Being alone is so under rated. I am single and absolutely love it. I don't have to answer to anyone and I can just live my life and do my own thing. I am happy for those who want relationships, everyone should be happy for me!
I am a 20 year old college student and you ladies I literally saving my life every day. I have to a hour commute every day I turn on your podcast and you guys are like my besties thank you queens
Just got home after three weeks in hospital....I live alone and the glory of solitude after three weeks imprisoned next to someone who will not shut up is something I don't have the verbage to express. Loved your guest, she was glorious. Jennifer, my friend Alec is a medal winning pickleball player like you, and I shut down his conversations about this "sport" every chance I get. Keep up your good work, I can't tell you how much I missed your podcast while in hospital and how much I enjoyed binging on it when I got home.
Y’all have quickly rose to my favorite pod! Been stuck on some business travel this past week and have made it through roughly a third of your episodes in the last week 🤭 my favorite (justified) bitter betties
I totally agree with Pumps. I was way more lonely married than I have been since my divorce. I'm head over heels with me, and I don't think anyone else can live with me anymore.
Hi from Ireland, love this podcast and agree with Pumps that I'll never share my living space with anyone ever again! At 54 and single for 4 years after 18 years of marriage and two kids flown the nest... the peace is sacred!
OMG! I am going to listen to this at least 4 times! What a high-energy love fest! Elle, you are nonstop fun to listen to. You have the perfect "straight men" (sorry) to keep it going.
Regarding the bit about solitude, I think it comes down to how optional it is. If you don't have a solid community of friends, family, coworkers, etc, loneliness is very burdensome. It3s much more appealing when you know that you could meet up with a friend or expect your spouse to come home at some point
elle was so proud of her pickleball joke, was cracking up before she even finished talking. crossover i didn’t know i needed edit to add: if y’all want another sports media giant to talk to that i assume JJD loves i think it would be a blast to watch holly rowe shit talk with y’all
You ladies are the best thing I’ve found since I moved to western Oklahoma from Los Angeles (can you say fucking CULTURE SHOCK 😳) I think we might need to move closer to OKC lol if there are more people like you two❤❤❤
Omg this episode is what I needed as a working mom. I work I train mma I model and I have to be the mom doing everything perfect. You see these other moms doing everything at the school it gets hard. And it’s true the saying of work life balance is crap!!! Love yal!!❤
I live in New England and Elle was a sportscaster for our regional channel. She was my favorite and I was excited when she got called up to ESPN because clearly she was a star. However when Kobe Bryant died suddenly she did two things that have bothered me to this day. One, she coined the phrase 'girl mom' which has worn out it's welcome quicker than a gender reveal party. On a more serious note, she also helped continue galvanize his image while ignoring the fact that he was credibly accused of rape. Now she was far from the only one doing it so I would never hold her fully responsible. She was a small part of an entire industry that wasn't just reporting facts in a tragic accident but willfully adding to a legend of a person who had a very disturbing past that he never acknowledged or atoned for. I'm singling her out because of how much I used to admire her work. Whenever I see her now I can't help my mind from going back to that moment of time and how much it upset me. Fair or not, she is the to me figurehead of that moment and how media continues to fail victims of sexual assault, police brutality, and other assorted horrors. She talked about her and Kobe being parents of girls and as she was saying that I was wondering about the mother of the woman he raped and the victim herself. How must they have felt about all of the wonderful things being said about him after what he idi to their family? About how great and kind and nice and caring he was while the things said about that family were vile and he did nothing while he was alive to dissuade people from saying those things. I'm not a parent but I cannot fathom how devastated I'd be if I heard those things about him being such a great girl dad if he had done that to my daughter. Again, not blaming Elle for something Kobe did but it's something that has stayed on my mind this entire time. I encourage you all to read an article by Monica Hesse in the Washington Post entitled 'The Stories We Tell About Kobe Bryant.' It does a far better and more thorough job of saying what I have been trying to express.
I loved this episode - especially Elle's recognition of her privilege as a lighter, racially ambiguous women who will see rooms that a slew of Black women will not. I also want to gently challenge the ask that other people in liberal and social justice spaces "don't write off" supportive and open minded white folks. I agree, to an extent, and if this is a message for non-marginalized peoples. I don't think this messaging should be targeted at marginalized groups in social justice, liberal spaces. They in particular, have a right to leave rooms, and even interrogate rooms - even if filled with well meaning people. I am a Black professor at a PWI, and this is a central part of the conversations I have in the classroom - what allyship requires is discomfort and even space for rage, critique, and grievance.
I believe those who love their own company and are secure enough to never be lonely because they can choose to be around others if they want to but not afraid to be comfortable in their own skin.
SHE SAID THE THING, between 33:00-33:34 she said the thing that parents especially in southern USA have said about our community affairs . If you know you know & are of certain age.
I have lived in Oklahoma all my life and now have found in my senior twilight years, being alone is the only way to stay sane and safe in MAGA Oklahoma.
Ladies…please use this fabulous platform to continually encourage people to register to vote and then to actually vote. You’ve probably already thought about doing this….but please be the Taylor Swift of podcasting. BTW, Jen gets to be Taylor because she’s hot and has long blonde hair. Love to all you ladies. ❤❤❤
One of the best emergency alert message stories is about a group of Amish people got in trouble & shunned for having cell phones because they didnt mute their phones & the alert went off while they were in church or something. 😂
I love this podcast so much. As someone who loves Jesus but isn’t absolutely insane with judgement and hypocrisy, and believes in the separation of church and state, I applaud and THANK you for shitting on crazy christians. Particularly in politics. They make me sick and they are genuinely not even in line with the Bible.
I’ve Had It listeners someone help me!!! What episode did Jennifer make the comment about the kangaroos swimming across the ocean to get to Noah’s Ark?? I need to watch this back it’s VERY important
Im just reliving what I would say to that guy, the NERVE! "OH, you think you're some prize!? I have 2 kids under 10 yrs old and I AM on TV, Are YOU?! No MF I didn't think so. Sit TF DOWN!
Trust me teachers don't want any parents in the schools either! We don't want to do these events, we don't want to see parents there either! It's bad enough for children come there
I'm extremely pleased to let Jane and Dolly know that Leg Warmers are in fact back in fashion!
Being alone is so under rated. I am single and absolutely love it. I don't have to answer to anyone and I can just live my life and do my own thing. I am happy for those who want relationships, everyone should be happy for me!
I am a 20 year old college student and you ladies I literally saving my life every day. I have to a hour commute every day I turn on your podcast and you guys are like my besties thank you queens
Pumps being the sports loving lesbian we all love and deserve, god bless you Diana
Just got home after three weeks in hospital....I live alone and the glory of solitude after three weeks imprisoned next to someone who will not shut up is something I don't have the verbage to express. Loved your guest, she was glorious. Jennifer, my friend Alec is a medal winning pickleball player like you, and I shut down his conversations about this "sport" every chance I get. Keep up your good work, I can't tell you how much I missed your podcast while in hospital and how much I enjoyed binging on it when I got home.
Glad you are home! I am binge watching while sick at home/working from home
Jennifer: is this a Fox News crowd?
Pumps: ……….👁️👄👁️……
I’m dead! 😂
It's like a light lightbulb moment
Excellent episode! Elle is quick, hilarious and brilliant. Easily one of my favorite guests. Love yall for continuing to broach these conversations.
Thanks for my Tuesday chuckle Jane and Dolly 🤣🫶🏾
I love how much more SAns I'm seeing here
I did not know who Elle Duncan was, but now I want to! One of the best episodes
Elle Duncan makes me wanna watch sports now 😂 She is so amazing, I’m so glad y’all have introduced me to her 🖤
As the originator of Princess Diangela, Kiley made my WHOLE life with the shoutout
Yo. Elle’s opening monologue was some REAL SHIT! Go her!
Oh gosh I freaken loved when Elle Duncan let it rip with the I’ve had it with the pickleball! She freaken made my day!! Love you girls
Another great episode. The chemistry is perfect.
I didn’t know who Elle was before this and now I love her. This might be my favorite episode!
Y’all have quickly rose to my favorite pod! Been stuck on some business travel this past week and have made it through roughly a third of your episodes in the last week 🤭 my favorite (justified) bitter betties
I've had it with You tube reading my mind, knowing exactly which episode I need to listen to that day. Amazing! 🎉
I totally agree with Pumps. I was way more lonely married than I have been since my divorce. I'm head over heels with me, and I don't think anyone else can live with me anymore.
Elle delivery at 44:42 was emaculate. Like saying the joke with a straight face and then explose in laughter. That segment had me dying from laughing
So well said @30:38 I'm now a fan of Elle Duncan!!
Hi from Ireland, love this podcast and agree with Pumps that I'll never share my living space with anyone ever again! At 54 and single for 4 years after 18 years of marriage and two kids flown the nest... the peace is sacred!
i LOVE the “uh huh!” sound Pumps makes when she hears something shocking or rude! it’s priceless
The guest lineup has been IMMACULATE!!!
Jen and Angie, you are amazing, very intelligent and educated. Thank you!
Another great episode. Time flies when watching it.
I've been looking forward to this all week 😊🎉
Thank you all for keeping the message alive!
Husband was on a flight with Jaime Lee Curtis and a man made some comment to her to the effect that she looks younger in photos. Unbelievable.
Holy shit
I love being alone and living by myself (with my CAT 😂). I'm 36 and I love my own company more than ever. Love you ladies so much. ❤
This was one of the best podcast episodes I’ve watched in the last few years. Damn, funny, thoughtful and thought provoking. Bravo!
OMG! I am going to listen to this at least 4 times! What a high-energy love fest! Elle, you are nonstop fun to listen to. You have the perfect "straight men" (sorry) to keep it going.
Regarding the bit about solitude, I think it comes down to how optional it is. If you don't have a solid community of friends, family, coworkers, etc, loneliness is very burdensome. It3s much more appealing when you know that you could meet up with a friend or expect your spouse to come home at some point
Absolutely the best episode ever, loved it!
Great guest! So enjoyable!
Fantastic episode yet again. Keep them coming, and keep spreading the right messages ❤
elle was so proud of her pickleball joke, was cracking up before she even finished talking. crossover i didn’t know i needed
edit to add: if y’all want another sports media giant to talk to that i assume JJD loves i think it would be a blast to watch holly rowe shit talk with y’all
Ladies, y’all have done it again! I’m crying laughing over here!!! ❤❤
I relish seeing the love these hosts have for each other☺
Love this episode. Thanks for the laughs
Petition to get Judge Judy on the show!!!
You ladies are the best thing I’ve found since I moved to western Oklahoma from Los Angeles (can you say fucking CULTURE SHOCK 😳) I think we might need to move closer to OKC lol if there are more people like you two❤❤❤
Omg this episode is what I needed as a working mom. I work I train mma I model and I have to be the mom doing everything perfect. You see these other moms doing everything at the school it gets hard. And it’s true the saying of work life balance is crap!!! Love yal!!❤
To be fair, Jennifer did not know that Elle Duncan’s tongue is made of 100% cold stainless steel when she brought up pickle ball.
I live in New England and Elle was a sportscaster for our regional channel. She was my favorite and I was excited when she got called up to ESPN because clearly she was a star. However when Kobe Bryant died suddenly she did two things that have bothered me to this day. One, she coined the phrase 'girl mom' which has worn out it's welcome quicker than a gender reveal party. On a more serious note, she also helped continue galvanize his image while ignoring the fact that he was credibly accused of rape. Now she was far from the only one doing it so I would never hold her fully responsible. She was a small part of an entire industry that wasn't just reporting facts in a tragic accident but willfully adding to a legend of a person who had a very disturbing past that he never acknowledged or atoned for. I'm singling her out because of how much I used to admire her work. Whenever I see her now I can't help my mind from going back to that moment of time and how much it upset me. Fair or not, she is the to me figurehead of that moment and how media continues to fail victims of sexual assault, police brutality, and other assorted horrors. She talked about her and Kobe being parents of girls and as she was saying that I was wondering about the mother of the woman he raped and the victim herself. How must they have felt about all of the wonderful things being said about him after what he idi to their family? About how great and kind and nice and caring he was while the things said about that family were vile and he did nothing while he was alive to dissuade people from saying those things. I'm not a parent but I cannot fathom how devastated I'd be if I heard those things about him being such a great girl dad if he had done that to my daughter. Again, not blaming Elle for something Kobe did but it's something that has stayed on my mind this entire time. I encourage you all to read an article by Monica Hesse in the Washington Post entitled 'The Stories We Tell About Kobe Bryant.' It does a far better and more thorough job of saying what I have been trying to express.
Blasphemy!! She is forever Pumps!!! ❤
I love Elle; She used to be on radio in Atlanta!!
Elle duncan is one my fav. Nicely done Jane & dolly
I love you all. Please keep it up 💗
My my my I've really grown to love these two after watching the pod with Katya. xoxo remember god is always watching!
Here's to those "pockets of sophistication in red states"! From a Chicago geezer male, you two are fighting the good fight against ignorance.
1:54 full transparency I’m on an edible at the moment. I rewind back to this part twice because “Are they educated” just sent me!! 😂😂
What a fun and effortless episode, ladies. Adored her! She is so damn funny!
Such a good episode!
Pumps is such a treasure. I feel like I would enjoy her company.
I loved this episode - especially Elle's recognition of her privilege as a lighter, racially ambiguous women who will see rooms that a slew of Black women will not. I also want to gently challenge the ask that other people in liberal and social justice spaces "don't write off" supportive and open minded white folks. I agree, to an extent, and if this is a message for non-marginalized peoples. I don't think this messaging should be targeted at marginalized groups in social justice, liberal spaces. They in particular, have a right to leave rooms, and even interrogate rooms - even if filled with well meaning people. I am a Black professor at a PWI, and this is a central part of the conversations I have in the classroom - what allyship requires is discomfort and even space for rage, critique, and grievance.
I believe those who love their own company and are secure enough to never be lonely because they can choose to be around others if they want to but not afraid to be comfortable in their own skin.
SHE SAID THE THING, between 33:00-33:34 she said the thing that parents especially in southern USA have said about our community affairs . If you know you know & are of certain age.
Elle Duncan is absolutely stunning...wow
I have lived in Oklahoma all my life and now have found in my senior twilight years, being alone is the only way to stay sane and safe in MAGA Oklahoma.
That would make Kilie Lily Tomlin and that totally makes sense! You all need to do 9 to 5 for Halloween
Kiley LOL. She was right , no one call spell her name haha
What logical human being believes that the emergency alert will make you into a Zombie!?!!
She was great.
Preach!!! I’d pay actual money to take a bath alone!!!
Agree, being alone is awesome.
I agree about thick skin, I think when people call for death…. That’s when I’m like…. Okay, too far.
Ladies…please use this fabulous platform to continually encourage people to register to vote and then to actually vote. You’ve probably already thought about doing this….but please be the Taylor Swift of podcasting. BTW, Jen gets to be Taylor because she’s hot and has long blonde hair. Love to all you ladies. ❤❤❤
Omg i loved this episode so much!!! The power moms 🤣🤣🤣 ive had it
Pumps looks extra incredible this episode!
Great show!
One of the best emergency alert message stories is about a group of Amish people got in trouble & shunned for having cell phones because they didnt mute their phones & the alert went off while they were in church or something. 😂
Jane and Dolly! Does that mean Lily Tomlin (Kiley) is producing?! Sounds like a hit to me! 😂❤
A hit!
TRUTH!
Jessica and Judge Judy Diana 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Pumps won this episode lol. Elle dunking on pickleball was sooooo funny!
Leg warmers are back!!!!
Great guest!
I love this podcast so much.
As someone who loves Jesus but isn’t absolutely insane with judgement and hypocrisy, and believes in the separation of church and state, I applaud and THANK you for shitting on crazy christians. Particularly in politics. They make me sick and they are genuinely not even in line with the Bible.
Pickle ball? Fuck thaaaaaaat 😂😂😂😂😂
Also when did Jane Fonda start playing pickle ball?
10 Stars!
The pajama line needs to be called Pajayjays
29:56 oh no, not Bill Maher! 🤮
Thumb thugs….I’m dead!!! 😂😂
Dolly Pumps is officially Angie's Drag name!
Dolly Pumps and Pickes D' Ball
Dolly Pumpers
I’ve Had It listeners someone help me!!! What episode did Jennifer make the comment about the kangaroos swimming across the ocean to get to Noah’s Ark?? I need to watch this back it’s VERY important
It was the episode with jonathan van ness at around the 6 minute mark
thank you soooo much you made my day!!! 😭
@@DelanieJones-p8t No problem!
@@riggamorrischanaround the 6 minute mark 😂I love you!❤
design name for the pj's: "WELCH WEAR"
Im just reliving what I would say to that guy, the NERVE! "OH, you think you're some prize!? I have 2 kids under 10 yrs old and I AM on TV, Are YOU?! No MF I didn't think so. Sit TF DOWN!
And for God's sakes Jennifer drop the pickleball. If we have to hear about pickleball one more time ... PS I love you
Trust me teachers don't want any parents in the schools either! We don't want to do these events, we don't want to see parents there either! It's bad enough for children come there
People do believe totally ridiculous things. Like: Water curves and we walked on the moon.
Bill Maher is an awful person. Can't watch him anymore. Thanks for taking one for the team! I've been a fan of Elle's for a long time..she's awesome!
Are y’all not posting the gals on the go episode??
Damn, what Home said she doesn’t wear underwear anymore I just about wrecked the car. Literally lost control for a little bit.
Pumps commando? Mind blown. 😊
Manifesting the Josh Welch Lesbian line of pajamas
I’ve been bragging leg warmers back and I’m 20 if that’s important
Angie's name getting longer by the week 'Angie pumps judge Judy dolly Parton Diana' hahaha
Please put a camera 🎥 on Kylie!!!! ❤️
I have some awesome under armor leg warmers Jenn- you’d Love them!