the japanese society with tatemae, "be polite" the moment you cross that line, your social standing is over. but there is a narrow path when you are so good at it, you can use everyone's tatemae to gain benefits, everyone knows you are using them, but no one will protest. "it is a fair game, he just good at it"
If we knew exactly when to break rules is advantageus we wouldn't need to conform, i think we conform because we fear the indefinite (or unspoken) nature and consequeqnce of the rules, if the rules were defined in some way we would know exactly when we can break them, problem is everyone acts like they know them while noone has a clear idea
Unspoken but obeyed 😮 so true
Well summarised! Brings me back to university somewhat
heh 😀 ! I can relate to that, thank you so much for the feedback, I hope you enjoyed it 😄
the japanese society with tatemae, "be polite" the moment you cross that line, your social standing is over.
but there is a narrow path when you are so good at it, you can use everyone's tatemae to gain benefits, everyone knows you are using them, but no one will protest. "it is a fair game, he just good at it"
Now that you mention it, it is strange !. thank you so much for the feedback, i hope you liked my video.
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If we knew exactly when to break rules is advantageus we wouldn't need to conform, i think we conform because we fear the indefinite (or unspoken) nature and consequeqnce of the rules, if the rules were defined in some way we would know exactly when we can break them, problem is everyone acts like they know them while noone has a clear idea
Thank you so much for the feedback. You do make a sound point, nothin is that simple i guess. thanks for watching, hope you liked it.