I had a close friend who was ENTJ. We had a funny situation where he knew I came to visit him to let him ‘have it’ because I wasn’t happy with something he did. So he at the last minute changed plans so we would meet up at a public food court instead.. to control the environment so I wouldn’t raise my voice or be ashamed of acting up in public. Anyway, I let him have it anyway. I don’t care what anyone else thought. Ha. I learnt a lot about the way he thought that day. He’s terrified of other peoples disapproving thoughts of them and he thought I would be the same. I opened his eyes that day. Lol
Ha! Great job! Lol what a ruse! Te dominants are often crazy fragile inside, they keep accusing Fi users of being too sensitive but they are actually very easy to offend and crack.
I've been too broken down to give anyone my own real opinion on things especially in an environment like that, so it would have worked on me. I suspect that I am an infp, but I don't know. I don't know it's more of an infp trait to be capable of standing up for yourself like that. I wish I could
I’ve been through a lot, so I’ve had to learn to defend my boundaries a lot. I made a promise to myself years ago that I would not let myself be walked over any more. So since then I’ve always spoken up and worked out that it always works out better in the end that I do. (Yes I’m an infp)
There's a tiny puppet mouse in the tiny hat which I crocheted, ENFJ organize. I organized y'all a massive library, with a sound track. I really don't care, per say, ?
Interesting anecdote, I tested as INFP in high school, and I truly believe I was one back then. I was very shy, a bit of a pushover, but also very daydreamy and enjoyed my time alone. However, events happened in my life as a young adult and I recently got typed as ENTJ. A lot of people will probably say that's bs but I believe that powerful events in your life can change your MBTI type. Also this isn't to diss INFPs or anything, I still see myself as one sometimes and I've only had pleasant interactions with them :D
Hi thank uou so much! 😊 Unfortunately i have no purple but i have black and white and i have yellow and blue. If you're not interested in those and would like purple i can make a brazilian bracelet out of embroidery yarn but it will come later as it takes some time to make. Tell me what you would like!
I probably haven't met an ENTJ in person yet, and I wonder if they can be found employed in academic fields like universities at all. I'd rather see them strive for (corporate) consulting roles in the economy and always apply strategic pragmatism when possible. As a member of a minority with an inferior feeling function, based on the latest community survey, on this channel, I think that "bottling up emotions for a long time" might be a trait of most unbalanced members of our minority. Anyway, the quote has hit me candidly, but we're here to learn about it (until we revolt). lol
Hmm yeah i see them mostly in the private/corporate sector, but the supervisor i talked about was in public healthcare so it's possible. We all have our weaknesses, i wish i could organize and analyze better with Te, so i recognize the struggle🙈 Good job on trying to learn about feelings rather than denying them completely 😊
I've never encountered what I'd call a 'known' ENTJ (cognizant of their MBTI). I also don't move in the same circles, probably for similar reasons to what you stated. I am no 'mover & shaker' wannabee or otherwise. I've met and worked with people who fit the description though (and called a few 'friend'). Can't say I get along that well with them on some occasions, because we just are operating on different levels. I too often clash with bossy people. Don't knock your working in the 'public sector' in 'socialist medicine' too much. I've spent over 27 years working in the 'public sector' because I was not interested as much in getting rich as in improving the world (or at least trying to). I still managed to ensure a good income for myself, provided for my kids, and am saving up for my eventual retirement quite adequately. You are a very bright woman so you'll have no problem doing the same. Being richer is not always better; having 'just enough to be comfortable' is what I've aimed for. I guess I've shied away from those who see everything in life as some form of investment; thought them cold and dispassionate, and always competing for position. I can see why it might be attractive to be in a relationship with someone like that though, if they were on your side, and if you didn't mind ceding a lot of your autonomy in exchange. Again, being a male INF in the U.S. doesn't really allow for that culturally or socially, unless you match the cultural epitome of perfection in some way. I don't so it's always been up to me to look out for my own best interests.
My dad is an entj...and he always threatens me with "look..everyone is looking at you"..whenever I am moody outside or just don't smile 🤣🤣🤣 I am like fuck people...I will literally drown in my emotions in front of everyone which is an absolute nightmare for him..🤣🤣 I met a boy in college and I predicted him to be an entj ...he took the test and he is. HE IS EXTREMELY PRODUCTIVE...even with his hobbies. And his and my views differ but are the same...like we believe in same values and principles, but the way we exercise them in life and the path we take to reach our goals is different. He said he liked me a lot..but I couldn't accept his feelings as I felt dis respected when he ghosted me. He would not respond days in a row. And I was like fuck u. Yeah...but he was nice boy
ugh that's pretty terrible, growing up like that would have been terrible for my social anxiety. The ENTJ my friend dated ghosted him...and then started posting about an archery hobby on social media. Basically making my friend feel less important than archery, which was pretty shitty.
I hate INFPxENTJ memes with a passion for perpetuating the relationship dynamic of a 'submissive' and 'dominant' partner, but I think the dynamic could work if both people are healthy. I think my uncle is the only ENTJ I know, his Ni and Te are very clear in his work -- he owns a business and his work is his life, plans things years ahead and 'predicts' changes in the market etc. He is very charismatic but his natural dominance always makes me a little uncomfortable.
Yeah people who are too "alpha" often put me off and intimidate me. I guess it could work but there needs to be a balance: both accepting that there will be some role taking and and acknowledging that both parties are equal and have the same amount of power, regardless of the role they take. That seems like a hard balance to strike, but maybe?
I had a close friend who was ENTJ. We had a funny situation where he knew I came to visit him to let him ‘have it’ because I wasn’t happy with something he did. So he at the last minute changed plans so we would meet up at a public food court instead.. to control the environment so I wouldn’t raise my voice or be ashamed of acting up in public. Anyway, I let him have it anyway. I don’t care what anyone else thought. Ha. I learnt a lot about the way he thought that day. He’s terrified of other peoples disapproving thoughts of them and he thought I would be the same. I opened his eyes that day. Lol
Ha! Great job! Lol what a ruse! Te dominants are often crazy fragile inside, they keep accusing Fi users of being too sensitive but they are actually very easy to offend and crack.
I've been too broken down to give anyone my own real opinion on things especially in an environment like that, so it would have worked on me. I suspect that I am an infp, but I don't know. I don't know it's more of an infp trait to be capable of standing up for yourself like that. I wish I could
I’ve been through a lot, so I’ve had to learn to defend my boundaries a lot. I made a promise to myself years ago that I would not let myself be walked over any more. So since then I’ve always spoken up and worked out that it always works out better in the end that I do. (Yes I’m an infp)
@user-vw6xp5nl6t good job! It's not always easy defending boumdaries against people who are used to bulldozing them down
I'm so sorry about the toxic environment you were in. I know how that feels. With an ENTJ by your side, you feel so protected. I love ENTJs.
Screw that, ENFJ can handle themselves and look good doing it.
I just looked it up, entj, according to ultima II, like to dress authoritative.
There's a tiny puppet mouse in the tiny hat which I crocheted, ENFJ organize. I organized y'all a massive library, with a sound track.
I really don't care, per say, ?
Yeah ENTJs are a great type. They tend to love INFJ's but dislike ESTPs.
Yeah they are really into infjs as they're also planning their future, but types that are too in the moment might grate them
I haven't seen that but I do know that INFJs are the supervised type for ENTJs.
@@BugEyedFreak1111 sure.
I'm INFP male with an ENTJ father, it can be tough sometimes.
Yeah oof that sounds hard
I also noticed that ENTJs tend to find themselves leading ESTJs.
Yeah that's true, i have seen that in action, it's pretty funny since the ESTJs are not used to being followers
Interesting anecdote, I tested as INFP in high school, and I truly believe I was one back then. I was very shy, a bit of a pushover, but also very daydreamy and enjoyed my time alone. However, events happened in my life as a young adult and I recently got typed as ENTJ. A lot of people will probably say that's bs but I believe that powerful events in your life can change your MBTI type. Also this isn't to diss INFPs or anything, I still see myself as one sometimes and I've only had pleasant interactions with them :D
Bought a scoubidou! I love the positive note this ended on :)
Hi thank uou so much! 😊 Unfortunately i have no purple but i have black and white and i have yellow and blue. If you're not interested in those and would like purple i can make a brazilian bracelet out of embroidery yarn but it will come later as it takes some time to make. Tell me what you would like!
@@radishraven9 Ill take the BW and I sent 3 more for a purple bracelet yaaay😁
no way omg I can't even watch this right now but I'm gonna get a kick out of it when I can later
Hope you like it! 🙂
I probably haven't met an ENTJ in person yet, and I wonder if they can be found employed in academic fields like universities at all.
I'd rather see them strive for (corporate) consulting roles in the economy and always apply strategic pragmatism when possible.
As a member of a minority with an inferior feeling function, based on the latest community survey, on this channel, I think that "bottling up emotions for a long time" might be a trait of most unbalanced members of our minority.
Anyway, the quote has hit me candidly, but we're here to learn about it (until we revolt). lol
Hmm yeah i see them mostly in the private/corporate sector, but the supervisor i talked about was in public healthcare so it's possible.
We all have our weaknesses, i wish i could organize and analyze better with Te, so i recognize the struggle🙈 Good job on trying to learn about feelings rather than denying them completely 😊
I've never encountered what I'd call a 'known' ENTJ (cognizant of their MBTI). I also don't move in the same circles, probably for similar reasons to what you stated. I am no 'mover & shaker' wannabee or otherwise. I've met and worked with people who fit the description though (and called a few 'friend'). Can't say I get along that well with them on some occasions, because we just are operating on different levels. I too often clash with bossy people. Don't knock your working in the 'public sector' in 'socialist medicine' too much. I've spent over 27 years working in the 'public sector' because I was not interested as much in getting rich as in improving the world (or at least trying to). I still managed to ensure a good income for myself, provided for my kids, and am saving up for my eventual retirement quite adequately. You are a very bright woman so you'll have no problem doing the same. Being richer is not always better; having 'just enough to be comfortable' is what I've aimed for. I guess I've shied away from those who see everything in life as some form of investment; thought them cold and dispassionate, and always competing for position. I can see why it might be attractive to be in a relationship with someone like that though, if they were on your side, and if you didn't mind ceding a lot of your autonomy in exchange. Again, being a male INF in the U.S. doesn't really allow for that culturally or socially, unless you match the cultural epitome of perfection in some way. I don't so it's always been up to me to look out for my own best interests.
My dad is an entj...and he always threatens me with "look..everyone is looking at you"..whenever I am moody outside or just don't smile 🤣🤣🤣
I am like fuck people...I will literally drown in my emotions in front of everyone which is an absolute nightmare for him..🤣🤣
I met a boy in college and I predicted him to be an entj ...he took the test and he is.
HE IS EXTREMELY PRODUCTIVE...even with his hobbies. And his and my views differ but are the same...like we believe in same values and principles, but the way we exercise them in life and the path we take to reach our goals is different. He said he liked me a lot..but I couldn't accept his feelings as I felt dis respected when he ghosted me. He would not respond days in a row. And I was like fuck u. Yeah...but he was nice boy
ugh that's pretty terrible, growing up like that would have been terrible for my social anxiety. The ENTJ my friend dated ghosted him...and then started posting about an archery hobby on social media. Basically making my friend feel less important than archery, which was pretty shitty.
@@radishraven9 exactly.
ESTJ confirmed ;)!
I hate INFPxENTJ memes with a passion for perpetuating the relationship dynamic of a 'submissive' and 'dominant' partner, but I think the dynamic could work if both people are healthy. I think my uncle is the only ENTJ I know, his Ni and Te are very clear in his work -- he owns a business and his work is his life, plans things years ahead and 'predicts' changes in the market etc. He is very charismatic but his natural dominance always makes me a little uncomfortable.
Yeah people who are too "alpha" often put me off and intimidate me. I guess it could work but there needs to be a balance: both accepting that there will be some role taking and and acknowledging that both parties are equal and have the same amount of power, regardless of the role they take. That seems like a hard balance to strike, but maybe?