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I’m 23 and dated a girl 7 years older than me earlier this year. It was a mistake. She had so many issues with her maturity and I just couldn’t take it anymore and I had to break it off.
Getting women to sleep around with everyone and calling impowering is a liberal idea. Go to church and ask any christen man there if they think thats impowering.
@@OrthoLou Here me out. Younger woman are not that attractive in general. They're usually less confident. Have worse to no style. Are needy. And worst of all, I do not need my partner to look up to me to respect me. I just need the respect part. I'm not saying you need to rearange the guts of a 55 year old woman. But I'm also saying there is nothing hot about 19-22 year old who's just "so innocent" "and less ran through". Maturity is feminine.
I dated a lady who was 15 years older than me-- she's Japanese and looked 25 while I was 27. I only discovered her age when she mentioned her mom had given up on her ever getting married and having kids, and she was very flattered when I told her I thought she was 25.
It is funny because Benjamin Franklin was a very athletic swimmer in his youth, he is in the swimming hall of fame, but our image of him is the old version.
35 is not old to be pregnant unless you're already unhealthy. Even 40 years old is a decent age to be pregnant unless you live an unknown healthy lifestyle
So a young woman dating an older man for money its "You go get that bag girl" But a young man dating dating an older woman for money its "taking advantage of woman's loneliness for their resources" makes perfect sense.
That statement was definitely a reach and one of the most ridiculous in this video I think. But what bothers me just a little more is that it's still just "using" at the end of the day, one way or another. These women are still viewed as just "good fucks" and it all still feels as equally sort of... demeaning as it would with a woman, or person, of any age
@@cceerrs so when those millennial women see young men as good fucks it's empowering and masculine? Genders swapped = fuck you? People who hate patriarchy so much must first get it out of their minds.
Its because men are preda tory and women arent. Men should be the ones providing and they just dont having nothing to offer anymore so now they just will steal from innocent women i guess
@@cceerrs Once you realize that men are class enemies and that victims of oppression are entitled to hatred towards their oppressors, it all makes sense. this is standard Critical Theory. Substitute white or other enemy of wokeness as necessary.
"Oh no, I seem to have dropped my fidget spinner and Bachelors diploma. I better bend over to pick them up. I sure hope there isn't a cat-loving, HR middle manager around to see this"
This channel is a modern-day Dante's Inferno. Every time I check it out, I feel like Shoe's giving me a tour through some section of hell that I hadn't heard of before
So you're admitting you're not even with these women because you like them, you're literally just with them because you want to feel like you're picking up milfs?
Respectfully I disagree. I think as a society boys are taught "in general" how to treat/court the girl of his dreams. Where as girls are taught "if he won't someone else will, know your worth". I'm like a 5/10, I have a nice car, college education, work a full time job, dress nice, generally have my stuff together. But at 23yo I still don't make enough or provide enough for girls my age. Older woman tend to give the same energy back they recieve from younger men, so you feel more valued and cared for.
@@BestOpinionHaver And what are their interests? What kind of clothes do they like their men to wear? What kind of smells do they like? This is not for relatability or to appear attractive, it is so I know what to not talk about, wear, or smell like.. yes.
Nah man, there are hella clips from shows in the 70s and older of young men talking about getting with older chicks. It’s just been reskinned by kids who don’t know any better
@@JayneAFK Now feminists cannot shame men. I legit saw a comment on r/feminism saying men who want younger and weak girls actually want to dominate such women...
@@OZTutohBecause it's funny. And either you recognize the power they have and laugh, or you can cry about how they keep getting away with it. I choose to laugh
Hey. Somehow this video was suggested in the sidebar while I'd been listening to Benn Jordan videos. (Different, music industry politics, etc.) I have since gone through a bunch of your older content. I enjoyed the sense of humor, but more importantly had a bunch of things to think about and talk about, afterwards. As a guy, probably classified under the lonely category, I gotta say that you've nailed a bunch of things, that not enough people are talking about. Thank you.
Shout out to early access Patreon gang. As for HagMaxing… I did it once. She was 37 I was 25. She had 2 kids. It was stressful. You are my fav hag Shoe.
Im 22 she was 34. Turned out to be a train wreck as I got to know her better. But I felt like a boss for a while. 😂 I met a sweet girl my age now and I like her a lot more
"Because she cant rely on her looks anymore and has to develop a personality" , if this aint the single best piece of dating advice for men, I dont know what is.
I'm new to your channel, and just wanted to say that I genuinely enjoy your content, comments and intelligent arguments. Congratulations on your new edition to the family!
Men dating younger women: he's taking advantage of her bc he has more experience ❌ Women dating younger men: she's helping him bc she has more experience ✅ At first I thought hagmaxxing was a mean term, but after seeing that first article I changed my mind This is just karma
I think its crazy because the one person said "he's just taking advantage of her for her resources" in my head I thought, "Oh you mean like how sometimes women do the same to Men because their bank account is a factor in dating them" crazy how men get the shit end of the stick every time.
That Benjamin Franklin letter you mentioned does, indeed, praise having an older woman as a mistress. That is the most well-known part of that letter, but it's not the most important part. The letter was addressed to a younger man who was seeking Ben Franklin's council on how to deal with his...urges. Bro was horny but didn't want to get married. Ben Franklin's advice was "Dude, I don't know why you don't want to get married. It's da bomb." He then went on to say, "If you won't get married to an age-appropriate woman, go cougar hunting."
Imagine that, youre a young guy and you get financial stability and you dont have to jump through hoops for affection and intimacy if youre anything but top 10. Men dont like games, Gen z just got dating outsourced.
I’m a Gen X-Millennial overlap, but I can clearly see that dating for young Gen Z men (with Gen Z women) is horrible if they aren’t in the top 10%. From the 90s until 2010, it was much easier for young men.
I don't know where people get the idea that young men are struggling to date, hook up culture is WILD right now. I'm not saying hooking up is dating, but I'm saying people straight up choose to do that over dating. Also if the men are struggling, that also means the women are struggling too; not everyone is out to play games.
im honestly surprised. i always assumed sceptic was older. but i guess its due to him having an older sounding voice and shoe looking the same age as when she started xD
@@annasin90He cheated on her allegedly (rumors) and now he complains about being alone and begs his subscribers for rent money lol he’s 40 years old now too. Sad. Shoe upgraded for sure.
When i was 25 i met a woman 40 years old at my work. She was my client. We were more and more flirty and after 6 month. when everything work-related disappeared i asked her out. It was best relationship i ever had. Finally someone, who is not demanding. She's not asking for money, she's not asking for attention 24/7. She knows that you are at work. She respects your time. She knew what she wanted and was just fun to hang out with. And of course she was very sexy. I dated woman my age couple times after her and it's very disappointing. They are like children really. You often have to handle their shit. And it's very tiresome. So i just off the game in the last 2 years and concentrated on my work and myself
@@thatonebigstarwarsnerd8769 we broke up. I wasn't mature enough for her. I still trying to figure out what i want to do, where i want to live and so on and she had mortgage and son. It was a mutual decision. It was hard for both of us. I met her once on the street some months after, we just smile at each other and never heard from her since. I guess shes doing ok
All die Jahre auf dem Gurkenkarussel müssen wohl für etwas gut gewesen sein. Andererseits, nur weil man etwas lang und oft macht, wird man nicht automatisch gut darin.
As a rule of thumb, if you believe you have discovered something new, you haven't. All of those trends have been going on forever, like prehistorical forever.
Ah yes, I remember reading about the trend of commitmentless promiscuity or sexlessness for majority of the 20s population in history class. Oh wait no, that's a completely new phenomenon
I'm married to a woman 9 years older than me. But she isn't financially supporting me or bringing me chicken nuggies. She's just a great wonderful woman.
It makes perfect sense that this is happening. Guys don't want to play the "dating game" because it's depressing and frustrating, so they'll naturally seek out women who are looking for a serious commitment, which means older women who have either had their share of hookups years ago or simply aren't into the casual hookup culture because they were raised before it was the norm.
They are not “looking for a serious commitment” by seeking out older women, quite the opposite. Did you just choose to ignore all the statistics shoe presented in the video or…?
I am 24 no girls my age want me. But older women hit on me a lot. I am flattered. But at this rate might take ‘em up on it. I literally just posted this into the void wasn’t expecting to get all these likes thank you guys.I just want a girl I can spend time with and build a future with. Might try
It’s really not that bad. I’ve been dating an older woman for 4 years now and honestly it’s so much better. Girls my age are super dramatic and are all about themselves. I met one 3 years younger than me who wants every guy to be all over her but doesn’t want to like them back. Like what? 🙃
When I was 22 I dated a 44yo. Eventually she left her husband & the relationship went downhill pretty fast after that. Moral of the story: never bang your supervisor... or someone married... or someone with a knife collection and a tendency to throw things when she gets angry.... God red flags would be so much easier to deal with if I wasn't colorblind.
Yeah any relationship based on cheating eventually crumbles, if they do it with you they'll do it to you - respect and loyalty are essential for any and every successful relationship.
@@1ManNamedDan if they can cheat with you when you are not together. Then why wouldn't they cheat with another when they are together with YOU. Quite simple.
She didn't even mention the crazy stuff he was rumored to be doing with younger women while a diplomat in France, too, just the one writing he did about hagmaxxing. Benjamin Franklin didn't just sleep with older women, he slept with any woman he could. He slept with so many women that he is one of the only historical figures to have an unknown mother of one of his more famous sons, despite both he and his son's lives to be well documented otherwise. He was that good at hiding whoever was the mother and it's possible she was just a random woman, one of the hundreds he slept with. Fun fact, that son would go on to have another famous illegitimate son as well, who we ALSO don't know the mother of. That grandson of Ben Franklin would have yet another illegitimate son who died young. We know who his mother was, though. Still, three generations of philandering is pretty impressive. It's actually not really known for sure if this letter Franklin wrote was intended to be serious or not. He also once wrote an essay on flatulence (farting) that was almost certainly a joke, but was delivered and written in a serious manner.
As a millenial woman, hag or crone, we mostly DONT WANT 20 yr olds. Given these kids are raised on a diet of Tate videos and manosphere podcasts..... nope.
When I was at college, I had a casual relationship with a 40 year old woman for all 4 years. She was sexy as hell, fit, and straight to the point. There was no bullshit or mind games, just amazing sex and fun. When I graduated, she broke it off and we went separate ways. She even wrote me a reference letter for grad school.
Been there done that... Only difference is that I broke it off because she wouldn't tell most of her kids about me. Her daughter knew about me, but her 2 sons and her youngest daughter she wouldn't tell
I do actually love this. It's so funny watching younger women who are demanding, with an attitude and completely caked in make up thinking they're 10s lose their collective minds when they're flanked by granny
When I was 27 I got a 45 year old girlfriend. She had a 22 year old son and she wanted me to be his father figure, she would always try to get me to father him but he was like a foot taller than me lmao like wtf kind of fantasy is this for her
??? Why they want to them to father, bro those children wont view you as a parent first and second youre in his age range so it wouldnt work, at best you could be his friend. I mean why she wouldnt play it smart and say "okay just support me" and thats it??? So she would have easier time parenting anyway and you would be investing in relation with her? MAN those hags are dum. You cant force someone to dad or "get" one.
@@Amanda-j3y Effective infertility starts much younger than menopause. By about age 40, most women are unable to conceive, and if they do, rates of autism and other mental disabilities skyrocket. It's actually fascinating if it wasn't kind of tragic
In the late 70's I started dating women who were 10 - 15 years older, I was early 20's. They were usually divorced and usually their ex was their only sexual experiance. They wanted to have some fun, "hey, I've never done it in a hot tub, water bed, in a car, etc. It was a lot of fun for both of us and they usually only lasted for a few months. Good memories.
Got involved with a women at work when I was 28 and she was 38. No thoughts of marriage or kids. Women want men that know how to have sex with women. How you going to learn if you can never find a women that wants to have sex with you? Older women know what turns them on. Have you ever been with a younger women that just lies there and does nothing??
As a guy who is married to someone who is 11 years older than me and all my dating consisted of older women, it was a maturity issue. It’s not that I just got turned off when I talked to a woman my age, I just found more in common with older women. I noticed a trend that more women in their 20s were really immature with finances, what they want for their future, and so on. We have been together for 10 years now.
quite the opposite, tf are you on about men get chastized alot more for sleeping with teens like creeps than women who get jailed for 2 days for sleeping with a toddler
this is the evolution of redpill now combined with feminism and female psychopathy. had to come to see this video because of a new gen z term "hagmaxxing" and see what this is about. pretty much shes the older end of gen-z that hates themselves and everybody around them. the people who creates the corporate terms quiet quitting. these are grey glob monsters in sheeps clothing.
18:26 this metaphor is so much more appropriate than it first seems- because one of those bread-ends has been touched tons of times and the other one not at all lol
I'm 33 now but at 18-28 I was a cougar magnet. I did enjoy getting approached and was mostly from older women, much more forward and not super passive like 99.9% of women my age at the time which was very appealing
They are financially independent and don't kick us out the door for not being millionaires. They also don't demonize chivalry and all things masculine and can appreciate a good screw. Next question.
First time I've seen one of your videos. I loved it and laughed all the way through. Now for context. I'm an old fart (57), and been to six continents over the years. This is not new, but I love your new take on it. I also got quite the chuckle out of old Ben's letter. Thanks for the content, I'm looking forward to watching more from you.
39 single father Here. Confirming the world is just as busted as you think. And just wait, every year the circus gets bigger. So grab a balloon. Get some pop corn, but don't get to close. Least you become a part of the performance.
I don't know, this might be good for all those millennial women who said 'I don't need no man!' and now they're in their late 30s and crying because they can't find anyone. Well, NOW they're in luck! Gen Z will be happy to grab all those now 'milfs'. They got a second chance!
@@clarity2199 I doubt these gen z men are going to wife em up or be in serious LTR with em... it sounds like they're getting some practice or getting their rocks off...
@@djaeger-k5m I'm wondering how common it actually is. lol I work with a lot of Gen Z guys and most of them are asking for advice on how to even talk with women. lol It certainly wouldn't shock me if millennial women are going for younger men but from anecdotal experience in my area, almost all of them that are 34-40 now are settling with the guys they friendzoned 15-20 years ago. lol
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I’m 23 and dated a girl 7 years older than me earlier this year. It was a mistake. She had so many issues with her maturity and I just couldn’t take it anymore and I had to break it off.
Getting women to sleep around with everyone and calling impowering is a liberal idea. Go to church and ask any christen man there if they think thats impowering.
Getting women to sleep around with everyone, and calling it impowering. Is a liberal idea
@dfe-u5lFINALLY!
The reactception would be funny. They’d probably react to it too.
Might also be funny because im retarded idk
I’m very vulnerable right now if any older women are reading this
@@OrthoLou Here me out. Younger woman are not that attractive in general. They're usually less confident. Have worse to no style. Are needy. And worst of all, I do not need my partner to look up to me to respect me. I just need the respect part. I'm not saying you need to rearange the guts of a 55 year old woman. But I'm also saying there is nothing hot about 19-22 year old who's just "so innocent" "and less ran through". Maturity is feminine.
Lol how old is old for you XD
Illegitimommy non carborundum, my fellow zoomer 🤝
@@OrthoLou Congratulations on your promotion of Edgemaxxing. Never goon, brother.
real as hell
Unfortunately, hagmaxxing at my age involves a shovel and a cemetery.
"Also, she's a great listener."
I feel like you’d get ghosted a lot
And at least she doesn’t eat much so no expensive dinner dates!!
@@obi-wankenobi1750 hahaha. Well played
@@anousenicShe doesn't talk back, that's for sure
Anakin Skywalker was a hagmaxxer.
At look how he ended a single father with third degree burns and breathing problems for live
🎵Ahh, do you see him hitting on the queen, Though he's just nine and she's 14 🎵
@@pathsafer7828shhh minimal details
that's only like 7 yrs
"this is where the fun begins."
I dated a lady who was 15 years older than me-- she's Japanese and looked 25 while I was 27. I only discovered her age when she mentioned her mom had given up on her ever getting married and having kids, and she was very flattered when I told her I thought she was 25.
Typical Asian woman moment: she looks 20-ish until she reaches 50, then age will catch up in a couple of months.
Yeah Japanese look like 20 year olds until they hit like 65 and then they instantly look 120.
Since you cannot stand looking at Benjamin Franklin any longer, feel free to mail me all of the ugly disgusting $100 bills you may come across.
You say that like June has any money it all goes to her hag maxing husband.
I'll pay $20.00 apiece for all the wrinkled $100's she's got.
Fresh new unwrinkled $20.00's...
It is funny because Benjamin Franklin was a very athletic swimmer in his youth, he is in the swimming hall of fame, but our image of him is the old version.
Funny you say that I remember that he once wrote about the benefit of dating older woman.
I went to highschool with him
"if she leaves you for another,
there is always her mother"
-master oogway
Jesus Christ all mighty
This one is underrated!
damaged good id take not rather, that i leave, to her dad, her father.
@@아담스미스-c3j The King of Kings. Praise His name, hallelujah.
Must remember!
"I am a groomer" - shoe0nhead 19:50
She grooms herself!
Shoe the zoomer groomer.
Good grooming is important
@@gregbors8364for dogs and cats?
@@gregbors8364 For dog’s and cat’s, right?!
"34 is not old." Yet 35 is considered a 'geriatric pregnancy'.
My mom was 35 whe i was born
35 is not old to be pregnant unless you're already unhealthy. Even 40 years old is a decent age to be pregnant unless you live an unknown healthy lifestyle
You should’ve put a trigger warning before that Anne Hathaway clip. I started barking at work.
🤣🤣
REAL SHIT
Timestamp I didn’t see that
@@MrDyran218:38
Timestamp pls
19:35 Shoe is a Hag that is getting Maxxed, this is the most important information
She can Maxx me. Please.
Thank you for that bit of lore, good sir.
Her hubbs is 24? 😭😭😭
@@lifting_weab wow, she knows what she is talking about then
I wanna upvote but the likes are at 666 ....
So a young woman dating an older man for money its "You go get that bag girl"
But a young man dating dating an older woman for money its "taking advantage of woman's loneliness for their resources"
makes perfect sense.
That statement was definitely a reach and one of the most ridiculous in this video I think. But what bothers me just a little more is that it's still just "using" at the end of the day, one way or another. These women are still viewed as just "good fucks" and it all still feels as equally sort of... demeaning as it would with a woman, or person, of any age
Welcome to being a man, my friend
@@cceerrs so when those millennial women see young men as good fucks it's empowering and masculine? Genders swapped = fuck you?
People who hate patriarchy so much must first get it out of their minds.
Its because men are preda tory and women arent. Men should be the ones providing and they just dont having nothing to offer anymore so now they just will steal from innocent women i guess
@@cceerrs Once you realize that men are class enemies and that victims of oppression are entitled to hatred towards their oppressors, it all makes sense. this is standard Critical Theory. Substitute white or other enemy of wokeness as necessary.
"Oh no, I seem to have dropped my fidget spinner and Bachelors diploma. I better bend over to pick them up. I sure hope there isn't a cat-loving, HR middle manager around to see this"
I used to watch you when I was an embryo, Shoe. Now I'm so geriatric I'm getting hagmaxxed.
Hello there, may I interest you in a relationship/hagmax contract. I am a zoomer looking for a lovely older woman. :)
What?
@@patrickn.4113 tldr hes calling her old
They used too much grammar in a day where u have emoji spam. Guy said "huh" 😂😂 😂 @@silvaquick193
@@silvaquick193 I'm calling her a hag! And I wanna max.
This channel is a modern-day Dante's Inferno. Every time I check it out, I feel like Shoe's giving me a tour through some section of hell that I hadn't heard of before
I got to make the 69th like on this comment. *nice.*
shoes the new Virgil 🤣🤣🤣
I can finally explain what I'm seeing each episode. Thanks?
"Shoe on Vergil"
I'd like to expound on this and request a new hell world episode ! great video as usual !
9:03 "Ok now it's women's turn to do the thing we said was bad"
Great line and observation.
I mean they've been doing this for a couple decades I think nearly everyone has made that observation by now
Very accurate.
When women do this it's still a man fault
I'd love to know Shoe's opinion on the French movie Last Summer
Yeah, this particular line perfectly scratched that itch I couldn't reach and said exactly what I haven't been able to put into words so concisely.
I dated a 40 year old at 21. This was 25 years ago. Loved every second of it. Good times.
me too
who cares
@@TheOnlyonejeep I do. ✋😐 hell, I'm the one who asked him to post it.
Good for you ? Ig?
If it went good and u din get groomed.
Damn, lucky
"It's called Milfhunting it's an art."
"Kakyoin please, I just got back from Rehab, dude"
the younger ones aren't worth the struggle. to the hags at once.
in fact there is a whole series of movies dedicated to looking for milfs
So you're admitting you're not even with these women because you like them, you're literally just with them because you want to feel like you're picking up milfs?
They call them cougars because they prey on young
I sure did this once, I was 24 she was 26... I'm sorry if this was too graphic.
How dare you.
This made me uncomfy
Shotacons, bruh.🙂↕️
@@kittycat5972bro what
I reported this comment. You went to far
Pfff these young'uns and their Gen-Z hipster slang...in my days we called 'em sugarmommies, which was the style at the time.
I remember I had a sugar momma way back when, 32, thought she was on the older side... Flash to now and I'm 28, 32 sounds young lol
lmfao
@dfe-u5l I hope so
@@janruudschutrups9382 When I was growing up in the 90s-2000s that was just a term for a woman who supported a deadbeat man lol.
my wife is def a 42 yr old sugar momma
The word might be new but I was “hagmaxxing”40 years ago in my 20s.
They were everywhere and desperate.
They were desperate because guys their age saw through their golddigging BS and were not having any of it.
@@abbynormalz like thats changed...lol its worse now
My wife and mother of my 3 kids is 9 years older than me. Should I piss her off and show her this video?
If she loves you and has thick skin. Yes. :)
Yes
Dew it for the funni
absolutely
Do it or no balls
“I love dating these young fresh boys” -Shoe0nHead 2024
6:24 🙃
Truly a 2024 thing
Sounds predatory
@@Home-o2v4h that's what they want right?
Proof. 4K.
Now knowing that ben Franklin was an a$$ man is making him my favorite Founding Father now
Man of culture
Good seinfeld episode
had a thing for "air baths"
He really was the founder
pounding father
The Benjamin Franklin bit had me spew my coffee out. Turns out that through the times, people basically stay the same.
Respectfully I disagree. I think as a society boys are taught "in general" how to treat/court the girl of his dreams. Where as girls are taught "if he won't someone else will, know your worth". I'm like a 5/10, I have a nice car, college education, work a full time job, dress nice, generally have my stuff together. But at 23yo I still don't make enough or provide enough for girls my age. Older woman tend to give the same energy back they recieve from younger men, so you feel more valued and cared for.
Because you’re a 5
Amén
Exactly! The women my age are just awful narcissistic people who won't acknowledge your existence!
@@halolasomaster3900 let me be clear, I'm not bashing on woman. I'm just saying there's a disconnect in values between young men and woman right now.
@@hinsie4268 neither am I
Disgusting... Where?! Where are they?!
I know right! Like, where should we not venture to avoid them? Specifically what places? so we can avoid them ofcourse. Yes.
@@BestOpinionHaver And what are their interests? What kind of clothes do they like their men to wear? What kind of smells do they like? This is not for relatability or to appear attractive, it is so I know what to not talk about, wear, or smell like.. yes.
(in batman voice)
WHERE IS SHE?!
Try swinger clubs, ballroom dance parties, business expos.
I cruised lounges on the Vegas Strip.😊
Older women usually just want company and intelligent chat. Not much sex demanded. No abortions req.😊
ShoeOnHead didn't groom her younger husband, but she sure did pre-order him.
My God 😂
Did she marry that one guy she was dating? His channel was Knight something or other.
What happen to her choker?
@@TomELongi think nah
@@TomELong They broke up years ago.
@@maxwellwinters5792 Who kept the bunny?
I would be happy about a sugar mom… but I am 40 myself. My sugar moms need oxygen
"Reason to date an older women - The ass is still fat"
(C) Benjamin Franklin
Shit
@@sirkeemcarti
(C) Sun Tzu
Got to love Benny Franklin keeping it real for 250 years
@@alexfischer7876 this isn't a joke quotation, ben franklin actually said that, albeit in 18th century terms
@@AM-kg8rz Same
So the reasons given by hagmaxers are the same reasons women have given for decades about why they want older men. The turns really have tabled.
Nah man, there are hella clips from shows in the 70s and older of young men talking about getting with older chicks. It’s just been reskinned by kids who don’t know any better
@@TheSket This doesn't contradict my comment at all lol.
@@JayneAFK ok
I think it's always been a thing, older women just get less media attention for it.
@@JayneAFK Now feminists cannot shame men. I legit saw a comment on r/feminism saying men who want younger and weak girls actually want to dominate such women...
Stay safe bois, practice Hagmoderation
Even good things can be bad in high enough quantities
Fucks no
And wear a condom, not a consub or conbottom
Muhammad hagmaxxed his way into becoming a prophet.
Kadidja ("Mother of Koran/Believers") was a rich woman in her 40th.
Muhammad was like 22 & broke.
Hagmoderation is the best way to go
I loved this! You nailed addressing some serious issues while keeping it light and funny! Bravo
i like how 4chan can make anything real with the power of trolling
The power of shitposting cannot be denied
Why...
Why are you "liking" it?
@@OZTutohBecause it's funny. And either you recognize the power they have and laugh, or you can cry about how they keep getting away with it.
I choose to laugh
😅😂
Shoe0nHag ❤
shoemaxxing ?
Hag0nShoe
Lol
Headmaxxing?
HagOnBed.
Younger women will play games with your heart, older women will play games with your joystick 😩
😂
Then take you out to eat. Win win
she quickscope my rifle till i snipe
Im literally a 20 year old guy talking to a pretty well off 50 year old rn and she looks amazing for her age so I think im winning tbh
@@Hairynibba777your winning in one area in life. And that’s sexual desires.
Hey. Somehow this video was suggested in the sidebar while I'd been listening to Benn Jordan videos. (Different, music industry politics, etc.) I have since gone through a bunch of your older content. I enjoyed the sense of humor, but more importantly had a bunch of things to think about and talk about, afterwards. As a guy, probably classified under the lonely category, I gotta say that you've nailed a bunch of things, that not enough people are talking about. Thank you.
"Dat ass still PHAT"-The Founding Homie B.Himothy Franklin June 25, 1745.
from asmongold am i right?
@@dramat123 yeah. I like his videos
Benjamin Freaklin
I always thought that quote meant more "the 🌮 is still 🍆-able"
Sadly another piece of brilliant insight eroded away by the sands of time 😔
Dude was the embodiment of men only want one thing and it’s fucking disgusting
Shout out to early access Patreon gang. As for HagMaxing… I did it once. She was 37 I was 25. She had 2 kids. It was stressful. You are my fav hag Shoe.
@dfe-u5l wait i get to ignore you AND die? absolute win
How did that work with her kids? The one I dated had no kids in late 30s and it was very drama free
What happened to her kids?
Im 22 she was 34. Turned out to be a train wreck as I got to know her better. But I felt like a boss for a while. 😂 I met a sweet girl my age now and I like her a lot more
Ouch!
"Because she cant rely on her looks anymore and has to develop a personality" , if this aint the single best piece of dating advice for men, I dont know what is.
"No Patricia, loving tacos isn't a personality"
Young women do have to develop a personality that is beyond eating and sleeping.
more like a black pill about the youngs
Highest liked while unliked by shoe comment. Congrats
Funny but tbh, you can’t impress with your personality if you can’t even get in the room.
In what sense. As in you as a man should also get a personality, or look for a partner with a personality?
I'm new to your channel, and just wanted to say that I genuinely enjoy your content, comments and intelligent arguments. Congratulations on your new edition to the family!
Shoe: I don't think hagmaxxing is all that common
Also Shoe: * reveals that she was hagmaxxed *
!!!
Cracked me up on the "these young men taking advantage of these older women" 🤣
Men are ALWAYS to blame 🥴
"gee, I wonder why young men flock to Tate"
@@rokkraljkolesa9317found the predator defender
Men dating younger women: he's taking advantage of her bc he has more experience ❌
Women dating younger men: she's helping him bc she has more experience ✅
At first I thought hagmaxxing was a mean term, but after seeing that first article I changed my mind
This is just karma
@@rokkraljkolesa9317 found the pred defender
I think its crazy because the one person said "he's just taking advantage of her for her resources" in my head I thought, "Oh you mean like how sometimes women do the same to Men because their bank account is a factor in dating them" crazy how men get the shit end of the stick every time.
Friend once told me “It’s all fun and games until your ex walks in and says Mom?!”
I laughed
@@mikephillips2984 smashing the whole lineage
Yup it's like a complete collection
Then it's fun, games and a glorious victory.
"It's time for the Luxury Threesome
As a proud senior I feel when you catch a cougar, keep her! We don't want or need her back, And you'll get to change diapers before it's over.
"Who wouldn't HagMax with Anne Hathaway" We are truly living in the worst timeline
It's a dark time period for sure.
*best
Anne Hagaway
She's been fine af for 20+ years what's wrong with that 😂
Dude, it's Anne Hathaway 😂
Sigmund Freud is tweaking and geeking in his grave rn
I read that as "Sigmund Freud is twerking" 💀
@@alvianekka80 idk man freud was freaky like that
@@alvianekka80I imagined Freud throwing it back like that one among us gif
@@alvianekka80 Was that a... Freudian slip?
Eh? Eh? Sorry...
He’s freaky deekying in his grave
14:30 "But you know who doesnt care?"
Missed opportunity for "Stacey's Mom".
Nice one and correct.
She's got it going on.
She is all i want
And the wait is over
Nobody like this we need to keep it at the funny weed number
You had me dying with no strings attached, unlimited bread sticks. 😂
That Benjamin Franklin letter you mentioned does, indeed, praise having an older woman as a mistress. That is the most well-known part of that letter, but it's not the most important part. The letter was addressed to a younger man who was seeking Ben Franklin's council on how to deal with his...urges. Bro was horny but didn't want to get married.
Ben Franklin's advice was "Dude, I don't know why you don't want to get married. It's da bomb." He then went on to say, "If you won't get married to an age-appropriate woman, go cougar hunting."
Franklin coined the phrase, "All cats are grey in the dark."
Lol that's actually a conversation between Hatham Kenway and Ben Franklin in Assassin's Creed III
I dated a woman 26 years older, she had been a roller skating cocktail waitress in the 1970s, and I gotta say, that woman had _skills_
Could she pull railway spikes out with that furry little 🦫? 🤣
AYOOO RARE GIRL DETECTED, I REPEAT RARE GIRL DETECTED!!!
I hate you because I want to be you
@@lolstalgic9602 im retired but still cougar bait ;
lol. HAD because she dead?
Imagine that, youre a young guy and you get financial stability and you dont have to jump through hoops for affection and intimacy if youre anything but top 10. Men dont like games, Gen z just got dating outsourced.
I’m a Gen X-Millennial overlap, but I can clearly see that dating for young Gen Z men (with Gen Z women) is horrible if they aren’t in the top 10%. From the 90s until 2010, it was much easier for young men.
@@vaataja It's a shitshow now. Everyone's lost their minds; myself included. Whole bunch of barely human automatons walking around nowadays.
Could i have some recommendations?
I don't know where people get the idea that young men are struggling to date, hook up culture is WILD right now. I'm not saying hooking up is dating, but I'm saying people straight up choose to do that over dating. Also if the men are struggling, that also means the women are struggling too; not everyone is out to play games.
Triggered by the haggs 🤣
THANK YOU "HAG HUNTERS"!! I was worried I'd never be rid of the spoiled egg baskets following me, now I can "cradle rob" in peace.... Ish.
Holy shit Shoe's hubby was hagmaxxing and we didn't even know it
God bless
im honestly surprised. i always assumed sceptic was older. but i guess its due to him having an older sounding voice and shoe looking the same age as when she started xD
@@NtwisterShe broke up with Sceptic 3 years ago. Last year she married a Catholic conservative guy and they have a kid.
@@NtwisterGirl, they are not married. They broke up like 4 years ago. She’s married and has a baby with some far right guy she met on Twitter.
@@pepelag7278W H A T. This is insane. I'm not judging, I am just genuinely surprised.
@@annasin90He cheated on her allegedly (rumors) and now he complains about being alone and begs his subscribers for rent money lol he’s 40 years old now too. Sad. Shoe upgraded for sure.
When i was 25 i met a woman 40 years old at my work. She was my client. We were more and more flirty and after 6 month. when everything work-related disappeared i asked her out. It was best relationship i ever had. Finally someone, who is not demanding. She's not asking for money, she's not asking for attention 24/7. She knows that you are at work. She respects your time. She knew what she wanted and was just fun to hang out with. And of course she was very sexy. I dated woman my age couple times after her and it's very disappointing. They are like children really. You often have to handle their shit. And it's very tiresome. So i just off the game in the last 2 years and concentrated on my work and myself
what happened with the 40 year old you were dating
@@thatonebigstarwarsnerd8769 we broke up. I wasn't mature enough for her. I still trying to figure out what i want to do, where i want to live and so on and she had mortgage and son. It was a mutual decision. It was hard for both of us. I met her once on the street some months after, we just smile at each other and never heard from her since. I guess shes doing ok
@@noobsaibot6424 that sucks but it makes sense. She already has a life and you were making yours. Hopefully you find the one for you
sounds like heaven, i haven't dated in years but younger women are such a pain to deal with.
I'd rather put my head in a blender than date these selfish, drop you at the hat, do-nothing but expect everything, younger chicks
So if a older woman pays me for sex and to play videos games...Does that make me a pro gamer since i get paid for doing it?
HA!
also a pro sexer
No, Tired. It makes you tired. AMHIK
"This droid stick doesn't budge"
- her probably
@@gregdrew874 how do you know?
There is a German saying: "Auf alten Pferden lernt man reiten."
"On old horses you learn how to ride."
Such classy, much wow.
God bless German women.
All die Jahre auf dem Gurkenkarussel müssen wohl für etwas gut gewesen sein. Andererseits, nur weil man etwas lang und oft macht, wird man nicht automatisch gut darin.
@@oreoolafgaming3756Ich wette, sie sind gut darin.
Im Norden sagen wir: "Auf alten Schiffen lernt man segeln." ^^
Or: "Auf alten Töpfen lernt man kochen."
As a rule of thumb, if you believe you have discovered something new, you haven't.
All of those trends have been going on forever, like prehistorical forever.
Yes indeed. I had this in the 80s. Not sure we had a name for it then.
@MrThenry1988 The same name applied. We just didn't have social media talking about it
The hestory doesn't repeat, but it rhymes.
Ah yes, I remember reading about the trend of commitmentless promiscuity or sexlessness for majority of the 20s population in history class. Oh wait no, that's a completely new phenomenon
For real. Demand and Supply. Young Women go for successful older men. Nobody wants Young Men and Older W. So they have to go to each other.
Anne Hathaway doesn't count for hagmaxxing, she refused to age past 25
Which proves the story that she went down to the crossroads and met Mephistopheles. 😅
Your takes are always entertaining.
I'm married to a woman 9 years older than me. But she isn't financially supporting me or bringing me chicken nuggies. She's just a great wonderful woman.
Same. My wife is just really nice and brings me joy. 10 years older. Has to do IVF to have a kid but worth it.
Sorry to hear about that.
@@bobjones5825sorry for what? What are you gay?
What if you asked her for nuggies though?
I get nuggies and am financially supported by my wife and she is 6 years younger than me.
I call that jackpot.
"Momma warned me about women like you. I was hoping she was right." Johny Bravo
I think that was the point we all kinda started hagmaxxing.
The king himself.
I'm all for the love between young men and older women. You can call me an hagtivist.
totally agree 100%
Real.
"Wow. Ben Franklin, you're really kind of a sleazebag." -Michael Scott
It makes perfect sense that this is happening. Guys don't want to play the "dating game" because it's depressing and frustrating, so they'll naturally seek out women who are looking for a serious commitment, which means older women who have either had their share of hookups years ago or simply aren't into the casual hookup culture because they were raised before it was the norm.
Goddamnit this is what happens when you use words like hag.
Millennial women don't pre-date hookup culture lmao
@@EdNeaton Who is talking about Millennials ?
Women under 40 are broken.
@@Ungood-jl5ep Tomb Raider generation kk
They are not “looking for a serious commitment” by seeking out older women, quite the opposite. Did you just choose to ignore all the statistics shoe presented in the video or…?
Btw for anyone wondering she is 33 and her husband is 28.
We were wondering.
as a 20 year old I have to say I would date a 33 year old like her
Hagmaxxed
Bro hagmaxed her 😂
@@hhhhhbztbYea she doesnt look like most 30 something year olds anyway. She looks younger than many women my age (24) lol
Just because the wrapper’s wrinkly doesn’t mean the candy isn’t sweet 😭
I'm using this
@@rocky-my5ck You do that, go find a cougar.
Nooo
Mmmmm. You're right. 😏☺️
😂😂nah we are stealing this!
> critiques hagmaxxing
> husband was a hagmaxxer
thats 100% shoeonhead
I know it’s a joke but I wouldn’t call 4 years Hagmaxxing
I don't think she was critiquing the idea itself
I am 24 no girls my age want me. But older women hit on me a lot. I am flattered. But at this rate might take ‘em up on it.
I literally just posted this into the void wasn’t expecting to get all these likes thank you guys.I just want a girl I can spend time with and build a future with. Might try
Go for it bro
It’s really not that bad. I’ve been dating an older woman for 4 years now and honestly it’s so much better.
Girls my age are super dramatic and are all about themselves. I met one 3 years younger than me who wants every guy to be all over her but doesn’t want to like them back.
Like what? 🙃
do it, you wont get kicked out of bed for eating cookies
Go for it. It doesn't need to be permanent. Have an honest conversation about the relationship and your goals, and go for it, mate.
Go where your value is recognized.
Just don’t get in over your head. Take it from a recovered cougar hunter.
3:56 Gen-Z's new social trend, avoiding Gen-Z at all costs.
I wonder what gen alpha will do. Well actually theyll probably have AI girlfriends available by the time gen alpha are adults so
@CentreMetre gen alpha is gonna avoid people in general, then
That means more furries I guess? 💀
Pretty much. I can't even blame em
@@CentreMetre AI girlfriends already exist.
avoiding brainrot is impossible, this is from experience
The tendency of Benjamin Franklin to Randomly capitalize certain Words is most Intriguing.
Shoe: I don't think hagmax is really a thing.
Also Shoe: I am married to a man significantly younger than me
*Dead*
@@ThatGuyUpThere lol🤣
“Her husband is hag maxxing, she doesn’t know it yet.”
Its bad to "taking advantage of women's loneliness"
* cough cough * Only fans
So I wasn't the only one :D almost spat my drink
When I was 22 I dated a 44yo.
Eventually she left her husband & the relationship went downhill pretty fast after that.
Moral of the story: never bang your supervisor... or someone married... or someone with a knife collection and a tendency to throw things when she gets angry....
God red flags would be so much easier to deal with if I wasn't colorblind.
Maybe you should just assume all flags are red unless you can explain them some other way. 🟥 🤣
There are alot of simps in the comment section who need to hear this!
Yeah any relationship based on cheating eventually crumbles, if they do it with you they'll do it to you - respect and loyalty are essential for any and every successful relationship.
Bruh just never bang your supervisor at all. Don't shit where you eat
@@1ManNamedDan if they can cheat with you when you are not together. Then why wouldn't they cheat with another when they are together with YOU. Quite simple.
As a non native speaker this is the first time i hear the term "cougar" in any other context than "big mountain lion"
“There was in fact, a hagmaxxer in American history.”
oh God, it’s Benjamin Franklin isn’t it?
“Benjamin Franklin”
DAMNIT.
She didn't even mention the crazy stuff he was rumored to be doing with younger women while a diplomat in France, too, just the one writing he did about hagmaxxing. Benjamin Franklin didn't just sleep with older women, he slept with any woman he could. He slept with so many women that he is one of the only historical figures to have an unknown mother of one of his more famous sons, despite both he and his son's lives to be well documented otherwise. He was that good at hiding whoever was the mother and it's possible she was just a random woman, one of the hundreds he slept with. Fun fact, that son would go on to have another famous illegitimate son as well, who we ALSO don't know the mother of. That grandson of Ben Franklin would have yet another illegitimate son who died young. We know who his mother was, though. Still, three generations of philandering is pretty impressive.
It's actually not really known for sure if this letter Franklin wrote was intended to be serious or not. He also once wrote an essay on flatulence (farting) that was almost certainly a joke, but was delivered and written in a serious manner.
Keep in mind that Benjamin Franklin was 39 when that letter is dated, as a point of reference for how old is "older" for him at that time.
@@SkellyHertz most people who lived past 3 years ended up living into their 80s and 90s, so mid-60s/early-70s?
Hm, over in Europe, we call it 'Doing the Hemingway'
There is an ancient proverb in my country, it goes like this:
"on older horses
you learn riding".
It is not a new phenomenon.
Bro, where are you from? And how does it sound in your language?
In Brazil we use to say: "It is the old pans that make the good food."
@@krzysztofrybak5685 Germany. The proverb in native tongue reads like this:
"Auf alten Pferden
lernt man reiten."
@@zahgurim7838 Vielen dank!
“34 isn’t old, I’m not a hag”
“Okay so we’ve heard from the hags”
ROFL
34 is old...for anything, except for death, 34 is too young to die
What a dumb comment, obviously 34 isn’t old.
Bringing back the retro vibe with the rofl. Love it
@@DriveCancelDC ok hag.
As a millenial woman, hag or crone, we mostly DONT WANT 20 yr olds. Given these kids are raised on a diet of Tate videos and manosphere podcasts..... nope.
Most attractive TH-camr award 🏆 ❤ you've got great delivery and sense of humour, well done.
When I was at college, I had a casual relationship with a 40 year old woman for all 4 years. She was sexy as hell, fit, and straight to the point. There was no bullshit or mind games, just amazing sex and fun. When I graduated, she broke it off and we went separate ways. She even wrote me a reference letter for grad school.
Big dawg ✊🏾🔥
Hell yeah brudda
Sounds a bit like grooming but… I guess if it didn’t hurt anyone 🤷♀️
Been there done that... Only difference is that I broke it off because she wouldn't tell most of her kids about me. Her daughter knew about me, but her 2 sons and her youngest daughter she wouldn't tell
LUCKY AS-
I do actually love this.
It's so funny watching younger women who are demanding, with an attitude and completely caked in make up thinking they're 10s lose their collective minds when they're flanked by granny
Being pretty isn't a replacement for being a functioning adult which mommy jokes aside is what everyone is looking for in a relationship
Right? There's something satisfying about it.
>flanked by granny
dude
It's all fun and games until younger girls start identifying as hags that need to be maxed
exactly, best to let them seethe and become future hags that no one wants to maxx
When I was 27 I got a 45 year old girlfriend. She had a 22 year old son and she wanted me to be his father figure, she would always try to get me to father him but he was like a foot taller than me lmao like wtf kind of fantasy is this for her
listen up bro.. I mean son
??? Why they want to them to father, bro those children wont view you as a parent first and second youre in his age range so it wouldnt work, at best you could be his friend. I mean why she wouldnt play it smart and say "okay just support me" and thats it??? So she would have easier time parenting anyway and you would be investing in relation with her? MAN those hags are dum. You cant force someone to dad or "get" one.
@@danielsurvivor1372lol
Crazy. Reminds me of hip hop hood, for any reason the protagonist of this movie was like the older brother of his own father.
I chuckled 3 times
The woman I most cared for
Since my divorce - was 15-years older than myself. It was the most fun and closest connection.
I used to be into older women. Turns out, now, it's called being attracted to women my own age...
Boom! Facts 😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mentally my own age for sure man. 💯🔥🫡
😂
See, you're not a monster. You're just ahead of the curve.
“I’m not like the other girls, I’m infertile!” 💀💀💀
...from eating scented candles?
I’m guessing just menopause.
Menopause at 37?
@@Amanda-j3y
Effective infertility starts much younger than menopause. By about age 40, most women are unable to conceive, and if they do, rates of autism and other mental disabilities skyrocket.
It's actually fascinating if it wasn't kind of tragic
Um... menopause hits like mid 50s
Vtube react vids when?
Please 🙏
She hearted it. It hit her retina confirmed.
Plz don't, they are so weird and creepy
as Marine said once
The age of 30 is in demand
NO.
Love the comedy and current events, keep up the great work.
In the late 70's I started dating women who were 10 - 15 years older, I was early 20's. They were usually divorced and usually their ex was their only sexual experiance. They wanted to have some fun, "hey, I've never done it in a hot tub, water bed, in a car, etc. It was a lot of fun for both of us and they usually only lasted for a few months. Good memories.
Cougars are a myth in my state they all want to hook up with grandpa
I've had at least 6 cougars in my life so far.. THEY ARE ALOT OF FUN MINUS THE STUPID HEAD TRIPS
Sounds like cougars were fun back in the day. Now they are mostly depressed, and looking for rich guys. Damn you, Viagra !
Wow they lasted a few months? I could only last about an hour tops.
Got involved with a women at work when I was 28 and she was 38. No thoughts of marriage or kids. Women want men that know how to have sex with women. How you going to learn if you can never find a women that wants to have sex with you? Older women know what turns them on. Have you ever been with a younger women that just lies there and does nothing??
I didn't knew "Milf Hunting" was still a thing in 2024. 😂
Stifler truly opened Pandora's box.
@@Chimeratech_O.D.An American Pie joke... Man of culture right there. 😎👍
@@Chimeratech_O.D.Imagine a Gen Z version of American Pie
Do you remember Captain Save-A-Hoe?
@@Chimeratech_O.D. Stifler was the MILF's jock son bro, you're thinking of Finch 💀
As a guy who is married to someone who is 11 years older than me and all my dating consisted of older women, it was a maturity issue. It’s not that I just got turned off when I talked to a woman my age, I just found more in common with older women. I noticed a trend that more women in their 20s were really immature with finances, what they want for their future, and so on. We have been together for 10 years now.
Amazingly, this is the first time in probably over half a decade, I actually checked out a sponsored link. Advertising does work sometimes.
19:50 So happy Mr Sh0e found himself a mommy 😍
Older man dates a younger woman. He's considered a creep by women.
Older woman dates a younger man. He's considered a creep by women and men.
Wtf.
quite the opposite, tf are you on about men get chastized alot more for sleeping with teens like creeps than women who get jailed for 2 days for sleeping with a toddler
@@DarkMark-cf1ec You're actually reinforcing OP's argument
Thats because men are pred ators and women are not
this is the evolution of redpill now combined with feminism and female psychopathy. had to come to see this video because of a new gen z term "hagmaxxing" and see what this is about. pretty much shes the older end of gen-z that hates themselves and everybody around them. the people who creates the corporate terms quiet quitting. these are grey glob monsters in sheeps clothing.
Yo, @@DarkMark-cf1ec, you're hiigh outta yo' fuckin' miiiiiiind!
18:26 this metaphor is so much more appropriate than it first seems- because one of those bread-ends has been touched tons of times and the other one not at all lol
Omg 💀💀💀
The whore piece, everyone touches it, but no one wants it.
First time watching you on TH-cam. The Geeat American Hagmaxxer had me in bits.
I'm 33 now but at 18-28 I was a cougar magnet. I did enjoy getting approached and was mostly from older women, much more forward and not super passive like 99.9% of women my age at the time which was very appealing
They are financially independent and don't kick us out the door for not being millionaires. They also don't demonize chivalry and all things masculine and can appreciate a good screw. Next question.
@@nom_chompsky Are you slow or something ?
Mgtow= men going through older women?
or men going to older women?
lol
Impossible 😂 they’re all incels
HOLY SHIT, THIS ONE GOT ME
"Honey, is the 'red pill' for brain health? And the 'blue pill' for performance?"
First time I've seen one of your videos. I loved it and laughed all the way through. Now for context. I'm an old fart (57), and been to six continents over the years. This is not new, but I love your new take on it. I also got quite the chuckle out of old Ben's letter. Thanks for the content, I'm looking forward to watching more from you.
39 single father Here. Confirming the world is just as busted as you think. And just wait, every year the circus gets bigger. So grab a balloon. Get some pop corn, but don't get to close. Least you become a part of the performance.
I don't know, this might be good for all those millennial women who said 'I don't need no man!' and now they're in their late 30s and crying because they can't find anyone. Well, NOW they're in luck! Gen Z will be happy to grab all those now 'milfs'. They got a second chance!
💯
@@clarity2199 shiiiieeeeeeeet if that means a cleaner dating pool, im all for it
@@clarity2199 I doubt these gen z men are going to wife em up or be in serious LTR with em... it sounds like they're getting some practice or getting their rocks off...
@@djaeger-k5m I'm wondering how common it actually is. lol I work with a lot of Gen Z guys and most of them are asking for advice on how to even talk with women. lol It certainly wouldn't shock me if millennial women are going for younger men but from anecdotal experience in my area, almost all of them that are 34-40 now are settling with the guys they friendzoned 15-20 years ago. lol