Realizing I Lost Myself to Motherhood... I Really Let Myself Go..

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  • @domi_nel
    @domi_nel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    😂 wife I don’t feel like you lost your self at all, you’re beautiful without that shit. You smell good every night for me, and I just wanna eat you up 😏

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      This energy is why we got so many kids lol

    • @carolinacarolina2342
      @carolinacarolina2342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love it, y'all two!!! 🤣🤣🤣💕💕

    • @angelettekidd8403
      @angelettekidd8403 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👍🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🎃🎃🫶🏾

    • @ashleyybabyyy7539
      @ashleyybabyyy7539 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love yalll ✨✨✨

    • @treesasabato7547
      @treesasabato7547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Girll, you know how you get Domi! LOL

  • @carolinacarolina2342
    @carolinacarolina2342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I totally get it, sis. My husband and I have been together since 14 and 15. Now we're 37 and 39 with 5 children. It's still VERY hard, but we're still learning. Thank you for being transparent with us. Love you, Queen ❤

  • @nikkil1212
    @nikkil1212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Self love self care is very important, you are no good for ANYONE unless you are good for you. ❤❤

  • @zoriemary
    @zoriemary 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    As a mom I can say the same... it's in our nature to put our babies before ourselves. But frfr we gotta take care of ourselves too.

  • @jazminelesha9794
    @jazminelesha9794 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This style of vlogging was really great. I like how you talked a lot, venting & sharing thoughts & added small clips of home life & self care. It was organized & not overwhelming. Easy to follow. 👏🏽👏🏽 (this is in response to you saying you think it might not have been that interesting).

  • @ashleyybabyyy7539
    @ashleyybabyyy7539 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rah’s bare face is literally this emoji ✨✨✨
    girl forget the makeup. Get your hair done & nails done and it’s already giving baddie. 😍 I love this kind of video. Keep them coming 😊

  • @kevinisharice4261
    @kevinisharice4261 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I completely agree i be needing sleep also

  • @MrsWilson711
    @MrsWilson711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Although you were in the house, I thoroughly enjoyed listening to your thoughts. Sometimes it’s needed. Reminder that we’re not alone

  • @shaquananest8089
    @shaquananest8089 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true this needs to be talked about more❤

  • @jimmeciawade1079
    @jimmeciawade1079 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey Rah girl I totally get it, I’m a glamour girl but lost myself within motherhood and relationship. I have a 8 month old baby boy and 3 other big kids all under 7. I definitely lost myself and tryna figure out how to get me back. I’m 30 but I’ll be 31 in March, so don’t feel bad. It’s a lot of us going through the same thing. We gone shake something up 💜💜💜

  • @meganmubaiwa7127
    @meganmubaiwa7127 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's so true I can so relate after homeschooling my kids and being the maid wife teacher mom doctor it's all too much and you put yourself last omg 2023 gotta end in a new resolution into 2024 thanks @rahnel

  • @tiaclark7723
    @tiaclark7723 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have always loved how much I can relate to you I am on a journey getting myself back from feeling lost being a mom to my 4 girls

  • @TheTierraJ
    @TheTierraJ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rah just know you are doingggg the damn thing OK ❤

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you babe 🤗

  • @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597
    @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rah you literally look great with ANY hairstyle ❤️‍🔥

  • @LeiaJay
    @LeiaJay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You got me when you said I don’t do my hair nomore k definitely can relate especially with life and work new Subbie

  • @tbabydell
    @tbabydell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolute beauty ♥️ your truth is inspiring

  • @God_chose_us
    @God_chose_us 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Personally I think you look better than ever you got that mommy glow and nothing more beautiful than a women caring and loving her kids dearly it you look great ❤

  • @kesiaqualls791
    @kesiaqualls791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for your transparency! I can actually say I relate to losing yourself as being a mom and the other hats that we wear. You are doing an amazing job! 💕

  • @ms.dt.8270
    @ms.dt.8270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it Rah 😍. I wish i knew how to do hair so well 🙏🏾

  • @justvibinwithtaneshapeace
    @justvibinwithtaneshapeace 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rah I'm proud of you .. Stay consistent with yourself... Rest and sleep is everything...❤

  • @shonda658
    @shonda658 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey hey Rah! Notification gang ❤

  • @ashodges1
    @ashodges1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love me some Rah... authentic, absolutely beautiful inside and out. You're a whole vibe girl ❤

  • @minglewithbrown
    @minglewithbrown 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You didnt lose yourself Mama you grew Wisdom and a better sense of self as a Mother..Its a Bonus and a Balance ❤

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yasss do you Rah 💐💐🫶💕

  • @ThatMuslimGirl.97
    @ThatMuslimGirl.97 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok Rah I loved this video an how transparent yu are. Would love to be on the journey with yu in this new chapter ❤

  • @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597
    @thegodmommychannel-frenda5597 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Self-Care is very important. There’s nothing wrong with putting yourself first sometimes ❤️

  • @user-qg3gd2uu5s
    @user-qg3gd2uu5s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the video Rah

  • @xoxoxAlex
    @xoxoxAlex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree with you. I do the same for my kids and husband. I just always remember that my cup has to stay filled. So I can handle all the hats. Good job Rah.

  • @brown_buddafly9315
    @brown_buddafly9315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rah……. I’ve always loved you and your energy! Keep going girl you got this, you’re already on the right track by setting boundaries and remembering that you are worth your requests! Bless you and your family girlie ❤️

  • @sexxygirl1278
    @sexxygirl1278 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it vibe thanks for sharing this wonderful video

  • @NayNayDior10
    @NayNayDior10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RAH I LOVE YOU SIS THATS ALL I WANT TO SAY ,YOUR AMAZING YOUR DOPE,YOUR BEAUTIFUL, DON'T DOUBT YOURSELF YOU GOT THIS !! JUST ASK GOD BEFORE ANYTHING LET HIM LEAD 🙏🏽💜💜🙏🏽

  • @photogenic305
    @photogenic305 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heyyyy Queen Rah Rah!! Girl it’s okay to be home all day. Enjoy your home and kids and just being in your space. Your TWA looks beautiful and you can ROCK any style and still look fly. Bless!!

  • @1caprice
    @1caprice 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you so much , such a great video ❤

  • @ebonybeauty3809
    @ebonybeauty3809 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ stayed to the end😁

  • @lavonnepruitt3905
    @lavonnepruitt3905 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fully understand how you are feeling! You and Domi make up a perfect unit together and are great parents! Taking time for yourself is very important. You and Domi continue to be great and stay blessed. Your hair turned out really cute!

  • @DivaBre
    @DivaBre 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your videos always have perfect timing, thank you! These are needed 🥹🥹🥹🥹 just the first few minutes are so spot on 💜🙏🏽

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I almost not posted because I thought it was to late! Lol ♥️

    • @DivaBre
      @DivaBre 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RahNel25 Nope! It was perfect, everyone in my home is finally sleep and I'm able to have a lil me time 🥰

  • @jasminemcdonald614
    @jasminemcdonald614 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have one kid and I feel the same. You have to make time for yourself and set boundaries with the kiddos. Mommy time is mommy time! I’m back on my journey to put myself first as well

  • @Blurockstarr
    @Blurockstarr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rah I enjoyed the whole video baby you can do just what you were doing and you entertain me. Don’t beat yourself up about anything because you have five kids but I do love the fact that you’re starting to carve out time for yourself because it’s important for you to have self-care time. Even if it’s for two hours you deserve that.

  • @shantabutler3934
    @shantabutler3934 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a mom…but a BEAUTIFUL MOM❤🥲

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the Vlog

  • @leciamone6765
    @leciamone6765 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you are a great mom ❤❤

  • @priscillabacon7719
    @priscillabacon7719 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are beautiful Rah, but I do get it/understand.....we as Mother's and spouses/women have to make sure we keep doing the things we love. Hair, nails, makeup, feet etc. Keep up the wonderful work beautiful!!!!!

  • @b_n_phoenix9444
    @b_n_phoenix9444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt this

  • @nikkil1212
    @nikkil1212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rah, you are beautiful whether you have makeup on or not. We go through seasons in life your season is changing now. You are getting back to you which is very important, but you are one amazing mother and wife. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT YOU CAN DO IT ALL❤ 🙏🏽#NELSONGANG2018

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

  • @naenae2077
    @naenae2077 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel u rah hunnie I got 4 daughters my last one is 8 months and it was hard on me when I had her and it still is but I try my best to be the best mother I can be so ❤ u might have your days all us mothers do keep up the good work rah...❤❤❤❤❤ U doing a beautiful job ❤❤❤

  • @baltimore4life34akallswerv3
    @baltimore4life34akallswerv3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Rah 🔥✨

  • @neiabrown8899
    @neiabrown8899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Rah friend we are human boo it's okay to let yourself go sometimes but you in due time you'll pick yourself back up and it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks friend Domi loves you pass your beauty ❤❤❤ and I also know you guys go thru A LOT but your union is still so beautiful I love the bund you guys have 🥰🥰🥰 keep being you I pray GOD continues to bless you and your family much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nalaycia81
    @nalaycia81 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rah, you don’t have to put on make up every day because you’re skin is amazing but if you want to go pamper yourself then you should definitely do what makes you feel good. ❤

  • @alexandraappiagyei3695
    @alexandraappiagyei3695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I Resolution lobe vlogs like This, i watschend to the end and i reale enjoyad it. Keep doing this. Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 ❤🥳😘

  • @destinyadgers
    @destinyadgers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You got this Rah❤❤❤Embrace your new growth within your heart, body and soul🎉🎉🎉 I support your new journey in finding yourself again.. I am also on a new hair growth journey and Weightloss.. I lost 55 pounds in these lost six months

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      55lbs?! Congrats girl!

    • @destinyadgers
      @destinyadgers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RahNel25 thank you so much!! It took a lot of hard work and dedication especially to keep it off and I still have more too lose but working progress..I’m excited for my final weight loss goal!!! I give myself some time to over extend myself!! I’m here for it girl.. I’m ready for it!! I’m with girl.. we got this!! From one of your supporters…we can do it😍😍😍

  • @Ciara_Nicole89
    @Ciara_Nicole89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You speaking truth. I have 2 kids and one of them is autistic. I’m in college for my BA in health and human services and work full time. My man and I been together for 16 years and I’m trying to find myself and what I like. I’m bout to turn 34 and I’m looking back like how do I get back to not the old me but a better me. Live in my truth and make memories. I love u ❤

  • @jasmiinedaviis4603
    @jasmiinedaviis4603 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heyy moma Rah ❤

  • @lesliee2k21royal6
    @lesliee2k21royal6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just cut my hair yesterday love 💗 you gave me strength ❤but can you please drop the hair oil for I can by them asap I’m bald headed to lol 😂

  • @Trial.And.Error1
    @Trial.And.Error1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙

  • @ShesPrettyRedd
    @ShesPrettyRedd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @tamekadavis9051
    @tamekadavis9051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @trulyblessed3164
    @trulyblessed3164 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just taking notes 🗒️ 📝

  • @lanee_9223
    @lanee_9223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰

  • @MrsWilson711
    @MrsWilson711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listen, I know y’all put what yall want on here but no explanation is needed Rah. I hate the fact that you felt compelled to explain y’all household. As a married woman, I get it. Sometimes we need a damn break and especially our rest. Whatever yall have to do to make yall household work, continue to do it. And middle fingers to everyone else who always think they know what they’re talking about

  • @traceybarton1822
    @traceybarton1822 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look beautiful

  • @Peaches1980ls
    @Peaches1980ls 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, 24 yes strong in my 💍

  • @ericaerica2797
    @ericaerica2797 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl bye you're beautiful you honestly DO NOT need all that extra crap to look pretty. Its sad that most women feel this way about themselves after becoming a mom, and we gotta stop. we are who we are, and God made us all beautiful! Love your channel. By the way, I'm a NEW SUBBIE. Can you please do a Q&A TAG about yourself! ❤❤

  • @lesliee2k21royal6
    @lesliee2k21royal6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We’re you get ur wig from boo I need 👀

  • @moreofcedes
    @moreofcedes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do you keep dying then cutting your hair off

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cause it’s my hair!

    • @moreofcedes
      @moreofcedes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RahNel25 why tho?

    • @RahNel25
      @RahNel25  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@moreofcedes cause it’s mine