Ok, OMG! This video is completely heartwarming for anyone who knows what unloading a suitcase coming from Africa is like. You guys have been completely spoiled by your dad. I don’t even know where to start 😂. First off, I’m currently using the exact yellow African bath sponge as your dad’s. Kareem looks super handsome in the thobe! Kenton turned Hausa quick 😂. Mariam looks sooooo beautiful in her boubou. I can’t wait to see you wearing your stuff. He even brought the leather cushions!! I know you’ll love having that in your home. When he said “kina lafiya” to Mariam, I wanted her to say “lafiya lau” so bad. That would have made his day 😂. You can tell he’s so happy to see you, and it’s amazing that he apparently still holds your mom dear in his heart. Uff, too much to write. Habiba, thank you for sharing this with us. Can you tell I’m a little happy for you all. Bless you guys.
@SentimentalCrab, your comment is beautiful. The vlog and your comment warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. I know how precious daughters are to their dad's. I lost mine 15 years ago. I am a Nigerian too. Born in Jos but, from the South West. I can still speak Hausa, kadan kadan but, understand it to a certain degree. You're blessed, my sisters.
Your daddy is so sweet. He has a good heart. Meeting you after so long yet he feels so comfortable and at home with everyone. God bless you all in Jesus name
I read your comment during the first two minutes and it brought tears to my eyes I litrary had to stop the video...God bless you..this is the most sencer and beautiful words...peace💕✌🌹
If you're Nigerian....you know that all this shopping your daddy did means a million "i love yous"..... esp for their generation. Gosh I am really happy he got this chance.
A Nigerian man will not tell their kids they love them. But when they buy something for you no matter how inexpensive such is; they're showing their love for you. Just like my dad he will never say he loves you but he will do everything you ask of him... Miss my dad of blessed memory
My dad is Igbo but my mom is Efik, I was born in Sokoto state. My bestie is Hausa, Idris by name. When you meet educated and civilized Hausas you'd love them. They're so sociable and cool,if only all our Hausas and Muslim brothers would emulate this... Nigeria will be a beautiful place worthy of emulation. I love Hausas! Allah ya bamu zaman Lafiya da juna.❤❤❤
Omg! He packed all those for you guys!!! He's an amazing father . His heart is full of pride and joy .and he was more estactic when your daughter wore the African print . The pure joy!
Your father really loves you, from what I can see, I mean I know a father who never admitted his wrong or ever bought gifts in any way. Your father was really showing he missed you and wanted you to amend your relationship. Not many African fathers are able to do this believe me.
This was so beautiful. I love how calm your dad speaks. So many gifts from back home. Love the african clothes he brought. How thoughtful of him to bring some for your mom.
Great reunion with your Dad. I hope my daughter will meet her Nigerian Dad someday. He left when she was barely 4 months.God has been faithful in raising her.
@@charlesjohn9945 Please, i'm the wearer of the shoe. i will not lie (to whose benefit?). I left it in God's hands and only he can fill the void in my childs life.I'm just human to understand somethings but i believe one day it will make sense. Well, yes he walked away.
For Someone like me, that also have Hausa as part of me, been born and raise in wonderful city of Kano. I can see that you daddy, is widely travel Man, and he have typical Northern Nigeria, heart of Gold. With all the gift, he brought from Nigeria. May God blessed, your beautiful family.
Eniola Apata missed the answer when asked dad where the gold came from. I recall that some Muslims make it a point to get gold when they go to Haj and become Alhaji.
Beautifull i really love this, so proud to be Nigeria no matter wat going on and i know God will bring back the best in Nigeria and in Afrika all. One Lv
This is a fantastic video. Your husband is an amazing man on how you guys brought up your children. I thought your children would’ve disliked his gifts, instead, they’ll love it and quickly put it on. Nice family.
U look like a beautiful family may God bless u, u don't need a good fortune cat, u just need Jesus, read the bible u will get joy n find peace ask the lord to direct u n he will
Even as a stranger, I can see that this man loves his daughter soooo much and is overjoyed to see his son-in-law and grandchildren. Nigerian men, and especially Hausa men, are generally not socialised to express emotion and you can see the love emanating from him. Habiba is clearly a daughter in a million and an awesome lady. God bless you for doing this. I'm surprised at myself - I'm trying not to cry!
You are such a good person for welcoming your father back into your life. It is also obvious that your father is a good person, flawed and trying to make amends. What I found interesting is that your father was younger when you left than you are now. It is true that in some parts of Northern Nigeria (in the past), firstborns did not usually have a relationship with their mothers. I wonder what effects that had on subsequent emotional relationships of the firstborn. I can understand your mother's hurt.
What a beautiful man your father is...... I loved this video. Absolutely priceless your fathers love is. Gorgeous gifts for everyone, I love Nigerians.
Maryam, kina nan lafiya? Daddy's little girl!! I love the way he held your hands and you both were walking and God knows the joy you both had. So happy for you Habiba!!
Your dad is such a distinguished gentleman. He brings "Coming To America"to mind. Those gifts are so beautiful and he brought something for everyone including my namesake. Thanks for explaining why he's not staying at your home (I was wondering). I am looking forward to part 2. I enjoyed this video!
U see he still loves his wife. This is a good father. I wish he lives long to see his great grands. He went on a shopping spree for his daughter and grand kids. Ohhh why are families seperated? Why???
I am from southern Nigeria, a Yoruba...but I must say that hausas are down-to-earth humans. They are simple, generous and straightforward people... Baba(your dad) is a good example.
Wow he bought you 23 carat GOLD NECKLACE and bearing in mind the prices of gold is sky high, he really spend serious money in gifts to show his gratitude. Life is too short to carry in grudges. He is handsome and very regal looking man,
I am from sokoto and I know your father's family very well. In fact, I believe we are related. I have heard many stories about your family and how you left and no one heard from you again. I am so happy to have come across this video. All the best! :)
I really love this. Wow, he spent a lot of money shopping for you guys. That's our fathers' way of making it up to us. I schooled in the North, so I understand your culture well. I left my dad too in similar circumstances and didn't see him for over 20 years before he passed. I didn't speak to him for many years, but we eventually reconnected and he tried hard to repair our relationship, even begged me to come home to visit, but I couldn't forget the hurt and trauma he caused. I was too far gone to care that people evolve. I don't blame your mom or dad for their decisions. One was a slave to tradition and one was a slave to emotion. God give us the wisdom to not be bound by either and to make right decision at the right time. God bless you and your family!
Wow u made me miss my dad. We lost him when I was 12 and am almost 50 now. So pls take moment as gift and never for granted. Your video makes me smile all through
Love love! I am from Africa and this is like dejavu when folks come to visit us. Love the Hausa Girl outfit. Lovely family! People should know that we Africans ar educated, your dad's English is impeccable and he is an author too!
Quite impressive, I couldn't stop smiling all through while watching this video. As a filmmaker, we have a lot in common, I felt really emotionally connected. The Christmas card you sent to your dad was signed on my birthday, when I turned 18 (2 years older than you, I believe) and the same year I finished my secondary school. I am an Igbo and a christian, who grew up among Hausas in Cameroon and I speak fluent Hausa. I really have a huge amount of respect to your dad, seeing him showing you that well preserved Christmas card, as a Northern Nigerian muslim, wow! Respect! Thats how we should all see and treat religion. I hope he enjoyed his visit. Wish him well for me and thank you and your lovely family for sharing this fantastic video. Looking forward to see Miriam's directed movie or documentary in the near feature stay blessed.
Watching this made me emotional. My Dad also had a rich past and was very kind with gifts. Also had similar mannerisms with your Dad but sadly he passed last year at 76yrs. Around this age, all they have to give is love and just want to see you happy. My Dad insisted on paying the first proper fees of my kids and would often gift my siblings large cash sums and we had no choice but to accept them to avoid a quarrel. I hardly ever comment on TH-cam videos but was moved to do so. Shalom Sister and thanks for sharing your experience.
There was a scene of your dad and you smiling at Maryam, like identical twins, you both smile the same. I love the relationship, one of the beauties of life is forgiveness, your relationship with your dad is great and can only get better
I am Nigerian Young Dad, watching this with my Son and wife makes me feel special. I saw the looks on their faces and i know this video makes them appreciate me more Because they now understand what it takes for a Nigerian to travel so far to to live abroad. Thanks for sharing your story. We are proud of you.
OMG I am such a fan of yours ! Little sister in my head and fellow Nigerian American queen!- in Medicine, Like I am so flattered you watched my video!!!! Thank you for your kind words!
@@Kenton-Habiba omg!! I can't believe you replied. I was literally just sharing your video with my husband when I saw the notification of your comment. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. My day is made! I'm binge-watching all your videos tonight lol. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You're doing an amazing job!!
Wow! Absolutely touching I can feel the LOVE. I’m a Nigerian, a Yoruba but still I can relate to the Hausa culture as very caring. Blood is thicker than water as they say, so hold on tight and pls don’t let go.
You guys better appreciate those clothes and put them on with pride! they are damn expensive, He’s a proud man and definitely value his family!!! Bless him, I wish my Dad is still alive to visit me here. He doesn’t even need to bring any gifts😀! I won’t let him go back.... I miss him real bad. I’m sure my children will do too.
Priceless moment between father n daughter. I so much admire the dad, he’s such a gentleman. You can tell he’s a proper academic. God bless your family; live long baba
What a beautiful reunion ! I watched your story first ! Then I watched your dad at your home seeing your mom ! This one is a tear jerker , He came with so many gifts . Peace and Blessings to your family
It was touching to see you holding hands with your father. Maybe there would be less bitter and unforgiving people in the world if they wouldn't hold onto past hurt or disappointments from parents.
You have a warm, wonderful loving father, he reminds me of my dad. He brought a whole suitcase full of gifts. Watching your video made me smile and proud to be Hausa, love the way Baba said “bude wanan” and you said bude means open.😍 love you and your family. Habiba is a beautiful name💕 Masha Allah, that my mum’s name. Bless her soul.
Am happy you still have connection and remembrance of your Hausa and Nigerian heritage. I was raised in Nigeria with my Dad living a big city away and just had to see him most times on holidays; till date I still feel that my life missed him all along, and now much more since his passing 4years. Now a 37years old man, having lived the past 9years away from Nigeria, your video of your father's reunion tells me of everything am wishing right now to be experiencing with him and I was just lusting(not sexually tho) that he was my father as am watching your video, I wanna say you're blessed and am happy for you and your family. For a man not having their Dad around as much as possible hurts their soul more subconsciously than anything. I feel like adopting a Dad right now for real. Cheers Sis.
Subhanallah. Your dad must really love your mum and your family. He must have spent more than $5000 on your shopping. Trust me , I know cos I am a Nigerian. That gold alone costs up to $3k. Cherish them and the giver. I love your cheerful heart, and you have a lovely family.
@@avyarima you guys are more interested in the value than what actually happened. She missed a relationship with her father, he tried to to express his regret by lavishing them with gifts, if she's still bitter it's okay, it's a process
Sacajewi Diamond Dear sister, I am not sure why you are attacking me using stereotypes. All I saw in those kids were some African values I can relate to. They can be American and still have multiple identities. Please be nice!
Your dad is from northern Nigeria. An Arewa man. Hausa or Fulani. Most likely Hausa. I am a Yoruba man from the South west. He definitely loves you and showered you and your family with gifts
no you cant tell if you dont know him personaly..I know african people are v generous and helpful..for sure he would spent every penny he had gor his beloved family and even his family relatives friends and even neighbours share him this good time by giving money as gifts and may be he borrow some money as well..so that is
Nigerians sha! Disappoint us for once, please. You don't know him personally to conclude that he is a very rich man. That you heard him say he or his father travelled abroad is not enough. Fish sellers send there children abroad. We don't want to know if he is rich or not, let's just enjoy the reunion.
I’ve honestly watched these videos multiple times now... don’t know why I just feel so connected to this story.. as I am a Hausa girl who was born and raised in England, I know exactly what the cultural and religious differences are. And for those reasons, along with observing how very Hausa ur dad is... I am just drawn to this story! It is wonderful that we have TH-cam today to see these things, as even with Hausa tradition, this is very much out of the norm to publish your private personal life to the world. I however am so here for it and I wish you all happiness! Anyway well done Habiba. And I’ll just say this about your father... unfortunately as Hausa’s sometimes we are victims of our environment and your dad was no exception. I also struggle with this sometimes and I can very much relate to him/you. Sometimes it can feel like an identity crisis cuz of all the cultural contrasts! He definitely loves you guys so much. His effort did not go unnoticed. Like he sat on the table, chatting to y’all at dinner, bought you so many gifts! He did the classic traditional Hausa thing of giving his grandchildren money. My grandparents always did this to me. It’s our culture, and no matter how small the amount I was taught it’s actually considered rude not to accept the money. Your dad definitely just needed to be less traditional, and more liberal and he would have absolutely had a happy life with your mum. Unfortunately in northern Nigeria, sometimes we don’t even have a choice and your dad probably didn’t have the option to come with you guys. I can imagine living in sokoto for a British Jamaican can’t have been easy at all, and I definitely understand what your mum may have endured. She wouldn’t have had any freedom and it would have been so stifling for her. In the 21st century now, things have improved and it is less so. These videos did really warm my heart however and I hope you visit Nigeria one day with your children. They will be incredibly welcome by everyone, and it will also be an eye opening experience for them, something that will make them much more rounded adults! Going to Nigeria and understanding the differences etc had shaped me to be who I am today, and I must say I am proud of who I am and proud to be both Hausa and western! Thank you for sharing your life with us. Mun Gode, Allah ya muku albarka. 😇
Also, Kenton is a great man!! I loooove your multiculturalism and you are the epitome of a globalised world! Hausa mixed with Jamaican and Asian and white? Amazing, rare and beautiful cocktail! Mariam is gorgeous I like her more and more every time I watch your videos. She’s a classic 16 year old lol
Waoooo Mariam looks so very beautiful in those African clothes, even your son & hubby too looks very great in those African wears. Happy & lovely to see grandpa, father inlaw & most of all your handsome tall father. God Almighty bless u all. Again big congratulations seeing grandpa, inlaw and father
This is a true and typical Nigerian father. We pride in taking good care of our children and wives by giving them best possible gifts we can afford. A typical Nigerian father may not easily tell his children I love you by words but will practically express it by special gifts and planning for their future
I am so happy for you! I too have not seen my Igbo father in over 47 years or more. I was too young to remember more than he was called, Obie and traveled with 2 guards. I am 55 years old, and love him dearly! Anyone honestly able to trace any elders who may have lost track of a daughter born in December of 1963, please reply.
Your dad is one of the kindness people on earth. He is super nice. Your children are lucky to have such a kind hearted grand father. He has a giving heart too.
Oh and your children's pride wearing their finest clothes and standing beside their grandfather beaming with pride was everything. Kenton is a keeper. There is much love in your family.
One can see the family resemblance. What a great reunion. Love how your husband and the kids are so receptive even though they've never met him before. What a mix of cultures.
I really hope your mom took the gifts, as a Nigerian, i know a lot of care went into picking those out. Loving the videos by the way. Such a wholesome video.
Ok, OMG! This video is completely heartwarming for anyone who knows what unloading a suitcase coming from Africa is like. You guys have been completely spoiled by your dad. I don’t even know where to start 😂. First off, I’m currently using the exact yellow African bath sponge as your dad’s. Kareem looks super handsome in the thobe! Kenton turned Hausa quick 😂. Mariam looks sooooo beautiful in her boubou. I can’t wait to see you wearing your stuff. He even brought the leather cushions!! I know you’ll love having that in your home.
When he said “kina lafiya” to Mariam, I wanted her to say “lafiya lau” so bad. That would have made his day 😂. You can tell he’s so happy to see you, and it’s amazing that he apparently still holds your mom dear in his heart. Uff, too much to write. Habiba, thank you for sharing this with us. Can you tell I’m a little happy for you all. Bless you guys.
SentimentalCrab thanks for mentioning what he said to mariam! i was trying to figure it out!
@SentimentalCrab, your comment is beautiful. The vlog and your comment warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. I know how precious daughters are to their dad's. I lost mine 15 years ago. I am a Nigerian too. Born in Jos but, from the South West. I can still speak Hausa, kadan kadan but, understand it to a certain degree. You're blessed, my sisters.
SentimentalCrab, what sweet words!
Your daddy is so sweet. He has a good heart. Meeting you after so long yet he feels so comfortable and at home with everyone. God bless you all in Jesus name
I read your comment during the first two minutes and it brought tears to my eyes I litrary had to stop the video...God bless you..this is the most sencer and beautiful words...peace💕✌🌹
Awww... He brought all these gifts for his children and didn't pack any clothes for himself! 😭... Who's cutting onions here... 😢💕💕 Too beautiful!
This video brought tears to my eyes (the part he brought out the letter you gave him when you were still 16) that’s pure father’s love
Life with Mope a she b🚃🚊🚀🚞🚡
This is really lovely and i wish you guys well
If you're Nigerian....you know that all this shopping your daddy did means a million "i love yous"..... esp for their generation. Gosh I am really happy he got this chance.
Anyị masi ndị ha bụ
Ndị oshi na ama
Tommeh Tochukwu lol, wow
Tommeh Tochukwu you said something about thief right?
This is so sweet
A Nigerian man will not tell their kids they love them. But when they buy something for you no matter how inexpensive such is; they're showing their love for you.
Just like my dad he will never say he loves you but he will do everything you ask of him... Miss my dad of blessed memory
Actions speaks louder than words.
Actually, it's un-Nigerian and sounds awkward.
Not only Nigerians I think
Not really my a dad does
That's true, they hardly say I love you. Only a few, maybe 3 quoter out of 10. But they know how to show love by their actions.
My dad is Igbo but my mom is Efik, I was born in Sokoto state. My bestie is Hausa, Idris by name. When you meet educated and civilized Hausas you'd love them. They're so sociable and cool,if only all our Hausas and Muslim brothers would emulate this... Nigeria will be a beautiful place worthy of emulation. I love Hausas! Allah ya bamu zaman Lafiya da juna.❤❤❤
So sweet thank you!
So you are a Fulani by race.
Omg! He packed all those for you guys!!! He's an amazing father . His heart is full of pride and joy .and he was more estactic when your daughter wore the African print . The pure joy!
Your video touched my heart such a beautiful reunion after 25 years. He must be a loving and caring daddy. God Bless you all.
I am nigerian....and i love this...Your pops is a true HAUSA MAN!!!! # naija
WOW!!!! Totally awesome. He's so charming, full of intellect and that Nigerian "Class"
Your father really loves you, from what I can see, I mean I know a father who never admitted his wrong or ever bought gifts in any way. Your father was really showing he missed you and wanted you to amend your relationship. Not many African fathers are able to do this believe me.
Your dad is so sweet and well educated. You and your family are also lovely, well brought up.
From every inch, he is a lovely father. God bless him and you too.
I can tell that your dad loves you and very proud of you
This was so beautiful. I love how calm your dad speaks. So many gifts from back home. Love the african clothes he brought. How thoughtful of him to bring some for your mom.
Great reunion with your Dad. I hope my daughter will meet her Nigerian Dad someday. He left when she was barely 4 months.God has been faithful in raising her.
Kasit
I get sad when I read that a man abandon his child.😢
If you know his name and surname you can still search for him or his family online.
@iamkrazybonez yes he did. we are okay since God has held our hands and leads the way.
@@JourneywithKasitti are you sure he abandoned the baby or you asked him to go and you took the baby
@@charlesjohn9945 Please, i'm the wearer of the shoe. i will not lie (to whose benefit?). I left it in God's hands and only he can fill the void in my childs life.I'm just human to understand somethings but i believe one day it will make sense. Well, yes he walked away.
He was so exited to come, see all the gifts he didn't even bring clothes for himself oh dear. May God continue to bless our parents🙏
amehimable Amiin
For Someone like me, that also have Hausa as part of me, been born and raise in wonderful city of Kano. I can see that you daddy, is widely travel Man, and he have typical Northern Nigeria, heart of Gold. With all the gift, he brought from Nigeria. May God blessed, your beautiful family.
Eniola Apata missed the answer when asked dad where the gold came from. I recall that some Muslims make it a point to get gold when they go to Haj and become Alhaji.
Beautifull i really love this, so proud to be Nigeria no matter wat going on and i know God will bring back the best in Nigeria and in Afrika all. One Lv
The way you welcome and treat your dad at the airport show you are woman with total respect and discipline .from The Gambia
This is a fantastic video. Your husband is an amazing man on how you guys brought up your children. I thought your children would’ve disliked his gifts, instead, they’ll love it and quickly put it on. Nice family.
U look like a beautiful family may God bless u, u don't need a good fortune cat, u just need Jesus, read the bible u will get joy n find peace ask the lord to direct u n he will
Wow. Hes indeed a loving father. Those gifts sure cost a fortune... am Nigerian and i can tell you that for free. Please take good care of him.
Those gifts are quite expensive. He is a good Father. May God grant Him long life. Amen
Amen and Amen
She looks just like her dad. Beautiful.
Your father reminds me of my father anytime he visits from Nigeria.There are gifts for everyone.
Even as a stranger, I can see that this man loves his daughter soooo much and is overjoyed to see his son-in-law and grandchildren. Nigerian men, and especially Hausa men, are generally not socialised to express emotion and you can see the love emanating from him. Habiba is clearly a daughter in a million and an awesome lady. God bless you for doing this. I'm surprised at myself - I'm trying not to cry!
Papa is so tall, that's where the kids got it from especially the grand son, beautiful video
Well they're kinda decently taller in the northern part of Nigeria
I don't know if it's just me, but I have this feeling that your mum still means a lot to your father.
Rose Faith Odack why only mum?? Both parents
Thabani Maloba Ncube did you read her comment properly ?
Soraya G Right! What is wrong with people! They just read or lesson to react. not to comprehend
@@thabanimalobancube4771 WTF is wrong with you
Soraya G I apologise my sister have realised my mistake sorry about that
I love your dad. He bought all this goodies
And the high hand quality mashalah God bless him
Just remind me my dad back home
You are such a good person for welcoming your father back into your life. It is also obvious that your father is a good person, flawed and trying to make amends. What I found interesting is that your father was younger when you left than you are now. It is true that in some parts of Northern Nigeria (in the past), firstborns did not usually have a relationship with their mothers. I wonder what effects that had on subsequent emotional relationships of the firstborn. I can understand your mother's hurt.
What a beautiful man your father is...... I loved this video. Absolutely priceless your fathers love is. Gorgeous gifts for everyone, I love Nigerians.
Maryam, kina nan lafiya? Daddy's little girl!! I love the way he held your hands and you both were walking and God knows the joy you both had. So happy for you Habiba!!
Your dad is such a distinguished gentleman. He brings "Coming To America"to mind. Those gifts are so beautiful and he brought something for everyone including my namesake. Thanks for explaining why he's not staying at your home (I was wondering). I am looking forward to part 2. I enjoyed this video!
This is so beautiful ❤ I am from the North of Nigeria and I'm here in the US, gosh I miss my Dad...I'm happy you reunited with your Dad..
U see he still loves his wife. This is a good father. I wish he lives long to see his great grands. He went on a shopping spree for his daughter and grand kids. Ohhh why are families seperated? Why???
Why?? Why can't they just find a common ground 😭😭
you are right
I am from southern Nigeria, a Yoruba...but I must say that hausas are down-to-earth humans. They are simple, generous and straightforward people... Baba(your dad) is a good example.
Thank you
James Abiye, that is really very kind of you....I believe all Nigerian are kind and generous people...Habiba and her family are simply remarkable!!!
Wao that was a beautiful moment there when your dad held your hands like his lttle girl.
Wow he bought you 23 carat GOLD NECKLACE and bearing in mind the prices of gold is sky high, he really spend serious money in gifts to show his gratitude. Life is too short to carry in grudges. He is handsome and very regal looking man,
I am from sokoto and I know your father's family very well. In fact, I believe we are related. I have heard many stories about your family and how you left and no one heard from you again. I am so happy to have come across this video. All the best! :)
He’s definitely one of the best dad in the world 👍🏽
Tell us how she left
I am curious what it is you heard about us leaving or how we left?
Not sure why but I cried a wee bit. I pray for more positives in the future.
OMG grandad is so organised
And sweet
He kept all baby pics
ALLAH BLESS YOU GRANDAD
Pimple shoes for men
Amin! He is a good human.
Sooo heart warming! ‘watched your video on how you left Nigeria and I’m so happy that you reunited with your dad; beautiful to watch🙏
I really love this. Wow, he spent a lot of money shopping for you guys. That's our fathers' way of making it up to us. I schooled in the North, so I understand your culture well. I left my dad too in similar circumstances and didn't see him for over 20 years before he passed. I didn't speak to him for many years, but we eventually reconnected and he tried hard to repair our relationship, even begged me to come home to visit, but I couldn't forget the hurt and trauma he caused. I was too far gone to care that people evolve. I don't blame your mom or dad for their decisions. One was a slave to tradition and one was a slave to emotion. God give us the wisdom to not be bound by either and to make right decision at the right time. God bless you and your family!
Your comment is so spot on. Full of wisdom!
Thank you for watching, your wisdom and kind words !
Yes, that is how it goes sometimes. You're not alone.
God bless you too for this comment. The best
Lovely and well-written comment. Very emotional watching this video; miss my dad. I hope the grandchildren savor time and memories with their gramps.
Wow he even brought you gold.true Hausa man❤️
I love this so much howI wish my father was alive.i love you dsf
Wow u made me miss my dad. We lost him when I was 12 and am almost 50 now. So pls take moment as gift and never for granted. Your video makes me smile all through
Love love! I am from Africa and this is like dejavu when folks come to visit us. Love the Hausa Girl outfit. Lovely family! People should know that we Africans ar educated, your dad's English is impeccable and he is an author too!
A very learned man you are blessed to have him as your dad despite the distance and separation...
Brought tears to my eyes! When I started fallowing you years ago I prayed and hoped for this day. Glad to see family reunited!
Quite impressive, I couldn't stop smiling all through while watching this video. As a filmmaker, we have a lot in common, I felt really emotionally connected. The Christmas card you sent to your dad was signed on my birthday, when I turned 18 (2 years older than you, I believe) and the same year I finished my secondary school. I am an Igbo and a christian, who grew up among Hausas in Cameroon and I speak fluent Hausa. I really have a huge amount of respect to your dad, seeing him showing you that well preserved Christmas card, as a Northern Nigerian muslim, wow! Respect! Thats how we should all see and treat religion. I hope he enjoyed his visit. Wish him well for me and thank you and your lovely family for sharing this fantastic video. Looking forward to see Miriam's directed movie or documentary in the near feature stay blessed.
Ikr!!!... so rare to see that from northerners muslims. I love to see it.
Your father is a great and large hearted man
Watching this made me emotional. My Dad also had a rich past and was very kind with gifts. Also had similar mannerisms with your Dad but sadly he passed last year at 76yrs. Around this age, all they have to give is love and just want to see you happy. My Dad insisted on paying the first proper fees of my kids and would often gift my siblings large cash sums and we had no choice but to accept them to avoid a quarrel. I hardly ever comment on TH-cam videos but was moved to do so. Shalom Sister and thanks for sharing your experience.
There was a scene of your dad and you smiling at Maryam, like identical twins, you both smile the same. I love the relationship, one of the beauties of life is forgiveness, your relationship with your dad is great and can only get better
I am Nigerian Young Dad, watching this with my Son and wife makes me feel special. I saw the looks on their faces and i know this video makes them appreciate me more Because they now understand what it takes for a Nigerian to travel so far to to live abroad. Thanks for sharing your story. We are proud of you.
Such a lovely family ❤️ ..you have your dad’s smile and dimples..i was so nervous and excited for you ..i could feel the anticipation and excitement
How beautiful, your father filled his suitcase with gifts for you his daughter, family and grandchildren. BEAUTIFUL 💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This video brought tears to my eyes. Glad you amended your relationship with your dad.
OMG I am such a fan of yours ! Little sister in my head and fellow Nigerian American queen!- in Medicine, Like I am so flattered you watched my video!!!! Thank you for your kind words!
@@Kenton-Habiba omg!! I can't believe you replied. I was literally just sharing your video with my husband when I saw the notification of your comment. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. My day is made! I'm binge-watching all your videos tonight lol. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You're doing an amazing job!!
@@oluchi_assumani doing a happy dance!
Wow! Absolutely touching I can feel the LOVE. I’m a Nigerian, a Yoruba but still I can relate to the Hausa culture as very caring. Blood is thicker than water as they say, so hold on tight and pls don’t let go.
You guys better appreciate those clothes and put them on with pride! they are damn expensive, He’s a proud man and definitely value his family!!! Bless him, I wish my Dad is still alive to visit me here. He doesn’t even need to bring any gifts😀! I won’t let him go back.... I miss him real bad. I’m sure my children will do too.
Kryptoneyo Okogbe. He is a generous man. And very thoughtful coming with loads of gifts 🎁. God bless him. Nigerians don’t visit empty handed.
You just made me cry...I miss my dad real bad
He is in a good place Oko..
Sending you hugs
Omolabake Agunbiade 💙
Why being rude? Just can't appreciate without any poor judgment.
Priceless moment between father n daughter. I so much admire the dad, he’s such a gentleman. You can tell he’s a proper academic. God bless your family; live long baba
I cried watching this yesterday.. it is a beautiful story.. your mom is a strong women
she is, and i think he secretly admires her for her courage. things would have turned out differently.
What a lovely father you have here, he didn't even bring much cloth for himself, all he has in his bag were all for you and his grand children.
What a beautiful reunion ! I watched your story first ! Then I watched your dad at your home seeing your mom ! This one is a tear jerker , He came with so many gifts . Peace and Blessings to your family
Thank you for watching!
The joy of father and daughter, blood will always be thicker than water. This video just made my day.
You’re almost 50? Wow!!! Black don’t crack for real.
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Yeah, thank God we don't age that fast.
It was touching to see you holding hands with your father. Maybe there would be less bitter and unforgiving people in the world if they wouldn't hold onto past hurt or disappointments from parents.
You have a warm, wonderful loving father, he reminds me of my dad. He brought a whole suitcase full of gifts. Watching your video made me smile and proud to be Hausa, love the way Baba said “bude wanan” and you said bude means open.😍 love you and your family. Habiba is a beautiful name💕 Masha Allah, that my mum’s name. Bless her soul.
Am happy you still have connection and remembrance of your Hausa and Nigerian heritage. I was raised in Nigeria with my Dad living a big city away and just had to see him most times on holidays; till date I still feel that my life missed him all along, and now much more since his passing 4years. Now a 37years old man, having lived the past 9years away from Nigeria, your video of your father's reunion tells me of everything am wishing right now to be experiencing with him and I was just lusting(not sexually tho) that he was my father as am watching your video, I wanna say you're blessed and am happy for you and your family. For a man not having their Dad around as much as possible hurts their soul more subconsciously than anything. I feel like adopting a Dad right now for real. Cheers Sis.
Masha Allah such a beautiful family hausa people are very nice and for giving love my country
He looked so proud watching his grandson put on his clothes... this is really nice! Peace and blessings
So happy that I stumbled upon your channel. I love this reunion with your father.You’ve taught me about forgiveness and inner peace!
Thank you Sarah! welcome to the family
Subhanallah. Your dad must really love your mum and your family. He must have spent more than $5000 on your shopping. Trust me , I know cos I am a Nigerian. That gold alone costs up to $3k. Cherish them and the giver. I love your cheerful heart, and you have a lovely family.
Shukurat Dabiri that gold melt my heart
a ha ha ha and she doesn't seem to know the value....lol
Avala she probably knew
That's why she was asking where it was made.
Shukurat Dabiri
@@avyarima you guys are more interested in the value than what actually happened. She missed a relationship with her father, he tried to to express his regret by lavishing them with gifts, if she's still bitter it's okay, it's a process
Your children are very polite with good mannerisms. I see the African education. Nice Job from you.
He wasn't around for 30 years - what nice job by him? It's the mother who they were with that did the nice job.
I think Bruce is complementing Habiba. Not her father.
Sacajewi Diamond Dear sister, I am not sure why you are attacking me using stereotypes. All I saw in those kids were some African values I can relate to. They can be American and still have multiple identities. Please be nice!
Sacajewi Diamond why are you sounding like a broken china plate, you can’t deny them their African heritage
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Wow! So amazing, after 30years to get to meet and learn of your culture, that’s so beautiful, God Bless
Your dad is from northern Nigeria. An Arewa man. Hausa or Fulani. Most likely Hausa. I am a Yoruba man from the South west. He definitely loves you and showered you and your family with gifts
I’m Nigerian and I can tell you that man is a very rich man from Nigeria
Olusoji Omosehin Enlighten us, how?
Nicholas, the gifts he bought are good quality and expensive, the golden necklace set is very expensive and exotic too.
no you cant tell if you dont know him personaly..I know african people are v generous and helpful..for sure he would spent every penny he had gor his beloved family and even his family relatives friends and even neighbours share him this good time by giving money as gifts and may be he borrow some money as well..so that is
Nigerians sha! Disappoint us for once, please. You don't know him personally to conclude that he is a very rich man. That you heard him say he or his father travelled abroad is not enough. Fish sellers send there children abroad. We don't want to know if he is rich or not, let's just enjoy the reunion.
@@greatexpectations9446 you can't know that either, I side with the first theory
Your dad went crazy with the buying. How lovely!!! wow. Beautiful family Habiba.
Nigerian nature
@@royroyroy7293 I'm tellin u!
I’ve honestly watched these videos multiple times now... don’t know why I just feel so connected to this story.. as I am a Hausa girl who was born and raised in England, I know exactly what the cultural and religious differences are. And for those reasons, along with observing how very Hausa ur dad is... I am just drawn to this story! It is wonderful that we have TH-cam today to see these things, as even with Hausa tradition, this is very much out of the norm to publish your private personal life to the world. I however am so here for it and I wish you all happiness! Anyway well done Habiba. And I’ll just say this about your father... unfortunately as Hausa’s sometimes we are victims of our environment and your dad was no exception. I also struggle with this sometimes and I can very much relate to him/you. Sometimes it can feel like an identity crisis cuz of all the cultural contrasts! He definitely loves you guys so much. His effort did not go unnoticed. Like he sat on the table, chatting to y’all at dinner, bought you so many gifts! He did the classic traditional Hausa thing of giving his grandchildren money. My grandparents always did this to me. It’s our culture, and no matter how small the amount I was taught it’s actually considered rude not to accept the money. Your dad definitely just needed to be less traditional, and more liberal and he would have absolutely had a happy life with your mum. Unfortunately in northern Nigeria, sometimes we don’t even have a choice and your dad probably didn’t have the option to come with you guys. I can imagine living in sokoto for a British Jamaican can’t have been easy at all, and I definitely understand what your mum may have endured. She wouldn’t have had any freedom and it would have been so stifling for her. In the 21st century now, things have improved and it is less so. These videos did really warm my heart however and I hope you visit Nigeria one day with your children. They will be incredibly welcome by everyone, and it will also be an eye opening experience for them, something that will make them much more rounded adults! Going to Nigeria and understanding the differences etc had shaped me to be who I am today, and I must say I am proud of who I am and proud to be both Hausa and western! Thank you for sharing your life with us. Mun Gode, Allah ya muku albarka. 😇
Also, Kenton is a great man!! I loooove your multiculturalism and you are the epitome of a globalised world! Hausa mixed with Jamaican and Asian and white? Amazing, rare and beautiful cocktail! Mariam is gorgeous I like her more and more every time I watch your videos. She’s a classic 16 year old lol
This is so heart warming!!! I love it!! I'm crying of happiness
Wow after so many years, he still thinks of everyone. He is a good man. God bless you bringing your dad back again.
Such wonderful moments that you chose to share with us. Your daughter looks so beautiful in the traditional clothing!
I wish I could hold hands with my father again. To be an adult and still have your parents is a blessing.
Waoooo Mariam looks so very beautiful in those African clothes, even your son & hubby too looks very great in those African wears. Happy & lovely to see grandpa, father inlaw & most of all your handsome tall father. God Almighty bless u all. Again big congratulations seeing grandpa, inlaw and father
This is a true and typical Nigerian father. We pride in taking good care of our children and wives by giving them best possible gifts we can afford. A typical Nigerian father may not easily tell his children I love you by words but will practically express it by special gifts and planning for their future
Wow this is so sweet,your daddy is amazing I was practically smiling all through this video,i miss my dad
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
You can tell how proud your father is to be by your son and daughter’s side.
thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your family especially your Father!
I can't even explain how much of a blessing your Dad is....This was beautiful.
Somehow this made me happy. Glad you met up with your father. Awesome.
I am so happy for you! I too have not seen my Igbo father in over 47 years or more. I was too young to remember more than he was called, Obie and traveled with 2 guards. I am 55 years old, and love him dearly! Anyone honestly able to trace any elders who may have lost track of a daughter born in December of 1963, please reply.
If you know his full name start by searching on social media for extended families.
It's sad you haven't seen him...
i love the African culture.. and Islam is so generous.. so beautiful.. what an amazing family all of them..
Me too...
saff saffbrown same here
She is Really a Daddy's girl ,Hausa men do not joke when it comes to their Daughters, this is really nice to watch thanks for sharing
This is completely awesome. You have a loving father and wonderful family .😁
Wow! This video is a bomb. Too much love, God bless you and your family. God bless your dad too.
This was Beautiful. You look like both your mom and dad. Your kids all look like both you and there dad.
I know a lot of people may not get it but seeing you two holding hands was beautiful. Always Daddy's girl.
Your dad is one of the kindness people on earth. He is super nice. Your children are lucky to have such a kind hearted grand father. He has a giving heart too.
Oh and your children's pride wearing their finest clothes and standing beside their grandfather beaming with pride was everything. Kenton is a keeper. There is much love in your family.
There should be a movie about this, it can be enlightened. What an emotional reunion.
Your dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏾. He warmed my heart . Cherish the moments.
One can see the family resemblance. What a great reunion. Love how your husband and the kids are so receptive even though they've never met him before. What a mix of cultures.
Thank you ☺️
Nigeria Culture the best....Best TH-cam Video ever
Please share it!
I really hope your mom took the gifts, as a Nigerian, i know a lot of care went into picking those out. Loving the videos by the way. Such a wholesome video.
Its nice you had a reconciliation with your Dad after all this years.