I definitely wanted to see both perspectives. The interview with Marston was great. I'm not disliking her as much as I thought I would. I think she believes her own narrative. She probably shouldn't have been in that environment if she wasn't into a sugar daddy dynamic naturally. I think Holly and Bridgette view things more positively and viewed being at the mansion as a family.
Absolutely agree. It is a MUST watch. It is important to get everyone's perspective. Two things are can true. That said, I really respect Hue's son, Marston. His opinion on this situation is very very illuminating.
I don't like this woman. She sent Holly, Bridget, and marsten a cease and desist just for talking about her book and marsten even said everything he says is his opinion and none of it was bad. Why did she need a several million dollar house from him when he couldn't afford it? Of u weren't in love, why did u keep his name for fame?
I'm wondering what hefner's children from his first wife think of this woman dragging their mom in several interviews with cheating accusations 1:50 when in this woman's own book she clearly admits to going off to have an affair with a younger man near the end of her husband's life while he was sick and frail and him begging her not to leave but she left to cheat anyway🥴
@@pegsullivan2299not really. Bridget makes it clear her experience was more positive than Holly’s. Crystal tried to sue their podcast. So they very much are at loggerheads. They didn’t do anything wrong and Crystal shouldn’t have tried to silence them. So as I said, team Holly and Bridget.
Yeah, but jeez! This man has been around for a long time and didn’t we all know more than we wanted to about who he was and how he lived? For her to make that choice to be with him… I don’t have very much sympathy 🤷🏼♀️
@@coconutty4808 not everyone has the self-esteem in place to make the courageous decision to leave. The human brain is designed to remain in familiar situations as its easier to predict the future, keeping you "safe". But sadly this includes situations that are unhealthy. The brain deems the unhealthy situation "safer" than the unknown future situation if you decide to change. The longer the situation, the harder it is to break the neural circuit. Its why a lot of people (mainly women) stay in abusive relationships. Also, looking from an outsiders perspective makes it much easier to see the difference, we have no emotions in place tied to the situation. It's okay to have your opinions of course, but try lead with curiosity rather than judgement
why isn't she angry with her mom for encouraging this lifestyle her whole life? has a lot of misdirected anger and frustration toward her husband who gave her the luxurious lifestyle she is living today as she keeps his last name.
How the hell do you know she's a person no-one would care about if it weren't for him? You don't know. How dare you just assume things about her when you don't know her. Show me someone who hasn't been young and influenced and/or manipulated. Then controlled. Predators prey on the vulnerable. They can spot them a mile off and Hefner was without a doubt predatory.
And I agree with Kimberly. There are those that keep trying to profit from their experience at the mansion. All could’ve left and some did. Crystal came back. I’ll never buy any of their books.
I just don’t buy her BS. Why did she stay and what made her come back once she left? She has no reason to whine about how bad things were now. Not only did she leave, she came back.
So sad that some people think it's completely okay to invite people to a party based on the way they look, but as Crystal said... What he wanted, he got!
@@user-bq2ko2tb2w are you serious? That's like saying every person should be invited to every Hollywood party, every glitzy event. That's not the way it works. If anyone can step foot into private parties they lose their purpose, exclusivity and mystique. No one who finds issue with that wants to go anywhere
I think listening to marstons interview and interviews from those around him in his last year is really concerning they are all talking along the same lines i just cant listen to her without thinking shes lying and what they did to an old man in his final days
I’m an introvert, so much so that I have to watch tv, videos, documentaries and news to see what is happening in the world. You wouldn’t get me in an interview to talk about my famous late husband because I would never have any of it because I am in INTROVERT and don’t leave my place unless it’s to go to work or go food shopping or go on my long solo walk. She is however a huge liar, loved what Hef could provide for her and talks to much smack about the girls who never did anything to her but she is clearly very jealous of them both, our sweet Bridget and Holly. Crystal is creepy here with all the whispering and bold face lies
Love this interview! As a huge fan of holly and Bridget, it’s important to remember two things can simultaneously be true 🤍. Loved getting crystals perspective and I wish her the best 🌸
I would urge everyone to watch Girls Next Level episode about her book, with Holly, Bridget, and Hue's son, Marston Hefner. They have quite a different view of the situation. Crystal is REALLY rewriting history a bit. Worst of all, she changed the long standing will at the last minute. Shady shady shady.
I don’t understand why Holly is bashing Crystal’s book. Most of the girlfriends are going to have similar stories, issues, relationship with Hef. Remember he was a creature of habit.
I glad Crystal you said --- your making money from Playboy. Hugh did make money from women and got $800,000 from the Runaway Bride. So you have a right to make money off of him. Holly is making money from Playboy and Bridgette. Why shouldn't you. You saw him when he was gone...... Good Luck.
They all go there to meet wealth.let’s not sugar coat it and if you have beauty and not much else ,you gonna use to attract. Symbiotic relationships or parasites feeding off each other.
Holly, Kendra, Bridgett, Crystal, Kristina, and Karissa were all vulnerable to 'Hef's' narcissism, manipulation, and the culture of his cultlike group because of their backgrounds (e.g. little money, prior abuse; learning disability and drug addiction in Kendra's case too). I find the 'Team' whomever idea a little odd. Their core experience was the same; they just made different choices. I've read all of their books and watched many interviews. They're intelligent women trying to process a cultlike group and lifelong stigma. There will always be conflict between them; Hef loved to play his 'girlfriends' off each other. We can just listen to their stories and gain some insights so that we recognize narcissistic people and unhealthy relationships in our own lives.
I found this interview really interesting and my preconceived idea of a “playboy bunny” was challenged. I think I’ll buy the book to learn more about her story. I’ve followed Jaime since his Made In Chelsea days and I’m so pleased to see his success - these are great interviews and you have such a talent for talking to people - getting some great insights from your guests whilst being positive and understanding, and not pushing an agenda. 👏🏻
Every interview I’ve seen her do, she is always dressed so conservatively. Most of these ex playmates show up with extreme make up, boobs out, legs out, etc. But she’s always covered up with tasteful make up so it’s a nice image that she projects. She knows she has something to say, and is secure in herself, not needing to have people gawk at her body.
People aren't taking into account the times she grew up in when girls were subjected to the bombshell persona thru glam rock, movies, magazines. It was the epitomy of the ultimate woman. Plus she was incredibly beautiful, young, introverted, needy - perfect catch for a hunter...I feel for all his women:(
"I think he only loved himself" nope, he loved Holly, you.judt filled the void when she wanted nothing else to do with Hef. You can't be honest in this interview and you can't be honest in your book, so it shouldn't be surprising
"I don't need that name" if you REALLY wanted to change your name from Hefner, you would have done it BEFORE releasing the book. You PURELY kept it to sell the book because you know no one would give the slightest bit of shit without the last name "Hefner" and the purely fictional subtitle "surviving Playboy"
So she is so insecure it took her a decade To figure that out … maybe it’s the $$$$ and status put her self Interests way ahead of leaving . Holly did love him. He knew who he could Manipulate. He felt Sorry for the under dogs .. maybe that’s why she lasted so long not in love a milk toast under dog .. life long Victim. All her life even before hef poor me I am poor I am a victim .. she is a phony . She met him not at the mansion Halloween party’ . She met him at a rented event . Another embellishment
I never realized how beautiful Crystal really is….she has a perfect side profile. I watch Holly and Bridget because they are very relatable and I am a fan. It’s too bad that Crystal sent them a cease and desist letter.
So she never loved him but yet married him. Sorry but who marries a 90 year old without another agenda She is still living off him by constantly talking about him. These woman knew exactly what they were doing and profited from it. She could have walked away at any time yet she stayed and married him. These woman wanted fame and how were they going to get that? By sleeping with an old but powerful man.
I could read an article about her, but not a whole book. Jamie is good at interviews, but he couldn’t get much out of her. I think because she doesn’t have much to offer. Enjoy the book 😊
I hope i never have anyone in my life as phony as this woman. She used him, made herself a victim, and still using his name and involved in his company.
Narcissist love to pray on people pleaser ,nice, kind, loving people,and they can mold young people. Especially if they are young like they said metal abuse
interesting from the get go "did you love him" she immediately goes to if he loves her. Then says 'he loved his kids, then me sadly". Something seems off....How is she acting so coy and shy, she knew what she was doing when she applied to go to the party, you have to send in a photo to get approved, she clearly thought she fit the bill and had intent, this was 4 years into a tv show she saw and knew what it was about. She didn't profit off him? she got a 3 mil house, 1k a week probably better tv compensation that the original girls ever got for girl next door, she is selling books profiting off him and keeping his name, she is the president of his legacy charity board and probably getting a heap of money off of that while changing what everything playboy did stand for. I am sorry but playboy worked because a lot of people saw it as 'BEAUTY' and she did too that;s why she morphed into it. Victoria secret went from the most watched runway show to completely ruined because there is a standard of beauty. like it or not. She comes off so fake and rehearsed
Irritating to manage the difference in volume between her and Jamie. I gave up about halfway through. She hadn’t said anything of substance at that point. Jamie was struggling to get anything interesting out of her. Think she really is just a pretty face. I didn’t know anything about her and wouldn’t buy her book to find out if there’s anything more there. She came across as boring.
I wouldn't call that financial abuse- noone else's boyfriend gives them an allowance and no gf should be like 'I'm not getting enough money to leave you' so I'm with Hef on that one tbh
The girl who took her is not a friend or else Crystal could have talked to her about the Hef plan and life she lived.where’s that friend now? She said nothing about the friend so far.
She exudes an air of insipidity. Jamie seems to exert considerable effort in attempting to prompt her to engage in a meaningful conversation. It feels as though he poses a question, only to receive a brief "yes" or "no" in response, compelling him to delve further to elicit a more substantial reply.
Two seconds in “this is all fake”. You hit the nail on the head Crystal. You knew it was all fake from the beginning so stop being the victim. You had the power - victims don’t.
Hey made the marriage into a national spectacle and that made her feel like a trophy so she did not feel secure in the relationship. He based his identity off having tons of young women around him and that made her feel like an object of his ego.
She didn't care that he died - leave it as that - the avoidance was irksome... she was at uni studying psychology but wasn't aware of the term nor traits of narcissism?
It’s called’she should have known better’. How many times in your life have you said ‘ why didn’t I see that’? The bottom line is she wanted financial security and knew the sort of house he ran, but there was a lot she didn’t expect or want.
Not doing herself any favors. Maybe all of his girlfriends should stop talking about him...speak your peace and let it go. And when i say all of his X 's i mean just that..all of them.
First time listener to this podcast and Crystals story and I must say I will be listening to more episodes from this podcast and read Crystals book! I’m in awe at how attentive the podcast host is and I love Crystals energy! 🫶
In a way, Hef got what he put out. He manipulated and abused women in certain ways, and he got it back at different times, but especially toward the end of his life with Crystal. I dont particularly agree with her or what she lies about, but i do think Hef got burned by the game he himself started. I can tell some things she says are true, but there have been discrepancies brought up and also personal experiences with Crystal from others that say what kind of person she was, and they are never favorable. People can generally tell when someone is disingenuous or has a bad vibe. And i think that will follow her around and she will never be looked at in a positive light bc of what has come out about her behavior. She can try though i guess. 🤷♂️
They All say They had no feelings etc etc but yet They All keep talking about Hef lol Crystal wasnt in love with Hef but yet She stayed with Him and took Money and a House lol wow!
I think Hef was sad because he really loved and missed Holly. He was very sad to his main 3 girls leave. Hef never got over them. Especially Holly. But he would never admit that, but everybody knew.😢
“I felt sorry for him”…. okay… “you know his first wife cheated on him” miss crystal so did you… drop the last name you’re just a clout chaser… she talks about wanting peace in her life now… what a hypocrisy
What happens when you show up to work and you end up hating it because it's not for you? You leave. These women got paid and were not forced against their will. Now that he is long and gone you talk crap. The money was good though you got paid. Trust me I was a fan of the girls next door show so it's hard for me to feel sorry.
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Everyone should watch holly and Bridget's podcast with his son. What they think of crystal "HEFNERS" Book
I love their podcast! It’s important to remember two things can simultaneously be true 🤍
A lot of truth there with the podcast with holly and Bridgette
I definitely wanted to see both perspectives. The interview with Marston was great. I'm not disliking her as much as I thought I would. I think she believes her own narrative. She probably shouldn't have been in that environment if she wasn't into a sugar daddy dynamic naturally. I think Holly and Bridgette view things more positively and viewed being at the mansion as a family.
Yes! Crystal is such an attention seeker. It’s really sad what she’s doing
Absolutely agree. It is a MUST watch. It is important to get everyone's perspective. Two things are can true. That said, I really respect Hue's son, Marston. His opinion on this situation is very very illuminating.
I don't like this woman.
She sent Holly, Bridget, and marsten a cease and desist just for talking about her book and marsten even said everything he says is his opinion and none of it was bad. Why did she need a several million dollar house from him when he couldn't afford it? Of u weren't in love, why did u keep his name for fame?
Holly said she had Stockholm syndrome too. It’s like she copied Hollys book.
I'm wondering what hefner's children from his first wife think of this woman dragging their mom in several interviews with cheating accusations 1:50 when in this woman's own book she clearly admits to going off to have an affair with a younger man near the end of her husband's life while he was sick and frail and him begging her not to leave but she left to cheat anyway🥴
“I’m an introvert “.. as I run to the tabloids to talk shit about Holly, Bridget and his son Marston.
Spot on!
Jamie is so talented as an interviewer! I'm so struck with how attuned he is to his guests!!
Team Holly and Bridget. But also wish Crystal well in her recovery from trauma
Holly and Bridget both look back negatively since he died! They both have same story as her
@@pegsullivan2299not really. Bridget makes it clear her experience was more positive than Holly’s. Crystal tried to sue their podcast. So they very much are at loggerheads. They didn’t do anything wrong and Crystal shouldn’t have tried to silence them. So as I said, team Holly and Bridget.
“If the relationship is anything less than nurturing, run” - an important message we should be reminding ourselves of constantly, I hope she heals ❤
Yeah, but jeez! This man has been around for a long time and didn’t we all know more than we wanted to about who he was and how he lived? For her to make that choice to be with him… I don’t have very much sympathy 🤷🏼♀️
@@coconutty4808 not everyone has the self-esteem in place to make the courageous decision to leave. The human brain is designed to remain in familiar situations as its easier to predict the future, keeping you "safe". But sadly this includes situations that are unhealthy. The brain deems the unhealthy situation "safer" than the unknown future situation if you decide to change. The longer the situation, the harder it is to break the neural circuit. Its why a lot of people (mainly women) stay in abusive relationships. Also, looking from an outsiders perspective makes it much easier to see the difference, we have no emotions in place tied to the situation. It's okay to have your opinions of course, but try lead with curiosity rather than judgement
I'm sure the money is a big reason she stayed
Why does she whisper most of the interview. Gawd I almost had a stroke when the commercial came on- volume was turned way up.
Thanks for the warning! Hahaha
😂😂😂😂 same
No kidding 😂😂😂
She didn’t love him and she wasn’t sad when he died. Says a lot about what kind of person she is. Wow!
Wow judgemental much?
Says more about him that he preyed on young vulnerable girls.
He was no more than a dirty old man with money.
@@devina1100 Well put! She probably didn’t know everything she was getting into, but her dirty old man did!
@@Roz-y2d Exactly that.
Maybe it says more what kind of person he was!
@@devina1100
There are dirty old men and there are beautiful young women who fall for what is on offer.
Transactional love 😊
why isn't she angry with her mom for encouraging this lifestyle her whole life? has a lot of misdirected anger and frustration toward her husband who gave her the luxurious lifestyle she is living today as she keeps his last name.
You might be right. However mom didn't want her to live in poverty.
She's angry because he was misogynistic
@@user-bq2ko2tb2w and her mom encouraged it
Team Holly and Bridget!!!!
I’m not sure I understand the beef. They were not in the same relationship as Crystal. What are Holly and Bridget’s issues?
@@LG-jm6eqthey are hypocrites and jealous of Crystal, Holly is a narcissist
Holly has also complained about abuse so why are you taking sides?
@@Jenny-ls7hfthe only one I like is Bridgette
Lol - is ANYONE shocked that she didn’t love him???
Still using his name though 😒
No, she's not. Listen to the whole interview.
It’s her legal name .. duh
Who cares using his name she was his wife and putting up with that pervert she's earned it and all the fruits that comes with it
She’s not using his name, she has her own name and her own person.
It’s good for business
Team Holly & Bridget! ✨️ Crystal knew what she was & is doing. $$$$
Aww Jamie you are so empathetic and understanding very positive and uplifting even watching you give the feeling of safeness to woman 🙏
A person no one would care about if it wasn’t for Hugh Hefner yet proceeds to bash him now that he has passed. Stay classy
How the hell do you know she's a person no-one would care about if it weren't for him?
You don't know.
How dare you just assume things about her when you don't know her.
Show me someone who hasn't been young and influenced and/or manipulated. Then controlled.
Predators prey on the vulnerable. They can spot them a mile off and Hefner was without a doubt predatory.
He was very misogynistic, she is allowed to speak out about abuse
And I agree with Kimberly. There are those that keep trying to profit from their experience at the mansion. All could’ve left and some did. Crystal came back. I’ll never buy any of their books.
She's so infuriating.
@@SanchoGracieWhy? She seems a bland person to me. I hope she gets as much as she can out of it!
She has that weird joker smile plastic surgery.
That’s from filler and not surgery
When you got zero game plan or self identity and still want to make a buck.
I love it you always ask the questions we want to know! Where’s your mate is she behind the rope? 😂😂😂
Don’t know why you marry someone you don’t love. I love how her sentences end in a whisper.
I just don’t buy her BS. Why did she stay and what made her come back once she left? She has no reason to whine about how bad things were now. Not only did she leave, she came back.
The whisper is more tolerable to me than upspeak. Holy has an upspeak that is wretched. But both are living off of looking back.
So sad that some people think it's completely okay to invite people to a party based on the way they look, but as Crystal said... What he wanted, he got!
its HIS party, he can do as he pleases, just as you can choose who goes to your party and use any criteria.
@jessicab2682 that's not normal behaviour, it's sexist and toxic
@@user-bq2ko2tb2w are you serious? That's like saying every person should be invited to every Hollywood party, every glitzy event. That's not the way it works. If anyone can step foot into private parties they lose their purpose, exclusivity and mystique. No one who finds issue with that wants to go anywhere
You should listen to this weeks girls next level with hefs son marston talking about the book!
He lives like a KING. He could get some heartache from woman who did take off there clothers.
I think listening to marstons interview and interviews from those around him in his last year is really concerning they are all talking along the same lines i just cant listen to her without thinking shes lying and what they did to an old man in his final days
I like the Interviewer. Never seen him before but would definitely watch him again.
I’m an introvert, so much so that I have to watch tv, videos, documentaries and news to see what is happening in the world. You wouldn’t get me in an interview to talk about my famous late husband because I would never have any of it because I am in INTROVERT and don’t leave my place unless it’s to go to work or go food shopping or go on my long solo walk. She is however a huge liar, loved what Hef could provide for her and talks to much smack about the girls who never did anything to her but she is clearly very jealous of them both, our sweet Bridget and Holly. Crystal is creepy here with all the whispering and bold face lies
This Interviewer is fantastic! so sweet and engaging
Ahhhh still rocking the Hefner last name 🙄 "I NeVeR lOvEd HiM, bUt I WiLl MaKe MoNeY oFf HiS nAmE" gtfoh 😂
Playboy makes money off of objectifying women which is abusive and wrong.
Love this interview! As a huge fan of holly and Bridget, it’s important to remember two things can simultaneously be true 🤍. Loved getting crystals perspective and I wish her the best 🌸
I love your comment coz it is fair and rational.
I would urge everyone to watch Girls Next Level episode about her book, with Holly, Bridget, and Hue's son, Marston Hefner. They have quite a different view of the situation. Crystal is REALLY rewriting history a bit. Worst of all, she changed the long standing will at the last minute. Shady shady shady.
Playboy is abusive and misogynistic. She's allowed to speak out about that
@user-bq2ko2tb2w She sure is! She can share whatever she wants to.That'ss not my point.
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Everyone is entitled to their opinions.
I don’t understand why Holly is bashing Crystal’s book. Most of the girlfriends are going to have similar stories, issues, relationship with Hef. Remember he was a creature of habit.
🤔 Great interview, and the compassion, kindness, and professionalism that’s shown to Hef’s widow is refreshing, to say the least.
Is this sarcasm? I mean....
Absolutely no sarcasm 👇
@@SanchoGracie no
I glad Crystal you said --- your making money from Playboy. Hugh did make money from women and got $800,000 from the Runaway Bride. So you have a right to make money off of him. Holly is making money from Playboy and Bridgette. Why shouldn't you. You saw him when he was gone...... Good Luck.
Well said. Hefner had a very unusual life and he used people, especially women.
They all go there to meet wealth.let’s not sugar coat it and if you have beauty and not much else ,you gonna use to attract. Symbiotic relationships or parasites feeding off each other.
Well put. That’s exactly what it was!
Holly, Kendra, Bridgett, Crystal, Kristina, and Karissa were all vulnerable to 'Hef's' narcissism, manipulation, and the culture of his cultlike group because of their backgrounds (e.g. little money, prior abuse; learning disability and drug addiction in Kendra's case too). I find the 'Team' whomever idea a little odd. Their core experience was the same; they just made different choices. I've read all of their books and watched many interviews. They're intelligent women trying to process a cultlike group and lifelong stigma. There will always be conflict between them; Hef loved to play his 'girlfriends' off each other. We can just listen to their stories and gain some insights so that we recognize narcissistic people and unhealthy relationships in our own lives.
Intelligent?
You didn’t ask her why she wanted hefs family members to sign ndas
Bridget and holly need to do a reaction video to this
I never heard of her, but to me she has that genuine likability.
I found this interview really interesting and my preconceived idea of a “playboy bunny” was challenged. I think I’ll buy the book to learn more about her story. I’ve followed Jaime since his Made In Chelsea days and I’m so pleased to see his success - these are great interviews and you have such a talent for talking to people - getting some great insights from your guests whilst being positive and understanding, and not pushing an agenda. 👏🏻
Wow, what was it that drew you, as a 10 year old boy, to Playboy?
- Freedom. I could see the huge huge freedom.
😂😂😂😂
Playboy is sexist and creepy and so is this comment
I feel like she tries so hard to be Holly … even the stalk holm syndrome part
its call the not being broke syndrome she had
Every interview I’ve seen her do, she is always dressed so conservatively. Most of these ex playmates show up with extreme make up, boobs out, legs out, etc. But she’s always covered up with tasteful make up so it’s a nice image that she projects. She knows she has something to say, and is secure in herself, not needing to have people gawk at her body.
Love love love Jamie, but she’s quite a hard shift as an interviewee … with Jamie’s skills it turned out good . She is as she says introverted .
Good interview. Best of luck to her.
People aren't taking into account the times she grew up in when girls were subjected to the bombshell persona thru glam rock, movies, magazines. It was the epitomy of the ultimate woman. Plus she was incredibly beautiful, young, introverted, needy - perfect catch for a hunter...I feel for all his women:(
What a powerful interview
"I think he only loved himself" nope, he loved Holly, you.judt filled the void when she wanted nothing else to do with Hef. You can't be honest in this interview and you can't be honest in your book, so it shouldn't be surprising
"I don't need that name" if you REALLY wanted to change your name from Hefner, you would have done it BEFORE releasing the book. You PURELY kept it to sell the book because you know no one would give the slightest bit of shit without the last name "Hefner" and the purely fictional subtitle "surviving Playboy"
True but Hef didn't want marry Holly so she left.
He said he made a mistake by not marrying holly he said that on the show. She left him.
She was in it for the money. Some of the people in the manson said she would sneaked out to see her boyfriend on the side.
Great chat😉
So why was she with him.
She’s had a lip flip. More subtle than fillers. Very effective
So she is so insecure it took her a decade
To figure that out … maybe it’s the $$$$ and status put her self
Interests way ahead of leaving
. Holly did love him. He knew who he could
Manipulate. He felt
Sorry for the under dogs .. maybe that’s why she lasted so long not in love a milk toast under dog .. life long Victim. All her life even before hef poor me
I am poor I am a victim .. she is a phony . She met him not at the mansion Halloween party’ . She met him at a rented event . Another embellishment
I love watching Crystal process all of this, I think it speaks to a lot of people’s journeys.
I never realized how beautiful Crystal really is….she has a perfect side profile. I watch Holly and Bridget because they are very relatable and I am a fan. It’s too bad that Crystal sent them a cease and desist letter.
Who are you to say that he loved you more then his kids
This woman makes me sick! And by the way she is still the president of the Hugh M. Hefner Foundation.
So she never loved him but yet married him.
Sorry but who marries a 90 year old without another agenda
She is still living off him by constantly talking about him. These woman knew exactly what they were doing and profited from it. She could have walked away at any time yet she stayed and married him. These woman wanted fame and how were they going to get that? By sleeping with an old but powerful man.
She’s clever she didn’t give to much away I want to read the book now,
I could read an article about her, but not a whole book.
Jamie is good at interviews, but he couldn’t get much out of her. I think because she doesn’t have much to offer.
Enjoy the book 😊
I hope i never have anyone in my life as phony as this woman. She used him, made herself a victim, and still using his name and involved in his company.
Narcissist love to pray on people pleaser ,nice, kind, loving people,and they can mold young people. Especially if they are young like they said metal abuse
interesting from the get go "did you love him" she immediately goes to if he loves her. Then says 'he loved his kids, then me sadly". Something seems off....How is she acting so coy and shy, she knew what she was doing when she applied to go to the party, you have to send in a photo to get approved, she clearly thought she fit the bill and had intent, this was 4 years into a tv show she saw and knew what it was about. She didn't profit off him? she got a 3 mil house, 1k a week probably better tv compensation that the original girls ever got for girl next door, she is selling books profiting off him and keeping his name, she is the president of his legacy charity board and probably getting a heap of money off of that while changing what everything playboy did stand for. I am sorry but playboy worked because a lot of people saw it as 'BEAUTY' and she did too that;s why she morphed into it. Victoria secret went from the most watched runway show to completely ruined because there is a standard of beauty. like it or not. She comes off so fake and rehearsed
Playboy is very misogynistic and I think she should be believed
@user-bq2ko2tb2w good Lord. In walks the woke perpetual victim.
Why is she whispering??? Like seriously Stop.
Irritating to manage the difference in volume between her and Jamie. I gave up about halfway through. She hadn’t said anything of substance at that point. Jamie was struggling to get anything interesting out of her. Think she really is just a pretty face. I didn’t know anything about her and wouldn’t buy her book to find out if there’s anything more there. She came across as boring.
She has written a book spilling all the tea. She hardly feels sorry now
Every Friday 1,000 bucks , while he's picking up dog poop 💩 and telling the girls , you need to party more , and sleep with my famous friends more
I wouldn't call that financial abuse- noone else's boyfriend gives them an allowance and no gf should be like 'I'm not getting enough money to leave you' so I'm with Hef on that one tbh
Definitely not financial abuse. She chose that life.
I can’t with this woman ……..
The girl who took her is not a friend or else Crystal could have talked to her about the Hef plan and life she lived.where’s that friend now? She said nothing about the friend so far.
She exudes an air of insipidity. Jamie seems to exert considerable effort in attempting to prompt her to engage in a meaningful conversation. It feels as though he poses a question, only to receive a brief "yes" or "no" in response, compelling him to delve further to elicit a more substantial reply.
Two seconds in “this is all fake”. You hit the nail on the head Crystal. You knew it was all fake from the beginning so stop being the victim. You had the power - victims don’t.
Hey made the marriage into a national spectacle and that made her feel like a trophy so she did not feel secure in the relationship. He based his identity off having tons of young women around him and that made her feel like an object of his ego.
If she didn’t love him then she used him, which is disgusting
Hef sounds like he was emotionally crippled & possibly crippled on so many levels
She didn't care that he died - leave it as that - the avoidance was irksome... she was at uni studying psychology but wasn't aware of the term nor traits of narcissism?
Right?! Nor "boundaries" or "misogyny"?!?!
It’s called’she should have known better’. How many times in your life have you said ‘ why didn’t I see that’? The bottom line is she wanted financial security and knew the sort of house he ran, but there was a lot she didn’t expect or want.
@@Roz-y2d rubbish - some people don't ignore negative facts just to avoid difficulty... you describe gutless and selfish people!!!
She went to Bali with her boyfriend on his death bed!
Why do you go on a podcast to whisper? I got the impression that she is lying.
Not doing herself any favors. Maybe all of his girlfriends should stop talking about him...speak your peace and let it go. And when i say all of his X 's i mean just that..all of them.
I find her uncomfortable to watch , had to tap out at 10 mins in - something off!
First time listener to this podcast and Crystals story and I must say I will be listening to more episodes from this podcast and read Crystals book! I’m in awe at how attentive the podcast host is and I love Crystals energy! 🫶
Energy?? Sarcasm, right?
@@candyjohnson3302Perspective is probably a better word. They all knew why they were there, so let’s not point fingers or pull the wool.
I wonder if Hef was connected to CIA & the girls were used as honey pots & if the word “bunny” refers to the chrome???
Why shouldn't she use his name? It doesn't invalidate what she is saying.
Good girl…you truly saw through the facade
Good girl?
Good grief!
She married him for the money
she deserves to keep her last name if she wants it, it's cute ❤
It’s not cute but it is hers!
Why would u marry someone u dont love, but told him u loved him?
In a way, Hef got what he put out. He manipulated and abused women in certain ways, and he got it back at different times, but especially toward the end of his life with Crystal. I dont particularly agree with her or what she lies about, but i do think Hef got burned by the game he himself started. I can tell some things she says are true, but there have been discrepancies brought up and also personal experiences with Crystal from others that say what kind of person she was, and they are never favorable. People can generally tell when someone is disingenuous or has a bad vibe. And i think that will follow her around and she will never be looked at in a positive light bc of what has come out about her behavior. She can try though i guess. 🤷♂️
She still wants to be Holly so bad 😂
Why? They were all being used in the same way. It was just a very plush knocking shop!
@@Roz-y2d
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She married him but hates him so weird I can’t with her
Sounds to me like Hef lived a very lonely life surrounded by people & never really connecting
You should interview Holly or Bridget! Holly is so knowledgeable about Playboy
They All say They had no feelings etc etc but yet They All keep talking about Hef lol Crystal wasnt in love with Hef but yet She stayed with Him and took Money and a House lol wow!
Jamie, please your wedding cost more than 400 thousands ;)
But he’s hoping it will only happen one time. The parties were endless 😊
Getting £1k a week was demoralising? You could’ve made that last, lady?..
I think Hef was sad because he really loved and missed Holly. He was very sad to his main 3 girls leave. Hef never got over them. Especially Holly. But he would never admit that, but everybody knew.😢
Absolutely. Crystal was just hungry enough to take what Hef was offering. Holly had long since found her self respect.
How can he think of her as loyal to Hefner? Yes, he was a misogynist, shes still icky.
So sad that objectifying each other discounts our value
“I felt sorry for him”…. okay…
“you know his first wife cheated on him”
miss crystal so did you… drop the last name you’re just a clout chaser…
she talks about wanting peace in her life now… what a hypocrisy
What happens when you show up to work and you end up hating it because it's not for you? You leave. These women got paid and were not forced against their will. Now that he is long and gone you talk crap. The money was good though you got paid. Trust me I was a fan of the girls next door show so it's hard for me to feel sorry.
She didn’t recognise Hef’s narcissism - in hindsight she should have stayed in college & carried on studying psychology.
Right?! 🙄
Sorry but can't HEAR a thing!!! 😒 The audio is not very good and all the weird whispering stuff. I'm OUT.😶🌫️