it's been a breath of fresh air living in Dominican Republic

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  • @eldonmirjah7549
    @eldonmirjah7549 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The race thing... I had a friend who was chilling with me from the West Indies, first time in the RD. One day A Haitain guy approached and he started with this race shit to him, he said, "THEY don't like us", referring to Dominicanos not liking black people as a whole.
    I immediately had to cut him off and kept walking. While walking I asked my friend, you been here a few days, do get the impression that dominicans hate black people? He said hell nah.
    I told him that not even Haitians sit around talking about race and they get it from Black Americans who come to the RD, so they try to come at anyone who they feel might be black American in order for them to look at them as "Brothers", befriend them and most likely try to hustle them...
    But it's 100% from what they see in the Media about what black Amercans are focused on and of course when they come to the RD they talk this racism shit. It's crazy!

    • @CristianDiaz-p5g
      @CristianDiaz-p5g หลายเดือนก่อน

      That French shit fucked them over 10 times. Haitians can't think of anything to progress because the French did a number on them.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well said. This race talk comes from Black Americans.

    • @dgo9121
      @dgo9121 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unfortunately because of history, race is a constant factor in the U.S. because many people and entities still capitalize on it to keep people divided.
      The DR collectively is a multi racial society, and it’s rarely the topic of discussion unless it’s brought up by outsiders. We see each other as one as culture and don’t get into race politics. This Is very common in other islands like Jamaica also.

    • @CristianDiaz-p5g
      @CristianDiaz-p5g หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Come to think of it, race issues and conversations can happen anywhere. It is how you react to it. For instance, in the USA there are still people that wake up everyday thinking how to do harm to black person. In Isreal the jews do the same with the arabs and vise versa. The indians want to wipe out the pakistanis, and so on. But in DR, our issues with haitians boils down to our independence from them and their disrespect towards our way life and attempts to harm our prosperity. But vast majority of dominicans can live with haitians in DR just as long they respect our country's laws, traditions, norms, history, and people.

    • @dgo9121
      @dgo9121 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @CristianDiaz-p5g this is correct, we Dominicans welcome everyone and love to share, unfortunately that has become a detriment in case of the illegal over population.

  • @manny1up207
    @manny1up207 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    In a Dominican household, you will see various hues of colors, from transparent white to charcoal black; we do not worry about skin color, only family.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

    • @starlinpena4943
      @starlinpena4943 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thats literally my family whitest whites blkest blks

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly.
      My twin sister is white. My mom and dad are darker skinned like me. We're totally mixed and I love how I am.

  • @Dominicano809_
    @Dominicano809_ หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I am so glad that people love my country 🥲😢😊😊😊🇩🇴♥️

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yesssiir 💪🏾 💪🏾

  • @thejamiegruber
    @thejamiegruber หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That worship of politicians part hit. You’re so right!!

    • @hbro3937
      @hbro3937 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I want to move to the Dominican Republic for years, but I dont know what kind of work to get into so I continue making USD while I'm there, can you assist me???

    • @linkworld02
      @linkworld02 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hbro3937 Jamie has a video about that, you should go to his channel and check it out. I myself, work as an interpreter making around 17 an hour. It's not much there, but here it is a decent salary. I am pretty sure you can get something better with the right certifications.

  • @neftalioller8268
    @neftalioller8268 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jay a have been living here in DR for the last 19 years, I will not go back to US. I feel happy and safe here.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. Same here. I'm not trying to go back either.

  • @rafaelaugustocaneloruiz6009
    @rafaelaugustocaneloruiz6009 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Let me tell you something about Dominican society. The first colony of the Spanish Empire in the 15th century was what is today the Dominican Republic and the first time that Spain brought slaves was in 1503 (the black part of Dominican society does not come from Haiti) when Spain discovered the immensity of the American continent it practically abandoned the island of Hispaniola to its fate, leaving the Creoles, mulattoes and slaves on the island. There was a lot of poverty and the only way to get out of it was through trade between the different peoples of the island. Later there was a great deal of miscegenation among all of them. It is important to emphasize this because in the Spanish colony the one drop rule did not exist and interracial marriage was allowed. Dominicans have literally been marrying different ethnicities and races for more than 400 years, in the 20th century this was prohibited in the USA, in 1606 the devastations of Osorio happened and there was a demonstration against this measure and it was practically the first recorded protest by the creoles of the island who had already been mixing what was created for more than a century was the sentiment of protecting the land where you were born, in 1621 it was the first time that the Spanish crown used the term Dominican, practically referring to the Creole people of the island of Hispaniola, which was made up of the descendants of the Spaniards who stayed on the island, the few Tainos who survived and the blacks. The problem with African Americans is that they want to extrapolate the reality experienced in the English colonies, such as the One Drop Rule and the prohibition of marriage between races, to the entire world. They think that this was the reality everywhere. There was certainly slavery in Spain, but it was very different from the English and French colonies. In short, Dominican society is united by the culture and the land that saw it born, and that is what has created its identity as a society.

    • @pedromatos7128
      @pedromatos7128 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it has to do with the two schools of thought regarding racism. English: mixing with other races will taint our blood. Spanish: mixing with other races with purify their blood. that is why the spanish had a caste system and the english did not.
      as for some poeple from the us coming to the dr trying to look for allies regarding the societal issues they've might have experienced? they are projecting.
      Dominicans as a society are more united. that is very true. but, there is some discrimination, it's just more subtle. I don't know if this is still practiced but it is my understanding that you have to attach your photo with your resume. that is a type of discrimination. Or having older female family having reactions to black people like they are going to eat them is a form of discrimination. thankfully that last one seems to be limited to the older generation. That last one I've experienced personally.
      I'm not saying we have neo nazis and kkk equivalent in the DR. What I'm saying is that we are not squeaky clean either.
      But the biggest problem in the DR is corruption. Getting stopped by the military because they want to check for "illegal arms" aka "help us out" is definitely a problem, but race is definitely one of the least of our problems.

    • @dgo9121
      @dgo9121 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very well said.

  • @adrianhamilton8377
    @adrianhamilton8377 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Brother. Thank you for your kind words about my country. We really appreciate it and it is a "breath of fresh air" seeing an african american understand our way of life and how we roll. My country is not perfect, there's many bad stuff that happens, but we are kind people to those who are good to us. Thank you again and enjoy your time en la república 🇩🇴💪🏼

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're welcome brother💪🏾💪🏾

  • @dishonhall7846
    @dishonhall7846 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Agree, the sense of community is huge! Politics is the great divider!

  • @nelsonmatta8064
    @nelsonmatta8064 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for the positivity you bring to our island! My down south people have always been polite and honest. I grew up in NY city and can say that it's not the same vibe or mannerism. I watched your other video on losing everything and having to start from scratch again. Very inspiring! I wish you the best out here fam..

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome brother. Thanks for watching.

  • @Whathetruthis
    @Whathetruthis หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Amén, so true what you have stated! We just move back to DR, we are both Dominicans, and I could complain about some things! However, I do like all the points you have stated and we also love that get in an elevator they greet and wish a good day. When we are in a doctor’s waiting room they start a conversation. My personal favorite “gracias a Dios” and “ valla con Dios”, priceless. 🇩🇴👍🙏

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes everyone speaks. It's a breath of fresh air.

    • @TheSoloTraveler
      @TheSoloTraveler หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same here. Just moved back after 36 years in the U.S.

    • @jaycobmelo1904
      @jaycobmelo1904 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Whathetruthis So refreshing being able to say God when I’m in DR without any problems it’s in our Flag Dios Patria y Libertad

  • @rafaellopez9931
    @rafaellopez9931 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gracias por tan bonitas palabras hacia nuestro país🇩🇴, desde la creación de RD hemos tratado de que ser mejores, éramos un conjunto de pueblos negro, blancos e indígenas y decidimos unirnos bajo una misma bandera en igualdad, pero al través de los siglos hemos sufridos de ataques de fuerzas extranjeras algunas veces por vías de las Armas y otras veces con campañas de difamación como ahora, pero siempre se ha impuesto la verdad. Gracias otra vez.

  • @NathanialTheGreat
    @NathanialTheGreat หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    South Florida man living in Navarrete in peace 🙏🏾

  • @antoniothomas3862
    @antoniothomas3862 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    People in America are so asleep and refuse to wake up. I love your videos bro and I always watch because when I'm home I sit back and relax and enjoy my music and my family. Dominicans are Dominicans. There are no black or white. I was raised in New Orleans and it used to be where everyone speaks and it's gone. Now in DR it still exists and I love that.

  • @Q_DaTravelGuru
    @Q_DaTravelGuru หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I been subscribed to your channel for several weeks now. I’m enjoying the content! I’ve subscribed to and watch other channels of Americans leaving the US and enjoying their new lifestyle outside the country. I came across your wife page first and said to myself “that man look familiar sitting beside her” clicked and watch the video and your second page popped up and I said “oh that’s Mr all wings everything” 😂😅. I didn’t know he lived outside the US. So now I’m subscribed to both your channels! I’m a young Black male and you’re an inspiration to me for sure to get out of US and travel and set up shop somewhere else! 💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awesome, brother. Glad to be that inspiration for you. Definitely consider move out country.

  • @andreaskaphengst8121
    @andreaskaphengst8121 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your videos are a breath of fresh air! I can relate to your down to earth common sense views. I think that it’s by design to keep the American people divided. There is a lot to like about the Dominican Republic and I am also considering on moving there. Stay safe, stay healthy and stay happy!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree alot of it is by design. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

  • @clytchan
    @clytchan หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    A while ago, your wife posted a video about why you all were moving to D.R. One of the reasons she gave, was that she was worried about your safety (as a black man) in this country. Her concerns were real, and they’re still relevant as it relates to black men here. You’re right about people now being defined by their political views. It seems like some people here are trying to turn back the clock to a time that their forefathers enjoyed. Recently, there have been several lynchings that have taken place down South.
    People think ex-pats left the Matrix because they’re scared to live here, but the reality is, some of them left because there’s a difference between living and existing. (Peace is harder to find than love.) I tell bruthas all the time, “Just because you were born and raised here, doesn’t mean you have to die here.”

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolute facts brother...couldn't have said it better.

  • @s.a7468
    @s.a7468 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    We are not Black, White, or Asian. Regardless of skin color, financial status, or intellect, we are Dominicans! Imagine this: my sister has white skin, blue eyes, and blonde hair. My little brother is Black, and my other siblings are somewhere in between. We are brothers and sisters, all from the same parents. How can we divide ourselves based on color? We are Dominicans, and that’s the only label we like to use. Some may struggle to understand this because they are used to labels, but we don’t care about race.

    • @yokid4405
      @yokid4405 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      People out side do not understand that. We are mixed! We dont look at race.

    • @jaycobmelo1904
      @jaycobmelo1904 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@s.a7468 My family is the same way and we really don’t want the BS in DR

    • @thepassportlife
      @thepassportlife หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Wow! Such a breath of fresh air, reading your comments. I am a senior citizen, retired, I would like to move to DR soon. Coming to visit soon to see if I would like to live there full time.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They are all absolutely correct.

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎤💅🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴

  • @semperfi6512
    @semperfi6512 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The DR is literally a breath of fresh air.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes i agree.

  • @EntrepreneurExpat
    @EntrepreneurExpat หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video! I'm from Miami and when my fiancé who was living in Mexico (he left the US years ago and I left a year ago) came to meet me first the first time we had an event in Aventura so the closest place to get food was the mall. I was on edge the entire time because of the shooting that happened there terrified that at any moment someone could just start shooting. Latin America in general definitely has it's problems, but we don't have to worry about getting shot just for going shopping. And to your point, just because we say we feel safer doesn't mean there's no crime. But the same way I wouldn't go to a dangerous neighborhood or into an active gang war in the U.S. I'm not going to go do it in another country. It makes no damn sense when people say that. ~Amanda

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol....well said. Nothing more to add to that.

  • @CristianDiaz-p5g
    @CristianDiaz-p5g หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    James, you are a great human being. I am so happy to know you true the way of youtube. I am a Dominican who moved to NY. I really did not know how black I was until I moved to NYC. In DR I was just Dominican. In the USA, I am a black dominican. lol.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol...thanks Christian. You are absolutely correct. Once you get to the US you are immediately put into a box. Thats why I love it here although I'm a black American most see me as just a Dominican.

  • @EnriqueDominican
    @EnriqueDominican หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    AGREE 10000%, sense of community it make us different, I live im NY, living same building for almost 10yrs, literaly i only know the super and the assistant, and 1 neighbor because our kids went to Pre K together.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's wild! 10 years no way that could happen here.

  • @nasserabreu7163
    @nasserabreu7163 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey Jay, I'm glad to hear how well things are going for you in DR. You mentioned many "truths" ...thank you!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 🙏🏾

  • @richardhernandez7680
    @richardhernandez7680 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are 100% correct I think the DR is one of the safest place and in the barrios is not even that bad

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts. I agree.

  • @maxxx-op2pr
    @maxxx-op2pr หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Someone was shot to death in laval, Canada this week but for the average Canadian the Dominican Rep is a hell and Canada means heaven😂

  • @efrainxbro.efrain6740
    @efrainxbro.efrain6740 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Brother, may God Almighty keep you under his blessings! I love the way you transmit your experience living in our (it is yours too), shut, we could be related 😊, remember, in this part of the island our ancestors were brought from mother Africa and in here that black family were break up and the tallest, strongest blacks were shipped to the USA while part of his family remained in this part of the island. Much love Brotherman?

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks brother. You're right we might be related. I'm definitely enjoying your country.

  • @el-kuajinais9894
    @el-kuajinais9894 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm dominican, and this is what we need smart people educated, it doesn't matter what race or where you come from... values are always a pluss and are welcome to DR. Good video. God bless you. Keep the good work and enjoy my island.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely agree. Thanks fam, I appreciate it.

  • @YWilliams-t7b
    @YWilliams-t7b หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When i was there in san Cristóbal i prefer there then any major city of usa!!! I feel safer, More hope for future and alot alot less suffering and I feel like i fit in with Dominicans more then most American's, the culture in dr soo more my vibe and personality, and im very common sense driven and love and doing right.

  • @rosettyromero219
    @rosettyromero219 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have no idea how much I needed this video!!!!!!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome. I hope it helps put things into perspective 🙏🏾

  • @johnmanning4097
    @johnmanning4097 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jay that background music is the shit SMOOTH don’t change it…👊🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Preciate it fam💪🏾

  • @ferachoanthony954
    @ferachoanthony954 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That background music is fire 🔥 . Everytime 😂

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I appreciate that!

  • @nomadicnana2730
    @nomadicnana2730 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "It's ain't about race, it's about you" Preach. Peace✌🏾💙

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

  • @reinarodriguez416
    @reinarodriguez416 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That so true in DR they wouldn't call you Afro-American they just will call you american because in DR we don't have different all people are the same that the thing l love from my country.... god bless you 🙏 ❤️

  • @sylviamichaud4759
    @sylviamichaud4759 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's hard because sometimes in the U.S. there are mass shootings in places that were previously safe and no one was ready for it.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true..

  • @proteusxl9814
    @proteusxl9814 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Definitely can relate 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯

  • @larapfeffer2845
    @larapfeffer2845 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jay, thank you for sharing this, I am so happy for you that you’ve found happiness in the Dominican Republic. It’s a place we’ve been many times and hope to spend more time there in retirement. Beautiful country with very nice people! And we have always felt safe there as well.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 🙏🏾.

  • @TvZae
    @TvZae หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I honestly enjoy your content because of the Dominican experience, but I also appreciate your mindset and how articulate you are with your thoughts. I truly believe that some ignorant people who just type away could learn a thing or two by watching your channel. You make something that could seem complex appear very simple.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate that brother. I'm honored to have received this compliment. Thank you.

    • @TvZae
      @TvZae หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JayAbroad you’re welcome brother, thank you for always providing substance. 💯

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great explanation and I LOVE that you put a handle on all those women who would have looked after you. Miss So&So. Thats respect. 👍🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm from the south. We were brought up with respect.

  • @da-sources699
    @da-sources699 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey whats up brother, your videos are extremely inspirational and educational, i been traveling there for 15 years and like you and others have come to find out this really a breath of fresh air

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks man. Glad they have been helpful.

    • @da-sources699
      @da-sources699 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @JayAbroad keep up the good work brother,, I'm also from Miami so ya got my support 💯..

  • @rvairplanesrd
    @rvairplanesrd หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have common sense every where you go, no matter, it’s the key.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @rafaelpena8139
    @rafaelpena8139 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    James, you got it so right when you say that dominic ans do not talk about race. I would say that at Least in 75% of Dominican families tere are all types of shades and we all love each other.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts🙏🏾

  • @coolsheatingacservices7375
    @coolsheatingacservices7375 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Stay positive and keep your head up Bro!!! 👍👍

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always!💪💪

  • @walkcastro8195
    @walkcastro8195 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey bro I love you channel I am Dominican and I never going to any barrio I don't need to go to those places you are right 100%

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said👌🏾

  • @rafaelpena8139
    @rafaelpena8139 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I,ve been in aventura mall. My favorite mal in Broward is the Sawgrass

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sawgrass is nice. It's huge too.

  • @Dee-pj7hh
    @Dee-pj7hh หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    James your on point again. You know a few Saturdays ago I was talk to one of my sisters from New York on the phone. The conversation came up again about my decision to move to the DR. Panic in her voice. You better know what you doing, you better think about the healthcare in the US versus the DR. Blah blah blah. I took a minute and explain to her my preparation, and all the DR offers , she calm down. People just use old washed up cycled opinions about the DR , most have never been here. Great analysis James. I agree with everything you said. 👍👍👍

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yep that's the case. Most Americans can wrap their head around any country being better than the US because all the propaganda about America being the greatest country in the world.

  • @gdelacruzjr
    @gdelacruzjr หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The neighborliness in DR is 100% one of my favorite things. People actually speak and help each other. You actually see your neighbors often too. I feel like we work so much in America that I go can go 6 weeks without seeing my neighbors and we're actually pretty cool with each other. America just keeps ppl busy in a bad way

  • @dinerotranquilo
    @dinerotranquilo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We need this work fam 💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @RolandoPolancoceballos
    @RolandoPolancoceballos หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I understand that the video compares Aventura Mall and Agora Mall, highlighting the differences in safety. It's heartbreaking to hear about the shootings in the US and the impact they have. On a positive note, it's great to hear that in the Dominican Republic, politics don't break families and friendships, and there's a strong sense of community where everyone supports each other.

  • @wilfleurissaint7247
    @wilfleurissaint7247 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love you’re videos and I like to talk to you. My wife and I are planning on moving there and we’re probably going to need your help, your positive input is a big plus already because my wife doesn’t speak any Spanish and we have three children, please let me when is a good time to chat, much love to you, peace and prosperity to you as well.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks bro for supporting the channel glad you enjoy the content. If you have questions you can always email me at iamjayabroad@gmail.com or if you need to speak to me directly, you can book a consultation
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  • @mmafan3
    @mmafan3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never feel unsafe in the DR, nor as a black man that grew up in the south, a threat because of my skin color. I did mention my interactions with the police there, I don't feel anxious like I do in the states BUT, cross the line I'm sure you could have a bad day but they seem to not want to take it that far unless necessary.
    As far as the community goes, I also had the Mrs Smith, Davis Brown etc would babysit and feed me when Mom needed, but they could also spank you if needed, lol and without repercussions. Mom would also leave me with a couple of the cashiers in the department store while she shopped. This was back in the 60s, 70s. Times have changed for sure.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep, them are the old days and good times.

    • @mmafan3
      @mmafan3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JayAbroad yes sir

  • @Bella.mikalove718
    @Bella.mikalove718 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Third week in Santo Domingo. Taking things slow but enjoying it all. There are some things that are different that I am adjusting to, but not deal breakers. D.R has been good for me. Love yours and wifes videos, been watching for months as preping for this journey.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There is an adjustment period. I was the same way but as you said nothing is a deal breaker for me. Thanks for supporting our channels. Keep enjoying yourself🙏🏾

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welcome go to my country.
      Breath deep. If you're in Santo Domingo, don't let the traffic overwhelm you. Try the metro at quiet times. Go to la zonal colonial, have some presidente (beer) if you drink, sit at a colmado where they play dominoes. The enviroment is just peaceful all together and can't compare to U.S.

  • @kimberlainejohnson7788
    @kimberlainejohnson7788 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks so very much for sharing! I’m thinking of leaving the US and I will be visiting DR and putting it on my list of possibilities 😍🤩

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're welcome. Definitely come visit and see if its right for you. 🙏🏾

  • @vernonedmonds8596
    @vernonedmonds8596 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    All that was mentioned was Poetic Gospel and most eloquently sermon 👏 as well as for me, all true

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, unc!

  • @felixjosesuarez
    @felixjosesuarez หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are so right about politics in the D.R. In fact, Dominicans seem to be united in the idea of not trusting any politician regardless of the party. 😆

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That is true. I can admit to that. That I've heard. They say it together and go back to drinking Presidentes...lol

    • @DCampusano1
      @DCampusano1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True lol.. Todos son la misma M 😂

  • @shantinu3059
    @shantinu3059 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    In DR, we talk about a family not biracial or diverse. We just a family looking just at a family not appearances.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

  • @shantinu3059
    @shantinu3059 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Jay you are a person who is able to think and analyze . Above all, you are respectful. I applaud your content, qualities, and the way of handling different topics.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that. Thanks 👍🏾

  • @luiscruz3698
    @luiscruz3698 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This guy is amazing great perspective in his content That’s why I never stop watching him 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you. This is much appreciated 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Levelupmedia2.0
    @Levelupmedia2.0 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yall triggered Jay today 😂😂Everything you said!!! Safety, politics, community, race and police interaction!!! Who wouldn't want to live without those things being corrupted!!!💯👊🏾👍🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😅😅

  • @Justadudeontheinternett
    @Justadudeontheinternett หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I agree 1,000%. I’ve been here in Santo Domingo for almost 8 weeks now to see if I really want to move here and I don’t even want to go back to get rid of my stuff 😂. This place is amazing, the atmosphere and vibe of the city is so calm and relaxing. I can’t wait to move permanently in February. Keep up the great content bro 💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yessiiirr. Glad you're a witness to what I'm saying. I know you are enjoying yourself bro💪🏾💪🏾

    • @DCampusano1
      @DCampusano1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where are you from?

  • @Levelupmedia2.0
    @Levelupmedia2.0 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Regarding you feeling safe i think people just wanna throw shade on your shine, just coz they don't feel the same!!! Go ahead do your thing brother 👊🏾👊🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Thanks bro💪🏾

  • @ParteraQuisqueyana
    @ParteraQuisqueyana หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In the DR I learned from my family that the vote is secret and that talking about politics in social gatherings is bad taste. I’m fed up with US politics; it never ends, there’s always a “surprise.” It’s draining, to say the least; the news are more of a huge negative entertainment industry than trying to inform people. In the DR people care more about having basic problems solved. Unfortunately, many expats and American-Dominican diaspora are trying really hard to push the race talk in our country.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great points. Thanks for sharing. I agree.

  • @maritzagonzalez1878
    @maritzagonzalez1878 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👍

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏾

  • @luisabramson4957
    @luisabramson4957 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It has always struck me funny that by telling people you're at ease, you make them feel uneasy. There's no safe heaven on earth; crimes have been committed at the Vatican, and swept under the rug, to put it in perspective; the only safe heaven is the real Heaven up above, to those who believe. We feel safer, freer, and more relaxed here, compared to other countries in the region; and remember, everything is relative. Great video, bro

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm find it funny too, Luis. Thanks for sharing your feedback 👊🏾

  • @taino4281
    @taino4281 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are correct, im in my 40s, and we never spoke about peoples race at home or amongst friends, we don’t care about those things.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's Black Americans who push this narrative for whatever reason. Never heard my wife or her family talk about this. There are all shades on my wife's family.

  • @georgicarrasco6394
    @georgicarrasco6394 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    That right Dominicans say " me no black me Dominican". Black, white, brown Dominicans don't identify by rece or color only as Dominican, but many Americans don't get it. You and Jamie Gruber are my favorite youtuber.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      They don't get it. Honestly they don't want to understand it. It helps keep the narrative going. It's obvious why Dominicans say this.

    • @Oshoorts
      @Oshoorts หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That's right, but the truth is that most Dominicans who say this "I am not black" what they mean is "I am not Haitian" because of the history we have, Haiti invaded the Dominican Republic, they were 22 very easy years for Dominicans and their culture, sometimes they express themselves that way, because they want to get as far away as possible from Haitian culture, despite the fact that many Dominicans are married or have children with Haitians. and for some reason the world insists that Haitians and Dominicans are the same people, but the truth is that they are not.

    • @nelsonceballos1637
      @nelsonceballos1637 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you got the point !!!!!......gracias!!!

    • @DeathSentryCoH
      @DeathSentryCoH หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Married to a Jamaican woman..she says the same about Jamaican culture.. unfortunately when you come to the U.S., EVERYTHING is about race, not culture. Even issues with police brutality, you could have two Dominicans standing next to each other and they will pick out the one that has more african features sadly. While I know the U.S. has many opportunities, it must be beautiful to be in your country and just be a human being, not a race.

    • @rafaelaugustocaneloruiz6009
      @rafaelaugustocaneloruiz6009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@georgicarrasco6394 let me tell you something about Dominican society. The first colony of the Spanish Empire in the 15th century was what is today the Dominican Republic and the first time that Spain brought slaves was in 1503 (the black part of Dominican society does not come from Haiti) when Spain discovered the immensity of the American continent it practically abandoned the island of Hispaniola to its fate, leaving the Creoles, mulattoes and slaves on the island. There was a lot of poverty and the only way to get out of it was through trade between the different peoples of the island. Later there was a great deal of miscegenation among all of them. It is important to emphasize this because in the Spanish colony the one drop rule did not exist and interracial marriage was allowed. Dominicans have literally been marrying different ethnicities and races for more than 400 years, in the 20th century this was prohibited in the USA, in 1606 the devastations of Osorio happened and there was a demonstration against this measure and it was practically the first recorded protest by the creoles of the island who had already been mixing what was created for more than a century was the sentiment of protecting the land where you were born, in 1621 it was the first time that the Spanish crown used the term Dominican, practically referring to the Creole people of the island of Hispaniola, which was made up of the descendants of the Spaniards who stayed on the island, the few Tainos who survived and the blacks. The problem with African Americans is that they want to extrapolate the reality experienced in the English colonies, such as the One Drop Rule and the prohibition of marriage between races, apartheid , to the entire world. They think that this was the reality everywhere. There was certainly slavery in Spain, but it was very different from the English and French colonies. In short, Dominican society is united by the culture and the land that saw it born, and that is what has created its identity as a society.

  • @taino4281
    @taino4281 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It all comes down to how safe you and your family feel when you sit at a restaurant, a mall, a movie theater. Unfortunately, and sadly when i go out in the US, even in a restaurant i make sure to sit facing the door of the restaurant, the paranoia of someone entering the place guns in hands no longer allows me to enjoy the time when i go out. That anxiety takes of way the quality of life.

    • @ParteraQuisqueyana
      @ParteraQuisqueyana หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I rarely go to Walmart, but when I go, I just pray for protection. Going to the supermarket shouldn’t be a potentially deadly task 😐

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts💯

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, that's crazy.

    • @rosettyromero219
      @rosettyromero219 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is my husband. Always facing the door. Always ready 😢

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rosettyromero219 insane 🤔

  • @kah4325
    @kah4325 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How is your español coming along? Practice, practice, and more practice. You are saying words in español with a ‘Bama accent 🤣

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😅😅

  • @skbproductionsllc3557
    @skbproductionsllc3557 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in the DR right now doing my thing.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessiiirr I know you are enjoying yourself 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @diosjesus6254
    @diosjesus6254 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think the law here USA is getting weaker. I don’t know what happened to USA.

  • @solentricxinc.9944
    @solentricxinc.9944 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm 🇩🇴 living in houston and during elections in DR we're still be drinking together no matter who you vote for🎉❤ . And yes is classism in 🇩🇴.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts💯

  • @jersonsw
    @jersonsw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is not a perfect country because we have big issues like driving (just to mention something I hate about here :|), but the country is growing and I hope that someday this issue no longer exists if we do things fine.
    We do have other issues as other countries do, but we dominicans love living here and we wouldn't never consider moving to another country if we'd have a more opportunities. Anyway, I think the country is moving in the right direction and things will get better over time.
    I have the opportunity to move to the US, but I still willing to do business here and continue living in my country!
    Everyone who wants to come to our country in peace, respecting our migratory laws and willing to make this country a better place to everyone, please come.

    • @ParteraQuisqueyana
      @ParteraQuisqueyana หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are doing well by staying in the DR. I’m moving back soon.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said brother. The country is moving in the right direction for sure.

  • @khalidelshabazz4020
    @khalidelshabazz4020 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree with you J, my friend did the same thing you stated he brought up the per capita lol
    People laugh at me because I want to leave the matrix

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I laugh at them for wanting to stay in the US...😅

  • @solentricxinc.9944
    @solentricxinc.9944 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Voting is private😂😂

  • @patrickjlouis6651
    @patrickjlouis6651 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bro the anologies you made early in the video was on point, if I say his tall doesn't make me short. The breath of fresh air your talking about i experience when i am there as well, i still maintain a level of awareness but I'm more at Peace...And Yo I agree with some of the comments about the background music... fire 🔥

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate that, brother✊🏾✊🏾

    • @patrickjlouis6651
      @patrickjlouis6651 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JayAbroad For sure .....

  • @cduran110
    @cduran110 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Always like before watching. Hoping to make it to DR so my littles can have a better childhood than the US.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks fam. Hope you can make it here🙏🏾

  • @lalcantara18
    @lalcantara18 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In USA even driving to work is dangerous too many entitled drivers my eyes going in circles by the time i get back home 😂 in fact i hate driving i never tought i would be saying that in 40 years driving man can't wait to retired in DR. Trigger people in US is insane

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've seen videos in the US where road rage can end up deadly.

  • @mercedesgalvan2926
    @mercedesgalvan2926 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even the barrios are safe. Don't believe the hype. Everything of ill nature that takes place in D.R. depends on who you become involve with or your own deeds. Even the Haitian situation is not as bad as they say. Excellent video. Individuality has become a sickness. It was about family and the unity of the community. That entire situation about color is disgusting and played out. Who cares what you are. Folks tell me that they are 4% Indian and 17% Irish. It's all irrelevant and bullshit.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree to a certain extent about the barrios at least to the ones I've been in and walked around. I've walked around Cristo Rey and Guaricanos and never felt any threat. I cant speak for the others. I agree with 1000% of what you said. And yes the color/race talk is so played out. Nobody cares.

  • @HTG444
    @HTG444 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Alabama, Tennessee is on ground in Santiago. Day 8: Safe, Cellphone sim’d up and Banreservas paperwork complete without any Spanish outside of google translator. Heading your way next month. 🙌 30 day AirBnB with utilities & internet is less than 1/2 of my rent was in TN. Both you and your wife’s guidance has made this transition smooth as can be. 💪 Many blessings Bro!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's awesome bro. Glad you are enjoying yourself.

  • @iamafrederic9358
    @iamafrederic9358 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yes, in general I feel safe whenever I visit. Walking alone or with friends, doing whatever we're doing. Why go to the barrio? I don't go to the slum here at home. IJS

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly, who wants to visit the hood🤔

  • @FMPENA27
    @FMPENA27 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You were spitting out facts brother. People have to get off the fake American Dream that they have made the 🇺🇸 into. It’s priceless to live in a country where people still have a sense for humanity like in the DR.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @Tj123-h4f
    @Tj123-h4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with your trainer America is not safe and people say mass shootings are gang violence which is partly true but most of it is random violence and you can be at the wrong place at the wrong time!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true...

  • @autobotdiva9268
    @autobotdiva9268 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    everywhere has crime but i bet your blood pressure is perfect
    im so sick and tired of american politics, its unreal

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I live here and I'm sick of American politics.. lol! I can imagine living there.

  • @angeltechnology
    @angeltechnology หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A lot of haters brother .

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

  • @angeltechnology
    @angeltechnology หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be careful with the chapis lol

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm a married man, I have ZERO use for a chapi💯

  • @RodolfoHernandez-m8b
    @RodolfoHernandez-m8b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Over the years newyork city has so many pasola and motorcycles to . but teenagers so crazy driving

  • @michaelmorton2705
    @michaelmorton2705 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like your perspecrive regarding living in the Dominican Republic and the United States.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, I appreciate it 🙏🏾

  • @almerichendricks5425
    @almerichendricks5425 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Facts

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

  • @RodolfoHernandez-m8b
    @RodolfoHernandez-m8b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello jay . jay are you crazy driving in Dominican Republic . becarefull with motorcycle.

  • @almerichendricks5425
    @almerichendricks5425 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    nice background music

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks bro. 💪🏾

  • @ibe5528
    @ibe5528 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keep up the good work 💪.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, will do!

  • @marcoacevedo469
    @marcoacevedo469 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm colombian but y Love R.D I'm with you i like they culture, food ,and people

  • @pedromarte8557
    @pedromarte8557 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful content jay Im glad you feel that way here🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏respect 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that

  • @luisgomez74
    @luisgomez74 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    New subscriber. I totally with you 100%

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, I appreciate it 🙏🏾

  • @Kipperhub
    @Kipperhub หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Brother, I really appreciate that you call things as they are. I’m Black, and I’m proud of it. But more than anything, I’m Dominican. In my 27 years, I’ve never felt discrimination in my country. I’ve never felt the need to go around saying I’m Black, playing the victim, or feeling inferior. No! I’m Dominican, and that’s it. It hurts to see how the U.S., being the world’s greatest power, is in such decline. There’s no leadership, and it seems like a lot of young people just want anarchy-vandalizing businesses and playing the race card.
    Bro, I have to say, I live in a neighborhood (Herrera) where, yes, there’s crime. But it’s not like you’re constantly afraid someone’s going to hurt you or take your stuff. And on the other hand, sure, the DR isn’t perfect-obviously. There are definitely some racist people, but it’s not the norm. Now, what we do have a lot of here in the DR is classism. Pure and simple classism. But I’ve also learned to live with it. I don’t go around complaining or acting like a victim; I keep living, enjoying life, and keeping my faith in God.

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. Thanks for sharing this perspective. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

    • @Endlichweihnachten
      @Endlichweihnachten หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ...in DR 💰 talks...🎉

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Endlichweihnachten Facts! All that other "ish" is distraction. You got bread, you good in DR.

  • @Gruddy.Fitness
    @Gruddy.Fitness หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You got me thinking about moving to DR 🌴! I went to Santo Domingo and Monte Plata a few years back and loved it!! The food and the people are amazing💪 👑🥭

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cool, you never know it might be the place for you.

  • @YWilliams-t7b
    @YWilliams-t7b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your 100% true brother i feel the same!!!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💪🏾💪🏾

  • @norriscaines6854
    @norriscaines6854 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent content!

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much appreciated, brother.

  • @rodwarrentv
    @rodwarrentv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great Video My Friend! 👏🏾

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank bro💪🏾💪🏾

  • @henryvasquez1814
    @henryvasquez1814 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with 90% of all you said , I am glad you feel like that in my country. Just wanted to point out that Dominicans are very passionate about politics, at least those from Early Millenials to previous generations, and they can definitely boxed you based on your political views, but a good thing is that after all we remain close to each other

  • @dagobertoveras4712
    @dagobertoveras4712 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good points bro. Stay bless

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, you too!

  • @solarspear27
    @solarspear27 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Deep talk! ❤

    • @JayAbroad
      @JayAbroad  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts💯