@@jimjackson5836 that’s part of their MO! They create the illusion that they are a really nice person to others and treat us like dirt behind closed doors. Ugh!
Try not to care. Find your own people without them, get out while you still can or just wait. They won’t even be able to keep up appearances long enough and these people will see how they really are, sometimes even before you do!
I love your videos; you are so real and direct with the truth. Even 16 months after me deciding to go no-contact, these videos still help me "keep it real". Because sometimes my brain will start to romanticize on a memory... and instead of ruminating, Im like, time to watch a video! And then it reminds me of the way it really was. So thankful Im not bitter about the past; I much prefer needing to be reminded sometimes. It is getting less and less but you are a true God-send for me! ❤
Thank you so much for taking the time to compile this video. You’re a beautiful person I. And out. No hate, no bashing , just letting go knowing God’ got me
Whatever you do don't have children with them!!! I have 3 daughter and they are a narcissist and a flying monkey if i can go back in time😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 i thought i was free when i left but NO 3 narc
I switched ‘off’ when you claimed ‘no one has that much drama ‘. Got news for you !!! Mine started before 10mnths of age , and now at 71 homeless on Christmas alone . Would you care to know how fucked up the in between was ; best friend electrocuted while helping a farmer with live stock out of over turned truck ( we were 16 yr old enangelist - actions not words l,three of my mates committed suicide after returning from Vietnam tour of duty ,buried a son 29 and so many friends in a small town pass away after being warned ( plandemic )daughter unfit mother and grandchildren 6:50 become distant as nephews have because of sisters . It just gets worse .No worries , I am one off thousands in Australia that our so-called government has been illuminating and there are good times . Like stumbling on Anoushka and Ramani - lovely people , oh and all you guys . Thankyou your all life saving. ❤
That's how I lost my ex-wife unfortunately, as a self-aware diagnosed narcissist ,I underestimated her and I actually did end up over playing my hand. Now I live in the past and ruminate with regret.
I lost my son 2 years ago. My remaining son, after about 6months had past, starting calling my past sons partner a Narc. Then he turned his narc onto myself and wife. We are now considered the narcs and have not spoken to him in nearly a year now. He lost his brother but we lost our son but he thought that he was the one who needed the support and demanded it is some instances.
Fool themselves as well. The paranoia in them I find quite silly, they're so cynical actually, expect the worst from people because deep inside that's what they are themselves.
@@barbarabuttler7647 When they take their frustation out on someone that triggers them, I can understand that, but fooling themselves is just childish. And as for their cyncism and trust issues, I see that as deeply insecure.
It’s part of their “game plan”! However, they will lose if we play our cards right! It’s constantly like playing a game of “showdown poker“ with them with a stacked deck….
My ex used to say she was gifted and had a quick V8 for a brain. I actually think her shrink had diagnosed her with NPD stating it was a rare condition and she has twisted that negative into a positive actually gas lighting herself into believing that she was unique and special
I'm currently flipping the script on a Narcissist..offering her a "chance" to change knowing fully well she won't. I completely stopped financial support and indicated I may(didn't promise) resume if she gets help to change. Which won't happen. I'm an artist, she's a content creator/dancer with almost 200k followers but won't support me so I've cut off the financial supply until she creates an expansive content to support my music. I know she won't reciprocate so I'm enjoying the gridlock and laughing at her attempts to initiate hooving 😂😂😂 I'm slowly healing but there is a gain IF she makes awesome content to support my music..and another gain if she doesn't cause the money I supported her with will go into better use elsewhere. I'm not giving her a dime
My narcissistic partner left me after 3 years. She cheated on me. And since the split, she has been unbelievably nasty to me. After I confronted her via social media about all her lies. Told her I knew everything that she has done. She has refused to see me face to face. She has avoided seeing me in person. Do narcissists have the ability to feel shame? Is that why she has avoided me since the break up?
I think that's all they feel, ever. It's constant and they project it onto everyone around them. They're so insecure and need constant, external validation. If only they could take agency and impress themselves.😢
The one I was with wasn’t really smart there very short sighted long term. There need too abuse you overrides common sense and that’s something they don’t have
Most narcissists I’ve encountered really aren’t all that bright 💡
lol so true
They don’t see how limited they are as they live in a false world of grandiosity….
Indeed, just look at all the politicians lol
They are incapable of intelligence, as they can't see the bigger picture
Well definitely not very wise, as they lack introspection.
Such immaturity. They Are so sloppy. Risk takers Are so dangerous.
What about when they are nice to everyone except you and everyone thinks you must be the problem because she is so nice!!!
They are always nice to everyone except their partner as they wear a mask
@@jimjackson5836 that’s part of their MO! They create the illusion that they are a really nice person to others and treat us like dirt behind closed doors. Ugh!
@@jimjackson5836 or when they act like they never knew you after spending 17 years together
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Try not to care. Find your own people without them, get out while you still can or just wait. They won’t even be able to keep up appearances long enough and these people will see how they really are, sometimes even before you do!
I love your videos; you are so real and direct with the truth. Even 16 months after me deciding to go no-contact, these videos still help me "keep it real". Because sometimes my brain will start to romanticize on a memory... and instead of ruminating, Im like, time to watch a video! And then it reminds me of the way it really was. So thankful Im not bitter about the past; I much prefer needing to be reminded sometimes. It is getting less and less but you are a true God-send for me! ❤
Well said!! So true!! 👏👏👏
Thank you so much for taking the time to compile this video. You’re a beautiful person I. And out. No hate, no bashing , just letting go knowing God’ got me
They know exactly what they doing hence why they so good at hiding it but once the mask slips they run from their shame and project
I feel like an idiot as my partner is narcissistic and I’ve sort of known it for years but stupidly ignored it because I genuinely love her
There will come a time when you won't !
Same! I overlooked and forgave her constantly. She abused me anyway….😔
I feel you I’m going thru this at the moment it’s the most pain I’ve ever endured
My ex narc thought he was so manly but he was a man child.
@@kwinsag76 I told my sister yesterday that what I’m going through is the worst of all looking back at everything this life has challenged me with….
Thanks for sharing this info!!
Thank you.
Whatever you do don't have children with them!!! I have 3 daughter and they are a narcissist and a flying monkey if i can go back in time😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 i thought i was free when i left but NO 3 narc
Im sorry to hear that. I believe my sons mother is a narc and now my son might be as well. He grew up around her. Sucks.
I needed to hear this today.
I switched ‘off’ when you claimed ‘no one has that much drama ‘. Got news for you !!! Mine started before 10mnths of age , and now at 71 homeless on Christmas alone . Would you care to know how fucked up the in between was ; best friend electrocuted while helping a farmer with live stock out of over turned truck ( we were 16 yr old enangelist - actions not words l,three of my mates committed suicide after returning from Vietnam tour of duty ,buried a son 29 and so many friends in a small town pass away after being warned ( plandemic )daughter unfit mother and grandchildren 6:50 become distant as nephews have because of sisters . It just gets worse .No worries , I am one off thousands in Australia that our so-called government has been illuminating and there are good times . Like stumbling on Anoushka and Ramani - lovely people , oh and all you guys . Thankyou your all life saving. ❤
Jo Anouska jeg ved udmærket hvem de er, jeg har gennemskuet dem for lang tid siden, så tågen igen Nej tak. Ha en vidunderlig dag Anouska 🙂👍
That's how I lost my ex-wife unfortunately, as a self-aware diagnosed narcissist ,I underestimated her and I actually did end up over playing my hand. Now I live in the past and ruminate with regret.
Thanks for being transparent about it.
@@viewerwatching5712 Its important to help people understand the disorder, yw.
When you find yourself ruminating, say (out loud, if you're alone) "Rumination isn't helpful."
@@barbarabuttler7647 okay that really works?
I lost my son 2 years ago. My remaining son, after about 6months had past, starting calling my past sons partner a Narc. Then he turned his narc onto myself and wife. We are now considered the narcs and have not spoken to him in nearly a year now. He lost his brother but we lost our son but he thought that he was the one who needed the support and demanded it is some instances.
Fool themselves as well. The paranoia in them I find quite silly, they're so cynical actually, expect the worst from people because deep inside that's what they are themselves.
It's projection.
@@barbarabuttler7647 When they take their frustation out on someone that triggers them, I can understand that, but fooling themselves is just childish. And as for their cyncism and trust issues, I see that as deeply insecure.
So much bad luck......so true
It’s part of their “game plan”! However, they will lose if we play our cards right!
It’s constantly like playing a game of “showdown poker“ with them with a stacked deck….
Thats true! They do lose!
My ex used to say she was gifted and had a quick V8 for a brain. I actually think her shrink had diagnosed her with NPD stating it was a rare condition and she has twisted that negative into a positive actually gas lighting herself into believing that she was unique and special
Want to play a crazy game... 😮
I'm currently flipping the script on a Narcissist..offering her a "chance" to change knowing fully well she won't. I completely stopped financial support and indicated I may(didn't promise) resume if she gets help to change. Which won't happen. I'm an artist, she's a content creator/dancer with almost 200k followers but won't support me so I've cut off the financial supply until she creates an expansive content to support my music. I know she won't reciprocate so I'm enjoying the gridlock and laughing at her attempts to initiate hooving 😂😂😂 I'm slowly healing but there is a gain IF she makes awesome content to support my music..and another gain if she doesn't cause the money I supported her with will go into better use elsewhere. I'm not giving her a dime
My narcissistic partner left me after 3 years.
She cheated on me. And since the split, she has been unbelievably nasty to me.
After I confronted her via social media about all her lies. Told her I knew everything that she has done.
She has refused to see me face to face. She has avoided seeing me in person.
Do narcissists have the ability to feel shame?
Is that why she has avoided me since the break up?
Shame is a part of their disorder, they are shameful demons!
I think that's all they feel, ever. It's constant and they project it onto everyone around them. They're so insecure and need constant, external validation. If only they could take agency and impress themselves.😢
Yes they feel shame but youll never hear them admit it.
Why do you keep going back and try having a talk with your ex ? Stupid move
Thanks to Jesus Christ , He help me out. I placed Jesus above him, he cannot compete , . I will not go down in hell with this narcissist demon.
Amen
Every knee shall bend!
Arrogance beyond belief !
The one I was with wasn’t really smart there very short sighted long term. There need too abuse you overrides common sense and that’s something they don’t have
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