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A POLYAMOROUS couple has lifted the lid on the jealousy-filled and intensely intimate world of open relationships. Carl and Kenya Stevens have been happily married for 22 years, with over half of their relationship opened to having multiple lovers. The couple from Asheville, North Carolina, quite literally practices what they preach by sharing their relationship, which has been the model for their coaching business, a ‘love academy’ called JuJuMama. Carl, 46, and Kenya, 42, invited Barcroft TV to their modern love therapy sessions to get the inside scoop on what it’s like living as a polyamory couple - in and out of the bedroom.
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She's overcompensating for the fact that her husband "fell in love" with another woman.
Agreed, very good point
I agree
Well 3years later she has married another husband and they all live together. Karl just last month married his 2nd wife.
Look at how he at night she did an interview today. Chillllllddddd Pleeeassseeeee.
@@anitrawilliams56 Anitra , I hope you mean they divorced each other , married other people but all still live in same house ?
Redhead seems like a selfish person. She is dating her boyfrends best friend even though he made it very obvious that it made him uncomfortable, she gets jealous when her boyfriend sleeps with other woman, despite the fact that he fully supports her full blown relationship with another man, and her other boyfriend is telling her that he feels like he's being blown off and that she's not committing to their relationship and she sums it up as her being "controlled". She's obviously not mature enough to be in one relationship, let alone two. Both those guys need to run for the hills.
agreed, she seems to want Mason as her partner and Taylor as a 'friend with benefits', but both guys are in love with her and she's kinda just using them
Mason is def at least bisexual lol
100% agree, why pursue your boyfriend's friend? It's just too messy
Khaleesi Delmar poly itself is too messy lol. But yeah I completely agree
Feminism.
So basically, he cheated on her and she lost her damn mind. Sad.
Tenair Glover She basically said with 10 years and three kids in, I won't be on my own so I'll take the EASY but self deprecating journey to keep him !
Tenair Glover your comment is supposed to a billion likes hahaha lol😱😀😇
Yes. I dated her in Asheville. She claims to be about love but it was apparent that she was affected by Carl doing that to her. She went through cancer and she said it turned him off to see her in such a manner. To see them together was cringe worthy. He is a Good Dude Yes, but there is NO passion between them.
micah mackenzie you dated Kenya? She had cancer and he cheated on her? Carl seems unbothered, she seems really open. I'd be down for this type of relathionship. Men get so jealous... but I think women are more open.
Very crazy
I ain't settling. I ain't bout that life and no matter how much I love a man, If he wants an open relationship, go be open with somebody else. I will get over you sometime somehow!!!
Exactly✌🏽
Yes!
Agreed!
Perioddddd 😁✌️
Right 💯👸🏽
I think he went home and told her he was falling in love with another woman because he was ready to leave the marriage for the other woman. She wasn't and still isn't ready to let go so she decided an open marriage was a better option.
She was force to that lifestyle it’s not natural. this started because, her husband was seeing someone else.
Bingo
@@fionamckenzie7399 it’s normal
I don't even like sharing my food so how tf would I share my honeypie.I could neverrrrrr.Mine mine mine mine mine.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Sounds totally healthy. 🙄
Lost Dreams 👊👊👊👊
Lost Dreams IKR,! Don't eat off my plate, you will draw back a nub😂🤣😅
Count me as a friend!
So if polygamy is "natural" then why do these individuals feel hurt, jealousy, and pain. Hmmmmm...
Donna Petit, both polygamy and monogamy is natural. They feel that way due to their upbringing and or because it's not for them.
Exactly#!
Major Fail.. I bet you thought you sounded smart asking that question.. Same exact emotions are present in a monogamous relationship.
@@idrisbenhanzine6250 lol its true. It comes down to how we view ourselves.
Didn't you mean polyamory not polygamy? Polygamy is totally different than what they practice here.
Wow their children are beautiful!
Right!! They made stunning babies!
That's True But That's Before This Lifestyle
Yes and parents are very handsome to.Mother is very beautiful,smart and attractive.
Kenya is trying too hard to show everyone how “ happy “ she is. She is over the top with her emotions about this lifestyle.
I don’t think deep down she is happy.
She’s doing this, because her husband first told her he was in love with another woman.
The Happy Camper When he told her that, she should have put him out!!!!
I would have liked to know EXACTLY how that convo went down... I know for a fact it was NOT that simple..
The Happy Camper you see right through her .
True. Deep down inside she's crushed more than likely. As a woman I don't think I could mentally put myself thru that
I think she's just doing it to retaliate but she's not really into this life style.
this is what you get when you break up but do not want to leave
But the married couple don't seem realistically happy... it looks forced.
No1Diva I spend time with them and their kids they are real. Like this is them all day lol
Chanda well you still never know what happens behind closed doors.
Its the same thing i said. They seem very fake and its forced. I dont even think they love each other as much as they use to anymore, they're just staying together because they've been married for so long.
Being married 22 years there is no longer a romance between us. But that is fantasy, Disney. How long have each of you been married? Carl and I are best friends - we love and embrace that! Feel free to follow us on IG for more info about our family and relationship @jujumama xxoo
Being married 22 years there is no longer a romance between us. But that is fantasy, Disney. How long have each of you been married? Carl and I are best friends - we love and embrace that! Feel free to follow us on IG for more info about our family and relationship @jujumama xxoo
Their oldest daughter is EXTREMELY beautiful.
Michele Jordan I think both daughter's were beautiful !
Both are beautiful smh go look in the mirror cause u think one is prettier then the other.
She looks just like her mother
Spitting image of her mother , Just a beauty (:
I like her personality too
Well that’s enough internet for today
Rebecca Witzell lol
Aye lmao lol
Aye lmao 😂😂😂
2 months later i feel the same way turning off phone now
😂😂😂😂😂😂 you ain’t never lied. I’m done 😂😂🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
This is sad. It is very obvious and clear to me that her husband is deeply in love with his current girlfriend just by the way he displays affection for her versus the wife. As a result, the wife has lost her entire mind trying to compete when the love is already gone.
What the hell is happening in this world . This is not love .
Kari Lane -zgadzam !!!To smutne !!!!
Amen Amen and Amen*
Have u seen the update?
So he married his dream girl. But he getting something different from his girlfriend.
the woman got into the lifestyle because her husband fell for another woman,...hmmm
Rise & Thrive at first, I felt the same way BUT people react differently to different circumstances. It's not wrong or right; it's just different.
It is how these all seem to start .... idk I would think dif if it wasn't started that way
I wont judge but what's the purpose of being married?
Facts
Forming a family. Creating a bond that lasts until time sets both apart. In this case, only death does set them apart.
Even the bible says it's ok to have multiple wives
@@allnaturalindigo4893 right!!! But not multi-MEN.......
AllNatural Indigo.. 1)how many centuries was the Bible written? 2) are we still living in the same socio-economic economic culture? 3)Is that set up feasible in this day& age 🤔?
I can't even find one person I like, so how are they finding multiple?
Bre Murphy They're out there. You'll find someone.
They aren't find life partners, they finding lust buddies. That's easy to do !
cause you have standards
Bre I was thinking the same thing. All I want is one.
Bre Murphy. Keep your standards high. Never compromise.
Girl, how are you going to date your boyfriend's best friend and have him be okay with it? This entire poly thing blows my mind! Makes ZERO sense!
Monogamy is a westernized concept so people in other parts of the world have been doing it forever it's nothing new.
It’s pretty much open cheating 😭 which honestly happens all the time but instead of lying and keeping it a secret... they just wave the cheating flag high and proud 😂😂😂
Erin Ashanti there’s no such thing as open cheating. Cheating is by definition lying and hiding your behavior from your spouse. If you are open about your feelings for someone else and your spouse is OKAY with it, that automatically means it’s not cheating. Actually, polyamorous couples are HAPPIER than monogamous couples. They have lower rates of divorce.
Andrea Corbett that doesn’t mean they’re happier 😐 you don’t know every single person living a polygamous life style to know they’re happier.... they’re more stupid 🤷🏽♀️ they deal with their spouse being unfaithful to them and their vows, but that doesn’t make them happier. Knowing your husband or wife is sleeping with other people and smiling at the idea is just insane
Andrea Corbett and yes for the married polyamorous couples it’s open cheating. They said vows to be faithful to each other. It doesn’t make it acceptable because you tell your spouse 😐
I find it really disturbing how the love coach shares what her client told her during a private session. It's also strange that it was included in the documentary.
15:40 - "I will tell you a secret. I had a private session with Taylor about two weeks ago. This is not supposed to be known. This is supposed to be private, but he was in tears..."
She ain’t no college educated therapist that’s for dang sure
right @@1rage17
This seems to be a Polysexual doc, not polyamorous. There is no love, just lust.
I agree
I just see people making excuses to deal with their hurt
JaaEL Lewis exactly
JaaEL Lewis definitely💚
They are business partners raising their kids together. You can tell they aren’t in love anymore.
right. its easier to sell the business with them staying married ..
+abeautyfreak 😂
AB I agree!
AB true!!!!100%
Raising kids and running a business has absolutely nothing to do with love
So when one of them wants to leave for someone else? what happens?? its all fun and games untill your husband moves in with his new girlfriend.
Why would anyone leave anyone for anyone else? The point of non-monogamy isn't to trade up to someone new. That's modern day Monogamy. It doesn't work the same way
The Snazzy Dazzy Show it's all fun and games until you realize that the problem you're proposing isn't a problem at all.
Don't want kids? = Birth control
Want kids? = Don't use birth control.
Shocker...I know.
don't act like that doesn't happen in monogamous relationships. If they break up it's better that they're honest with one another other than lying and cheating which can be traumatic for their partner and scar them for future relationships.
There is no need to leave for someone else when you have no boundaries other than respect for your first/main while entering into a new situation. There wouldn't be/ shouldn't be a limit one what and when with the other person so there will not be a need for fulfilment in others areas where you feel you have to leave one for the other.
Sincerelyy Eccentric ok!!!
She seems like she sits and cries at home behind closed doors. She does not seem like she is happy at all although she forces herself to appear "happy." Polyamorous is just a feel good euphemism of Adultery.
That’s also the only way she can keep him.
They're still together and promoting this. He seems unhappy, and she's still enthusiastic. I think she was upset at first but he opened Pandora's Box. @TheSpiritRoom23
When love is replaced by lust.
100%
Preach!!!
Dedication. Out the window. Trust! Where is she? Devotion.. meh
I think when couples who genuinely love each other exclusively and are really into each other and very loyal to each other , totally dedicated to each other and not looking around to have romance and sex with others ... I think couples like that are so beautiful and blessed ... it does happen .
My much older cousin and his wife were always in love even while raising their four kids and then having grandchildren .
They're both dead now .
My aunt and uncle were always in love ... they're both gone now but they really loved being together so much .
People who find their soulmate and get to spend a lot of time with them are very fortunate .
Notice how she said that her husband fell in love with another women. Which resulted in her doing it too. I believe it wasn't her choice to do polygamy. She, wanted to keep her husband and she felt like degrading herself was the way to do it.
Brianna C Yes, I noticed that. And the guy she has to date to keep up with her husband looks just like her husband. It's sad but she made those choices
She seems to be over compensating. Justifying her choices. It seems like she's trying to convince herself.
Elsa Davidson doesn't seem genuine at all
Brianna C it is polyamoury not polygamy. So if you are going to say what you think actually do it intelligently and know what you are talking about because you obviously dont.
Brianna C notice how jealous he was when she started going out with other people when he was the one that started it.
Some of these women just adapted to their husbands decision. If I don't go into a marriage with the idea of multiple partners, I'll find someone else.
butter scotch I'm telling you! I rather to be single!
Looks like the 2 men are struggling to adapt to Luna's decision.
The red head is just manipulating both guys... She is unsure of herself and it almost feels like the arrangement is a joke to her. Really sad.
Leeah Alcazar she is manipulative and they are allowing this...that’s insecurity
My opinion is poeple that's going to cheat, made up this word "poly" to justify the vows they broke when they stood before God and made a promise to honor one another. Poeple often confuse lust for love. If your heart truly is in love you don't look for another, but if your in lust, your body can desire many people.
Ok the first poeple could have been a typo but the second is you not knowing how to spell people. You hear the E sound first so the E is before the O.
@@xldjvista . No one is on here writing a thesis, nor proof reading. And you pointing out a misspelled word, shows you might be a tid bit lonely, with nothing better to do but be judgemental, but I did get you to read my entire comment. Now you're dismissed. Hows that for spelling?
@@rlady43 The word is tad not tid. Typical going for the lonely dig. If that's all you got try taking up a book other than How to grow weed for dummies and you will have less difficulty writing a seven line long paragraph. Class is still in session lol
Again I’m not writing a thesis, nor proof reading. I’m sure intelligent minds get the point. I’m sharing a comment. You are the only person that felt a need to send a message in reference to my spelling, so I decided to address it. I’ll be the adult in this ridiculous waste of time debate, or whatever your intellectual mind want to term it, and say, God bless and happy holidays! Feel free to have the last word, I already wasted too much time on you!
@@rlady43 Accepting criticism is human because making a mistake is human. If you accepted that you were wrong graciously instead of attack my social life, I wouldn't have come back at you. God gave us the option of making mistakes but he wants us to learn from them not attack because a person pointed out you were wrong. I hope God changes your spirit and gives you peace instead of mislead anger.
I think polyamorous relationships are kind of sadistic; you want the other person to pursue another relationship like you but not too much so that they still need you 🙄
Wrong idea, polygamous is abt sharing love and being honest. Im poly and i wont bash this relationship but they definitely have honesty issues
Different strokes for different folks. I ain't sharing my man with nobody!!!
I'm not either
Exactly. Smh this is sick..
That U of.......
angela doe Right?
Say it again for da people in the back
Their eldest daughter is sooo beautiful.
Did she just wipe her onion hands on her eyes?
Yes.
Right😒😦😩🤣🤣
Nikita Miner 😂
If I had a wife as fine as Ebony there is NO way in hell I’m gonna share her🤨. Especially if we already got kids together.
Right some men want to they cake and eat it too
Ebony is the girlfriend. The wife is Kenya.
These guys rushed into marriage,this things of having to feel free and have multiple partners should be done before marriage.Girl when you decided to get married it means its time to settle down!!!
Don't let these people fool u .. None of them are happy .. Misery loves company .. I swear the world is so backwards ..
Lowkey right! As a women id be torn if my husband did this...but as a lesbian....yeah let do it
Who are you to tell people that they arnt happy lol. You are only a reflection of yourself. If you are unhappy then that's on you not them. You can't think you understand people if you've never been in their place or wouldn't do what they do. And even if you did. That's for you. What works for them may not work for you.
How do you know that at all? They look pretty content. Awful assumption to jump to just because it's not the lifestyle that you live.
It's 2018, the world is changing and what's backwards is that people that can't understand it's not 1950 and religion doesn't rule the world.
Right this seems like its just based on sex very surface. As a woman this can desecrate our wombs for having multiple energies entering into our sacred space.
Bluestar I agree 100%
People forgot about Love. I am happily married and don’t even look at other woman as potential sexual partners. I am only in my mid twenty’s, so obviously these days are not gone. Why do you need to be sexual with a person in order to express love? You don’t. Sexuality destroyed the entire western culture. Marriages, relationships, suppression of woman being portrayed as sex objects. Maybe I am old school, but my wife belongs to me and I do belong to her. If you love your partner, I feel like the desire to be sexual with another person will not even come up. Sad story’s are shown here, were it OBVIOUSLY hurts one person. One always just agrees to that to not lose the partner. Let them go, if they leave you for sex, you deserve so much more.
you nailed it. These people's "relationship" won't end well. It can't. Monogamy is not an outdated practice - it's the right way to live and the only way you'll experience true, deep love. TWO shall become one.
This is truth!
God bleeeeeeeeess this man
You are 💯 correct!!! Well said man!!!
If you haven’t practiced it how could you speak on it. We are some of the only people that practice monogamy so strictly. If monogamy is for you that’s great but polygamy can work
this is uncomfortable
I felt Kenya was annoying and over the top!
Well, it sure is disgusting.
It’s like an act
She must've had a breakdown after her husband's affair. Now teaching the children someone shouldn't be faithful and committed only to you in a marriage. Help Dear Jesus Help!!
What’s the point of getting married?? I just think if you want to screw around or “be open” then do it while being single... don’t try to redefine what marriage is or should be!! I don’t get it, But I guess whatever float your boat 🤷🏾♀️
Not just marriage but..... 🤷🏾♀️
MzLaLa914 omg amen to that!!!!
MzLaLa914 what's the point of being married? 🤔 Legal benefits and protections. Basically. IDK why people think marriage is some sacred/holy Union. 😂 Don't let those Disney movies get to you
Boy people is all about how they feel with no ethical conduct no respect for God the wife's mask her pain by screwing different men while the husband is in love with other women at the of the day everyone desires one more than the other
Beverly Thompson ethical ≠ monogamy
That's a pretty weak argument that's been made time and time again but if you bothered to do research from credible sources you'd know there's a heavy emphasis on ethics. 🤷🏻♂️
I think the 2 guys want to be together too
DA SUPADUPA Yep
Wow thought I was the only ne who noticed they seem to hug so comfortably
The wife is a little too happy. Almost as if it's fake.
Just saw this but maybe she’s happy because all of her needs are being met. 🤷♀️
@@isylaescapesnarcissism1325 yes from the BBC
I think some people in general re very happy individual's ,it's nothing to do with her having relationship with so many partners ,I think she is well equipped to handle this kind of life style ,which may some other women cannt .
I think she is just a happy person by nature
@@Roxville23 of course ,she seems an extrovert ,happy person having s time of her life ,what's wrong in it ?
I don't know how people can have romantic feeling with more than one person like that.
The female “coach” is irritatingly upbeat and it comes off as insincere.
Her daughter is pretty
Christina Pegues
Both are beautiful
Lust not Love .
Opinion, not fact.
Ruth Kercy because opinions aren't facts???
According to who, that love means only having one though? That's the issue people scared to stray away from practical standards.
Tracy Lustick opinion not a fact.
Completely wrong, what law says you can't love more than one person? You probably can't but others definitely can and it could be love OR lust as with any relationship
There are so many ways to channel your energy for love and caring for another human being, besides being sexual with that individual outside your relationship.
On a spiritual level, every person you sleep with you receive their spirit; there are spirits i don't want to receive. Therefore poly is not for me.
sacha huh? Where does the bible say this explicitly
2 Claps and a Rick Flair - I’m sorry, but at which point did I mention the Bible? You see the world spiritual and you think I’m quoting the Bible? Oh my!
sacha same here Queen 💯💯💯
sacha that's ur own opinion
sacha so poly would be perfect for you. As a spiritual person if everyone left behind part of their spirit when they slept with you don’t you have an orgy of spirits inside you already?
You can clearly see through the wives true feelings....she is very fake and is hurt about her husband finding love, and only settles in trying too hurt him back by showing him younger men whom are interested in her and wont let go of him....I feel sad for her and society in whole....my ex was sick and wanted a lifestyle like this but only for himself....thank God I'm strong enough too care for our kids by myself....I'll never teach my kids that anyone comes before ourselves besides Gods and his teaching....may god help anyone whom is enduring anything like this!
💯💯💯💯👏👏👏 I agree
Man, all this is making me wanna stay single for the rest of my life.
Our generation is so screwed up smh
Solotv84
I definitely don't agree with this, but I guess we might as well see this through.
Ironic, because polyamory was popular in some cultures around ancient years.
Solotv84 Yup! The so cal Polyblabla will never work.
Solotv84 Foreal.
Oh yes, because having consensual relationships is so much worse than cheating and divorce!
This ain’t love. All they cared about their side partners are looks and sex. Love has nothing to do with those.
👍
How do you figure that? Just asking.
PettyFatty my name is Elizabeth, and I agree with this message. 👏👏
Whatever it is, it’s working for them. They been together for over 20 years, raising 3 kids, & working together. More power to them👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
PettyFatty exactly
im too jealous for all that lol
nadia ramirez right!
Me too.
Everyone in the comment section let’s all be poly together
💯, man !!!!!🔪🤣🤣
Me too!
Behind all the smiles I see a lot of hurt feelings.
Yess
Same with monogamy relationships. Do you like owning people?
@@devinhanna53 I am not against it but both people have to have satisfaction. All the best night
The laughter is too extra
My question Is.."WHY"?
How does having sex with so Many men, make you feel good?
Something is wrong...
Polygamy is wrong
Kind of sad if you have to resort to cheating to save a relationship.
Trevor J This is sharing love not cheating. Everyone knows what's up in the situation.
Trevor J it's not cheating if your partner knows all about it
Marriage has no meaning anymore. This defiles the marriage bed
HRD 77 Exactly
Marriage is a covenant between two people. This is not a marriage!
Completely agree. Marriage has no meaning if you aren't going to commit to the vows you said to your spouse.
this world is truly about selfish indulgence. I hope they are ready for the results of their actions. I'm sure they will not all be smiling at the end
The fact that they are still together to this day is what matters! People in marriages divorce at the snap of fingers ! Once they find out their partner is interested in someone else or is thinking about pursuing another person. They are married and happy.
jesus please come now.
😂😂😂
Right Away!!!
Their are going to hell
not now, now now!!!
@@oneckafloris8644 what makes u so sure? Are u keeping his commandments? If not u r going to hell too
legalized adultery and multiple soul ties development
Adebowale Adesida Tell the truth and shame the devil 🗣🗣
True
Preach that Truth Bro
Well adultery wasn’t illegal so there’s that. What is a soul tie to you?
We are living in the end times no self control. Living without boundaries is very dangerous. Marriage is something you work through
Marriage is something you work *for*, not work around. Yup
Agree
Like the bible says lovers of self, no self control
five yrs later we still here😂👽
Facts
The wife is supremely enthusiastic about this. LOL. I think the husband opened up something he wasn’t expecting. Fell in love with a coworker and flipped his marriage...wife got turned out. 😂
I was just about to say that!
like will and jada.
This was honest and very disturbing... This is not the future of love
zwnurse2013 I agree this is disgusting ...
No no no no no no this is soo wrong
I'd rather stay single and bring a different girl back home for Christmas every year.
Lmao
Mark Sneddon .... 😊
Mark Sneddon pmsl
Mark Sneddon lmao just go home alone or else you will bring home a crazy girl
Sam Flett hahaha best advice ever 👍
These comments 😂 and half of y’all cheating on y’all’s partners right now 🤣 Bunch of hypocrites!
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!!
🤣👏 how can I be apart of something so beautiful? I'm single at the moment
I'm not cheating, I'm loyal and polygamy is wrong.
@@ceejay9919 Stop it 😃😃😃😃
@@ceejay9919 Stop it 😃😃😃😃
This is straight out of the pit of hell! 🔥🔥
you are 1000000% right
It’s very normal and biblical
No it’s not biblical. Read ur bible
@@jesusistheway1441 💯♥️
Its ironic to me how he has this sexy wife and yet still chooses someone romoetly opposite to her the more natural body type and look he goes out and chooses a sense of reality, and the wives choices are soo closely related to her husbands physical feature in her mind she is dating her husband just with a different personality but in hismind he doesnot want anyone as fake and dramatic as his wife. The mind is a hell of a thing but cheers for trying to sell a fascade i didnt buy anyof it but good try.
Brittney Davis oo good insight. Her other partners all look vastly different...such as the non black guy in the video and her many other partners. And his other partners all look different also.
Natural body type?
Brittney Davis why is the wife considered fake. & dramatic??? She is just a 'bubbly' and outgoing black woman. You are the type that would label her loud & aggressive, if she just asked you a question you didn't like in her normal outgoing manner!
And what is a 'natural body type'???? Everybody's body type is natural to them.
Sad people spreading their sad energy. How come the husband has only one side chick? In both cases the men suggested poly and the woman went with the idea. I don’t think it worked how it played out in their head when they said it.
I was thinking the same thing!
They married the wrong person and don't want to start over.
Blockhead VIP Great insight!
Period !!!
Back in the days to death do us part was real. You just married once. I bet people would find it strange if people did start over.
Managing A relationship is already hard. These people want more of those. Lol kudos
Having one kid is hard already. Parents want more than one kid! LOL kudos.
Actually it is once you realize you can add love without displacing previously felt love.
Deez Nuts 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Deez Nuts
Relationship? Boi they just want sex.
Not God’s design. You can go against God, but you won’t win in the end.
True
@@lavenderflowers1075 Yes, it’s true.
GOD IS NOT PLEASED!!
I agree
Can't kiss two different mouth in one day. I adore my husband hes my live, i don't need nobody else.
aibelzoe and the wife doesn’t even know how many partners she has. Gross
🤮🤮🤮
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l seems he wanted to step out so she started her dating.. prob never would have had he not wanted to sleep elsewhere
When evil is taking over and making the wrong things normal.
Nala yap! it's sad
@Nala, they are so loving that they have enough to share. Its not evil. Your beliefs are not necessarily THE WAY its supposed to be.
Having said that, I doubt I could do what they're doing but, I don't need to label it evil. Live and let live.
Nala true
Nala
I agree!
This stuff is Promoting STDs and Several Baby daddys not knowing who the father is
Celibate and single 9 years!.
I have been too for 18 years now. I do want a husband though
Good idea. I wonder how far could’ve gone in life if I ever would’ve tried it. My guess is very. But I always put someone else before my development.
21 years old, saving myself for marriage, as God wants
Good! Because this seems like trash. Just look at them arguing at the end of this video. Just a bunch of people with low self esteem
Sin and lust. Marrage is not meant to be open. Sad and sinful lifestyles.
My man is my man, is your man, heard that’s her man too! 👀
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the thing of it is, is that these couples are married sharing a home so whoever they date outside their marriage is pretty much the side chick or side Dude and that in it of itself can cause emotional pain to someone else who doesn't get exclusivity they may desire or be a priority to them
Alexa Merritt ........ I'll be the weekend 7 days a week to my husband ........ there's no room for any overtime for either of us !!!!!!°!
Alexa Merritt 😂😂😂😂😂
Just STOP trying to make EVERYTHING normal and acceptable.
AbundantLiving god bless u thanks 🙏
Media is trying to make it "normal" but this has been done for centuries. What you feel is "normal" is a product of how you were raised, and the environment you grew up in. But what's normal for you, isnt for the next. Learn to be tolerant, you dont have to take on the life style, simply acknowledge it exist
AbundantLiving couldn’t have said it better!!
yes!!! ugh like, if people still like monogamy, let us live!
guys they're not telling you that you must be polyamorous, they are just asking for acceptance.
Can't see how a man could ever be comfortable sharing his woman with another man smh.
Same can be said about the woman. But not everyone is into monogamy
I wouldn't mind it's basically an open relationship with LOVE involved
He is sick.
When men cheat that's when women cheat!
And what about women?
"In the last days, Good will be called Evil, and Evil called Good." 😢
"I can't help thinking that this would be, a better world if everyone listen to God." - unknown author
But it's too late 😢🙏🏿🤦🏽♀️
Him: "I was very attracted to her... I wanted to have sex with her right away"
Her: "It was love at first sight" and those are some fundamental differences in many Masculine/Feminine relationship dynamics!🤭
Kenya and Carl look amazing. 22 years married! That being said, just the thought of managing a family, a business, a marriage and a couple other relationships thrown in make me feel tired already.
I don't like to judge anyone, but it seems like these people have internal issues that they're trying to resolve by being with multiple people. They just seem so forced like they're putting on a facade of happiness.
How sad that you lack the imagination to see what's actually happening because you aren't capable of it yourself.
dating your BFs best friends is too much. like, have some respect for your partner
Depends on the situation. I gladly allowed my close friend to be intimate with my GF. It was mutual all around and I honestly didn't experience any jealousy. She has already given me so much.
Your profile picture explains it all😂
CaligulaClone Your girlfriend cheated on you with your close friend, and you cried in the car. Stop it.
I get why the couple is still together because it puts money in their pocket promoting themselves as the poly ambassadors. I think the contract just makes what they are doing more official.
Basically they are tired of each other but,don't want to let that person go . It is very selfish and controlling.
So husband dating his side chick with love in his eyes
While wife date 3 - 4 guys and Kids is Okay with it 😅😔😔
They r just bored of life and cant find another passion than what their instincts provide.
This is Sad and so wrong. What has this world come down to.
She really only got on board because he came home and told her he was falling in love with his WORK WIFE. She was like nah you ain’t leaving me she will be OUR girlfriend. May the force be with them! He said he was jealous when she had her first date, but he came home and professed his love for another woman. My only question is what happens when one spouse or partner wants to breakup with the 3rd person, and the other doesn’t’. These are single people that happen to have a marriage license (In my opinion). I’d rather build an unbreakable, intense, TRUE LOVE connection with one person, MY OWN HUSBAND!
I guess you didn't hear the part where he admitted to feeling insecure and sad about his wife wanting to dip out the marriage as well. I think they just want to have fun on the side while maintaining their marriage. He wasn't too happy about her dating other men, so maybe he is the one holding on.
Doesn’t sound like she has sexual relations with her though. I think the husband is in love with another woman and feels guilty so he’s letting his wife eff around with whoever she wants. That’s not polyamory, that’s complication.
That doesn’t exist
I think it takes a lot of maturity to do this. I commend them. I think people are very judgemental about too many things. I'm happy that they are happy.😊
I'm not married, but this was awkward to watch🤤😫
This is a ball of confusion and the reason why diseases are often spread. Condoms aren't always used...I'm almost sure.
These men both seem to be in pain. Whats the point if it hurts ?
100% agree
sofisticatedfey masochistic people exist. they freaks like that.
i prefer married men... sick
Exactly
You sound bitter... Seems like some other woman stole your husband 😂😂😂
Sad smh...
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Marvin Carted if that had happened, I'd say the bitterness was justified...
No no and hell no!!!
Ashley ASMR let's test it
Ashley ASMR right !!😒
Yes, Yes and Yes!!! I agree witcha
Ashley ASMR IKR !
Yes yes and hell yes!
No *JUST NO*
Aridje Exactly!
This ain't love baby! This ain't it! It's something else. Y'all living dangerously
LUST NOT LOVE LORD PLEASE
Kenya's hugs look like THE BEST hugs.
Nai Nai hugs/grind
A D agreed
This is not marriage because their is no love and respect. And no honour .
Load of BS....
Your comment? Yep.
The one positive I will make- The wife has a great body.
It's weird to me how everyone I have seen talk about being polyamorous say that it's painful and all of these negative things the first time and yet it seems they ignore it and push through anyway and make themselves accept it? Why would you keep doing it if it gives you negative feelings from the very start.
nope nope nope nope nope nononononononononononononononono