How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money

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  • Rachel, Kyle, Ashley and Yair are two married couples in a non-monogamous relationship. They share a house, car, dog, cat, partners and finances. They also have plans to have children together.
    Obstacles they've faced having to do with rights and benefits as four partners have prompted them to meet with a lawyer to get divorced from one another and create a co-habitation agreement.
    Watch this video to learn how they manage finances in their non-traditional relationship.
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    How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money

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  • @TheNoerdy
    @TheNoerdy ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Are we at the point that you need 4 people with normal jobs to afford a house

    • @lynwilson9259
      @lynwilson9259 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The truth of this comment though..😆😆

    • @ebonydarknessdementiaraven204
      @ebonydarknessdementiaraven204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes

    • @CurvaLish
      @CurvaLish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bruh! 😂

    • @FriesLIVE
      @FriesLIVE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FriesLIVE good. More excuse to sleep around 😁

  • @Jonathan_Solomon
    @Jonathan_Solomon ปีที่แล้ว +891

    I would love to see a follow-up story 1-3 years from now.

    • @stoonookw
      @stoonookw ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I mean a lot of relationships don’t work 1-3 years later

    • @whiteyobanion1104
      @whiteyobanion1104 ปีที่แล้ว

      They'll all be dying of STDs.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      They'll still be together and you'll still be alone, most likely.

    • @lorrainea.285
      @lorrainea.285 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That will most likely be on “Snapped” or “Crime ID”🤨

    • @nazapadu02
      @nazapadu02 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      the beta guy leaves

  • @saintking64
    @saintking64 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Kyle looks like a hostage for 70% of this video

    • @gb5007
      @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Kyle is clearly submissive to the other man who does all the talking for him...

    • @shannongreen1520
      @shannongreen1520 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Evan Ward :In my Neal Brennan voice..My name is Kyle..I am ok...Tell my family that I love them....Send the ransom money...😆😆😆

    • @Finite8614
      @Finite8614 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      "Hey I'm Kyle and this is my wife's boyfriend Yair"

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😩

    • @user-uq7qp2bx7y
      @user-uq7qp2bx7y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’d have to be a hostage to agree with this nonsense…
      Looks like Stockholm Syndrome to me…

  • @PraisePelumi
    @PraisePelumi ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Whoever is paying down the mortgage without owning it is getting scammed 😂

    • @Tmoises58
      @Tmoises58 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I laughed harder than I should have.
      This is why I live alone

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The non owners should pay cheap rent. A win win for everyone

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights ปีที่แล้ว +30

      It's called rent. They are tenants

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Courts won’t help with this situation either lol

    • @PraisePelumi
      @PraisePelumi ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@beatricerights they’re not just tenants 😂 imagine paying down your partners mortgage and your name isn’t even on the title

  • @MsTek
    @MsTek ปีที่แล้ว +905

    How to make your life way more complicated.

    • @carolinestanczuk
      @carolinestanczuk ปีที่แล้ว +75

      How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)

    • @pouroverfinance
      @pouroverfinance ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@carolinestanczuk she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.

    • @N0Xa880iUL
      @N0Xa880iUL ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@carolinestanczuk Average polyamory enjoyer

    • @stoonookw
      @stoonookw ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yoooo why is there so much hate here? Y’all are robots LOL

    • @user-gb5ff7gj1m
      @user-gb5ff7gj1m ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    Rachel is clearly the main man and boss in this four-way relationship / household ...

    • @Dr.HouseMD
      @Dr.HouseMD ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Its pretty bananas that a person can go off her meds for just a few months and accomplish this much in two years.

    • @savvyw5891
      @savvyw5891 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yet she is wearing a collar. So . . . Is she?

    • @jnspincliffe2
      @jnspincliffe2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      You don’t have to use ‘man’ to describe her taking the lead

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@savvyw5891 Lmao

    • @lineage13
      @lineage13 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      She's got two husbands and a wife and she owns the house which is in her name, while they pay her mortgage haha

  • @EugeneWangombe
    @EugeneWangombe ปีที่แล้ว +390

    Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...

  • @user-gb5ff7gj1m
    @user-gb5ff7gj1m ปีที่แล้ว +534

    I can’t imagine how much more complicated life is having three partners . Having one partner is already complicated enough.

    • @kayleighshuler9758
      @kayleighshuler9758 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Try shifting your focus and imagine how much love and support you might have!

    • @ghastlycandle
      @ghastlycandle ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it.
      I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret

    • @N0Xa880iUL
      @N0Xa880iUL ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ghastlycandle Ah yes, maths.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🌠 Unhealthy Relationship Quotes 🌠

    • @jk-gn2fu
      @jk-gn2fu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!

  • @alohaazzie8462
    @alohaazzie8462 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader
    Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command
    Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say
    Ashley is just happy to be included

    • @boba5559
      @boba5559 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Spot on!!! You could be a forensic scientist 😂

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Rachel is glad she gets to take advantage of this man and his wife at the same time 😂

    • @ThePeanutGiant
      @ThePeanutGiant ปีที่แล้ว

      Silent man is the simp and is bottom of bottom.

    • @mikehawk9810
      @mikehawk9810 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeh.... the two women are into each other and the betas follow along because they have no idea how to lead.

  • @ede.5487
    @ede.5487 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Kyle, blink twice if you need rescuing. These people are running all over you !

    • @corinneblair8795
      @corinneblair8795 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Or subtly raise you hand 🙋‍♂️🤚!!
      We’re here for you Kyle!!
      Platonically, of course! 😉

    • @moxiejones7582
      @moxiejones7582 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😅

    • @naturalbeauty_abena1230
      @naturalbeauty_abena1230 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @michaeljohnson6752
      @michaeljohnson6752 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Glad I ain’t the only one. He’s getting the short end of the stick 🥲

    • @Detroitmamma
      @Detroitmamma ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆 🤣 😂

  • @d.prescott4895
    @d.prescott4895 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.

    • @brynnwalk4390
      @brynnwalk4390 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My thoughts exactly 😂. I thought I heard the timeframe wrong.

    • @TheErmerm999
      @TheErmerm999 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am here to check on your lockdown sour dough starter...

    • @henkaistudio
      @henkaistudio ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheErmerm999 Polygamous Foursome relationships are very rare because you see two women and two men in altogether in this relationship.

    • @carmagurl317
      @carmagurl317 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @planetChristie
    @planetChristie ปีที่แล้ว +51

    They should’ve just kept their account separates and had 1 account for the bills. Transferring money over is less complicated!

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. That's how my polycule does it.

    • @ScottDDavisMusic
      @ScottDDavisMusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That seems simpler to me as well.

  • @tuckermay2597
    @tuckermay2597 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.

    • @hollynonya6991
      @hollynonya6991 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@borderlinenocturnal6195 that's because monogamy is the norm for human adults
      It's called pair bonding

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@hollynonya6991For the zast majority of human history, polygamy was the norm. Monogamy is a very recent development

    • @hollynonya6991
      @hollynonya6991 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sd7785 men spending their seed? Yeah 😂
      Not women however
      But we're talking about NOW
      Presentism, Google it

  • @xislis6037
    @xislis6037 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.

    • @greyrock9747
      @greyrock9747 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm poly and I'd say I've seen less dysfunctional than in monogamous relationships.

    • @vicconstruction9126
      @vicconstruction9126 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@greyrock9747 Lol. You have so much to learn. Good luck.

    • @greyrock9747
      @greyrock9747 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@vicconstruction9126 monogamy is successful?

  • @2BOLD4U
    @2BOLD4U ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I wasn't expecting their financial situation to be as complicated as it is.

    • @denoosoo
      @denoosoo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      rocket power 😎

    • @narutofan4545
      @narutofan4545 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@denoosoohuh

    • @marisabeltran3084
      @marisabeltran3084 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      For you it’s complicated.

  • @annery993
    @annery993 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Did I miss it or do Kyle and Yair not interact much? It seems to be the Rachel show.

  • @Jaime-eg4eb
    @Jaime-eg4eb ปีที่แล้ว +179

    I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).

    • @AG-en5y
      @AG-en5y ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sharing finances is your main concern? Brah

    • @Jaime-eg4eb
      @Jaime-eg4eb ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Jaime-eg4eb I'm a practice nihilism to some extent and what they got going on is doomed for failure.

    • @Jaime-eg4eb
      @Jaime-eg4eb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.

    • @ghastlycandle
      @ghastlycandle ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?

  • @Tunechi65
    @Tunechi65 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    This is Rachel's show, everyone else is just living in her fantasy. 🤡

    • @inko123
      @inko123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯

    • @letsgetjackdup9952
      @letsgetjackdup9952 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Rachel and Yaier... you see that connection is strong there. The other two are just there

  • @Corey25
    @Corey25 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Graham is going to have fun with this one

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @donnyjay4269
      @donnyjay4269 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For sure..I’m looking forward to his take 😂

    • @Veerow2005
      @Veerow2005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Devinn504
      @Devinn504 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @uiucchemistry2664
      @uiucchemistry2664 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, can’t wait to see his reaction video! This is so messed-up and will likely end up in flames lol

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    This just seems like a solution for Rachel to justify her affair with Yair...

    • @AJ-jw6yp
      @AJ-jw6yp ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That's what I thought too!! I don't see this ending well at all

    • @jessevilla9948
      @jessevilla9948 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Or perhaps it’s possible for people to happily live outside of social norms.

    • @MisterMellyC
      @MisterMellyC ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right???

    • @lilbrova
      @lilbrova ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Looool thank you!!! 🤣🤣
      All this long story.. it's so obvious

    • @lalakuma9
      @lalakuma9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and with Ashley?

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it

  • @samanthacruz5587
    @samanthacruz5587 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    It's hard just to find one partner while these people managed to find more than one. Unbelievable

    • @chioma_u
      @chioma_u ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😭🤣😭🤣

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't understand this problem, really.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cause they actually have a degrees of selflessness, unlike you and most other lonely people. ;)

    • @fi-train8961
      @fi-train8961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @mikehawk9810
      @mikehawk9810 ปีที่แล้ว

      No they didn't. The red head is into the brunett. The hubbys are tagging along because they have no choice or balls

  • @beatricerights
    @beatricerights ปีที่แล้ว +99

    This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric ปีที่แล้ว +56

    The therapist runs this "relationship". Her entire mannerism says it all.

    • @saidzid3379
      @saidzid3379 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Way to go! 👏

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine having a Relationship Therapist in a Polyamorous Foursome xD
      Succes guaranteed

  • @acenariomanuel5251
    @acenariomanuel5251 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Just because they study and have an extensive vocabulary that does not mean that they are not crazy.

    • @intheuniversekey
      @intheuniversekey ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well ever met a doctor with a PH D that has misdiagnosed before? I have. So high vocab and education and knowledge does not equal wisdom and they lack the wisdom of where to apply the knowledge.

    • @kevingaymon2707
      @kevingaymon2707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      No more crazy than the rest of us. Have you seen divorce rates and people still can’t get married fast enough.

  • @traetonmcglohon4563
    @traetonmcglohon4563 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    This is definitely not going to end horribly 😅

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Can't end any worse than those monogamous relationships that end in murder due to infidelity....

    • @kelechiezealaji4202
      @kelechiezealaji4202 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@hotshotx1598 double the people, double the murder lol

    • @jellybellyfun3288
      @jellybellyfun3288 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not??? 🤔

    • @gregsgrowth530
      @gregsgrowth530 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kelechiezealaji4202 or triple ?

  • @ede.5487
    @ede.5487 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Rachel is the mastermind behind this. Split up two marriages, Kyle is unhappy and Ashley is unhappy. I stay away from people like Rachel !

    • @sexytechreviews_
      @sexytechreviews_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Rachel is a very toxic Narcissist. I also stay away from people like her.

    • @Ovprksdnw
      @Ovprksdnw ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now

    • @bee1979
      @bee1979 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ovprksdnw what’s their social media?

  • @jwonz2054
    @jwonz2054 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting:
    Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man)
    *Yair smiles*
    *Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction*
    *Yair stops smiling and feigns panic*
    Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.

    • @nothingc
      @nothingc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And Kyle did leave the foursome

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You know they said they switch every day right at the start?
      You guys are so unreasonable.

    • @jwonz2054
      @jwonz2054 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RaiiiL The proof is in the pudding and their pudding spoiled.

  • @shaia9427
    @shaia9427 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I love how free and honest they are to live their truth. It might not be for everyone but they do what makes them happy.

  • @JohnCarlosMartinez
    @JohnCarlosMartinez ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Yeah, Graham Stephen is not reacting to this one.

  • @jerrykennedy2082
    @jerrykennedy2082 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this should be a tv show.

  • @rommyaznaran9508
    @rommyaznaran9508 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    These people are very disciplined and organized! Sitting down to budget all expenses. That’s discipline.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip.
      Population doesn't work out well without intelect,
      a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline
      It doesn't work with goofy heads.

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.

    • @Strawberry143x
      @Strawberry143x ปีที่แล้ว

      VOLCANO WAITING TO ERUPTTTTT🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋

    • @normandy2501
      @normandy2501 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.

  • @jacquelinm2662
    @jacquelinm2662 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.

    • @edb484
      @edb484 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      for sure she is running things

    • @kayleighshuler9758
      @kayleighshuler9758 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m curious if you’ve been in this type of relationship and seen it fail due to finances firsthand?

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.

    • @JaZmine147
      @JaZmine147 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They are socializing and doing it very well.
      I mean we all do it. What's wrong about it?

  • @hammak3374
    @hammak3374 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When a Muslim marries two women, they say he is a barbarian lol.
    hypocritical society

  • @emekaagbo6697
    @emekaagbo6697 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They are very practical, the danger would be if anyone decide that they have had enough

  • @ThePeanutGiant
    @ThePeanutGiant ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Kinda troubling how you can tell the dynamic that exists within this group without explicitly being told just from a short video.

  • @adiaj9228
    @adiaj9228 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I wish them all the best......because this could be DISASTROUS if it doesn’t work.... like Dateline, 20/20 disastrous .

  • @shelly5224
    @shelly5224 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.

  • @EldePHX
    @EldePHX ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This would be one of those videos where the amount of dislikes would vastly out number the likes.

  • @MillionaireMindMotivation
    @MillionaireMindMotivation ปีที่แล้ว +80

    The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!

    • @temeka4288
      @temeka4288 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      There will be no 15 year update on this mess. They won't last that long.

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      More like 1 year update

    • @edb484
      @edb484 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      we need a reality show lol

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      15 years? Covid, Monkey pox, natural disasters? I give em 4 tops

    • @Chrisbit1
      @Chrisbit1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that

  • @alonasistrunk2620
    @alonasistrunk2620 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.

  • @jk-gn2fu
    @jk-gn2fu ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.

  • @damnjustassignmeone
    @damnjustassignmeone ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Imagine the litigation if they ever want to separate this arrangement. Wow.

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Rachel looks the most satisfied with this arrangement...the other not so much

    • @adeyosola414
      @adeyosola414 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You read my mind.🙂🙂

    • @yoyoiven
      @yoyoiven ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Poor Kyle lmao

    • @trishytrish5263
      @trishytrish5263 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.

  • @makeracistsafraidagain7608
    @makeracistsafraidagain7608 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It seem like Kyle is the only person who has been dragged into this type of relationship, he’s just there looking like confused person about this relationship..

  • @NicoliePollieOllie
    @NicoliePollieOllie ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This could really work for some people but they've only known each other for 2.5 years, and that's not nearly enough time

  • @leonardscottiv7682
    @leonardscottiv7682 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!!
    also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 ปีที่แล้ว

      White people love finding a way to be the victim LMAO

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right. 4 white, employees, attractive, able bodied straight people.

    • @JoyFay
      @JoyFay ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She is using them

    • @MrMlbfan6
      @MrMlbfan6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She looks like she had a affair with the chef and convince them to share

    • @tioswift3676
      @tioswift3676 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Here’s your daily reminder that discrimination has zero bounds. The more you know

  • @Jalisialuxe
    @Jalisialuxe ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?

  • @TheOneAboveAll_
    @TheOneAboveAll_ ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.

  • @rommyaznaran9508
    @rommyaznaran9508 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage

  • @editorjohn8803
    @editorjohn8803 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Yair and Ashley have cooked up something that'll go from Wright to completely Wrong

  • @Luboman411
    @Luboman411 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    At 0:30. The sleeping schedule already sounds like it would require a simple Excel spreadsheet since this would be permutations of four people on two beds. So...8 combinations, rotating each week? Right? LOL. Can't wait to get to the Gordian knot that is their finances! Get the pivot tables ready! :D

  • @Tunechi65
    @Tunechi65 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.

  • @JH-nb4nn
    @JH-nb4nn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    No chance that all four of them are happy. 😂Looks and sounds like an absolute NIGHTMARE.

  • @temeka4288
    @temeka4288 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol

  • @noahjoo7231
    @noahjoo7231 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this is the world we live in

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes it is. look at everyone existing together and minding their own business.

    • @NewsSeriously
      @NewsSeriously ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s not your problem.it’s theirs. You can be in and relationship you want. If you can find someone

  • @Dr.HouseMD
    @Dr.HouseMD ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.

  • @malonamission7092
    @malonamission7092 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Being a cuckold myself, I love this. I support this

  • @carlosflores85
    @carlosflores85 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So a monogamous non-monogamous quad??
    Just wait until player 5 enters the game…

  • @davidthompson1573
    @davidthompson1573 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I’ve always been a huge fan of just how well people are able to rationalize destructive, bizarre, and bad behaviors.

    • @rajenderkarupakala
      @rajenderkarupakala ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes, modern day clowns everywhere. Some sense is not common these days

    • @brynnwalk4390
      @brynnwalk4390 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      If this relationship works for all of them, then it's not destructive. It isn't for most people, but obviously, they're not most people.

    • @whiteyobanion1104
      @whiteyobanion1104 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@brynnwalk4390 That's how the followers of the Branch Davidians, Heaven's Gate, and Jim Jones felt; we see how that worked out.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@whiteyobanion1104 yeah but those people justified their beliefs through religious dogma, rather than humanitarian logic

  • @shivinunitholi2493
    @shivinunitholi2493 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The producers of CNBC Make It seems to have pivoted to another level of "make it with more than one"

  • @Back_To_Basics
    @Back_To_Basics ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.

  • @erikzumwalt4229
    @erikzumwalt4229 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    But are the men ever sharing a bed together 😏😏😏

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    "The system has been designed for monogamy"...yeah for very good moral, legal and ethical reasons why this type of situation is not normalized.

    • @pkal244
      @pkal244 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ok grandma, it's past your bedtime

    • @gb5007
      @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@pkal244 Ok, Rachel...

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gb5007 K=LMAO, RACHEL IS THINKING OF BRINGING ANOTHER COUPLE INTO THE MIX. I'm afraid moving forward this may become the norm. I'm afraid men may force their wives to do this unwillingly.

    • @ai.cherie
      @ai.cherie ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pkal244 you’re so open minded that your brain fell out!

    • @Chrisbit1
      @Chrisbit1 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeahs because monogamy has been the solution for marital and relationship problems for ages, No monogamous couple has ever had issues and all societies that praticed monogamy have been fair and just... um seriously... wake up

  • @ryanl3812
    @ryanl3812 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Fascinating. I dig it. But I hate splitting the bill at the end of a meal with 3 friends so I don't think I'd enjoy this much

  • @Ldogg247
    @Ldogg247 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is totally awesome! I would love to have a union like this. 2-4 couples all on the same page and filled with love 💗

    • @pauls4923
      @pauls4923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      immoral..give me a break

    • @nadafro3116
      @nadafro3116 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you mean foursome?

  • @medical4652
    @medical4652 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Grab your popcorn for this one, boys and girls!

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Why does it seem like Rachel is the initiator of this and the others are not entirely happy and just accepting this situation...?

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A farmer and the sheep

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you're a monogamous person who doesn't get it lmao

    • @RR-wc6xc
      @RR-wc6xc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.

  • @AnonymouslyYours290
    @AnonymouslyYours290 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why stop at 4?

    • @lbpee9962
      @lbpee9962 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @veteranredbeard6222
    @veteranredbeard6222 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In poly, you don't have a best friend and partner. You have people you sleep with.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are people in poly relationships who are asexual though...

  • @investedfemelle7564
    @investedfemelle7564 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I can even make a relationship work with 1 person much less 3 😫😫😫….. good for them

  • @Adrian-hn4lx
    @Adrian-hn4lx ปีที่แล้ว +86

    What’s the household income though ?? Don’t leave us in suspense like this !!

    • @sadiqraji5376
      @sadiqraji5376 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Is this even CNBC anymore? More like BRAVO or TLC than CNBC tbh.

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was sure waiting to hear it. I'm guessing $450k

    • @Ovprksdnw
      @Ovprksdnw ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All 4 are gainfully employed professionals

  • @durancoley
    @durancoley ปีที่แล้ว +17

    so CNBC is THE SHADE ROOM now? I have no issue with the way 4 adults want to live. that's cool. but I did not expect this story from CNBC ....I'm shocked and educated all in one 9 minute video. so I guess it worked.

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      look at the current state of the cost of living and economy, all by agenda.

  • @rachael4408
    @rachael4408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The decision to divorce their original partners is so brave... That is so destabilizing to me. I can't even imagine.

  • @rasalghul3963
    @rasalghul3963 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fast forward to 2024, and Kyle left the relationship. He realized that being a simp is not easy. Keep your dignity fellas. Never allow yourself to be led by a woman.

  • @zaksantiago2370
    @zaksantiago2370 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some of you are really panni PRESSED and super judgemental on something you've likely never been a part of or even taken the time to understand.
    Not only are they smart enough to have found what makes them happy and how to manage their finances, but are also brave enough to share it with all of you who are making fun and joking.
    Good grief.

  • @ryanr3951
    @ryanr3951 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every day we stray further from God's light

  • @NoneNoneNone78
    @NoneNoneNone78 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants

  • @alyhs3
    @alyhs3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm surprised about how many people in this comment section have been living under a rock....
    Non monogamy is a very common thing in society and can be very fulfilling and rewarding. I don't understand why it angers people so much that consenting adults chose to pursue a loving relationship with more than one person, if you don't like it, don't do it.
    Polyamorous people exist, get over it!!!

  • @00SuperHAN00
    @00SuperHAN00 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    There is no way this kind of relationship can last longer than 10 years.

    • @Christiamorous
      @Christiamorous 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Recently celebrated a polyamorous friend's 15th wedding anniversary. Just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it can't happen.

    • @00SuperHAN00
      @00SuperHAN00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Christiamorous I’m sure there can be some successful polyamorous relationships, but the ratio has to be much lower compared to monogamous relationships. Think about all the drama they would get involved in.

    • @Christiamorous
      @Christiamorous 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@00SuperHAN00 Compared to monogamous folks? That's silly. I can go to my female best friend's house and can sleep over without it being a problem for my fiancee. Think I could do that in a monogamous relationship? There are so many rules and lack of healthy communication in monogamous relationships - those are just a couple of the many reasons I don't do monogamy anymore.
      70% of straight monogamous relationships end in their first year. 41% of marriages end in divorce. Would you blame monogamy for that? No? Why not, since you seem to be so sure polyamorous relationships are doomed to failure?

    • @ElizabethJBond
      @ElizabethJBond 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It didn't. Kyle apparently walked out a few months ago.

    • @00SuperHAN00
      @00SuperHAN00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Christiamorous
      Lack of healthy communication is not the problem of a monogamous relationship but rather an individual problem.
      If one is experiencing consistent relationship issues, that individual needs to do introspective work rather than blame the structure of the relationship.
      You said you and your fiance have absolutely no problem with sleeping over at other partners’ houses, but in the long run, this can create serious trust issues and jealousy.
      Yes, a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last forever. But I am sure the success ratio is still way higher than polyamory.

  • @brittanyr140
    @brittanyr140 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kyle left the relationship a few months after this video. This didn’t age well…
    At least they were already getting divorced…

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How can we see an update?

  • @JH-nb4nn
    @JH-nb4nn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yair looks and acts like he doesn't like his wife, Ashley. This is sooooooooo gross.

  • @christiangasior4244
    @christiangasior4244 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This won’t last more than a couple years tops. Jealousy is real

  • @Anonymous-li6py
    @Anonymous-li6py ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a rectangle love but if the two men are also in love with each other, then it is a square love.

  • @kdubpharm
    @kdubpharm ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My God please don’t bring children into this mess.

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I usually say stay out but my gosh. I couldn’t agree more. This is over the top.

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree

    • @otterguyty
      @otterguyty ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't see any mess. Just humans who love each other

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas ปีที่แล้ว

      It takes a village to raise a child. Why are so many people anti culture if it's not US and American? Do people not realize how racist comments like this sound? US Americans are a rare culture that believes upbringing a child must only be done by two parents. It's a very white attitude.

    • @EldePHX
      @EldePHX ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please god don’t 🙏🏻

  • @SteveAcomb
    @SteveAcomb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    0:20 A mixologist, a culinary director, and a private chef
    bro thats not a polycule thats a catering company 💀

  • @EidaSadista
    @EidaSadista ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:40 his head 😂😂

  • @Craftgirly
    @Craftgirly ปีที่แล้ว +24

    How to get someone else’s husband and do it under both your husband and his wife’s noses……… How much longer before Rachel and Yair run off into the sunset 🤣

  • @Brownskinhoney
    @Brownskinhoney ปีที่แล้ว +3

    INTERESTING!! I like the 4 incomes though🙌🏾

  • @carlacamsprinkle
    @carlacamsprinkle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All for polyamory if that's what works for all involved. Seems pretty obvious to me though that Kyle is emotionally overwhelmed. Interesting that his (former?) wife doesn't notice this as a therapist.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, thats an incredibly simpleminded view on this. Amazing. How do you live with
      having such simple Ideas?
      What? EVERYTHING is ok when it makes them 'happy'? You do realize
      your silly defintion falls apart the second we apply it to In-est, huh?

  • @sara125982
    @sara125982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very interesting to see thanks CNBC

  • @13SM
    @13SM ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As soon as you see their occupations it all makes sense....to each their own

  • @RealestDave
    @RealestDave ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy smokes, what an incredible experiment, I guess its the dynamics of modern day relationships

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This relationship type is actually older than monogamy

  • @saraf9081
    @saraf9081 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The one making most money will look to exit first

  • @Lommy9999
    @Lommy9999 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm mostly impressed by how well organized they are. Especially financially. I cannot even track how much I spend on food. I wish I were so organized and educated about finances. I have zero understanding of how things really work beyond earning money and not wasting too much....

  • @pkmnan00bis
    @pkmnan00bis ปีที่แล้ว +5

    " No more than $30 a month on video games. " Aight imma head out ...

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr, that doesn't even cover one game, unless it's crap.

  • @TheRachag
    @TheRachag ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree that I don’t see the point of any of them being married if they choose to live this way.
    Wow so everyone is basically married to Rachel?

  • @BobbyKrieger
    @BobbyKrieger ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re crazy if you don’t think there will be a huge rise in this type of relationships
    Rate of single women over 30, increased housing cost and declining birth rates will all factor in

  • @AG-en5y
    @AG-en5y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Red head is the running the house. She’s the king, queen, prince and princess of the house