Hello Beautiful Tribe. Thank you all so much for the pre-emptive likes 👍🏽 as the are also love 💖 in this family. Please keep them coming on the Premiere and the replay - they truly help our channel get this information out to the masses. I love you all - thank you.✨💖
Hello TELSHA, thanks for all you do. Your video came on time last night. My daughter's father called my daughter last night. He keeps rubbing his wife in our faces. This is the woman he left me for. They just got married after shacking for 22 years.
The last thing I told the idiot ex Narc is that you will look for me in other people but you will NEVER find me. Do not accept the hoover, one love family.
You told him nothing but the truth beautiful soul absolutely. That’s right never except a Hoover!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed the narcissist tried it and the Almighty Creator delivered a massive blow to that narc by giving me the strength to leave forever. Thank you for the encouragement kind soul.🌟💖
Telsa is fantastic she saved my life I didnt even know what a Narc was until last December. She has helped me heal. She is a Lady we should all aspire to be like. And proof there is Light at the end of the tunnel. 🙏🆘💯❤️🔥
Exactly!! I don't miss the dysfunction... the unpredictability, the lying, the sneaking & creeping, the immature mind games, the disruptiveness....I miss him NOT!! One year, 10 months of No Contact and loving it!! ❤️❤️✊✊
You’re right. They miss what they got from you because not everyone will give them what you gave them. If you just listen, they’ll tell you not realizing that they’re telling on themselves. Birds
yup! facts...he thought he would attempt to put me down and i dropped him like a roach sprayed with raid...we never even had sex and i know hes a bisexual whore..
His family is so upset with him because his current supply is so obnoxious and rude. They don't even visit him. He's been doing things to get me to unblock him, including sending me money for my baby for the first time. She's almost 4 months now. He thinks I'm gullible 😂😂😂. Once he kicked me out, that was it. I moved back to my hometown with my parents, got a job offer before I even moved here, and bought a car in cash. He's just upset that I actually never needed him. 🤷🏿
You will show him how naïve you are by never returning to that bird. The family stays upset with a Narcissist in the Narcissist stays upset with the family it’s just a ridiculous mess all day every day with them. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Always remember who you are!!! Never answer to DISRESPECT, block em! Get so wrapped in your word and let God have his way. We are queens🙏🥰 and we were FEARFULLY and Wonderfully made in God's image
Welcome to the Tribe. This is the absolute truth Sis!! Yes indeed my Sister. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and sharing the gift of your time. Much love.✨💖
No contact 35 years for me. Dear lord for 30 years I had no idea what happened. The narc channels on you tube starting with Quinn Holiday years ago then it made sense!! finally someone telling my story. Thank you For this channel. You’ve helped me so much!! And that bird still hates me. Has hated me since the love bombing stage. Been disrespectful since the first date-behind my back that is. He’s so twisted. Triangulated with everyone including his own wife and grown children who he got to steal from me and cyber stalk me. He had a side dude while dating me while pretending to be a youth minister. Tri sexual, voyeur, porn addicted, STD carrying, juvenile felony record, pervert, sexual abuser, Most likely incestual on his own daughter, criminal, thief, overdosed me on NyQuil, tried to punch me in the face, lied to me and about me all the while mirroring me and pretending to be a youth minister leading a Christian group!!
God is amazing! I never knew what it was God got me out and not only got me out but led me into truth and back into purpose. Our best days are ahead never behind us. Praying for grace to stay here. I went back once after 2 months of leaving. and exactly 2 months later God made away of escape with no returning. I love Christ. I won't down the next victim because I feel sorry for them. Genuinely Praying for their deliverance. God is good. But again I wont down the next victim they don't know. I thank God for being a Child of God.
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s it they miss what we did for them they never loved us. That’s right we have to love ourselves forever and never go back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
The discard from a narc is just a parlor trick lol the narc hasn't went anywhere. They always trying to pop back up, because the discard is just a tool they use. If you want it to be over with the narcissist, then you have to end it. Otherwise, the narc will play the in and out game forever. The ball is always in your court, you call the shots. #gameover
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s it it’s a trick they never discard they just shelf you. That’s it come on and talk about it you are speaking the truth here sis. I love it! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Very true and well said!! Yes, the discard is a tool to manipulate. They want to keep us on their shelf for when they need us. So we have to be the ones to finally end it and walk away for good!!! Never ever look back!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow I know that is correct. Continue with your no contact congratulations. I am proud of you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I can’t believe how accurate this is….I feel like you’re talking directly to me. From his family to his mother, their habits, how they enable him, they’re jealousy and envy towards me, it was so obvious that I was way out of his league, intellectually, financially, emotionally and in every other way. I’m beautiful, strong, confident, and they all hated me. No matter how nice and respectful I was…nothing I did was ever enough. You’re SPOT ON
I knew something had shifted when his older sister crossed my boundaries at a restaurant. I told her NO!!!! And that mask dropped…the audacity she was thinking. The last words of this fool. I ain’t getting involved I ain’t taking sides. Thats when I knew she been talking junk behind my back all these years. She also knew he was cheating and would not confront. The same loop with this narc. I blew his entire family bridge up🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉no contact
The day he discarded me he looked at me and said aren’t you going to ask me to stay I looked at him and said calmly no and turned around and walked away. I could not say those words “please stay “ one more time. I had begged for 15 years and I knew it was over that day. I cooked that bird and threw it in the trash. He is just like his father they are twins- arrogant and self righteous . His mother has been called stupid for 40 years and she looks like she is 90 and not 70. I am free from them all. My crown is standing upright thanks to your channel and helping me realize my worth. Much love ❤️ to you.
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow this comment from start to finish is nothing but a testimony. Look how father Almighty Creator has brought you even through all the pain. This is so awesome thank you for sharing your beautiful story. You are stronger and much wiser now because of it. That’s right your crown is standing up right and will continue to do so. I am so happy that this channel is helping you realize your worth. And yes you’ve got this. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Sis burn rubber on them that’s what I’m talking about yeah as in style too!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽.😂😂😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yessss girlfriend I just brought a new white E350 he was visiting my neighbor his flying monkey he saw it parked in my yard he asked did I have company my neighbor was like naw that's hers🤣🤣🤣 his jaw dropped & I still have my SUV! They hate when u level up on them he needed me not the other way around
@@AlahjeLLC I remember when my old vehicle broke down ninja too busy getting high couldn't even come home to take me to work & I was paying the all of the bills now look @ God I have 2 vehicles. Cast the Devil Out my house & my cup runneth over w/blessings. Won't God Do It! I'm always be the ONE who got AWAY!
He tried to disrespect me by downgrading our relationship to friends after 3.5 years. I said, no thanks....I am not into emotional abuse, and I walked. I will not be parked into anyone's harem garage. Especially with an aging narc, it stinks in there. My crown is straight.
I called on Jesus for the first time in my life to take my heart ache and addictions away. Here I am 3 years later getting to know Our Lord on a deeper level and starting a new career. I'm still standing on my own 2 feet single and loving life. I didn't need medication for any of it either. All the Glory to God ❤
Jay, the key is, "Stay in that bible", my brother. You will learn so much !! You will be able to handle any consequences that come your way, with the help of the Lord. Stay rooted, and built up in Christ
He used to always tell me that im the best out of all 3 of his ex wives....yeah okayy, i get it now. What he really meant is that i probably took the most pain. I was the most fragile & took the biggest beating. I hope he pays for everything that he did to me. 😠 Its going to take me a long time to heal.
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m sure you are correct about everything you just said. Bless you sis as you heal. Just know that the Almighty and Creator saw it all and Karma never loses an address. Karma is a patient is a gangster. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Absolutely true. When I was with the narcissist my bank account will always be low as I was the one mostly paying the bills. They have this ability to play the victim and say things which make you feel sorry for them and pay their bills. They will have this charm to make you do it. Now that I'm in the discard phase..my bank account is slowly rising up.
Yes the Narcissist will drain you of everything your energy your bank account everything. Of course you were the one that was mostly paying the bills and they were mostly playing the victim all the time. Then stand up and tell you how terrible you are because it’s not you it’s them. Welcome to your best life and your bank account being back on more than enough status again. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are so right always forever begging for money every time he opened up his trout mouth you gotta any money and cheap. Non working jackass 3 years narc free some body's else's problem now.
My Sista your discard was GOD delivering YOU!..Narc are needy and hateful...They have nothing but toxicity to offer you...Narcs are not normal people and can't be saved.
After 10 yrs of torture, I got AWAY! I ran with our daughter and all….. my 8yr old was the one that sent me a heartfelt message begging me to leave and move on. I knew at that moment I had to run. Never looked back
Welcome to the Tribe. All right now that’s what I’m talking about. I’m so happy you got out. Thank you I’m glad you enjoyed the content. You’re so welcome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
How are you feeling now after4 month ?? I got out 2 and half month ago But she doesnt stop showing up around me with her new supply the other narc.the reason why i finally left her
I left as well and been going thru a lot mentally. Thinking it was all me and my fault and I was crazy. Now im seeing I was just voicing my boundaries and got gaslighted. Gave this woman 10 plus years of my life and I was completely lost
You are absolutely right! I am the best thing that ever happened to that fool! I snatched that generator so quick! He still a bum. I really started loving myself and focusing on myself! God is so good he healed me and I am back and better than ever! I am never going back!
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis you better know that you are the best thing that ever happened to that bird. Thank goodness you snatched your generator quickly and got the running fast. Thank the Almighty Creator for your healing and yes you are back better than ever I love it. I believe that I know you are never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Before my grandma passed, I’d told her what’d happened to me with that evil SOB and she simply told me, “don’t let no man or anyone steal your crown of glory” and that stuck with me ever since because she spoke facts. I’m still here thriving and I thank God I got away when I did🌹✨❤️
When you said the mom wants them as supply, that hit home. When ever we got into a argument that was the first place she ran her momma house. It was so annoying. I never want a mama girl again, and yes the mom treats the son as if he is her man. Never again I swear.
I got away, sis. I went through it in the "relationship." I walked away when I wasn't financially able to, but I was done. I went through it in the aftermath. He punished me and did all kinds of stuff to try to destroy me. But I stood my ground, brought hell down on him, and I've been living in peace all this year, while he is suffering and dealing with his karma. God has blessed me with a nicer place, nicer car, and I just got a promotion making really good money, and I'm starting a business. My bank account is about to be on fleek (lol), and I will be traveling next year. Praise God! God blessed me out of a hard season....
I’m so thankful you got away. You took the loss and kept it moving only to gain more and more after this clown. Let him deal with his karma thank goodness you’re not around to get some of it too. Thank the Almighty Creator that you are glowing up and blowing up doing much better bank account on fleek again yes yes yes. I love it. That’s right praise the Almighty Creator you are out of the hard season and into the harvest season!!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I'm so proud of you ☺️👏❤️, this ambition and resourcefulness that was always there got to working. Personally just now going through the aftermath and the punishments are brutal. Good indication to keep going forward.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships awwww ! Appreciate it all too, so very much it was too parasitic not actually ever knowing what was going on. This is the shake up that's needed and support ❤️
I’m the one that got away I’m the one for his eternal narc injury too... I’ll never go back... Living my life the best way possible... Happy and finally free 💜
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes the one that got away it will be an eternal narc injury you are absolutely correct about that. That is awesome never go back and continue to live your best life happily and free of that bird. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
When he was seeing our son, he told me he is still so unhappy. Good! Thats how I was the 6yrs we were together. Im not sorry for the love I gave. I know, on my end, I was genuine. I was good. I did my part in the relationship and he has to live with missing all that
Oh yes he’s going to continue to be unhappy. They are some miserable people no never be sorry for the love you gave it was genuine you did it out of your heart. And that will be the karma that you will get back someday in the name of Jesus. You did your part he has to live at what he’s done and suffer the karma that he has coming to him. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I remember the EXACT moment my ex toxic Narcissist said to me on the phone as he was courting the third party married Morman woman. “ I’m going to sleep on weather I’m going to keep you in my life or not”! After I heard those INCREDIBLE words having known him off and on for 45 years, I replied “ Let me make your decision quite easy for you” “ GOOD BYE”! I hung up and went NO CONTACT on all my outlets PERMANENTLY! That was last OCTOBER! I haven’t looked back and have FAITH GOD will lead me to a much happier life. TY for a great channel👼😇🙏
I took it like a champion 👑💪he will never come around me again 👀he is on block and,i cannot stand his mother ,or his sisters everything about his is just awful 😥😥
Now that’s what I’m talking about beautiful soul. You handle the business. I know that’s correct same here about that sister, narc and mother just awful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
HONESTLY.... Walking away was actually the best decision I ever took. My emotions aren't off the wall. I'm healing well and I'm mentally so strong that nothing said behind my back is gonna drift me to the edge, no matter how bad. If Karma is real, it will get to them. I'm still a work in progress. Yes, it hurts at times. But, when I compare myself to who I was with him vs how I am on my own by cutting him out and going no contact, my life I slowly on track. Waking up early. Reaching work on time. Eating well. No late nights. No drained energy through the day. Life's Just bouncing back 🙏
BIRD...ain't even have proper health insurance till he met me... got on mine as soon as we married he was trying get on my car insurance and bank account too smh.... he will look for me in EVERYONE and he will never find me....and I can hold my head high... knowing I was genuine.... thanks Queen👑💜
Same here !!! His ass didn’t have health insurance or nothing and I helped with all that ! His kids didn’t have proper clothes and i assisted him with that too and the minute I started to notice his manipulation tactics and lies and games all of a sudden he started to run from me and devalue me and twist things around having me thinking I was the problem
@@adose_of_Tequila girl I can go on for days about that leech, moocher, bum.... they don't care about their kids for real, anything you do for them they WILL take, I curse the day I met him
Welcome to the Tribe. I believe that you had to come into his life and give him the proper health insurance car insurance all of that. That is so sad but that’s just how low level they are. That’s right you were the Queen that he could never appreciate. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Hey, within about 3 weeks I moved to another state, got a better job, changed my number and block her and everybody I know on SM! CUT THEM OFF!!!!! 🙏😁🤪
Yes indeed that’s what I’m talking about cut the whole family off. Keep her blocked. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Snatched my generator/left the state! 3 DAYS NO CONTACT! Thank you all for your prayers and encouragement!🎇🎇🎇🎆🎇🎆😁😁😁😁 Gonna be best Thankgiving EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now that’s what I’m talking about you girl sis. Congratulations on your no contact. You’re so welcome that’s what we are here for we are family. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
My second time to respond. Thank God I didn’t even get as far as meeting his mama. She wanted to me meet me. His sister was messy. So let sleeping dogs lie! I’m so happy! So, so happy!
Yes indeed the one that got away I believe it. Awesome please send me a picture of you and your T-shirt when you get it so we can post it in our community tab of the channel. Glory be to God. Amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
That is just what I said when I DID THE DISCARD...YOU ARE NOT TAKING ANY MORE OF THE RESPECT I HAVE FOR MYSELF..BYE BYE..3 YEARS NO CONTACT..THANK YOU JESUS FOR OPENING MY EYES...WHILE LOOKING AT THE DEVIL..🙏🙏
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen thank you Jesus for that. And I am happy that you got away Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
When I was married to a narcissist, he actually admitted to me that his mother came first and that he loved her more. Toward the end of the marriage, when he was cheating, he told me he hated me and was just using me to support him. The married woman he was cheating with, that led to the divorce, actually did have pins for legs. He got very excited describing her, saying she didn’t have an ounce of fat in her body. She also had no curves and was built like a boy. She didn’t leave her husband for him so he did have to go live with his mother.
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate the encouragement here. I’m happy you can appreciate my energy and humor.😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate your encouragement. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Thanks for letting God use your mouth... your voice has the power to compel us to change so that we might heal and reach our full potential...right now God is blessing us emotionally, physically, financially and protecting us from all harm and danger!💙🌅🏄
Amen Sis I told the Almighty Creator use me as a vessel Father. That is so humbling Sis. I appreciate your encouragement it has truly blessed my soul. A man and I am so thankful to the Almighty Creator for blessing us in every way that you have mentioned here protecting us from all hurt harm and danger seen and unseen. Wow just powerful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
5 months narc free🙏Shocked him when I packed his things and gave a move out date..Hasn't been back to even visit our son, popped up in a text today with a sob story..Did not feed into it, so proud of my healing❤Thank you!
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow I’m so proud of you. Congratulations on your no contact. That’s right you don’t feed into it starve the birds. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
This is one of your BEST messages!! Those tears did purge!! I even did light work on my ex after I left, they say it’s hard to hate someone that you are praying for and it’s true! I don’t ever want that fake bastard bird in my life again but it feels good to receive my new glorious beauty for ashes now knowing that I let go of the ASHES finally!!! I said it and I mean it!!!
Come on my sister didn’t those tears purge you. I know because they did for me. I know that’s correct birds to not belong in our homes nor our beds forget that we’re over that. We are never going back. Yes indeed beauty for ashes. That’s right I said it and I mean it.🙌🏽🙌🏽. I’m so happy you enjoyed the message. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Yas!!! Love you girl God Bless you and your anointed messages! I’ve used them to help 2 other girl friends of mine going through the same hell, your messages are like a hilarious light and reassurance in this messed up world! I said it and I mean it! ❤️👌
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow - That's what the toxic supply will do to earn the love and loyalty badge from the narc - that the narc will never deliver on. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Ayooo on me this the same shit I'm going through 🤣🤣🤣 and she really mad at me talking about he deserves better 🤣🤣🤣 I told her that's why I let you have em 🤣🤣🤣 the creep went so far off the deep end he thought by denying our four children I would come back 🤣🤣🤣
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly he is waiting for you to return to begin another cycle of abuse. Please don’t go back it will only be worse. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Thank you so much for allowing me to get a great understanding of what's going on. You are such a beautiful spirit.. Contributing to my healing process Blessings 💕💕💕
He had me crazy in the beginning of the discard but I put them gloves on and fought my way out of that bondage. My husband and my in-laws did everything to break me!!
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m sure that they did that she usually their method of operation. Bless you sis I’m so happy you got out. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I recently just got away it’s been a horrible 3 months but you are speaking to my soul.. I was definitely the one who got away I’m just trying to keep my mental together and live in my purpose !! The narcissist got me good during the discard I wasn’t even aware
Excellent video!! Thank you so much❤ I'm a new subscriber and I'm so happy i found your channel❤ Ive been married for nearly 14 years and been separated for 10 months.He moved back with his mom 😢We lived like roommates 50/50 throughout the entire marriage. So sad and hurtful 😢 Everything your saying speaks to me and my situation. Im so depressed and i feel lost... Thank you so much ❤
Thank you so much for this Message! I have Been thriving and I’m not done yet…. God has blessed me to live in luxury..New condo.. New job making the most money I’ve ever made … I was vocal training on and off throughout the 5.5 year relationship with the narc.. and now my vocals are better than they have ever Ben … it’s like even in the midst of going through abuse with the narc.. Not only did God reveal the signs … but he was also preparing Blessings for me.. that I received as soon as I left the Narc. Stay strong Tribe .. have faith that everything is working together for the good of those that love God !❤️
Healing is a long process but I got time. I'm the one that got away. I got tired of being the side chick to his sister and home girls. I got tired of the abuse and he had no empathy at all never seen anything like him. I'm grade A.
I get some sort of hoovers every couple of months. He see’s me happy he tries to make me jealous with that Kermit wife of his lol. He needs to grow tf up, he discarded me so just leaaave for good, sir.
LOL he has a Kermit wife lol.😂. Good luck with that one day never grow up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
😂 your vibe makes me laugh while watching this 😆 you definitely can help anyone overcome narc abuse lol cheers me up every time I watch your videos 😆✌🏼
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol!😂😂😂Thank you so much I’m happy you enjoyed the video and got a great laugh.😂😂. Amen we are going to be healed around here in Jesus name. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Gurlllll, you are all up in my business!! You broke it down to the T 💯💯 I’m so grateful to God for deliverance from that monster and his family!! Thank you Ms. T you rock! Be safe in and enjoy life. I feel like I know you lol. 💞
Welcome to the Tribe. LOL what did you say sis girl get out of my business LOL. I love it! Oh yes you know I give it to you all straight no chaser. I’m happy you were delivered from that monster and his family as well. You are out now stay out in the name of Jesus. Thank you so much for your encouragement. Be safe and enjoy your best life as well thank you. We know each other in the spirit we have kindred spirits that’s the closeness we feel as a family. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I stumbled on your videos yesterday and can't stop watching. I have been dealing with a narcissist for almost 6 years and I'm getting out of this EMOTIONAL/MENTAL TRAP immediately!!! It has been a true Rollercoaster. I have recently learned that the hoovering ALWAYS WON ME BACK. I am directing my ❤ to loving the ones that love me!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis that is so awesome. I’m so happy I could make your weekend that is awesome beautiful soul. May the Almighty Creator bless you as well thank you much love to you sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Thank you so much beautiful soul I appreciate your encouragement always. You are so awesome. You got away from that bird. I’m so proud of you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome. That’s right I said it and I mean it. I’m so happy that I can make you smile. Sending all the love right back to you thank you so much. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I STARTED OFF WITH YOU YOU ARE GOOD YOU MAKE ME LAUGH WITH IT YOU CRAZY. THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT IT REALLY HELPED JUST WANT TO THANK YOU ! 🤜❤️🤛
He discarded me 1 month after having our first son to go back to that toxic narcissist backburner saying he realized hes still in love with her. He used to talk so bad about her (triangulation) Went no contact ever since, hes blocked everywhere. My bouncing back game is so strong. No need to be part of that circus. My son doesnt need anyone who doesn't want him.
Wow that is so awesome 6 1/2 years you left this bird. Congratulations I’m proud of you. As Karma served him one sick supply after another sad. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
🎶Yessss WE Ridessss With Ya Gurl!! 🎶 👑Queen T Another Awesome 🔥 Video! I love your energy‼️ Thank you again so very much for educating us!! Amen…Amen Again! 🙌🏽🫶🏽🙏🏽
i for sure got away and now i have a car and moving forward in life and finish up school and finding happiness and freedom all by my self and being with my family👌🏼.
Hello Beautiful Tribe. Thank you all so much for the pre-emptive likes 👍🏽 as the are also love 💖 in this family. Please keep them coming on the Premiere and the replay - they truly help our channel get this information out to the masses. I love you all - thank you.✨💖
YOU keep winning, shining and stunting. GOTTA LOVE YOU!
I need the information on the Cruise
This Queen speaks nothing but the truth❤️👑👑
Hello TELSHA, thanks for all you do. Your video came on time last night. My daughter's father called my daughter last night. He keeps rubbing his wife in our faces. This is the woman he left me for. They just got married after shacking for 22 years.
Thank you I was married 28 yrs and I am my own Queen now! Happy Thanksgiving 😊
The last thing I told the idiot ex Narc is that you will look for me in other people but you will NEVER find me. Do not accept the hoover, one love family.
You told him nothing but the truth beautiful soul absolutely. That’s right never except a Hoover!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships sho' nuff! Preach!
She sent an email saying I bought some extra food and want to bring it over. I didn't even open the email..
Omg i said the same thing and they agreed with me😂🤣
When u tell the narc that bt he tries to tell u the same exact thing lol
Your Narc knows if they leave you alone long enough you'll heal
...and move on....that's the main reason they hoover....
This makes sense my narc would hoover after 3weeks religiously 😐it messed with my recovery
Welcome To the Tribe. YES!! Preach they know it too. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes it's the absolute truth.
Exaxtly but here is the thing even though they hoover persons would evolve and would not bother with them.
They hoover in our dreams too😒
For all who are in narcissistic relationships, GET AWAY BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!!!!
Lol
Every time someone leaves a narcissist the narcissist catches a glimpse of their true self.
I find it hard to believe a narcissist could ever have messed with this woman. You can just see her strength!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed the narcissist tried it and the Almighty Creator delivered a massive blow to that narc by giving me the strength to leave forever. Thank you for the encouragement kind soul.🌟💖
Why do you think they chose the weakests? It is the opposite.
Telsa is fantastic she saved my life I didnt even know what a Narc was until last December. She has helped me heal. She is a Lady we should all aspire to be like. And proof there is Light at the end of the tunnel. 🙏🆘💯❤️🔥
@@northpole4592Yes they put you in a competition you are not even aware you are participating in. Demons. 🙏🆘❤️
Narcissist has no boundary they will have sex with a animal...
He doesn't miss you he misses your supply
It’s the Truth but they think about you everyday.✨💖
Exactly!! I don't miss the dysfunction... the unpredictability, the lying, the sneaking & creeping, the immature mind games, the disruptiveness....I miss him NOT!!
One year, 10 months of No Contact and loving it!! ❤️❤️✊✊
they make the decision to treat us like shit and they throw us away like trash. THEY made that decision but I will make em stand on it. #NC
My Supply Is ME 💯 I Know I'm Missed.Your Body Can't Function Without Your Brain...Just Like The Brain Can't With A Body.
You’re right. They miss what they got from you because not everyone will give them what you gave them. If you just listen, they’ll tell you not realizing that they’re telling on themselves. Birds
5 years Narcissist Free!
It feels so awesome.
To everyone who thinks they won't survive, there is life after the Narcissist!
I am living proof.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It takes so long and I want to forget him but was triggered when I saw his new supply and they are engaged . I did the discard .
I actually am in adeptession
23 years but of course here we go!
Narcissists are drawn to people that naturally command a presence. He/she or they/them want that presence.
Facts
🎯 💯
yup! facts...he thought he would attempt to put me down and i dropped him like a roach sprayed with raid...we never even had sex and i know hes a bisexual whore..
Yeap so true
God is my priority now… never ever will I get get so wrapped up in any man ever again. I’ve learned my lesson.
They dont get hurt that you discarded them. They get pissed that you're no longer their supply. Thats what you have taught me.
So right, without supply they die emotionally.
Yep,this makes a lot of sense.
@@lisaking4386 Wow. Makes sense.
LOL
Facts
Praise the most high God Jesus Christ for pulling me out of that !! Hallelujah
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis Amen to that!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Yes He will do it! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Of course God Bless each and everyone of you !! ❤️
Yesss!! Been happy ever since!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
HalleluYAH! Yahushua ha Mashiac!(Jesus the Messiah) 🌹
His family is so upset with him because his current supply is so obnoxious and rude. They don't even visit him. He's been doing things to get me to unblock him, including sending me money for my baby for the first time. She's almost 4 months now. He thinks I'm gullible 😂😂😂. Once he kicked me out, that was it. I moved back to my hometown with my parents, got a job offer before I even moved here, and bought a car in cash. He's just upset that I actually never needed him. 🤷🏿
You will show him how naïve you are by never returning to that bird. The family stays upset with a Narcissist in the Narcissist stays upset with the family it’s just a ridiculous mess all day every day with them. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Good for you sis proud you made it out especially with a 4 month old 👏🏾
Nichole P. I know exactly mine was pretty much kicked out of his dads home!
keep moving forward with your life everything has an expiration date...he had his chance
You go girl! Keep pushing Forward to Greatnesa for you and lil one🤗
Always remember who you are!!! Never answer to DISRESPECT, block em! Get so wrapped in your word and let God have his way. We are queens🙏🥰 and we were FEARFULLY and Wonderfully made in God's image
Welcome to the Tribe. This is the absolute truth Sis!! Yes indeed my Sister. Thank you for sharing the gift of your time and sharing the gift of your time. Much love.✨💖
Amem
Praise God 👏 🙌 and glorify His holy 🙏🏽 name!
💕
Amen
I went NO Contact 43 years ago.
She hated me to her last breath, dying alone. BYE!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome!!🌟💖
Yes the hate is pathological. I could never understand the hate. But when your in the presence of a demon it all makes sense.
No contact 35 years for me. Dear lord for 30 years I had no idea what happened. The narc channels on you tube starting with Quinn Holiday years ago then it made sense!! finally someone telling my story.
Thank you For this channel. You’ve helped me so much!! And that bird still hates me. Has hated me since the love bombing stage. Been disrespectful since the first date-behind my back that is. He’s so twisted. Triangulated with everyone including his own wife and grown children who he got to steal from me and cyber stalk me. He had a side dude while dating me while pretending to be a youth minister.
Tri sexual, voyeur, porn addicted, STD carrying, juvenile felony record, pervert, sexual abuser,
Most likely incestual on his own daughter, criminal, thief, overdosed me on NyQuil, tried to punch me in the face, lied to me and about me all the while mirroring me and pretending to be a youth minister leading a Christian group!!
I'm not trying to be messy, but, wow, your ex died still being a mean person?
God is amazing! I never knew what it was God got me out and not only got me out but led me into truth and back into purpose. Our best days are ahead never behind us. Praying for grace to stay here. I went back once after 2 months of leaving. and exactly 2 months later God made away of escape with no returning. I love Christ. I won't down the next victim because I feel sorry for them. Genuinely Praying for their deliverance. God is good. But again I wont down the next victim they don't know. I thank God for being a Child of God.
This little light of mines...I’m going to let it shine...let it shine...let it shine...let it shine!
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
WORD
@@maramataniwha3225 welcome to the Tribe. Amen.🌟💖
🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯💯❤️
🙏🏾❤️
He missed what you did for him. He didn't have the ability to love and care for us. Love ourselves forever!
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s it they miss what we did for them they never loved us. That’s right we have to love ourselves forever and never go back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Fact's ‼️
The discard from a narc is just a parlor trick lol the narc hasn't went anywhere. They always trying to pop back up, because the discard is just a tool they use. If you want it to be over with the narcissist, then you have to end it. Otherwise, the narc will play the in and out game forever. The ball is always in your court, you call the shots. #gameover
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s it it’s a trick they never discard they just shelf you. That’s it come on and talk about it you are speaking the truth here sis. I love it! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Facts I like how you said that true
I hear you. Yep!
Very true and well said!! Yes, the discard is a tool to manipulate. They want to keep us on their shelf for when they need us. So we have to be the ones to finally end it and walk away for good!!! Never ever look back!!
Yes just wanted to stay friends. I silently went no contact and that’s forever
No contact.
No funeral.
The ashes will go out in a rubbish bin.
"They are accros the city"
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow I know that is correct. Continue with your no contact congratulations. I am proud of you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I can’t believe how accurate this is….I feel like you’re talking directly to me. From his family to his mother, their habits, how they enable him, they’re jealousy and envy towards me, it was so obvious that I was way out of his league, intellectually, financially, emotionally and in every other way. I’m beautiful, strong, confident, and they all hated me. No matter how nice and respectful I was…nothing I did was ever enough. You’re SPOT ON
Same here.
@@adidouglas2571 Another Same Here.
That’s what I’m saying, every word‼️❤️ 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I knew something had shifted when his older sister crossed my boundaries at a restaurant. I told her NO!!!! And that mask dropped…the audacity she was thinking.
The last words of this fool. I ain’t getting involved I ain’t taking sides. Thats when I knew she been talking junk behind my back all these years. She also knew he was cheating and would not confront. The same loop with this narc. I blew his entire family bridge up🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉no contact
This is so true. I cut the whole family off.
I leveled up in all area's of my life
That’s what I’m talking about boss man yes indeed!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Watch my dust 🤪
The day he discarded me he looked at me and said aren’t you going to ask me to stay I looked at him and said calmly no and turned around and walked away. I could not say those words “please stay “ one more time. I had begged for 15 years and I knew it was over that day. I cooked that bird and threw it in the trash. He is just like his father they are twins- arrogant and self righteous . His mother has been called stupid for 40 years and she looks like she is 90 and not 70. I am free from them all. My crown is standing upright thanks to your channel and helping me realize my worth. Much love ❤️ to you.
Queen. You got this. ♥️
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow this comment from start to finish is nothing but a testimony. Look how father Almighty Creator has brought you even through all the pain. This is so awesome thank you for sharing your beautiful story. You are stronger and much wiser now because of it. That’s right your crown is standing up right and will continue to do so. I am so happy that this channel is helping you realize your worth. And yes you’ve got this. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes Lord
Mind said too me can't you wait til I go use up and destroy my nex victim.i said no and then wow
AhhhhhhhYou taught me. Very Well Thank You!!!!!!!
Riding nice. I seen him in traffic next to me at a light I was in a cla250 bright red, I burnt rubber😂😂😂😂
Sis burn rubber on them that’s what I’m talking about yeah as in style too!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽.😂😂😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yessss girlfriend I just brought a new white E350 he was visiting my neighbor his flying monkey he saw it parked in my yard he asked did I have company my neighbor was like naw that's hers🤣🤣🤣 his jaw dropped & I still have my SUV! They hate when u level up on them he needed me not the other way around
Yessssss Benz girl !!!
@@kikib7310 AHHAAA LOOK AT GOD
@@AlahjeLLC I remember when my old vehicle broke down ninja too busy getting high couldn't even come home to take me to work & I was paying the all of the bills now look @ God I have 2 vehicles. Cast the Devil Out my house & my cup runneth over w/blessings. Won't God Do It! I'm always be the ONE who got AWAY!
He tried to disrespect me by downgrading our relationship to friends after 3.5 years. I said, no thanks....I am not into emotional abuse, and I walked. I will not be parked into anyone's harem garage. Especially with an aging narc, it stinks in there. My crown is straight.
I called on Jesus for the first time in my life to take my heart ache and addictions away. Here I am 3 years later getting to know Our Lord on a deeper level and starting a new career. I'm still standing on my own 2 feet single and loving life. I didn't need medication for any of it either. All the Glory to God ❤
Jay, the key is, "Stay in that bible", my brother. You will learn so much !! You will be able to handle any consequences that come your way, with the help of the Lord. Stay rooted, and built up in Christ
He used to always tell me that im the best out of all 3 of his ex wives....yeah okayy, i get it now. What he really meant is that i probably took the most pain. I was the most fragile & took the biggest beating.
I hope he pays for everything that he did to me. 😠 Its going to take me a long time to heal.
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m sure you are correct about everything you just said. Bless you sis as you heal. Just know that the Almighty and Creator saw it all and Karma never loses an address. Karma is a patient is a gangster. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you 💞
With God help you will make it through this
@@rochelleb1338 Amen 🙏
But, you will heal💯
Absolutely true. When I was with the narcissist my bank account will always be low as I was the one mostly paying the bills. They have this ability to play the victim and say things which make you feel sorry for them and pay their bills. They will have this charm to make you do it. Now that I'm in the discard phase..my bank account is slowly rising up.
Yes the Narcissist will drain you of everything your energy your bank account everything. Of course you were the one that was mostly paying the bills and they were mostly playing the victim all the time. Then stand up and tell you how terrible you are because it’s not you it’s them. Welcome to your best life and your bank account being back on more than enough status again. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You are so right always forever begging for money every time he opened up his trout mouth you gotta any money and cheap. Non working jackass 3 years narc free some body's else's problem now.
Yes Sis I payed all the bills, lost my job and got sick in the process....BUT GOD🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😘😘LEFT 10 MONTHS AGO AND HAVEN'T LOOKED BACK
My Sista your discard was GOD delivering YOU!..Narc are needy and hateful...They have nothing but toxicity to offer you...Narcs are not normal people and can't be saved.
So is mine except I have to pay for a lawyer for family court and criminal sense she lied to cops
I took all the pain and the pressure never complain I was the best thing that ever had and ever will have you’ll never find me in another one
Yes you did and now you have risen out of that pain and pressure and it’s time to shine!!
Yes, yes! I left them--there was more than one---like turtles on their backs! They thought I was weak, afraid, I guess...Free, peace and happiness
After 10 yrs of torture, I got AWAY! I ran with our daughter and all….. my 8yr old was the one that sent me a heartfelt message begging me to leave and move on. I knew at that moment I had to run. Never looked back
Baby, you are so right. Leaving was the best gift I ever gave myself. Everyone is relieved for me 😊❤
One month (No Contact!!)
The healing is hard, but this peace is wonderful....
I am the one that got away I needed to hear this today . Great content thank you
Welcome to the Tribe. All right now that’s what I’m talking about. I’m so happy you got out. Thank you I’m glad you enjoyed the content. You’re so welcome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
How are you feeling now after4 month ?? I got out 2 and half month ago
But she doesnt stop showing up around me with her new supply the other narc.the reason why i finally left her
I left as well and been going thru a lot mentally. Thinking it was all me and my fault and I was crazy. Now im seeing I was just voicing my boundaries and got gaslighted. Gave this woman 10 plus years of my life and I was completely lost
yes maam.... adjust your crown queen!!
Exactly you sure are 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You are absolutely right! I am the best thing that ever happened to that fool! I snatched that generator so quick! He still a bum. I really started loving myself and focusing on myself! God is so good he healed me and I am back and better than ever! I am never going back!
Yap.he is still a bum.only going from supply to supply.shm
Thanks be to God! 🙏😇
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis you better know that you are the best thing that ever happened to that bird. Thank goodness you snatched your generator quickly and got the running fast. Thank the Almighty Creator for your healing and yes you are back better than ever I love it. I believe that I know you are never going back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships No thank you! I love your videos! You are always speaking straight facts!
@@vanessayoung2008 Amen. You’re so welcome Sis.✨💖
CROWN ADJUSTED, having the POWER to HEAL in many ways.
Amen now that’s what I’m talking about Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Before my grandma passed, I’d told her what’d happened to me with that evil SOB and she simply told me, “don’t let no man or anyone steal your crown of glory” and that stuck with me ever since because she spoke facts. I’m still here thriving and I thank God I got away when I did🌹✨❤️
When you said the mom wants them as supply, that hit home. When ever we got into a argument that was the first place she ran her momma house. It was so annoying. I never want a mama girl again, and yes the mom treats the son as if he is her man. Never again I swear.
Yes that is fact. Mine use to say his mom was his first woman and look to her to validate when he said it smh 😂 crazy
I got away, sis. I went through it in the "relationship." I walked away when I wasn't financially able to, but I was done. I went through it in the aftermath. He punished me and did all kinds of stuff to try to destroy me. But I stood my ground, brought hell down on him, and I've been living in peace all this year, while he is suffering and dealing with his karma. God has blessed me with a nicer place, nicer car, and I just got a promotion making really good money, and I'm starting a business. My bank account is about to be on fleek (lol), and I will be traveling next year. Praise God! God blessed me out of a hard season....
I’m so thankful you got away. You took the loss and kept it moving only to gain more and more after this clown. Let him deal with his karma thank goodness you’re not around to get some of it too. Thank the Almighty Creator that you are glowing up and blowing up doing much better bank account on fleek again yes yes yes. I love it. That’s right praise the Almighty Creator you are out of the hard season and into the harvest season!!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I'm so proud of you ☺️👏❤️, this ambition and resourcefulness that was always there got to working. Personally just now going through the aftermath and the punishments are brutal. Good indication to keep going forward.
@@astrolove1212 thank you so much my sister. I appreciate you. Thank you for being here with us.🌟💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships awwww ! Appreciate it all too, so very much it was too parasitic not actually ever knowing what was going on. This is the shake up that's needed and support ❤️
@@astrolove1212 Amen.🌟💖
I’m the one that got away I’m the one for his eternal narc injury too... I’ll never go back... Living my life the best way possible... Happy and finally free 💜
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes the one that got away it will be an eternal narc injury you are absolutely correct about that. That is awesome never go back and continue to live your best life happily and free of that bird. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You feel free...and cant believe its finally over...everytime you reflect its like wow...no.more confusion.
@@missjj4706 welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis it’s the truth.🌟💖
Mine eventually started making physical threats..... and I knew that was the last thing. No way.
When he was seeing our son, he told me he is still so unhappy. Good! Thats how I was the 6yrs we were together. Im not sorry for the love I gave. I know, on my end, I was genuine. I was good. I did my part in the relationship and he has to live with missing all that
Oh yes he’s going to continue to be unhappy. They are some miserable people no never be sorry for the love you gave it was genuine you did it out of your heart. And that will be the karma that you will get back someday in the name of Jesus. You did your part he has to live at what he’s done and suffer the karma that he has coming to him. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
his loss....where your crown gurl!!!
G00d for you Jessica I was with my narc for 6yrs also n I know how it feels to love a empty space best of luck !
@@jerrybatten1893same
I remember the EXACT moment my ex toxic Narcissist said to me on the phone as he was courting the third party married Morman woman. “ I’m going to sleep on weather I’m going to keep you in my life or not”! After I heard those INCREDIBLE words having known him off and on for 45 years, I replied “ Let me make your decision quite easy for you” “ GOOD BYE”! I hung up and went NO CONTACT on all my outlets PERMANENTLY! That was last OCTOBER! I haven’t looked back and have FAITH GOD will lead me to a much happier life. TY for a great channel👼😇🙏
His whole family is was shocked that i pack up everything and left.
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m sure they were. I’m happy you got away.🌟💖
I took it like a champion 👑💪he will never come around me again 👀he is on block and,i cannot stand his mother ,or his sisters everything about his is just awful 😥😥
Now that’s what I’m talking about beautiful soul. You handle the business. I know that’s correct same here about that sister, narc and mother just awful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You going to be alright 🌼
True!
HONESTLY....
Walking away was actually the best decision I ever took. My emotions aren't off the wall. I'm healing well and I'm mentally so strong that nothing said behind my back is gonna drift me to the edge, no matter how bad.
If Karma is real, it will get to them. I'm still a work in progress. Yes, it hurts at times. But, when I compare myself to who I was with him vs how I am on my own by cutting him out and going no contact, my life I slowly on track.
Waking up early. Reaching work on time. Eating well. No late nights. No drained energy through the day. Life's Just bouncing back 🙏
I fill you sis
Heal,restore and deliver!! Glory to God!! Say it sis!!
Yes Sis!!🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Heal, restore and deliver!! Glory to God!! Amen
I said it sis and will keep saying it everyday thanks
BIRD...ain't even have proper health insurance till he met me... got on mine as soon as we married he was trying get on my car insurance and bank account too smh.... he will look for me in EVERYONE and he will never find me....and I can hold my head high... knowing I was genuine.... thanks Queen👑💜
Nikky Luv I can relate. I a went thru the same thing. Keep your head up and live your life. Your awesome
@@gailbrown1086 thank you dear😘💜
Same here !!! His ass didn’t have health insurance or nothing and I helped with all that ! His kids didn’t have proper clothes and i assisted him with that too and the minute I started to notice his manipulation tactics and lies and games all of a sudden he started to run from me and devalue me and twist things around having me thinking I was the problem
@@adose_of_Tequila girl I can go on for days about that leech, moocher, bum.... they don't care about their kids for real, anything you do for them they WILL take, I curse the day I met him
Welcome to the Tribe. I believe that you had to come into his life and give him the proper health insurance car insurance all of that. That is so sad but that’s just how low level they are. That’s right you were the Queen that he could never appreciate. You’re so welcome beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Hey, within about 3 weeks I moved to another state, got a better job, changed my number and block her and everybody I know on SM! CUT THEM OFF!!!!! 🙏😁🤪
Someone please make a compilation of Telshas best insults towards narcs 😂 so much power behind her words ❤
I cut his whole family off. I no contract with his sister and her daughter. The sister call me today but she on blocked on my phone.
Yes indeed that’s what I’m talking about cut the whole family off. Keep her blocked. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Cynthia Edgerton if you know like I know u better
Mine too the extended family is nuts
That's right block everyone, idc if it's the mailman block him/her too lol.
Snatched my generator/left the state! 3 DAYS NO CONTACT! Thank you all for your prayers and encouragement!🎇🎇🎇🎆🎇🎆😁😁😁😁 Gonna be best Thankgiving EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now that’s what I’m talking about you girl sis. Congratulations on your no contact. You’re so welcome that’s what we are here for we are family. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I never realised how much power I have and how special I am until i watched your videos. Thank you my sister.
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My second time to respond. Thank God I didn’t even get as far as meeting his mama. She wanted to me meet me. His sister was messy. So let sleeping dogs lie! I’m so happy! So, so happy!
Can't wait to get my "l said it and I mean it" T shirt...l am the one that got away... thanks be to God 🙏😇
Yes indeed the one that got away I believe it. Awesome please send me a picture of you and your T-shirt when you get it so we can post it in our community tab of the channel. Glory be to God. Amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
That is just what I said when I DID THE DISCARD...YOU ARE NOT TAKING ANY MORE OF THE RESPECT I HAVE FOR MYSELF..BYE BYE..3 YEARS NO CONTACT..THANK YOU JESUS FOR OPENING MY EYES...WHILE LOOKING AT THE DEVIL..🙏🙏
I am the one that got away.
So grateful. Thank you Jesus.
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen thank you Jesus for that. And I am happy that you got away Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
She dont like you homie- Your greatness is meant for a woman from GOD 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
When I was married to a narcissist, he actually admitted to me that his mother came first and that he loved her more. Toward the end of the marriage, when he was cheating, he told me he hated me and was just using me to support him. The married woman he was cheating with, that led to the divorce, actually did have pins for legs. He got very excited describing her, saying she didn’t have an ounce of fat in her body. She also had no curves and was built like a boy. She didn’t leave her husband for him so he did have to go live with his mother.
LOL
I love your contagious enthusiasm and sense of humour 🤣
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate the encouragement here. I’m happy you can appreciate my energy and humor.😂. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Not contagious radiant and passionate.
I just love your energy
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much I appreciate your encouragement. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Rightttttttt!!!!!
Thanks for letting God use your mouth... your voice has the power to compel us to change so that we might heal and reach our full potential...right now God is blessing us emotionally, physically, financially and protecting us from all harm and danger!💙🌅🏄
Amen Sis I told the Almighty Creator use me as a vessel Father. That is so humbling Sis. I appreciate your encouragement it has truly blessed my soul. A man and I am so thankful to the Almighty Creator for blessing us in every way that you have mentioned here protecting us from all hurt harm and danger seen and unseen. Wow just powerful. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
AMEN!!🙏🏽
Riding that pride horse during the discard stage. Hmph, I discarded that nut and hadn't looked back.
He called my phone private I hung up without a word amen
5 months narc free🙏Shocked him when I packed his things and gave a move out date..Hasn't been back to even visit our son, popped up in a text today with a sob story..Did not feed into it, so proud of my healing❤Thank you!
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow I’m so proud of you. Congratulations on your no contact. That’s right you don’t feed into it starve the birds. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships ❤Thank you so much! I appreciate you having this channel for us😊
@@sagewisdom3371 you’re so welcome beautiful soul.✨💖
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Best feelings in the world when you end the game ! Now keep it moving age will pay him back for you !
He thought, he thought...He thought wrong! lol
That part right there Sis - he had you twisted lol. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
This is one of your BEST messages!! Those tears did purge!! I even did light work on my ex after I left, they say it’s hard to hate someone that you are praying for and it’s true! I don’t ever want that fake bastard bird in my life again but it feels good to receive my new glorious beauty for ashes now knowing that I let go of the ASHES finally!!! I said it and I mean it!!!
Come on my sister didn’t those tears purge you. I know because they did for me. I know that’s correct birds to not belong in our homes nor our beds forget that we’re over that. We are never going back. Yes indeed beauty for ashes. That’s right I said it and I mean it.🙌🏽🙌🏽. I’m so happy you enjoyed the message. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Yas!!! Love you girl God Bless you and your anointed messages! I’ve used them to help 2 other girl friends of mine going through the same hell, your messages are like a hilarious light and reassurance in this messed up world! I said it and I mean it! ❤️👌
This is almost like she knows what I went through word for word.
I took 2 days to stay in a hotel to get away from my narc. I'm trying to get stronger.
The truth people say I always land on my feet
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen.🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
How about having his new puppet sit outside my house?!?! After I'm the one who discarded him!
I've never witnessed something so pathetic in my life 🙄
Welcome to the Tribe. Wow - That's what the toxic supply will do to earn the love and loyalty badge from the narc - that the narc will never deliver on. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Ayooo on me this the same shit I'm going through 🤣🤣🤣 and she really mad at me talking about he deserves better 🤣🤣🤣 I told her that's why I let you have em 🤣🤣🤣 the creep went so far off the deep end he thought by denying our four children I would come back 🤣🤣🤣
When you said "And I mean a whoooole NEST of em!" 😂🤣🤣 You have the best analogies! 🙌🏽
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I was grade a supply. But i got sick of that burd and divorced him. And my life got sooooo much better
I left him before the discard!! I moved out of town!!
The narc says he's waiting I guess he's waiting for a response. He can wait till icycles fall off they azz
Welcome to the Tribe. Exactly he is waiting for you to return to begin another cycle of abuse. Please don’t go back it will only be worse. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Thank you so much for allowing me to get a great understanding of what's going on. You are such a beautiful spirit.. Contributing to my healing process Blessings 💕💕💕
my aunt's EX is still waiting...its been 33 yrs she still married
He had me crazy in the beginning of the discard but I put them gloves on and fought my way out of that bondage. My husband and my in-laws did everything to break me!!
Welcome to the Tribe. I’m sure that they did that she usually their method of operation. Bless you sis I’m so happy you got out. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I recently just got away it’s been a horrible 3 months but you are speaking to my soul.. I was definitely the one who got away I’m just trying to keep my mental together and live in my purpose !! The narcissist got me good during the discard I wasn’t even aware
Excellent video!! Thank you so much❤ I'm a new subscriber and I'm so happy i found your channel❤ Ive been married for nearly 14 years and been separated for 10 months.He moved back with his mom 😢We lived like roommates 50/50 throughout the entire marriage. So sad and hurtful 😢 Everything your saying speaks to me and my situation. Im so depressed and i feel lost... Thank you so much ❤
I didn’t get no restaurants or the coffee shops, the other women did.
Thank you so much for this Message! I have Been thriving and I’m not done yet…. God has blessed me to live in luxury..New condo.. New job making the most money I’ve ever made … I was vocal training on and off throughout the 5.5 year relationship with the narc.. and now my vocals are better than they have ever Ben … it’s like even in the midst of going through abuse with the narc.. Not only did God reveal the signs … but he was also preparing Blessings for me.. that I received as soon as I left the Narc. Stay strong Tribe .. have faith that everything is working together for the good of those that love God !❤️
Healing is a long process but I got time. I'm the one that got away. I got tired of being the side chick to his sister and home girls. I got tired of the abuse and he had no empathy at all never seen anything like him. I'm grade A.
I get some sort of hoovers every couple of months. He see’s me happy he tries to make me jealous with that Kermit wife of his lol. He needs to grow tf up, he discarded me so just leaaave for good, sir.
LOL he has a Kermit wife lol.😂. Good luck with that one day never grow up. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
My God! He saved my soul! Praise the most high! Thank you for shining your light in the darkness. Blessings!
Don't ever go back to sumone who don't respect you
😂 your vibe makes me laugh while watching this 😆 you definitely can help anyone overcome narc abuse lol cheers me up every time I watch your videos 😆✌🏼
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol!😂😂😂Thank you so much I’m happy you enjoyed the video and got a great laugh.😂😂. Amen we are going to be healed around here in Jesus name. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Every time indeed, and you get to learn so much, and fully heal in your inner man! Glory to God!
Tell the truth Tea!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yessss we wear our Crown 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis no other option.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They're such fools - i love how u put it lol...clowns...etc.
😂🤣. I went from crying to laughing
Gurlllll, you are all up in my business!! You broke it down to the T 💯💯 I’m so grateful to God for deliverance from that monster and his family!! Thank you Ms. T you rock! Be safe in and enjoy life. I feel like I know you lol. 💞
Welcome to the Tribe. LOL what did you say sis girl get out of my business LOL. I love it! Oh yes you know I give it to you all straight no chaser. I’m happy you were delivered from that monster and his family as well. You are out now stay out in the name of Jesus. Thank you so much for your encouragement. Be safe and enjoy your best life as well thank you. We know each other in the spirit we have kindred spirits that’s the closeness we feel as a family. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Sheeet she all up in my business too ya know!?!? Um um um. She telling the 411 on this 911! Y'all go ladies
I stumbled on your videos yesterday and can't stop watching.
I have been dealing with a narcissist for almost 6 years and I'm getting out of this EMOTIONAL/MENTAL TRAP immediately!!! It has been a true Rollercoaster. I have recently learned that the hoovering ALWAYS WON ME BACK. I am directing my ❤ to loving the ones that love me!!
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There should be more than just a like button, you have made my weekend!!! Much love and God Bless
Welcome to the Tribe. Sis that is so awesome. I’m so happy I could make your weekend that is awesome beautiful soul. May the Almighty Creator bless you as well thank you much love to you sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
He wants your supplies n so does the family!!
Facts.💯💯💯
You're better at this than anyone else on the scene. Props.
I got away, that bird has no more control!!!!!!! Queen Tea, you are all that, I said it and I mean it! lol you are so funny and amazing. Stay unique.
Thank you so much beautiful soul I appreciate your encouragement always. You are so awesome. You got away from that bird. I’m so proud of you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
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I love you so much, I smiled all through this one! I SAID IT AND I MEAN IT!!!😊
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome. That’s right I said it and I mean it. I’m so happy that I can make you smile. Sending all the love right back to you thank you so much. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Wow! Now this is power, fire and authority 🙏😊!
Praise God I’m happy you enjoyed the message.✨💖
I STARTED OFF WITH YOU YOU ARE GOOD YOU MAKE ME LAUGH WITH IT YOU CRAZY. THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT IT REALLY HELPED JUST WANT TO THANK YOU ! 🤜❤️🤛
He discarded me 1 month after having our first son to go back to that toxic narcissist backburner saying he realized hes still in love with her. He used to talk so bad about her (triangulation) Went no contact ever since, hes blocked everywhere. My bouncing back game is so strong. No need to be part of that circus. My son doesnt need anyone who doesn't want him.
6.5 years I left this bird.two months ago.got already two supply one after one.sick.
Wow that is so awesome 6 1/2 years you left this bird. Congratulations I’m proud of you. As Karma served him one sick supply after another sad. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Facts, facts, and more facts!!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
You ARE the Baptist version of Dr. Ramini! Love you, thank you for the info and the encouragement. One step at a time.
🎶Yessss WE Ridessss With Ya Gurl!! 🎶 👑Queen T Another Awesome 🔥 Video! I love your energy‼️ Thank you again so very much for educating us!! Amen…Amen Again! 🙌🏽🫶🏽🙏🏽
i for sure got away and now i have a car and moving forward in life and finish up school and finding happiness and freedom all by my self and being with my family👌🏼.
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