As a male viewer, wine about it has honestly given me great insight in how to better treat my significant other and friends, qt and Mayas wisdom has helped me through some tough times
@ImAmirus that would be crazy to do it on everyone, to be fair some of the opinions don't apply to me at all. But sometimes I hear similar situations and hear qts and Mayas hindsight of those situation and that hindsight is usually really good! I also don't have a lot of close female friends like that, so to also hear a woman's perspective on certain things makes me more mindful when I do talk to the friends I do have. Sorry for the long reply
I was on the receiving end of a girl drawing smiley faces on my hand, at the time I was convinced there was no chemistry, looking back this was the purest form of flirting I’ve ever encountered
Phrase: "Hi, how are you?" QT: I think thats fine Maya: But what about if they are like kind of acquaintances at the gym that say hi to each other because they work out at the same times and they run into each other going into the dressing rooms and he looks her up and down and says "hi how are you?" but with the subtle implication that he's asking about her body and not just an innocent question...? QT: True, thats a Slip N'Slide Maya: Yeah QT: Yeah
"Yeah. So what? I am. I am insecure." Unironically powerful, even as a little bit of a joke. We're all at least a little bit insecure. Anyone who doesn't seem like it isn't being genuine.
I’m gonna be driving seven hours to go to the wine about it live show at twitch club, it’s gonna absolutely be worth it more than six regular episodes would be
I relate 1000% to Maya - I work in Fish and Wildlife and genuinely only know how to dress for working in the field. I panic any time I need to put on nice clothes.
i hardly look at someone and go "wow they're so pretty" but i spend the whole episode thinking "wow Maya is so pretty!!" girl i literally couldn't thake my eyes of you, you're slaying
She even looked good with short (close to buzzcut) hair. That's how you know when a women is naturally beautiful, they can look good with short hair. (I'm going off memory, but I'm pretty sure she had short hair when she was with mizkif. Hope I didn't just make all that up in my head)
i think maya is super stylish, i love it when she wears big ass pants and a little top, idk why she’s stressing about being cool for twitch con. like she has a great sense of fashion.
MAYA OUTFIT IDEA! big bug shirt with cute print BUT add like a mini skirt and boots and lots of jewelry to accessorize it and make it cute. it's fun and cutsie!!!
ok ok and IF you wear the bug overalls to twitch con, idk what they look like but maybe a cute top with puffy sleeves or something lacey with a color that matches the overalls. and then put your hair up into a half bun or something with colorful clips!
"How was your day" over "Good morning" and "did you eat today" was funny imo. Yes I'm a man so you can disregard it if you want but I feel like that is the one thing where the implication is that they really care to know what she did on her day. I think it should be on "That's fine" tier
"my mom said your beautifull" is absolutely crazy, by far the worst one, it mean that he do what he mom tells him when she dont like his current gf, and while all moms will say "isnt tiffany rlly pretty??" if she want tiffany as a daughter in law, Only scenario where bro let this sentence escape his mouth is when bro's midwestern conservartive godfearing mom picked out tiffany for her designer family and bro trynna dump u to make he mom happy, its just like when he trynna gift the right couch for his mommas nice living room. him saying this to anyone litterally means he gonna cheat on you with a couch cuz his mom told him to😭 plz walk away from this man child rn oke
im glad maya's hair color being trendy made her realize how cute it is. everytime she would say she hated the way its fading i was always so confused bc i think its such a pretty shade of brown
Great episode!!! Loved the tier list lmao even if I didn't agree with everything was still very entertaining! Would love to see this re-enacted live, polling the audience via hands raised or cheers lol
I have to say, it has been super eye opening and good to hear these things. You ladies have helped me be a better partner with all the insights. Thank you for putting in all the hard work!!!
I enjoyed all the scenarios that sprung up around the tier list. It demonstrates that in most cases, it is somewhat silly to say "this one thing is problematic if someone says it to someone else than their significant other." Context matters a lot. (That said, if the context is that these are texts, many of them can be somewhat alarming.) In spite of what our esteemed hosts seemed to think, there was really nothing to get worked up about in those takes. I also learned that I apparently flirt a bunch, because I very much prefer to type out emoticons. That may just be something to do with age though, I do have somewhere in the vicinity of ten years over QT.
the gas station i work at sells those shitty rose bears for like $25. very few people have actually purchased them after finding out the price, but the ones that have killed a piece of my soul
The 😀 vs :) shit is why I'm so glad I'm autistic, the people I want to be with don't care about the sort of stereotypical "tells" like whether someone I'm friends with uses an emoticon that's actually cute as opposed to some dead-eyed yellow image or if they draw things on me. Obviously we still have our own host of dating issues and there are situations where those things are definitely crossing the line, but I'm always taken aback by the extent to which the majority of (non-autistic) people rely on "evidence" for disloyal behavior without first assessing whether it makes sense for the specific relationship-I feel like it perpetuates the idea that people can't be as close of friends with the gender they're attracted to when in a relationship (which is a strange implication for bisexuals lmao), and it assumes a baseline lack of communication/transparency that I'm really grateful I haven't encountered myself
I’m gonna be honest I really don’t think what theyre talking about with the emojis has anything to do with being autistic or not, some people just read way too deeply into small inconsequential details regardless of whether they are neurotypical/divergent
a lot of me and my spouse's friend groups are autistic or otherwise neurodivergent, so checking up on each other and reminding each other "hey did you eat today" is just a super normal thing for us. i'm willing to admit i'm paranoid about some things, but asking a friend if she's eaten today isn't gonna set off any red flags
Emojis are a part of communication tho. you can have good communication through emojis it just depends on if you both understand it. Think of it like slang. Just because not everyone understands slang doesn't make it bad communication
Thanks for this episode where I found out that a girl I really liked in High school was apparently into me aswell because she sat next to me and always drew some stuff on my stuff or my arms and texted me with :) And my dumbass never asked her out...
I think me being queer makes me view the compliments on physical appearance differently bc if i have a bf if he cant compliment womens appearance then its only fair that i cant either n thats just not a life worth living. Its not me wanting to flirt, its me recognizing that women are beautiful n deserve to hear it more.
47:32 I (25f) usually use the “(:” in casual or professional communications, cause to me it’s drier than any emoji smiley… sorry ladies I promise I’m not a snake! I didn’t know!
Idk id be excited if I met a creator and they were in casual cloths, when people dress up a-lot its kind of intimidating 😅. Though I’m from the midwest so casual cloths are a staple.
54:35 call me a hater but I said that to a female friend of mine. I know her for like 10+ years at this point and I believe it. Kinda surprises me to hear someone say "Saying 'I feel like I can tell you anything' is inappropriate in a constellation of opposite gender"
we entered the twilight realm when it became about how many letters were at the end of a word in a text. no wonder I've been single for so long lmfao but QT affecting her vocal burn to make phrases sound more horny than they are is unmistakeble
"We have concepts of plans" 🤣👍
KKona CLAP
Hopefully some new cool sets
We love it when Maya gets political lol
Played her trump card there
@@omegadirective It's not even about politics, it's about sanity and insanity. And he who shall not be named is clearly insane.
The fact that Maya's boyfriend genuinely remembered what she wore last time is the craziest green flag I've ever heard of
I am so incredibly happy for her to find a flag so green that Ireland would be envious about it.
As a male viewer, wine about it has honestly given me great insight in how to better treat my significant other and friends, qt and Mayas wisdom has helped me through some tough times
If I had a significant other it would also be helping me. Two thumbs up for the girlies
@ImAmirus exactly, getting new perspective and opinions can help me see where other ppl are coming from
tragic
yo good for you dawg gaining new perspective is always a great thing in the long run
@ImAmirus that would be crazy to do it on everyone, to be fair some of the opinions don't apply to me at all. But sometimes I hear similar situations and hear qts and Mayas hindsight of those situation and that hindsight is usually really good! I also don't have a lot of close female friends like that, so to also hear a woman's perspective on certain things makes me more mindful when I do talk to the friends I do have. Sorry for the long reply
I was on the receiving end of a girl drawing smiley faces on my hand, at the time I was convinced there was no chemistry, looking back this was the purest form of flirting I’ve ever encountered
the bangs are so cute maya
audio listeners maya’s bangs and eyeliner are on point today
@@kucami1 her lighting setup however, still does her no favors
They are, she needs to stop putting her hair fully back with no bangs out, makes her look bald
NGL i'm not sure what bangs are
Real shit, they're SO cute
Phrase: "Hi, how are you?"
QT: I think thats fine
Maya: But what about if they are like kind of acquaintances at the gym that say hi to each other because they work out at the same times and they run into each other going into the dressing rooms and he looks her up and down and says "hi how are you?" but with the subtle implication that he's asking about her body and not just an innocent question...?
QT: True, thats a Slip N'Slide
Maya: Yeah
QT: Yeah
"Yeah. So what? I am. I am insecure." Unironically powerful, even as a little bit of a joke. We're all at least a little bit insecure. Anyone who doesn't seem like it isn't being genuine.
Maya has new hair every day and it’s always dope
i'm so hyped for maya&hasan panel, they always bounce off each other so well
"unless shes dead and you're grieving" 🤣
Hey girlie! me and my podcast host saw you from across the bathroom and just really liked your vibe :)))
this pod is so comfy idk why it just feels like such a safe space I love wednesdays
44:01 “UMMM” in PERFECT sync 😂😂
qt said we would be mad but bro not gonna lie. knowing the :) instead of the emoji means flirting is life changing shit. thank you
y'all are not insane at all. legitimately all of your points made sense to me.
Maya’s hair looks really nice this episode.
I’m gonna be driving seven hours to go to the wine about it live show at twitch club, it’s gonna absolutely be worth it more than six regular episodes would be
IT'S WINE ABOUT IT WEDNESDAY!!! Audio Listeners, we're getting a triple whammy this week! 2 IRL Wine About It episodes this week! What no wayyyy!
@thomasandrewclifford ahhh I'm so sorry, ᴵ'ˡˡ ˢᵖᵉᵃᵏ ˢᵒᶠᵗᵉʳ ᶦⁿ ᵗʰᵉ ᶠᵘᵗᵘʳᵉ ᵒ⁷
I relate 1000% to Maya - I work in Fish and Wildlife and genuinely only know how to dress for working in the field. I panic any time I need to put on nice clothes.
"My mom think you're beautiful" is definitely a move. Pretty sure I've used it before.
On unrelated note, my mom think you two are beautiful.
this whole tier list can basically be summarized as 'context matters'
Maya should wear the wedding dress she got at goodwill.
@@iwasnothere2 that would be so funny my god
Yes maybe dyed ooh so pretty
"There is no world, unless shes dead" is a crazy line from Maya 🤣
The bangs are sooo iconiccc! And the live show sounds so great, can't wait to watch it, have fun to all those going!
i hardly look at someone and go "wow they're so pretty" but i spend the whole episode thinking "wow Maya is so pretty!!" girl i literally couldn't thake my eyes of you, you're slaying
omg same!! something about her this episode :)
i think its the hair and lighting she's literally glowing ❤
@@ImAmirus tá maluco gringo? eu só tava expressando o quanto ela tá bonita, se você achou bizarro o problema tá com você.
@@ImAmirus what about you stop being a debate lord in the youtube comment section and get a job?
She even looked good with short (close to buzzcut) hair. That's how you know when a women is naturally beautiful, they can look good with short hair.
(I'm going off memory, but I'm pretty sure she had short hair when she was with mizkif. Hope I didn't just make all that up in my head)
i was driving home from work when you said to close my eyes and im now hospitalized thank you qt!!
from 30:00 on its actual classic wine about it whining about it and i am here for it
i think maya is super stylish, i love it when she wears big ass pants and a little top, idk why she’s stressing about being cool for twitch con. like she has a great sense of fashion.
was driving an 18 wheeler when you said close your eyes, i will be sueing you for the 19 car pile up and multiple casualties incurred
I have been using :) as a less-flirty alternative to 😊 since middle school and this broke my brain. I mean look how flirty this lil guy looks 😊
everyone i know who uses the 😊 in text messages is 35+ so i think that's why its unflirty to me
I almost never use emojis bc I have always thought they were cringe, I put :) in like 90% of my messages lol
@@endeityloon136fuck, I’m 42 and use it all the time!
@@endeityloon136wait has :) circled back to being popular it used to clock me as an old fart from the pre-emoji era lol
@@helloamtay:) exposes you’re millennial+, emoticons preceded emojis.
so excited for everyone to see qt and maya at twitchcon!
"keep in mind, they still share a trash can" lmao
44:19-45:22 needs to be a clip for the yt, I laughed and had to go find it again
MAYA OUTFIT IDEA! big bug shirt with cute print BUT add like a mini skirt and boots and lots of jewelry to accessorize it and make it cute. it's fun and cutsie!!!
ok ok and IF you wear the bug overalls to twitch con, idk what they look like but maybe a cute top with puffy sleeves or something lacey with a color that matches the overalls. and then put your hair up into a half bun or something with colorful clips!
As a member of your male audience, I for one, am grateful tat you have given me insight into how many signals I have completely misread.
"How was your day" over "Good morning" and "did you eat today" was funny imo. Yes I'm a man so you can disregard it if you want but I feel like that is the one thing where the implication is that they really care to know what she did on her day. I think it should be on "That's fine" tier
"She's such a spring/summer. I'm a fall/winter " omg they are *such* a cute couple ❤️
Love Maya’s deadpan responses to QTs dumb joke answers. Well deserved.
"my mom said your beautifull" is absolutely crazy, by far the worst one, it mean that he do what he mom tells him when she dont like his current gf, and while all moms will say "isnt tiffany rlly pretty??" if she want tiffany as a daughter in law, Only scenario where bro let this sentence escape his mouth is when bro's midwestern conservartive godfearing mom picked out tiffany for her designer family and bro trynna dump u to make he mom happy, its just like when he trynna gift the right couch for his mommas nice living room. him saying this to anyone litterally means he gonna cheat on you with a couch cuz his mom told him to😭 plz walk away from this man child rn oke
im glad maya's hair color being trendy made her realize how cute it is. everytime she would say she hated the way its fading i was always so confused bc i think its such a pretty shade of brown
This is why I watch this pod
Hi just chiming in to say I’m going to twitchcon but only on Friday! Excited to see y’all both at The Table :)
There’s a single pixel on mayas headset and I can’t get over it
Audio listeners, QT looks like a goddess today
Lets be real here, Lud isn’t messaging a girl this. He’s messaging Cdawg this 😂
55:50 😂😂😂
55:53 that pause lol
Really nice episode. Also, what QT said about Valkyrae on the Patreon episode is WILD!
What'd she say
this is the REALEST ep they just get it!
did you eat today is very common greeting/question in many countries that deal with food insecurity
Great episode!!! Loved the tier list lmao even if I didn't agree with everything was still very entertaining! Would love to see this re-enacted live, polling the audience via hands raised or cheers lol
I have to say, it has been super eye opening and good to hear these things. You ladies have helped me be a better partner with all the insights. Thank you for putting in all the hard work!!!
I enjoyed all the scenarios that sprung up around the tier list. It demonstrates that in most cases, it is somewhat silly to say "this one thing is problematic if someone says it to someone else than their significant other." Context matters a lot. (That said, if the context is that these are texts, many of them can be somewhat alarming.) In spite of what our esteemed hosts seemed to think, there was really nothing to get worked up about in those takes.
I also learned that I apparently flirt a bunch, because I very much prefer to type out emoticons. That may just be something to do with age though, I do have somewhere in the vicinity of ten years over QT.
“Did you eat today?” Is something I say because I’m trying to get food ideas
😂
Mayas hair looks nice
my first twitch con and I am such a qt and Maya girlie, I am very excited :) going to the live show too :):):):):):
Excited for the new logo and the new backdrops!!
Spoken for, straight, theater kid, raised by women here - I would LOVE to come wine about it any time. Genuinely seems like such a fun time
Zawg is NOT coming to wine about it💀💀💀💀
the gas station i work at sells those shitty rose bears for like $25. very few people have actually purchased them after finding out the price, but the ones that have killed a piece of my soul
The 😀 vs :) shit is why I'm so glad I'm autistic, the people I want to be with don't care about the sort of stereotypical "tells" like whether someone I'm friends with uses an emoticon that's actually cute as opposed to some dead-eyed yellow image or if they draw things on me. Obviously we still have our own host of dating issues and there are situations where those things are definitely crossing the line, but I'm always taken aback by the extent to which the majority of (non-autistic) people rely on "evidence" for disloyal behavior without first assessing whether it makes sense for the specific relationship-I feel like it perpetuates the idea that people can't be as close of friends with the gender they're attracted to when in a relationship (which is a strange implication for bisexuals lmao), and it assumes a baseline lack of communication/transparency that I'm really grateful I haven't encountered myself
Yeah y'all neurotypes are on something. All emojis mean you are over 50 and that's it.
I’m gonna be honest I really don’t think what theyre talking about with the emojis has anything to do with being autistic or not, some people just read way too deeply into small inconsequential details regardless of whether they are neurotypical/divergent
a lot of me and my spouse's friend groups are autistic or otherwise neurodivergent, so checking up on each other and reminding each other "hey did you eat today" is just a super normal thing for us. i'm willing to admit i'm paranoid about some things, but asking a friend if she's eaten today isn't gonna set off any red flags
Emojis are a part of communication tho. you can have good communication through emojis it just depends on if you both understand it. Think of it like slang. Just because not everyone understands slang doesn't make it bad communication
audio listeners maya looks amazing on the episode
Oh I am a dude, the typed smiley face is absolutely a go ahead lmao
Thanks for this episode where I found out that a girl I really liked in High school was apparently into me aswell because she sat next to me and always drew some stuff on my stuff or my arms and texted me with :) And my dumbass never asked her out...
This feels like a crystalization of every time a partner has woken up mad because of something I did in their dream.
I love this podcast for girls slayyy
tier list was valid dw
Using this episode to figure out if a girl is flirting with me
Just to back you guys up, I’ve been flirted with by a guy saying “no invite” and it was definitely flirting as we then dated lol
Male audience, I did in fact enjoy this episode lol
once leslie comes back i would love to see a guest episode! the vibes would be crazyyy
Amazing episode as always. The tierlist was good, i would of lowered a few things though. Some of the messages were a little sus.
As a chronically single male, I'm thankful cause I'm learning
I think me being queer makes me view the compliments on physical appearance differently bc if i have a bf if he cant compliment womens appearance then its only fair that i cant either n thats just not a life worth living. Its not me wanting to flirt, its me recognizing that women are beautiful n deserve to hear it more.
Yooo if we go to the wine about it live show and QT snapped at us, that would be soo sick
LETS GOOO GIRLS OMG slaaay best pod on yt
Those bangs bing bong... your haircut is so cute...
Big respect for vegan options at the live show 🙌
I’m crying an innocent remark maya finds a situation to make it weird but a clearly obvious remark maya is confused why QT doesn’t think it’s okay 😭😭😭
47:32 I (25f) usually use the “(:” in casual or professional communications, cause to me it’s drier than any emoji smiley… sorry ladies I promise I’m not a snake! I didn’t know!
”Did you eat today?” also feels like an insult
What a lovely episode
Dang.. Mya's nails are fricking awesome.
Don't watch QTs videos but have seen here in others. Didn't realize she is mad cute
😂😂 i'm dying "That's dope"
I always type out smileys because I am old
Idk id be excited if I met a creator and they were in casual cloths, when people dress up a-lot its kind of intimidating 😅. Though I’m from the midwest so casual cloths are a staple.
54:35
call me a hater but I said that to a female friend of mine. I know her for like 10+ years at this point and I believe it. Kinda surprises me to hear someone say "Saying 'I feel like I can tell you anything' is inappropriate in a constellation of opposite gender"
Qt ur hair is so pretty❤
Caleb Ludwig MADGE
Maya is so beautiful. She is just so undeniably beautiful 😍
I'm pretty sure the guy QT is referring to at 1:02:24 is the guy from the video with unc and kai during the latest Fear& ep
we entered the twilight realm when it became about how many letters were at the end of a word in a text. no wonder I've been single for so long lmfao but QT affecting her vocal burn to make phrases sound more horny than they are is unmistakeble
44:00 synchronised "Uhm"
Amazing podcast.
Respect for outing themselves 😄
They argue whether " you smell so good" is bad for a bf to say to another girl. But whatabout "you *taste* so good" 😆
Only because it was mentioned on the Kiki stream QT did with Poki, but QTs eyes REALLY are so blue
Loved this ep
yall are definitely NOT crazy, i would NOTTTT like my boyfriend saying most of these things 😭😭
52:01 not me maying the stupid Hoa Hoa Hoa 🎶 sound affect a second before maya xD
I'm excited to attend the second live show on Friday night.
Can't believe Maya's boyfriend's mom hasn't told him she finds QT beautiful