Postpartum Rehospitalization | Part 2 |of Labor and Delivery Story
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This was not depressing , this was a testimony that women are strong and moms are warriors ! Thank you for sharing this ❤
AMEN!!!
Amen
Preach it , All Moms are warriors💖 n some are jus Survivor warriors too, that live to testify to our Story ✔💯❗...
So thankful for you, Josh and baby. Keep taking care of you. Praying for your precious family. Hugs and love to you.Jil from South Carolina.
HA! And shows how we are not in control, but God sure is! ☺️👍
We can plan on being in a "safe space", but as the saying goes... pride comes before destruction! This was very humbling; indeed.
As a hospital nurse of 40 years and hearing your postpartum story I can tell you that you are a Superwoman! Don't doubt your initial choices, as complications can come with even a completely natural childbirth, it's how you handle these difficulties that matter. How you and Josh handled these problems show that you are going to be the best loving parents to Baby Acre.❤
Yes I agree they will make amazing parents.
I agree baby acre has the best parents! They are going to do amazing he is one blessed little guy
Kimberly this is not nice to new parents…. You could keep your opinion for yourself. I hope you have rest and you enjoy your baby to the max it is a wonderful experience to become a mother
@@PrincessAndMonkey Unhelpful, Un positive and untrue.
@Kimberly Clark and Family ANY WOMAN who gives life to another human being IS a superwoman! It's not easy, especially being a first time mom.
Speaking for the over 50,000 people who have watched this video in the first 5 hours since you posted it, please know that we want nothing more then to give you a hug and tell you it's going to be O.K. I'm so sorry you had such a rough time, but all you need is to look at your sweet baby to know God has a plan. Prayers and Congratulations!
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏🏻
SuperWoman!!! I delivered 5 sons, 3 with no meds. Was always afraid of epidurals for just that reason so I never had one. You are awesome in your strength, so you can do this without one too. This video was not depressing for a minute. Your presentation was spot on. I am 77 years old now and I think you are SuperWoman!!! I rejoice in your courage.
Love and prayers, the memories of pain will fade and you have such a precious treasure from God.
& another AMEN!
Becky, when you said you called your father and asked him to pray that you'll have the strength to breast feed your son I have to say it moved me to tears and I prayed in that moment for God to bless you immensely while in the throws of early motherhood.
Same! I was moved to tears several times during this video. Becky is just so sweet and deserves all the best!
Girl, I was crying too! I couldn't stand it.
I had tears running down my face, too.
bless you and your family❤
Me too. Oh my this video has me a mess. God bless you 💖
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us in your journey to motherhood, Becky. I know it wasn’t the start that you wanted but we all want to wrap you up in a huge hug of love.
Yes, we sure do! I had a spinal headache too, but it wasn’t after an epidural. It was after a spinal tap that couldn’t be completed until I had been poked more than a dozen times. They finally did my spinal tap under an x-ray machine but because of all the holes they poked I ended up with a spinal headache. So I definitely understand, you being a little more complicated than average I was one of the first women to receive a blood patch. Thankfully it worked for me but I did not know that I was having a spinal headache so it took me 10 days to reach out. At the time I had four kids, including a not quite two year old toddler , you are not kidding when you talk about excruciating pain I’m so glad you’re on the other side of it and now it’s time for you to sit back and get to know your son. Congratulations and virtual hugs from all of your many supporters here. We love you guys!
This is the nature of life, death and motherhood. We plan and God laughs.😂🤗
This!!! ❤️
@@RunninUpThatHillh amen!! There is no way to prepare for this time in life. Just go with the flow and pray! We have 2 grandbabies on the way. Both are first time Moms. They're like..yeah I don't need help. 🤷
“Sometimes you just need your mom.”
So true!
God bless your beautiful parents!❤
Amen!❤❤❤
Becky, this is your story so you can help other women who are going through this. You have explained things so well, anyone can understand it. Much better than some doctors would explain it. Now women who have an excruciating headache after an epidural can seek appropriate treatment because of you. We are all grateful for your teaching. Keep your positive, grateful attitude! It’s so refreshing! Congratulations to you and Josh!
Amen
It's one of the best videos I've ever seen! It breaks down a lot of barriers! Invaluable for new mothers.
That after you have an epidural catheter in, maybe dont move around so much ( just take a look at any iv catheter when its in a spot where you are moving it a lot .. so much bruising and soreness . What do you think it was doing in her spine while trying to labor and get baby in the " right " position.
@@asacor9435 Tbh I've heard horror stories about epidurals. They are not what they are cracked up to be!
And quite clearly this story is a case in point!
Well said. Not everyone has complications due to epidurals and I can’t imagine how scary that was for Becky and the entire family. 😊
So glad God brought you through that. Please don't call this testimony depressing. We serve an amazing, faithful God who carries us through the difficult times. Illness will NOT win in the end, Becky. God bless you and your amazing family. ❤
Goodness gracious this is literally the most honest depiction ever on TH-cam of becoming a new mother. It’s incredibly hard even under the most ideal circumstances let alone with complications. Bringing a life into this world isn’t easy but it’s oh so worth it ❤️
I watch a TH-cam blog called leave everything and wander and the man in the blog just had a spinal leak! He almost died. You are so lucky!! You are a warrior!! Your story is NOT depressing, it's honest. There is a risk anytime you puncture the spine. You have plenty of time to decide about next time. It's great that Josh was so supportive.
Bless your heart!!!!! You are a trooper!!!! Every birth story is different and after time goes by the postpartum issues will fade and the joy of that sweet little bundle will outshine the rough stuff. No guilt or condemnation. God Bless you both. We were praying for your family. Rest, heal, and enjoy the end result......baby Acre!!!!!!
I can't believe that you went through this and that you had to do it with your husband right next to you...I remember the time you Announce you were going to have a baby...I was so happy for you both i feel like I almost lost my best friend without knowing it ...I'm praying 🙏 for your little family. Your friend from the Tohono O'odham nation ..
When they take out the urinary catheter your uretha opening swell temporarily so bladder elimination can be temporarily difficult
I’m so sorry that you were in such pain! Thank God you have such a sweet capable husband to care for your little love while you healed. Thankful you are feeling better and now you can enjoy being a new mom, which I’m sure you’ll be a great one! Congratulations to all three of you!!
Your mom wasn’t just sitting with you she was there to support and help reassure you that you were not alone. Your mom and family are great support.
I'm literally sitting here sobbing with you when you were describing calling your dad to pray for you. It's beautiful that you can do that, but also heartbreaking to here the pain you were in.❤️
Yes, so precious! She is blessed to have a father like that ❤
me too
Becky, thank you for blessing us with this deeply personal, emotional story. I hope that sharing it was cathartic for you. This really touched my heart. I'm so grateful that you are on the other side of it. You always shine so brightly - there's joy and excitement in everything you do. And now you can pour all of that into your precious son. He hit the parent jackpot with you and Josh. God bless you all! PS: Josh definitely wins father and husband of the year!
That spinal leak headache is no joke. So grateful you are better. Mom guilt is way to big a thing. Your story is all part of how God uses you to bless others and be such an encouragement. Thank you so much for sharing!! Keep feeling those emotions as you need to. You and Josh are a great team! 🙏❤️🙏
I wanted to reach through the screen and hug you! I found your story very positive, Josh was a partner in every way and BOTH of you know how able he is. The bond with his son grew like crazy while you know you can let go when it's necessary. About the guilt, welcome to motherhood. 😄 The best thing for that is talk, you have a limitless supply of other parents to help you get past that. Be sure to tell Baby the story, he will learn that Dad was there for him and can emulate that character for his own family someday.
Now this is a fantastic comment!
Baby Acres daddy for the win!!
Many people feel dad needs time with baby post birth just to catch of for 9 months in utero.
LOVE THIS!!!! ❤️
“I called my dad to pray for me.” How beautiful and comforting!
For me, that was instant tears. Prayer from someone who truly loves you just hits different. ❤️
This was instant tears for me.. a daddy daughter relationship is so important and a praying one even more. What a blessing Becky ❤
Yes, prayer works!
As someone who came within hours of dying due to postpartum preeclampsia, I can tell you that I understand how scary it all probably was. I’m so glad you made it and both you and baby are safe! ❤
Same. But if it happens after giving birth, it's called eclampsia. I believe it's when the pre-eclampsia levels are not high enough for doctors to induce you. I had a seizure during my emergency c-section (due to labor stalling) and fell into a coma for a week. My kidneys were failing. They told my husband that the situation was dire. Women still die during childbirth right here in the US!
@@laylawalker8897pre eclampsia means pre seizure, it has nothing to do with where you are in the birth process. Eclampsia means you are experiencing seizures already. I didn’t have a seizure thus I had preeclampsia. You had a seizure which is why you were diagnosed as having eclampsia.
@@laylawalker8897 mine was diagnosed as HELLP Syndrome. I was in Congestive Heart Failure, liver and kidney failure was beginning… I had my seizure at home once we had had our baby. Almost died, but Praise the Lord He just had his own child a few days ago. His wife and baby did fine! Praying for you and your family!
I'm so proud of you mama! We as moms travel through the valley of the shadow of death LITERALLY to bring our children into the world. It's not easy physically or emotionally, but it's soooo worth it!!!
God has a way of helping the pain of it all to ease over time. Otherwise it would be hard to decide on having another child. I know, I have 6, and each delivery was different! But I'd do it all again to have the littles (all grown up now) that I have!!!
Again, I'm so proud of you mama!!!
And thanks for sharing. You show & share things as they really are. Whether it be cooking, baking, gardening or giving birth. Keep being you, because you're WONDERFUL!!!
I did not hear a depressing story. I heard an inspiring story that will give a lot of hope to new moms with challenging postpartum issues. Your husband had the opportunity to demonstrate how well he can take care of his family and you showed how moms sacrifice so much, including their bodies and health, for their children. I’m so glad you are doing better and will pray for you and your family’s continued health.
My husband at the drop of a hat still prays for our adults children In person, phone, whatever they want. This was special to hear. 🎄🎄🎄
I developed a spinal fluid leak 5 months after having back surgery. I endured 42 days of excruciating headaches until they were able to determine the cause and then I needed a second surgery to repair the leak. No one can understand the level of this pain unless they have experienced it themselves. I can relate to your feelings of total despair. I'm so glad that you were able to count on your loved ones for support. God's blessings to you and your new little family!
Awe Becky... I'm only 18 minutes into the video but I had to stop and comment. There's been a couple times that you've gotten emotional already and i'm sitting here wishing I could give you a hug. You have such courage to sit there and share with us such vulnerable time and information. I can see that its hard to share this with us and you are reliving those moments. You dont even have to but you do. Thank you for sharing your story........ Big hugs, big big hugs...
This is the honesty that women need to hear and thank for you sharing the reality of postpartum. I think I can speak for all of us that we feel honored that you are willing to share your story and be vulnerable with us. If you need to take time off please do! We want a safe, happy, and healthy Becky even if it means we have a little less of her
Nothing like having an empathetic and compassionate husband, Josh you are a good man❤
Having a supportive husband is such a blessing. My husband was EVERYTHING I needed in every moment for both of my births. I'm so happy that this story had a happy ending and Josh was EVERYTHING you and Baby needed in each moment ❤
I’m so glad you’re talking, don’t stop talking about the birth until you feel like you no longer have birth and postpartum trauma. Talking is so powerful... I’m a mom of 3 littles, and I’ve had 3 completely different births. A women’s birth can effect every aspect of life, and I truly feel it is so important to talk about the birth, weather good or bad. Take care of yourself, and enjoy sweet baby! God bless!!
Amen
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you said it so well! Birth and postpartum trauma is very real and not talked about enough. And sharing our stories definitely help us heal emotionally/mentally
Yes! Not only does it help you process and heal from that trauma, but it's never talked about enough! I was diagnosed with delivery induced iih, something I had never heard of and would never have known it existed had I not temporarily gone blind!
I had a super traumatic birth and talking about it made it so much easier to cope.
And she has so many ppl who are listening to her story! Imagine going through this and having no one to talk to. I will definitely reach out to friends that have recently given birth more in the future. Ive always thought, oh shes just given birth she dont want to be bothered...but, sometimes ppl just need to vent.
You are a very strong and courageous little Mama! As a Registered Nurse, I have to say this is an amazing testimony to how capable we women truly area! You and Josh are both wonderful parents!
As someone who struggles with chronic pain from autoimmune issues, my heart ached when you explained all the pain you endured. I never wish others to feel that level of despair and depression that comes along with never-ending pain despite trying all the available treatments. I cannot remember a day without horrible pain, and that's why your story made me cry. I hope you continue to heal and get to enjoy your health again while cuddling your sweet baby boy. Thank you for sharing your story.
Me too. Also a severe chronic pain sufferer AND had spinal leak from a spinal tap from meningitis testing. It was horrid. I was severely ill already too, while Becky was post partum going through it. We are all 3 warriors. We must pray for the good days when pain is more bearable, cherish them. While the days pain wins the battle, we just keep fighting the good fight and try keep a handle on what we can control which is our mental and emotional state. Trying to not sink into despair from severe pain. Instead focus on every good thing or memory in life, focusing on those we love, and focusing on our dreams to keep hope alive as long as we are still alive enduring. So glad Becky is doing better and recovering more and more every day. I'm glad she's slowed down and just focused on healing. We all feel that guilt while in severe pain of what we could or should be doing but absolutely cannot. But knowing we are doing the best we possibly can and that's all we can do- it's enough. God knows and knows our strength through our bodies pain and suffering. 🙏
Thinking of you all, you chronic pain warriors. You are seen ❤ Thanks for sharing your perspective
Becky, how traumatic for you😢
Please know that there are resources out there to support you.
You have made all the right decisions, unfortunately something's get in the way that are out of your control, this is not uncommon but it doesn't make it any less traumatic.
You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about, however I completely acknowledge and validate your disappointment.
You will recover from this..but allow yourself time...give yourself time dear Becky 🙏🤗
Yes! My sister has a terrible chronic illness that leaves her in extreme pain. The despair from being in constant severe pain is scary to maneuver through.
My heart goes out to you.
OMG! I am seeing this for the first time,I don't get on TH-cam very often but do follow you and your cooking, not in order and this popped up. You made me cry. My daughter had the same issue. I was fortunate enough to be working with an awesome job/gym doctor at the time and my daughter was at the same hospital she worked at. When I told her my daughter has a really bad headache that won't go away, she told me take her to er now and she called the er and told them I was coming and they took her right away. I dropped her off as I had my grandkids with me and about 2 hours later she called me no longer crying, laughing with the staff saying she felt 10000 times better. I never heard of epidural headaches before.
I need to start watching more often. I am always amazed at how much cooking you do and how you make it seem so easy.
This is a story of a fighter! Never giving up. Becky, I had 2 natural births, the 3rd with an epidural. Each way had its own grace and humps to overcome. You did so good. So good. God has a way of taking the ugly and allowing the joys to be the main remembrance. Baby is healthy, Daddy is marvelous and Mama is healing mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Give your self room for a 5 minute cry if needed, and then recall every blessing as you hold your baby boy. Covering you all with prayer. As a nurse I'm seeing all the overcoming moments. Proud of you all, and we're all so thankful you're on the other side! Be blessed!
you are so lovely. As is Becky. So happy Baby A and Mama are healing! All the blessings to Josh as well, knowing Baby was in good hands had to ease some anxiety in a really traumatic situation.
@@MAMA-gi8cn Whoa!! She tried her hardest, couldn't sit up, not even to pump, because of excruciating pain. Used doner milk etc.
In their situation they did everything to feed and nourish their child while not knowing what the outcome with mama would be.
My first child was stillborn. I was readmitted with complications after my second child's birth and unable to breastfeed him. I was bed rested for my final and third pregnancy for two months, but that delivery was terrific and I was able to breastfeed my daughter with no issues. All that to say-every pregnancy, labor, and delivery was different. God has used my experiences to help others that he has brought into my life, and I am positive that by sharing your story, you are helping so many others. You are AMAZING, and I am so proud of you!
Amen. I was told my baby had died, but he is now 30 and a lawyer. Miracle....straight up miracle.
God bless you Jennifer
Thank you for sharing, child birth is such a miracle.
Amen! Every pregnancy is different! I have only been through one, but have seen others go through different things their multiple pregnancies. I am so glad you are getting better, Becky. We love you and your little family. ❤
We are all very proud of you. 🤗🥰
Mom Guilt is real girl. Post partum hormones don’t help, but your willingness to honestly share your journey will help so many that don’t have the amazing support you do and aren’t told their feelings are valid. ❤
I say that mom guilt comes in with the placenta. ❤
Does mom quilt ever stop? I have grown kids and still deal with it☹️
@Lori Cassata amen it never goes away, that's how I fall asleep every night exhausted from mom guilt!
@@loricassata5259 It does definitely tone down especially as they grow older and live life, they understand more and adult conversations help so much 🙏💕💕
I can only speak for myself, but having someone being honest and sharing their birth story like this was encouraging. The more you know… Thank you for being willing to share something so difficult and intimate with us.
God bless
Fathers are sometimes the unsung heroes. It comes with their servant leadership role. Hats off to you Josh.
Becky, thank you so much for sharing your story. It is, by far, the most difficult postpartum story I have heard. When you mentioned the doctor saying that your body hadn’t read the textbook, it reminded me of my experience with my firstborn. I ended up going to the ER on my third day postpartum. While I was in the ER, my husband was taking my son for his daily check since he was jaundiced at birth. The doctor came in and asked me why I was there and I completely broke down sobbing, and attempting to explain my issue. He was so good, he just patted me on the shoulder and told me that the third day postpartum is the worst. When you talked about being at day 5, I really felt for you. I really hope that sharing your story was cathartic for you. And if God blesses you with more children and you decide not to have an epidural, don’t worry, your body knows what to do. I have three grown children and each labor and delivery was different, but your postpartum story sounds much worse than the fleeting pain of delivery. Please give yourself as much grace as possible. I’m glad your body is healing and your heart will too. Sending you love and prayers.
As a mother of 6, think of things like this... Josh got to bond with baby A, something many new dads are terrified of as well as having to share baby with the mom. Not only that, but he rocked it! Josh was worried about you and did everything he could do for you to get better. You both are Rockstars! You are much better for them at your best health, physically and mentally. It's normal to feel a bit like you let your baby down, but you didn't! You did what was needed so you could heal, and no one ever would think that anything you did for your health was a letdown. You are here and on your way to returning back to the best(healthy) version of yourself. I felt horrible when my first born was born at 28weeks and I went home while he spent 2 months in NICU. I think I blamed myself for a long time and tried to think of what I could have done differently but in reality, my body and my son decided when he was arriving. Emotions are always high after birth 🙄 but you will get more normal as time goes on. And it is okay to have your moments (crying is OK too), but know that I speak for many of us, we are so grateful you, baby A, and Josh are all doing well. Thank you so much for being so transparent and thinking of us through all you have gone through. Welcome to motherhood. ((Hug)) It really looks good on you. My thoughts are with you as you continue to heal.
Yes! That dad bonding is so important too. I got very sick with what we eventually come to find was a diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis when my son was 5 months old. I had severe vertigo (causing vomiting) and I could not walk without assistance because of the vertigo, I would fall. After about a week my husband said, "Look, I can take care of you or the baby but not both of you. One of you has to go!". Lol! I was so relieved because with having the baby with me I felt like I needed to care for him and not just heal. He kept the baby and I went to my parents for about 10 days. They would come visit with me of course but it wasn't the constant stress of caring for him. I could not have told my husband that I needed to be apart from the baby, I felt like a bad mom for thinking it. I was ever so grateful when my spouse spoke up.
Yes!!! Well said!! I second this post! 👏🏻
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Oh my goodness Becky I have never heard of such an ordeal!! My heart goes out to you!! I have just started your videos and you kept saying my whole family but I never saw a child. I looked back on videos because in one video I thought you said you were 39 weeks pregnant but that was all you said and I watched newer videos and no child so then when you were fixing meals for your sister I thought oh I bet it was her sister that time that was 39 weeks so I asked again if you had children! Thank you so much for sharing your story my daughter had pre eclampsia with all 3 of her boys they are grown young men now 19 24 and 26 all extremely healthy and smart enough to have full rides through college and she fortunately did not end up having the after horror that you had to go through!! Thank the Lord for that though! But I do know that I was absolutely scared to death for her in all 3 pregnancies and prayed non stop I’m so glad you are ok! You are one strong woman !!48:43
I'd love to hear Josh's version of this. His experience is completely different probably.
My mom had a horrible time with her first birth. She said she felt like she needed to have another baby as soon as it was feasible or else she would lose her nerve. Thank God she did, be cause I was the fifth and final and I have a wonderful life
I just want to take a moment to say god bless you Becky! Every time you choke up, I just want to give you a hug! I cried with you through this whole story. Pregnancy is hard and giving birth is next level!
Bless Josh for being such an amazing husband and father!! 💕 lots of love to you all!! Thanks to ur Mom, Dad and the entire family for surrounding you with love and support! You all are soooo blessed to have each other!
Here’s to a speedy recovery Mama! Congratulations on ur new little bundle of love!! 💕💕
From one traumatized Mama to other. I never did forget, and that’s ok too. Bless you Becky!! Bless you!!
Literally, I was in your shoes with my first delivery as well. My daughter was also 6 lbs. No one realized how much pain I was in from my spinal leak.. couldn't hold my newborn for almost 2 weeks. BECKY I GET IT!! Now, just enjoy every moment with that beautiful blessing and keep smiling! Mom guilt is real, and I've realized it happens more than we can control.. but it's just motherhood in a nut shell! Hugs to you, and I'm happy to hear you say you're feeling improved!♡
Bless you strong momma!
As a new grad labor and delivery nurse starting this coming February this was so eye opening!! I knew there were risks to epidurals but I’ve never heard of this one. Telling your story helps me realize how much we need to advocate for ourselves and as a labor and delivery nurse you have to be able to advocate for your patients as they go through this experience in order to have the best outcome for mom and baby! I am wishing you and your family comfort in knowing you are all home and healthy♥️
Your story isn’t depressing, it is triumphant! I’ve had two kids…first was difficult in so many ways but the second was amazingly normal.
While this stuff is hard, it will soon become a distant memory. You left Baby A with the best dad possible. You’ll be a wonderful mom. Learn to deal with guilt and put it aside. You are an amazing person.
As a mother of 5 girls, I can't even imagine how scared you had to be and how scared Josh had to be. You are truly an amazing young woman.
My son: Oh no, Becky is crying... Mama, are YOU crying?!
Thanks so much for sharing with us. It can't be easy to be so vulnerable in front of the camera and I'm sure you had many of us in tears over what must've been so hard at the time. So glad both you and baby A are happy and healthy!
I had the same thing happen to me 27 years ago when I had my son. I can't remember much of the first week of his life and that does make me feel guilty. I will NEVER let anyone come near my back with a needle again. I am glad you are better now!
Those of us who also have had challenging postpartum and birth experiences can very much empathize with how very raw it may still make you feel at times, as you process your experience, Becky. Be super kind to yourself and feel the feelings as they arise, as it is part of letting go what simply was beyond one's control in those first days. Postpartum migraines are very painful and debilitating, and it is wonderful to hear that you no longer have them. You have a beautiful, healthy little one who you nurtured in your womb incredibly well. Take all the time you need to simply sit and cuddle your precious baby whenever you feel inclined, because those moments of just snuggling and cuddling will be so healing and so special. Congratulations again on the safe arrival of your beloved little one.
Yes, I agree. I had a 💩 childbirth experience and the most painful part was not allowing myself to cry about it let alone share my disappointment with others.
And not to leave Josh out, kiddos to you. My son in law had to take care of my granddaughter for several days before my daughter could. He had diaper changing down, swaddling down and taught my daughter how to do it. Josh what an awesome dad you are. Baby A is very blessed to have you both.
Your feelings are valid. I found that ignoring my feelings of guilt after two traumatic birth experiences because I didn’t want to burden others only made them worse. So glad that you are sharing your experience, not only for others to learn from, but also for your own healing.
So true. You are on a good path because you ARE being open and honest about your experience. TALK!!!! It’s going to speed up your healing in a way that you cannot even imagine. If you were telling this story without the emotion and just “telling a story” it wouldn’t come off as real, or truthful. It is emotional but absolutely not depressing. Your story is one of hope and victory. So many have expressed their glad and grateful thoughts for the opportunity that Josh had to show his love for you and his son in such a real and meaningful way. God knew what all three of you were going to need…. I’m so happy that you are ok and that in His Goodness, he has provided for you all!!! Also, as a Mom of three adult children and their spouses, and as a grandmother of five, your Mom was waiting for your call to come running to you!!! Love your work and blessed by your story. Thank you so much!!! 0:45
I’ve been lurking your channel for a few days and have watched multiple, multiple hours of content so far of the freezer meal prep, but these videos really showed me a different side of you. This is such a vulnerable thing to talk about and everything you’ve said is exactly what I’ve been scared about giving birth. Hearing stories like yours and seeing how you came out of it so strong is so inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing this experience from your life with us and being so vulnerable because it does help people like me that are scared to get pregnant and give birth. Showing that no matter what, we can make it through it. It also gives women who also had traumatic births feel so validated. Thank you so much Becky, I’m so happy you’re doing well a year later❤
My 'baby' is 26 years old, but watching your videos brought back a flood of emotions from the first 2 weeks after I gave birth. I ended up with a kidney infection the day after coming home, pain, fever, chills, but that was nothing compared to all the feelings I was having, from failing to follow my birth plan by asking for an epidural after being induced and laboring for 24 hours, and then failed at pushing baby out, ended up having a c-section, breastfeeding didn't just come naturally like I thought it would, couldn't get enough sleep and even had a hard time finding time to shower! My son never slept more than 20 minutes at a time and my Mom had come down with pneumonia just before he was born so she couldn't be there to help. I was a mess and I cried quite a few times. I wish someone would have warned me that I might be a tired, emotional mess for a little bit! But eventually things fell into place and I enjoyed being a Mom and raising my child. My only complaint now is that the time went by so quickly. Try to enjoy every moment, even when he's naughty, someday you'll wish you could go back and do it all again! My son just got engaged, so hopefully there will be a grandchild to love not too long from now!
I was crying with you Becky. 4 months postpartum myself, I cannot even imagine handling all of that pain and stress and the guilt of wanting to be by your baby. You are amazing. Don't forget to take it easy for several months to recover from birth and all the trauma afterwards, and to enjoy your baby fully 💕
You are not only so brave and strong, but SO lucky to have Josh! He did such a good job, brand new daddy taking a newborn home by himself so they could take good care of mommy.. such incredible and competent new parents!!
I’ve been lurking your channel for a few days and have watched multiple, multiple hours of content so far of the freezer meal prep, but these videos really showed me a different side of you. This is such a vulnerable thing to talk about and everything you’ve said is exactly what I’ve been scared about giving birth. Hearing stories like yours and seeing how you came out of it so strong is so inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing this experience from your life with us and being so vulnerable because it does help people like me that are scared to get pregnant and give birth. Showing that no matter what, we can make it through it. It also gives women who also had traumatic births feel so validated. Thank you so much Becky, I’m so happy you’re doing well a year later❤
Having a partner you can trust with the baby you birthed right after birth is a HUGE accomplishment. A lot of people can’t say the same, and I am so very happy that you have that partner to help you when times are rough. Sending much love ❤
If that is in question I'd be looking for another partner... every woman who gives birth deserves a partner who is just as hands on with taking care of baby. And mom's need to trust their partners even if it's not done to mom's standards dads (partners) are more capable than we give them credit for.
@@albanymountainhomestead Some are, but so so many aren't!
@@Meadowchar so if mom were to die at childbirth that child should be given up for adoption since the partner this woman choose is incapable of caring for their child... this is why women need to choose better partners then!
I wasn’t in any way saying that she’s lucky, or should be grateful for her partner. Unfortunately in a lot of circumstances you don’t know how a dad is going to be until they are one. I wasn’t making this statement for a debate, just simply expressing the genuine happiness for her, that she has a good partner to rely on and is not burdened while also being ill away from baby. It’s not easy to just throw your partner away because they aren’t “partnering” how you’d like. It’s a learning experience, and hopefully most would have the heart to gently guide and allow room for growth. Love to you as well.
I had 7 and none were painless. I would not exchange my experience as a mum for anything in the whole world. Congratulations!!!
You are going to help so many people sharing this, Becky. We don't talk enough about the hard parts of labor and delivery, and how things can quickly change post partum. I am so sorry you had such a tough recovery, but am very glad to hear Baby A did so well during all of it. Sending you, Josh, and Baby A lots of healing, positive energy. Congratulations to your entire family!
I had those headaches with my first child,God Bless you.With my second child they made sure before I went home that I didn't have a leak.God Bless and Congratulations.
Becky, you are one of the most genuine and honest women I have ever "met". Thank you for sharing your story. I was crying right along with you while you were recounting your experience. I started watching you about 6 months ago, and look forward to EVERY SINGLE video. I feel so close to you, even though I've never actually met you. You are so blessed to have so much support from your husband and family during this time. I will pray for your continued healing, both mentally and physically. Soak up all those precious baby cuddles now that you're on the mend. Blessings!!!
Oh Becky- I am sending you a big (gentle) hug. Bless your heart. Having a baby is a messy, difficult business. Sending prayers that things are looking up. ex-OB nurse here!!
Me too, big gentle hugs from MS! Thank you for sharing. You’ve made tear up with you, Becky. As someone who was able to breastfeed, I’m team feed your baby. You’re doing great! None of this was a surprise to God. He knows what you and baby A need. Praying along side you and papa acre. God bless you and your precious family. You’re truly doing an incredible job momma!
Thanks for being so honest and real about your post birth story. I’ve given birth to four children and have had complications with all of them. People need to understand that not all women have perfect birth and post partum experiences. Crying is natural and a way to relieve stress and you obviously had a good reason for crying. It’s over now and you can settle in to being a new mom and family of three.
Both times with my deliveries I got those headaches, not fun. The second time with twins the head of anesthesiologist assured me not to worry,,,,well again it happened. When they told me I could leave the next morning Sunday had them on Friday afternoon I was freaking out! How can I do anything with this headaches? A 4 yr old and newborn twins! Well I prayed so hard that a peace came over me and stayed with me for so long. The next morning one of the babies had some jaundice and so we had an extra day to stay but then, this Becky you might try, the nurse took a wide elastic belt and from what she said if you can trap that air bubble down under the tight belt it won’t float up to the top of your head causing the headaches. It worked like a charm!! I was so ready to get home and loved my time with those babies so much. Wish I had known that with my first born.
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I am amazed at your strength and honesty. I was crying right along with you and still am. Being a first time parent is so hard because you are traveling through an unknown experience. God showed you not only how strong you are, but also what a great man you married. Josh got the time to bond with your son and I can imagine his thoughts and feelings as he worried about you. Don't feel guilty about not being able to spend time with your son in the beginning. Babies feel the stress of their mom and he was with someone who loves him as much as you. Enjoy every second because they change so much the first year and grow so darn fast. You are both loving and caring parents and you've already shown that. Make sure you spend time with each other and know that we, your viewers, are always here for you and in our prayers. ❤️ 💙 💜
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Enjoy your son, they grow so fast.
I had HELLP syndrome and delivered 5 weeks early via emergency c-section. I was on the mag drip for 4 days and separated from my baby for 4 days while I was in ICU and baby as in the NICU. He weighed 4 lb. 3 oz. We stayed a total of 8 nights in the hospital. I was unable to nurse him. Oh, I gave it everything I had! But it as not meant to be. I cried for a year and had PTSD. I felt like a total failure. But today, my son is healthy and we have both healed from that experience. Life goes on. Our strife makes us stronger. You are doing great, Becky! You are going to be an awesome momma. So many good days to look forward to. Enjoy!
Thank you for sharing Becky!It is OK to feel sad,angry or to be crying.Remember that YOU GOT THIS MOMMA
As a Nurse/Teacher, mom and gma, your story isn’t depressing. It is honest and will be with you forever. Bless you for sharing it, in doing so you gave other women who might experience these same issues knowledge. I hope you realize this also gave you a strength that just trusting your body to heal itself makes you a warrior. Many blessings on your healing journey even a year later🫶🏻❣️
When healing from my birth of my baby boy I said you never hear about these things it’s not glamorous it’s hard no matter what. No one talks about this. You are amazing for putting up your story. I had my baby the beginning of December I was induced, 36 hour labor, pretty sure the epidural stopped working at the end, pushed for over 4 hours, vacuum birth, 4th degree tearing, and baby in the NICU for 5 days. I also feel you so much when you feel the guilt and the mourning of missing time with your baby, breastfeeding was hard (still really is for me) I’m so glad your feeling better and I am wishing you and your family the best! Enjoy your son I know I am! He is the sweetest boy and I am so happy to be his mommy and would also do it all over again. ❤
Bless you Becky, I pretty much cried through this video from the moment you said you called your Dad to pray for you. What a brave lady you are for telling your story to us. I’m so happy to see you in your kitchen drinking your tea! I’m not good with words but Lord please bless this family. 💕
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Oh Becky, what a hard time you’ve been through! You had way more than your share of complications and I pray you are now feeling better, enjoying time with your precious baby, and on the road to being completely back to normal. You endured a lot momma and you are one strong woman!!
Wow. I am a labor and delivery nurse. Listening to your labor and post partum journey, I am amazed by your strength and my heart hurts for you. Sharing your story should help a lot of women. The story was real, and honest, and incredibly researched and accurate as far as your understanding of it all. Please, never feel the need to apologize, think it's depressing, or put a mask over your trauma. You really really had an extremely difficult experience that many women could never handle and stay sane. I am so glad you had your family with you. To think about being your nurse at that time, I would have done absolutely anything to make you feel better.
Take care of yourself.
I had three natural births, none are easy. I don’t think they are meant to be but well worth the outcome. Just love your child more and be forever grateful to our wonderful God.
I am just wrapping up my last year of nursing school, and if anything, I hope you know that you taught me something to look out for when I am a nurse. I’m sorry you went through this hard experience after birth, but I am thankful you had the courage to share!
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As a chronic migraine sufferer I can empathize with you over the pain you were in. I have more days like that than I care to admit.
When your head hurts that badly it gets very depressing. I'm glad that you are pain free and can bond with baby A at home ❤️
💯 percent agree . It’s awful torment
Same. I really can’t believe they gave you what is called a “migraine cocktail” for your condition. I’m sorry you went thru all this especially as a first time mom
I definitely agree as a migraine sufferer my self. ♥️💕
You went through so much especially as a first time mom. You did an incredible job. Thank you for sharing this. You are helping others know they aren’t alone.
Same! I’ve suffered chronic migraines since I was a teenager. I don’t want to say that you get used to it, but when it’s a fact of life, you almost have to. My migraines last anywhere from 2-10 days usually. The CBD 1,000 mg oil is the absolute best I’ve ever found, and it does absolutely help for migraines when modern medicine does not. Trust me, I’ve tried them all, in the meds dept.👍
Becky, thank you so much for sharing your story. As a mom and grandma my heart goes out to you for all you have been through, what a crazy ride for being your first delivery. You have an amazing husband, family and many people who care for you as you can see by the outpouring of love and support in all your comments. Don't sweat the time away from baby A, my youngest daughter was in the NICU for the fist week and even though I missed out on those first days, we have the best bond. Don't be hard on yourself, you have to take care of you first. Sending you prayers and positive thoughts along with some virtual hugs 🙏❤
Amen on you calling your Dad to pray for you. There is power in prayer!
My Dad had an epidural (spinal as they called it years ago) for a hernia surgery. I can remember him having to roll off the couch onto his hands and knees to get up. He had really bad headaches for a long time after. They must not of known about the patch then.
I remember my Mom telling me whatever you do if you ever need surgery or pain management don't have a spinal.
So sorry you had to go through all this. God bless you and Josh on your new arrival.
😊So the neonatal team was called. It was heart breaking but we made it! She is my only daughter and my jewel. Becky, you are a true trooper as is Josh! Baby A definitely hit the lotto with such great parents and core family. I just love the fact that you are so transparent. This will certainly help the next new mommy! 💜
Crazy that not many people talk about the struggles of postpartum with epidural. You are so so strong Becky. You are an incredible person and an incredible mother. We love you and send you many hugs! 💞
So great full your back home sorry you had to endure what you did, but you have the 2 most important guys in your life may the creator bless your little family.
Every woman's experience is hers alone - easy or hard - and we should encourage and support each other when things don't go perfectly. Easy makes us grateful and hard makes us stronger. We're here to love you through it all. Prayers for Becky, Josh and Baby Acre! P.S. Josh, good on you for being the best example of a supportive husband and loving, capable father.
THIS! We all have different stories and think it's so beautiful the way women come together in the face of birth stories and complications. Even with different experiences we rally around other women and that bond is so strong and inspiring to see. Becky's grace is so incredible.
Becky, do you realize how many people you helped by sharing your experience? Thank you for being open & real...no sugar coating. It is very refreshing to hear about how you lived through these unexpected experiences & your decision making under such duress. A mother's love conquers any & all things for her child. Will power & strength overcame. Thank God you are on the mend and you have a healthy baby boy. Prayers for you. One
Hugs Becky! My first delivery ended in a c section. It was traumatic for me and I went through a lot of the feelings you expressed and I’m sure are still going through. I found telling my story helped me and I’m glad you are telling your story. It’s a lot to process. I had a second child that was also delivered c section but with no dramatic long hospital stay and I found healing in that process! Talk when you need to, it’s not depressing to hear your story…it’s your story to tell and it’s all apart of the healing process! And you were so smart to stock your freezers with meals…I didn’t do that and that is one thing I’d go back and change!! Enjoy baby!
My daughter in law blew up like a balloon overnight! They knew what she had! She delivered a 5# darling boy that made kitten sounds!! So worried!! He's 21 now and in perfect health. Take care Becky, we love you!
Crying along with you during this video. Becky you are a rockstar ❤🎉. You came through this with a smile and much grace. Josh your amazing 🤩. I’m single and I want to say watching you and your husband over the last year has really helped me. In more ways than you’ll ever know. You’ve shown me a partner in life needs to be respected and also supported. I’ve never had that in a relationship 😢. So while you call this your birth video just know it’s sooooooo much more ❤. Thank you for showing us a small piece of what true love is really about. I’m so happy you are healing ❤
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There are so many women who will gain strength and wisdom because of your vulnerability in sharing this with us. So grateful everyone is doing well now. Congratulations to you and Josh and welcome Baby Acre!!🍼👶💞
Is the babies name Acre?
Girl....I was crying when you said you were in the shower with ice packs on your head. I have had an epidural head ache and the idea of being upright, much less standing in the shower brings back that pain. SOOOOOO glad you are home and in better shape now. Prayers for continued healing and praising the Lord for your supportive family and your sweet blessing of your healthy baby boy.
I have always been terrified of getting an epidural…and after hearing your story I am so glad I was able to have both of my babies natural and without medication!
You are a trooper! Don't be hard on yourself, no guilt please! You have gone through so much. Your story is amazing. Hugs and healing friend.
Same! There are so many reasons to not get an epidural. Inductions are generally a bad idea as well as it can make the labor more difficult if the body just isnt ready and leads to needing more pitocin causing even more pain and more need for pain meds, artificially breaking the water, distress of baby, risk of tears, c-section and trouble breastfeeding. One intervention can often lead to exactly what happened in Becky's story unfortunately. Birth IS painful but our bodies are smart and strong enough to do it on its own.
Wow as an old mom of three, all with epidurals and c-sections, I never experienced this ..........as women we do not realize the innate strength we have to endure. Well done, Becky, never question your decisions. You and Josh had a well laid plan that led you to change your path. Just think of the special moments Josh had with his sweet boy while you were healing, bless you both for knowing this was the right decision for your new family. That's great parents and wonderful partners! It's never wrong to take care of yourself, always remember that............enjoy new motherhood, there is never a sweeter time in your life.
Wow even in all of my research prior to birth I didn't know about this spinal leak headache thing. Thank you for sharing this information. It was other reasons that I decided not to get an epidural, but now I'm genuinely shocked people don't talk about this one. Congrats to you and Josh on your little baby. You are doing so well, Becky. I am so proud and happy for you.
I think it could have happened this severely because she was moved and positioned so much to get baby into "correct " position.
Your postpartum story sounds a lot like my post hysterectomy. I fully understand the depression and despair you feel when you’re in so much pain and spending so many extra days in the hospital.
Oh Becky I cried in part 1 because I had a similar birth story with my first daughter and ended up with a C-section after 36 hours of labor. I’m so thankful you and baby A are well and healthy after this whole ordeal. Yes, I’ve had 2 spinal headaches, so I can certainly empathize with your pain. Continuing to pray for your postpartum healing and hormone adjustments. We seasoned mommas are here for you sweet friend! We love you, Josh, and baby A!! 😊🙏❤️🐓
My first baby also ended in a C-section after 72hrs in induced labor!
Induced twice, 2 emergency c-sections after 40 and 24 hours of labor. Thankfully my 3rd baby was a scheduled c-section. I’ve had post-spinal headaches and they’re the worst.
You’re not alone. I know it’s scary as hell, but we understand. I’m sorry your birth story wasn’t the planned one.…. It never is. The important thing is your baby is healthy and you’re on the mend.
Becky I look really forward to your posts and videos. My daughter is now 44 years old but I went through 21 hours of labor that turned into a C-section and there’s a whole big long story in there but I was OK with that and I don’t know if you have had this happen but I really wanted to nurse the baby and I was unable to breast-feed him Because of my anatomy and and you know now they might have ways that they can fix what was going on but at that time they did not and we lived in a smaller town and didn’t have any support so I just wanted to encourage you that whether you breast-feed or bottlefeed it is just OK you have to do what happens to have a healthy baby. I was very disappointed but seeing those little smiles and holding that little bundle close while you bottlefeed is wonderful. I just want to encourage you that you are not a failure you’re at all if you can’t breast-feed you are doing what’s needed for your baby. Thank you for being so open we really appreciate you.
@@welcometotheweavers 72 hours?!? They don't usually let you stay in labor more than 24 hours anymore, unless I'm thinking of something else but wow that's crazy. Oh wait, that's after the water breaks lol, nevermind. But wow!!! I'd be begging for a c-section long before 72 hours lol.
@@RedRoseSeptember22 yes. It was an induction that my body did not take well. They did do a C-section after they broke my water but that was 48hrs into the labor process. This was also 8 years ago.
I had my daughter when I was 18, too young to know about any of this and before TH-cam and the internet. After I delivered, I had a seizure, vomited and lost my eye sight. I never knew why this happened, thankfully everything went back to normal and I was able to see again. I didn’t have anymore children after that. You’re very brave, kudos to Josh for being a great husband. You both make a great team!
As someone who suffers from migraines regularly I can attest it’s the worst pain I’ve ever been in. When I had appendicitis I thought it was just mild cramping bc it was so much less pain than migraines. I’m so sorry you had go through all this freshly postpartum. Sending you lots of love and prayer and for a smoother journey here on out xx
I can’t imagine having them on going. I’ve only had a few since I experienced the same type of issue from an epidural with one of my children. Basically never had any until a bad epidural an then ironically my son had it also years later when he had a spinal tap that unfortunately incited a puncture and weeks in the children’s hospital. I’m terrified of the epidural now for my 4th that is due in April, because of the horrific migraines. Sending you my prayers for enduring these regularly my heart goes out to you. I hope they can find a cure for them, oh an have a happy new year 💕
I will be seventy- five on Monday and in 1973 I went through the same thing you did. I relived the whole thing listening to you. Bless your heart. But back then they didn't use magnesium. They just said that they sat me up too soon after the epidural. I had had my tubes tied and I guess they weren't thinking. And I didn't have the well-trained nurses you have today. You tell your stories so well.
I had two babies (30 and 27 years ago) with no medicines and then I got an autoimmune diseases and ended up with aseptic meningitis and I literally thought my head was gonna blow off. I remember saying that I would rather give birth to 48 babies than have that kind of headache! God bless you Becky! Your internet family loves you!
Just the biggest hugs! Being a first time mom is hard. You don’t know what you don’t know. And then pile complications on top. Give yourself permission to cry and grieve the experience. I went through some rough things with my first… and it is totally normal to have the waves of feelings come over time because you have been through a hard and scary experience
Bless your heart Becky. You bring such joy to us all the time and it makes it all the more heartbreaking to hear your suffering after giving birth. You’re so brave and authentic to share your story and recount your emotions throughout the ordeal as well. I hope you know how loved you are by all of us internet friends. Thankfully you’re back sitting upright in your kitchen with tea in hand now and a healthy baby in you and Josh’s life. I feel proud for you both. ❤
I just read this on March 25, 2024, and my heart is feeling so much for you! I am so so sorry that you had to go through this! I pray for you daily and will continue to do so. I look forward to your videos so much! When my kids were home, I gardened, canned, preserved, and cooked from scratch. My kids are grown and gone, and I don’t live on enough acreage any more to grow a big garden, but I’m going to try Earth boxes where I am now. I’m 69 and a retired elementary school teacher and am back to cooking from scratch again. I love your videos!!
Girl, you've been thru it, haven't you?!? But you also have an amazing support team/family/friends/neighbors (dog-sitters included!). We are so happy to see you. You gave an honest accounting of your birth journey. There is nothing to feel guilty over, hon! Pain, hormones, things just gang up on you at times like this! You did great! I'm so glad to be one of your online...support? ...team? I am in awe of you!
As someone who has had many many spinal headaches from shunts, shunt surgeries from brain and spine, you handled this amazingly. As someone with this history I still don’t think I could have handled this as bravely, determined and strong as you have. You probably won’t want to lay down for a while now!! In the first episode of this I knew you were going to say it was a spinal headache the second I heard the first epidural didn’t work. With all the pushing, even though you did it in like 2 pushes, that could have started the leak bc once having a needle enter the dura you really want to rest as much as you can but while delivering a baby, that’s impossible. I had one spinal headache where they weren’t able to draw any blood from me so they did a saline patch which lasted a few hours and I had to go back to the ER, but I had a break from it for a few hours which was greatly needed. Once I went back to ER the second time the patch worked almost instantly. God bless you. You’re an extremely strong Mom and I’ll keep you guys in my prayers. 🙏🏻❤️
My children are all grown and I went natural. One of the reasons was because, at least back then, with an epidural, you had to stay in bed during labor and after you gave birth you had to lay flat on your back for 8-12 hours. I was very surprised that they let her move around so much during labor, even get out of bed, and then let her get up and use the bathroom so soon after delivery. But I guess it is different nowadays. I felt so bad for her. I'd rather go through labor pains than bad headaches for that long. BUT thank the Lord she is fine now, and baby is fine. She can put it behind her. And she is blessed with a wonderful husband.
You don't need to feel guilty for needing to care for yourself! So glad your back in track. Now comes the fun part! Congratulations 🎉
I’m just seeing this one year later. You are a very strong woman. I’m so sorry all didn’t go as planned, but you’re now great. This past year has been such a successful one for you in gardening, cooking and food preservation. Stay well and enjoy life! Prayers for your well-being. Sending hugs ❤️🥰
Oh Becky! Sending lots of hugs. The mom guilt on top of excruciating pain and postpartum hormones can feel absolutely disparaging. I’m so thankful that Josh was such a support to you during that time. I had a spinal headache from the spinal block after my third csection and that was some of the worst pain I’d ever experienced. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! Childbirth and postpartum is certainly not glamorous and those of us who have had complications from it can stand in solidarity with you. So glad you’re feeling better and leaning into this wonderful new role of mama ❤️
Oh Becky your story brings me to tears and brings my memories back flooding me... with my 5th child at age 37 I had all of this and I was so scared. I am so happy that you went back to the hospital and didn't ignore it. Sorry that you had to experience all this. Glad baby Acers is doing so well. Hugs from Oregon......
I’m sorry it was so rough! I had one smooth delivery and two rough ones. I actually had extremely low blood pressure, which caused its own problems. Totally worth it, but in the middle of it, it feels like it’ll never end.
WOW 😮, YOU REALLY WENT THROUGH AN IMENSE AMOUNT OF TRIAL AND TRIBULATION WITH YOUR FIRST CHILD. BLESS YOU GIRL🙏I still don’t understand why women these days opt for such pain free delivery. As a mom of 7, I had them all natural. No meds whatsoever. It is way easier to work through the delivery process. The feeling of pushing in the active delivery is so important.
I had seven kids and I nursed them in the beginning on my side in bed as I was exhausted. I don’t understand why the nurses didn’t explain this to you🤷♀️ in 4 of my 7 births we had issues. Two had the cord wrapped around their necks, one was almost born in the car and when I got to the hospital they wouldn’t let me push until the doctor got there🤦♀️ and one I had kidney stones. I was 9 mos so they decided to induce me and take the kidney stones out the next day. This was the only time I ever thought I was going to die❗️As for baby A being fussy, it can sometimes be attributed to what you are eating, usually if it is spicy 🌶️ You are truly a rockstar when it comes to dealing with the medical community and working your way through a VERY DIFFICULT TIME OF SUFFERING AND DIAGNOSIS OF EXTREME DELIVERY ISSUES. Blessing to you and your family🙏