The kettle is overflowing today! 🍵 Twitter: twitter.com/spillqualitea - IG: instagram.com/spillqualitea Update: We edited out Stephanie's fiancé's name. Thanks for pointing this out!
Why is he trying to convince us that Stephanie doesn't like Veronica when Stephanie is literally saying it herself that she is trying to reconnect with her
So ur tell me she’s scared of Nik more than what happened to her wow ! She needs real help then! She’s using her story as a crutch to fit her narrative!!!
What creeps me the most about Nik is the way he talked about her security. he asked her way too many questions about it, it gave me a weird feeling. like what model it was, how it worked. did that make anyone else feel weird?
I realise how many times Nick says the phrase “this woman” in a vindictive way. Whether it’s Stephanie, Veronica, Eat with Que etc. Also remember how he said Veronica having a miscarriage isn’t a valid excuse for the delay in uploading her apology video? Who says only straight guys can be misogynistic?
A miscarriage is not only physically but also mentally and emotionally damaging. What a disgusting thing of Nick to say. Why are people acting like these red flags aren't relevant? Nick does not deserve a platform because he is toxic and vindictive and manipulative. He brings nothing positive to the internet.
I remembered that---- honestly I was on Nick said at the time but WHEN I heard that line....I didn't know what to think because he can't put himself in any woman's shoes during a miscarriage.
Burger b even like other women who has not suffered a miscarriage can’t really relate to someone suffering a miscarriage. That’s an awful thing for him to say/think. Like uh.....
Hakuna Matata ik but like it’s entertaining to see other people’s perspective on the issue- why the fok did I suddenly start talking a lawyer or something tfff? 😂😮
I mean if he wanted the same one then she coulve asked for either the brand and model or stephanie's contact so no that was probably not his only intention.
He’s literally envious/obsessed with her. He wants to know everything about her house, from her couch to her oven. He talks about her house quite often too in his past videos.
It is actually possible to stalk people via their security cameras, if you use the article numbers or something similar. Kinda similar to the IP number that can be used to track phones and computers etc...
bc he definitely realized that security caught him, and thought him how can I clear my name later? ill leave this voice clip for husband. maybe she has mics, maybe they'll pick up me explaining why I'm taking pictures and she won't realize... classic manipulator
It further proves her stance. She wanted to capitalize off it. Even going as far as using her trauma to gain sympathy. As if people with ptsd can’t misunderstand or miscommunicate.
If Nick truly was the victim he tries so hard to portray himself to be then why doesn’t he let Stephanie post the security footage/unedited unreleased collab video in its entirety since it would be an undeniable proof? Just saying.
Yes you're right. And I have doubt that he'll give his consent releasing that footage because he don't want to be embarrassed and ashamed of what he did and say to Stephanie.
Nick must've went after her because she looks easy to manipulate. Yall narcissists need to learn the difference between being a nice person and being a weak person. Everyone has a fighter in them.
Tell me about it. I was always really quiet in school so some jerks thought I'd be an easy target. That ended with them in the hospital and my parents in the principal's office.
Spill: “*** always hides his face in photos” Also Spill: *continuously says his name when he literally prefers to be called Stephiancé by Phanie Packers*
Somebody who is not a member of this group doesn't know that he wants to be called Stephiance. And saying somebody's name is not the same as showing face in photos. Even Stephanie wrote his name in subtitles in her video, so why not read it? If he didn't want it, she would write "Stephiance:". I don't see any issue here
@@88Kaylen88 I think that since people know his name they can get info about him in google so that is bad considering that stephiance doesn't want his name and face known to public
For the people who think there's still "Tea" when there isn't are clowns. Nick just keeps going on and on and ON. He won't shut UP. Nobody else is saying anything about the situation yet he KEEPS UP. Well since your career is over might as well get your lil coins.
@@KarotoThriller so I guess you have pictures and your name on the internet but since you're not using it here it means you wanna remain somewhat private. Is it okay for people to go and snoop for your name and face when you want to remain kinda private?
So... he took pics without her permission and posted them online without her permission, but he wont give her permission to post the security cam pics of him taking pics without her permission. Lol.
@dudulse You would still need their consent to post videos, pictures, recordings or any personal information online, so no she would still need Niks permission to post the footage.
dudulse the best way to do it without and legal arguments is for her to have appropriate consent she didnt want any legal issues which is completely understandable
@@KarotoThriller let's say it's not the case, he still did and said things relating to her homes security and her personal safety to make her feel uneasy/unsafe on purpose. His behavior that's being described is congruent with someone that has bad intentions of that nature. Also showing the camera angles letting g anyone know where they could not be in frame at her house is super suspicious and does put her in danger. Everyone knows that. I have seen something like this happen at the store I worked at, you dont have to be a genius to know that you don't give away positions for safety reasons. It's not a stretch of the imagination to believe he was up to no good in her home
The more I hear about him, the more I feel like whatever happened with Trisha and her ghosting him was all a plan made by the both of them for views and to manipulate their audience
And he hasn’t uploaded the unedited version of that video or given Stephanie permission to release the security footage of him taking photos. And it’s been WEEKS 👀
Finally someone who has a “friend” who ended up being sick in the head. I had the experience of a manipulator who constantly gave me grief and is still showing people how “wonderful “ they are. Exactly how Stephanie felt. No one could see the true colors.
ya no, absolutely not. People are not required to do this. People are allowed to take time away from their phones, it’s not healthy to be constantly available.
He keeps asking about her security (what type, how it works) and how expensive stuff is, plus he took pictures of the security installment. It literally points to him wanting to rob her
Why are people still including Stephanie? She isn’t going on about the issue anymore? If anything it’s just battle between nick and nick because he can’t get over everything
Shes not going on about it anymore because shes taking legal action. But I agree. This is all info that's already covered everywhere. Why is it still being brought up.
If you go to “disgusting” in the dictionary, under the definition it’ll show Nick crying and throwing a tantrum. Edit: WAITTT Holy crepes thanks for da likes
I've been manipulated quite a few times in my life, and the resemblances to how Nik acts is very similar. He needs to evaluate how he acts and maybe even get help for his narcissistic behaviourisms. However, overall I feel the more videos made about him, the more he just sees it as fulfillment - he doesn't care the things being said, as long as he is spoken about.
@@MidnightDakota-eh9ym I agree in ways, and hopefully this series will give enough awareness to put this to rest. Although, no matter how deeply (and Spill goes pretty deep) into both sides someone explores, each person will "stan" whichever they believe is right.
I'm one of those people with manipulative tendencies (I have ASPD laced with a form of machiavellianism) and he's being manipulative. He uses objectively agreeable points (ex: "I've been ghosted for 7 hours", "I went without eating so I was nervous", "she said me no many times", things that most people would find relatable and can be proven) and expands them to lace into his subjective view, so that you assimilate the two together and are tempted to agree with him. He's very bad about it, since he apparently doesn't possess any for of subtlety(lol), so it doesn't work if you are attentive enough, BUT it is a clear attempt which has already influenced his fans(whom I assume, are biased to be on his side anyway). People that have serious problems with manipulative behaviors(like me) would do it on instinct, as a way to exercise control over others actions and emotions for personal benefits (I have to do mental gymnastics to NOT try to manipulate people and situations for example) so I can't in all honesty say if he's being 100% rational with it, but it still doesn't take away his responsibility for his own behavior.
I think Nick is being very immature. He brings up other problems and topics that can be offensive when used in a specific way, to cover a thing that he has done that should not be done. And he's trying to make up all these apparent 'conversations' that they had which they never had. The way he is trying to tell 'his side' is still overall immature. I respect Stephanie's 'side' because of how she considered all these things before making her video and thinking of the well being of others, and hers at the same level.
Remember when he did the same to MommyTang?? Like film a part of her house that she didn't feel comfortable with (he children's bedrooms I think that used to be upstairs) and was straight up weird back then too?? Why nobody called him out on that one.
@Soso Notchurbusiness she didn't publicly address it but people caught on to it from what he posted and what MommyTang was trying to keep private from the beginning. I think more stuff happened that we don't and will never know. I miss her so much.. Maybe her hiatus is connected with the things he did since it was shortly after.
To keep it 100% Nik is the one dragging this out...Dude has problems and needs to get help...He's the type of person you end up filing a restraining order on.
Stephanie is literally the sweetest youtuber I know and I've been watching her since the very beginning...i love her sooo much ...it makes me sad that she has to go through all this😭
Could you please cut out Stephanie’s fiancés name. He doesn’t want any information about himself out there. Please respect his privacy and cut his name out.
Please re-edit and re-post this video, without STEPHIANCÉ's name and face in the video, he doesn't want his identity out, just like you don't, so please understand... SPREAD THE WORD!
I mean this kind of argument is like say, "well he robbed the bank, so why can't I?". Try to use that in court and see if you'll win. Another example is if person A posted something then person B posted the same thing knowing it was wrong but think well person A already posted it, so what's the harm? Now person A had a change of heart and removed it, person B now looks like the original poster. This is where the phrase 2 wrongs, dont make a(it) right.
@@uui219 there already married and even if his wife is famous he should still get privacy he wants he doesn't want to be in the spotlight and people should respect that its almost like people coming up to your house
@@michellekercy4430 actually it isn’t. Because the knowledge of someone who has a home and the access to the address isn’t available to everyone worldwide
Poor Zach. His words were manipulated to make him look like a bad person, although he had evolved as a person. Nickocado, though, is disgusting. We know from what is now the James Marriott problem, where he virtually s_______ h_______ James, WillNE and Memeulous. There's a quote from a Shakespeare's plays that accurately sum up Nickocado: "I follow him to follow but myself." Iago, Act 1 Scene 1, _Othello_
based on how many videos he made about veronica during that situation, it’s like sooo similar time this one. everyone else is moving on but he just KEEPS talking about it and dragging others in it. i think he just loves this stuff lolllll
i never liked this Nickokado avocado at the first place, when he first showed up in tea. till this day he still giving me a bad-person vibes. and all this situation shows that my vibes were right.
My dad was a emotional manipulator and nikado fits the bill perfectly. Shifting the blame. Making them feel in the wrong. Making himself the victim and slight insults to make their self esteem go down causing them to doubt themselves.
You should’ve been more considerate of Stephanie’s fiancé by leaving his name out. You even mentioned that he’s a private person yet you put his actual name in it 🤦🏽♀️
VeggieSnail - yeah it’s easy to just google his name but why would any of us want to do that in the first place??.....yet now we all know his name because we watched this video lol. That’s why people are upset.
and the thing about you sharing his name is that it is not a "commonly" heard Chinese name, in fact I have never heard it personally which is all the more reason to re-edit and re-upload for his sake.....
I'm generally a 'wait and get the information from everyone before making a judgement' kind of gal, but Nick gives me power-heebie jeebies and I made my mind up after part one - even with his rebuttal. I think he's genuinely scary.
The obvious about Stephanie is, she is mature, far far far more mature than Nick. Nick 's deficiency in maturity is grossly poor. Also, Stephanie is smart, intellectually, smart in her maturity, and smart with knowing Nick was a snake and con all along, still gave him a chance, knowing better. She is smart, knowing how to TAKE up for herself w/the truth. She exhibits true self respect and respect for others. She is strong in many ways. I personally think she is a kind, decent person that wants peace in her home, not chaos and not toxic Nicks!
I always felt crazy in the past dealing with manipulative people in my life and it caused a lot of life altering problems for me. It’s great that now there are platforms bringing light to this situation to make others aware that there are actually people like this in the world and to look out for the signs.
The kettle is overflowing today! 🍵
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Update: We edited out Stephanie's fiancé's name. Thanks for pointing this out!
Strange, I don't even have any kettles out here in my forest
KARMA WILL COME
Bro I just commented this
It👏🏻 Is👏🏻Steaming👏🏻
Spill For sure!
Why is he trying to convince us that Stephanie doesn't like Veronica when Stephanie is literally saying it herself that she is trying to reconnect with her
He’s trying to manipulate us I’m not having it
Or she’s just saying that so his story doesn’t add up. You never know 🤷🏻♂️
Pretty sure they are okay now. Veronica reached out to Stephanie during summer.
ellie you never know, she can be doing it to make her seem real.
@@Tj..smoove Are you a fan of His?
Stephanie- “I don’t want to talk about Veronica”.
Nick- “Omg im exposing you” *throws tantrum*
😂😂😂😂
That’s basically it!
I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC YESSS SOSIG
🤣 So selfish.
Vitamin Bleach I-
It's sad because whatever Stephanie was scared of, is now out in public because of Nik... Her security, her past, her fiancé face and his name.
It's sad indeed
SO true! This is not ok !!!!
Brooke Soldiersunite lol ok boomer👌
@Brooke Soldiersunite He triggered her trauma. It was worth mentioning in her video.
So ur tell me she’s scared of Nik more than what happened to her wow ! She needs real help then! She’s using her story as a crutch to fit her narrative!!!
When a toxic person loses control over someone, they try to control how others see that person.
true!
This deserved 1k likes!
Mhm my other "friend " is like that, she is just my friend cuz our moms are friends I don't like her cuz she's toxic to our other friends too 😒
Who?
@PALI PALI if your the friend I understand that, BUT there is a possibility you are not, so let the person use the word friend all they wants.
What creeps me the most about Nik is the way he talked about her security. he asked her way too many questions about it, it gave me a weird feeling. like what model it was, how it worked. did that make anyone else feel weird?
Yes
It made me feel concerned...
I know I’m 9 months late (sorry! 😅) but yes, it sound he was trying to know how to break in. It’s terrifying 😮🤦🏻♀️
he talk about getting it maybe he was just interested about how it works if he gets. it
Same i feel like he wanted to steal or to do something to real bad to her
I realise how many times Nick says the phrase “this woman” in a vindictive way. Whether it’s Stephanie, Veronica, Eat with Que etc. Also remember how he said Veronica having a miscarriage isn’t a valid excuse for the delay in uploading her apology video? Who says only straight guys can be misogynistic?
A miscarriage is not only physically but also mentally and emotionally damaging. What a disgusting thing of Nick to say. Why are people acting like these red flags aren't relevant? Nick does not deserve a platform because he is toxic and vindictive and manipulative. He brings nothing positive to the internet.
@@dra2521 I know right... my mind was blown when he said that
I remembered that---- honestly I was on Nick said at the time but WHEN I heard that line....I didn't know what to think because he can't put himself in any woman's shoes during a miscarriage.
Burger b even like other women who has not suffered a miscarriage can’t really relate to someone suffering a miscarriage. That’s an awful thing for him to say/think. Like uh.....
Veronica had a miscarriage? I believe you but I want to see the source myself
We seriously need to stop giving him all this attention this is what he wants.
Wow those look like taes eyes or is it just me
IKR, he just keeps dragging out the issue and we keep watching his videos :P
Hakuna Matata ik but like it’s entertaining to see other people’s perspective on the issue- why the fok did I suddenly start talking a lawyer or something tfff? 😂😮
Yeah exactly
This is why he still has views. EVERYONE who is subscribed are his sub bots 😒
The way he's so obsessed with the security system, it's kinda creepy, even if it's only so he can get the same one, it still rubs me the wrong way 😬
I mean if he wanted the same one then she coulve asked for either the brand and model or stephanie's contact so no that was probably not his only intention.
He’s literally envious/obsessed with her. He wants to know everything about her house, from her couch to her oven. He talks about her house quite often too in his past videos.
He reminds of Single White Female! As if he wants to be her so bad
It is actually possible to stalk people via their security cameras, if you use the article numbers or something similar. Kinda similar to the IP number that can be used to track phones and computers etc...
bc he definitely realized that security caught him, and thought him how can I clear my name later? ill leave this voice clip for husband. maybe she has mics, maybe they'll pick up me explaining why I'm taking pictures and she won't realize... classic manipulator
'Nick said its odd Stephanie can turn such a terrible phase into merch" Dude your the one who made the phrase
@@KarotoThriller it was literally all over Instagram 🤦🏻♀️
Stop defending Nik
VeggieSnail it’s still doesn’t matter my bad
Why is everyone tagging @VeggieSnail? what did they do?
It further proves her stance. She wanted to capitalize off it. Even going as far as using her trauma to gain sympathy. As if people with ptsd can’t misunderstand or miscommunicate.
He probably was just salty he didn't think of that idea himself.
why’s he always talk about female youtubers like “this... WOMAN” like ok .. and ? is that supposed to be some kind of demeaning label ?
you forgot the n in yoongi
@@randaagha1433 lol I just realized that too xD
Yes. It’s demeaning. It’s misogynistic.
Are they not women???
@@assata1367 They are, but you can't just label everyone like that, its disrespectful!
What's crazy is that he STILL has fans defending him and his actions.
There's also a couple channels that claim stephanie is the manipulator. Like Trisha paytas is saying she is ect.
@@vincentknws wow trisha paytas is your credible source? Ok you could have done better boo
@@vincentknws Trisha who has
never met stephanie
before?
@@antonsummers_ I'm saying there are people saying it. I don't agree with them but they are defending nick. Lol
They’re either fans or just people who’s jealous of Stephanie as much as he is
Once is an accident, twice is a coincidence, three times is a pattern
Yep
As the words of leroy jethro gibbs “theres no such thing as a coincidence”
@@MidnightDakota-eh9ym so twice is considered a pattern too?
Twice is a concern
Elijah Wong Yup! Also: “When someone tells you who they are, *believe* *them* *the* *first* *time.”* Maya Angelou
If Nick truly was the victim he tries so hard to portray himself to be then why doesn’t he let Stephanie post the security footage/unedited unreleased collab video in its entirety since it would be an undeniable proof? Just saying.
I mean you're right about that
Exactly
Exactly!
the two-party consent law makes that a very bad idea.
Yes you're right.
And I have doubt that he'll give his consent releasing that footage because he don't want to be embarrassed and ashamed of what he did and say to Stephanie.
Can we all just agree that Karlee Steel is the mean girl from high school who bullied you but had a feminist sticker on her hydroflask.
Yea
yuppp 💀
I’m so proud of Veronica, she’s learned her lesson.
Hi sorry but what did Veronica actually do?
@@butt_torpedoes think he meant Stephanie???
@@timhuff7418 oh ok yea
@@timhuff7418 no no...they meant Veronica. She grew up from her mistake and is at a better place now
Say What that was uncalled for
Spill: So, what’s the big issue?
Me: Nik. Nik is literally the big issue.
B i g issue-
Omg I love your profile pic.. kim possible!
@@PSL_Lover2024 That's the exact thing i was thinking :3
LoL....🤔
Lol. Nick is the big, huge, massive, fatty acidic, issue. Like he's a synonym for issue.
As an abuse survivor, Nick has always given off a bad aura to me.
griffy same. Some people react to abuse by becoming an abuser, and I really feel that’s what he’s done
i'm so sorry that happened to you, i hope you're better
Was gonna sleep but seeing what he did scared me enough to turn the lights on and stay up to 2 AM
Guys he didn't even physically abuse her. What he did was remind her of the abuse she went through.
Yeah! I haven’t gone through much but Nikocado is soo sus!
I feel so bad for zach
He just wants to eat
Honestly same
Marina Ortiz zachs such a mood tbh😂✌🏼
Let the man eat!!
Marina Ortiz SAME
I'm the 1,000th like yayy
Nick must've went after her because she looks easy to manipulate.
Yall narcissists need to learn the difference between being a nice person and being a weak person. Everyone has a fighter in them.
Tell me about it. I was always really quiet in school so some jerks thought I'd be an easy target. That ended with them in the hospital and my parents in the principal's office.
Freedom and Savage 🧢🧢🧢
@@freedomandsavage1108 DAYUM
Everybody be kung fu fighting
yea, on the outside I look sweet and nice, but insult someone I love, im throwing hands on the spot.
Spill: “*** always hides his face in photos”
Also Spill: *continuously says his name when he literally prefers to be called Stephiancé by Phanie Packers*
Somebody who is not a member of this group doesn't know that he wants to be called Stephiance. And saying somebody's name is not the same as showing face in photos. Even Stephanie wrote his name in subtitles in her video, so why not read it? If he didn't want it, she would write "Stephiance:".
I don't see any issue here
@@88Kaylen88
I think that since people know his name they can get info about him in google so that is bad considering that stephiance doesn't want his name and face known to public
Totally Talia exactly
Where does it says? I didn't even noticed
For the people who think there's still "Tea" when there isn't are clowns. Nick just keeps going on and on and ON. He won't shut UP. Nobody else is saying anything about the situation yet he KEEPS UP. Well since your career is over might as well get your lil coins.
Chunta
I don’t know why people still click on his videos 😐 he doesn’t deserve the coins, his career is literally built from bringing people down.
f u r r e t FACTS
lil coins he has left to make😬
How does he still have subscribers?!
Hey girl, you shouldn’t put her fiancés name in this. He wants his identity kept private, and I didn’t even know his name until now.
@@KarotoThriller ok? so you should go looking and not respect his wishes?
@@KarotoThriller In other words, you don't respect it because it's out in public is that it?
VeggieSnail ... And?
@@KarotoThriller so I guess you have pictures and your name on the internet but since you're not using it here it means you wanna remain somewhat private. Is it okay for people to go and snoop for your name and face when you want to remain kinda private?
@@KarotoThriller literally no one said over a million of ppl are going to have respect smh, that doesn't mean you do what they do and not respect it
So... he took pics without her permission and posted them online without her permission, but he wont give her permission to post the security cam pics of him taking pics without her permission. Lol.
dudulse did you not watch the video
He knows that's what is gonna sink him for sure.
@dudulse You would still need their consent to post videos, pictures, recordings or any personal information online, so no she would still need Niks permission to post the footage.
dudulse the best way to do it without and legal arguments is for her to have appropriate consent she didnt want any legal issues which is completely understandable
@dudulse She would still need consent to post it online. She doesnt need his concent to use it in court.
Didn’t Nik literally state that he likes the attention and that he’s an attention seeker?
Right..!!!🖐🏽🤦🏽♀️
I mean your not wrong
person: *inhales and exhales*
nick: *im exposing you for breathing in front of me*
Bruh XD
Who Tao??
PFFT-
the fact that nikocado is still trying to act like the victim is hilarious
Yo... This man was gonna ROB her. Either Rob her or get someone to Rob her .....
Right, he was casing the house
I'm glad someone said it... Just creepy!!!!
That's what it seems like. He's weird and obsessive.
He also made that joke like "You'd get murdered first because you're rich."
..... that's super creepy.
@@KarotoThriller let's say it's not the case, he still did and said things relating to her homes security and her personal safety to make her feel uneasy/unsafe on purpose. His behavior that's being described is congruent with someone that has bad intentions of that nature. Also showing the camera angles letting g anyone know where they could not be in frame at her house is super suspicious and does put her in danger. Everyone knows that. I have seen something like this happen at the store I worked at, you dont have to be a genius to know that you don't give away positions for safety reasons. It's not a stretch of the imagination to believe he was up to no good in her home
You really should edit out her fiancés name, she doesn’t ever say his name for a reason it’s not something he wants shared on the internet.
I'm not that deep in the video but when does she say the name? Are we sure it's the real name?
Where’s the timestamp??
@@kimh.8176 it's one of the early times.. around 1:27 i think
@@kimh.8176 3:24 it's blurred out now.
it is public information
I’m so proud of Stephanie, this was a disgusting situation and I’m glad she’s doing better. Her strength is truly admirable.
The more I hear about him, the more I feel like whatever happened with Trisha and her ghosting him was all a plan made by the both of them for views and to manipulate their audience
nikocado needs 2 therapists, 1 for himself and 1 for his therapist
and one that that therapist
Therapyception
YE.T & of course a therapist for him
And another therapist
Would that in the end be like a monthly group therapy session for all of the therapist?
And he hasn’t uploaded the unedited version of that video or given Stephanie permission to release the security footage of him taking photos. And it’s been WEEKS 👀
He won't. He knows he can't twist her security footage into his narrative.
@@wisterwilson8774 He also know he wont be able to twist what he said in the collab video
He’s busy screaming “IM NOT SORRY” to his camera
f u r r e t true lol
We sasquatches would definitely chase someone like nickocado out of the woods
Thank you for your service bigfoot
you are literally everywhere honey
Just Some Bigfoot With Internet Access Exactly.
Thank you for stopping by Mr.Bigfoot. How goes the forest?
How many times i seen u?!
I’m starting to think Nick is that type of person who doesn’t understand boundaries and privacy...
Finally someone who has a “friend” who ended up being sick in the head. I had the experience of a manipulator who constantly gave me grief and is still showing people how “wonderful “ they are. Exactly how Stephanie felt. No one could see the true colors.
Bro when Nick messaged her on Instagram multiple times “??” IF SHE DOESNT ANSWER SHE CLEARLY DONT WANNA TALK PERIODT
They could've replied with "don't wanna talk" or something close to that, they are being ignorant and rude for not replying
Exactly
ya no, absolutely not. People are not required to do this. People are allowed to take time away from their phones, it’s not healthy to be constantly available.
howtomurderyourlife of course not but you can say “don’t wanna talk rn” it’s not hard. Although I agree with you
Argent Knight: Artemis what you’re saying directly contradicts what I said so how do you agree....
He’s obsessed with Stephanie’s home and Veronica.
He keeps asking about her security (what type, how it works) and how expensive stuff is, plus he took pictures of the security installment. It literally points to him wanting to rob her
jealousy .
Hzzz Tao it’s like him robbing his own friend...that’s messed up right there
Why are people still including Stephanie? She isn’t going on about the issue anymore? If anything it’s just battle between nick and nick because he can’t get over everything
Shes not going on about it anymore because shes taking legal action.
But I agree. This is all info that's already covered everywhere. Why is it still being brought up.
Tea spill is making this because she wants your Moneey
TH-camrs like to drag it on, and escalate it for views...
"Spoke his truth" there is only "the truth", people are intitled to give their side of events but the truth means fact, facts!!
Thank you
I've been manipulated by my old bosses before. Thanks to Stephanie, I now have a better idea of how to stand up for myself in the workplace.
Please share. I'm good at standing up for others but not for myself.
_Tbh I never even watched them, but this tea is lowkey interesting._
Yeah
Entertaining? I would say rather scary..
Same here
@@solkiyoko07 Fear can be entertaining. That's why horror and psychological thrillers are two of the most popular genres in books and movies. 😎
Tea is no longer fresh in 2020, its the whole kettle you talk about now
If you go to “disgusting” in the dictionary, under the definition it’ll show Nick crying and throwing a tantrum.
Edit: WAITTT
Holy crepes thanks for da likes
😂😂
Pop eyes chicken sandwich 😜
The part that grosses me out most is how he rubs the food on him. Cannot watch the parts where he eats in tea videos about him.
DON'T FEED THE CAAAAAAAAAATS!!!!
*STAHP FEEDING THE CAHHTTTTS* 😂
I've been manipulated quite a few times in my life, and the resemblances to how Nik acts is very similar. He needs to evaluate how he acts and maybe even get help for his narcissistic behaviourisms.
However, overall I feel the more videos made about him, the more he just sees it as fulfillment - he doesn't care the things being said, as long as he is spoken about.
^this is it
I agree but sadly it still needs to be addressed and put out there so people know
@@MidnightDakota-eh9ym I agree in ways, and hopefully this series will give enough awareness to put this to rest. Although, no matter how deeply (and Spill goes pretty deep) into both sides someone explores, each person will "stan" whichever they believe is right.
It happened to me a few times too. I should've known better because I always felt like something was wrong.
I'm one of those people with manipulative tendencies (I have ASPD laced with a form of machiavellianism) and he's being manipulative.
He uses objectively agreeable points (ex: "I've been ghosted for 7 hours", "I went without eating so I was nervous", "she said me no many times", things that most people would find relatable and can be proven) and expands them to lace into his subjective view, so that you assimilate the two together and are tempted to agree with him.
He's very bad about it, since he apparently doesn't possess any for of subtlety(lol), so it doesn't work if you are attentive enough, BUT it is a clear attempt which has already influenced his fans(whom I assume, are biased to be on his side anyway).
People that have serious problems with manipulative behaviors(like me) would do it on instinct, as a way to exercise control over others actions and emotions for personal benefits (I have to do mental gymnastics to NOT try to manipulate people and situations for example) so I can't in all honesty say if he's being 100% rational with it, but it still doesn't take away his responsibility for his own behavior.
I love the fact she slipped that little greeting in the tags, it's kinda humorous XD
I literally just discovered these people today and now I'm watching all the dramatic videos 🤣🤣
Bro check out zach his videos are like movie edits its so good
*i just sit back and observe*
Some men just want to see the world burn
Nick: Do you wanna go get pizza?
Stephanie: No, not really sorry.
Nick: iM eXpOsInG yOu.
*Has temper tantrum.*
XD
I think Nick is being very immature. He brings up other problems and topics that can be offensive when used in a specific way, to cover a thing that he has done that should not be done. And he's trying to make up all these apparent 'conversations' that they had which they never had. The way he is trying to tell 'his side' is still overall immature. I respect Stephanie's 'side' because of how she considered all these things before making her video and thinking of the well being of others, and hers at the same level.
Cak E 💯💯
Yep
The tea is no longer hot.............IT'S BURNING WE NEED A FIRE EXTINGUISHER
I need some oven mitts for this teacup
Nah they threw the whole kettle.
@@kimlipsboo2613 XD IMA GO CALL 991 and tell them my house on fire XD
MinYoongi here you go sis: 🧯🧯🧯
MinYoongi lol
And army 4ever
Stephanie should get a restraining order if he doesn’t stop.
No One has even done a collab with him since
Remember when he did the same to MommyTang?? Like film a part of her house that she didn't feel comfortable with (he children's bedrooms I think that used to be upstairs) and was straight up weird back then too?? Why nobody called him out on that one.
@Soso Notchurbusiness she didn't publicly address it but people caught on to it from what he posted and what MommyTang was trying to keep private from the beginning. I think more stuff happened that we don't and will never know. I miss her so much.. Maybe her hiatus is connected with the things he did since it was shortly after.
I wish this would be talked about more
Molly V no, her hiatus was because she and Daddy Tang were going through a divorce.
To keep it 100% Nik is the one dragging this out...Dude has problems and needs to get help...He's the type of person you end up filing a restraining order on.
literally. i mean the way he titles his videos now all the time. so obvious ..
I don't give him views anymore...
Exactly
Stephanie, Zach, and Veronica: We want to move on
Nik: *Keeps going anyway*
Stephanie, Zach, and Veronica: So you have chosen death again?
We stan stephanie soo
*Who doesen't?*
I don't. Just checking out Spill's content.
Stephanie is literally the sweetest youtuber I know and I've been watching her since the very beginning...i love her sooo much ...it makes me sad that she has to go through all this😭
nickocado avocado needs to be institutionalised ASAP
daria I couldn’t read this straight while looking a t your profile pic
daria and maybe hopefully become a good person, too
I love spill because she actually gives an UNBIASED opinion on the situation, and highlights the actual *issue*
one thing we all know, he's not getting any collabs.
Zach Choi is now suing Nik because he released those messages without his permission
@@ResiClaireRedfield this is hella entertaining lol
我爱你 unfortunately, he will probably just try to get smaller youtubers on who can’t speak out if he abuses them. :/
@@princessaria like underrated or small mukbangers.
K J he’s already done this to a bunch of small youtubers before, and of course, nobody believed them.
"Plagiarizing tags" is one of the funnier things I've heard in all of this
The sale on her merch was literally just a Boxing Day sale, most shops have them
2020: So can I tal-
2019: I'M NOT DONE YET
yep
......
I'm form 2020 it's not worth it
Why tf would you talk about a persons kitchen like that it’s just weird
Where’s the tea if you’re a chef, I understand being obsessed with nice kitchens. I myself would get all excited about a nice kitchen. But nick.... 😳
I understand loving someone's home decor as I'm like that but it seems like he was more mad that she was more successful than him tbh.
Jealousy....pretty obvious
Where’s the tea Trueee
Could you please cut out Stephanie’s fiancés name. He doesn’t want any information about himself out there. Please respect his privacy and cut his name out.
in case you want an update, they’ve cut and blurred it now (:
I’ve never actually watched stephanies vids or nicks but I am only watching this bc when Spill uploads u know it’s some good tea
His hair line is a "M" which stands for"Manipulator"
I love how there's a disclosure at the beginning of the video while I'm taking sides before the video begins
This aint tea anymore.
Hope court resolves this if needed.
Please re-edit and re-post this video, without STEPHIANCÉ's name and face in the video, he doesn't want his identity out, just like you don't, so please understand...
SPREAD THE WORD!
I mean this kind of argument is like say, "well he robbed the bank, so why can't I?". Try to use that in court and see if you'll win. Another example is if person A posted something then person B posted the same thing knowing it was wrong but think well person A already posted it, so what's the harm? Now person A had a change of heart and removed it, person B now looks like the original poster. This is where the phrase 2 wrongs, dont make a(it) right.
But she blurred his face and Name in this vid
"Tags that belonged to me" ....how?
I’m very late but as someone that was manipulated by my "best friend", he gave me that vibe.
Whoa SHE HIDES HIS NAME TOO. You should probably blur that
I thought her fiancé wanted to keep his name private
Dee Bee same.
seulgi's wifey because she’s not one person she’s a brand and could care less
*He can't have his cake and eat it too. He's about to marry someone who's known by millions. Time to get over it.*
@@uui219 there already married and even if his wife is famous he should still get privacy he wants he doesn't want to be in the spotlight and people should respect that its almost like people coming up to your house
it's censored now.
Maybe don’t include Stephanie’s fiancé’s name, since she doesn’t even say it herself. He’s a private guy and this goes against his wishes.
What’s his name?
@@KarotoThriller Doesn't mean he can't ask for privacy
@@KarotoThriller So you should search him because he's on google?
@@KarotoThriller You're justifying breaking privacy because he is on the internet. Seems like you are defending
@@michellekercy4430 actually it isn’t. Because the knowledge of someone who has a home and the access to the address isn’t available to everyone worldwide
Poor Zach. His words were manipulated to make him look like a bad person, although he had evolved as a person. Nickocado, though, is disgusting. We know from what is now the James Marriott problem, where he virtually s_______ h_______ James, WillNE and Memeulous. There's a quote from a Shakespeare's plays that accurately sum up Nickocado:
"I follow him to follow but myself." Iago, Act 1 Scene 1, _Othello_
His fans still defending him , three other people can’t be wrong
😂😂😂😂😂
@@ilovesamyo wait he has fans ? 🤪
Debayan Basu I guess so 😂🤷🏽♀️
Debayan Basu yes im a big fan 🙋🏾♀️🥰
@@jesussaves5692 you support a monster
Nick is a terrible person, I said what I said 🤷🏽♀️
I don't even know who he is and I can tell he is a terrible person
You’re not wrong
Taylan Rodgers lol
period
He have issues he used to be good person tho
based on how many videos he made about veronica during that situation, it’s like sooo similar time this one. everyone else is moving on but he just KEEPS talking about it and dragging others in it. i think he just loves this stuff lolllll
i never liked this Nickokado avocado at the first place, when he first showed up in tea. till this day he still giving me a bad-person vibes. and all this situation shows that my vibes were right.
This woman- bruh 🤦♀️ he’s so disrespectful. Why do u need to do that? These type of people should be locked away
Army💜
Kim Taehyung 👍💜
My dad was a emotional manipulator and nikado fits the bill perfectly. Shifting the blame. Making them feel in the wrong. Making himself the victim and slight insults to make their self esteem go down causing them to doubt themselves.
I appreciate the way you all approach all of the situations that you all cover. SO well done! ✨
Nick literally won't leave them alone because he keeps banking off of the situation. He's such a disgusting person inside out
You should’ve been more considerate of Stephanie’s fiancé by leaving his name out. You even mentioned that he’s a private person yet you put his actual name in it 🤦🏽♀️
VeggieSnail it’s on google without his consent even if it is public knowledge he didn’t want it to be and we cab at least respect that
VeggieSnail - yeah it’s easy to just google his name but why would any of us want to do that in the first place??.....yet now we all know his name because we watched this video lol. That’s why people are upset.
I've actually not seen his name being mention, I must've skipped that part
Emilija Jovanović she took it out
Something I just realized is that you wait for everything to come out before making informative videos about what's going on. I respect that.
and the thing about you sharing his name is that it is not a "commonly" heard Chinese name, in fact I have never heard it personally which is all the more reason to re-edit and re-upload for his sake.....
I was today years old when I found out Stephanie’s fiancés name
I honestly still don't know his name and I've probably heard is plenty of time.
@@notimportant2072 everyone knows his name is stephiance duh! lol
Why did i think his name was Daniel ? 💀
@@notimportant2072 he doesn't want his name released, spill released his name without his permission
Nope. His real name is stephiance. Lets keep it at that
I'm generally a 'wait and get the information from everyone before making a judgement' kind of gal, but Nick gives me power-heebie jeebies and I made my mind up after part one - even with his rebuttal. I think he's genuinely scary.
2020: Hello~ Everyo-
2019: *Looks at 2020 drinking tea*
Sis, I ain’t done yet.
It’s like Nick’s trying to be friends with Stephanie and then getting Stephanie’s *-personal information-* and then *-manipulate-* her.
I know this is off topic but Stephanie looks pretty in every picture
I've never found a bigger simp than you bruh
@@Jura_aep there not a simp they just wanna say that she looks pretty and plus you really don't know what a simp is go resurch it
@@popartist6214 ok
okay hold on, I just noticed the subtitles. How'd yall know what Stephiance's name is? And why is it used in the subtitles?
Sis , SUE him already !
You had the opportunity say "Sis , SOO him already!" but you didn't 😢
Han-Han Bui I’m sorry but I’m so upset, all these questions about security, cameras, equipment, doors, fences ! He is SHADY af
Both Stephanie and Zach are sueing him he is over
lili chan this will hopefully teach him a lesson
😂😂😂😂
Please edit out Steph’s fiancé’s name. I know it’s only his first name, but still, he values his privacy very much and would not approve of this.
it's that "water weight" guys. That's why he's acting up
Lol
The obvious about Stephanie is, she is mature, far far far more mature than Nick. Nick 's deficiency in maturity is grossly poor. Also, Stephanie is smart, intellectually, smart in her maturity, and smart with knowing Nick was a snake and con all along, still gave him a chance, knowing better. She is smart, knowing how to TAKE up for herself w/the truth. She exhibits true self respect and respect for others. She is strong in many ways. I personally think she is a kind, decent person that wants peace in her home, not chaos and not toxic Nicks!
You shouldn't have mentioned Stephiance's name, you yourself said he liked his privacy. That wasn't very respectful....
Stephiance can contact the video creators on his own, don’t worry about it too much.
Even a therapist can’t help Nik 😂😂
I always felt crazy in the past dealing with manipulative people in my life and it caused a lot of life altering problems for me. It’s great that now there are platforms bringing light to this situation to make others aware that there are actually people like this in the world and to look out for the signs.
"When he said this phrase"
"Welcome to all goods ad"
Me: perfect timing