This guy is exaggerating about his wife’s surgery. I’m sure she’s still healing with those scars…. Plus It’s his fault for making her feel insecure. I wanna hear her story
When you're young, cuts will heal nicely, leaving little to no scars. But when you're old, like this woman, it will heal but it can leave a permanent scar. Even when young, some scars are permanent. Plus, some people are more prone to scarring than others.
Yup, don't go cut yourself up, it will never be the same again. Let nature takes its course. If a person doesn't see or love who you are, doesn't matter what you do, it just a temporary for them.
His love for her was already gone way before the whole plastic surgery incident. He is just coming up with an excuse to try to justify why he divorced her. Disgusting!
He’s a horrible man! Always has excuses and puts down his own wife! That’s a shame!! I’m sure he left out a lot of his cheating details too. His wife wouldnt go thru all those changes unless he’s been looking else where.
You did it to yourself. You cheated on your wife and that’s what caused her to do what she did. Take responsibility for your own action and don’t blame her relatives for your infidelity. You’re a grown man. Should’ve known better not to cheat.
@@touavangvarietychannel9744 - But he is a grown man so he should know better to say “No, I have a wife so I’m not going to cheat on my wife.” Just like you and I. We are adults. We know from right to wrong. If someone offer you drugs and you know it’s wrong. Will you take the drug and blame that person for it?
Kuv yeej ib txwm nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg tab sis thaum kuv hnov txog koj lub qe tsw tsw lwj ces Kuv tsis xav mloog lawm ua neej nyob ces tus neeg phem ces yeej ua tsis tau neeg zoo li os MAY VANG
Very true, the way he described their bedtime is so disgusting. He is so mean and full of excuses. "Nws mus txob7 plaub?? How bout you? Didn't you did it first that's why she did it🥶
This is what you call a “typical Hmong boy” who never see his wrong doing! Ball tossing, so call for “his son,” please; your wife isn’t that stupid. Her getting surgery wasn't the cause of a broken marriage. You didn't love her enough to feel that she needed to change her whole physical appearance.
She feels insecure because you cheated on her and now you’re complaining when all this doing started with you! It’s your fault and I don’t feel sorry for you. Let’s hear her side of the story.
Wow! No matter what a female does… it’s always her fault. Now let’s blame it on her brother for taking him out to go see the younger girlfriend🤢 because I’m Pretty sure the brother put a gun to his head and told the husband to “talk”to the girlfriend 🙄. Oh… and because he can’t get himself up… that’s the wife’s fault too?? Maybe you just can’t get it up because you’re older now?? But let’s blame it on the wife.. why not😂
No…the guy is just a baby that he can’t dress himself up so the brother had to dress him and dragged him out and ball toss with younger girls. OMG..!! Shame on her for marrying a young boy who can’t fend for himself!!! Lol Guys ces any excuse to have an affair li os. SMFH!!! 🤬🤬🤬😡😡
Lies, if men can sleep with their wife when they're 7 8 month pregnant without a wierd feeling, then why is a scare such a big issue. Plaj loj muaj mi ab es pws twb tau tsi xu siab es kab caw plia xwb koj muab ua teej meem loj....
Thaub laus Nov nws yeej npaj lub siab ua phem rau nws tus poj Niam lawm xwb, nws lam muab tej nyuag teeb meem surgery Los bring up ua ib qhov teeb meem xwb, mloog qhov toob tib xwb ces yeej paub lawm hais tias Koj Yog tus phem os Thaub hmoob meka
Yes, need to hear her side too. N she did this for you cus she felt insecure by how you made her feel…by going for younger girls ( pretty sure there was more to ur story you didn’t inform. No reason why she would go that far just to try to impress you). If you do really love her, those scar tissues should not bother you. Wish the best for you both.
Txhob tias vim luag. Yog koj hlub nws ces txawm zoo li cas los koj yeej hlub nws. Thaum kawg Koj yuav yog tus swb. Zaum no ces lub ntuj teg ko diav lawm
Ruam tshaj koj ces tsis muaj li lawm os thaub, peb mas nyiam hom poj niam li koj tus tshaj nplaws li os Yom poj niam txhawb2 txiv neej zog ces yog koj tus ko xwb las mas
Nej cov txivneej ces nej tsuas ua rau nej zoosiab xwb..koj xub phovsiav nws thiaj li mus ua xwb, and yes…exercise is the only medication that can fix our body naturally.
The sad side of niam ntsuab teev cov dab neeg mas used to be on my recommended screen but txim thaub kuv tau ntsim tus nkauj hmoob kuv ib txwm hlub/nyias ces kuv hos tsis tsua los mloog lawm. Ua tsaug rau koj tus youtube os May Vang. I really appreciate it because when you're sad and broken, nothing is more soothing than listening to sad stories and sad music to be even more sad... but this story was hilarious I told my lady about this 🤣
Kuv ntseeg li tus txiv neej no hais vim peb ua neeg nyias muaj nyias nqaij ib co mas mag hlais tag Kav txaws pliav tsis loj hos ib co mas kab txaws mas loj heev li thiab
Depends on the incision option she chose. A full or extended tummy tuck incision can leave behind a rather large scar. While a mini tummy tuck incision only requires a small incision below the belly. Anyhow, there are options to remove scars if the scar is too large. Seek for help before parting your marriage.
Ladies and gentlemen please don’t get any surgery done for another person. If they don’t like your new look, you’ll be broken hearted more than ever. Change your heart first. Know your worth as a woman and man. You don’t want to live life keeping up with surgeries just to please other people.
All I hear is me, me, me and what I see that’s wrong with her, her scares, how it makes you feel, how turned off you are. Do you even hear what you are saying? Once you love someone those physical things don’t matter but obviously it matters to you. It’s because you betrayed her and made her feel worthless that she did all those things to feel alive. Why didn’t you help her with the kids so she has time to exercise and take care of herself? She’ll heal physically. Don’t you see she’s still the same person you married? You’re the one that sees her different! Reassure her that you love her no matter what and support her in all the ways to motivate her. Women, take care of your body and health. After each child, get strong, bounce back. If you chose to get plastic surgery - do it for you and the right reasons - never to please him. I’m all for bettering yourself, just keep in mind the recovery, risk, upkeep of such things. It could be as easy as eating right and exercising first and as a last resort - surgery if necessary.
You tell the truth when you don't love someone. Don't blame on what they've done to themselves just for you to love them. Just admit that you don't love her and she'll be on her way. Don't waste her time. Plus you don't need to tell her that her body is bad. She could already tell by the way you treat her and cheat on her. 🤦♀️
Sister, don't do plastic surgery for a man. After 4t years old, all men turn into woman because their little brother doesn't work anymore. Leave if not happy. A man's trash is another man's treasure. Be happy with your look and age.
poj niam ces ưa li cas los yeeb txaum xwb os thaub laus aw lwm tiam thov kom koj thawj thiab los ưa poj niam naw koj thiaj yuav paub tias ưa poj niam zoo li cas niam ntsuab teev kj pab xa tsab ntawv no mus rau tus thaub dev no naw
Older Hmong men like you wait on their wife's hands and feet. You probably don't let you wife have some self care, how can you expect her to just exercise to get her body back. You obviously never carried additional weight like how she carried your children so you will never ever know why it's hard for some women to lose that additional weight/skin. Probably made her self conscious and insecure for her to want plastic surgery. Even if you didn't, it's her body and her decision and if you really loved her like you claim, should've supported her decision.
Honestly, at the end, I felt like he was just telling his story to bash his ex. He cheated first, now he's making justifications of why he doesn't love his ex. He also tells us about what he hears other men talking bad about his ex. Hmmm... sounds like he's on here just to bash his ex..nothing to learn, except don't be like him - a cheater trying to justify why he cheats.
Zaj nov yog koj zaj neejneeg ces koj piav koj sab zoo xwb pob. Mloog mas yeej yog koj tsis muaj kevhlub nrog koj tus pojniam lawm. Koj yeej tau tham nkauj Mos Ab lawm es nws thiajli ualino.
The problem is You! Your actions made her doubt herself. When you became a cheater, it reaffirmed her thoughts. Everything she did, she did them for YOU.
Plastic surgery is never the solution to husband and wife issues. Look beyond the clouds, think beyond your problem and issues with one another and resolve it, not due to plastic surgery or stupid reason but reasonable solutions to the both of you. Neither of you want to compromise on one goal and solution.
Plastic surgery can be addictive. Once koj ua ib qho ces yeej xav ua dua. Neb ob leeg tsis txawj sib hais thiab neb lub neej twb tsis sov siab lawm ces no matter what it’s coming to an end. Vim koj pheej xu siab rau nws es nws thiaj tsis xav yuav koj. You need to accept her.
This guy is exaggerating about his wife’s surgery. I’m sure she’s still healing with those scars…. Plus It’s his fault for making her feel insecure. I wanna hear her story
When you're young, cuts will heal nicely, leaving little to no scars. But when you're old, like this woman, it will heal but it can leave a permanent scar. Even when young, some scars are permanent. Plus, some people are more prone to scarring than others.
I do want to hear her side too
I totally agree with you
I wanna hear the guys side from majority of these stories
Yup, don't go cut yourself up, it will never be the same again. Let nature takes its course. If a person doesn't see or love who you are, doesn't matter what you do, it just a temporary for them.
His love for her was already gone way before the whole plastic surgery incident. He is just coming up with an excuse to try to justify why he divorced her. Disgusting!
You must be his daughter
I agree. Just an excuse for him to leave her
Oo stop it! Just take his advice, learn from their failures relationship lol.
@@Rough-inevitable You must be his best friend! Lmao.
Wrong, you didn't listen the whole story !!!
He’s a horrible man! Always has excuses and puts down his own wife! That’s a shame!! I’m sure he left out a lot of his cheating details too. His wife wouldnt go thru all those changes unless he’s been looking else where.
You did it to yourself. You cheated on your wife and that’s what caused her to do what she did. Take responsibility for your own action and don’t blame her relatives for your infidelity. You’re a grown man. Should’ve known better not to cheat.
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If you really gonna put tge blame someone, blame her brother in laos 🇱🇦.... he's the one that took the husband out!
@@touavangvarietychannel9744 - But he is a grown man so he should know better to say “No, I have a wife so I’m not going to cheat on my wife.” Just like you and I. We are adults. We know from right to wrong. If someone offer you drugs and you know it’s wrong. Will you take the drug and blame that person for it?
Ok ok I see your point....
Let's be honest, the marriage was already broken before plastic surgery.
Agreed.
Koj ntxub koj poj niam ces txhua txhua yam Nws ua yeej tsis haum koj siab os.
Yeej Yog tim koj lawm.
Kuv yeej ib txwm nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg tab sis thaum kuv hnov txog koj lub qe tsw tsw lwj ces
Kuv tsis xav mloog lawm ua neej nyob ces tus neeg phem ces yeej ua tsis tau neeg zoo li os MAY VANG
Two minutes into it, I had to stop. He thinks his lectures and disgust of her scars are justifiable.
Me too! I told my husband to turn it off I can’t stand it
Very true, the way he described their bedtime is so disgusting. He is so mean and full of excuses. "Nws mus txob7 plaub?? How bout you? Didn't you did it first that's why she did it🥶
same. He annoying.
I feel like he is just using her plastic surgery as an excuse from cheating. So dumb.
Agreed 💯
For real!
He’s done with her since Laos nkauj mos ab, people.
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I love to hear her side of the story.
lol😂
me too lol
This is what you call a “typical Hmong boy” who never see his wrong doing! Ball tossing, so call for “his son,” please; your wife isn’t that stupid. Her getting surgery wasn't the cause of a broken marriage. You didn't love her enough to feel that she needed to change her whole physical appearance.
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Mai ua koj tsaug txos zaj neej neeg koj piav no.Yog ib qho zoo kawg nkaus nawb, yuav luas yuam kev os Tus niam tsev aws
No offense but I still feel like there are lots of missing pieces to this story and I’m pretty sure it’s his fault.
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Yog yus poj niam ua zoo nkauj rau yus xwb ces yus kuj uv thiab los maa yawm txiv aw tej zaum yeej tim yud phem thiab os
So if she had gotten a c-section, he would’ve left her. He’s a sad excuse for a husband. She needs to get rid of him ASAP.
Kathleeher, you took the words right out of my mouth.
Period.
Koj twb tsis xav hlub nws, koj thiaj ua txuj muab qhov nyuam caws pliav ko los tib koj tus niam tsev xwb...txiv neej lub siab yeej phem thiaj hloov siab mus hlub Lwm tus...
😂😂😂😂mloog nawb Nej na Txhob mus ua zoo nkauj lamw nawb
She feels insecure because you cheated on her and now you’re complaining when all this doing started with you! It’s your fault and I don’t feel sorry for you. Let’s hear her side of the story.
The first few mins I can't even stand his excuse to cheat and insults to his wife. Not wasting my time.
Unsubscribe!!!
Wow! No matter what a female does… it’s always her fault. Now let’s blame it on her brother for taking him out to go see the younger girlfriend🤢 because I’m
Pretty sure the brother put a gun to his head and told the husband to “talk”to the girlfriend 🙄. Oh… and because he can’t get himself up… that’s the wife’s fault too?? Maybe you just can’t get it up because you’re older now?? But let’s blame it on the wife.. why not😂
No…the guy is just a baby that he can’t dress himself up so the brother had to dress him and dragged him out and ball toss with younger girls. OMG..!! Shame on her for marrying a young boy who can’t fend for himself!!! Lol
Guys ces any excuse to have an affair li os. SMFH!!! 🤬🤬🤬😡😡
Dag tshaj plaws li os
Lies, if men can sleep with their wife when they're 7 8 month pregnant without a wierd feeling, then why is a scare such a big issue. Plaj loj muaj mi ab es pws twb tau tsi xu siab es kab caw plia xwb koj muab ua teej meem loj....
The title should be, "Mus nplog teb los txog lub neej tawg kiag".
Thaub laus Nov nws yeej npaj lub siab ua phem rau nws tus poj Niam lawm xwb, nws lam muab tej nyuag teeb meem surgery Los bring up ua ib qhov teeb meem xwb, mloog qhov toob tib xwb ces yeej paub lawm hais tias Koj Yog tus phem os Thaub hmoob meka
A narcissist will always has excuses for his every behaviors.
Don’t blame the surgeries. U just want someone new.
Wow! Txawv lawm puag yog!
Another jerk trying to justify his cheating... this woman need to love herself and leave him. He doesn't even deserve her... 🤬😡
Yes, need to hear her side too. N she did this for you cus she felt insecure by how you made her feel…by going for younger girls ( pretty sure there was more to ur story you didn’t inform. No reason why she would go that far just to try to impress you). If you do really love her, those scar tissues should not bother you. Wish the best for you both.
Ua cas kuv twb yuav mus ua los ho. Cas tseem hnov koj zaj story lawm thiab ne!!
You didn’t need to say it. Your actions when you guys went to Laos says otherwise. Blah, blah, blah…….next story.
All I learned from this story is another typical hmong husband bashing his wife to make him look like the good guy! Ugh!!!
It’s your fault! You probably never praised her and talking to a young girl in Laos. You just want to leave her and making excuses!
555funny kawg kwv tij awd.
Like all the our Hmong ladies comment❤❤❤
Sib nrauj zoo dua vim lub neej mus tsis Tau lawm vim nej cov txiv neej pheej than nkauj mos ab nws thiaj ntshaw kom nws zoo nkauj
Lol 😂 brah 😂 lol 😂 lmmfaaooo
Txhob tias vim luag. Yog koj hlub nws ces txawm zoo li cas los koj yeej hlub nws. Thaum kawg Koj yuav yog tus swb. Zaum no ces lub ntuj teg ko diav lawm
Wow...it's so scary and so sad!!!
Ruam tshaj koj ces tsis muaj li lawm os thaub, peb mas nyiam hom poj niam li koj tus tshaj nplaws li os
Yom poj niam txhawb2 txiv neej zog ces yog koj tus ko xwb las mas
Thaum aw Tim koj xwb os twg koj kom mus Tham cov hluas2 Tim ub nawb
Niag txiv neej no hai tau g txau ntseeg dagdag xb o muaj hlua lm xb na
Yes yeej yog tim neb ob leeg.
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Niam ntsuab teev, zaj no tsis zoo mloog li as....
Tu txiv txawj dag ntsaj txiv neej mas nyiam hom poj niam lub tsev kom zoo nkauj xob yeej yog nws muaj tus ntsiab lawm txawj dag
Hahaha cas dag ua luag na
Nej cov txivneej ces nej tsuas ua rau nej zoosiab xwb..koj xub phovsiav nws thiaj li mus ua xwb, and yes…exercise is the only medication that can fix our body naturally.
Yog lawm
Stop complaining about your wife. If you don’t like her anymore then move on. She deserve someone better than you.
Haha txaus luag kawg
The sad side of niam ntsuab teev cov dab neeg mas used to be on my recommended screen but txim thaub kuv tau ntsim tus nkauj hmoob kuv ib txwm hlub/nyias ces kuv hos tsis tsua los mloog lawm. Ua tsaug rau koj tus youtube os May Vang. I really appreciate it because when you're sad and broken, nothing is more soothing than listening to sad stories and sad music to be even more sad... but this story was hilarious I told my lady about this 🤣
555.tus txiv tsev aw koj mas hais tau yog thiab ho txaus luag thiab hhh
Ib tug neeg twg yog nws hlub yus lawm yeej tsi muaj qhov tib txog yus phem.
Kv Mloog tag ces Yog tim kj xwb os yawg txiv aws...kj tus poj niam ua yog lawmos
Love to hear her side of story too,
Ces koj mam nrauj es mus yuav ib tug ua pog laus ua lawv twb tsuav ntuag txau txaus piam tag thiaj zoo siab
Cov txiv neej zoo li zaj neej no mas siab phem heev
Kuv ntseeg li tus txiv neej no hais vim peb ua neeg nyias muaj nyias nqaij ib co mas mag hlais tag Kav txaws pliav tsis loj hos ib co mas kab txaws mas loj heev li thiab
Depends on the incision option she chose. A full or extended tummy tuck incision can leave behind a rather large scar. While a mini tummy tuck incision only requires a small incision below the belly. Anyhow, there are options to remove scars if the scar is too large. Seek for help before parting your marriage.
To be honest plastic surgery it is scary and it might drive people away.
Ladies and gentlemen please don’t get any surgery done for another person. If they don’t like your new look, you’ll be broken hearted more than ever. Change your heart first. Know your worth as a woman and man. You don’t want to live life keeping up with surgeries just to please other people.
Tus txiv neej hmoob no mas tsis tsim nyog tuaj rhuav nws tus poj niam li no he acts like he's perfect.
Txhob liam tias vim nkauj hmoob nplog nej lub neej thiaj puas nawb 😂nej ua nej xwb ov😂
Cov Phais 2 nos ces Kuv tsis ntsias Lis os, Kuv rhiab2 lus nawb
Some woman need to stop being so insecure about their self. Just appreciate the natural beauty you were born with.
All I hear is me, me, me and what I see that’s wrong with her, her scares, how it makes you feel, how turned off you are. Do you even hear what you are saying? Once you love someone those physical things don’t matter but obviously it matters to you. It’s because you betrayed her and made her feel worthless that she did all those things to feel alive. Why didn’t you help her with the kids so she has time to exercise and take care of herself? She’ll heal physically. Don’t you see she’s still the same person you married? You’re the one that sees her different! Reassure her that you love her no matter what and support her in all the ways to motivate her.
Women, take care of your body and health. After each child, get strong, bounce back. If you chose to get plastic surgery - do it for you and the right reasons - never to please him. I’m all for bettering yourself, just keep in mind the recovery, risk, upkeep of such things. It could be as easy as eating right and exercising first and as a last resort - surgery if necessary.
You tell the truth when you don't love someone. Don't blame on what they've done to themselves just for you to love them. Just admit that you don't love her and she'll be on her way. Don't waste her time. Plus you don't need to tell her that her body is bad. She could already tell by the way you treat her and cheat on her. 🤦♀️
Txoj no ma mloog tau mob hlwb heev, tu txiv no nim tuaj piav nw cov lu ce dag li dag xwb, nw cov lu qhia tau tia nw yig tu ntxeev siab
Vim koj than nkauj mos ab be nws thiaj feel insecure
Yeah its because of you, you cheated frist
Sister, don't do plastic surgery for a man. After 4t years old, all men turn into woman because their little brother doesn't work anymore. Leave if not happy. A man's trash is another man's treasure. Be happy with your look and age.
ALL the salty comments here are from people that went through plastic surgery.
Change my mind.
Thov kj tus feev rau kV muab ib zaj rau kj hais os nìam laus
Tim koj xwb os yawg thaub
poj niam ces ưa li cas los yeeb txaum xwb os thaub laus aw lwm tiam thov kom koj thawj thiab los ưa poj niam naw koj thiaj yuav paub tias ưa poj niam zoo li cas niam ntsuab teev kj pab xa tsab ntawv no mus rau tus thaub dev no naw
Tej saum koj yeej tsis Tshua xav yuav nws thiab pos
Koj dag koj tus kheej xwb vim txiv neej yeej nyiam tus zoo li koj tus es thiaj khwv nyiaj ua hnub ua hmo xwb los kho yus tus kheej xwb
Txiv neej hmoob, yog kj tsi nyiam than hlud nkauj mas txhua yam thiaj ntseeg kj
First 2 min of the story..... my thinking is. Plastic surgery did not destroy your marriage. You cheating on her destroyed your marriage.
She had plastic surgery too late, that’s why he found laos young grass and destroyed her and marriage
Older Hmong men like you wait on their wife's hands and feet. You probably don't let you wife have some self care, how can you expect her to just exercise to get her body back. You obviously never carried additional weight like how she carried your children so you will never ever know why it's hard for some women to lose that additional weight/skin. Probably made her self conscious and insecure for her to want plastic surgery. Even if you didn't, it's her body and her decision and if you really loved her like you claim, should've supported her decision.
Honestly, at the end, I felt like he was just telling his story to bash his ex. He cheated first, now he's making justifications of why he doesn't love his ex. He also tells us about what he hears other men talking bad about his ex. Hmmm... sounds like he's on here just to bash his ex..nothing to learn, except don't be like him - a cheater trying to justify why he cheats.
Mam2 os laj2 tos li lm os me hlub
Tej zaj no mloog nkim sijhawm xwb.
Ntuj aws thaub laus aws.....koj yeej tsis hlub koj tus pojniam los ntev os. Mloog koj txoj kev thuam nws xwb paub tag os niag tsej muag dev laus.
Yog kawg
Just don't take the clothes off!!!
Zaj nov yog koj zaj neejneeg ces koj piav koj sab zoo xwb pob. Mloog mas yeej yog koj tsis muaj kevhlub nrog koj tus pojniam lawm. Koj yeej tau tham nkauj Mos Ab lawm es nws thiajli ualino.
Koj xav pauv siab ces koj lam hais kom koj yeej xwb
ua tsaug ntau rau koj zaj neej neeg no mog zaum no ces kuv txwv kuv tus tsis pub mus txua lawm lau
She did it in the first place because you cheated on her
Cas lub suab yuav zoo li txiv neej
The problem is You! Your actions made her doubt herself. When you became a cheater, it reaffirmed her thoughts. Everything she did, she did them for YOU.
Kho yus Poj niam rau lwm tus puag…. Txhob tu siab thaum kawg koj tus Yeej.
Xaj maim no nai maum keej2 lawm g caws loj npaum koj hai li os koj dag xb
Tsuas koj tu txiv neej kos thiab complain xwb os. Lwm tus txiv neej nyiam xwb xwb.
Plastic surgery is never the solution to husband and wife issues. Look beyond the clouds, think beyond your problem and issues with one another and resolve it, not due to plastic surgery or stupid reason but reasonable solutions to the both of you. Neither of you want to compromise on one goal and solution.
Tus txiv dev no use excuse xwb os
Txhob nkhaus nkhau thiab lau thaub aw cas kus kes ua luaj
Plastic surgery can be addictive. Once koj ua ib qho ces yeej xav ua dua. Neb ob leeg tsis txawj sib hais thiab neb lub neej twb tsis sov siab lawm ces no matter what it’s coming to an end. Vim koj pheej xu siab rau nws es nws thiaj tsis xav yuav koj. You need to accept her.