So true. I had an ex who was my ex colleague from 1st job. Met his mum at his grandma's house... But guess what! He was married to another woman since day 1 and his mum never mentioned anything whenever we were out together.
This! Some woman just play along they know their son is a player and overgrown f boy and she supports it!! You are the one when he proposes and desires a life with you.
I have met my future parents in law before he propose me,finally it’s over and Thank God I did not marry him.Christ sake ! I am the happiest person on earth today 😅 Hell No ! See momma + papa.Know Jesus FIRST ❤ 😊
My brother told me after 3 months of dating his now wife he knew she was the one. He didn't introduce her to any of us until a year or 2 later. They been together now 9yr.
@@yeseniaperez9032 How long you been going together ? My first husband never did take me and introduce me to his mom. Until long after we got married. She was such a sweet caring person. He definitly didbt get that after her. If you haven't guessed yet, "HE WAS NOT THE ONE" Hebwas like his dad, that's why she was remarried to a really great person who had a really good job and thought the world of her and built her a new home. She was a wonderful homemaker and he was also everything a man needed to be. Not to mention I remarried and have been married to my good man for 42 years. Why is it ways about what the woman needs to be ? Men are "not" entitled . If they feel entitled, " RUN ! " If they're a couch potato, " RUN !" If they have disorders and / or a Narcisssist then " RUN ! " AND DO T LOOK BACK DONT GO BACK! ALL Humans Matter. Including WOMEN !
@@herballovegoddess3915 You're right about that cuz come to think of it my brothers were those men cuz once you bring one girl home to my mom she wasn't having that and they are all grandfathers now.
My uncle told me when he first married my aunt she cooked him some eggs and he said it wasn't very good but he ate them anyway. He said being married was the best thing ever. They both since passed along with my parents. They kept their vows till death did them apart. Marriage back then was for survival. Now we live in messed up times. Those days are over
my boyfriend's parents have been together since high school, they were sweethearts :) my parents and grandparents are all divorced but I'll be damned if I let that cycle continue
This is the sweetest thing- and rip to all four of them; I’m glad you look back in fondness. That being said, it sounds like they married for love and found the secret to staying that way! Inspiring. I don’t necessarily think marrying for survival is the better part of history haha, I’d consider that a worse time for marriages. You’re so right though, that we do live in messed up times! I’m just personally glad my parents were able to get divorced when I was 10 to both move on and be happy. Not glad my parents divorced, but glad they weren’t stuck to the point it would hurt everyone more in the end. They both needed to separate to grow further, and do the things they were never aware that they needed to do for themselves before marrying. I have no doubt you’ll end up having a long, happy, successful marriage just like them!
When you realize you can live with and can't live without that someone. You think about them all of the time and it's reciprocated without being forced or awkward. Yall will laugh alot. The big one for me is when yall have small issue or big issue possibly even a argument because no relationship/ marriage is perfect but regardless of whatever the issue is yall are still able to kiss eachother goodnight or in the morning forgive & forget in other words accept what happened, discuss it or not discuss it , and move on and not hold it over our heads making up is always fun and not just in a sexual way lol but in general I almost forgot to mention having PATIENCE with eachother and not throwing in the towel so quickly over any & everything is definitely a sign of you have found the one. Usually all of the ones or twos 🤭 before that special one is incapable of all of the things I mentioned above.
Some people think they can live with the person and find out they’re not it after awhile though too. I can’t say I’m experienced, but from observations, there’s different clues as to what makes someone “the one”.
I told my best friend, “Look at me. I am drunk and just met my wife.” He agreed, “Yep, you’re drunk “. That was the last time I was drunk, and we have been married for 35 years.
🤣🤣 he holds my hand so he can pull me back when I step up. Trust when a man does that to a lady it is to protect her. She's just a different type of lady than what you're accustomed to.
Was it planned to meet her…? Or just coincidence? Meeting of mom… oh yeah this is such and such from such and such… ok bye mom…Was that a meeting with intentions to communicate and interact or did you just happen to be with him day and he’s forced to introduce you🤷🏽♀️
If a man introduces you to his father and the father looks at his son, and nods and smiles,it is great sign the son is growing. Harvey is talking stand up and after 4 divorces his words ain't grounded in reality.
Hey to everyone who see this comment i just want to say you are amazing no matter what your struggles may be but the Lord will take you out of that situation be strong and courageous because no one who can be stronger for you . I love you and appreciate you 💖
It takes time for some people to get it right...I feel that makes them more qualified to teach - he had to learn this about himself over time. Nothing wrong with people who learn from their mistakes and pass on what they've learned.
Hell... I met an ex's whole family... they claimed to love me.. but all of them but me knew I was a rebound and he was on his way back with his ex before me. Sometimes the deception is low and deep.
...same...all his girlfriends, non girlfriends (ahem...while we were together) and had the audacity to say "my whole family knows you" Dude, your whole family knows everyone 🙄
Sometimes the momma is the final answer if he makes you the one or not. No woman meets my momma until all the main aunties & aome female cousins, then my sister. Now if you make it thru them then yes you the one. I'm just saying some people can see thru other people bs before you can cause you like a person. If that make sense.
@@lamarsdetailing7744 🤗 I believe that's a great way to do it! I mean that's the way TO do it. I was very precise who I introduced to my Mom. But ugh... SOME of these low vibrational "men" make it seem like meeting their mom is a big deal, mean whole, she knows every female he's cheating with, and smiles in your face.
@@lamarsdetailing7744 😆 so your mom is like the final boss level? I think that's great but alot of guys aren't like that now. They will wine and dine a woman and introduce her to mom and all along had another gf.
I love Steve Harvey I read his books he also said he knew that he would marry a woman when she wouldn't put up with him cheating or any of his bs. Men love and respect everything about a woman who respects herself
I'm so tired of this ish...I've listened to so many of these "rules" but what I realised is that no one knows your relationship. I had a guy who introduced me to his mum...he was awful to me and still messing around with other girls. My current guy holds my hand in public but never gets into disagreements while holding my hand because he's not the type to...does this mean I'm not the one?!?!? People these days listen to social media and other people's opinions way too much
You can be introduced to his momma but still have a toxic relation, still treating you shit, disrespecting you, cheating and constantly lying, taking you for granted and so on. Check life'S reality beyond nice quotes people!
@@guiguimusique5139 true, she just really fuked him up which a lot of narcissistic parents do, especially the mothers, If you don't have a strong enough conscience to recognize that you were used and abused it takes a long time to truly heal. It depends on the person.
My fiances parents dont really approve of me. Because we are from different cultures and beliefs. But i know for him i am the one. So sometimes it has nothing to do with that.
My momma is an absolute shocker and can't cook... If I got into a dispute in public I would step away from my lady to keep her safe... Especially if she is the one.
Not all man, cause Narcissistic man do that and nobody is the one.. same for a sociopaths and psychopaths, you may be the one for the moment but, when cycle ends that’s it for the one who ends with the broken plates.
My narcissistic introduced me to his mom... Gave a decade to that relationship.. 7yrs married.. kids... The best years of my life all gone to waste.....😢 All my heart all my pain... He was physically abusive towards the last 4yrs... I couldn't stay .... For my kids sake anymore....
This is my style... he or she is the one when u both find peace together. Despite all the problems u both go through it well, handle it maturely. And yes im still havent found this partner im looking for. Good luck all!
I wish his Mona was still here, she would be so happy we found each other and I already know my parents and grandmother has contacted me from the heavens and told me they are by my side for support for whoever interferes!❤. Now that’s love!❤. I’m truly blessed!
I find it kinda creepy when men want women who are just like their mothers or remind them alot of their mothers....like idk it's my opinion. I genuinely find it creepy wouldn't you want your woman to be...not like your mom??
You know it sounds creepy but for most of the guys who haven’t been loved by other women, you only have your mother’s love to compare with that’s why most of average male tries to find their mom’s qualities in their future partner/wife!
It biological. Not creepy at all. They look for familiar and comforting traits. What's creepy about that? Like when a woman wants a man to be patient and protective the way her dad was.
Males' first love is their mother. Mothers set the standard of what a man will want in a female. Keep a clean home, cook, run a household, discipline children, etc. Learning about the man's mother is beneficial to you in knowing how well-balanced that man is. If he was raised right you will a have a secure man that values women.
Don't be glad to be introduced all the time. Some mother's are trash really, their din can introduce 5 different girls in a month and it'll mean nothing. On the flip side, you could be in a good relationship with the guy but as soon as you get introduced, problem starts because his momma doesn't like you.
Hehehheehe Steve, some Nigerian men would take you to his momma and ancestors and still dump you. 😂😂😂 They already dumped you before taking you to his momma
He did everything and still cheated on my face when I was nothing but loyal and God knows why I still am even after break up. So now tell me who's the one except he being an asshole?
A of that happens. I did everything for him, I made all his favorite meals, I met his mom, I met his whole family...after 5 years he told me he's changed his mind and wants to be alone. He doesn't want to have to answer to anyone. My life has changed. 😔💔
Oh Steve you wrong.....ive BEEN introduced to mama even when I said no...by men ...who for sure knew I wasn't the one and they knew I knew..as they also knew I thought THEY weren't the one 😂😂😂😂😂
Steve stop lying. U had 3 wives. So which one was the one. U saying what those women want to hear. That's bs. U saw Marjorie and she was pretty and sharp. You left Mary for her. Had nothing to do with ya mamma. Stop playing. Had to do with your other head.
He was a player until he met Marjorie. She's very attractive but I don't what's so special that she got him so hooked. She was married to two drug lords before him.
My boyfriend would hold my hand and kiss it. He got into a disagreement with an acquaintance and he pulled me behind him while holding my hand.! Yes I met his parents .! He is still in my life and we are very much in love.
Takes you to meet his momma? Only if he's a momma's boy. Real men care more about Dad's opinion. Never take advice about women from a woman. A fish knows nothing about fishing.
😮 Wow, I’m happy that there are a lot of comments that agree with me that it doesn’t matter that you have to meet the parents or family first. It would be nice but it must not depend on their opinion if you like someone or not. You have to experience yourself and give someone a fair chance. If I would know that my friend goes for everything to his family, that is a big red flag for me. I have had relationships where it happened and it turned out to be totally wrong, even harmful. You are capable of making your own decisions and if it come with disappointments we will all have our whole life, be thankful, we learn from these mistakes and you feel so strong when you can leave the 💩 behind 💪🏼💯❤️
You can meet the momma and still not be the one. The momma can enable his toxic behaviors.
So true. I had an ex who was my ex colleague from 1st job. Met his mum at his grandma's house... But guess what! He was married to another woman since day 1 and his mum never mentioned anything whenever we were out together.
Happened to me fml🤣😭
I met several moms and I was never the one. 😐
or maybe she is just not the one
Facts
I’ve been introduced to the mom after a few dates. Means nothing anymore. You’re the one when he proposes to you.
Amen
This! Some woman just play along they know their son is a player and overgrown f boy and she supports it!! You are the one when he proposes and desires a life with you.
@@theangel5416 exactly what happened to me, his momma prolly seen more girls than i have girlfriends lmao
@@sbatorie Yup. Sorry love. But - once you know you're ahead of the game 🙌🔥
I have met my future parents in law before he propose me,finally it’s over and Thank God I did not marry him.Christ sake ! I am the happiest person on earth today 😅 Hell No ! See momma + papa.Know Jesus FIRST ❤ 😊
My brother told me after 3 months of dating his now wife he knew she was the one. He didn't introduce her to any of us until a year or 2 later. They been together now 9yr.
This gives me hope… haven’t met his mom yet
@@yeseniaperez9032 well we knew of her we just didn't meet her Until the holidays I believe it was Thanksgiving.
@@yeseniaperez9032 well his mom can be toxic. This happened to me
A year, Or Two ??
Which one is it ? Just a question many are pondering.
@@yeseniaperez9032 How long you been going together ?
My first husband never did take me and introduce me to his mom. Until long after we got married. She was such a sweet caring person. He definitly didbt get that after her.
If you haven't guessed yet, "HE WAS NOT THE ONE" Hebwas like his dad, that's why she was remarried to a really great person who had a really good job and thought the world of her and built her a new home. She was a wonderful homemaker and he was also everything a man needed to be.
Not to mention I remarried and have been married to my good man for 42 years.
Why is it ways about what the woman needs to be ? Men are "not" entitled . If they feel entitled, " RUN ! "
If they're a couch potato, " RUN !"
If they have disorders and / or a Narcisssist then " RUN ! "
AND DO T LOOK BACK DONT GO BACK!
ALL Humans Matter. Including WOMEN !
Men will introduce you to everyone and anyone and still do you dirty. Choose somebody who knows Jesus.
Amen! Knowing Jesus is all that really matters.
Hmmm.... so you're saying billions of people are wrong to not believe in Jesus? Seems a good way to ostracize people against your type of faith.
Amen that's definitely is the facts
Facts until the last part
Yes someone who knows the Lord
Women…DO NOT BELIEVE THIS 😂😂😂😂
Hello pretty
I'm hollering 😂
Some of these ninjas take every woman they meet to meet their mother now so that doesn't count anymore
I was thinking the same thing! That generation is probably already married with Grandkids!!!!
@@herballovegoddess3915 You're right about that cuz come to think of it my brothers were those men cuz once you bring one girl home to my mom she wasn't having that and they are all grandfathers now.
It really has no merit any more
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Especially when they don't have nothing but what their family provides.
My uncle told me when he first married my aunt she cooked him some eggs and he said it wasn't very good but he ate them anyway. He said being married was the best thing ever. They both since passed along with my parents. They kept their vows till death did them apart. Marriage back then was for survival. Now we live in messed up times. Those days are over
Rip
No they aren't, my parents have been together going on 51 years. I am believing for mine!!
Those days are harder to come by now. I'm gonna continue to hope for mine!
my boyfriend's parents have been together since high school, they were sweethearts :) my parents and grandparents are all divorced but I'll be damned if I let that cycle continue
This is the sweetest thing- and rip to all four of them; I’m glad you look back in fondness. That being said, it sounds like they married for love and found the secret to staying that way! Inspiring.
I don’t necessarily think marrying for survival is the better part of history haha, I’d consider that a worse time for marriages. You’re so right though, that we do live in messed up times!
I’m just personally glad my parents were able to get divorced when I was 10 to both move on and be happy. Not glad my parents divorced, but glad they weren’t stuck to the point it would hurt everyone more in the end. They both needed to separate to grow further, and do the things they were never aware that they needed to do for themselves before marrying.
I have no doubt you’ll end up having a long, happy, successful marriage just like them!
Players are taking notes to play us at the next level
Exactly
😂😂😂😂
You are the one when he SHOWS you...consistently!!! Then he is the one 😉🙌
He did all that and still messed around on me
Love that comment
@@krissysimpson8735 I am so sorry. I hope you are okay 🙏💖 Been down the same road, but the right one chooses YOU everyday. Sending light & support
❗️If he drags you into a disagreement while holding your hand where you could get hit or hurt… he does not love you❗️
lmao facts
It's edited, the real one is if he gets into a disagreement and stands in front of you and puts you behind him...
He is the one
You know if that's the one when you realize you can live with that person
Amen now that's for real and another thing when they are always on your mind
When you realize you can live with and can't live without that someone. You think about them all of the time and it's reciprocated without being forced or awkward. Yall will laugh alot. The big one for me is when yall have small issue or big issue possibly even a argument because no relationship/ marriage is perfect but regardless of whatever the issue is yall are still able to kiss eachother goodnight or in the morning forgive & forget in other words accept what happened, discuss it or not discuss it , and move on and not hold it over our heads making up is always fun and not just in a sexual way lol but in general I almost forgot to mention having PATIENCE with eachother and not throwing in the towel so quickly over any & everything is definitely a sign of you have found the one. Usually all of the ones or twos 🤭 before that special one is incapable of all of the things I mentioned above.
Live with!!! Not live without!!!! 💯💯💯
You know it’s the one when you don’t want to live without them
Some people think they can live with the person and find out they’re not it after awhile though too. I can’t say I’m experienced, but from observations, there’s different clues as to what makes someone “the one”.
You meeting his momma doesn't guarantee you his loyalty
I told my best friend, “Look at me. I am drunk and just met my wife.” He agreed, “Yep, you’re drunk “. That was the last time I was drunk, and we have been married for 35 years.
If he get in a disagreement with someone he should let go of her hand and get in front of here not stand there and hold her hand 🤦🏻♂️
💯 that one says he doesn't care at all for your safety
🤣🤣 he holds my hand so he can pull me back when I step up. Trust when a man does that to a lady it is to protect her. She's just a different type of lady than what you're accustomed to.
@@art3may500 nah ur just more manly and masculine than most women..seriously man
There is a difference between meeting his mom and he taking you to his mom. Stay clear young Queens
Not really a difference
What’s the difference?
Was it planned to meet her…? Or just coincidence? Meeting of mom… oh yeah this is such and such from such and such… ok bye mom…Was that a meeting with intentions to communicate and interact or did you just happen to be with him day and he’s forced to introduce you🤷🏽♀️
He takes me to his mom and to his whole family but still he didnt choos me 😥
If a man introduces you to his father and the father looks at his son, and nods and smiles,it is great sign the son is growing.
Harvey is talking stand up and after 4 divorces his words ain't grounded in reality.
4 divorces? The man done married the whole America
damn 🔥
A fckn lie, my brother still cheats after doing that .I am his sister & I admit it i see everything from lying to cheating 😏
@@irenerosales7921 a guy cheating does not mean he doesn't love his wife.
Only women think if he cheats he doesn't care. We don't think like that.
@@arabionjames9290 you sounds like you are making an excuse for cheating😔
Hey to everyone who see this comment i just want to say you are amazing no matter what your struggles may be but the Lord will take you out of that situation be strong and courageous because no one who can be stronger for you . I love you and appreciate you 💖
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Thank you. Same to you as well!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen
If nothing feels good without her.
She is the one.
That can easily also be unhealthy attachments
Yes
So true
Or you have complex trauma; perhaps codependency.
Facts 💯
u know ur the one when he gets on one knee😭
Google how many times he got divorced...
Well maybe he finally figured it out? 😂🤷♀️
It takes time for some people to get it right...I feel that makes them more qualified to teach - he had to learn this about himself over time. Nothing wrong with people who learn from their mistakes and pass on what they've learned.
They weren’t the one
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ smh they are goals. Period. 🔥
Im Google how much money he have too he's made mistakes let it go because he have Steve is living the life he needed
The momma thing is not always true because some moms are toxic and think her son is her man and can actually get in the way of the one.
Weird when moms are like that.
Hell... I met an ex's whole family... they claimed to love me.. but all of them but me knew I was a rebound and he was on his way back with his ex before me. Sometimes the deception is low and deep.
My ex took all his girlfriends to his mama. Nothing special
...same...all his girlfriends, non girlfriends (ahem...while we were together) and had the audacity to say "my whole family knows you"
Dude, your whole family knows everyone 🙄
Sometimes the momma is the final answer if he makes you the one or not. No woman meets my momma until all the main aunties & aome female cousins, then my sister. Now if you make it thru them then yes you the one. I'm just saying some people can see thru other people bs before you can cause you like a person. If that make sense.
@@divinelyprotected144 oh damn smdh 🤦 🤦.
@@lamarsdetailing7744 🤗 I believe that's a great way to do it! I mean that's the way TO do it. I was very precise who I introduced to my Mom.
But ugh... SOME of these low vibrational "men" make it seem like meeting their mom is a big deal, mean whole, she knows every female he's cheating with, and smiles in your face.
@@lamarsdetailing7744 😆 so your mom is like the final boss level? I think that's great but alot of guys aren't like that now. They will wine and dine a woman and introduce her to mom and all along had another gf.
I love Steve Harvey I read his books he also said he knew that he would marry a woman when she wouldn't put up with him cheating or any of his bs. Men love and respect everything about a woman who respects herself
I'm so tired of this ish...I've listened to so many of these "rules" but what I realised is that no one knows your relationship. I had a guy who introduced me to his mum...he was awful to me and still messing around with other girls. My current guy holds my hand in public but never gets into disagreements while holding my hand because he's not the type to...does this mean I'm not the one?!?!? People these days listen to social media and other people's opinions way too much
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True.
These are the old school traditions, definitely not of today's dating trends in 2022!!! So sad though 🤦♀️
This is for the Woman, that HES THE ONE.
You are the ONE, only if he marries you. 🙂
Steve Harvey got it figured out. I love Steve Harvey and he has himself a good woman. They are a power couple.
Wife no. 3....
Meet his mom and dad
Best friend …….✝️👍meet her brothers all 10 of them…. And they don’t toss HIM out-he the one!!!!🙏🙏👍✊
All 10 of them 🤣🤣🤣
This new generation is a new breed of humans!
In his case, she the 4th🤣🤣🤣
You can be introduced to his momma but still have a toxic relation, still treating you shit, disrespecting you, cheating and constantly lying, taking you for granted and so on.
Check life'S reality beyond nice quotes people!
Or you could have a a partner that enables a toxic mother! (I'm projecting! Ha!)
But he may do all he says, not only one action.
@@guiguimusique5139 true, she just really fuked him up which a lot of narcissistic parents do, especially the mothers, If you don't have a strong enough conscience to recognize that you were used and abused it takes a long time to truly heal. It depends on the person.
@@guiguimusique5139 actions speak louder than words
It's all, not just one. It's conditions that are jointly sufficient.
What if their parents don’t want to meet him or her! Are they the one? 😂
LOL. Well. That's a pretty good question, but only you can decide that with the help of the LORD.
My fiances parents dont really approve of me. Because we are from different cultures and beliefs. But i know for him i am the one. So sometimes it has nothing to do with that.
Men know she is the one when she is emotionally stable point blank period!!!
My momma is an absolute shocker and can't cook... If I got into a dispute in public I would step away from my lady to keep her safe... Especially if she is the one.
Like usual, the real truth is in the comment section. 🤣
Yes!!!!😮😮
The last one was REALLY hilarious. 😂😂😂
I just have my Momma to.cook his favorite meal for me because he loves my Mommy's cooking!! He ain't marry me for my cooking!!🤗 #ImHisONE💯💯
Not all man, cause Narcissistic man do that and nobody is the one.. same for a sociopaths and psychopaths, you may be the one for the moment but, when cycle ends that’s it for the one who ends with the broken plates.
Noway #1
A friends' dad of mine once said him: "I am sick of you: Stop bringing home your girlfriends!".
Hmmm 🤔 my brothers bring aaaalllll their girlfriends to my mommas house
My narcissistic introduced me to his mom...
Gave a decade to that relationship.. 7yrs married.. kids... The best years of my life all gone to waste.....😢 All my heart all my pain... He was physically abusive towards the last 4yrs... I couldn't stay .... For my kids sake anymore....
My narcissistic ex had me meet his mom but I was never allowed to meet his friends needless to say I'm glad I wasn't the one he almost killed me smfh
Wow, sorry to hear that, may God protect you 🙏
What if he doesn’t have a mom?
My momma is gone but she was such a good cook and the kindest person ever. She had so many friends, some for 30 years. He is so funny 😁😘😘😘😘😘💕💕💕⭐⭐⭐
Wow that great how are you pretty
This is my style... he or she is the one when u both find peace together. Despite all the problems u both go through it well, handle it maturely.
And yes im still havent found this partner im looking for. Good luck all!
When it comes to relationships, Steve Harvey has an intimate relationship with ignorance.
“An intimate relationship with ignorance”.. I have to use that😂😂
@@iDreamOfJeanii Bars ;)
😂😂😂
Steve Harvey you know definitely telling me that because when she's the one that man.let world know he inlove
That's the moment I realise that I never ate something done by my late momma
I wish his Mona was still here, she would be so happy we found each other and I already know my parents and grandmother has contacted me from the heavens and told me they are by my side for support for whoever interferes!❤. Now that’s love!❤. I’m truly blessed!
"Do not play it cool" got it 😂😂
I was introduced twice in the family yet I'm still not the one 🥲 I just been questioning myself if there was really one for me. Tired and heartbroken.
Its better to not be the one, than to be stuck with the wrong one
last 2 lines are just for the show...
Maybe
I find it kinda creepy when men want women who are just like their mothers or remind them alot of their mothers....like idk it's my opinion. I genuinely find it creepy wouldn't you want your woman to be...not like your mom??
You know it sounds creepy but for most of the guys who haven’t been loved by other women, you only have your mother’s love to compare with that’s why most of average male tries to find their mom’s qualities in their future partner/wife!
I think men look for maternal qualities to make them their future wife and mother of their child.
It biological. Not creepy at all. They look for familiar and comforting traits. What's creepy about that?
Like when a woman wants a man to be patient and protective the way her dad was.
@@kokolatte825 💯
Males' first love is their mother. Mothers set the standard of what a man will want in a female. Keep a clean home, cook, run a household, discipline children, etc. Learning about the man's mother is beneficial to you in knowing how well-balanced that man is. If he was raised right you will a have a secure man that values women.
I just LOVE listening to your words of wisdom! Keep making these videos, please! ❤️😊😉
Easy do a back ground check check mate 🤣
Don't be glad to be introduced all the time. Some mother's are trash really, their din can introduce 5 different girls in a month and it'll mean nothing.
On the flip side, you could be in a good relationship with the guy but as soon as you get introduced, problem starts because his momma doesn't like you.
Fact's because you can NeVeR underestimate how much value he has in his mother's opinion.
I don’t know about the momma one lol been there done that
I always love his energy! 🤣🔥
I like the holding hand thing especially if he’s in a disagreement with someone but walks away ❤ very sweet
My ex...everyone he took on a 2nd tinderdate got potential to meet momma🤣🤮
Hehehheehe Steve, some Nigerian men would take you to his momma and ancestors and still dump you. 😂😂😂 They already dumped you before taking you to his momma
🤣🤣🤣
9ija happening to us
😂😂😂
So many have said, the first time they saw their partner, they knew this person was the one they was going to marry‼️
I was smiling through out the video owfff this one is everythingg! ❤
Love your words so much
He did everything and still cheated on my face when I was nothing but loyal and God knows why I still am even after break up.
So now tell me who's the one except he being an asshole?
I hope you heal by the Grace of God 🙏
A of that happens. I did everything for him, I made all his favorite meals, I met his mom, I met his whole family...after 5 years he told me he's changed his mind and wants to be alone. He doesn't want to have to answer to anyone. My life has changed. 😔💔
Damn now that sucks. Well it's his lost & he will realize that soon watch & see ma'am.
Dear Steve you ain't met Nigerian men. His mama gone help him screw you over
If I wanna get rid off you, then I'll have you meet my mom 😂
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Perfectly right
Steve is so philosophical, must be well educated 😮
My momma regretted having her family of 5 kids. What would you expect, if you only had the kids to collect the government welfare checks?
Well ma man do that 😍 and we are married niw
Steve will all ways be the Greatest of all times🔥
I met the momma and she told me he wasn't ready for me. I should have listened to her.
*Heck yeahh..* 😂
You know she the one when she able to beat you in a 1v1 😏
Lmao facts
Lmao I'm weak 🤣 😂.
I love him. He tells it like it IS!!
Oh Steve you wrong.....ive BEEN introduced to mama even when I said no...by men ...who for sure knew I wasn't the one and they knew I knew..as they also knew I thought THEY weren't the one 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you @Steve
❤Hello sunshine
If he like you he’ll marry you not wait years and years
So true. Steve Harvey that's so true 👍💯
Unless his momma has passed away. ...
Why does Steve speak for a whole gender
@Pìnned:. Տt͏e͏v͏e͏ Hαrvey • Omg no way for sure Stephen is my guys
@Pìnned:. Տt͏e͏v͏e͏ Hαrvey • yeah he got me so much money
Some have horrible mother's so this does hold true alot of the time but not all of the time...But,great tips and advice..
Some men bring every woman to meet his momma. I'll never understand that!!!
What if he's an orphan?
Ok. We all know when they're the one. Lord
FACTS!!! Bless up y’all!!
Que bonito habla, Dios lo siga llenando de sabiduría e inteligencia es de mucha bendición escucharlo👏🏼
Steve stop lying. U had 3 wives. So which one was the one. U saying what those women want to hear. That's bs. U saw Marjorie and she was pretty and sharp. You left Mary for her. Had nothing to do with ya mamma. Stop playing. Had to do with your other head.
He was a player until he met Marjorie. She's very attractive but I don't what's so special that she got him so hooked. She was married to two drug lords before him.
My boyfriend would hold my hand and kiss it.
He got into a disagreement with an acquaintance and he pulled me behind him while holding my hand.!
Yes I met his parents .!
He is still in my life and we are very much in love.
Lucky. When are you getting married.
May you live a long and healthy prosperous life
they’re do all this and STILL treat you bad.
He took me to his family reunion while his girlfriend was at his/their place 🤣🤣
Why are ppl still listening to this man?
Cause he does speak real facts from a man's point of view real talk.
Takes you to meet his momma? Only if he's a momma's boy. Real men care more about Dad's opinion. Never take advice about women from a woman. A fish knows nothing about fishing.
So I can't love my mom I have to love my dad
@@Golfermang love mom, take advice from dad.
@@downburst3236 and btw fish are vastly different from women listen to a WOMAN about WOMEN not a MAN that isn't a WOMAN
@@Golfermang fish and women have the same lips. Clearly you don't know what you are talking about.
Lol troll
I had the talk with my Girl that if something goes down don't grab my hand, stand behind me or run.
We were overly romanticized that "the one"
I met his mom and his whole family, and i wasn't the one
😮 Wow, I’m happy that there are a lot of comments that agree with me that it doesn’t matter that you have to meet the parents or family first. It would be nice but it must not depend on their opinion if you like someone or not. You have to experience yourself and give someone a fair chance. If I would know that my friend goes for everything to his family, that is a big red flag for me. I have had relationships where it happened and it turned out to be totally wrong, even harmful. You are capable of making your own decisions and if it come with disappointments we will all have our whole life, be thankful, we learn from these mistakes and you feel so strong when you can leave the 💩 behind 💪🏼💯❤️