emotions that I needed to let go, I realize I need to go seek therapy because I’m not ok. Thank you guys I watch you all faithfully keep up the great work.
I hope you get better bro, keep it strong.
@@HyperXDMarcosR thank you Pimp
Keep pushing🙏🏿
Thank you for sharing that brother.
Stay solid bro sending love your way 💯
Absolute POWERFUL episode. As a man we aren't given ANY sympathy in this world nor are our feelings ever something that is brought to the table when discussing where we are in life. There's nothing quite like that true genuine man hug... I struggle with emotion on the daily... My grandmother & my aunt passed & i couldn't even give myself permission to shed a tear, but that last game i played on the football field had me balling like a damn baby & it's been 10 years since. It's something most men struggle with & we'll all have to get past. These conversations are necessary to have & you need that support group around you for those mental health checks.
To all the MEN out there... You are LOVED, you are SEEN & you are HEARD! There's always somebody who may share your same experience. You won't have to fall on your sword when there's always soldiers around who will fight that battle alongside you! Seek that help & get yourself right! Peace!
I found u again fam but this is true bruh I been feeling like shit yesterday shit happened outta no where and I didn't wanna cry cause I been told that makes me a bitch so I had sat outside last night till everyone was sleep cause I ain't won't to be seen like that bruh that shit is painful
Hey man, I don't mean to bring race into but I as a black Man i feel we go through even much more. From racism, prejudice, family issues if any, personal issues and more. And we just have keep a smile on and keep moving, that's what people expect. And we lose people as well. I smoke weed by myself and just cry man. No one knows this but me and I guess whoever sees this comment. I just lost my recently father ten years after I lost my brother. Then I have to go to work and be around racist mofos who cross the street if I'm at the other end..And a lot of the people even look like me who cross the street or clutch their purse and shit. Weak ass people man! Black man life bruh! Shit never easy...
Salute king 🙏🏾
God bless you, brother. Keep sharing your thoughts and emotions. Don’t ever bottle it up.
@@atifking8731 it’s okay to bring race into it, brother. I’m reading a great book titled “Caste” in which the author shares scientific studies on how racism affects Black people’s health. It stresses us OUT operating in this white supremacist system. Take care of your mentals, man. And it’s okay to cry!! Let it out!!
To see Ochocinco talk this way, compared to how he normally is, is so powerful man. Nobody should be ashamed of their mental health issues
RIP to his mother 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes rest peacefully Paula 🕊
Hurricane Puala
Mama Ocho 🕊
I’m a 34yr old Black Man!!! I have a wife, kids & family. I work 3rd shift and I small trucking company, a lot on plate. Said all that to say, this podcast is real life therapy!!! Every time I see y’all on my TH-cam stream I stop!!!! Thank you 🙌🏾❤️
Definitely agree with your Brother. Im a 39 year old Husband, have a 8 months son, father to my niece, fitness business and the list goes on & on. Sometimes life gets hard but I try my best to SEE IT THROUGH.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. This show (episode) has been a BLESSING
@@alphonsofersnerjr.5346 I’m raising 19yr Nephew!!! Lol He get on my nerves, I forgot all about him. Some days it gets blurry, I just pull from our ancestors (slaves) they died so we could live how we are. I just stay prayed up, walk in the steps that are ordered and claim everything that’s for me. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
God bless brother
God bless
I have a wife, 1y and 3 year old and legally adopted the 9 and 11 year old my wife had prior, also working third shift. I’m with you brotha, show is a must in my world.
The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!
Thanks for that it’s inspirational those word are inspirational
Needed that. Thank you
Makes sense but on the other hand you close yourself out to the experience of connecting yourself to other people. Sometimes it is better to attach yourself to something or someone, can be a great ride while you do.
On a career perspective I agree with this
Absolutely! Every decision that I make revolves around my purpose! Relationships, jobs, conversations! If I'm not at peace it is not happening!
I never hear my mother say I love you son.. But with her actions I knew it was unconditional love... It's really hard to explain because it doesn't make sense to 99.9 percent of the people.... But it's real... Rest in Peace to my Mother...
🙏🙏😇😇💪🏿
Actions speak louder than words 🙏🏾💯
Most don't recall parents from the era in the 50's -80's say I love you, they felt by buying them everything that was showing Love ❤️
I feel you fam
I’m 24 years old. I lost my mom when I was 18. The worst pain I’ve ever felt was trying to fight back tears at her funeral.The pain dies down with time but never goes away. God bless everyone reading this.
God bless you!
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God bless you as well JP
God bless you 🙏🏽❤️
Prayers bro!
It hurt to see Ocho in such pain. He has grown so much over the years I wish him peace.❤️
It’s good pain. He is grieving which means that his mom had that place in his heart.
There’s no other way to do this.
@@ace11235 exactly! You must feel in order to heal. If you suppress these emotions, it only lead to more pain. You must feel this pain for some time, and then let it go.
Indeed, I wish him peace
I like the diverse personality types. They each complement each other.
@@shotkalah5847 tf?
Very well actually. First time witnessing this type of show. Laid-back, transparent and all. I love I AM ATHLETE.
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Like I Never Seen Before Gotta Add That
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You could see it in Ocho’s face when Brandon asked was everybody ok that he wasn’t ok
I'm a 40 year old man, I lost my mom over 10 years ago, and my son 2 years ago, bro it still hurt man.
Sorry for your losses. Blessings
Sorry for your loss. Hope for the best for you.
It doesn’t go away brother... some days are better than others, but it still hurts
Appreciate the love and prayers, these brothers are doing something great here, allow strong brothers like us to be human, not what the media portrait us to be...God bless y'all.
sending you all the love in the world. in order to hurt it means you had the pleasure to experience the same amount of happiness. hope you have a blessed day brother
4 NFL players showing emotions and hugging it out to console their friends. This is why this show is so awesome.
Why am I crying at work....... the pain will never go away. My grandma who passed use to say don't cry for me when I'm gone ain't nothing here but bills and hot weather I'm going somewhere much better.
Prayers for you Kevin. I love that saying!
RIP grandma. She raised a good grandson🙏🏻
Because this is a real ass show. Won’t see this anyplace else. Most shoes like this is scripted and you don’t get that feeling of love bereeen black men....
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There’s more than bills and hot weather , but she definitely went to a better place 🙏
Everyone needs a "Fred" in their life!
We all need a every single one of them in our lives
Not gonna lie, chad you’re not crying alone, I’m crying with you
Showing emotion don’t make us weak...
It makes you human.
Word 💯💪
True... but cry with a purpose... falling apart does not fix anything
@@Tee-kc3pn It's okay to fall apart sometimes. There's no purpose that can come from losing a loved one. And I get what you mean but sometimes we need that outlet.
@@Tee-kc3pn nothing wrong with falling apart. We are HUMAN. Stop listening to society telling you to be “tough”. It doesn’t help.
I lost my mother a few weeks ago. Today about an hour before I watched this i cried for the first time because I couldn't call her to tell her a joke. Then I watched this. Please check on the ones you care about, whether it be friend or foe. You may turn someone's 5 to a 7.
God Bless you 🙏
@kingpillager I totally can relate I lost my mom a year ago going on 2yrs and we use to talk on the phone and joke everyday, I still have moments when I feel the urge to call her forgetting she's no longer here😭 my condolences to u I know how it feels to be motherless
I Lost mines almost 4 years ago...And this episode opened up all kinds of wounds
Keep your head up brother 🙏your momma is watching over you always
Blessings to you. And please - cry it out. You will grieve every day. It’s hard. Very hard. Lost my father to cancer several years ago and there are times I cry several times a day.
Like you, I picked up my phone to call him about a dog I saw (we are huge dog lovers) and realized he wasn’t here.
Your heart will hurt but you will carry forward with Mom in your heart forever.
I’m deployed rn in a combat environment and I managed to load this video.. God is great and i hopes he blesses y’all greatly🙏🏾
Quit lying, you at home in the basement with your boyfriend and ky jelly
Thank you for your service! I pray your band of brothers can share with each other like we saw here. No one can keep emotions bottled up or repressed...we gotta at least talk it out some in a safe environment with those who understand and care.
@@lilcourtny08 you need to do like ocho and go talk to somebody and get yo shit straight I hope you dont come at people like that in real life its always that nigga that wanna spread negative vibes and hatred towards your own kind
Bless You 💪🏿🖤🤙🏽
God bless u bro fr
I could see the pain in Ocho’s eyes from the very beginning of the episode
Yup u can see that sparkle in his eyes
Brandon doesn’t bother me at all I like his intensity. He’s always trying to get to the bottom of the issue. Nothing wrong with clarity.
Brandon is the perfect interviewer. His job is to get all perspectives without inserting his own agenda because then it becomes all about him. My first time watching this show was with Cam and now I'm hooked. People forget that professional athletes are also college educated. Majority of the fans don't get to see this side of them....
exactly MOST people love the dynamic of this show and everybody on it. Some people just like to whine lol
@@kondodurham2599 Being disagreeable just for the sake of being disagreeable...
Yes I agree
Word. I love B Marsh. He has a personality disorder and he conquered that shit. That's no easy task .
Black men & young black men... need to see this unity! We not each other’s opp’s...
💯 it starts and ends with y’all
Not just Black men & young black men. Just men in general, we’re all brothers and need to help each other. All the petty differences is just killin us. All love my brother, thank you for commenting and spreading more love ✊
@@uhRevoke right
Real talk
@@uhRevoke no disrespect but he said black men because we don't normally do this with each other. You right though we all need this type of therapy. Be safe out here bro
This amazing! Straight, masculine black men, crying and hugging each other.. Showing love to one another. Brotherhood at its finest... Very powerful
Man seeing Ocho emotional hits because he’s such a positive guy
Gosh, when Ocho said “I had to bury my old girl” 🥺🥺🥺
Yeaaa that was it for me smh
@@tmcjetlife4952 he broke me with that
@@vikeyshamurray7553 no question smh 🙏🏽💯
Lawd, when they all hugged 😭. Let’s normalize men being able show themselves entirely. ❤️
Mental health within the black community has been a hard topic, especially amongst us men. It's good to see it finally being talked about. We were groomed to always be tough and barely show emotions. I'm really grateful as a generation, we're finally opening up about it.
Exactly, humans have emotions it's as simple as that. It's as natural as can be
I appreciate what these guys are doing with the show.
I got some boogers I can't remove. So idk...
You appreciate feminine table talk with 250+ pound men? Or, do you like that they appeared to get fashion advice from that popular show on the Bravo TV? Haha.
@@TheSpiderman7285 man cut that ish out... before I decided to go back n forth with you I have 2 questions....
1. How old are you
2. During your life how often was your father involved in it... if it was on and off like mine... mostly off (my 12th bday present) gone by 14 back around 19 gone again n so forth... try to say that however you feel comfortable please...
No bs cuz these dudes are filling a void for alot of "people"... I pray young dudes (hs n Jr high) are watching...
N I wouldn't ask you for info I won't share you feel me...
Cuz their words and not just being nerdy rich dudes help men of all ages and color in my opinion... especially athletes...
@@Giltorres88 98767yiu9
@@TheSpiderman7285 none of them even touched 250 in they life bum but enjoy your ice cream sitting in your bed trying to comprehend above high school level topics
I’m so proud and impressed by Brandon Marshall. That moment when he organizes that group hug is so powerful . It’s images like that that young and even some older black and minority men need to see and experience . What a leader this man is . You’re changing stereotypes and you’re changing lives . Major props and love man .
Me Too. It was powerful to witness 4 black men doing that... raw sincere love and brotherhood
B Marsh has come a LOOONG WAY.
@@caleb484 we ALL have. This is what happened when you start to hang out with THE SOURCE/CREATOR....a change start to happen.
Losing a parent is like losing a piece of yourself you can’t get back but remember they now live through you
My mom passed away 5 years ago, the pain is still there. But the train don't stop, got to grind. Yes, I miss her everyday.
I lose my mother when I was 17 years old and I was 40 years old before I could go to her gravel. I know what you are going through, it's going to take time, but remember she loves you.
No shit bro. Mines died 6 yrs ago and I never thought about her leaving this earth before me.
When Channing said everyone has an expiration date, made me really think. Because it’s the one unknown we never know when we might take our last breath.
it's a scary feeling but that's how life is. Make every moment count, don't hold grudges and spread love and joy ❤💯
@@melissalitus8879 Preach!
Sooo true
Just look at it this way.. being dead is the feeling before you was born.. absolutely NOTHING
@@Kahnsie yep just saying 💯
21:55 is the moment he starts crying. I'm putting the timestamp because I think, even if your not gonna watch the whole video this is a powerful moment that I think young men like myself need to see.
For sure. It's so hard losing people. I remember my dad being sick at a young age and thinking subconsciously he will be fine, he's my dad, the one who makes everything better. Was a game changer when he died. Put my head on his chest and felt him gone. You can feel it. Maybe that's spiritual or it's biology but you still feel it. It hurts like hell. I have my own kid now and even though I have my own demons that stemmed from my loss, chads right it will always hurt but you have to pull through for the kids.
My sister died a few months ago, and it had never registered for me until this episode. Thank you guys for what you do
Praying for you and your family Tyler🙏🏿
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Praying for you and your family. It will be a year on March 7th that I lost my sister.
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Laying my Mother to rest is the worst pain I’ve ever felt and struggle with .... 🥺💔 Praying for everyone who’s grieving 🙏🏾
I lost mine few month ago and the pain is killing slowly 💔, I feel lost and so angry, anyways I'm so sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace 🙏
Showing your vulnerability to your boys is crucial to being the best version of you. Seeing these boys open up to each other is powerful.
These are MEN...
@@lasetlivingstin7752 Take that energy somewhere else, men know exactly what it means when we refer to each other as boys. I ain't the one lady, go take that political correctness somewhere else.
@@zimg_igabyte In certain circles, yes...So you take that calling grown men boys energy to another channel...Take it to YOUR buddies, you're close to...Take that sneaky mentality somewhere else...This was a POWERFUL episode frm GROWN MEN...I meant what I said...If anyone has a problem w/ it, then check yourself...Some ppl can't handle seeing our MEN conduct themselves accordingly...Try to down play it when it happens...I felt your comment in my spirit...
@@zimg_igabyte I'm not being political, by far...I'm not the one either...
@@lasetlivingstin7752 I told you I wasn't the one, let's go, cause I swear you're confusing yourself. While you were in your spirit, you're practically agreeing with me. But to ensure you completely understand me, I'll explain myself in a way you might be able to grasp.
Grown men, call other grown men boys as an endearing term. Some people depending on where they're from, say 'partner' or 'friend' or 'my man.' That doesn't make them gay, it's just how we as men address each other. I don't know what sneaky mentality you're referring to because that's never been a sneaky term or a disrespectful term amongst respectful men. The panelists call themselves boys all the time, they also refer to other men as boys. If you were a man, you'd probably understand this. So before getting emotional and dipping in your spirit trying to correct someone on an issue you evidently know nothing about, learn context.
You stated "if anyone else has a problem with this, check yourself." Who are you referring to? There's only the 2 of us in this "conversation."
You're also said "some people can't handle seeing grown men conduct themselves accordingly." Again, who are you talking to or about cause I can't work out where you got that from, or how you came to a conclusion that told you I disagreed with how they conducted themselves from what I said. I don't see how anything in the episode was downplayed in the comment I made.
Context, learn it. If you thought I was using the term 'boys' in a disrespectful way, by all means ask, "what do you mean when you refer to them as boys?" I would've happily replied and explained myself, but instead you preferred to jump in your spirit pool to the first conclusion you found and ran with it. I'll say it again learn context before jumping to conclusions. There was no disrespect here. You assumed there was without any level of comprehension.
Word of the Day - Context - (the circumstances that form the setting for an event, statement, or idea, and in terms of which it can be fully understood.)
As someone who lost their Mother in August, I relate completely with Ocho. I don’t have kids, but I tried my hardest to be the anchor for my family, but now I realize how damaging it is to me. Because of this exchange, I’ve decided to invest in therapy and be more open with sharing my mental health with my family and close friends. Thank you to the crew for this discussion.
i’m proud of you for this bro. i attempted to be the anchor for everyone as well after losing my mom back in april. so it’s almost been a year and i just recently took time to myself to breathe and think and process her passing. it’s been tough. but the therapy does work and i wish you nothing but the best through this process.
blessings, my G. 🙏🏾
Good for you, Kevin. You'll never be disappointed in what you learn in therapy. Healing to you!
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I too know this journey Kev, sending an abundance of love & light your way🙏❤
Mad love and respect to everyone in the comments showing transparency. Conversations like this heal wounds and make us all better when we know how to manage our emotions the correct way. My mother passed nearly 13 years ago and I carry her spirit with me every single day but every once in awhile I have those days where I break down, my 2 kids and my immediate family hold me up and give me the strength to keep on pushing... keep spreading love y'all💯
Glad y’all gave Ocho the floor to be able to grieve. That gesture was huge for Ocho. He needed that more than ANYTHING. Brandon I salute you for checking in with the guys. NOW that’s TRUE leadership!
Our men need a safe space like this. Sharing your feelings and being vulnerable doesn’t make you weak. We definitely have a few things to unlearn in our culture. Very interesting and powerful episode! 🖤
Facts I think ppl forget black men are human also when we have to hold in our anger it can mess up the community..example gangs
I’m convinced people just choose to be different and dislike something so positive and powerful for attention
Absolutely agree, disgusting that over 100 people disliked this video... Just don't get it..
Agree. They want to be the exception.
I agree 100%
Bruh it's (as of the time of me writing this) 134 people out of half a million views. It's TH-cam, it's literally impossible to have a large video with 0 dislikes, there's always gonna be a handful of trolls or just some stupid kids thinking they funny. But this is such a tiny percentage it ain't even worth thinking twice about.
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“Crying is like taking your soul to the laundromat” -lyfe Jennings
Yes lyfe Jennings sang that song to my soul
Or seeing your grandma smile
That's Dope
FIRE REMINDER BRO!!!
Thats a great way of looking at it.
I'm so happy to see more and more Black men having conversations like this (out in the open) and helping to heal each other. Now this is progress.
Well said my black queen... SUPPORT AND CHERISH BLACK WOMEN AROUND THE WORLD...
Yes, so wonderful & much needed...
sad you have to bring race into it
@@anthonyortonyyt8333 what's wrong with that. Black woman needs acknowledgement 365 days. I love and respect our SISTERS.
@@anthonyortonyyt8333 No...It's sad when society tries not to show B black couples,marriages, & families...Always trying to focus on single black mothers or homes, as if it doesn't exist...
Lost my moms when I was 15. 30 now n I sometimes it’s them mornings I think about my moms n tears start falling. It’s natural. I miss my mom
You could tell Ocho was dreading the question. You could see it in his face that he was struggling before he started talking. His face just showed how much he was hurting when everyone else was talking
Brandon stood with Chad in tears, Fred and Channing stood with encouraging words. They ALL covered Chad with love and allowed him to lean on their strength. 💖🤎💖🤎
When Ocho broke down I cried with him real men cry to. I lost my grandmother 7 years ago I think about her every day I know she watching over me and my family. I love this Podcast because it’s real and authentic and it’s very relatable and they talk about stuff they don’t teach at all.
I lost my cousin to a car crash last year and it's still hurts to think about it
@@jordanholland616 🙏🏾
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Ugh this hurts
🙏🏽🙏🏽 prayers for the ones we lost
My dad died 10 years ago. The pain in my soul is unexplainable.... saddens and depressed me everyday. Shout out to u guys for being a support system for each other. I wish I had the same. I keep a journal gives me some kind of outlet.
Damn I lost both my parents before the age of 25 I’m turning 26 in may. Me and my mom was close a lot and this going on year 3 she died of stomach cancer. Any tips tricks advice u can give only child so it gets lonely a lot
God bless both of you guys man. I couldn’t even imagine the pain ya went thru 💯
God bless you man
Just lost my mom a month ago....and I just coincidentally watched this. God works in mysterious ways.
When Brandon asked Ocho- "are you REALLY at a 7, bro?!" That was the moment that I bust out into a literal LOUD audible cry 😭😭😭. Because in that moment you can tell by Brandon's tone of voice & the look on his face that although he's trying to be respectful [and not cross any boundaries] he doesn't truly believe that Chad's mental & emotional state is at a 7 just weeks after burying his Moms- and neither do I. He can say that he's doing fine til' he turns blue in the face, but he's not doing okay right now, and I'm glad that Brandon pressed him on it. I just hope they continue to check on him when the cameras stop rolling, because loosing a parent [especially you mother] is the ULTIMATE TRAUMA to a child's heart. This episode was AWESOME SAUCE, and I wish all these brothas many blessings going forward ❤️.
I thought the exact same i was like that’s the real homie thing to ask and double check on him
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Disrespectful
He's def not at 7, more like a 5 and that's pushing it. It's okay to be at a 3. Losing a parent feels like half of you is missing and you walk around bloody but the world keeps spinning, oblivious to your hurt. Grief can take you out and you have to fight it! God got me out; I had to have scriptures night and day. Pray for Bro. Chad because he will need it! God bless you!
Don't project your inability to keep strong onto him. Yes it hurts but Chad comes off as a genuine person who is tune with reality. Yes his mom has passed and it's sad, but that's the way it's supposed to be. Your mom is supposed to pass in your lifetime. It hurts allot but he can continue to go on and function at a high level, so I believe him when he says he's a 7.
I started crying when Ocho start talking losing his Mom. I can't imagine....man. Condolences to Channing also. And a SPECIAL SALUTE TO BRANDON for sharing that he got SAVED!!!! 100!
I think Channing's mother is still alive but had medical challenges with breast and skin cancer. I also am thankful that Brandon had a chance to share how he gave his life to Christ.
Dope that he shared that and allowed the pastor to closeout the show. Seeds planted.
Watching my parents grow older, I’m so scared of losing them one day.
Just try to enjoy the time you have left. That way , when the day comes, you won't regret not doing so.
Damn Brandon is a real one for double checking to see if Chad was really on a 7! 💯
Yes and No. Brandon needs to listen to others as they express their emotions and not project. He does care but he also is moving with an agenda of mental health sometimes and does not honor how the men express how THEY identify their emotion. Chad said he had his moments of 3 and 5 and now he stands in a 7. That scale is different for everyone and Ocho
will continue to grieve that loss. Great discussion tho
I agree... He shouldn’t have challenged Chad like that... Chad says he’s a 7 allow him that like he’s just telling a tale!! Love them though 🤩
@@LIONSROAMM As a dude who grew up in a VERY Machismo family.. it is very much needed to double check with "are you really ok?". That stuff is hard to actually open up with to your boys and admit "I'm not where I want to be mentally right now".. Sometimes you gotta push a lil out of love
@@nicholasjohnson8428 exactly. As a man I cant tell u how many times I've said I'm good and really not be. Brandon did it straight out of love no agenda. He doesn't want to hear Chad say it's a 7 then get a call he committed suicide because he couldn't handle the pain.
@@nicholasjohnson8428 I agree that this was completely. I know my male friends only come to me when they feel like their guys aren't listening. The conversation was great I just think Brandon should LISTEN more at times when others are opening up to prevent them from shutting down. Beautiful to see men especially Black Men sharing so publicly.
Bruh, whoever dislikes this (the 4 I see), you got something wrong with you, straight up. All seriousness. Today’s episode is POWERFUL already.
Big facts.
Folks who can't comprehend this episode in its entirety ain't got a soul b.
@@theothesir no soul at all. It’s crazy to me fam
was literally about to post the same.. 12 now... those ppl have no heart.
Pure evil that's the devil showing up!!!
I said the same thing!
My 13 year old son passed away last year from neuroblastoma, when i tell you losing someone close to you breaks you down, i felt chad, sincerely. Stay strong my brother. There will be a day when we you will meet her again. It is so important that we show our feelings and let the next generation know that crying and grieving is part of the healing process. Being strong as a man is feeling comfortable enough to display how you feel. Much love and prayers to you and your family
Hope you’re holding up well brotha
R.I.P
My condolences Brotha.🙏🏼
Your shared sentiments is a true testimony of your strength. (Stay Strong)💪🏼
Sheesh man stay strong you and those around you
Prayers and continued prayers to you and your family.... I have three sons in that age range
I like how they respect the chef and include her in these videos and not use the chef just to stunt
Chad, you might not see this but thank you . I lost 2 moms. My Biological when I was 2 years old, and my adoptive mother when I was 22 years old . I just shed tears and I’m not proud to admit it . But thank you so much for helping me get thru This rough time .
Don’t be ashamed of crying. Whether you cried then or you cry now ...it’s okay to let it out, brother. Be well.
Ay bro there’s no need to be ashamed for shedding tears over something like that. You crying shows how strong and real that connection was
@@jtdub1265 so true.
That's why it's always good to care about men's feelings too cuz sometimes they hurt just like women but we don't get to see it cuz then they will be labeled as weak
they are week! how did people survive 200 years ago without all these luxury but survived nonetheless. Stop the complaining and bitching. you need to go check out how people live in other countries so you can realize that you all are pampered whiners
@@bjvu9460 what
Uncle chad messed me up with this episode he almost got me 😂🥲 but nah this was needed most def!
no laughing emoji...
@@Klgray7373 “don’t grab my butt” laughing emoji.... if chad can joke I can too
Yooo trae u funny asl my boy
Damm, Chad made me choke up for a bit
Well he had me shedding real thug tears💯
He said, "he mentally prepared himself to bury his ole' girl." 😭😭😭
If you paying attention these are real men. We need this
They really are. Love emotionally mature brothers.
The thing I love the most is when b marsh said “I’ve never been through that experience” too many people these days want to feel like they’ve been through it all. This is a powerful statement of, hey I don’t know what you’re going through because I haven’t been in that but I’ll do whatever I can to help you. That means more then trying to connect to something you can’t.
That's facts bro. A lot of times we try to sympathize without really having gone through the issue. Sometimes it's better to just say you don't understand but are willing to be there any way you can.
There was a short period of time where Chad Johnson was literally untouchable on the football field
It was a long period of time
@@StayyShifty he not wrong tho 🤷🏾♂️
@@StayyShifty “no one asked you bro thanks anyways” lmao what a dick
@@kevinanderson263 facts
bellichick double teamed him every time
I’m on a binge of “ I am athlete”❤️✌🏽 best podcast
You can’t duplicate this. TIMELESS episode. Timeless exchange. Probably one of the greatest pieces of content ever added to TH-cam. And i am not using hyperbole.
This is the most powerful and influential show as a young black man that I’ve ever watched every episode is dope
i feel like Brandon started the show like that specifically for Ocho
@Ryan Gilbert Also how Brandon keeps tryna make sure Ocho is actually at a 7 mentally and not anything lower, great friend.
Agreed you could almost see it in Ocho he still was grieving without saying anything
My mother passed in 2011. I was 20 then. I still havent found the strength in me to look through old videos. I can say you do learn to live with it and sometimes even forget it happened since that train doesnt stop moving. I thank you for this episode i really needed to let this cry out. My condolences to ocho and i appreciate the strength it took to tell this story to everyone.
🙏🏻✝️❤️🩹
My mom's passed on New Year's Day 2011. It still hurts not everyday now.
I love to see Grown men having real conversation holding one-another accountable , checking in on one another .
A prayer, good home cooked meal, a man strong enough to cry out loud and a supporting male companionship ... WOW in 2021 this is unreal. Thank you for the refreshing my spirit needed.
"ohh we getting hugs"? Adore that these athletes have created a power circle where they can sit with the pain and be vulnerable. 🙏🏽
Lost my pops 6 1/2 years ago, it never gets better, you just learn to live with pain . RIP Mama Ocho
I’m 26 years old and honestly my mental health has been suffering lately, it has been for awhile now. I was a disservice to my fiancé because I didn’t talk to her about what I’ve been suffering with because I wanted to be the tough guy, the one holding it down etc like nothing was wrong when all she wanted was for me to come to her but along the way I was suffering...it may not have been to a high degree compared to others who go through real stuff but to me it was. I’ve been at a point where I just need to open my mouth and communicate my thoughts, feelings, what’s really bothering me you know? I never had those examples growing up and I cruised through life learning certain things on my own. I’m thankful for this podcast seriously. I was on my way of taking a much needed nap but couldn’t cause the title caught my attention
Hang in there bro and I hope you get the help necessary to get better. Many of us have our low points but you just have to take it one step at a time.
You’re not alone bro! Believe that! I’m the exact same way, keep your head up.
Saying how you feel, even when you are hurting is important. We you talk about it, you are not hold it. Let it go. Understand, we are all going thru things. No one life is great. Again no ones life is great, some just have more great days then others. So, don’t be afraid of your emotions.
Start lifting and bettering your life my man it works wonders
God loves you.
Didn't expect to start crying watching this but I didn't know about Ocho's mom. Lost my mom two years ago and it still hurts. Stay strong Chad.
My condolences 🙏🏿
My condolences Frank! I hope all is well.
I'm sorry man , I hope you find your peace ☮️
I’m a grown man who hasn’t shed a tear in a while. Thanks Chad. God bless you brother.
My spirit was moved for 37 mins .. Wasn't seated there but felt the hug and the love shared amongst men .. Bro this is super healthy.. Men are supposed to cry . Strictly because we're HUMAN!
Ocho almost broke me down! Me & my bros were just having a discussion about this same thing like men don’t get that chance to b soft society says we take the hit & keep moving
"What is grief, if not love persevering?" Great episode...love and light.
Well I just cried rivers. 😭
Damn good pull from wandavision
You spoke that sista
This show is the Truth...the analogy Brandon used about how we give our daughters assurance and tell our sons boys don't cry get up and dust yourself off is extremely on point. Men Cry In The Dark..
Unfortunately Black women are taught to suck it up and not show emotions to avoid being viewed as weak...I teach my sons it's ok to cry but cry with a purpose...
@@Tee-kc3pn thank you for speaking for the bw who didn’t grow up with a nurturing dad
@@SoloJourneyandPJ actually I had a great dad; however, my parents were old school in regards to the way you Express feelings. Black people had to be tough in order to survive....
@@Tee-kc3pn wym by cry with purpose?
@@jordanwalker7302 cry if you must but while you cry think about how you can fix the issue if the reason you're crying is not due to death...
As a man with a mental health disorder, this is incredibly powerful. Men have always been told to "pick ourselves up by our bootstraps" and this is wonderful to see. God bless these men. Best episode yet!
This the first platform I saw where men can have open conversations on a serious note and still have fun at times too. Even when things get heated nobody crossed the line and can still laugh together
Don’t make show like this that why I don’t respect TV programs anymore
@@6Chainz11 you right I rarely watch tv
The production is just killer, when someone talks, you hear NOTHING else. I came in as a fan of Ocho, but I appreciate Fred the most.
Love Chad.... we here for you bro, I lost my mother in 2017, burying her was the hardest shit I ever had to do, Men only cry over a few things in life and this is one of them. Salute hold your head 👑
Men cry about plenty, just not publicly
Thank you God for giving Chad this crew to check-in with. Please continue to provide a check in circle for everyone who is a part of this platform and who watches it. Amen.
“Don’t grab my butt” 😂 yup = gold. It’s great to see these guys be themselves and open up to each other this way. Thank you for sharing these moments 🙏🏽
Channing so real for stepping in while he was breaking down, knowing it was hard for me. That’s dope!
This was heart felt, most men are trained to show no emotion...
Ocho is all real as it gets. He can be serious and then is a huge comedian. He’s always a fav. Same as b marsh. Iconic wr goons
I don’t even know how to react to this episode, I love you guys for this talk right here ❤️, as a young blood y’all really setting the pavement for us
Trying to man, that’s what we do it for
Young bull
AMEN AMEN AND AMEN My Brother REAL MAJOR FACTS !!!
This is one of the best podcasts out rn. You don't even need to be a sports fan to watch this podcast. 10/10 frfr 💯💯
You can tell he was struggling because he wasn’t saying anythingggg while the other guys were talking
He's need to see a therapist
@@peaceandblessings9596 they’re his therapist. I rather express feelings to people who know and understand me then to talk to a stranger who most likely don’t understand
@@calvinjaytv And have to pay for it.
@@calvinjaytv facts, thats why you gotta have friends who listen and care!
Sometimes it’s best to not get involved in politics
It’s sad to hear the director speak on a split that actually did transpire. I find myself binge watching the episodes back when it was true. Much love to all involved
The group hug was everything! Y’all had me misty eyed. Condolences again to you Chad.
Hearing ocho talk broke me because you can see and hear his battle with himself saying he’s ok but deep down knowing he’s not. This is a strong ep
He needs a therapist
Yeah because he sold his soul to the devil! It’s a lot of work you have to do when you’ve done that. I pray he get saved!
@@niecyh2313 no
U know it’s difficult for men to open up episodes like this are so important.
His life was so dysfunctional that it was normal for him. Breaks my heart. I love Brandon, new found respect for Chad outside of football. BLESSINGS to you all.