Hey, I recently had a very similar experience. I had this huge crush on someone and he was super nice and made me feel kind of special, but always was like very vague and undercommitting. For two months I was highly confused and it felt really weird waiting for him to make a move or react more to my moves, which he did not reject at all, but also did not play into. I most recently courageously told him I had a crush on him and he rejected me. Even though it hurt in the moment, it felt so good not keeping my hopes up all the time and getting off that roller coaster. So for me being honest with the person feels fair to him and also to myself. Right now I like to keep my distance from him to allow myself to fall out of love, but someday I am sure, we can develop a healthy friendship. Best regards and have nice Christmas! 🎄
@@kassandra4748 sorry it didn’t work out romantically, but it was so brave of you to express your feelings and be vulnerable, and also not to waste your time and energy wondering! And I love the idea of a friendship with somebody you like as a person (once the romantic feelings are out of the picture) and not discarding someone just because romantically things didn’t work out. Thanks for sharing and have a merry Christmas!🎄
Hey, I recently had a very similar experience. I had this huge crush on someone and he was super nice and made me feel kind of special, but always was like very vague and undercommitting. For two months I was highly confused and it felt really weird waiting for him to make a move or react more to my moves, which he did not reject at all, but also did not play into.
I most recently courageously told him I had a crush on him and he rejected me. Even though it hurt in the moment, it felt so good not keeping my hopes up all the time and getting off that roller coaster. So for me being honest with the person feels fair to him and also to myself.
Right now I like to keep my distance from him to allow myself to fall out of love, but someday I am sure, we can develop a healthy friendship.
Best regards and have nice Christmas! 🎄
@@kassandra4748 sorry it didn’t work out romantically, but it was so brave of you to express your feelings and be vulnerable, and also not to waste your time and energy wondering! And I love the idea of a friendship with somebody you like as a person (once the romantic feelings are out of the picture) and not discarding someone just because romantically things didn’t work out. Thanks for sharing and have a merry Christmas!🎄