How to Overcome Unforgiveness | Chris Beall, Cindy Beall

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  • Forgiving someone can be very difficult. Unforgiveness affects every relationship in your life. Pastors Chris and Cindy Beall share how they survived multiple affairs and began to forgive.
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  • @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845
    @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I dont understand how 1 single person could dislike any of Jimmy's videos or teachings. So far I've found nothing false or fake or anything wrong with any of his videos. He's always so genuine, generous, I always easily connect with him, he doesn't hide anything or hold anything back, honest, humble, down to earth, not afraid to tell it like it is, he's not out trying to take everyone's money and use it for evil or pleasures , you can easily tell just by watching 1 video or podcast , you can see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice that he has a true love for God and others, and he loves doing what he does. He just loves sharing Jesus with people and bringing people to God. I love you Jimmy, and can't wait to hang out with you forever! God bless you and your marriage and your ministry!

  • @genevievegonzales392
    @genevievegonzales392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm so in that exact place right now. I have come to realize that God alone is the one I can put all my trust in. I pray for my husband that God will call him to himself and take his hard heart and gi e him a new heart of flesh! Yes and Amen🙏

  • @newdlinestestimonials5384
    @newdlinestestimonials5384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this man of God. I'm thankful for his great gift of this counseling. Throughout my life, I've been having episodes of unforgivness and anger towards certain people in my life. I want to be free.
    Trying to forgive someone who is unrepentant is really tough 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @sisbrorocks6656
    @sisbrorocks6656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was good I learned a lot.

  • @donna62016
    @donna62016 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nailing it!

  • @jarlsigurdstorvann9885
    @jarlsigurdstorvann9885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    very good advice. another thing i think needs to be spoken about. is the motives for how we feel when our partners makes the choise to cheat. i think woman stereotypicly are devestated emotionaly because they feel like they should be nr1 besides from Jesus Christ. and its true. they should be! but woman needs to understand this one thing.. the reflection of your value to him, is not why he cheats. so dont feel like you are worthless as a wife or girl friend because he makes stupid choises. that he chooses to sleep with one another, is in reality more about his darkned heart then its about his partner being a bad wife or husband. even if there is blame used as motive for cheating, the joke is on the cheater. because what is never ever talked about is how they destroy themselfs also. they can lose kids, wifes, freinds respect from famely. and for what? to go out and have fun while thinking only about themselfs?? through it all God sees that and hurt for people and want us to forgive our partner. because as christians we are a temple for God. and if we suposedly have God in us, shouldn we be the very reflection of his being? what is God in reality? love! right? how come we can be selfish and carnal through in the midst of our challenges when we have God in us? if we know Jesus Christ.. we love one another for no other reason besides to love them! people shouldn be able to hurt you, but you should be able to hurt for people when you truly love them like Jesus loves!

  • @tinaunger2913
    @tinaunger2913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We are going to the same thing and I am very grateful for your testimony that is very very encouraging thank you so much for sharing this really helps me thank you so so much for sharing

    • @jarlsigurdstorvann9885
      @jarlsigurdstorvann9885 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i just find it so sad this "right" wee all take on to ourselfs to be hurt, destroyed and think the absolute worst about one another.. its like.. having the right to be hurt. is one very stupid posistion to take. because what you actually end up doing is wanting to hurt. i get certain things is very sad, hard and dramatic. but if people are so broken and totly destroyed over an unfaithful partner. i think it means people only love for what they could get out of that relationship. and when it didn meet peoples expectations.. there you go right down into drama.. right? i get it. having an unfaithful partner is not good. its a very challenging situation ofc that can make things.. very hard to build trust. and it is a problem that needs to be adressed. now if it was me. if my girl was ever unfaithful towards me. i would forgive her no matter what. why?? so i didn have to sit and reflect up on that anger and hate towards her for what she did me wrong. i think she would end up destroying herself more then it would ever effect me. having said that. however much i would wanna stay would have to be decided on her response to it all. if she regret, hurted, was confused and never wanted to do it again i would wanna try fix things. if she didn care about any of it let alone how i or the kids must have gone through.. then i would say its pretty much over.. maybe not but.. if she doesent wanna try.. what else can be done?

  • @reg8297
    @reg8297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If a parent destroys your hole life due to ripple effects of there abuse u lost everything how do u forgive and forget

    • @jessyjonas4988
      @jessyjonas4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You take your burdens to Jesus. Jesus will always hear the cry of the heart for help.
      " And Cain said to the Lord my punishment is greater than I can bear. .... And the Lord set a mark on Cain lest anyone finding him should kill him."
      Genesis 4: 13-15.✝️
      Cain murder his brother. When the Lord spoke to him and le t him know his punishment, his response, " my punishment is greater than I can bear" What!! Who cares Cain, who cares! You killed your brother!
      Yet God cares, he heard his plea and softened his punishment.
      We serve a God who is plentious in mercy, loving, long-suffering, and compassionate. Cry out to the Lord, let him know your need!
      I guarantee you, he will hear and he will heal all your hurts. Amen.
      " ....I am the Lord who heals you, Jehovah- Rapha.
      Exodus 15:26✝️

    • @msbrig1
      @msbrig1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can forgive, but sometimes professional help is needed to walk us through the process. With parents there is so much to unpack. It's a process, but the first step is the decision to forgive. May you allow the Holy Spirit to walk you through your healing. ❤

    • @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845
      @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because God. Because its a command, if Jesus can forgive you, an innocent pure man that did nothing wrong that took the punishment for every sin you have committed against him, if he can forgive u and he has....what in the world can you not forgive ? When you surely are guilty of everything you have said or done or thought, how can u not so forgive everyone of everything. You can't expect to receive forgiveness, if your not willing to give it...yet God forgives anyway because he loves you that much, if you believe in him and he is your lord. But also if your still having trouble forgiving after wrapping g your head around all that, you can pray for his help to aid in you forgiving others.

  • @harrietnew1537
    @harrietnew1537 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its also good to read the Present with Religiion, a book available for free on the internet.The book is about the truth of life and it shows the full picture of life for the first time so that you may stop being deceived by the world and be able to follow the steps of Jesus and other prophets to Heaven.Knowing the whole truth of life is the key factor in our salvation.We must know the real truth, all of it and live in it and change ourselves according to it in ordrer to be saved.There is no other way to our salvation.With the knowledge of the truth there comes true repentance which means changing our minds and also true obediance to God' s law and finally our sanctification which is a lifelong process.Only in thia way wl we be able to attain our eternal salvation.

  • @rebeccapeabody46
    @rebeccapeabody46 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    people listen to jimmy.i have been tormented by demons.they were o me and I felt hell.now im afraid I havnt forgiven but I hope I have.