My biggest challenge right now is making my second-hand purchases more mindful. I'm too often tempted by the price, the quality of the piece, the uniqueness. Focusing on my style and being conscious as to whether or not I will actually wear what I'm buying is just as important.
I can relate. Buying second-hand seems to make it easier for me to buy pieces for my fantasy self. The designer 4-inch heels were gorgeous and the price was so right but high heels do not fit my actual life which is casual and active.
I live in the global south and I can tell you that some of the clothes actually get bought in bales and are on-sold here in second-hand stores. That is honestly great because we have no department stores where I live and the only other options are cheap, polyester rubbish from China, or sewing your own from cheap, thin fabric, also from China. I love that I can pick up quality linen clothes (perfect for our climate) at a great price.
I have learned two things to reduce mistakes and over buying. For example, for Fall, I fist pull put everything from storage to see what I already have and what is needed. Then I set out to buy, this month, a beige cardigan. I focus only on the current season, and leave the cute Spring blouse at the store, because I probably already have something like this in storage that I have completely forgotten about!
My sewing skills and sewing machine came in very handy when I had to alter my clothes after a 50 lb. weight loss. Not everything can be down-sized that much, but I have done nearly all my skirts - I love them and didn’t want to let them go darts or elastic can be added to the inside back waistband ). Pants without side pockets or side zippers or flat-felled seams can also be altered. I improved the fit of my casual dresses and tops by putting back neckline darts above the shoulders, and taking in the sides as needed. I still needed almost an entire new wardrobe eventually, but these alterations got me through five or more years of weight loss, at least for my most casual “house clothes” like t-shirts, jersey dresses and knitted pants.
Whenever I make a mistake and regret my purchase it is due to not being 100% sure about my purchase. The fit, the comfort, the color, the material, the quality all need to be 100% Whenever there is a “ this will probably be ok” it ends up at the donation station.
I think the other side of the not compromising coin is to think ahead. If you simply don't have winter shoes and winter comes, it's easier to buy a pair that isn't ideal just to be able to get around.
I love the idea of a simplified wardrobe made up of "must have" classics (hello white shirt and black pants) for the ease it would bring to getting dressed. These types of items bore me to tears though, and look awful on my 5 feet zero, long torso short leg, wide shoulder and full bust body. I take the idea of those types of items, but I make them mine by giving them a "twist" with a unique detail. A zipper here, some tone on tone embroidery there, an asymmetrical collar. The tips I have learned from you over the years, especially discouraging rampant purchasing, allowed me to save up and take an amazing trip, and that experience could never be filled by mindless clothing purchases.
Ugh. This one still haunts me. I bought a gorgeous linen blend red suit in my autumn red. It was stunning but so oversized it swallowed me whole. Instead of returning it, I tried to tailor it into working. They had to do so much deconstructing to the blazer, the tailoring cost as much as a new one! And I just never felt right in it. I ended up decluttering it. So painful, but I try to look at it as a very expensive lesson in not forcing a silhouette that doesn't work for me, even if the color is perfect.
Great video, really helped me identify some of my purchase regrets! While I have had a few purchases that never got worn because they were purchased for a fantasy self who leads a more glamorous life than I do, you really helped me realize that fit has been the major issue. This was the case years ago, when I needed a pair of cowboy boots, and found a beautiful black pair for a great price that were one size too small. I tried to wear them repeatedly and ended up in pain each time until I sadly gave them away. And more recently, this has been true with thrifting. I found two jackets that were a great price, one that was a size too big, and the other that is too much of an oversized fit for my body. I considered tailoring them but I think it would wreck the garments. I will keep this is mind with my future purchases, thank you!
So many times, I have bought a second hand version of something I wanted, then bought another when I didn’t like the first one, then another when that one isn’t “it” either. So now I’ve learned to put things on a wish list and give myself time to look for it second hand, but if after a certain time I really haven’t found a winner, and I still want the original item, I get it. Even second hand is a waste of money if you don’t wear it.
My biggest regret is buying an expensive 100% cashmere sweater from COS, first quality piece I ever bought for myself and it turned out that the colour suited me like sh*t 😅 anyway I’m trying to sell it now while I keep wearing the same White cotton sweater from H&M from 10 years ago (who said “cheap” clothes cannot last?) Great video as always ❤
My sister-in-law (who lives in Arizona), is a Fashionista and loves to buy certain clothes, shoes for me when she finds them, usually a second hand store she frequents. I have your espadrilles, look exactly like mine, but they don't fit my feet, (I have fingers for toes, Ha!) She knows good second hand stores here where I live are nonexistent . Luckily, my sister-in-law will keep them to wear herself. She's a great seamstress and can fix flaws in her clothes purchases, some she gives to me. I'm retired also but I still love to shop usually on line for inspiration and only get what I need, or replace something I can no longer wear with a similar item. My proportions are similar to your, shorter legs with a longer torso. Thank you for your expertise! I enjoy listening to you.
My latest regret was a bias cut satin midi skirt, seen everywhere on influencers. Had it several months, never wore it, just dropped it off at a consignment store. A case of being influenced rather than sticking to what i know about myself. Old enough to know better! I’ve also been down the espadrille rabbit- hole; last Spring gave those away to a young friend. Still learning, I guess!
I had a black satin bias cut skirt sit in my cupboard for a few years and this year it finally got worn to work. I am very glad I never got rid of it. In fact I pulled it out of the thrift store donation bag a few times
I have learnt not compromising on comfort when it comes to items for everyday wear. Sometimes it is very tempting to purchase a beautiful item, especially if it meets many other criteria such as my personal style and taste, that it is in a colour that flatters me, of a natural material and even a fit seems right. However, if those trousers feel too uncomfortable to sit in, shoes to walk in, or the material makes my skin itch, I will never enjoy wearing this item to its full, no matter that it is a quality wool etc. I might find ocassions to pull it out, but it will never be the same ammount of wear and joy as if it felt comfortable. I am still learning to resist each and every time, but I am more advanced than in the past. Thanks for the video! All the best.
In the mid ‘70s to ‘80s I used to sew all of my own clothes. Vogue offered lots of great patterns and fabric stores carried huge selections of yard goods. Sometimes I would put 30 hours into sewing a pattern I loved only to find that I never wore the garment because it wasn’t right for me. That’s where ready to wear garments triumph. Trying something on and looking in a mirror can never be over estimated.
I am always drawn to „special pieces“ with fun colours and patterns. But I feel best and the most myself in basic pieces. So I am working on looking out for those and ask myself: „Do I really need another oversized fluffy coat in pink and green zebra print?“
I want to comment of the second hand thing that for years we have been preached about. Everybody that I know that buys this way, they sheldom or never use it. The little money that they spend on it is an excuse to buy even more and suddently the wardrobe is filled with crazy trash or they get ill fitting rags because it "costs so little". I hate this advice because people in general say it with the most self rightous atitude as if they should be canonized when I bet that more than half of what they bought doesn't make them happy, so thank you so much for your honesty on the topic.
My biggest purchase regrets usually come from fantasy self shopping- anything boho, romantic or a bit too classic, is something I admire on others but is not just me and I don’t end up feeling great in it. I hope I have learned this lesson though and am much more aware and mindful of this tendency of mine. Very helpful video, I agree that it’s important to be kind to ourselves and others and use these mistakes as opportunities to learn and change our habits going forward. ❤
I have definitely regretted buying things for my fantasy self (who's on vacation all the time) or things that just didn't align with my style words (Classic, Relaxed, Sophisticated). I try to make mindful decision, but sometimes it just doesn't work out as we thought. Another scenario is when I truly need a garment - like a warm wintercoat - and just can't find anything that meets all the criterias and end up settling for something that's not completely right. I sometimes find it hard to find things in my color palette (soft autumn) as the choices as you know here in Denmark are often black and maybe one and two other colors 😭
One of my past mistakes that I did was buying some stuff online (even secondhand) while thinking I was saving more because of the coupons and big discounts from the shopping apps. It's a hit or miss when you buy secondhand pieces online versus buying them in person. It's a hassle to return the stuff that I didn't like. I really didn't save anything and ended up with having clutter or pieces that "could still work but not a 100%"
I always regret buying any type of wool sweater. One of my words is “comfort” but how comfortable is an itchy, hive inducing sweater? I stick to cotton sweaters as much as possible. I tend to overbuy black tees and blouses and they all get worn but I’m at my limit now! It’s time to put some wear into what I do have. Love your channel, Signe!❤
I always wear a longsleeve under my wool sweaters, especially the thin uniqlo heattech ones 👍 LOVE my wool sweaters in the winter, nothing keeps me as warm ❤️
@@annaf.1109 I don't have a wool allergy, but i am very sensitive to itchy things, and let me tell you there were pure cashmere sweaters that were itchy 😕 my friend just have no idea what I'm talking about, but i can feel a low quality fabric, even if that's cashmere. But generally: cashmere and merino wool are mostly not itchy.
I get pretty much everything second hand, life long thrifter. But I agree about buying online, it’s so hit and miss, where I’ve made the most mistakes. Online I stick to certain brands that carry the same styles repeatedly so I know I can’t go wrong. E.g I’ve bought a specific size and style of t-shirt by British brand seasalt several times on eBay, they’re my favourite t shirts, I get tons of use from them over several years.
Thank you for the video! Finally someone speak about that! Because I have a feeling watching fashion bloggers lately, trying to figure out how to style my exsisting items, that everyone is super perfect and nobody never commits any mistakes. As for me, I am in in stage that I can not stop ordering from vinted, 99% of the items, that I did not even wanted or 50% are not in my size. Then I feel guilty and after another unsuccesful purchase I try to change the situation and buy more. And then I feel guilty again that I buy too much and none of these pieces do not even fit to my closet and I out of energy to do anything else in my life (even do my job) and all I can do is to scroll vinted searching for more interesting and branded items with a low price...It's never ending circle honestly and I don't know how to quit.
Would you consider or have you previously discussed approaches or strategies for dressing a shorter leg/longer torso body type? Thank you for your content.
The espadrilles look very pretty! In my town open more and more second hand stores, a friend found a black jeans jacket of "Betty Barclay" for € 5 and it looks so good!!!
Great video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I would say that after switching to barefoot shoes I was kinda mad at myself for buying for years shoes that were pointy/round/had heels and basically were every shape except for the shape of my feet :) finally now I can walk/cycle/do everything without foot or back pain. Why we are still producing footwear that deforms our toes is a mystery to me. The other thing was collecting designer bags, a couple of years ago I sold all my bags and now I only have one and that's it :)
Good conversation Signe! Understanding more about what works and doesn’t for me. I try to buy natural fabrics and real leather now. I aim for stuff that will biodegrade safely.
Hello Signe, love these video! Often it looks as if TH-camrs "don't make any mistakes“, so I find it all the more refreshing that you share your experiences with your purchases or bad purchases with us. My biggest mistake was an alpaca virgin wool jacket, which I bought with a 50% discount, but which still cost 400 €. I can't tolerate animal materials, but with an outdoor jacket I thought it would work... it's quite difficult for me to find warm clothes for the winter... I don't like "plastic" on me! Greetings from cologne Andy
I sew my own clothes which helps me get a good fit on my post menopausal body. It's been a learning curve but very useful. Just like quality garments that starts with quality fabric and finishing techniques.
I think we all have made the same mistakes... The first times I got into thrift stores, I was so amazed by the prices (really really good and with no sales taxes added which are of 15% where I live in Montréal, Canada), that I bought too much and for the wrong reasons. I ended up giving back about 80% of all I bought there. The clothes and accessories I've kept, I know I will keep them forever. Now I ask myself before buying : would I buy it if it was new? And that goes also for used books... Thank you for your video :)
Agreed, ill fitting clothes are a shame and a waste. The lost skills of sewing can save any piece in your wardrobe. I alter 75% of my clothes myself - taking in wide hips, narrowing dresses, tops, even bathing suits. Even getting dressed in the morning, if something doesn't fit, I'll often take a few minutes to alter it right there on my sewing machine, and then love my outfit for the day. Less waste, and more confident in the clothes I'm wearing.
Uncomfortable jeans have been my biggest fashion over spend. I finally stopped buying uncomfortable jeans! I have finally cleaned out my closet of all of the uncomfortable jeans. I love jeans, I try to always look put-together and stylish, but so many of my jeans were 100% cotton with no stretch, and I am done with that. In the past 3-4 years, I have made an effort to have less items, and have purchased from brands that are made in the USA, many with locally sourced cotton. I realize that I have to pay a little more because labor costs are more in the US, but I am willing to do that.
I love your videos and genuineness. If i may make a suggestion, in the shots where you're seated, the camera is too low and angled upward; it's not as flattering as it could be if it was higher and a streaight ahead angle. Currently it's what photographers sometimes call a nostril shot. Thank you for listening and all you do for us.
I also regret buying espadrilles and wedges in general. There were only two or three pairs, but I wore each pair a maximum of three times. This sole is just uncomfortable for me. I also had a tendency to buy duplicates in different colors and I try not to do that anymore. Usually the one I bought first was the one I wore most often because I liked it the most. And in a sense, duplicating clothes takes away their uniqueness.
My biggest regret is following style rules set out by others online. I have three t-shirts and had more way back when. But trying to fit into a t-shirt is just not for me. I’m definitely a collared shirt person even as my casual wear in linen for example in summer. I have learnt at the age of 35 that I feel very childish and immature in a t-shirt (personally as I’m only 5’1) and sneakers. So I’ve finally decided that enough is enough. No more t-shirts or sneakers for me! Only for exercise purposes or the like.
Can I ask - what is the source of the statistic about what percentage of donations end up being sold in thrift stores? I’m in the U.K., and I used to volunteer in a charity shop. We sold everything that wasn’t dirty or disgusting. And I’ve recently been donating items and I’ve seen them later in the charity shops.
The only item I would not purchase secondhand is footwear because everyone's feet are shaped differently, and the person who wore the shoes before you would have molded the shoes to their feet, which might make them a weird fit for you.
Very used shoes yes, plus it’s kind of gross. But I have found barely worn name-brand shoes at thrift or second hand stores! Just look at the soles and you can tell immediately how much they’ve been worn. I do this on Ebay also. If I’m looking for a particular pair of shoes, there MUST be a photo of the soles or else I don’t buy.
Thanks for an enlightening video. What I’m struggling with right now is avoiding g ending up with 3 full wardrobes to accommodate the size I’d almost skimmed into before gaining lots of weight this year, the size I was pre-slimming, and the size I am now (UK 14, 16 & 18 respectively). Please do you have any advice on that? I feel like I keep each wardrobe pretty minimal while accommodating different activities (work, casual, day trips/lunch out (work/casual wear combined), the odd night out/special occasion (glammed up workwear)), and seasons (similar climate to yours - summer, winter, transitional) but I think I just like too many different items/colours.
I like the idea of vinted but i am thinking exactly the possibility of a garment having been altered. I would hate it to have to return the item and this would not be sustainable either.
shoes are the worst to order online (secondhand or not!) I've made several bad shoe purchases mostly because of US/EU/IT conversion! LOL and because I'm 7.5US and some companies don't offer half size :(
One problem I encounter is that I buy something that looks good, but after a couple washes, holes show up that are not easily repairable (especially leggings). I’m trying to buy things that I need, but it’s so tempting to buy clothes that are brand new, tags on knowing that I don’t really need them. 🤔
Just yesterday I bought a pair of shoes in a thrift store, so beautiful and my size! But, i can't walk more then a mile in them, and then my feet hurt... they are too high heeled.... 😉
I wait for the day when every manufacture follows the same size rules. I am not a clothes shopper so trying on multiple brands to find one that works is not my idea of pleasure.
I do not love espadrilles, either. They're cute on others but I find them underwhelming on me :( I finally found my dream leopard jacket pre-loved. It is from Sandro and it is heaven!
My biggest challenge right now is making my second-hand purchases more mindful. I'm too often tempted by the price, the quality of the piece, the uniqueness. Focusing on my style and being conscious as to whether or not I will actually wear what I'm buying is just as important.
I so relate to this! And completely agree with you, even secondhand purchases have to be mindful ones 🙏🏼❤️
I can relate. Buying second-hand seems to make it easier for me to buy pieces for my fantasy self. The designer 4-inch heels were gorgeous and the price was so right but high heels do not fit my actual life which is casual and active.
I think this is the main drawback of going thrifting: I have to curb the number of visits as I cannot always restrain myself!!!!
I agree. This is where keeping a wish list on my phone has helped keep me focused.
Yes!!! I do the same.
I live in the global south and I can tell you that some of the clothes actually get bought in bales and are on-sold here in second-hand stores. That is honestly great because we have no department stores where I live and the only other options are cheap, polyester rubbish from China, or sewing your own from cheap, thin fabric, also from China.
I love that I can pick up quality linen clothes (perfect for our climate) at a great price.
I have learned two things to reduce mistakes and over buying. For example, for Fall, I fist pull put everything from storage to see what I already have and what is needed. Then I set out to buy, this month, a beige cardigan. I focus only on the current season, and leave the cute Spring blouse at the store, because I probably already have something like this in storage that I have completely forgotten about!
I struggle too with dressing for my proportions (long body, short legs). A styling video of how to dress different body types would be really helpful.
Same!
A styling different body types video would be great. I have the opposite problem- short torso, long legs and arms.😂
My sewing skills and sewing machine came in very handy when I had to alter my clothes after a 50 lb. weight loss. Not everything can be down-sized that much, but I have done nearly all my skirts - I love them and didn’t want to let them go darts or elastic can be added to the inside back waistband ). Pants without side pockets or side zippers or flat-felled seams can also be altered. I improved the fit of my casual dresses and tops by putting back neckline darts above the shoulders, and taking in the sides as needed. I still needed almost an entire new wardrobe eventually, but these alterations got me through five or more years of weight loss, at least for my most casual “house clothes” like t-shirts, jersey dresses and knitted pants.
Whenever I make a mistake and regret my purchase it is due to not being 100% sure about my purchase. The fit, the comfort, the color, the material, the quality all need to be 100%
Whenever there is a “ this will probably be ok” it ends up at the donation station.
That mint color really suits you! It matches your eyes 🥰
I think the other side of the not compromising coin is to think ahead. If you simply don't have winter shoes and winter comes, it's easier to buy a pair that isn't ideal just to be able to get around.
I love the idea of a simplified wardrobe made up of "must have" classics (hello white shirt and black pants) for the ease it would bring to getting dressed. These types of items bore me to tears though, and look awful on my 5 feet zero, long torso short leg, wide shoulder and full bust body. I take the idea of those types of items, but I make them mine by giving them a "twist" with a unique detail. A zipper here, some tone on tone embroidery there, an asymmetrical collar. The tips I have learned from you over the years, especially discouraging rampant purchasing, allowed me to save up and take an amazing trip, and that experience could never be filled by mindless clothing purchases.
Ugh. This one still haunts me. I bought a gorgeous linen blend red suit in my autumn red. It was stunning but so oversized it swallowed me whole. Instead of returning it, I tried to tailor it into working. They had to do so much deconstructing to the blazer, the tailoring cost as much as a new one! And I just never felt right in it. I ended up decluttering it. So painful, but I try to look at it as a very expensive lesson in not forcing a silhouette that doesn't work for me, even if the color is perfect.
Great video, really helped me identify some of my purchase regrets! While I have had a few purchases that never got worn because they were purchased for a fantasy self who leads a more glamorous life than I do, you really helped me realize that fit has been the major issue. This was the case years ago, when I needed a pair of cowboy boots, and found a beautiful black pair for a great price that were one size too small. I tried to wear them repeatedly and ended up in pain each time until I sadly gave them away. And more recently, this has been true with thrifting. I found two jackets that were a great price, one that was a size too big, and the other that is too much of an oversized fit for my body. I considered tailoring them but I think it would wreck the garments. I will keep this is mind with my future purchases, thank you!
I’m trying to pare down my wardrobe since I retired. I’m taking all your suggestions to heart. Thank you.
So many times, I have bought a second hand version of something I wanted, then bought another when I didn’t like the first one, then another when that one isn’t “it” either. So now I’ve learned to put things on a wish list and give myself time to look for it second hand, but if after a certain time I really haven’t found a winner, and I still want the original item, I get it. Even second hand is a waste of money if you don’t wear it.
My biggest regret is buying an expensive 100% cashmere sweater from COS, first quality piece I ever bought for myself and it turned out that the colour suited me like sh*t 😅 anyway I’m trying to sell it now while I keep wearing the same White cotton sweater from H&M from 10 years ago (who said “cheap” clothes cannot last?)
Great video as always ❤
I had a habit of buying a new top on my travels, and then get home and not wearing. I have learned not to impulse buy while on vacation.
❤❤❤Best video you have ever posted Signe. I have followed you since inception and as a 73 year old from Fargo ND USA all of this made total sense.
I don’t like wearing blazers and it cost me quite some time and regret purchases to realize that. 🙈
My sister-in-law (who lives in Arizona), is a Fashionista and loves to buy certain clothes, shoes for me when she finds them, usually a second hand store she frequents. I have your espadrilles, look exactly like mine, but they don't fit my feet, (I have fingers for toes, Ha!) She knows good second hand stores here where I live are nonexistent . Luckily, my sister-in-law will keep them to wear herself. She's a great seamstress and can fix flaws in her clothes purchases, some she gives to me. I'm retired also but I still love to shop usually on line for inspiration and only get what I need, or replace something I can no longer wear with a similar item. My proportions are similar to your, shorter legs with a longer torso. Thank you for your expertise! I enjoy listening to you.
I have watched your videos for years. You are the one that helped me curate my own wardrobe.
My latest regret was a bias cut satin midi skirt, seen everywhere on influencers. Had it several months, never wore it, just dropped it off at a consignment store. A case of being influenced rather than sticking to what i know about myself. Old enough to know better! I’ve also been down the espadrille rabbit- hole; last Spring gave those away to a young friend. Still learning, I guess!
I did the same thing - thrifted and actually paid a tailor to shorten a satin bias skirt which I still can't manage to wear.
I had a black satin bias cut skirt sit in my cupboard for a few years and this year it finally got worn to work. I am very glad I never got rid of it. In fact I pulled it out of the thrift store donation bag a few times
I have learnt not compromising on comfort when it comes to items for everyday wear. Sometimes it is very tempting to purchase a beautiful item, especially if it meets many other criteria such as my personal style and taste, that it is in a colour that flatters me, of a natural material and even a fit seems right. However, if those trousers feel too uncomfortable to sit in, shoes to walk in, or the material makes my skin itch, I will never enjoy wearing this item to its full, no matter that it is a quality wool etc. I might find ocassions to pull it out, but it will never be the same ammount of wear and joy as if it felt comfortable. I am still learning to resist each and every time, but I am more advanced than in the past. Thanks for the video! All the best.
In the mid ‘70s to ‘80s I used to sew all of my own clothes. Vogue offered lots of great patterns and fabric stores carried huge selections of yard goods. Sometimes I would put 30 hours into sewing a pattern I loved only to find that I never wore the garment because it wasn’t right for me. That’s where ready to wear garments triumph. Trying something on and looking in a mirror can never be over estimated.
I am always drawn to „special pieces“ with fun colours and patterns. But I feel best and the most myself in basic pieces. So I am working on looking out for those and ask myself: „Do I really need another oversized fluffy coat in pink and green zebra print?“
I want to comment of the second hand thing that for years we have been preached about. Everybody that I know that buys this way, they sheldom or never use it. The little money that they spend on it is an excuse to buy even more and suddently the wardrobe is filled with crazy trash or they get ill fitting rags because it "costs so little". I hate this advice because people in general say it with the most self rightous atitude as if they should be canonized when I bet that more than half of what they bought doesn't make them happy, so thank you so much for your honesty on the topic.
My biggest purchase regrets usually come from fantasy self shopping- anything boho, romantic or a bit too classic, is something I admire on others but is not just me and I don’t end up feeling great in it. I hope I have learned this lesson though and am much more aware and mindful of this tendency of mine.
Very helpful video, I agree that it’s important to be kind to ourselves and others and use these mistakes as opportunities to learn and change our habits going forward. ❤
I’m trying to make a wish list and hold back before buying. Most of my impulse buys have ended up being mistakes 😕
I have definitely regretted buying things for my fantasy self (who's on vacation all the time) or things that just didn't align with my style words (Classic, Relaxed, Sophisticated). I try to make mindful decision, but sometimes it just doesn't work out as we thought. Another scenario is when I truly need a garment - like a warm wintercoat - and just can't find anything that meets all the criterias and end up settling for something that's not completely right. I sometimes find it hard to find things in my color palette (soft autumn) as the choices as you know here in Denmark are often black and maybe one and two other colors 😭
One of my past mistakes that I did was buying some stuff online (even secondhand) while thinking I was saving more because of the coupons and big discounts from the shopping apps. It's a hit or miss when you buy secondhand pieces online versus buying them in person. It's a hassle to return the stuff that I didn't like. I really didn't save anything and ended up with having clutter or pieces that "could still work but not a 100%"
I always regret buying any type of wool sweater. One of my words is “comfort” but how comfortable is an itchy, hive inducing sweater? I stick to cotton sweaters as much as possible. I tend to overbuy black tees and blouses and they all get worn but I’m at my limit now! It’s time to put some wear into what I do have. Love your channel, Signe!❤
I always wear a longsleeve under my wool sweaters, especially the thin uniqlo heattech ones 👍 LOVE my wool sweaters in the winter, nothing keeps me as warm ❤️
@@annaf.1109 I may have to try that one. Nothing I’ve tried yet has helped. Thank you!
Merino wool is what you want. Soft, comfortable, and never itchy. Make sure it is from an ethical supplier.
@@lora-jean or Cashmere. I always thrift those.
@@annaf.1109 I don't have a wool allergy, but i am very sensitive to itchy things, and let me tell you there were pure cashmere sweaters that were itchy 😕 my friend just have no idea what I'm talking about, but i can feel a low quality fabric, even if that's cashmere. But generally: cashmere and merino wool are mostly not itchy.
I get pretty much everything second hand, life long thrifter. But I agree about buying online, it’s so hit and miss, where I’ve made the most mistakes. Online I stick to certain brands that carry the same styles repeatedly so I know I can’t go wrong. E.g I’ve bought a specific size and style of t-shirt by British brand seasalt several times on eBay, they’re my favourite t shirts, I get tons of use from them over several years.
Great tip! I also tend to stick with brands I already know the sizing of when buying secondhand online these days, just to make sure! 🙏🏼
Thank you for the video! Finally someone speak about that! Because I have a feeling watching fashion bloggers lately, trying to figure out how to style my exsisting items, that everyone is super perfect and nobody never commits any mistakes.
As for me, I am in in stage that I can not stop ordering from vinted, 99% of the items, that I did not even wanted or 50% are not in my size. Then I feel guilty and after another unsuccesful purchase I try to change the situation and buy more. And then I feel guilty again that I buy too much and none of these pieces do not even fit to my closet and I out of energy to do anything else in my life (even do my job) and all I can do is to scroll vinted searching for more interesting and branded items with a low price...It's never ending circle honestly and I don't know how to quit.
Your comments on buying second hand really hit home with me. Thank you for saying what you did. I agree completely.
Would you consider or have you previously discussed approaches or strategies for dressing a shorter leg/longer torso body type? Thank you for your content.
The espadrilles look very pretty! In my town open more and more second hand stores, a friend found a black jeans jacket of "Betty Barclay" for € 5 and it looks so good!!!
So so true how we hear things are staples, but they don’t fit us.
That colour ( 12:28 ) suits you really well! I like to see that you’ve been implementing more shades in your wardrobe over the years :)
I agree absolutely!! What would you call this colour?
The espadrilles did look very pretty❤
They were! Just didn’t feel like myself wearing them 🙏🏼
Great video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I would say that after switching to barefoot shoes I was kinda mad at myself for buying for years shoes that were pointy/round/had heels and basically were every shape except for the shape of my feet :) finally now I can walk/cycle/do everything without foot or back pain. Why we are still producing footwear that deforms our toes is a mystery to me. The other thing was collecting designer bags, a couple of years ago I sold all my bags and now I only have one and that's it :)
Me too, I only wear Wildling Shoes and have never been happier ❤️
@@annaf.1109 totally understand 👍
I really love your wardrobe, and I always notice how true you are to what you stand for.Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦.
Good conversation Signe! Understanding more about what works and doesn’t for me. I try to buy natural fabrics and real leather now. I aim for stuff that will biodegrade safely.
Thoughtful and interesting video, Signe, thanks! ❤
I love the point about making compromises with secondhand shopping! I had to learn this the hard way myself too 😂
Hello Signe, love these video! Often it looks as if TH-camrs "don't make any mistakes“, so I find it all the more refreshing that you share your experiences with your purchases or bad purchases with us. My biggest mistake was an alpaca virgin wool jacket, which I bought with a 50% discount, but which still cost 400 €. I can't tolerate animal materials, but with an outdoor jacket I thought it would work... it's quite difficult for me to find warm clothes for the winter... I don't like "plastic" on me! Greetings from cologne Andy
I sew my own clothes which helps me get a good fit on my post menopausal body. It's been a learning curve but very useful. Just like quality garments that starts with quality fabric and finishing techniques.
I think we all have made the same mistakes... The first times I got into thrift stores, I was so amazed by the prices (really really good and with no sales taxes added which are of 15% where I live in Montréal, Canada), that I bought too much and for the wrong reasons. I ended up giving back about 80% of all I bought there. The clothes and accessories I've kept, I know I will keep them forever. Now I ask myself before buying : would I buy it if it was new? And that goes also for used books... Thank you for your video :)
Agreed, ill fitting clothes are a shame and a waste. The lost skills of sewing can save any piece in your wardrobe. I alter 75% of my clothes myself - taking in wide hips, narrowing dresses, tops, even bathing suits. Even getting dressed in the morning, if something doesn't fit, I'll often take a few minutes to alter it right there on my sewing machine, and then love my outfit for the day. Less waste, and more confident in the clothes I'm wearing.
Uncomfortable jeans have been my biggest fashion over spend. I finally stopped buying uncomfortable jeans! I have finally cleaned out my closet of all of the uncomfortable jeans. I love jeans, I try to always look put-together and stylish, but so many of my jeans were 100% cotton with no stretch, and I am done with that. In the past 3-4 years, I have made an effort to have less items, and have purchased from brands that are made in the USA, many with locally sourced cotton. I realize that I have to pay a little more because labor costs are more in the US, but I am willing to do that.
I love your videos and genuineness. If i may make a suggestion, in the shots where you're seated, the camera is too low and angled upward; it's not as flattering as it could be if it was higher and a streaight ahead angle. Currently it's what photographers sometimes call a nostril shot.
Thank you for listening and all you do for us.
I love espadrilles. I have a big collection of them.
I also regret buying espadrilles and wedges in general. There were only two or three pairs, but I wore each pair a maximum of three times. This sole is just uncomfortable for me.
I also had a tendency to buy duplicates in different colors and I try not to do that anymore. Usually the one I bought first was the one I wore most often because I liked it the most. And in a sense, duplicating clothes takes away their uniqueness.
I love a white shirt and I tend to over buy it.
for me it's because I spill on a white shirt, even when I'm trying to be careful, I spill. Almost impossible to get out the stain.
This was very helpful, thanx a lot❤
Thank you! 👏👏👏
Green is definitely your colour. ❤
Be picky no matter what.❤❤❤❤❤
Love this 😊🌸
My biggest regret is following style rules set out by others online. I have three t-shirts and had more way back when. But trying to fit into a t-shirt is just not for me. I’m definitely a collared shirt person even as my casual wear in linen for example in summer. I have learnt at the age of 35 that I feel very childish and immature in a t-shirt (personally as I’m only 5’1) and sneakers. So I’ve finally decided that enough is enough. No more t-shirts or sneakers for me! Only for exercise purposes or the like.
Can I ask - what is the source of the statistic about what percentage of donations end up being sold in thrift stores? I’m in the U.K., and I used to volunteer in a charity shop. We sold everything that wasn’t dirty or disgusting. And I’ve recently been donating items and I’ve seen them later in the charity shops.
The only item I would not purchase secondhand is footwear because everyone's feet are shaped differently, and the person who wore the shoes before you would have molded the shoes to their feet, which might make them a weird fit for you.
Very used shoes yes, plus it’s kind of gross. But I have found barely worn name-brand shoes at thrift or second hand stores! Just look at the soles and you can tell immediately how much they’ve been worn. I do this on Ebay also. If I’m looking for a particular pair of shoes, there MUST be a photo of the soles or else I don’t buy.
Love your channel ❤ what is the brand of your clothes shaver?
My biggest diy fail was dying a pair of light wash jeans from Mango. They ended up patchy and I haven’t been able to wear them since dying them 😢
Sorry for the mindless comment but what are those grey jeans at 10:40? Will be looking for them second hand first tho😊
I’ve always really liked Your espadriles:)
Thanks for an enlightening video. What I’m struggling with right now is avoiding g ending up with 3 full wardrobes to accommodate the size I’d almost skimmed into before gaining lots of weight this year, the size I was pre-slimming, and the size I am now (UK 14, 16 & 18 respectively). Please do you have any advice on that? I feel like I keep each wardrobe pretty minimal while accommodating different activities (work, casual, day trips/lunch out (work/casual wear combined), the odd night out/special occasion (glammed up workwear)), and seasons (similar climate to yours - summer, winter, transitional) but I think I just like too many different items/colours.
I see in your video you have an older color of me beautiful colors that’s is cloth. Do you have that for current customers?
I like the idea of vinted but i am thinking exactly the possibility of a garment having been altered. I would hate it to have to return the item and this would not be sustainable either.
I regret buying leather white sneakers who are slightly too big and make a squeaky noise by every step… but they were on sale…..I know 🙈
Interesting insights!!
shoes are the worst to order online (secondhand or not!) I've made several bad shoe purchases mostly because of US/EU/IT conversion! LOL and because I'm 7.5US and some companies don't offer half size :(
I've definitely ended up with some poorly fitting clothes from buying online, first and second hand.
I bought second hand beautiful pointed satin flats and guess what never wore. I’m 5 foot tall and pointed shoes make me look like an elf.😂❤
One problem I encounter is that I buy something that looks good, but after a couple washes, holes show up that are not easily repairable (especially leggings). I’m trying to buy things that I need, but it’s so tempting to buy clothes that are brand new, tags on knowing that I don’t really need them. 🤔
Just yesterday I bought a pair of shoes in a thrift store, so beautiful and my size! But, i can't walk more then a mile in them, and then my feet hurt... they are too high heeled.... 😉
I missed your videos ❤❤❤
I wait for the day when every manufacture follows the same size rules. I am not a clothes shopper so trying on multiple brands to find one that works is not my idea of pleasure.
all time regrets - heels, collared shirts, loose jackets, meaningless jewelry. much more mindful with my purchases now.
I regret going shopping if I am having a stressful day. I buy stuff I do not need. I regret buying skirts. I do not wear them.
I regret buying clothes that fit too tightly hoping loosing weight
I dislike winter, and so my wardrobe became summer heavy with too many summer items.
I’m always looking for espadrilles with about 2-inch wedges, the usual 3 inches is too high - they’re neither comfortable nor stable.
Wait a min how many white shirts do u have? 😮
😂😂😂😂😂
I do not love espadrilles, either. They're cute on others but I find them underwhelming on me :( I finally found my dream leopard jacket pre-loved. It is from Sandro and it is heaven!
Zero authenticity anymore. You all look the same and talk about same things 🙁
I'll repurpose any worn th🌝ngs if you have 'em.
Keep your fetishes to yourself 🤢