How One Hack Exposed 37 MIllion Cheating Husbands
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This is the story of the Ashley Madison hack that exposed 37 million hidden affairs. Grab a cupcake and enjoy :)
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0:58 - What is Ashley Madison?
3:36 - Avid Life Media: The Empire Built on Deception
6:28 - The Hack
17:02 - Vigilantes or Villains?
19:38 - The Shattered Marriages
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imagine seeing your husband on the leaks and later finding out he couldn't even really cheat because he was just talking to bots
Poetic justice if you ask me. I’d feel a small sense of vindication knowing that not only did he throw the marriage away, he didn’t get anything out of it. Lose lose for the cheater, just as it should be.
imagine you thought this was like a dating app as a 16 year old so you hook up with some 50 ur old dude 😨
*because he payed to just talk to bots
😂
you'd probably be glad to leave someone who's unfaithful and is also apparently dumb
Don't cheat. Just leave. It is never worth it to hurt someone so much.
@@Microphunktv-jb3kjcheating is never okay.. I agree with the laws issue, but at least agree to not be with eachother or sign a prenup! Why hurt another person thats in love with you.. no excuse!!!
@@cheesySOS cheating is not okay, but taking half of the other person's belongings because the relationship didn't work out apparently is.
@@Microphunktv-jb3kjjust don't marry legally. living together without marrying isn't illegal is it?
@@MorbiusBlueBalls Some jurisdictions in the US have "common law" statutes which will declare a man and woman living in the same home for a certain period of time as being legally married.
Apparently to some of these people hurting someone and leaving them with trust issues is more better than losing some replaceable objects 🤦
32 million ‘men’ gave up a real relationship to talk to robots 😂 what a world we live in.
I'd say prob over half were single and not married. It's not jst married men
@@DL-fl5ul it’s legit a cheating website
@@DL-fl5ul37 million CHEATING HUSBANDS
@@DL-fl5ulboth are hella sad n pathetic
@@DL-fl5ul the site is literally for affairs bro, what kind of single dude would want to hook up with cheating women unless they got some kind of messed up kink and moral system? Being a homewrecker is not far off being a cheater broseph.. and No it wasn't over half, it was most likely at the very least 30 million men who did cheat aka most. Why is that so surprising to hear for you when it's an affair website targeted towards men looking to cheat? (To clarify, it's very obviously targeted towards men more than women due to women being plastered all over the website)
Those men are for the streets, but considering there’s 37 million… the streets finna be crowded 😬🤷♀️
Men are homeless all over the streets they own it
yeah out of the 4 billion men on this planet
@@30regrets And most of you are homeless
@@30regrets there’s prolly still tons more who just haven’t got caught 😭 ik a few
@@30regretsI mean one thing to keep in mind is that most users of this site where in the US, I'm from Ireland and I've never heard of this site specifically being popular in the EU or outside north America, hell the first time me and a bunch of my family members heard about it was on south park! I doubt it was advertised outside of that
The fact that there was 37 million is horribly depressing. People suck
A lot of people suck, but not all.
someone good at math do some calculations and put this into numbers that don't make it feel like everyone cheats :/ I want percentages please
@@AlejandraXioThat's only about 0.45% of people in the world, but that's only on Ashley Madison.
@@loserskadoodles its 40%.
65% of usage of ashley madison was from usa. In the usa, there are about 60 million married couples. 65% of 37mil is 24 mil. So 24mil usa people ou/60 mil total couples is .4. That means 40% of married couples are cheaters
@@AlejandraXio is 40% of all married couples in usa which is horribly depressing
I don’t feel bad for anyone who got exposed but I do feel bad for their spouses.
Good for them as its Still better than not knowing the truth.
the only people you should feel bad for in this case. at the same time though, I'll say that despite the hurt they faced at this time, it would NOT compare to the amount of hurt they would've felt had they found out years later if the hack had never happened.
I also feel bad for all the kids caught in the crossfire of the (presumed) many resulting divorces
@@ahstiasummers5583 Cheaters don't make good partners and thus usually aren't good parents either. Those kids were simply unlucky
I also don't feel bad for a company charging you to view chats. That's like a game charging you to pause or jump
My favorite thing about this entire story is that the hackers didn't ask for money. They didn't gain anything except for exposing douchebags. Fantastic work
They should've asked for money and then did it anyways. 😂
@@Ouroboross- It would’ve been funny, but this is better. As it is we have a 100% “good guys vs bad guys” story, and everyone lapped it up.
Look, doxxing is bad and all, but it's really hard to feel bad for these people.
doxxing? whats that?
@@elijahhernandez906 having ur address being leaked.
@@elijahhernandez906exposing personal data online, ie addresses and names
@@elijahhernandez906revealing/finding out a person's adress
@@elijahhernandez906exposing someone’s private information. ex: your name, state, zip, address, ip, browser, legal documents, friends, and your family members🤷🏾♂️
Not all heroes wear capes.
Dont want to be outed as a cheater, then maybe you shouldnt be cheating.
It should be a crime
So many loose everything
And get depressed or wanna commit sudoku
If kids involved they loose a parent
Or can be influenced by the affair to do the same in the future
@@levtieart3409 then don't cheat it's that simple
@@levtieart3409so you think cheating is ok? Just don’t cheat and this won’t happen
@@levtieart3409 How to tell the world you're irresponsible person without saying you're irresponsible person.
Cause and effect, every action bears results and costs. If you can't bear the consequences, don't do it, simple
@@levtieart3409 Are you talking about the act of cheating,
or the leak that has happened here because of the company's incompetence?
Your comment is vague enough to the point where it could be perceived differently depending on the person.
I think that you're talking about the act of cheating itself rather than the leak, but others within this reply chain seem to think the opposite.
Huh, so a company offering morally wrong services is themselves morally wrong. Who would've guessed...
jewish owned btw 🤭 pure coincidence
Shocking, I know.
Oh yeah 🤔. I forgot!.
What a shocker 😮
Whaaat?! So you're saying cheaters cannot be trusted?? Wild!
they some heros fr, 0 sympathy to cheaters
Exactly, if you want to cheat you shouldnt have gotten into marriage in the first place
@@Hy7o525dUcv9t idk if that's how it works, but they got what they had coming
Agreed
Fr.
Vigilante Justice is often the best justice
So there are 70 million users who use that Ashley Madison site, and 37 million men cheat; 5.5 million are bot accounts pretending to be women, so the remaining 27.5 million women are cheaters. That’s still quite a lot of actual female cheaters. Women's cheating and misandry are both extremely problematic issues that arises nowadays. There are most likely alts, if every man uses ≈2,500 user accounts each on that site, then the actual number of men who cheat and are exposed is 14,800, not 37 million. It is crazy that there are 27.5 million women who actually cheat! Women getting away with cheating and not being held accountable happens a bit too often these days; that’s got to change. The actual number of active genuine human accounts belonging to women who uses Ashley Madison is a whopping 27.5 million! Think about that, it’s huge.
So true
How many times u gon comment this😭
all this yapping to somehow try and disprove that guys are capable of cheating? the numbers don’t lie, it wasn’t 14500 men-it was 37 million. approximately 10 million more than 27. anyhow, nowhere in this video did the creator deny that women would use this app to participate in infidelity???
You should really put a /s on that.
😂😂 yeah okay way to make no sense and then blame a bunch of women that are probably in sh** marriages because their husband's are out cheating on them or their husband's are just pieces of crap and abusers.
the fact that the site had no women so it was basically millions of men paying for the void or bots to try to cheat on their wives is hilarious. like they could go on a short trip, spend less and have more success.
Cheaters being dumb as well as immoral makes this story even better.
Reminds of the Right Stuff dating app, the one made for Conservatives to find love with people who have the same 'values' as them. And then a majority of the site was full of men, bots and trolls pretending to be women.
The site was targeted at men, and trust me when I say that when ads target a certain demographic, they tend to succeed in catching their attention.
Women also would have a way easier time cheating without a tool helping them, if we're being real, and for good reason. Women are a lot more selective in who they sleep with, generally speaking, while men will often accept anything if they want to cheat to begin with.
Personally I think the genders cheat at a similar rate overall, but that might be off-put by the amount of times I've seen women straight up admitting to it, while the reverse is usually not really happening.
I'm really glad these people were outed though, and I hope there is a list with all their names in a database somewhere so its possible to search people up for reference if you want to do a small "background check" before dating someone tbh
I honestly don't think they're bots. It sounds like one of those companies who hire people to talk to men and keep them hooked by catfishing
@@zillvaWomen absolutely do not cheat at the SAME RATE that men do. Look up statistics cause majority are men. Women cheat too but never at the same rate a man does.
Precisely
This reminds me of those times when animals would get abused and then ppl on 4Chan would find the exact coordinates of where it took place in DAYS.
The only good thing 4Chan has done
They also fought the Scientology~
@@DianaProudmoore W
The latest zoo sadist scandal with the disgusting furries where done by the kiwifarms and 4chan different sites working in tandem. One abuser was a cuban man who basically had free reign as cuba doesn't really have animal cruelty laws yet they send his information to the cuban government anyway and he seems to be gone now. Those people are absoltely vile.
@@Reaperleviiconvincing idiots you can charge your phone in the microwave is pretty funny
Ashley Madison: life is short, have an affair
Also Ashley Madison: life is short, get hacked
Nahhhh dawg 😭 Not the fuckin affair page caught having an affair with bots
@@muchotexto4248 wym
@@tristynbishop6158 The cheating app cheats on you 😭 how do you even make it funnier
@@muchotexto4248 facts😂
500th like
anyone using this app deserves to be alone forever. Pay up THAT much money just go out of your way to cheat on your partner instead of leaving them or solving the issues? So gross.
I don't know why YOU personally care so much. It doesn't affect you on a personal level, it shouldn't concern you
@@unicorntomboy9736 were you one of the people who used the app? 🤣🤣
@@unicorntomboy9736you were one of the people who got exposed for using the website werent u😭
@@unicorntomboy9736cheater detected
@@unicorntomboy9736Because they’re a decent human being who understands cheating is wrong?
Thirty seven million husbands cheating…is honestly so depressing:/
No wonder women these days don’t want to get married/have kids. Why would you go through 9 months of pregnancy, excruciating child birth and 18+ years of doing the majority of childcare only for your dumbass husband to eventually cheat on you? No wonder women are opting out
The numbers are even greater cause this is only one site
Aren’t they simply trying to cheat but just messaging bots? They said they hardly had any real women on there.
Not really?
There was like 100000 women on the site, *MAX*
@@yosemitesam9576 exactly they wanted to cheat but just ended up getting ripped off and texting bots
Whoever hacked it, you are a hero!
Hacking is not good ever. Don’t get me wrong, I think the cheaters are never ok, but I think this plays a bigger role in online security. Maybe this time it was ok but what if the next target was a bank account. It would be a much more concerning issue. The way I see the hack is that it shines a light on how so many companies take online security not so seriously, which I do think needs to change
@@toshibiswas3115hacking can be good! Some hackers are used for businesses (who agree on it before hand) for them to break into their system so that the business can improve their security
@toshibiawas3115 not all hackers are bad, white hat hackers exist you know
@@justarandomgamingkid3082 you are absolutely correct. The thing about white hat hacking is that they have permission and no malicious intent which in this case thwarted hacker would be considered black hat. When I referred to hackers I was referring to black hat hacking as white hat hackers are doing it to show security flaws to protect people
@@toshibiswas3115damn that man got a knife and saved the day from a criminal!but hes getting arrested for saving the day
Lmao imagine cheating with a bot 😭. NOT ONLY THAT but PAYING to cheat with a bot ☠️.
I wonder how many kids didn't get braces or medical care, or toys for birthday or had to go hungry to bed, cuz some POSAH spend 10$ per text.
@Sam-pd9mp if you count a good morning/night + how's your day +1reply = 60$/d, 1.800$/m, 21.900$/y. A 25oz bottle of cheap whiskey at my local corner store is 10$.
Men ☕️
They all cheat girl Marriage the biggest circus and scam of the century…
I remember in the Marine Corps they actually gathered us down and ask us if any of us used Ashley Madison to cheat on our spouse. And if so come forward before the C0 finds out and you’ll be spared an NJP. That was a lie.
There was so many people who were court marshaled and NJPed over the next couple weeks. It was hilarious.😂
I hope that’s real lmao
@@loslingos1232 It actually happened. I was in Japan at the time though. So I can only imagine how it was even worst back in the states.
Looking back now I got extremely lucky. As I was having sex with an older Japanese woman who was having an affair with her husband. To be fair, we met on PoF so it doesn’t count.
99% of wives staying home cheat on their husbands deployed overseas
What's a NJP? Thanks!
@@daveeyesNon-judicial punishment
"wow i can't believe this company made me all these promises and then it turned out they were lying and using me" wow it's almost poetry considering that's exactly what you guys did to your partners.
I get the 'deeper implications' here but this is a bad example. These ones deserved exactly what they got.
Karma is a bitch lmao
Karma is a chad
Karma is a relaxing thought
Don’t mess with karma
Karma is a concept of action, work, or deed, and its effect of consequences. In Indian religions, the term more specifically refers to a principle of cause and effect, often descriptively called the principle of karma, wherein individual's intent and actions (cause) influence their future (effect). Good intent and good deeds contribute to good karma and happier rebirths, while bad intent and bad deeds contribute to bad karma and bad rebirths. As per some scripture, there is no link of rebirths with karma. Karma is often misunderstood as fate, destiny, or predetermination.
Everyone’s talking about whether or not the cheaters deserved it but personally I just find it so vindicating that a small group of dedicated hackers were able to bring a corrupt multi-million dollar corporation to its knees. Always gives me hope saying such a small group make such a big impact against people like these who make themselves seem unstoppable, for better or for worse.
It’s a David vs Goliath situation. David won this round.
shit reminds me of mr robot
the boys series lore
@@aubreyplazasuncle Hell yes. Amazing show.
@@aubreyplazasuncle i góra gry back to this series, thanks for reminding me of it
This is how I caught my daughter's father. It was horribly traumatic that everyone in tken could speculate.
Sorry to hear that, hopefully you think its better to find out instead of not knowing.
I can't imagine how unintelligent you have to be to pay a company to cheat on your spouse. It's unfathomable
Not to mention immoral and disgusting
Funny how dumb they are 🤣
And the fact that the ones you are cheating on with are most likely freakin bots ☠️ like cmon these guys are not “ men “ they’re cowards.
Huge W for the impact team
I adore them for exposing dirty little cheaters
You speak like you know them personally.
@@dashdashdash_ Found one of the 37 million people cheating
@@dashdashdash_ We know their actions and the good they did. They're not judging their personal lives, only appreciating their actions as discussed in the video, doubt that really makes them seem like they know the impact team 'personally'.
@dashdashdash_ wdgaf, they are cheaters, they don't deserve any sympathy💀
@@lucipo_ funky
Don’t cheat and you won’t have to worry about it 🤷🏻♀️ no sympathy for the cheaters tbh
Same
If you want to be with another woman literally just break up
@@koalaplays8855 you’d think that’s the easiest option right.
@@luciferia.1313you misunderstood the reply
@@luciferia.1313I think you misunderstood what they said
If you’re not happy in a relationship, talk to your partner about it and make an effort to improve together.
If you don’t want to put in the effort, dump your partner and find someone else.
Cheating is not a solution to relationship problems.
Ll
SAY IT LOUDER
the fact that website existed in the first place is disgusting.
Roblox
Roblox
They all cheat girl Marriage the biggest circus and scam of the century…
If you don't like monogamy don't be in a monogamus relationship. Being betrayed by someone that promise in front of yours and his family to love and take care of you forever is beyond traumatic.
I agree, pre-nups are mandatory.
@@SaltpeterTaffywhat are pre-nups?
@@Space_Cowboy.22. A pre-nuptial agreement is a legal agreement between a husband and wife made prior to marriage and the consequent combination of finances. The connotation in the term is that in the event of divorce, the breadwinner, most often the man, doesn't have to give half to the other, most often the woman.
@@SaltpeterTaffy ah, thank you. I was kinda confused I'm sorry
fr i’m poly but atleast ill admit it before getting into a relationship
It's disgusting that a service like this exist in the first place
ExistED.
Past tense.
Not that such a business could realistically get started nowadays anyhow. They'd be competing with the dating apps - Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, etc. - who have already cornered the market on cheaters looking for hookups/relationships, regardless of marital status.
It's a mess, really.
What do you think Hooters, strip joints, brothels, and porn sites are??? They all exist so men can show their wives how little they care about them.
I know, but what can you do, when people still believe in marriage?
funny. @@AlexGreeneHypnotist
@@AlexGreeneHypnotistleave your spouse???
“Oh no! The consequences of my own actions!” -literally anyone who used Ashley Maddison 🤦
I've noticed one little detail that wasn't mentioned about the DELETE PROFILE feature. So when the hackers announced their intention of releasing users data, the users would normally panic and abuse the feature hoping that their profile and data will vanish but this will eventually play in Ashley Madison's favor which results in massive revenue to the owners of the website.
I'm fond of this channel's content, much love.
What if they planned this to begin with...make a website make ppl feel guilty about it and then offer a delete request for their data... It would make sense that no reaction came from this company after the threats were made public. The sites were up bc it's 19 per person now trying to delete their shit.
as someone who was cheated on and who's dad cheated on my mom I do NOT feel sorry for these cheaters. If you don't want to face consequences then maybe don't cheat next time!
My dad cheated on my mum too when I was a kid. When I learned about what he had done, I was furious! Here, here! I will never understand people who cheat. If they don't wanna be with the person anymore, just be honest and break it off then and there. In fact, they shouldn't even get married!
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker Both of my parents cheated on each other, and one grandma cheated on my grandfather (granted, grandfather was a turd and it was the 70s. You just didn't get divorced here without suffering severe social consequences). I saw it all. I learned early that all people are very complicated and have poor judgment, and are short-sighted and selfish in different ways. It's made me a lot more patient with people in general, more understanding, and less righteous. You're never going to shame someone into not cheating, all you can do is worry about how you react to it. People are people, and they do kind and brave and smart things, and they do selfish, cowardly and stupid things, sometimes at the same time. I have better things to do than to wallow on the hurt levelled towards me.
I bet 5 dollars that your grandma was also cheated on. Transgenerational trauma, getting reenacted with every generation until the root cause in eliminated. And every generation of woman have more 'hate" or disdain for men, helping this cycle to continue.
@@ImmortalTatewariwhat are you even babbling about? 💀
you just sound like an incel@@ImmortalTatewari
It’s sad how once data was leaked, people were more concerned about the money they lost and the weak security of data….rather than how this affects their relationship.
If they cared about their relationship, they wouldn't be doing that in the first place. All they cared about is to have a cheek for every booty call, and warm dinner and washed clothes when they're back from "work". Just like from mommy.
The website got people resigning from their jobs and even people taking their own lives, while some clearly didn't care others clearly couldn't handle It being known
@@ple8379frfr
@@ple8379if the wife is being taken care of by everything a man brings, who cares if he’s getting some strange on the side?
Understood.
37 million husbands found to be cheating and men are still saying that women are more likely to have an affair, I don’t know how that could be true
Some studies show men cheating slight more then women. Others says it is equal. But remember in this story, there was 37 million husbands unsuccessful trying to get an affair, but instead wasted their money and time, and was exposed for it. If woman wants an affair, she can do so fast, easily, decently, and at no cost.
Women are more likely to have an emotional affair.
Men are more likely to have a physical affair.
Women do cheat more, they just don't get caught.
Men did cheat just it wasn’t physical and It’s something I can’t say about women since they do have access to sex. I don’t know who cheats the most but I know I won’t benefit from finding it out. When I first looked at the videos title, I was like another video to create gender wars but I clicked anyways because I was curious about hacking
It is absolutely harder to cheat as a man that it would be to cheat as a woman, anyone will take you guys, men gotta ask around for a while before we can even begin cheating
@@respectthegoat1519 Cheating is cheating, it doesn't make a difference if the cheater has no game
Imagine being not just morally corrupt enough to cheat, but stupid enough to use your government/military official email to chat with bots. lol.
Don’t promise a lifetime together when you can’t promise to hold yourself to such high standards as being faithful and being a man (or woman) of your word.
I'm still trying to work out how men have time to cheat. Maybe it's just me but between work and having 1 partner. I don't have time to try cheat.
That and I'm a home body so the second I start leaving the house a lot outside of work. It'll raise a red flag.
@@mvb88ever heard the term "dead bedroom"?
@adrianalexandrov7730 wouldn't it be noticeable when out of no where. People start doing overtime. Spending more time with friend. Gets a Hobbie etc. Their sex life may be lacking but in a world where we work all the time. Ya wouldn't have time. Or maybe it's just my career choice
@@mvb88 I wouldn't know specifics, but reality clearly demonstrates that they somehow manage to find time. Plus it seems that at least half if not more of cheaters are women. And tgey tend to work less hours
@@mvb88that’s why so many men cheat with their secrety or coworkers. They are already with them at work. And some cheat on their lunch break
37 million husbands cheating? That’s incredibly sad. Poor wives, and their children.
Its the wives fault for not having sex with their husbands. Hes gonna go to someone who will fulfill his needs
@@greenbee6902Maybe he should've married someone who will fulfil his needs. Women aren't sex dolls.
@@greenbee6902he can just leave if he's not happy in the relationship.
Women are just meant for sex and nothing else? 🙄
@@greenbee6902and this is why you’re alone incel.
what intrigues me most about this is that dating app had no women in it soooooooooo 37 mil men were just sitting there cheating with… each other?
Yes. They were tossing peanuts at each other and boy were those peanuts pricey
It was a 70/30 ratio however the most common demographic of 30 year olds was a 50/50 ratio in gender so it was mostly young or old people who found bots
False. 90-95% of actual users were male. Did y’all even watch the video?
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
They all cheat girl Marriage the biggest circus and scam of the century…
Adultery is also against US military law, so the people with the accounts made from .mil email addresses might have gotten some severe punishments or even lost their military careers over this if their leadership ever found out
Military only? That sucks
If you're dumb enough to use your .mil address for anything not work related you deserve it lol
I'm surprised that anyone used their .mil email address (or any kind of official/business email) to register for the site. I figured most of the users would've been smart enough to create burner email addresses and use burner devices. Those could still be traced back to the users, but I doubt it would've been as easy.
@@angygremlin4423if i remember correctly one of the biggest ilegal websites silk road selling drugs weapons ect was brought down when the guy who started used his personal email complete with his full name and the year he was born so maybe some did
There were also Saudi emails too. Adultery is punishable via death in Saudi Arabia.
I have been hit on by so many married men it’s crazy. I now make it a point to ask on the first date if they are married.
😢 I was literally getting no action until I got a girlfriend, I had girls who didn't even look in my direction hitting on me, it's sick
@@hm12-i Yes, it is scientifically proven that women find you more desirable when you are already taken, because your value as a partner is determined by how many women want you.
@hm12-i that happened when i got a boyfriend, all of his friends started hitting on me when they never talked to me until i got a boyfriend
@@islaloveslemonade 💀 probably planed
@@cristalido3640 😭😭then I'm cooked, might as well marry my right hand
People who make apps like that actually deserve some sort of punishment. Kudos to whoever hacked it
Props to the impact team for exposing those dirty liars. cheating is a horrible, unforgivable, spineless act.
The pain that the people who have been cheated on must be horrible, finding out they have been going on an app specifically to have an affair and even worse, they are paying lots of money! Must be hurtful to find out your partner has been paying to have an affair
Maybe the husbands were not satisfied with old wife think about from the husband's perspective too😢
@@ho-leesheet5923boo hoo, get couples therapy or break up. No matter how "unsatisfied" you are, that doesn't justify hurting your partner and family
@@ho-leesheet5923I can see their perspective it's really tragic for someone not to have control or bravery to say the truth. Even if they were victims of domestic abuse a divorce is the first thing that should happen, in this case for his benefit. I understand some people might really fall in love with another after losing their love to their spouse, but they are cheating themselves trying to maintain a healthy relationship. It makes them selfish too, and things get complicated as they cannot seem to want to lose anything. Then the sopouse cheats and if they have children they grow scarred. The ex-spouses can live together for their children but they should be honest and forgive but not really come back to a hurtful relationship... that's how my grandparents situation went. The divorce was complicated because it wasnt made sooner.
@@insertname9581 yes I have in past
@@ho-leesheet5923Uhm have they ever heard of communication if something’s lacking you have to communicate if the situation still won’t work out after communicating then divorce what’s the point of cheating and scarring someone emotionally for the rest of their lives?
Fun Fact: The Ashley Madison data breach exposed Australian former Deputy Premier of New South Wales, John Barilaro. A youtuber named 'friendlyjordies' made a video about it, titled "👅"
@@DJ_David_Boyeryour literally 9 years old 😂
@@DJ_David_Boyer wtf
@@DJ_David_Boyerthe fuck u talkin about
A fellow jordies enjoyer nice
@@DJ_David_Boyer ok little timmy, your "dark humor" isn't making anyone laugh, it's time to go to bed.
I remember a quote bit not from where. "That what is done in the dark will one day be brought to light". How relevant.
The funny thing is most men cannot sue them as it would expose their cheating
Moral of the story if you havent cheated on your wife/husband you are better than halv of the population
Not halve of population but half of married couples.
@@painlesskun3959also not, 60% of divorced couples is the statistic cited here at 0:38.
So if we run with these numbers it‘d be half of (assuming not both partners cheated) 60% of 50%, making it 15% of the people who have married.
anyway, cheating fucking sucks, good riddance.
@@sarapocorn If we consider same person cheating twice or thrice then the percentage would be lower?
Monogamy is everywhere but some mfs like the "exploring" and cheating-kink ruin a perfect relationship.
@@sarapocornit’s cute you think every relationship with a cheater ends in divorce … 😂
You know a lot of people in relationships cheat and get away with it right???
Just cause they didn’t get a divorce doesn’t mean they ain’t cheating
The stat is clealry only the percentage of people who caught their partners cheating…
Some live their whole lives not knowing
That numebr is definitely a lot higher then 15%
a lot of those accounts were fake, not real cheaters
My mom once told me: "If they cheated on their partner for you, they can and might cheat on you too. They did one, they'll do it again"
My mom said something similar: "If they'll cheat *with* you, they'll cheat *on* you."
There were no women cheating with, only bots. So the bots will loose the cheaters?
@@zoe0187Are you illiterate? This is about cheaters in general, not just those on the ashley website.
I have two elder female friends to whom just this happened.
Exactly
As a Canadian, we do not claim that man
Frll
Good journalism my guy. I like the way you present information.
What pisses me off most about this is that the people who cheated had the audacity to get mad and file lawsuits that their information was released, they shouldn’t have cheated then!!
Infidelity is not a crime. If Ashley Madison promised its users they would protect their data, and that promise was violated, then there is an argument to make for liability. Is it really so hard to understand? The lawsuit makes sense. You can't be morally selective on when laws do or do not apply. They must be universal, or they can be used against you.
just because they did something wrong too, doesn't vindicate Ashley Madison at all. These corrupt companies lying and profiting off people's pain need to be held accountable
@@SaltpeterTaffyIts not a crime but to oretend like youre the victim is ridiculous. Just because something is legal doesnt make it moral.
@@Celtic00 Hah, I use that line all the time! That you're using it suggests to me that you're a good person.
We know little about the men involved in this, and we know nothing about the women on the other end. What we do know is that the agreement between Ashley Madison and its clients was valid, and the hack was a failure of Ashley Madison to protect the identity of its clients. The lawsuit has morality on its side for that reason. It is irrespective of the morality of the website's normal operation. Just because one action is moral does not mean the reaction is immoral. This isn't physics.
There is no appropriate social punishment for adultery, because the truth lying underneath this website's existence is that it's far _easier_ for women to cheat than men. Women gatekeep sex. All they have to do to find it is open the gate.
Personally I don't consider Ashley Madison's existence a moral issue. It is a domestic issue that is none of my business outside of my own personal relationships. If you're being cheated on, walk away from the relationship. If you're cheating, walk away from the relationship. It never should have gotten to that point.
@@Celtic00 TH-cam is nuking all my comments from orbit. It's getting worse. It's especially sucks this time because I use that line all the time. I couldn't agree more. It suggests to me that you're a good person, and I would have looked forward to a reply. I usually argue with (insert completely inoffensive terms that would probably get the comment nuked again). sigh
Everyone who got leaked deserved what they were served. If they had just been somewhat decent people theyd never find themselves up a creek like this
Adultery should be classed as abuse to your partner
While I mostly agree, the sad truth is that a lot of them no doubt managed to find forgiveness. They don't deserve that.
@@Xokoy agreed, no one wants to believe someone they love would be like that
I actually laughed when i found out one of them was a priest and he un alived himseelf.
No respect from me.
@@RandomTrinidadianadultery is a sin ☠️☠️
Let's have 0 respect together
@@kaig.7063 yessssss!
A rare instance where all parties get exactly what they deserve.
Perfect ...kudos to the impact team👑👏
this whole situation is so hilarious to me that all of these men got exposed cheating on their wives with fake bots 😹😹
Divorce lawyers made a killing I bet!
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exactly they were paying up hefty sum to chat up a bot
Lmao there wasn't even any woman 🤣🤣 tf they be cheating with ai bots
Or other men pretending to be women. 🤣🤣🤣 Oh, the optics.
Girl you know good and well anyone dumb enough to go to a website for cheating deserves to get caught smh.
Facts
Women cheat too. They just don't need websites to do it.
What happened to your toenails?
@@booksandhooks3807😂
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Impact Team really making an impact on the world 🙌
This situation just PROVES how much personal information these programs, or apps can store about people without them even knowing it. Im not siding with these disgusting cheaters, but this is insane. 😶
These are the same people talking about wanting a "high value women/men" when they are the reason genuinely good people don't want to get into relationships because of the heartache. I rather die alone than get betrayed like this again
Website to cheat:
99.9% male users
0.01% female users
Interesting data rights
Focus on enjoying your life. Travel with friends, gain great life experiences. Explore your passions. Do your thing. Let's stop describing being single as dying alone.
@@AniWho268 huge agree on this, being alone doesnt mean you're lonely, you can still do lots of things and still have a connection with people around you
Also, out of over 30 million users signing to potentially cheat on their partner, only few thousand were actual women. And yet, the same men who would most likely be a part of those millions are the ones saying women are sl... and that they just want to cheat every chance they get XD
sadly people like that exist but fortunately the videos title is exaggerated
Looking at the site stats from the video its pretty arguable a very large % of these accounts were either fake or people that weren't even husbands especially with 5.48mil female accounts being thought to be fake out of 5.5mil and another one saying 90-95% fake which didn't really line up but oh well the videos data collected is a bit weird. There are very little stats that showed people spending money or proving a real identity in this video except for the 1.7mil earned in 2014 (90,000 men in 2014) from data erasing. The videos bait with 37mil is pretty cringe.
It is so disgusting to me when a woman takes a man's last name, births and raises a man's children who also take his last name, and then he repays her by cheating. How disheartening that so many men have 0 respect for their spouses, even though I'm sure they'd have a problem with being cheated on too.
Just as disgusting as when a woman cheats on their husband and end up receiving 50% of the money that the man made with their hard work + the woman always get the kids. You say it like only men cheat ☠️
Lol how many men raising kids that aren't theirs
@@rohanking12able Not many
How disheartening that AS MANY if not more women cheat on their husbands too.
That is a silly take. MANY. More than you know. @@deezed6478
just imagine what loyal partners with feelings have gone through…😢
You get a mail from a remote island tellin you that your husband not only cheated on you but he also didn't, because he was robbed, leaked and extorted
@@muchotexto4248 it's very confusing...in all honesty...it's a complex issue ...
@@muchotexto4248more like tried to cheat and failed, which is even more pathetic lmao
Bro i just thought about it. This video is SO WELL DONE! The fact that theres constantly animations and effects on the whole screen is crazy! Good joob!
Cheating is awful but PAYING to cheat is sad and pathetic
their Male users are sad and pathetic what do you expect😂
and paying to cheat WITH BOTS 😭
@@blizzard_the_seal9863💀🤣
Pathetic is the word. They can't even attract anyone authentically. And then they ended up paying to cheat with bots and other men pretending to be women. 🤣
it's so embarrassing how desperate people can be.
Ashley Madison really took "You'll pay for your actions" to the next level.
And the hackers took it to another level too.
Sure, not all men... but at least 37 million of them.
😂😂😂right!!...I will never trust a man
This is such a well-made video, I was hooked the entire time. Great job!
I feel no sympathy for anyone on that site.
Me neither 😂😂😂
As a 16 year old girl hearing that there are more than 37 million men cheating freaks me out, I’m so scared to get married
If you have sex with your husband he wont cheat on you. These women shouldve thought twice about not putting out
@@greenbee6902 you could suck a cheater's dick three times a day and he'd still find time to get a piece on the side lmao, assholes are just assholes no matter how nice you treat them.
@@greenbee6902 "if you don't sleep with me i deserve to cheat on you"
@@greenbee6902 so by your logic women are allowed to cheat if their husbands stop bringing money back home and taking care of the family right?
@@cela9852 They already do that
its rly not that hard to be loyal 🙄
Words Are Cheap, But Actions They Speak The Truth.
Are you loyal?
@@dracoplays2096 yes why the fuck would i say that if I wasn't loyal 😆
This video's editing is really good
I really hate that our society is normalizing cheating. Like, that is one of the worst things you could do to another human being?? If you’re not happy in a relationship, just break it off.
"Normalizing", Ok doomer, cheating has always been a big thing in human history, actually, now its seen more badly than ever.
Our Society does not normalize cheating, it does romanticize it however.
@@kittykittybangbang9367 Lesbian media:
@@thegeneralvilla2784 LESBIAN MEDIA?? bro watch andrew tate and come back to me 💀
“Another human being” huh… nobody deserves mistreatment. Especially animals, whom people abandon because of some “circumstances”
Imagine marrying someone and dedicating your life around him, your kids, and the family you two are building together. Then only to find out he's saying "I love you"s to another woman behind your back telling her that she, not you, are the love of his life, that she makes him happy, that she is the one he wants to be with. Now you realize your life has been wasted, years of your life you can't get back is now gone, spent with a partner who doesn't think of you as much as you think of them. The ultimate rug pull. You sacrifice so much for your life together but it was just you making sacrifices. Folks, people are fickle. DON'T marry for the sake of getting married. Getting old? Who cares. What if I told you it's no longer unusual to die old and alone? Be the crazy old man or the crazy cat lady. At least you'll look back at your life and remember all the fun things you did, places you saw, people you met, with your time money and youth spent on things that matter rather than on lawyer fees and alimony.
Fun in life gets really shallow fast without someone to share it with.
So because this kind of thing may, possibly have a chance of happening then marriage isn’t worth it? And dying alone is “not unusual” now so don’t even bother? That’s ridiculous. Just because dude cheated doesn’t mean the entire marriage and everything that came with it is a waste. Love/marriage/kids is 100% worth maybe getting hurt at some point.
@@BloodSweatandFearswhat is ridiculous is living your life with a loveless marriage and even when you die your partner will smile as they continue enjoying their fantasies. Not everyone will follow society expectations. Live your life and write a good story for others to tell
I know that’s right I’m 100% gonna be the single women with two cats and damn happy while I’m at it
No financial ties, no person cheating on me or shitty children I regret having. I often go on r/regretfulparents and makes me want a hysterectomy even more.
That was a beautiful documentary!
These hackers are amazing people for shutting down this corrupt site.
i hope the impact team are continuing and still growing..
my respect to the dudes hacking the website
cheating is a horrible thing
someone is trusting you with their lives, ready to give their all for the relationship they have and then they find out that their partner was a liar, a traitor. truly a horrible thing
There are worse things than being cheated on. How about being financially crippled for life because your relationship with your wife didn't work out? I'd say that's wah worse than getting your feelings hurt.
@@PotatoSlices you sound like you've cheated before
@@Anal_Flute nah, I've been cheated on. I just dumped her and moved on. It is what it is.
@@PotatoSlices Yeah, that would be pretty bad.... if that actually happened in real life. lol
@@l.s.d.5863 what world do you live in? Maybe hop off the acid and come back to reality.
Marital infidelity is illegal in my country and the cheating spouse could end up in jail for up to 8 years. If this happened in my country, our prison system would be extremely overloaded.
Wow. Where do you live?
@@wellmynameisana Philippines
Wow, this should SERIOUSLY be done in other countries, sounds good.
@@t.i.3416you guys also eat snakes and rats
@@justanannepfp9814The issue is that divorce is also illegal in the Philippines.
Women who have separated from abusive husbands have been imprisoned for adultery upon entering a new relationship because they're still legally married to their ex
I enjoyed watching this, keep up the good work!
This was one of the most brain enticing video I had seen in recent days. Great narrative style, brilliant graphics and video editing.. Hats off to the content and off I go to watch some more from this channel.. 😊
If you want to cheat, don't get married. And if you get exposed thru something like this, I have zero sympathy for you.
if you want to cheat don’t even get in a relationship
@@Ava-nf2qqagreed
@@Ava-nf2qqfr
@@Ava-nf2qq Then it's not cheating lmao
Thats not fun for cheaters tho ☠️
Lesson of the story: DON’T CHEAT
Or be good with opsec
@@adrianalexandrov7730is it that hard not to be a 💩head?
Better lesson: don’t get CAUGHT cheating
@@1stpaperdragon740no it's not better lesson
@@miremali8325 …side lesson?
the editing of this video is amazing, I watched the entire 22 minutes and was hooked the entire time! keep it up. but the actual topic of the video made me sad.
I remember this well. Came home from work one arvo and my lady turned investigator and demanded all my emails. After she sent them all thru the search and i got the all clear, best night for us. 37 million scumbags found their crap in the driveway lol.
This is so wild to me because it’s so easy to not cheat bruh 💀 if you actually dated/married someone you actually liked or loved it wouldn’t even be a thought 🤷🏽♂️
Wifebad memes out there made by thede folks
There's a significant number of people who are married to partners they don't love.
It should be easy, but sadly the majority of humans, mostly men, have a hard time with remaining faithful to one person because they are addicted to sex and youthfulness.
@@Alan_GA then divorce?
How is cheating such a common thing? I would never dream of it, cheaters are filthy people...
I agree. I don’t understand how if you are in a good relationship or have love for someone how you can even get feeling for others. I just don’t get it.
It's easy. Our whole culture encourages it. Men and women are not as attracted to each other anymore because they've been encouraged out of masculinity/femininity. They're spoiled by social media and generally a long life of dating and have much higher expectations than it is realistic so they end up unhappy much easier in a monogamous relationship. Polyamory/Polygamy is pretty much normalized. Transactional relationships are normalized.
@@a1zach_81 Everybody will feel attraction towards attractive people and it can build up if you interact with them. That's normal and there's nothing you can do about it. The problem is that marriage isn't sacred anymore and people are encouraged to explore those feelings. They're told they're entitled to pursue those affairs instead of shamed for them. Then of course people pursue affairs instead of trying to avoid them. Part of loyalty is not putting yourself into tempting situations.
Not all relationships are good, but a lot of people don't know how to communicate, don't want to try, or they simply don't care anyway. Get off on the thrill. :/
ohh ill explain it, truth is, a lot of people have extremely bad, unsatisfying, toxic relationships, but are too deep to actually cut the connection, so there you go
Ok but the whole video I was wondering how good the editing was 😭😭😭😭😭
Praise to the Impact Team 🎉!
why?
@@bogdanbogdan3462for exposing cheaters
Adultery should be the last thing on your mind in a marriage. Hell it shouldn't even be an option or thought in your mind, yet OVER 37 MIL got exposed for doing it. Thats low, very low
Edit: Damn there is some really juicy drama in the replies section. Also thanks for over 300 likes!!!
Why do they get married in the first place if they hate their spouses so much, it took a very long series of conscious steps to marry this person and another strong or very conscious steps to then cheat and hide it from them. Sick
@@eveangel8967 dunno it's different for every relationship. I ain't no pro but I believe a huge chunk of those cheaters just felt unsatisfied with their partner or just complete playboys. But idk I ain't living their lives
@@eveangel8967 I can tell ur a girl from ur comment. Men and women r not the same. Ur thinking about it from the female brain, the male brain doesnt plan the cheating part out, only women do that. Thats y a man cheating isnt that big of a deal, for women it is, cause yall plan that shiii out and everything, with dudes u see a hot girl and u hit
good thing there is an out to marriage instead of seriously hurting your partner!@@marserly
@@marserlythey don't cheat because they rush into a marriage when a prenup exists ,stop making excuses for them ,they simply have the choice and mental capacity to think before getting married
Some folks would rather backstab their lifelong partners than talk to them.
This is the first video of yours I've watched. Definitely going to subscribe and binge watch‼️
Your vd is so well made and highly researched. Love the visuals.
Best wishes to you and to your team.
The impact team are legendary.
They're the true heroes of this world. This is what justice looks like!
If that's what justice is supposted to be, then i want nothing to do with it!
Lol someone is mad they got caught
That's not justice, that's lynch law. There's a reason why laws were established and why people are supposed to follow it. Don't think it is something bad but justice is certainly not as simple as common folk wants and beliefs. Imagine grindr being hacked and people from certain countires calling it justice when gays are being lynched all over their country
@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307Because you have rotten morals.
You're telling on yourself cheater lol@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
Wait so out of these 37 million cheaters, almost all of them never found a women to cheat with. So they never got what they wanted, then got exposed and their marriage ruined.
Karma is sweet.
@@rui.q Lol fr
Honestly makes it hard to believe that all of those users were actual people to begin with. Iirc, those were *active* users as well, which seems suspicious if the users never actually managed to cheat to begin with.
If they made a list of all the names though, that would be so fucking hilarious, I swear. A database you can use to run a background check on people you might date or something lmao
@@zillva Makes sense
Don’t forget, were paying to chat with a bot😂 PAID MONEY TO CHEAT WITH A FAKE PERSON AND GOT EXPOSED TO THE WORLD
Oh no! I can’t imagine getting betrayed and lied to by a company you thought you could trust? Oh the karma and irony.
Moral of the story: don’t be a cheater
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I never thought I would say this, but I'm siding with the scammers.
Only time people like the scammers
The scammers are the one's that made the affair website stealing millions of dollars from men, you side with them? The hackers are definitely not scammers...
@@tarantulamadness6191I could not cheer more for the Madison site, they really profit out of cheating men using fembots 😂
@@tarantulamadness6191They mean those that had the cheaters pay $2000 or be exposed.
Divorce lawyers: _[heavy breathing]_
LMAOOO
Maybe they were the ones that initiated the hack. Imagine their income after that lol.
Me omw to "Impact firm" to talk to my lawyer after the leak
Divorce Lawyers be like: 🤑💰💲💲
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