Same here ......my parents are like ' why didn't u ask your friends about ur homework ?' I am like 'they too didn't knew about the homework ' In reality - I asked no one cuz i have no friends....
Yes some people think that the quiet kid or lonely kid is that guy who is dangerous or people are scared of him but in reality they are just people who just want to have friends and be like everyone else
Then why don't we do it? I think we all know in some way or another what we want, but something keeps us from actually doing it. We are just getting in our own way. So if someone wants to talk, want to make friends, I would create a groupchat, nobody ever has to be alone! :)
i have friends, sure, but i feel so alone. most of the time it's just me spectating other people being much happier than i am, hanging out with their friends. im happy for them, but im not happy.
For me, a girl did come up to me, only for a while to replace me later. She don't even care look at me in the eyes when there were friends with her and could careless about my existence. It's better to not have friends honestly because they just bring pain with them. Although it probably gonna be lonely. All I wanted was a one best friend but each time I make one there either toxic or they replace me for people who I have never seen before or make me feel worthless or use me.
This is exactly how my life was in high school. I know it shouldn’t matter anymore but it’s truly been a living hell for me and hey, to be fair I just graduated like three weeks ago, it’s so shitty that I missed out on my teenage years and milestones because I was so lonely, trying so hard to get myself together. I say alone at lunch everyday and ppl isolated and judged me. I missed out on prom because I lost my confidence to talk to anyone and no one asked me out, no one ever was my true friend and it’s shitty because I done nothing to deserve this! It’s definitely gonna be awhile before I can get past this.
im in 2nd last year of school myself and dealing with a very similar problem. the worst part i really dont wanna tell anyone i know as i will only be humiliated.
Im in your boat as well I missed out on my high school years because of Covid and didn’t do a lot of things other people my age were and it is hard for me to accept that. That I didn’t live life.
I’m still 19 I will meet some real friends and we’ll stay together till the end But honestly living the adulthood without any best friend or feeling so numb because you feel like you’re 30 years old is so hard and it hurts so bad
I am the same age in the same situation. It's true though adulthood really is hard if you don't have any friends from childhood. I was lucky I found a bestie in my childhood and we still hang together even though she's in a relationship.
Hate when people say “I’m alone and have no friends” bc they’re the same ppl that have ppl texting them everyday . They have ppl that they hang out with. They just say that when they “Feel Sad”.
I wish all the lonely people in the world would come together somehow and mutually encourage each other, so that they could realize they were never truly alone and that others have been through what they’ve been through. It pains me that so many people go to sleep feeling as if they are unworthy or unlovable, and that sometimes the most kindred of spirits never get a chance to meet in their lifetime because they are too busy hiding from the world and wasting their lives away behind a computer screen. To anyone who reads this and might need some uplifting, I think you are beautiful and have so much to offer the world by being you. You are inimitable and have something unique to contribute even if it may not seem apparent at the moment, and one day, the right person will see this and come into your life when you least expect it. Stay strong and never lose hope. Even if you are completely lost and feel as though you have nothing and no one at this time, realize that you still have yourself, and that the person in the mirror is the first person you should seek approval from.
It doesn't always bother me, being alone. But it does bother me that I never had real friends. Just people who needed me for things. Now that I don't have those things to offer, they don't have their friendship to offer. I was so obsessed with the idea of living a cool life. I forgot to live.
This is why i have trust issues now. Its better to live alone without any fake friends cause being with them is worthless, they just need u one second and the other minute u aren't even visible to them
hello person reading this, if this reaches anyone. we're from different parts of the world, we lead different lives, we are different people. but yet, this piece, this video, has brought us together. and i will never meet you, but just remember we're still connected by this piece- by simply listening to it, together. it's crazy how the internet can bring people together, huh? and i hope you're doing more than "okay," and if you aren't, remember: you will be okay, and that's a promise. please be easy on yourself- it's been a tough year, i know, but we're almost over it, and you will be happy. i don't know how much you'll remember of this, but i'm glad that our lives intertwined in this little way. have a nice day, or night, and lastly, nice life. And remember that Jesus loves you so much and I love you too 💖💖💖💖💖💖
I too have friends but sometimes it feels like they just want to use me .......It really makes me sad because when I need them they are never with me 😭 I usually cry alone.....
@@simran750 maybe you are right but if I leave them i m afraid that they will become lonely....... So I m ok with them using me It's just i need someone who will do the same for me .......
I relate to this so much but every time I try to write something it ends up deleted straight after....only the person you look at in the mirror is who you can trust.
The way that girl says I’m soo lonely hits me so hard that’s why I keep coming back to this and the part where that girl says I don’t have any friends at the moment
I have problems but I feel bad for having these “problems” and feelings because I know other people have it worse. My friend always tells me that everyone goes through what I’m doing and I’m not special.
I've always thought I was a social, open person, but I'm starting to doubt it more and more. My class in high school was really terrible, and although I always try to be open towards people, not judge them at the very beginning of a relationship - I still felt like I wouldn't get along with anyone there. After a year of being with them physically in school, covid came, and for the next 1.5 year I heard their voice just threw Zoom. I started college a year ago hoping to start all over again, that maybe eventually I'll be part of some amazing college story myself that I will be proud to tell my kids one day. I went to college for a month, and then another lockdown came ... for a year. Looking back, I would have never thought that I will ever search in you tube the phrase "why I have no friends" ... why I don't fit anywhere ... why I can't get so close to anyone ...I send love and hugs to all those who refrain from crying at the sight of harmonious, smiling groups of friends who are rushing somewhere ... all together. hope we will write such story ourselves one day too, I wanna believe in that.
I do have friends… But i feel like i annoy them.. and i feel like They don’t care. I try to talk but They just talk over and start to talk about Something else..
@@thetrueoffraudbaba6568 Hi um sorry for saying this but I think you should not ask this here because you never know who the person is I mean it could maybe be a old man or something okay?
Do you feel like you don't have the courage to call them your friends because you don't know whether they call you their friends and it just became someone you know and not someone that is your friend.
I'm glad I have a sister. I'm not alone, I do have people to hangout in school but they all are fake and selfish. I try my best to talk to those who ae sitting or standing all alone so that they don't have to suffer what I used to do or still do sometimes. People are really shitty these days
I'm 20 years old and i still am single no friends no girlfriends. I'm just fearing that i'll remain a lonely friendless jobless loser till i die. I feel like it's all my fault and it is my fault. The World is just not as lucky as it seems. I have to accept the fact that my dreams of finding a positive healthy relationship with people will never come true. The world is full of selfish deplorable people who think it's cute to hurt people and laugh at their suffering. Which is the reason why i created friends and girlfriends in my imagination to get away from the bad side of life
It’s very hard and this hits REALLY HARD. Im sad, lonely, depressed and already broken, im use to BEING ALONE. I froze and paralyzed that I can’t move. I barely look myself in the mirror and hearing mean cruel voices in my head that unkind people say to me.
Now I am facing this situation, I am the only person in my class sit alone in last bench and see the people happiness with their friends and they behave like I don't exist.
that's me 😥😭💔 i'm ugly 😔 , i have no friends 😔 , i can't make a contact with strange people 😔, no one of my family understand me 😥 , And i'm always lonely 😔 but don't worry about me i will die soon 💔💔
I am studying in 10th, i had a gang but now they dont even care about me i cried alot because of them in my class, after that i stop my friendship with them now i am alone no friends its so painfull when i think about the beautiful moments with them but they dont give any priority for me they are sooo happy without me that makes me more sad🙃life is so hard without true friends
I was just watching random videos and this came up and I realized that this video is about me how I don’t have any friends to talk to or hang out with. To be honest I have “friends” because I’m tired of them saying to get friends hang out so I decided that I will get some friends but I don’t see them as friends I just see them as strangers I don’t like hanging out with. Yes sometimes I do have fun with them but I had a bad past on trusting a friend, I am traumatized because the one person I considered a friend betrayed me, left me crying in my room and in the present time I don’t want a best friend or a friend because I fear they’ll know my weakness and use it to crush me just like the person I called friend did. Now with the new friends I have I act like I’m happy with them but I’m not. The good thing is that I’m still invisible and they forget about me, they don’t ask me how I feel or what I did and that is something I’m thankful for.
I sit alone watching everyone have fun and hanging out with there friends. I maybe have like 2 or 3 friends. My best friend, that I thought was going to be friends for ever ( or for a very long time ) grew apart from me. Becoming more grown up and different because of how she is being raised and being spoiled. I feel very lonely at the moment this my best friend getting new friends and a bunch of other stuff making me feel lonely. I made a friend recently tho and he’s awesome, and I’m so thankful for him to pop up in my life. I hope we remain friends for a while maybe being best friends ya know. I started tearing up while writing this, but if you feel lonely, know that your not alone.
I remember in 5th grade, before I met my current friends and was as close to them as I am now, I was going through something like this. I never talked much so I could barely make friends. For most of the school year, I would sit alone, daydreaming. I thought I wouldn't need any friends. I have my imagination. Everything will be fine. But it wasn't. Everything wasn't fine. Every day I would watch as the people around me socialized so effortlessly. How could they do that? How could people talk to people so easily? So confidently? Its so hard to even approach people sometimes. There were different times where I would sit with different groups of people, but I still felt alone. I didn't talk too much, just pretty much sat there watching people as they invited me to sit with them. I felt like a burden sometimes. Like nobody liked me. It got worse when I developed acne. Whenever someone looked at me, I thought they were judging me. Judging every pimple on my face. Every hair on my head. I would sit and think to myself about how lucky everyone seemed. Because most of the people there got to come with people from their old schools, nearly everyone had a friend. I would wonder why I was so alone. Why couldn't I make friends? Why can't I talk more? Do they all secretly despise me? It felt like I was swimming in a large lake, trying to reach the shore, and every time I got near, I huge wave would come and pull me back under again. I missed my old friends. Sometimes I would cry to myself, wondering why I couldn't go to the other middle school. Wondering why I had to suffer alone while everyone around me got to stay with their friends. They didn't have to leave anyone. I'm better now, but even today I wonder if I'm just a bothersome bird, with an injured wing that people could just drop and leave behind any minute simply because I got too annoying. I'm still trying to find more self confidence, but... I'm better now. And I'm happy that I am.
I am so alone it sucks i lie to my family saying I’ll go hang around with friends but I just have nobody I have nobody to invite to my birthday I don’t hang out it hurts so much
People view me as someone who is social talks to pretty much everyone but as soon as I come home I have no one. I can't let people in anymore moving from my first best friend and real friend hurt so bad it just seems better to not let a relationship go that far. We moved and I went to a new school and I got bullied for that entire year and couldn't say anything because nobody cared to listen. All I want is a person who I feel like I can trust and wants to be my friend for who I am.
@@thepowerofgoodnes9055 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I had my 9 day fall break and spent it in my bed talking to myself. I'm all I have. My parents constantly ask about friends but I told my dad its teen living with no life. Its lonely just being here. I'm the girl who smiles in school and is pretty and skinny and works hard but listen everyone is beautiful so is everything and I'm pretty positive anyone with no friends is amazing try to be positive
this is the feeling when u lost someone important to you. ive been at that road before. and i pretty sure everyone was. but hey, what u need to do is go reach out for friends, families. u will get better trust me ❤
I was in a 3 friendship and it completely destroyed my confidence and view on myself. They actually made me hate me.they called me fat so many times that I actually wouldnt eat for days. They would say without them i woukd have no one. And yet i still blame myself and cant hate them
same with me except I lost one of my friends in that group but I still have two friends but they only talk to her hangout with her make plans with her nobody makes plans with me im the only one making plans I feel so lonely I sit at school im not happy my dad told focus on your school work school is important I am focusing on my school but im not happy
@@ashleysanford6475 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
To everyone that feels lonely, i will say this. You are special. You are worthy of loving someone and being loved in return. You will never be alone forever. You need to believe in yourself. It's not over, you will succeed you will find love you will find good people you will make friends. Life is bad but it can get better if you try to find a good person to be with. Trust me you will be loved. There will be people who will be there to support you.
I feel like I’m in this box that’s filled water and each day the water rises while the the box gets smaller in drowning and suffocating me at the same time
You know I also don't have friends and my parents don't know I am also lonely girl only lonely people will understand the pain who don't have friends and they are lonely like me
@@keksiyoko4296 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I don't have friends because I think they don't want me around in am a nice quiet person but I guess that's not good enough they probably think why is this guy here
I remember “___ you’ve changed you used to be nicer” (was that before or after I notice you were mean to me hmm) “Didn’t used to suck you thumb.” (a nervous habit, took me hours to go to sleep if I didn’t, it took years to stop also) “the crybaby girl” “Why do you cry all the time” (cause I have feelings) “why do you bite your nails” (nervous habit) “Guys guess what? _ Dad died” “Look at your teeth ew” (im sorry Sarah that I don’t have perfect teeth like you and good mental health) All the guilt tripping, the uncomfortable questions, the “relax it was just a joke”, always being conscious of everything I do. Then there was one time. When me, my friend, and her mom were sitting at “overflow” (a table designed for a different student and their “buddy” to go everyday if a class has too many kids to sit at one table) and a kid was passing out donuts for his birthday. Everyone forgets people at overflow so I got up and went to ask for a donut for us. On my way, these group of girls asked where I was going and I said “to get ask _ for a donut” and he told me he forgot and gave they two “extra” donuts (which were actually for us) to other people. In my way back to overflow they asked what happened and I told them he forgot. He gave the extra donuts to them. Idk how they convinced him to give them the extra donuts since they didn’t fit into the same school cliche/group. They all pointed their fingers and laughed at me. I thought it only happened in movies but I got a sliver of what humiliation would be like in high school. I walked back to the table me, my former friend and her mom was sitting at. I couldn’t tell them I was humiliated so they just thought I was crying about donuts because ofc I’m “the crybaby girl” until I told my friend what happened after. I wanted to go to high school but then I was homeschooled and after being homeschooled and losing the only friend I ever had, I realized I probably wouldn’t survive high school and don’t want to go anymore. I cried after school and I still cry about to this day. When my family hears “I have no friends” they think I’m saying “I have one friend but I’m lonely” no. Like I literally have no friends. No one to invite to birthdays. No one to text or call. No one to rant to. No one. I just fill that void with books and fictional characters who have the life, the looks, the personality, the strength, the friends that I’ll never get to have. That one friend that I don’t actually like and only talks to me when THEY feel like it. Like I am an object that they use only when they are bored and tired of their other dolls (friends). That ONE friend that I invited to my birthday party just to hide the fact im lonely. That ONE friend that isn’t my friend anymore. Zero. Gone. They don’t get that I’m literally lonely, that I am afraid, afraid to fuck up and humiliate myself in public. That I have social anxiety and can’t do shit without being awkward. That I either have ADHD or autism but are too stuck up to think something is wrong with their child and won’t take me to diagnose it. It’s always “try to make friends” I have tried and I have failed multiple times. It SUCKS. It sucks being desperate to have a friend, getting your hopes ups me talking someone for days just to have them ignore you out of the blue. ALL. THE. TIME. I don’t have some weird fetish, I don’t ask for your address, or hate on anyones hobbies or opinions. Longest friendship I ever had that felt like this person was actually my real best friend was awesome until she just ignored me, we did went ti the same online homeschool until her mom switched her back to public. I am just me. Yet it is never good enough and I’d rather have no friends than pretend to be someone else. If I don’t want to be around you it’s because I don’t like you, if im not loud around you it’s because im either uncomfortable or DONT. LIKE. YOU. You will know if I like you or not based on how I act around you. It’s not that im just an introvert though, or that I read books nonstop, or that im quiet, I AM all of those things but im also LONELY, I suffer from social anxiety and it’s served with a fresh cup of some unknown mental illness. I am lonely.
This popped up on my TH-cam wall and I couldn't help but comment it's extremely sad if anybody would ever feel this way, people should learn to enjoy their own company I know I enjoy my own company the majority of the time but then again that's just me 🤷🏻♀️
Sometimes I hate myself for not being able to connect like others. How do they do it so easily? How can they laugh so effortlessly? How does everything just gravitate towards them? How is it so easy? I want someone so bad. A person I can rely on. But everything falls right off me. No matter what I try, no matter what I do, people go away. I don't know what I'm doing, but it has to be me, right? I'm thr only constant factor in all endings that end up wrong. So please please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
I’ve never had friends I can’t form relationships my boyfriend is done with me I just know people I’m so lonely I wish I was normal. I was born a loner an outcast a weirdo someone too different to make friends. It’s just me myself and I with my family not being family.
Yes I agree with you! Some people are born to be lonely 😭 Some are happy to be that way! Others aren't! I don't ask for much! I'm sure that you don't either! It's a small world! We both share the same surname😂 I am a poet that writes about loneliness! It's a cruel world, isn't it! Warmest regards David 🦖 If you are out there somewhere? I would like to share to all my heart breaking poems with you which I am sure that you will relate to!
Yeahh me too ... Yesterday night I was crying for that I don't have friends but I want to tell myself and to you that we will find true friendship one day ✌️🖤 Never loose your hope 🥺💚
I always tell people that I dont need friends and that im better by myself and I do things on my own and then I tell them I feel great. But in reality I cry myself to sleep and wish that i do have friends. I mean I have no irl friends but I have a few online friends, but I feel like im alone so I dont know what to do I feel like I dont fit in and I dont want to be in this world but then I think about how sad my mom and dad and my family would feel if I wasnt in this world anymore. I really dont know what to do I see people making friends and Im just akward sitting alone doing nothing.
I'm 20 years old and i'm lonely single jobless still living with my parents. I feel ashamed. I feel like it's my fault and it is my fault. I should be to blame. Even though there are positive things that i'm doing like being a UMSL student socializing with others it doesn't make my loneliness any better. I tried to get a job many times but they were unsuccessful. I tried to make friends but it was unsuccessful. I tried to be in a romantic relationship but nothing worked. Maybe i'm not meant to have those things and i'm not blaming anyone else for this i'm blaming myself.
@@kugisakinobara9562 I don't feel like i'm ever going to have a romantic partner to be with cause I'm afraid that the relationship will never work out and she'll stab me in the back. I want to have a girlfriend someone i can trust someone who doesn't betray my trust or break my heart. Someone who if i'm nice to them They're nice to me back. And if i confess my love to my girlfriend i would tell her "I make mistakes i'm not perfect" i don't know if that will ever happen. I love the idea of having a girlfriend but i'm afraid that the relationship will not work out. This is not me being selfish or egotistical. I just want to be in a relationship with someone who is not a liar or a backstabber or hurts people for pleasure.
@@josefengelhardt2767 i get what you are saying and it's really sad that you think that way but ig you've experienced something bad......but you shouldn't feel worthless for not having a romantic partner i mean ik everyone has desires but sometimes not stressing about is good and I'm sure that you are capable of having and keeping healthy relationships because you seem genuine......take it easy on yourself ik it's difficult so just understand that you are not the problem and it can be solved if you try 💗
That is exactly what my mom said to me. Just like that teacher. Maybe no one really likes you. After that I stop being honest and opeen to my mom. It doesn't matter anyway cause she is narcissistic person who only care and talk about herself.
I wanna Go to Trip With friends,Wanna Talk to them,Wanna Play Togather But I ain't Got any to do with I remembered having too many friends During school But Now They aren't In my contact
Hey ! Please give me some ideas on what video I should do next
Eating disorder
Same here
What about break ups. It would be awesome
yes next time don`t forget to leave movies names. thanks for making emotional videos!
You can make on world without oxygen and water
It's sad knowing there are so many other people out there that are like me. And it hurts even more that I don't know them and they don't live near me.
Exactly 🥺
Yup
Yess always lonely
Wil you be my friend
@@thetrueoffraudbaba6568 ofc
My parents asked me 'Do you have friends in school?'
I answered 'Yes'
Reality: I'm sitting alone and watching all these happy people.
Hey dear .
Hope u r okay.
Same here ......my parents are like ' why didn't u ask your friends about ur homework ?'
I am like 'they too didn't knew about the homework '
In reality - I asked no one cuz i have no friends....
This happened to me
Same
Same... I have no friends.. Im so alone in this world 🙂
i can relate to sitting in class looking at all your classmates laughing when ur sitting alone
Yes and that's so heartbreaking 💔
Me too😭💔
@@chocolategreen6049 same bro
Same grew up like that.. and still, am 27 none with me, lost interest in everything, no job no friends.. just counting my days
@@Mesh3432 same tho 22 over here
It’s hurts and it’s depressed not to have any friends. It’s embarrassing to know that your the lonely kid.
:)
Yes some people think that the quiet kid or lonely kid is that guy who is dangerous or people are scared of him but in reality they are just people who just want to have friends and be like everyone else
@@ziadislam806 hey we made a group chat, you can check my bio for my username.
It’s fun over there😌
Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I agree
Had a dream about having friends 😂 like that would happen then you wake up at 4am and realise how alone you really are
i’ll be ur friend
Same 😭 it was the best feeling
It was the best dream
Will you be my friend because I don't have any friends
Will you be my friend because I don't have any friends
I cried a lot for having no friends, and now i stopped it and made my self more confident...
Will you be my friend because I don't have any friends
@@thetrueoffraudbaba6568 yes my friend
My name is karan
And you
I am 17 my name is karan and I am from India
You know when it’s getting bad again, when you cover your mouth when you are crying trying not to make a noise in the middle of the night…
fr I am currently doing that
It sucks being lonely...
No
No. It sucks being alive. Death is way better.
@@foreveryoung213 True
ifkr:((
I will be happy to be your friend
We should all just have a group chat so that we can all be friends and not be lonely anymore
I wish🥺
That would be nice ....
Then why don't we do it?
I think we all know in some way or another what we want, but something keeps us from actually doing it.
We are just getting in our own way.
So if someone wants to talk, want to make friends, I would create a groupchat, nobody ever has to be alone! :)
@@norahss2216 I would like that. I need someone to talk to
@@norahss2216 i really need someone right now to talk to how do i find you on snapchat
i have friends, sure, but i feel so alone. most of the time it's just me spectating other people being much happier than i am, hanging out with their friends. im happy for them, but im not happy.
it's not that we don't want to make friends, we just wanted someone to come first...
Yeahh.. Have a good day 😊
Exactly
Hey you can join our group chat to chat with other people so you won’t feel lonely, check my bio for my username
@@thetotocompany9469 hey, check my bio for my username, we made a group chat and it is really going to be fun.
For me, a girl did come up to me, only for a while to replace me later. She don't even care look at me in the eyes when there were friends with her and could careless about my existence. It's better to not have friends honestly because they just bring pain with them. Although it probably gonna be lonely. All I wanted was a one best friend but each time I make one there either toxic or they replace me for people who I have never seen before or make me feel worthless or use me.
This is exactly how my life was in high school. I know it shouldn’t matter anymore but it’s truly been a living hell for me and hey, to be fair I just graduated like three weeks ago, it’s so shitty that I missed out on my teenage years and milestones because I was so lonely, trying so hard to get myself together. I say alone at lunch everyday and ppl isolated and judged me. I missed out on prom because I lost my confidence to talk to anyone and no one asked me out, no one ever was my true friend and it’s shitty because I done nothing to deserve this! It’s definitely gonna be awhile before I can get past this.
im in 2nd last year of school myself and dealing with a very similar problem. the worst part i really dont wanna tell anyone i know as i will only be humiliated.
Im in your boat as well I missed out on my high school years because of Covid and didn’t do a lot of things other people my age were and it is hard for me to accept that. That I didn’t live life.
I’m still 19
I will meet some real friends and we’ll stay together till the end
But honestly living the adulthood without any best friend or feeling so numb because you feel like you’re 30 years old is so hard and it hurts so bad
Will you be my friend
I am the same age in the same situation. It's true though adulthood really is hard if you don't have any friends from childhood.
I was lucky I found a bestie in my childhood and we still hang together even though she's in a relationship.
@@internetuser4759 heyyy😂
You’re here, we are working really hard😂
@UCyg_8CybDLsri_AMosz_GRw my comment got deleted 🤧😭
@@Tbaebyy yeah we are 💪
I don’t have friends and it bothers me but all my life I liked being a lone wolf, and maybe it’s my pride but it’s so hard to let people in.
Some people are extroverted some introverted this is perfectly normal. But if you ever feel lonely and want a friend, I'm here. :) You are not alone!
Will you be my friend because I don't have any friends
@@thetrueoffraudbaba6568 I will be your friend :)
@@norahss2216 Can I Become Your Friend 👉👈
@@Qqqqqqqqqq. yeah of course :)
Hate when people say “I’m alone and have no friends” bc they’re the same ppl that have ppl texting them everyday . They have ppl that they hang out with. They just say that when they “Feel Sad”.
I wish all the lonely people in the world would come together somehow and mutually encourage each other, so that they could realize they were never truly alone and that others have been through what they’ve been through. It pains me that so many people go to sleep feeling as if they are unworthy or unlovable, and that sometimes the most kindred of spirits never get a chance to meet in their lifetime because they are too busy hiding from the world and wasting their lives away behind a computer screen. To anyone who reads this and might need some uplifting, I think you are beautiful and have so much to offer the world by being you. You are inimitable and have something unique to contribute even if it may not seem apparent at the moment, and one day, the right person will see this and come into your life when you least expect it. Stay strong and never lose hope. Even if you are completely lost and feel as though you have nothing and no one at this time, realize that you still have yourself, and that the person in the mirror is the first person you should seek approval from.
I wish too
Would you like to be friend with me
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.
It doesn't always bother me, being alone.
But it does bother me that I never had real friends. Just people who needed me for things.
Now that I don't have those things to offer, they don't have their friendship to offer.
I was so obsessed with the idea of living a cool life.
I forgot to live.
This is why i have trust issues now. Its better to live alone without any fake friends cause being with them is worthless, they just need u one second and the other minute u aren't even visible to them
@@alenastuart8905
Delete the world, never yourself.
hello person reading this, if this reaches anyone. we're from different parts of the world, we lead different lives, we are different people. but yet, this piece, this video, has brought us together. and i will never meet you, but just remember we're still connected by this piece- by simply listening to it, together. it's crazy how the internet can bring people together, huh? and i hope you're doing more than "okay," and if you aren't, remember: you will be okay, and that's a promise. please be easy on yourself- it's been a tough year, i know, but we're almost over it, and you will be happy. i don't know how much you'll remember of this, but i'm glad that our lives intertwined in this little way. have a nice day, or night, and lastly, nice life. And remember that Jesus loves you so much and I love you too 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Have a nice night or day too!❤️
Have a great day too😀
Have An Amazing Day 👉👈
I just wanna thank you because this is perfect. This made me cry and feels good. I love you beautiful person 🥺
Thnku so much
I too have friends but sometimes it feels like they just want to use me .......It really makes me sad because when I need them they are never with me 😭 I usually cry alone.....
Yeah dear .
Hope u r fine .
@@starsparkles8584yup. kind off u can say i m habitual of being alone
then they're not really your friends:((
@@simran750 maybe you are right but if I leave them i m afraid that they will become lonely....... So I m ok with them using me
It's just i need someone who will do the same for me .......
@@luckystar836 i hope you find people who actually care for you, your friends don't deserve you :((
I relate to this so much but every time I try to write something it ends up deleted straight after....only the person you look at in the mirror is who you can trust.
The way that girl says I’m soo lonely hits me so hard that’s why I keep coming back to this and the part where that girl says I don’t have any friends at the moment
I don't have any friends
Reality: i don't want to make friends
Lair
My exact situation lol
I have friends but I don't know...
Something's just wrong with me... And I just want to be around and at the same time I don't want to too...
@@ClarenceRao depends whether you are around your fav ppl or the ppl whom you hate the most, not hate actually but they aren't your type
@@rozarish9123 why would i?
I have problems but I feel bad for having these “problems” and feelings because I know other people have it worse. My friend always tells me that everyone goes through what I’m doing and I’m not special.
@@anj705 thank you 🫶
2:04 hits me so hard I’m in tears
I've always thought I was a social, open person, but I'm starting to doubt it more and more. My class in high school was really terrible, and although I always try to be open towards people, not judge them at the very beginning of a relationship - I still felt like I wouldn't get along with anyone there. After a year of being with them physically in school, covid came, and for the next 1.5 year I heard their voice just threw Zoom. I started college a year ago hoping to start all over again, that maybe eventually I'll be part of some amazing college story myself that I will be proud to tell my kids one day. I went to college for a month, and then another lockdown came ... for a year.
Looking back, I would have never thought that I will ever search in you tube the phrase "why I have no friends" ... why I don't fit anywhere ... why I can't get so close to anyone ...I send love and hugs to all those who refrain from crying at the sight of harmonious, smiling groups of friends who are rushing somewhere ... all together. hope we will write such story ourselves one day too, I wanna believe in that.
I do have friends… But i feel like i annoy them.. and i feel like They don’t care. I try to talk but They just talk over and start to talk about Something else..
Yeahh you're right 😌🖤
So sad and so emotional. Well, thanks for breaking my heart 💔
:(
Will you be my friend because I don't have any friends
@@thetrueoffraudbaba6568 Hi um sorry for saying this but I think you should not ask this here because you never know who the person is I mean it could maybe be a old man or something okay?
Do you feel like you don't have the courage to call them your friends because you don't know whether they call you their friends and it just became someone you know and not someone that is your friend.
I'm glad I have a sister. I'm not alone, I do have people to hangout in school but they all are fake and selfish. I try my best to talk to those who ae sitting or standing all alone so that they don't have to suffer what I used to do or still do sometimes. People are really shitty these days
Friendship is one of the best things in the world it’s no fun being alone.
That's just your opinion.
I'm 20 years old and i still am single no friends no girlfriends. I'm just fearing that i'll remain a lonely friendless jobless loser till i die. I feel like it's all my fault and it is my fault. The World is just not as lucky as it seems. I have to accept the fact that my dreams of finding a positive healthy relationship with people will never come true. The world is full of selfish deplorable people who think it's cute to hurt people and laugh at their suffering. Which is the reason why i created friends and girlfriends in my imagination to get away from the bad side of life
Everybody loves having friends..
But if we are not getting the real friends... Then being alone is better... But it really hurts🥹
It's hard being alone.. But I'm realised that being alone is much better than having toxic friends 🙂
Btw any മലയാളീസ് 😁
Haa und und
There are good people you will find good people the world is not black and white.
It’s very hard and this hits REALLY HARD. Im sad, lonely, depressed and already broken, im use to BEING ALONE.
I froze and paralyzed that I can’t move. I barely look myself in the mirror and hearing mean cruel voices in my head that unkind people say to me.
Here if you want to talk!
Warmest regards
David 🦖
Man these edits always got like beautiful people crying with makeup, can we get some real people
Now I am facing this situation, I am the only person in my class sit alone in last bench and see the people happiness with their friends and they behave like I don't exist.
that's me 😥😭💔
i'm ugly 😔 , i have no friends 😔 , i can't make a contact with strange people 😔, no one of my family understand me 😥 , And i'm always lonely 😔
but don't worry about me i will die soon 💔💔
You're not alone ♡ Please stay strong
That's me too:( I want to die...no one will cry about my death...:(
Dont die man...live ans travel.travel makes you happy belive me
You are not alone, Jesus loves you ❤
I am studying in 10th, i had a gang but now they dont even care about me i cried alot because of them in my class, after that i stop my friendship with them now i am alone no friends its so painfull when i think about the beautiful moments with them but they dont give any priority for me they are sooo happy without me that makes me more sad🙃life is so hard without true friends
Don't be sad my friend you are strong there is nothing that can make you sad don't worry we are all with you and by your side 🙂
I'm in a grp of 3 people and normally they always talk to each other and leave me out so I feel super lonely rn😢
This how it was for me in my childhood and now my adulthood. It's very lonely!
I was just watching random videos and this came up and I realized that this video is about me how I don’t have any friends to talk to or hang out with. To be honest I have “friends” because I’m tired of them saying to get friends hang out so I decided that I will get some friends but I don’t see them as friends I just see them as strangers I don’t like hanging out with. Yes sometimes I do have fun with them but I had a bad past on trusting a friend, I am traumatized because the one person I considered a friend betrayed me, left me crying in my room and in the present time I don’t want a best friend or a friend because I fear they’ll know my weakness and use it to crush me just like the person I called friend did. Now with the new friends I have I act like I’m happy with them but I’m not. The good thing is that I’m still invisible and they forget about me, they don’t ask me how I feel or what I did and that is something I’m thankful for.
I don't wanna live anymore,my life sucks 😢💔😭
I sit alone watching everyone have fun and hanging out with there friends. I maybe have like 2 or 3 friends. My best friend, that I thought was going to be friends for ever ( or for a very long time ) grew apart from me. Becoming more grown up and different because of how she is being raised and being spoiled. I feel very lonely at the moment this my best friend getting new friends and a bunch of other stuff making me feel lonely. I made a friend recently tho and he’s awesome, and I’m so thankful for him to pop up in my life. I hope we remain friends for a while maybe being best friends ya know. I started tearing up while writing this, but if you feel lonely, know that your not alone.
I remember in 5th grade, before I met my current friends and was as close to them as I am now, I was going through something like this. I never talked much so I could barely make friends. For most of the school year, I would sit alone, daydreaming. I thought I wouldn't need any friends. I have my imagination. Everything will be fine. But it wasn't. Everything wasn't fine. Every day I would watch as the people around me socialized so effortlessly. How could they do that? How could people talk to people so easily? So confidently? Its so hard to even approach people sometimes. There were different times where I would sit with different groups of people, but I still felt alone. I didn't talk too much, just pretty much sat there watching people as they invited me to sit with them.
I felt like a burden sometimes. Like nobody liked me. It got worse when I developed acne. Whenever someone looked at me, I thought they were judging me. Judging every pimple on my face. Every hair on my head. I would sit and think to myself about how lucky everyone seemed. Because most of the people there got to come with people from their old schools, nearly everyone had a friend. I would wonder why I was so alone. Why couldn't I make friends? Why can't I talk more? Do they all secretly despise me?
It felt like I was swimming in a large lake, trying to reach the shore, and every time I got near, I huge wave would come and pull me back under again. I missed my old friends. Sometimes I would cry to myself, wondering why I couldn't go to the other middle school. Wondering why I had to suffer alone while everyone around me got to stay with their friends. They didn't have to leave anyone.
I'm better now, but even today I wonder if I'm just a bothersome bird, with an injured wing that people could just drop and leave behind any minute simply because I got too annoying. I'm still trying to find more self confidence, but... I'm better now. And I'm happy that I am.
Exactly I'm
I am so alone it sucks i lie to my family saying I’ll go hang around with friends but I just have nobody I have nobody to invite to my birthday I don’t hang out it hurts so much
I have alot but when i need someone i don,t find anyone maybe no one care about me maybe i am not good enough
I found this channel today these are trully the emotions i feel everyday thanks for this i think am not the only one like this
People view me as someone who is social talks to pretty much everyone but as soon as I come home I have no one. I can't let people in anymore moving from my first best friend and real friend hurt so bad it just seems better to not let a relationship go that far. We moved and I went to a new school and I got bullied for that entire year and couldn't say anything because nobody cared to listen. All I want is a person who I feel like I can trust and wants to be my friend for who I am.
Same Here ... Can Relate This Very Much Can we be friends ..😔
I can relate to this 😔
Will you be my friend
@@thepowerofgoodnes9055 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I relate to this, sadly.
I have also same situation just sitting alone and staring these happy people
I had my 9 day fall break and spent it in my bed talking to myself. I'm all I have. My parents constantly ask about friends but I told my dad its teen living with no life. Its lonely just being here. I'm the girl who smiles in school and is pretty and skinny and works hard but listen everyone is beautiful so is everything and I'm pretty positive anyone with no friends is amazing try to be positive
I have friends but i don't really have them, they're just there
I dont have atleast one friend but its ok for me😊
Today I lost my friends
I had only 2 friends close to my heart but they left me saying I am toxic .now I am left alone I have no friends
Same bro 😔😔
I also have no frnds 😔
this is the feeling when u lost someone important to you. ive been at that road before. and i pretty sure everyone was. but hey, what u need to do is go reach out for friends, families. u will get better trust me ❤
This is exactly what i go through everyday and i hate it
It's not the friendlessness I mind. It's the users that prey on it and make you feel worthless. For no reason.
Everyone is all alone....in a world full of people....
I used to laugh at the no friends memes but now that I have no friends it really is not a joke and is lonely asf
1:53 damn ik how hard it is to hold back ur tears man.. especially in school too
I was in a 3 friendship and it completely destroyed my confidence and view on myself. They actually made me hate me.they called me fat so many times that I actually wouldnt eat for days. They would say without them i woukd have no one. And yet i still blame myself and cant hate them
ur not alone ❤️
same with me except I lost one of my friends in that group but I still have two friends but they only talk to her hangout with her make plans with her nobody makes plans with me im the only one making plans I feel so lonely I sit at school im not happy my dad told focus on your school work school is important I am focusing on my school but im not happy
@@ashleysanford6475 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I feel so lonely and depressed. But I also hate interacting with people. Im comfortable with just few people, but I do feel so lonely. 😢
To everyone that feels lonely, i will say this. You are special. You are worthy of loving someone and being loved in return. You will never be alone forever. You need to believe in yourself. It's not over, you will succeed you will find love you will find good people you will make friends. Life is bad but it can get better if you try to find a good person to be with. Trust me you will be loved. There will be people who will be there to support you.
In all the hard moments...Only God was with me
@@elenaenache6232 you will find love because you are loved.
@@josefengelhardt2767 Hope ..
WIPE YOUR TEARS MY FRIEND...ITS OKAY....DON'T CRY...😊😙
When you are different ..you are alone
I do have... But yet feel so lonely
Are you on "Instagram" .?
no...I dont like socializing, I want too but the anxiety dont let me have any social media but only Twitter 🤣🤣
@@gaia930 ok 😌❤️
Here are so many peoples like me 😓
I wish I had a friend who would love me and accept me as I am, and we would rejoice together and understand each other... Loneliness is killing me💔💔
Please be friend with me. I'm dying. I can't be alone anymore please 😭
@@aakashgurjar416 ok let's go😊
@@lalissa466 how can We connect
@@aakashgurjar416 give me your insta
@@lalissa466 thank you so much 🥺
I don't have any friends because people hate me and i hate people.
Me. 2... i cry everyday...i only love my family
Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself, Life's cruelest irony.
I feel like I’m in this box that’s filled water and each day the water rises while the the box gets smaller in drowning and suffocating me at the same time
that was really beautifully written
and relatable
You know I also don't have friends and my parents don't know I am also lonely girl only lonely people will understand the pain who don't have friends and they are lonely like me
Don't be sad my friend you are strong there is nothing that can make you sad don't worry we are all with you and by your side 🙂
@@androidflow9737 thanks your reply makes me happy
@@pruthviqueendancer3922 You are welcome and I hope you are always happy and don't worry consider me your friend 🙂
I am in eighth grade I have no friends and I have been crying in the bathroom every day and I just don’t know what to do anymore😢
hey, we should be friends. I have no friends either. I am in Grade 8 (almost 9)
I never had any friends my whole life because they don't wanted to be my friend and bullied me because they tought i was ugly
Hi im looking for freind
@@davidmatthew2282 Really? are you lonely too?
heyy do you wanna join our groupchat on Instagram
you can message me (my ig is in the bio) or you can message gidbil :)
Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
@@keksiyoko4296 Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
I don't have friends because I think they don't want me around in am a nice quiet person but I guess that's not good enough they probably think why is this guy here
it gets worse as time goes by
I had friends in school and still like being alone glad I did
I feel this way at uni.....I've started forcing myself to put mascara on everyday to stop myself from crying
I remember
“___ you’ve changed you used to be nicer” (was that before or after I notice you were mean to me hmm)
“Didn’t used to suck you thumb.” (a nervous habit, took me hours to go to sleep if I didn’t, it took years to stop also)
“the crybaby girl”
“Why do you cry all the time” (cause I have feelings)
“why do you bite your nails” (nervous habit)
“Guys guess what? _ Dad died”
“Look at your teeth ew” (im sorry Sarah that I don’t have perfect teeth like you and good mental health)
All the guilt tripping, the uncomfortable questions, the “relax it was just a joke”, always being conscious of everything I do.
Then there was one time. When me, my friend, and her mom were sitting at “overflow” (a table designed for a different student and their “buddy” to go everyday if a class has too many kids to sit at one table) and a kid was passing out donuts for his birthday. Everyone forgets people at overflow so I got up and went to ask for a donut for us.
On my way, these group of girls asked where I was going and I said “to get ask _ for a donut” and he told me he forgot and gave they two “extra” donuts (which were actually for us) to other people. In my way back to overflow they asked what happened and I told them he forgot.
He gave the extra donuts to them. Idk how they convinced him to give them the extra donuts since they didn’t fit into the same school cliche/group. They all pointed their fingers and laughed at me. I thought it only happened in movies but I got a sliver of what humiliation would be like in high school.
I walked back to the table me, my former friend and her mom was sitting at. I couldn’t tell them I was humiliated so they just thought I was crying about donuts because ofc I’m “the crybaby girl” until I told my friend what happened after.
I wanted to go to high school but then I was homeschooled and after being homeschooled and losing the only friend I ever had, I realized I probably wouldn’t survive high school and don’t want to go anymore. I cried after school and I still cry about to this day.
When my family hears “I have no friends” they think I’m saying “I have one friend but I’m lonely” no. Like I literally have no friends. No one to invite to birthdays. No one to text or call. No one to rant to. No one. I just fill that void with books and fictional characters who have the life, the looks, the personality, the strength, the friends that I’ll never get to have.
That one friend that I don’t actually like and only talks to me when THEY feel like it. Like I am an object that they use only when they are bored and tired of their other dolls (friends). That ONE friend that I invited to my birthday party just to hide the fact im lonely. That ONE friend that isn’t my friend anymore. Zero. Gone. They don’t get that I’m literally lonely, that I am afraid, afraid to fuck up and humiliate myself in public.
That I have social anxiety and can’t do shit without being awkward. That I either have ADHD or autism but are too stuck up to think something is wrong with their child and won’t take me to diagnose it. It’s always “try to make friends” I have tried and I have failed multiple times. It SUCKS. It sucks being desperate to have a friend, getting your hopes ups me talking someone for days just to have them ignore you out of the blue. ALL. THE. TIME. I don’t have some weird fetish, I don’t ask for your address, or hate on anyones hobbies or opinions. Longest friendship I ever had that felt like this person was actually my real best friend was awesome until she just ignored me, we did went ti the same online homeschool until her mom switched her back to public.
I am just me. Yet it is never good enough and I’d rather have no friends than pretend to be someone else. If I don’t want to be around you it’s because I don’t like you, if im not loud around you it’s because im either uncomfortable or DONT. LIKE. YOU. You will know if I like you or not based on how I act around you.
It’s not that im just an introvert though, or that I read books nonstop, or that im quiet, I AM all of those things but im also LONELY, I suffer from social anxiety and it’s served with a fresh cup of some unknown mental illness. I am lonely.
Anyone whose reading this you're not alone .
I have also a no friends
Literally crying since one hour
Because without friends the life is hell
am i a bad person? why am i the only one lonely
i have not done anything bad i have always been good to others stilll i dont have any friends
Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
Can I be your friend 🥺 I don't have any friend not even online please😭
This popped up on my TH-cam wall and I couldn't help but comment it's extremely sad if anybody would ever feel this way, people should learn to enjoy their own company I know I enjoy my own company the majority of the time but then again that's just me 🤷🏻♀️
Sometimes I hate myself for not being able to connect like others. How do they do it so easily? How can they laugh so effortlessly? How does everything just gravitate towards them? How is it so easy?
I want someone so bad. A person I can rely on. But everything falls right off me. No matter what I try, no matter what I do, people go away. I don't know what I'm doing, but it has to be me, right? I'm thr only constant factor in all endings that end up wrong. So please please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
welcome to my world
I don’t have any besties I wish I did..
Will you be my friend
I’ve never had friends I can’t form relationships my boyfriend is done with me I just know people I’m so lonely I wish I was normal. I was born a loner an outcast a weirdo someone too different to make friends. It’s just me myself and I with my family not being family.
Yes I agree with you!
Some people are born to be lonely 😭
Some are happy to be that way!
Others aren't!
I don't ask for much!
I'm sure that you don't either!
It's a small world!
We both share the same surname😂
I am a poet that writes about loneliness!
It's a cruel world, isn't it!
Warmest regards
David 🦖
If you are out there somewhere?
I would like to share to all my heart breaking poems with you which I am sure that you will relate to!
I am really tired of being lonely. I wish i could make some friend🙃
Don't expect it.
Yeahh me too ... Yesterday night I was crying for that I don't have friends but I want to tell myself and to you that we will find true friendship one day ✌️🖤 Never loose your hope 🥺💚
@@holymindinnocentarmy4766 hope so🤞
But I’m so Lonely that makes me cry
I have friends but anything I do hurts someone I prefer no frens
Same
Don't wanna be lonely and don't want to be around people... Its like hell
My relatives : who is your best friend ?
Me:(saying names)
The reality is iam actually randomly saying some names in which I don't even know them
I always tell people that I dont need friends and that im better by myself and I do things on my own and then I tell them I feel great. But in reality I cry myself to sleep and wish that i do have friends. I mean I have no irl friends but I have a few online friends, but I feel like im alone so I dont know what to do I feel like I dont fit in and I dont want to be in this world but then I think about how sad my mom and dad and my family would feel if I wasnt in this world anymore. I really dont know what to do I see people making friends and Im just akward sitting alone doing nothing.
But I don't even have any online friends
Will you be my friend 🥺
@@aakashgurjar416 yes I will be your friend
@@Dharm-karm-Bhakti do you have snapchat
@@aakashgurjar416 Are you also alone ?
I wanna listen to spoti....
When that girl starts laughing then covers her mouth i see that and i think of myself in that spot feeling the same way
This vid describes my life:'(
I am completely relatable with this one 😢
I'm 20 years old and i'm lonely single jobless still living with my parents. I feel ashamed. I feel like it's my fault and it is my fault. I should be to blame. Even though there are positive things that i'm doing like being a UMSL student socializing with others it doesn't make my loneliness any better. I tried to get a job many times but they were unsuccessful. I tried to make friends but it was unsuccessful. I tried to be in a romantic relationship but nothing worked. Maybe i'm not meant to have those things and i'm not blaming anyone else for this i'm blaming myself.
Don't blame yourself for anything and you deserve everything and i hope one day you understand that 💗
@@kugisakinobara9562 I don't feel like i'm ever going to have a romantic partner to be with cause I'm afraid that the relationship will never work out and she'll stab me in the back. I want to have a girlfriend someone i can trust someone who doesn't betray my trust or break my heart. Someone who if i'm nice to them They're nice to me back. And if i confess my love to my girlfriend i would tell her "I make mistakes i'm not perfect" i don't know if that will ever happen. I love the idea of having a girlfriend but i'm afraid that the relationship will not work out. This is not me being selfish or egotistical. I just want to be in a relationship with someone who is not a liar or a backstabber or hurts people for pleasure.
@@kugisakinobara9562 thanks for the nice comment because you know how awful the internet is with comments
@@josefengelhardt2767 i get what you are saying and it's really sad that you think that way but ig you've experienced something bad......but you shouldn't feel worthless for not having a romantic partner i mean ik everyone has desires but sometimes not stressing about is good and I'm sure that you are capable of having and keeping healthy relationships because you seem genuine......take it easy on yourself ik it's difficult so just understand that you are not the problem and it can be solved if you try 💗
@@kugisakinobara9562 I'm just afraid of being alone for the rest of my life.
i just wish i could hug all the people in this comment section.
That is exactly what my mom said to me. Just like that teacher. Maybe no one really likes you.
After that I stop being honest and opeen to my mom. It doesn't matter anyway cause she is narcissistic person who only care and talk about herself.
Will you be my friend 🥺 I'm all alone
I wanna Go to Trip With friends,Wanna Talk to them,Wanna Play Togather But I ain't Got any to do with
I remembered having too many friends During school But Now They aren't In my contact
Hey, we made a group chat on Instagram, you can check my bio for my username so I can add you. It’s fun over there and we are good people❤️
Me 2..