This is a great vonversation I have listened so far. I congratulate her for speaking out about faith based , alot of women have lost there direction and being used by those call church elders. I love you mamy.
Filgona, thank you for bringing it out as it is... in your talk i am able to relate with real life situations on singlehood, single motherhood and divorce. One thing that i do not like is the way society just doesn't look at these issues with 'inner eyes' thus they do not want to bring it on... unfortunately, these situations keep on occurring and recurring. Its time society gets real.
She's very right on the woos of a resident parent. And time being currency is quite true when it comes to being "apart" yet under the same roof making a marriage work without tools. Mostly what grieves a person who've left a marriage is the time they lost, it hurts more than the marriage ending. Having to start all over and stay sane is alot of work. And speaking manageable truths to the children helps lessen the pains the may go through, When there's room for conversations in such settings, the children becomes emotionally regulated and stable.
She has always spoken highly about polygamy, the mask is off. If she couldn’t keep hers I mean will she make a distance 2nd? I have 22:26 always thought she is a first wife who has a good heart and will welcome other women. Can we please appreciate that some marriages work. Achana na hawa.
Yeah, the problems were already there, a troubled marriage stirs the weights within. Yet a healthy marriage brings out the weights, creating self awareness and healing happens. I love her takes on dating as a divorcee/single parent, "You're not dating with the innocence of youth, and you know if you want him/her or not.." Butterflies and heartbeats are not the determinants of a successful relationship.
Jagero you're officially suspended from Men conference. You're now officially a Patron of women ministry. How can you also keep cooking time and again?
I feel that Filgona shouldn't be bashing faith based support systems. May be she would have said some may not be helpful. I attended divorce care classes at NPC. This accelerated my healing.
This is Mr declark Oduor I love your podcasts so much to it turns to be the best for a yr now. I have noted something very very wild that devorsed people have turned out to clearly tell us the truth about faith, this lady is really sirious and already has a good decision.
Stay away from faith based just go to a professional very very stupid advice the Bible is very clear on how a good marriage should be qualities of a good husband and a good wife....this are the people who just pray because they've been told to pray and when prayers don't work they blame God this is rediculous ...but that doesn't mean that people should stay in bad marriages but blaming God is just stupid
If you are not practicing a Christian marriage, you cannot expect Christian solutions (faith based) to work for you. Lifelong monogamous marriage can only be guaranteed if it is between two staunch Christians - those who honour God's commands, those who revere the vows (covenant) and abhor sin. Whatever happens in any other arrangement should not surprise anyone. If you follow the law of the land, you are allowed to divorce for whatever other reason. If it is cultural or Islamic, polygamy and divorce is allowed, etc. Another mistake she is trying to seek solutions in a rogue church
I love her vibes and her take on early marriages but in terms of faith based situations she needs to go back to the drawing board coz to start with she went to fake people she should know that one needs to pray according to the word of God seriousl. As a mother she must understand the power of Jesus Christ and she must evaluate her life she would be a peaceful mother
She is and think her conclusions are based on her own demeaning experiences. And those friends of hers who have toddlers at 40!!!!! a bunch of confusion of the society
This woman is being real. Most women have become puppets and they are being tossed left right and centre in the name of marriage. Acha Filgona atuonyeshe the true way
There was so much content in this episode, I'm quite surprised you chose that caption for cover! She is brilliant, she's beautiful and very mindful.
This is a great vonversation I have listened so far. I congratulate her for speaking out about faith based , alot of women have lost there direction and being used by those call church elders. I love you mamy.
I love her. She spoke facts! Single mom resident parent here. Especially the dating piece - we cant afford to be dense out here in these streets
Wow first time to this podcast.I am mesmerized by this beautiful black sister.I could love to visit her.I am in SA
How i have loved this guest, listening to her has been therapeutic, identifying with all that she says
Filgona, thank you for bringing it out as it is... in your talk i am able to relate with real life situations on singlehood, single motherhood and divorce. One thing that i do not like is the way society just doesn't look at these issues with 'inner eyes' thus they do not want to bring it on... unfortunately, these situations keep on occurring and recurring. Its time society gets real.
Very true advice. I love this woman.
She's very right on the woos of a resident parent. And time being currency is quite true when it comes to being "apart" yet under the same roof making a marriage work without tools. Mostly what grieves a person who've left a marriage is the time they lost, it hurts more than the marriage ending. Having to start all over and stay sane is alot of work. And speaking manageable truths to the children helps lessen the pains the may go through, When there's room for conversations in such settings, the children becomes emotionally regulated and stable.
Very pragmatic! She's a whole vibe ❤❤❤❤
I love me some Felgonah.
She has always spoken highly about polygamy, the mask is off. If she couldn’t keep hers I mean will she make a distance 2nd? I have 22:26 always thought she is a first wife who has a good heart and will welcome other women. Can we please appreciate that some marriages work. Achana na hawa.
Yeah, the problems were already there, a troubled marriage stirs the weights within. Yet a healthy marriage brings out the weights, creating self awareness and healing happens. I love her takes on dating as a divorcee/single parent, "You're not dating with the innocence of youth, and you know if you want him/her or not.." Butterflies and heartbeats are not the determinants of a successful relationship.
Very interesting, very well put and very truthful....
I love this lady. It takes a lot of confidence to be her. Keep going sis!
Very insightful conversation
Such a brilliant lady 👏
Clap 👏 for the ring light... good job
Jagero you're officially suspended from Men conference. You're now officially a Patron of women ministry. How can you also keep cooking time and again?
😂😂
I support.
I feel that Filgona shouldn't be bashing faith based support systems. May be she would have said some may not be helpful. I attended divorce care classes at NPC. This accelerated my healing.
Jagero this woman is well mature.
Real talk
Felgonah! felgonah!the truth in what you say!
Mwangi's dog🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Awesome talk. So much to learn
😂😂😂😂Filgona you're such a vibe 😂😂😂❤be blessed.
It's a good discussion
Some "Christian solutions"are terrible. Filgona said nothing wrong. Too many prayers and praying for nothing...very true.
This is Mr declark Oduor I love your podcasts so much to it turns to be the best for a yr now. I have noted something very very wild that devorsed people have turned out to clearly tell us the truth about faith, this lady is really sirious and already has a good decision.
If our mothers told us the truth about their marriages... 😥
I love this one!
Stay away from faith based just go to a professional very very stupid advice the Bible is very clear on how a good marriage should be qualities of a good husband and a good wife....this are the people who just pray because they've been told to pray and when prayers don't work they blame God this is rediculous ...but that doesn't mean that people should stay in bad marriages but blaming God is just stupid
Someone lost in a white man’s religion calling another’s advice stupid 🤦🏾♀️
Filgona, you are great. You are very truthful in your talk, it was factual
That's a one sided "truth"
Mbom blast from him,"it is the sex that makes you young 😅😅😅
Jagero, hebu hook me up with your 'Mo Nyaluo' plug. Because kuogo alodhe nyaluo is too lit with kuon arega.
hehehe. I sell it :D
@@TheJagero I would like some. For real. How can I get some?
She played it safe
Jagero you make me salivate....yawa thoooo
Even in marriage, women raise children alone. The absent father is real
Some dating questions sound like job interviews. They really wear done and are boring!!!!!!
Good talk!alwayz a vibe Filgona
Jagero I need the Juice plug
If you are not practicing a Christian marriage, you cannot expect Christian solutions (faith based) to work for you. Lifelong monogamous marriage can only be guaranteed if it is between two staunch Christians - those who honour God's commands, those who revere the vows (covenant) and abhor sin. Whatever happens in any other arrangement should not surprise anyone. If you follow the law of the land, you are allowed to divorce for whatever other reason. If it is cultural or Islamic, polygamy and divorce is allowed, etc. Another mistake she is trying to seek solutions in a rogue church
Jagero - the office plant in the background are dying
😂😂😂
😅😅😅
How says siturungi in this day and age? Hehehe, oh maisha!
I love her vibes and her take on early marriages but in terms of faith based situations she needs to go back to the drawing board coz to start with she went to fake people she should know that one needs to pray according to the word of God seriousl. As a mother she must understand the power of Jesus Christ and she must evaluate her life she would be a peaceful mother
Ridiculous? Surely? If a man is polygamous, let him come clean ...
Who else after 10 minutes had to check the comments, coz this lady is misguiding the young girls 💔
She is and think her conclusions are based on her own demeaning experiences. And those friends of hers who have toddlers at 40!!!!! a bunch of confusion of the society
Marriage favors u men. A man is a company/ business that hires employees (Wives) to see his legacy living on ....Women are never favored by marriage
This woman is being real. Most women have become puppets and they are being tossed left right and centre in the name of marriage. Acha Filgona atuonyeshe the true way
I think we reached to the point where every man is a devil and woman are saints 😊
@@berylanyango1232 Are you married?
1.09🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She should talk to my ex.😮💨
Come on, marriage works?
Jagero is Kuogoring alot, taking daughter to school, always cook in the name of wife working, How is she a helper again? In which areas??
He has said there are foods he likes doing himself. Mboga yake na chai...
Yaye Okello😂 I believe she's doing good with her responsibilities and and If Jagero has to do it it would mean she's just held up.
Ha ha
If she was so good, she wouldn't be divorced with 4 children,some advice should only be consumed as just entertainment
My sister is a jewel of the psalms lady but she still got kicked out of her home at death point!!!!! Watch your comment
Your thinking is not so outside the box.She is a good woman.
Awful advise.
How to buy the book. What's your tel or email contact?