The Lawyer; The Man Who Broke My Virginity
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ต.ค. 2024
- PART 1: In this heart-wrenching episode, Irene Wonder reveals the dark side of her early years under the guardianship of a lawyer who was supposed to protect her. From a tender age of 15, Irene was forced into a relationship that shattered her innocence and altered the course of her life. She tells me the horror of aborting thrice, all under duress. This episode promises survival in a world where those meant to guard us can sometimes be our greatest destroyers. .
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About Irene Wonder
Irene Wonder was born in Thika and raised in various towns including Matuu, Nairobi, Mwea, and Kivaa. Her childhood was a blend of adventures and dark moments, with her father, her hero, ensuring they always felt like the wealthiest family through weekend adventures and family outings. However, beneath the surface, Irene witnessed bouts of anger, fights, and emotional abuse towards her mother, which eventually led to her parents' separation and her father's tragic suicide.
Despite these challenges, Irene experienced a spiritual awakening from a young age, finding solace and purpose in her vivid dreams, healing insights, and active participation in church activities. Her search for a savior led her through tumultuous relationships with a lawyer, a journalist, an accountant, and a telco worker, each bringing their own set of trials and lessons.
Her story, captured in her book "Unveiling Blessings In Disguise," is a testament to her resilience and her mission to support others guided by the divine. "You are the savior you have been waiting for!"
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This is a case of child abuse and grooming. This Lawyer took advantage of her and never loved her. Jagero please in such interviews make it clear that this is abuse and crime and explain why it is so that anybody listening can understand the same and maybe save themselves or someone else. Our society still does not understand these things. I’ve already seen someone in the comments saying she accepted it. A child cannot consent to sex or grooming. A lot needs to be done still. Having these conversations so raw like this is definitely a step in the right direction. Keep up the good work
Your point about consent is absolutely correct. A child cannot consent to sexual activity under any circumstances. It is exploitation and abuse. We encourage anyone who is experiencing or has experienced abuse to seek help. There are resources available. Please don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted adult, a hotline, or a mental health professional.
We also value your feedback and will continue to strive for discussions that promote awareness and understanding of these critical issues.
This is one of the honest and realest conversation, i love it
We keep it bold and authentic at DWJ. We’re grateful it resonates with you.
Here the mum knew definitely ..but she was ok as long as she was taken to school and money was following in...she's to blame too...
Please share more on why you think so?
I like Jagero’s innocence. He’s like “You did? You do?” 😂😂😂😂Jagero, Nairobi men are not good people.
It's very endearing LOL
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Thanks Jagero for such honest and raw conversations. I really enjoyed this one
Any time!
Great teaching moments. Awesome story. Thanks my brother for the expose
Thanks for listening
My mentor ,my teacher Irene wonder,her programme ha been very transformative for me and this interview is just inspiring ❤❤
Why would a mother trust a stranger with her daughter 😢😢 to me something is not adding up
What are your thoughts on the factors that might influence a parent's decision in such a situation?
Yes, the mother failed her..
@@TheJagero unless the lady clarifies cz from what l know about African parents,that was not the norm then
Or rather there was so much freedom in that house
I wouldn't question the mother. Especially hearing what the hell her mother had gone through with her father and culminating into the father committing suicide.
Trauma and excruciating pain have a way of numbing people such that they just flow with time and life, and the sense of caring just goes out of the window.
I am really enjoying this conversation and Irene`s vulnerability. The lawyer definitely took advantage of her and he was cheating on his wife.
An honest observation. Thanks for watching.
Why do I love your show soo much Jagero??❤
Very many thanks ❤️
Awesome dialogue!
Thank you
That's purely child abuse from the lawyer. I simply can't wrap my head around that. There was no love there... It's a child with dad issues and he took advantage of her.
My brother it is not complicated. Choices we make. The same thing happened in high school in Jamaica. Hmmmmm
Please explain
I know her very well she is like my little sister
Financial stability will make you avoid many things
I know her from Kivaa her mom was my teacher.
Why did you turn off comments in part 2?
Anyway, pls invite Alliet and Probably Amerix (on zoom) to disect this episode and probably the book. There's so much there to digest.
I have a son, i am afraid that he may fall in love with a girl and then 10 years later the girl claims that the consent she gave was not very consensual.
Also she said the father was violent. I am as meek as a lamb, but been in a situation i almost slapped a girl.
Most women have the same attitudes as their mom. Could her mom's personality have enabled what she went thru, and even the father's "violence?" Alliet!!
I know of hundreds of mothers' who have taken their daughters for prostitution.
Why does she extend grace to her mom and non to her dad who committed suicide? Even in death, the man finds no grace. Aliet Please.
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We appreciate your interest in the episode and your concerns. We disabled comments for Part 2 to manage the volume and focus on the content itself. We're always open to feedback and consider suggestions for future episodes.
Inviting Alliet and Probably Amerix is a great idea! Their perspectives would undoubtedly enrich the conversation. We'll consider them for upcoming episodes.
Your concerns about consent and violence are valid and reflect the nature of the issues we discussed. We can, and need to, approach these topics with empathy and understanding. We encourage open dialogue and critical thinking.
The influence of parents on their children's worldview is essential, especially when we acknowledge the potential impact of parental figures. People are also autonomous beings capable of making their own choices, including learning from the past and living a better and more meaningful life.
A minor CANNOT give consent
There is no chemistry in this interview 😭
Great conversation ❤
Thank you
She was just a baby who was taken advantage of. Sad
Quite a sad experience
My question is, how many other girls did he do this to?
Perhaps many
😢😢😢tooo sad
Jagero if u were a pastor hawa dem wataflock in church
Maybe
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I swear i know this lawyer.
You do? 😂
@@TheJagero namjua walai
@@texasviper2042 spill the beans, Google has refused
She sounds some how delulu, she said she was in form 1 at 12 years, then forgot and said she was 16 when she met the lawyer, then said she finished high school at 17
We'll look into the specific details and clarify any inconsistencies in a future episode or through a dedicated Q&A session. Your feedback helps us improve.
Strathmore didn't have hostels by then, the new ones they have are only for their students and are very strict
Please realize that trauma doesn’t conform to chronological norms. She is allowed to forget some stuff.
@@Muthonie once one decides to have their story on social media, the audience are not therapists to know it's trauma...the least she could do is get her facts right....so the part where she says she was having UTI coz of old semen...pia ni trauma?
@@lornanyakoa1617 that’s biological. I’m just saying give grace to those expressing their life stories. They are exposing parts of themselves for your viewing pleasure.
Jagero nataka kukualika Germany uje tudialogue huku😂😂 jokes aside
That would be awesome. DWJ and I will bring a beautiful experience.
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I would listen to Wonder allllll day. Your innocence was taken away... You knew too much as a child. Saying outright that you wanted the lawyer to be your boyfriend is way too bold for a 16 year old. It would be interesting to know what life experiences actually led to this. Your story doesn't actually begin with the lawyer...
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DWJ...some TMI , 🙉🙉🙉
Sorry. We were hungry 😂😂😂