1 SIMPLE Tip to Reduce Nerves When Public Speaking

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  • @magnusbruce4051
    @magnusbruce4051 ปีที่แล้ว +2080

    Don't forget: most people haven't read your script 10+ times before they hear you speak. They're experiencing it for the first time and need a little bit more time to process your words.
    A rhythm that seems natural to you because you practiced it a lot is completely alien to your audience.

    • @lilbear19601
      @lilbear19601 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That's probably the 👽 did a Uie and brought me back.😢

    • @MrNicePotato
      @MrNicePotato 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Exactly!! People presenting at school always cram as much as possible just to speak as fast as possible. They didn't realize people don't get 80% of the idea they gave.

    • @prakashsuthar8856
      @prakashsuthar8856 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your 3rd line brings back all the fear to speaker " they need little bit more time to process"
      Means feeling of getting judged arouses here

    • @menoswater1032
      @menoswater1032 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@prakashsuthar8856What you just described is a normal human reaction. When nervous we focus our attention inward.
      What you want to consciously do is focus your attention OUTWARD. Instead of thinking “they’re judging me” think about how you what your saying is affecting them.
      This helps with social anxiety in general. Even in situations like parties.

    • @___idk
      @___idk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      .....

  • @38TheMaster1w
    @38TheMaster1w 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +638

    Wait, I just realised this doesn't only apply to speaking in public. It can apply to anything, Job interviews, speaking to your date, meeting new people.

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Mind = blown

    • @DA_KEYZ
      @DA_KEYZ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts 😊

    • @settherealtor
      @settherealtor 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I spoke slow n fast to 2 different girls over the phone. The first one fell in love and payed more attention than the 2nd

    • @sufma6505
      @sufma6505 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro speaking slow is a cheat code lol. Specially when talking to girls

    • @rinaz8219
      @rinaz8219 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💀

  • @bigkurz
    @bigkurz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    Public speech is incredibly important. It’s cool to be able to teach that to others

  • @food4thoughttt
    @food4thoughttt ปีที่แล้ว +81

    One thing i love about vihn is how practical he is...
    It's not like those videos which gives you a pump of adrenaline rush and then you can't use the information in the end.
    I had a school presentation and I nailed it especially on variation of tone. Thanks for these amazing videos

  • @j.kyol.4499
    @j.kyol.4499 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I think a lot about communication.
    It matters greatly to me, as someone who’s been bullied and made fun of, I’m so used to being on guard all the time. These tricks help me cope, and sometimes I may overthink how I need to communicate, but your tips are helping me so much. Thank you!

  • @I___dunno
    @I___dunno ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Dude this is going to help so much. Tomorrow I have to make a 3-day weather forecast for school and I’m extremely nervous

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@tiffanyh.5788 eh at least I got partnered with my friend. She’ll be able to calm my nerves somehow. She was also nice enough to only let me say one paragraph.

    • @Bot28111
      @Bot28111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is your username. You’re in school? Lol

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Bot28111 yeah. Is there something wrong with it? If there is I doubt I’d remember to change it.

    • @JohnYoo39
      @JohnYoo39 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey dude, hope the forecast presentation went well.

    • @I___dunno
      @I___dunno ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@JohnYoo39 YEAH ABOUT THAT… my nerves kinda got in the way of that.. I never ended up doing it and kinda had my friend do it herself. But I’m fine now 😅

  • @benamerdamino5318
    @benamerdamino5318 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This dude is helping people .. he genuinely wants to facilitate people's coexistence.. respect

  • @prajwalsharma5877
    @prajwalsharma5877 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The free content has so much value. Imagine his lives events.

  • @davorcelar3306
    @davorcelar3306 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Wonderful tip, Vinh! Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Keep it coming. ❤️

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @ilyasofficial1617
    @ilyasofficial1617 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is nice tip. When i do thesis defense, i tried to slowdown and my nervous-ness went away and relaxed.

  • @ElskaTheAnimator
    @ElskaTheAnimator 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    When I do public speech, I don’t start speaking faster, I cry (Not even joking, happened the two last times I had to present in front of my class) Can someone tell me what I can do please? I have one coming soon…

    • @user-oh3es4qe9p
      @user-oh3es4qe9p 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's social; anxiety

    • @ElskaTheAnimator
      @ElskaTheAnimator 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@user-oh3es4qe9p I know, it’s everywhere anytime haunting me everyday of my life, but I’m trying to at least find a solution for public speech not to cry…

  • @azrise
    @azrise 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm shivering just thinking about it 😭😭

    • @besatsified5162
      @besatsified5162 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      you're not alone

    • @brekdak4014
      @brekdak4014 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      im so scared

    • @Daintyrose_xx
      @Daintyrose_xx หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sameee I have to give a speech at my school and I’m nervous

    • @1KKVV
      @1KKVV หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have a presentation next week, and I've put in my mind most of the possible things that could happen to me there, so that makes me a little more comfortable because no matter what happens to me at least I know. As much as I'm nervous I'm excited

    • @Daintyrose_xx
      @Daintyrose_xx หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@1KKVV nice! I also have to give a speech at my school next Monday , I’m also excited but I’m nervous.. my problem is that when I’m exposed to situations like this my body automatically shivers , so I’m scared to shiver when I’m on stage !!

  • @teamslater23
    @teamslater23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    At my work I have this amazing opportunity to speak in front of people but I get nervous and scared. Thank you for all the advice. I feel like it's going to help me when I go to different plants around the US and help me succeed 🤗

  • @ANA7H3MAhd
    @ANA7H3MAhd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The use case for talking faster is creating energy and stress about what you’re communicating. This is vital when hammering home an action point (without being overdone of course)

  • @joshsohan1157
    @joshsohan1157 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Slow movements
    Direct eye contact
    Don't look away
    Enthusiasm
    Powerful voice
    Good posture
    Nod less
    Talk slow (slow rate of speech. Relaxes you)

  • @bekdev564
    @bekdev564 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ikr, I feel so anxious when I see someone else anxious 😅

  • @brian1192
    @brian1192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was actually a good tip not just for this subject but in general

  • @hollandp9606
    @hollandp9606 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Speaking slowly with good pronunciation is so cool. It can make even boring material sound interesting.

  • @thefourthwritedjentleman3643
    @thefourthwritedjentleman3643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Have not seen a bad video from you, top tier content for anyone and everyone I think

  • @tarkusd7534
    @tarkusd7534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    slow rate of speed makes others relax, so thats why the people always fell asleep during my presentations

  • @DiscoCokkroach
    @DiscoCokkroach ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Vinh, your videos are insightful, inspiring, and refreshing. Thank you for sharing your God-given gifts with us.

  • @RobBrightBeast
    @RobBrightBeast ปีที่แล้ว

    Ooo it not only makes you seem more relaxed, it relaxes you

  • @imlyshawn3690
    @imlyshawn3690 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Never ever crossed my mind. Thanks 👍

  • @clementng7718
    @clementng7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great coaching, Vinh 🙌🥰

  • @phil3617
    @phil3617 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    How to deal with mind blank while speaking

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor ปีที่แล้ว +1

      keep doing it until you stop blanking out

    • @deathhunter1029
      @deathhunter1029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Know your stuff well so you can improvise

  • @d.deepak
    @d.deepak 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the tip

  • @KissMan-lz7ej
    @KissMan-lz7ej 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much sir for this information

  • @manuelsanchez6221
    @manuelsanchez6221 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, such a simple but extremely effective tip. Thanks!!!

  • @Dentofall
    @Dentofall 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me the best tips r like if ur in a apartment say have a good day with a smile to people when they leave the lift at their lift or go to the park and if u a kid go to the play ground and ask hey can u push me in the swing I'll push u too or like do u wanna play tag play with me in the sand etc.

  • @Stimario
    @Stimario 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a great tip, I believe can work in any situation ❤❤❤ much love great job ❤️😊

  • @mtiderman
    @mtiderman 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is great. Definitely agree and have experienced this to be true.

  • @gagakingof6139
    @gagakingof6139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, that’s actually helpful

  • @FlySpleen
    @FlySpleen ปีที่แล้ว

    Great timing, as I've been looking for ways to be more relaxed in my upcoming wedding vows ❤

  • @palanisamyrajaraman1644
    @palanisamyrajaraman1644 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All your video are really useful brother

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!!!😮😮 congratulations 🎊

  • @nsovomahange
    @nsovomahange ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The first thing I do is speak slower and slower and slower… until I eventually just stop speaking because no one’s listening anymore 🙂👍🏽

  • @internetexplorer7143
    @internetexplorer7143 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I often speak really quickly when I’m doing public speaking but it’s not because I’m nervous but it’s because I have a lot of information to get out in a limited amount of time, so that makes me speak really quick

  • @ageretube3035
    @ageretube3035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad following you

  • @KonradTamas
    @KonradTamas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This guy is sooooo fkn goood

  • @Rajeevkumar-bv5qi
    @Rajeevkumar-bv5qi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great information

  • @wojciechm7653
    @wojciechm7653 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @chae325i
    @chae325i ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. Love your videos 💯✅

  • @andreasbudiman6891
    @andreasbudiman6891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super great tips. I’m implementing.

  • @francis_duarte
    @francis_duarte ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You know your stuff!

  • @Domino10112
    @Domino10112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful tip! I can always use it for success. 😁😁😁👍🏽💯

  • @GreyBlackWolf
    @GreyBlackWolf ปีที่แล้ว

    Theres many speech teachers out there making loads of money on bs that is already known but this guy knows people. Not tricks. People. Growing up people who used this to their advantage with psychology and sociology degrees. Knowing people opens more doors to the world and yourself than you could possibly imagine.

  • @emeru_emeru
    @emeru_emeru ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think now I know why people don't listen to me when I speak :cc

  • @Quipple
    @Quipple ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can these be applied to debates?

    • @Luis-gs4hi
      @Luis-gs4hi ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it can be applied to any type of speaking in front of others or an audience. A lot of the stuff he teaches seems to be great advice for theatre as well

  • @rjunior0792
    @rjunior0792 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vinh rules!

  • @Randomsass
    @Randomsass หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you i have become speak the talker of words

  • @themagicshop3924
    @themagicshop3924 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is soo helpfull l was exactly doing this

  • @kystfights7761
    @kystfights7761 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why don't anyone teach mindset first in the place of little points

  • @user-du3oy3du3c
    @user-du3oy3du3c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good 👍 point

  • @flowerwaifu
    @flowerwaifu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was fully expecting some big plot twist but no, it was just good advice

  • @saichaithvik
    @saichaithvik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U r awesome

  • @maike.welerson
    @maike.welerson ปีที่แล้ว

    A comunicação altera a emoção.

  • @ManojKumar-cj7oj
    @ManojKumar-cj7oj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Slow down " That's what she said!

  • @ianiskandar4165
    @ianiskandar4165 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks God to teach me too in my mind like : .. if you are a fast talk type.. how I do it is speak with a "second" slow kind of.. like a "clock" .. tik tok tik tok there is a slow phase in there.. like a normal heart rate .. so your audience can think because if too fast more than second clock thing, your audiences brain cant keep with you to receive your information.. thanks for this video too..

  • @brentdelacruz558
    @brentdelacruz558 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im sending this to my friends or something idk

  • @Thapee
    @Thapee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was taught to also replace fill-up words like uhmm etc with silence.

  • @yapsonark407
    @yapsonark407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice! ❤

  • @besatsified5162
    @besatsified5162 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have a class presentation tommorrow i will come with some results

  • @Luneatix98
    @Luneatix98 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting because while we were asked to talk about what we love in uni I noticed that people who were nervous spoke fast, I told myself that I will speak slowly but I just couldn't

  • @joegreene8045
    @joegreene8045 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have any events in the states?

  • @michaelobregon9936
    @michaelobregon9936 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GREAT ADVICE but I do have a question 🙋‍♀️ if I have a time limit for my speech how can I talk slower and still keep in time?

  • @utkarshkumar7957
    @utkarshkumar7957 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But while slowing down, what to do if you forgot what you were going to speak next??

  • @NaveedShahzadKhan
    @NaveedShahzadKhan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is really no discussion of stage fright in the media, but I think it is an important topic that needs more examples and awareness.

  • @DiptiGogoi80
    @DiptiGogoi80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Forget 'bout the speech, there's a kind of people who even forgets to breath while speaking in a public event... nd yess I'm one them 🥸🖐️
    : Can u make a video on how to breath normally nd not like I'm having asthma attacks while speaking publicly?? 🙏

    • @kimtabel5971
      @kimtabel5971 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Try the Wim Hof breathing exercises. The best thing is to take several deep breaths into your tummy, not lungs, and slowly exhale. Practice it every now and then. Do it right before speaking and during a pause in your speech as well. This will help lower your heart rate and makes sure you don't hyperventilate

  • @ThatOneOddGuy
    @ThatOneOddGuy ปีที่แล้ว

    People pay money and go places to learn what this guy is teaching while I learnt it from observing interactions in highschool

  • @abiriprince
    @abiriprince 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey guys 🙂

  • @edidiongwillie2782
    @edidiongwillie2782 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @dimitrakouroupi
    @dimitrakouroupi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Except what if I cant slow down because I have to say a hundred things in only half an hour?

  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  ปีที่แล้ว

    Link to my FREE 3 part online course 🥰
    gifts.vinhgiang.com/youtube

  • @TheHigherFury
    @TheHigherFury ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nah the reason I speak fast is because people interrupt or tune out so I'm trying to deliver my thoughts in the short period of time I have their attention

  • @Space_Princess
    @Space_Princess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As an autistic who has ADHD too, I can talk very fast when I'm excited about a topic. My brain goes a million miles per hour so I speak fast. People tell me "slow down. It's okay" or "gosh, you're a renter gob" or "you come across as if you're nervous". Now I know why this can be the case. I seem nervous because of how I'm coming across with how fast I speak and it puts people off or catches them off guard 😅

  • @darshanmishra5450
    @darshanmishra5450 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is pre recorded course avbl?

  • @willcaine1208
    @willcaine1208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you be my college public speaking teacher 😭

  • @parrislabeur-cb3dr
    @parrislabeur-cb3dr ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUTH

  • @Nursing-tv4ec
    @Nursing-tv4ec 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    but what if we have a time limit!

  • @landofmyth221
    @landofmyth221 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that he speaks like jet

  • @adarshpalavalli7095
    @adarshpalavalli7095 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do I speak slowly

  • @benedictus7081
    @benedictus7081 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a kind of a reverse question tho. What if, you have a lot of key material to say (even after cutting down lots of points), in a very pressing time limit, which then makes you have to speak fast. In this case, surely, speaking fast will unconsciously make you tensed up. How would you handle the situation?

  • @Obeythebacon
    @Obeythebacon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Umm what if I'm a rapper and I get nervous on stage? What do I do then?

  • @rodney.roadman
    @rodney.roadman ปีที่แล้ว

    r u gonna do sydney

  • @vent3z
    @vent3z 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a problem that I am so nervous that I forget everything I wamted to say. And so I talk TOO slow and try getting my words organized again... but I don't calm down somehow and just keep talking very very slow. Anyone have any tips?

  • @tamilanlee2849
    @tamilanlee2849 ปีที่แล้ว

    slow down it relaxes you and your people

  • @sam-kk1pl
    @sam-kk1pl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The boy sounds like vihn😂

  • @user-wj5uw7bm3e
    @user-wj5uw7bm3e 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This decently helpt me but I got nerves again during my presentation because I realized that I wanted to fill the gaps that started forming because of the slow down speech with “eeeeh”
    Any tips for that?

  • @user-li5ly4xp1b
    @user-li5ly4xp1b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Russian Mafia Boss gives advice for today.
    "If you want be charismatic,here are some simple fixes:"
    Number 1:"Don't divide your attention always focus on one thing"
    Number 2:"Move slow,talk slow,when you have charisma you have the power of God and that power is pure"
    "Be honourable"

  • @violett874
    @violett874 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also apparently beta blockers. I start to shake when I have to do public speaking even if I feel perfectly fine about it. I hear a lot of public speakers/ artists take them for this issue.

  • @charlenephillips1031
    @charlenephillips1031 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about when you don’t have anything planned out and your mind goes blank 😢

  • @logicthinking14
    @logicthinking14 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there anything more complicated than an analogy Is there anything more complicated than an analogy to God's creation, like a beautiful red rose in the sky, only people think and want to accept it? ❤

  • @kreativeforce532
    @kreativeforce532 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want slow speakers to hurry up and get to the point. Also they appear less competent than fast speakers. 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @kawaii_hawaii222
    @kawaii_hawaii222 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actually speaking slower often makes me a lot more nervous

  • @mattmiller237
    @mattmiller237 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right....... i don't think any of them understand being nervous in front of a crowd....

  • @Gustoking37
    @Gustoking37 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How ironic you got Chinese guy teaching English and delivery with flawless execution and extremely well educated on the subject matter. This is only through hard work and determination. These snippets are gold dust and have had immense value from them. Hats of to you mate, it just shows when the phrase crops up that ‘ they are taking all our job’ … even British born intellects struggle to deliver this level of high quality content.

  • @FrogeniusW.G.
    @FrogeniusW.G. ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually, I have the feeling/experience that people have no patience to listen then.

  • @Chehli
    @Chehli ปีที่แล้ว

    When people speak that slow I wanna crawl out of my skin. I’m already thinking about something else and just want to put them on 2x speed

  • @rich0373
    @rich0373 ปีที่แล้ว

    Commenting so whenever it gets a *like* I can come back to this and remember to SLOW DOWN.

  • @AmbionicsUK
    @AmbionicsUK 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lie to yourself. Tell yourself you are excited, not nervous. Trust me