@@Anythingwilldo-d3q The Way Of the Salaf is as clear as day. So no need for new ideologies. If I understood what you said correctly, this reply should apply. The problem is that no one wants to make the effort to properly seek knowledge.
@@Anythingwilldo-d3q If the society doesn't go to Quran and sunnah then preach quran and sunnah and seek knowledge, how can a new Ideology be the solution?
Brother Saajid has exemplary character. He's not like everybody else on his level. His manners and etiquettes puts him above them all even though they may have the same "qualifications". He doesn't resort to slander and name-calling no matter what the circumstance is. May Allaah keep him steadfast and admit him to Al-Firdous Al-A'laa
This is why my dear brother I have never been able to support reading social media. Too frustrating seeing how stupid people can be. May Allah increase your patience and knowledge, BarakAllahou fik.
@@Raspberries9372 Lol That's actually a good point The difference between this video sharing platform (yt) and other social media platforms is i have control on what i want to watch surprisingly , using the "not interested" and "dont recommend this channel" actually works That means no drama , no looking at haram stuff(using TH-cam vanced mobile and ad blocker on pc) , negativity, or useless trending sutff and videos Other social media dont let me what i want to watch , so either they share haram ads , or share post that are very useless , cringy , negativity or watching other "influencers" pictures or videos and etc Jazakallah khair
I only recently found you on TH-cam. And I’ll straight up say that unlike a lot of others, when you give constructive criticism you don’t point fingers and make it nasty. I feel like you are a genuine person and it shows. I also have not seen a video of yours where I didn’t like your takes. Mashallah you are very thoughtful and intelligent. May Allah give you more wisdom.
Ameen! Masha’allah Allahuma barik it’s because he follows the Quran and Sunnah and calls to the correct path. May Allah reward him and increase him even more in knowledge and good character.
What angers me the most, is when red-pilled brothers use the hadiths of the Prophet ﷺ adressing the Sahabiyats (may Allah be pleased with them) as an example to justify their degrading/mocking/harsh behavior towards women. They need to Fear Allah, The Prophet’s character is known to us, ''There has certainly come to you a Messenger from among yourselves. Grievous to him is what you suffer; (he is) concerned over you (i.e., your guidance) and to the believers is kind and merciful.” To use the hadith as 'gotcha' moment, is reckless and disingenous. The Prophet ﷺ speech should not be used as a tool to defend bad manners.
@@aishax01 exactly it's so disgusting when they do that, like they use the same methods on sisters the ex Muslims use on sisters when they use those hadiths, but than the brothers claim they want good for sisters. Cognitive dissonance.
I saw the video that Mahdi guy posted, hes a joker. Everything you said is bang on, he is misguiding young lost Muslim men into thinking that red pill stuff is the way of Islam. It's not, its nonsense. I saw some brothers come to the Masjid the other day from London, and they asked me where I'm from and what not (as I'm an obvious revert with tattoos on face, neck & hands etc) One of the youngest, he was about 14 pulled hes Iphone out, and walahi hes wallpaper was Andrew Tate, and he put the phone in my face and asked what I think about the Top G. I said he is a very well spoken man, who was a good Kick-boxer, I told them the city we were in was the first place Tate fought professionally (Westcliff/Southend-On-Sea). & I mentioned that I understood he has come to Islam, Alhamdullilah. They were so fired up by Andrew Tate, so I asked all 6 of them if they wanted to be like the Top G, and they all got excited saying yeah as hes done this and that. May Allah forgive us. I had to remind them what you said in a previous video (I believe it was you anyway, Saajid) Andrew Tate has just become a Muslim, he wants to be like you. The man you are referring to, has been forgiven of that life he once knew, Walahi yanni you want to be like him so bad but, he just wants to be like you. Anyway, I love the content brother, Asalamu Aleikum from the UK!
Brother Saajid you have just reinforced what I have reiterated time and time again but obvs way more eloquent than me lol ma sha Allah. Also the fact that they will resort to calling you names is evident of their akhlaq and to what they have been fed. May Allah increase you in knowledge Ameen. Jazak Allah Khair.
It is really weird to say this, but have you noticed a change in their talking ways after Trump? Like that is his way of talking...are these people copying him?
Very delicate topic at the moment. Men can't get married, woman can't get married. It's a huge issue in the West for Muslims. People waiting till the late to early 30s
@@Raspberries9372 I would do the same if I was the father, first of all these men lack akhlaq, I would throw my daughter towards destruction by marrying them to those red pill type of men. I highly doubt anything from Quran and Sunnah and the people of knowledge support them.
I love how when men or women defend women, they always have to preface by saying they aren't feminists... as if defending women is feminism...our ummah is sick--we need healing
Because people generalize them as feminist so they have to say that they have to actually say that they are not feminist. I find it saddening to how people quickly label others.
I think some imams tried to promote feminism as opposed to teach Islam. That's is why it necessitates to separate ourselves from both feminism and red pillers.
Wow I didn't expect to come across this video but I am glad to have. I am a revert and I was so disgusted by some of the things I have seen that I began to think about the decisions I have made regarding reverting. I have seen two men mahdi tidjani & holistic man and shocked that Muslims were not protecting the community against them. Even Mohammed hijab and Ali dawah have began entertaining these type of topics. I thank you for using your platform to spread good.
Sister I can understand but plzz don’t listen mahdi he speak without knowledge..Ali dawah and Muhammad hijab is also entertaining men. Sister whenever you have any doubts and questions please contact a knowledgeable person who study deen under ulama and mufti
Jazakum Allah'u Khiyran brother Imam Saajid Lipham for spreading knowledge with respect to faith interaction with the current issues. May Allah (SWT) rewards your good deeds for helping our brothers and sisters in Islam.
So much respect for the way you respectfully counter slander etc. I appreciate how you don't jump on the Hype train of Red pill. I 100% resonate with what you said about feeling the need to have my own career as I have many reasons to doubt men treating me well and most importantly - will they treat my kids well, not cheat on me, appreciate that I will want to finance things sometimes and instill morality in the kids with me instead of degrading me? Thanks for helping to abolish extremist views.
Jazakallahu khayran jaza´br Sajid. You just put my thoughts into words, whenever I comment on posts like this, Muslim men have been attacking me the same way I have beend atatcked by non Muslims when I comment on articles about Islam and Muslims. What a sad reality we are living in.
You can thank a certain "dawah" figure and his fans for that. I think they've set the norm of throwing the term feminist and threw it left and right to anyone talking about women's rights in Islam.
For layman to call a student of knowledge a simp should tell you whom not to follow. This is serious slander and especially for those that actually devote themselves to teach Islam in accordance to the Quran and Sunnah and not some Kufr ideology.
Every man is a male but not every male is a man. Always remember that. The true definition of a man was provided to us by Prophet Muhammad. Just a shame we've lost our way from the true way of life.
@@blueflame3531 yes we are little kids, that's why many parents teach their little kids to not trust strangers because some of them are dangerous people. Just like brother saajid said in the video, many parents give their "little kids" (women) education because they don't trust "strangers" (men) to take care of them. Now, does this kind of thinking solve the problem of finding a wife for men? No
EXACTLY MY SITUATION SAAJID. My father especially but mother too, were very encouraging of me studying, obtaining a degreee and working as a back-up plan to marriage. They were never pushy for me to get married as they knew themselves what type of men exist out there. There really does need to be a healthier balance as going either extreme (working your whole life without persuing marriage or just waiting around for a husband and having no back up plan) will make your life very miserable as we were not created by Allah (SWT) to live in this way. Everything in moderation in this life is the key to success, be it in career, marriage, etc.
Sister, my father was thrilled when I told him I was marrying a revert. He said modern day Middle Eastern men are horrible… And better not to marry them.😂
I do not know a whole lot about this matter but what I understand a little of the movement - is why I am delaying marriage. I have not seen a single happy marriage in my life (happy = one that does not have abuse towards women in it. Unless the woman is dominating the marriage which is not fair), You are right brother. I have seen such a lack of pure intention that I cannot trust anyone, even females. So concentrating on my career and earning some money, having some savings before marriage would help me IF something goes not (Astagfirullah. Let that not happen). I also see that "divorce" is taken so lightly and it truly upsets me. May Allah guide all of us and unite us with mates that are peace to us. Allahumma Ameen.
Asalamalaykum Something I have been in search for quite sometime is a connection with somebody that goes beyond vanity. It's very hard to do in this day and age. People can be, somewhat very superficial. On my quest to achieve this I have learnt a lot about human nature. It seems to me that those who are not given traits such as beauty or being wealthy are some of the nicest, kindest and generous people. While the "gorgeous" and well off seem to be the most arrogant and greedy people out there. Of course that's not to say there aren't beautiful kind people out there. I've been in the process of change for a while now and I have made some decent changes. I saw your profile and it intrigued me. I wanted to learn more about who you are and what type of path you would like on in life. Can we talk?
@@abc-kn6ex Let me guess, DH is filling in as the father figure? عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَيْفَ أَنْتَ إِذَا كَانَتْ عَلَيْكَ أُمَرَاءُ يُؤَخِّرُونَ الصَّلَاةَ عَنْ وَقْتِهَا أَوْ يُمِيتُونَ الصَّلَاةَ عَنْ وَقْتِهَا قَالَ قُلْتُ فَمَا تَأْمُرُنِي قَالَ صَلِّ الصَّلَاةَ لِوَقْتِهَا فَإِنْ أَدْرَكْتَهَا مَعَهُمْ فَصَلِّ فَإِنَّهَا لَكَ نَافِلَةٌ 648 صحيح مسلم كتاب المساجد ومواضع الصلاة باب كراهية تأخير الصلاة عن وقتها المختار وما يفعله المأموم إذا أخرها الإمام Abu Dharr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said to me, “O Abu Dharr, how will you be if your leaders delay the prayer from its proper time, or let it die altogether?” I said, “What do you command me to do?” The Prophet said, “Perform the prayer in its proper time. Then, if you pray with them later, you will be rewarded for a voluntary deed.” Grade: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 648 Source: Sahih (Muslim) What is worse than delaying or missing prayer?
I noticed that they have a great deal of knowledge about western culture related to media, celebrities, and degeneracy. There are a lot of foul terms they use that many people would not come across unless they search for it specifically and some of them have dirty origins.
Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said (in Sunan Ibn e Majah 3029): "O people, beware of exaggeration in religious matters for those who came before you were doomed because of exaggeration in religious matters" Ahmed ibn e Hanbal said: " Donot exaggerate in anything, even love an hatred" (Source: Al Adab Al Shariyah 1/52)
The moment i understood that Daniel was biased and childish was when i saw him with the 3 muslims. One of them was tranquilly stating that mens are better good looking than womens and that this is confirmed by nature. Daniel was just laughing at his ridiculous statement. This was disapointing. I mean, come on.. why so much hate towards women ? Allah swt said : « وَلَقَدْ كَرَّمْنَا بَنِي آدَمَ ».
exactly, it goes both way we need to respect one another. I don't see any of these people promoting healthy marriage based on supporting one another to go to jennah.
Brother Saajid you are 100% right Subhannallaah, unfortunately some “men” nowadays are totally not to be trusted 😤, and those “men” who got offended by what you are saying is only because they fit the (👞)😂😂😂. Sorry I’m not trying to offend anyone but is just the truth. I know so many “men” who get married and a few weeks or months or sometimes years they divorce their wives because they found another girl who they like more, or perhaps after the have 4, 6 or more kids they put on some wight and now she no longer is looking good for him so she got to go 😡! Or they prefer to marry a no Muslim sister because they like them more , what kind of non sense is that. Men need to grow up and mostly they need to fear Allaah, but I can’t just be on only one side, the sisters also have their share in this fitna, they don’t want to get marry to a brother unless he is a doctor a lawyer or on with money 💴🤦🏽♀️, Subhannallaah! May Allaah guide us all and bestow taqwa in our hearts Ameen .
It pointless to point fingers at sisters knowing that feministic narratives started infiltrating the Muslim community as a consequence of male stampede from responsibility as a family leader.
All I know is I see a bunch of average looking Muslim women with less than average looking Muslim men. Balding, fat bellies… Muslim men act like they are a treat to look at. They really aren’t. You should be happy to have your wives!
What funny is, feminist and red pill basically have the same effect on me and causing the same problem to me. They both convince me that Allah hates women. They both convince me that in Islam women are perceived as worthless being. They both convince that Islam curses women. I cried so hard because I don't want Allah to hate me because I'm a woman and I beg for his mercy for women. Untill read Quran myself and I read verses that give women a chance to defend themselves and have negotiations or two way communication with their husbands. Also that Allah gives equal opportunity for both men and women to obtain his mercy. That was then my heart finally rested in peace. Women are obligated to obey their husbands but under agreement and conditional. Asiyah didn't obey her husband pharaoh and khaulah binti Tsa'labah didn't obey her husband when he wanted to touch her after he Zihar her. The extreme and toxic practice of patriarchy and against Islamic teaching is the suicide case of Burari's family.
Islam is a partiarchal religion...ne careful before you cimmit kufr...men have a degree over wmn just like Allah said..Allah created Adam first and created Him in His image...
Thank you so much for making this video brother. Exactly women always need a good educational backup plan as a matter of security. So many muslim women now days get put in the box of feminism when reality they want to feel secure and avoid bad outcomes. Women have to be this way as we have more to lose in a bad relationship than men do. Wish these gender wars would stop and we really start to understand one another. Thank you for starting the conversation.
They rather take advise from a pimp who criticised women of immorality. It’s more attractive for them to follow an advise whereby immorality for men is alright but not for women.
@Hectic he was a pimp, alhamdullilah that he converted and may Allah grant him hidayah but he pimped women, his life before conversion should not be something that is looked up to or glorified.
@@EB-gt1pq sorry, I was asking the father. But in short no to both your questions. She should be supported by her Walee. And if it were an Islam state then state would look after her until she remarried. Does that work for you?
@@Darknss2Light This is a very delicate thing and each family situation is different when looking at this issue. In fact we are not living in a perfect and rosy world. We make do with what we have in order to deal with social injustices regarding the single mother. The woman unfortunately must also be prepared for the worst in these day and age. I have seen my sibling become a single mother without support. My aunts as well. This, in a muslim majority country. The red tape can be atrocious when getting state help in implementing what is due to the divorcey mother. I believe that my daughter must have a usable skill or be able to work if she wants to. I believe in career education besides Islamic education for the woman. The walee, ofcourse, must help the daughter. That is a given. But not all walee can.
Simp means that a man pretty much loses all jealousy for women, let's women do whatever they want, he let them walk all over him. Pretty much a submissive guy towards women.
The term was used to describe the men that watch women streamers online and then donate in some obscure hope that those women will somehow reciprocate their support with romantic love or something. Now the term is applied more loosely to anyone suspected of being yielding to women.
Thank you for saying that women are not above criticism but that it is to be done in a respectful way. Some don’t seem to get that you can end up doing more wrong in the way you go about addressing another wrong. Manners matter. And you Masha Allah, have excellent manners. ✨
Regarding the statistics, that is something I thought to. We can't just quote statistics without knowing how many of them are Muslims, and how many are practicing Muslims, and how many of them are converts, how many of them are repentant? These are the questions that need to be asked.
Some western TH-cam vloggers quote statistics to prove their point regarding a matter of Muslim communities which does not make sense because there's a lot of diversity in Muslims
Daniel Haqiqatjou is the one who says women should not work or get an education., yet his wife is Ivy League educated and has “wife school.” Such hypocrites and the lack of a men who can’t speak out against him. So shameful. Good on Sajid.
Exactly. He went on to say that the grandchildren of women who go to college will end up on OnlyFans. I mean, come on. If your wife could keep herself in check and submit to Allah after admitting that she was a feminist back in Harvard, why not see that other women (and their grandchildren) have a pretty decent chance as well? And the way he labels literally anyone supporting a woman or being kind towards women a “simp” - at this point, it’s just jarring. DH thrives on focusing on other’s faults, or at least what he perceives as faults. And taking a dig at women seems to be his favourite past time when he needs to fill the gaps between thrashing eminent Muslim personalities. I followed him for his oratory skills in debates, and left him for his unyielding cruelty and arrogance.
@@WhatzYourTruth You seem like a reasonable person. I am sure you would understand that when DH says women should not be educated, for me as a woman with a certain personal agency, it is incredibly intrusive and personal. I used to think so too. Take the good and leave the bad. And I would still agree in certain cases. But DH, nope, the kind of mentality he is propagating towards women and the way his subscribers are heckling to put women down - just no.
(Quran 27:4,5): "Indeed, for those who do not believe in the Hereafter, We have certainly made their (evil) deeds appealing to them , so they wander blindly.Those are the ones for whom there will be the worst of punishment, and in the Hereafter they are the greatest losers."
It seems like every sense brother Andrew Tate became Muslim these brothers. Really became emboldened in their attacks and red pill rhetoric. Taking their lead from a individual who is not from the scholars.
@Saajid salaam alaikum, brother I'm power of the dawah and Wallahi I've been called already a simp by some Muslims. Subhaana'Allah I've just searched for the definition of what a simp is and by Allah is not a pleasant word to use or even for a Muslim to apply to another Muslim. I seek refuge in Allah from ever applying these words on other Muslims.
Ma shaa Allah. I know it is late for that, but, congratulations for being an Imam for more than 4 years. And yes, as muslims, the best thing that can help us is the Quran & Sunnah .
Salaam brother may Allah swt reward you, I am born muslim women and been hooked watching video and Mahdi and brother Gabriel keep coming up. I have to be honest my iman although strong was getting shaken in why am I born a women and like we are.l created for hell fire and men can just get married whilst we get tested but should be grateful, this really is the time of fitna - thank you for the reminder they do not represent Islam Jazak’allah
May Allah rewards you immensely Akhy Sajid. We need not adopting any way of life other than Islam. We are not supposed to follow red bill nor feminism.
Not every woman who works is a “career woman.”I’m college-educated, but I have a very average job and I’m underpaid and I have no problem with that. Because I get to spend extra time with my kids. You seem to think every single woman who has any job is a career woman. Let go of this silly title. Some of us work because we have to, because our husbands don’t make enough money. I know most of us are not obsessed with Rich husbands.
@@EB-gt1pq No, I don't judge all working sisters. Some have told me I work because I want my children to have toys, so they can have the things I did not have when I was younger. It's sad, but I'm not judging or aiming at women like you, who are educated and providing, it has a reason. A mother's heart is always attached to her kids. But there are section of sisters who think like this, though.
This is my thought, if a woman is such a career person to the point she wants to work as a must even though it's not even needed etc. Etc. Don't marry her, that's it. As you said it's a section of women. There are sections of men with certain mindsets, I just don't marry them and look for someone I am compatible with. For example, most men in my country don't want to make hijrah, but I don't settle for them even though the numbers of people wanting to stay here are high bc I wouldn't be happy with them as a choice and it's important for me to move to the Muslim lands. You will always find groups of people who don't fit your ideas and you might highly disagree with them or dislike them .
@Gicybb Jcybh Then save money, get a UK visa, work at Tesco for 2 years, go to college, go to university, you'll achieve your goal, if that is what you want.
@@Darknss2Light there is blackpill like wheat waffles etc which tells the facts about marriage and how hard it is to get married. Red pill is a men's improvement ideology. That is teaching men to be the best of themselves
One thing these red pill losers do that is very hypocritical is that they whine about how sensitive women are and how much they let their emotions cloud their judgment. Well... that is how Allah created us. Shouldn't you be implementing this knowledge into your hikmah when you advise women? Do you think constantly bashing women about how they age like milk, are stupid, have no value beyond their body, etc. is going to be an effective way of conveying knowledge? These insults are, no doubt, going to lead to an emotional reaction, and I'm certain these brothers KNOW that. From the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him), the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Treat women kindly, for woman was created from a bent rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is the top part, so treat women kindly.”
What needs to be understood by both sides (Redpill and Feminism) is that it is about being balanced. That Men and Women are meant to uphold their Shar‘ī roles The role of Men being to provide for their Women, be kind to them, have Gheerah over them etc. Whilst the role of Women being to run the household, raise righteous Children, listen to their husbands in that which is permissible etc. It is a two way process, both sides need to fulfill each other's rights. Becoming a strong man is a good thing Mā Shā’a Allāh - but we shouldn't allow that to make us arrogant - this seems to be the underlying issue with a lot of the brothers affected by Redpill - that they've built up a strong sense of arrogance. May Allāh ﷻ guide us all to his straight path and May He ﷻ make us from those who fulfill everyone's rights. Aameen
Alhamdulillah, may Allah grant you a loving obedient wife who respects you, be dutiful to you, and grateful to you. May Allah clean your heart from arrogance. Love is one of the signs of Allah. I Hope he grants love between you and your wife.
so 4 of questions remains: what should we as men do? how to make woman to not be worried about being left? and is it okay for them to go study? what should there wali do? if can please respond to this or make a video about it as always thank you for great video جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
Check the channel "middle nation" red pill Playlist. Jazakhallakhair Many of your questions are situation dependent so not easy to answer in few lines. And Allah knows best
Yes, it’s OK for them to study! Stop asking this silly question. My goodness… Do you people not have daughters, sisters? If their husbands left them and she had no education would you be happy about it???
Not many. Even fewer have a balanced argument. I know of a certain "dawah" figure that has really questionable arguments and is overall hateful in his "arguments"
@@anem2624 what makes it sad is the hypocrisy of certain people. They'll label anyone discussing topics like women's education rights, their rights to issue conditions in marriage (a right directly given to her by Islam and agreed upon by the majority of the scholars) a feminist. They'll say how marrying anyone who's educated is bad and they'll champion the rights of males while disregarding the rights of the females. Not to mention, these people and this "dawah" figure are the most hateful people I've ever seen. They're like the Muslim version of misogynist incel redpill
Most of these red pill shows bring very questionable or straight Only Fans women and presents them as the whole women. Redpill or feminism is majorly a reaction of broken heart syndrome, this why we need to return to Islamic way of life.
This is really sad and apthetic that a women has to seek very important necessary precautions against our own brothers. I am a woman and dont want to ever get married again.
Jazak Allah Khair Imam Sajid, Living in the East, It is hard for me to imagine the effect of “ Red pill, Feminism, Alphabet “ on society and younger generation to the extent that they get confused about their roles, rights and obligations in this life according to Qura’an and Sunnah . May Allah swt makes it easy for parents and guides our brothers and sisters everywhere to the right path . 🤲🏼
@@chaimaaura5004 he probably means a secularisied woman, or a woman who is always outside working and never inside home to take care of children or always at the University instead of being in the house.
@@chaimaaura5004 I don’t know where you live but the girls I know who are going to college or indirectly know they’re combative dominant, uncooperative, disagree, contrarian, overall masculine. I know it’s not all muslim women, but why take a risk if I don’t have to. I’m just not gonna deal with it. keep in mind the world doesn’t owe you understanding.
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Some people just can’t take the middle path. May Allah bless you Sajid
@@Anythingwilldo-d3q The Way Of the Salaf is as clear as day. So no need for new ideologies. If I understood what you said correctly, this reply should apply.
The problem is that no one wants to make the effort to properly seek knowledge.
@@Anythingwilldo-d3q If the society doesn't go to Quran and sunnah then preach quran and sunnah and seek knowledge, how can a new Ideology be the solution?
@@Raspberries9372 The middle path meaning the middle of two sides of extremes.
@@Raspberries9372 Islam defines the Sound path/straight path. Everything else is extremism
Exactly!!!
Brother Saajid has exemplary character. He's not like everybody else on his level. His manners and etiquettes puts him above them all even though they may have the same "qualifications". He doesn't resort to slander and name-calling no matter what the circumstance is. May Allaah keep him steadfast and admit him to Al-Firdous Al-A'laa
Ameen
Ameen.
Get back to the kitchen
امين يا الله
@@junaid195 Yes, I have plenty of knives there. Join me, why don’t you?
This is why my dear brother I have never been able to support reading social media. Too frustrating seeing how stupid people can be. May Allah increase your patience and knowledge, BarakAllahou fik.
Jazakallah khair
Never join social media
@@Raspberries9372
Lol That's actually a good point
The difference between this video sharing platform (yt) and other social media platforms is i have control on what i want to watch surprisingly , using the "not interested" and "dont recommend this channel" actually works
That means no drama , no looking at haram stuff(using TH-cam vanced mobile and ad blocker on pc) , negativity, or useless trending sutff and videos
Other social media dont let me what i want to watch , so either they share haram ads , or share post that are very useless , cringy , negativity or watching other "influencers" pictures or videos and etc
Jazakallah khair
I only recently found you on TH-cam. And I’ll straight up say that unlike a lot of others, when you give constructive criticism you don’t point fingers and make it nasty. I feel like you are a genuine person and it shows.
I also have not seen a video of yours where I didn’t like your takes. Mashallah you are very thoughtful and intelligent. May Allah give you more wisdom.
Ameen! Masha’allah Allahuma barik it’s because he follows the Quran and Sunnah and calls to the correct path. May Allah reward him and increase him even more in knowledge and good character.
What angers me the most, is when red-pilled brothers use the hadiths of the Prophet ﷺ adressing the Sahabiyats (may Allah be pleased with them) as an example to justify their degrading/mocking/harsh behavior towards women. They need to Fear Allah, The Prophet’s character is known to us,
''There has certainly come to you a Messenger from among yourselves. Grievous to him is what you suffer; (he is) concerned over you (i.e., your guidance) and to the believers is kind and merciful.”
To use the hadith as 'gotcha' moment, is reckless and disingenous. The Prophet ﷺ speech should not be used as a tool to defend bad manners.
they speak like the kuffar when they strawman Islam
@@aishax01 exactly it's so disgusting when they do that, like they use the same methods on sisters the ex Muslims use on sisters when they use those hadiths, but than the brothers claim they want good for sisters. Cognitive dissonance.
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I saw the video that Mahdi guy posted, hes a joker. Everything you said is bang on, he is misguiding young lost Muslim men into thinking that red pill stuff is the way of Islam. It's not, its nonsense. I saw some brothers come to the Masjid the other day from London, and they asked me where I'm from and what not (as I'm an obvious revert with tattoos on face, neck & hands etc) One of the youngest, he was about 14 pulled hes Iphone out, and walahi hes wallpaper was Andrew Tate, and he put the phone in my face and asked what I think about the Top G. I said he is a very well spoken man, who was a good Kick-boxer, I told them the city we were in was the first place Tate fought professionally (Westcliff/Southend-On-Sea). & I mentioned that I understood he has come to Islam, Alhamdullilah. They were so fired up by Andrew Tate, so I asked all 6 of them if they wanted to be like the Top G, and they all got excited saying yeah as hes done this and that. May Allah forgive us. I had to remind them what you said in a previous video (I believe it was you anyway, Saajid) Andrew Tate has just become a Muslim, he wants to be like you. The man you are referring to, has been forgiven of that life he once knew, Walahi yanni you want to be like him so bad but, he just wants to be like you. Anyway, I love the content brother, Asalamu Aleikum from the UK!
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💯 this is so sad
وَعَلَيْكُمْ السَّلاَمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
You’re a joker bro
What a reasonable being you are! may Allah bless you.
Lolz
Shut up
Brother Saajid you have just reinforced what I have reiterated time and time again but obvs way more eloquent than me lol ma sha Allah. Also the fact that they will resort to calling you names is evident of their akhlaq and to what they have been fed. May Allah increase you in knowledge Ameen. Jazak Allah Khair.
It is really weird to say this, but have you noticed a change in their talking ways after Trump? Like that is his way of talking...are these people copying him?
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امين يا الله
The backlash was expected!
May Allah guide us to the right path.
Ameen
Sajid isn’t a simp, he’s a real man and an excellent Muslim.
We all expected a backlash tbh. May Allah bless you
Very delicate topic at the moment. Men can't get married, woman can't get married. It's a huge issue in the West for Muslims. People waiting till the late to early 30s
@@Darknss2Light I do not claim to be an expert, Hence I always recommend people of knowledge and seeking knowledge. May Allah Make it easy for us
@@Raspberries9372 I would do the same if I was the father, first of all these men lack akhlaq, I would throw my daughter towards destruction by marrying them to those red pill type of men.
I highly doubt anything from Quran and Sunnah and the people of knowledge support them.
Islam is good for us. No kaffir ideologies needed.
I still don't know what this red pill business is 🤣
I love how when men or women defend women, they always have to preface by saying they aren't feminists... as if defending women is feminism...our ummah is sick--we need healing
Because people generalize them as feminist so they have to say that they have to actually say that they are not feminist. I find it saddening to how people quickly label others.
@@komo5278 that's human behaviour for you. It's easier to label others online, No1 will be doing that face to face.
I think some imams tried to promote feminism as opposed to teach Islam. That's is why it necessitates to separate ourselves from both feminism and red pillers.
@@MohOz Exactly. and to help people understand that both ideologies are unislamic and bad for us.
Allah forgive the ummah and help all of mankind.
Wow I didn't expect to come across this video but I am glad to have. I am a revert and I was so disgusted by some of the things I have seen that I began to think about the decisions I have made regarding reverting. I have seen two men mahdi tidjani & holistic man and shocked that Muslims were not protecting the community against them. Even Mohammed hijab and Ali dawah have began entertaining these type of topics. I thank you for using your platform to spread good.
Sister I can understand but plzz don’t listen mahdi he speak without knowledge..Ali dawah and Muhammad hijab is also entertaining men. Sister whenever you have any doubts and questions please contact a knowledgeable person who study deen under ulama and mufti
Girl unfollow Ali dawah, he is definitely a redpiller now
@@SamreenAyyoub-_ I agree
@@adjadenisedoumbia9305 stop making shit up with your zero knowledge of Islam
@@SamreenAyyoub-_ stop making shit up with your zero Islamic knowledge
Jazakum Allah'u Khiyran brother Imam Saajid Lipham for spreading knowledge with respect to faith interaction with the current issues. May Allah (SWT) rewards your good deeds for helping our brothers and sisters in Islam.
امين يا الله
So much respect for the way you respectfully counter slander etc. I appreciate how you don't jump on the Hype train of Red pill. I 100% resonate with what you said about feeling the need to have my own career as I have many reasons to doubt men treating me well and most importantly - will they treat my kids well, not cheat on me, appreciate that I will want to finance things sometimes and instill morality in the kids with me instead of degrading me?
Thanks for helping to abolish extremist views.
Jazakallahu khayran jaza´br Sajid.
You just put my thoughts into words, whenever I comment on posts like this, Muslim men have been attacking me the same way I have beend atatcked by non Muslims when I comment on articles about Islam and Muslims.
What a sad reality we are living in.
You can thank a certain "dawah" figure and his fans for that. I think they've set the norm of throwing the term feminist and threw it left and right to anyone talking about women's rights in Islam.
For layman to call a student of knowledge a simp should tell you whom not to follow. This is serious slander and especially for those that actually devote themselves to teach Islam in accordance to the Quran and Sunnah and not some Kufr ideology.
What's a simp?
@@Darknss2Light the equivalent term would be dayooth (دَيُّوث)
Jazaka Allahu khayran. Refreshing to see a balanced video. May Allah guide us all
Every man is a male but not every male is a man. Always remember that. The true definition of a man was provided to us by Prophet Muhammad. Just a shame we've lost our way from the true way of life.
Every woman is a female, but not every female is a woman, but a little kid. 🤔
@@blueflame3531 yes we are little kids, that's why many parents teach their little kids to not trust strangers because some of them are dangerous people. Just like brother saajid said in the video, many parents give their "little kids" (women) education because they don't trust "strangers" (men) to take care of them.
Now, does this kind of thinking solve the problem of finding a wife for men? No
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@Anne marie laluna but being around strange men in the workforce is much better than being around Muslims it seems... lmao. The irony.
@@Annemarie_case143 victim mentality won't solve it either hence men can also be little kids and women can be strangers in some situations
TOP video!! Thank you so much for speaking the truth, brother Saajid.
This is exactly what I've been trying to say ! Even if men disagree with things regarding women, is this the right way to go about it?
EXACTLY MY SITUATION SAAJID. My father especially but mother too, were very encouraging of me studying, obtaining a degreee and working as a back-up plan to marriage. They were never pushy for me to get married as they knew themselves what type of men exist out there. There really does need to be a healthier balance as going either extreme (working your whole life without persuing marriage or just waiting around for a husband and having no back up plan) will make your life very miserable as we were not created by Allah (SWT) to live in this way. Everything in moderation in this life is the key to success, be it in career, marriage, etc.
Sister, my father was thrilled when I told him I was marrying a revert. He said modern day Middle Eastern men are horrible… And better not to marry them.😂
I do not know a whole lot about this matter but what I understand a little of the movement - is why I am delaying marriage. I have not seen a single happy marriage in my life (happy = one that does not have abuse towards women in it. Unless the woman is dominating the marriage which is not fair), You are right brother. I have seen such a lack of pure intention that I cannot trust anyone, even females. So concentrating on my career and earning some money, having some savings before marriage would help me IF something goes not (Astagfirullah. Let that not happen). I also see that "divorce" is taken so lightly and it truly upsets me. May Allah guide all of us and unite us with mates that are peace to us. Allahumma Ameen.
Asalamalaykum
Something I have been in search for quite sometime is a connection with somebody that goes beyond vanity. It's very hard to do in this day and age. People can be, somewhat very superficial.
On my quest to achieve this I have learnt a lot about human nature. It seems to me that those who are not given traits such as beauty or being wealthy are some of the nicest, kindest and generous people.
While the "gorgeous" and well off seem to be the most arrogant and greedy people out there. Of course that's not to say there aren't beautiful kind people out there.
I've been in the process of change for a while now and I have made some decent changes.
I saw your profile and it intrigued me. I wanted to learn more about who you are and what type of path you would like on in life.
Can we talk?
Leave it in the hands of Allah
Thank you for demonstrating excellent manners and class. الله يحفضك ان شاء الله.
Prophet said about women رفقاً بالقوارير to indicate how soft and emotionally fragile we are. Does this make our prophet pbuh a simp? استغفر الله
If the prophet was alive today, you would probably think he was "red pill" or a khariji
@@abc-kn6ex Let me guess, DH is filling in as the father figure?
عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَيْفَ أَنْتَ إِذَا كَانَتْ عَلَيْكَ أُمَرَاءُ يُؤَخِّرُونَ الصَّلَاةَ عَنْ وَقْتِهَا أَوْ يُمِيتُونَ الصَّلَاةَ عَنْ وَقْتِهَا قَالَ قُلْتُ فَمَا تَأْمُرُنِي قَالَ صَلِّ الصَّلَاةَ لِوَقْتِهَا فَإِنْ أَدْرَكْتَهَا مَعَهُمْ فَصَلِّ فَإِنَّهَا لَكَ نَافِلَةٌ
648 صحيح مسلم كتاب المساجد ومواضع الصلاة باب كراهية تأخير الصلاة عن وقتها المختار وما يفعله المأموم إذا أخرها الإمام
Abu Dharr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said to me, “O Abu Dharr, how will you be if your leaders delay the prayer from its proper time, or let it die altogether?” I said, “What do you command me to do?” The Prophet said, “Perform the prayer in its proper time. Then, if you pray with them later, you will be rewarded for a voluntary deed.”
Grade: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 648
Source: Sahih (Muslim)
What is worse than delaying or missing prayer?
Thank you Sajid 💐 for being neutral, and for warning others against dismissing others' opinions based on assuming that they are feminists.
💯 agreed! Amen
I noticed that they have a great deal of knowledge about western culture related to media, celebrities, and degeneracy. There are a lot of foul terms they use that many people would not come across unless they search for it specifically and some of them have dirty origins.
SubhanAllah I also noticed it! May Allah forgive us and have mercy upon us😭
Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said (in Sunan Ibn e Majah 3029):
"O people, beware of exaggeration in religious matters for those who came before you were doomed because of exaggeration in religious matters"
Ahmed ibn e Hanbal said:
" Donot exaggerate in anything, even love an hatred"
(Source: Al Adab Al Shariyah 1/52)
The moment i understood that Daniel was biased and childish was when i saw him with the 3 muslims. One of them was tranquilly stating that mens are better good looking than womens and that this is confirmed by nature. Daniel was just laughing at his ridiculous statement. This was disapointing. I mean, come on.. why so much hate towards women ? Allah swt said : « وَلَقَدْ كَرَّمْنَا بَنِي آدَمَ ».
I unsubscribed from Daniel long time ago. By far the biggest hypocrite around.
MashaAllah I appreciate your wise approach brother Saajid. May Allah reward your efforts.
I absolutely respect u, nothing is superior to Quraan , neither feminism nor red pill
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Appreciate these videos bro. I fell into the same trap now I can see i was wrong
exactly, it goes both way we need to respect one another. I don't see any of these people promoting healthy marriage based on supporting one another to go to jennah.
@Gicybb Jcybh what sort of question is that, offcourse
Brother Saajid you are 100% right Subhannallaah, unfortunately some “men” nowadays are totally not to be trusted 😤, and those “men” who got offended by what you are saying is only because they fit the (👞)😂😂😂. Sorry I’m not trying to offend anyone but is just the truth.
I know so many “men” who get married and a few weeks or months or sometimes years they divorce their wives because they found another girl who they like more, or perhaps after the have 4, 6 or more kids they put on some wight and now she no longer is looking good for him so she got to go 😡! Or they prefer to marry a no Muslim sister because they like them more , what kind of non sense is that. Men need to grow up and mostly they need to fear Allaah, but I can’t just be on only one side, the sisters also have their share in this fitna, they don’t want to get marry to a brother unless he is a doctor a lawyer or on with money 💴🤦🏽♀️, Subhannallaah!
May Allaah guide us all and bestow taqwa in our hearts Ameen .
It pointless to point fingers at sisters knowing that feministic narratives started infiltrating the Muslim community as a consequence of male stampede from responsibility as a family leader.
All I know is I see a bunch of average looking Muslim women with less than average looking Muslim men. Balding, fat bellies… Muslim men act like they are a treat to look at. They really aren’t. You should be happy to have your wives!
What funny is, feminist and red pill basically have the same effect on me and causing the same problem to me. They both convince me that Allah hates women. They both convince me that in Islam women are perceived as worthless being. They both convince that Islam curses women.
I cried so hard because I don't want Allah to hate me because I'm a woman and I beg for his mercy for women. Untill read Quran myself and I read verses that give women a chance to defend themselves and have negotiations or two way communication with their husbands. Also that Allah gives equal opportunity for both men and women to obtain his mercy. That was then my heart finally rested in peace.
Women are obligated to obey their husbands but under agreement and conditional. Asiyah didn't obey her husband pharaoh and khaulah binti Tsa'labah didn't obey her husband when he wanted to touch her after he Zihar her.
The extreme and toxic practice of patriarchy and against Islamic teaching is the suicide case of Burari's family.
Islam is a partiarchal religion...ne careful before you cimmit kufr...men have a degree over wmn just like Allah said..Allah created Adam first and created Him in His image...
Asalamu alaikum akhi Saajid may Allah Azawajal reward you and all those who deliver the HAQ whether people like it or not Allahumma Barak
Thank you so much for making this video brother. Exactly women always need a good educational backup plan as a matter of security. So many muslim women now days get put in the box of feminism when reality they want to feel secure and avoid bad outcomes. Women have to be this way as we have more to lose in a bad relationship than men do. Wish these gender wars would stop and we really start to understand one another. Thank you for starting the conversation.
Thank You brother for the video & for having an empathy towards us women. May Allah bless you and your family. 🤲
امين يا الله
They rather take advise from a pimp who criticised women of immorality. It’s more attractive for them to follow an advise whereby immorality for men is alright but not for women.
Okay we heard that now Get back to the kitchen
Isn't it haram to insult someone who has repented and turned to Allah... women ☕️
@@blueflame3531 now saying what someone actually does for "wo®k" is an in$uIt??? He is a p i m p, to this day his ©asinos are still open. Stop sleepwalking its about time you stop being £motionally attached to these onIine a©tors, grow up, fix your self and manup.
@Hectic he was a pimp, alhamdullilah that he converted and may Allah grant him hidayah but he pimped women, his life before conversion should not be something that is looked up to or glorified.
Tabarakallah I as a father too, totally agree.
You want your daughter to be independent so that just incase her husband abandons her, that she can work and look after herself?
@@Darknss2Light yes. Why? Should she stay with an abusive husband or get on welfare when he leaves her?
@@EB-gt1pq sorry, I was asking the father. But in short no to both your questions. She should be supported by her Walee. And if it were an Islam state then state would look after her until she remarried. Does that work for you?
@@Darknss2Light are you willing to live with the fact that your daughter might never get married at all and die alone?
@@Darknss2Light
This is a very delicate thing and each family situation is different when looking at this issue. In fact we are not living in a perfect and rosy world. We make do with what we have in order to deal with social injustices regarding the single mother. The woman unfortunately must also be prepared for the worst in these day and age.
I have seen my sibling become a single mother without support. My aunts as well. This, in a muslim majority country. The red tape can be atrocious when getting state help in implementing what is due to the divorcey mother.
I believe that my daughter must have a usable skill or be able to work if she wants to. I believe in career education besides Islamic education for the woman.
The walee, ofcourse, must help the daughter. That is a given. But not all walee can.
Barak Allah brother for the clarification...
" أستغفر الله الذي لا إله إلا هو الحي القيوم وأتوب إليه "
Well said brother. Islam is indeed enough for us.
May Allah reward you for everything you do. Amiin
Don't worry bro, we with the help of Allah will support you against these slanderrs, name callers etc.
Please Allah, make this go viral.
I love learning more about Islam and having my questions including difficult ones this really grows my faith
So happy you're uploading videos more frequently lately! May Allah bless you Akhi!
Forgive my ignorance and tell me what does " Simp" mean?
It's not appropriate for him to tell you what does simp mean
Simp means that a man pretty much loses all jealousy for women, let's women do whatever they want, he let them walk all over him. Pretty much a submissive guy towards women.
The term was used to describe the men that watch women streamers online and then donate in some obscure hope that those women will somehow reciprocate their support with romantic love or something. Now the term is applied more loosely to anyone suspected of being yielding to women.
basically putting women on a pedestal
It's like men who do anything to get women attracted to them. The feminine form is Simpette.
4:33 Wow, very wise, brother Saajid! I like how u put it, thanks!
Saajid Ma Shaa Allah you are a gem
I would have to agree with Saajid here, many Muslim men do not fulil the basic requirements of Qawammah.
Thank you for saying that women are not above criticism but that it is to be done in a respectful way.
Some don’t seem to get that you can end up doing more wrong in the way you go about addressing another wrong.
Manners matter.
And you Masha Allah, have excellent manners. ✨
Regarding the statistics, that is something I thought to. We can't just quote statistics without knowing how many of them are Muslims, and how many are practicing Muslims, and how many of them are converts, how many of them are repentant? These are the questions that need to be asked.
Some western TH-cam vloggers quote statistics to prove their point regarding a matter of Muslim communities which does not make sense because there's a lot of diversity in Muslims
What will get the brothers married, I'd love to see a video about that. Jazzak Allahu Khairan for the work you're putting in Sajid!
Na'am na'am bro. May Allah bless you
May God bless you and give you wisdom
Allahumma baarik jazaka Allah khayr for this video. May Allah bless your efforts🤲🏼
Daniel Haqiqatjou is the one who says women should not work or get an education., yet his wife is Ivy League educated and has “wife school.” Such hypocrites and the lack of a men who can’t speak out against him. So shameful. Good on Sajid.
Exactly. He went on to say that the grandchildren of women who go to college will end up on OnlyFans. I mean, come on. If your wife could keep herself in check and submit to Allah after admitting that she was a feminist back in Harvard, why not see that other women (and their grandchildren) have a pretty decent chance as well?
And the way he labels literally anyone supporting a woman or being kind towards women a “simp” - at this point, it’s just jarring.
DH thrives on focusing on other’s faults, or at least what he perceives as faults. And taking a dig at women seems to be his favourite past time when he needs to fill the gaps between thrashing eminent Muslim personalities.
I followed him for his oratory skills in debates, and left him for his unyielding cruelty and arrogance.
@@WhatzYourTruth You seem like a reasonable person. I am sure you would understand that when DH says women should not be educated, for me as a woman with a certain personal agency, it is incredibly intrusive and personal.
I used to think so too. Take the good and leave the bad. And I would still agree in certain cases. But DH, nope, the kind of mentality he is propagating towards women and the way his subscribers are heckling to put women down - just no.
Yes women shouldn't seek education
@@junaid195 they must seek knowledge which is beneficial
@@junaid195 Yes, red pilled men are over the top cringy.
(Quran 27:4,5):
"Indeed, for those who do not believe in the Hereafter, We have certainly made their (evil) deeds appealing to them , so they wander blindly.Those are the ones for whom there will be the worst of punishment, and in the Hereafter they are the greatest losers."
Well explained brother Sajid, imo these people are like sheep they're blind haters and they're only harming themselves by indulging in these groups
It seems like every sense brother Andrew Tate became Muslim these brothers. Really became emboldened in their attacks and red pill rhetoric. Taking their lead from a individual who is not from the scholars.
Jazakumullah khair
@Saajid salaam alaikum, brother I'm power of the dawah and Wallahi I've been called already a simp by some Muslims. Subhaana'Allah I've just searched for the definition of what a simp is and by Allah is not a pleasant word to use or even for a Muslim to apply to another Muslim. I seek refuge in Allah from ever applying these words on other Muslims.
May Allah make it easy for all of us inshallah
I agree with u brother 😀 . May Allah bless u
Ma shaa Allah. I know it is late for that, but, congratulations for being an Imam for more than 4 years. And yes, as muslims, the best thing that can help us is the Quran & Sunnah .
If only we gave priority to the deen and future of muslim ummah as we give priority to marriage we would have been the greatest civilization
You don't need to dignify these hateful, miserable people with a response. Jazak Saajid.
Salaam brother may Allah swt reward you, I am born muslim women and been hooked watching video and Mahdi and brother Gabriel keep coming up. I have to be honest my iman although strong was getting shaken in why am I born a women and like we are.l created for hell fire and men can just get married whilst we get tested but should be grateful, this really is the time of fitna - thank you for the reminder they do not represent Islam Jazak’allah
Jazaka Allahu Khayran borther Saajid
May Allah rewards you immensely Akhy Sajid. We need not adopting any way of life other than Islam. We are not supposed to follow red bill nor feminism.
7:03 Again, it's career women who don't want average men... the more she earns, the higher she'll demand.
Not every woman who works is a “career woman.”I’m college-educated, but I have a very average job and I’m underpaid and I have no problem with that. Because I get to spend extra time with my kids. You seem to think every single woman who has any job is a career woman. Let go of this silly title. Some of us work because we have to, because our husbands don’t make enough money. I know most of us are not obsessed with Rich husbands.
@@EB-gt1pq No, I don't judge all working sisters. Some have told me I work because I want my children to have toys, so they can have the things I did not have when I was younger. It's sad, but I'm not judging or aiming at women like you, who are educated and providing, it has a reason. A mother's heart is always attached to her kids. But there are section of sisters who think like this, though.
This is my thought, if a woman is such a career person to the point she wants to work as a must even though it's not even needed etc. Etc. Don't marry her, that's it. As you said it's a section of women. There are sections of men with certain mindsets, I just don't marry them and look for someone I am compatible with. For example, most men in my country don't want to make hijrah, but I don't settle for them even though the numbers of people wanting to stay here are high bc I wouldn't be happy with them as a choice and it's important for me to move to the Muslim lands. You will always find groups of people who don't fit your ideas and you might highly disagree with them or dislike them .
@@monito3575 It's a dream of mine too. I need to learn Arabic. I have a place in mind, idk if it's possible for me, but I do want to hear the adhan.
@Gicybb Jcybh Then save money, get a UK visa, work at Tesco for 2 years, go to college, go to university, you'll achieve your goal, if that is what you want.
Jazaakallahu Khairan brother ❤
Ah don't sweat it. Redpill is a poor man's understanding of women. You're right to call for Sunnah again and again. May Allah make you steadfast.
What is red pill? He said his version and Apparently there is another version 🤔
@@Darknss2Light there is blackpill like wheat waffles etc which tells the facts about marriage and how hard it is to get married. Red pill is a men's improvement ideology. That is teaching men to be the best of themselves
One thing these red pill losers do that is very hypocritical is that they whine about how sensitive women are and how much they let their emotions cloud their judgment. Well... that is how Allah created us. Shouldn't you be implementing this knowledge into your hikmah when you advise women? Do you think constantly bashing women about how they age like milk, are stupid, have no value beyond their body, etc. is going to be an effective way of conveying knowledge? These insults are, no doubt, going to lead to an emotional reaction, and I'm certain these brothers KNOW that.
From the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him), the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Treat women kindly, for woman was created from a bent rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is the top part, so treat women kindly.”
Yes,they know it ,and i guess some of them want emotional reactions from women.
@@Freedom_for_Palestina It's quite transparent.
Funny how you complain about aging like milk commernts but then comment red pill losers 😂 you are proving them right
@@Dhuxul9 she is not saying all men are loser but red pill attack all women that's a difference.
What needs to be understood by both sides (Redpill and Feminism) is that it is about being balanced.
That Men and Women are meant to uphold their Shar‘ī roles
The role of Men being to provide for their Women, be kind to them, have Gheerah over them etc.
Whilst the role of Women being to run the household, raise righteous Children, listen to their husbands in that which is permissible etc.
It is a two way process, both sides need to fulfill each other's rights.
Becoming a strong man is a good thing Mā Shā’a Allāh - but we shouldn't allow that to make us arrogant - this seems to be the underlying issue with a lot of the brothers affected by Redpill - that they've built up a strong sense of arrogance.
May Allāh ﷻ guide us all to his straight path and May He ﷻ make us from those who fulfill everyone's rights.
Aameen
Alhamdulillah, may Allah grant you a loving obedient wife who respects you, be dutiful to you, and grateful to you. May Allah clean your heart from arrogance. Love is one of the signs of Allah. I Hope he grants love between you and your wife.
Husbands also should participate in raising rightous kids,they are fathers
You are right Saajid backbiting is haram even towards women
i love you bro!
How do muslim women navigate over controlling and double standard husband? Plus want to know in what expects they can control
so 4 of questions remains:
what should we as men do?
how to make woman to not be worried about being left?
and is it okay for them to go study?
what should there wali do?
if can please respond to this or make a video about it as always thank you for great video جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
Check the channel "middle nation" red pill Playlist. Jazakhallakhair
Many of your questions are situation dependent so not easy to answer in few lines. And Allah knows best
Turn worries to Allah. Continue to ask Allah, but don’t live a stagnant life in the meantime. Live well and be grateful for all rizq
Even though you are asking brother sajid, I have an answer that would be an answer to all of them.
Seek knowledge and refer to people of knowledge.
Yes, it’s OK for them to study! Stop asking this silly question. My goodness… Do you people not have daughters, sisters? If their husbands left them and she had no education would you be happy about it???
@@EB-gt1pq how can you say that the husband will left his wife? I don't support red pill but please, be fair akhi
Be patient brothers
I haven’t watched this yet but I agree with you anyway, like always lol.
Lol true cuz he is most of the time so objective and unbiased
@@nahimwasit everyone is biased and no one is truly objective, but Saajid is biased towards the Quran and Sunnah upon the way of the Salaf. 👍
@@MohammedAlSharif2002 yeah that is what I meant akhi. Jazakallah khair
@@MohammedAlSharif2002 may Allah make us Biased towards Quran and Sunnah and The way of the Salaf
Every human being errs.
This is really interesting topic, is there any more channels discussing it?
Not many. Even fewer have a balanced argument. I know of a certain "dawah" figure that has really questionable arguments and is overall hateful in his "arguments"
@@RIPer-rg2cz It is sad reality my friend
@@anem2624 what makes it sad is the hypocrisy of certain people. They'll label anyone discussing topics like women's education rights, their rights to issue conditions in marriage (a right directly given to her by Islam and agreed upon by the majority of the scholars) a feminist. They'll say how marrying anyone who's educated is bad and they'll champion the rights of males while disregarding the rights of the females. Not to mention, these people and this "dawah" figure are the most hateful people I've ever seen. They're like the Muslim version of misogynist incel redpill
May Allah bless you.
As 41 old women I'm agree with you. Well said.
Most of these red pill shows bring very questionable or straight Only Fans women and presents them as the whole women.
Redpill or feminism is majorly a reaction of broken heart syndrome, this why we need to return to Islamic way of life.
This is really sad and apthetic that a women has to seek very important necessary precautions against our own brothers. I am a woman and dont want to ever get married again.
Barak allahu feekum
Salamalycom brouther in Islam red pill what's does it mean jazakullah khair
In my opinion Red Pill is rooted from the people of the Lut.
what why i don't like red pill but this is just random
What you said is so uncalled for,repent to Allah
Jazak Allah Khair Imam Sajid,
Living in the East, It is hard for me to imagine the effect of “ Red pill, Feminism, Alphabet “ on society and younger generation to the extent that they get confused about their roles, rights and obligations in this life according to Qura’an and Sunnah .
May Allah swt makes it easy for parents and guides our brothers and sisters everywhere to the right path . 🤲🏼
امين يا الله
Perfectly explained❣️
Any chance you know of any good brothers?
Revert sister UK
@Gicybb Jcybh Thank you 👍
جزاك الله خير يا شيخ ساجد .. ال رد بيل عندهم ظلم كبير بحق النساء منها ان المراة المطلقة ماتتزوج ولا فيها خير بسبب انها مطلقة
Well said
'Calm down'. 👍👍👍
First few seconds of the video was Savage.....
Jazaakumullaahu khayran
MashaaAllah 💚
7:00 I do want a wife who educated. But it’s the baggage that comes with it that I fear..
If i may ask what baggage?
@@chaimaaura5004 he probably means a secularisied woman, or a woman who is always outside working and never inside home to take care of children or always at the University instead of being in the house.
@@themanwithnoname3145 thank u for the answer.
@@chaimaaura5004 I don’t know where you live but the girls I know who are going to college or indirectly know they’re combative dominant, uncooperative, disagree, contrarian, overall masculine. I know it’s not all muslim women, but why take a risk if I don’t have to. I’m just not gonna deal with it. keep in mind the world doesn’t owe you understanding.
@@Tarz2155 yes i understand , not all educated women are like that but u have the right to not take that risk.