This story is a great lesson learn for our Hmong women. I’ve heard most of May stories and it’s mostly about how the husband mistreat them and how the husband does not do any chores around the house. An advice to our Hmong women, your husband will only behave in a certain way if you allow him to. If you allow him to leave the toilet seat up, he will continue to do so. So please train him to be a grown man and clean up after himself. As a Hmong husband, I can assure you my wife and I do 50/50 of the house duties. I cook, clean, do laundry, try to fix car, attempt to diy fixing anything broken in my own home and take care of my kids. Also to our Hmong husband, do not do all the chores around the house, this can lead to your wife becoming dependent. This is vice versa.
It has nothing to do with friends. It’s the guy. If he didn’t insert, penis wouldn’t/wont enter. A person who has no intention to do wrong will never talk to, meet or see another woman or men alone. No matter how much other party call or try to meet, his or her spouse will always there with him.
Ceev faj yus tus phooj ywg zoo2 ntawm yus ib sab twb yog yus tus yeeb ncuab, txav kom deb2 li deb tau txawm tus phooj ywg muaj txiv thiab tsis muaj txiv los txhob qhia lub siab kom tas2 nawb cov mi niam tsev aw
A lesson to be mindful of your “friends.” Always check his phone, your bank accounts and everything. Your intuition is always right. You let him know there’s the line and if it’s crossed this is exactly what’s going to happen. If he cheats - make sure you are the nicest person to him, get everything in your name, take all the money than leave him in the dust before he knows. He’s already gone when he betrays you. No need to stick around and share him with anyone.
Girl, install Spyware on that bish! Keep a joint account AND your own account. Most couples are against hiding anything but dayum! Keep that single account and it's money hidden for rainy days! (Or you could withdraw money from the joint account to keep in your single to save in case he cheats.)
Nyob zoo os tus me niam tsev siab zoo aw, tsis txhob tu siab mog thaum mloog koj lub neej neejneeg no tag kuj pab hlub koj kawg nkaus nawb, ntau yam koj hais yeej yog lawm, pab hlub koj kawg nawb mog, tabsis txiv neej tsis yog phem tag tus mog, thaum txivneej hais kom koj ua li ub li no koj tsis kam ua ces nws thiaj li fav siab vim nws raug dab lawm ned, tsis yog txiv tub kom tsis txhob mus tua dais ua ke no los sav? tsis txhob ntseeg koj tus phoojywg tas2 no ned? pab hlub koj heev mog, tshuav Vajtswv tseem hlub koj laiv...
Ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nrog ib tug poj niam ces yeej yog zaj no xwb los mas me koj niam aw, cov neeg pheej muaj muaj phooj ywg zoo ces lawv yeej txeeb yus tus txiv ntag hos.
Why do some dads complain that our moms are old and no longer good? Do they not look at themselves in the mirror? Do they brush their teeth with their eyes closed? Hello?! Use mirrors to look at yourselves before you start judging our moms.
You are too Kind! I would've kicked him to the curb! Your pojlaib friend was never your friend, just a Homewrecker!!! You better not take him back! Love & Respect yourself, Hmong sister!!!
My best friend is my husband’s younger’s wife she cheated with my husband, now is my ex-husband. I left him.. I moved on remarried and much much happier. Why take your husband back when he left you for dead for another woman.
That's crazy! So happy you didn't put up with that shit and moved on. I wish you nothing but happiness. You deserve way better. He will miss you. Wish our mothers and some sisters would be stronger and stop tolerating all the abuse and cheatings.
We women have to change the way Hmoob men think of us. Don't let them disrespect and treated us the way they do. We have to do the changing, it is up to us.
Koj nyuab siab ua dab tsi os nkauj hmoob aw tseem tshuav peb nawb peb yeej txawj hlub poj niam ib yam thiab os los sis peb tseem txawj dua koj tus txiv dev ntawd os.
That’s why I don’t keep friends. And never trust your spouse 100%. I’d also report her for trespassing. Of course an unwanted person comes into your house you have every right to “protect” yourself. 🤷🏻♀️ But ultimately I’d get rid of that dog and his flea. I find that being alone is the best thing ever! No one to complain to you, nor do you have to cook or clean after someone else, no other persons bullshit.
Girl, me, too! Friends are nothing but trouble! I don't have any friends and I like it like that. Trust? Hubby? Nope. Always one foot in the inside and the other foot on the outside. You can never be too cautious.
Muab luag tej lub neej lod ua kev kawm os ... peb cov poj niam tsis txhob xyaum ntxeev siab rau peb poj niam/phooj ywg, txiv neej thiaj ua tsis tau li no rau peb nawj.
Peb ua neeg nyob tus es yuav ua mob yus tshaj plaws ces yog tug yus pab tshaj plaws. If she was already that sad she should know her boundaries but she didn’t respect you and hates you that she have to ruined your life. Paub neeg tsis paub siab.
The most painful betrayal is from your best friend and your husband. I feel for you so much. If i were u, i would kick both of the dogs out of my life. They no longer serve any purposes.
Its 2021, we Hmong women allow this to happen to us. We have laws here in America. Kick him and her out. File restraining orders against him and move on with your life.
I don't understand she came over to your house you could have a gun, knife, whatever the weapon of your choice maybe she trespassed onto your property you have the right to defend your property so I don't know why you just didn't have them call the police... The Audacity Of It All..
No man or woman is worth chasing after. It's better to explore others than staying with a cheater and betrayal. Life is too short. Don't chase fake people.
Niag maum dev ntawv ntshe koj twb tsis paub nkawv twb sib tham puag thaum nkawv tsis tau sin nrauj lawm os. Qhov nws tus txiv tsis yuav nws ntshe nws tus txiv twb paub tab sis nej yog phooj ywg zoo es nws tsis hais xwb tsis tas li los nws twb dhuav pog txaus lawm ces dej hlob zoo did cav ces xum mus tham lwm tud kom zoo muab pog nrauj yooj yim xwb os.
We are living in America and it's 2021... Why do we need to ua niam hlob niam yau! Just let this dog go so he can be with your ex-friend... don't live like this. Find someone who will love you for who you are... you deserve better.
Poj nraug: Hello? Hello police? My boyfriend's wife tried killing me with a knife the other night Cop: where at? Poj nraug: in her house Cop: what time did it happened? Poj nraug: around 1 or 2am Cop: what were you doing in her house at 2 in the morning Poj nraug: I went to try to marry her husband Cop: why didn't you report it that night Poj nrauj: because I made her a deal that if she let me marry her husband, I wouldn't call the cops but she won't let me marry her husband should've let her call the cops. Cops will think she's on drugs 😂 jokes will be on her. I hope you move on and find peace and happiness. You deserve better. Stop allowing the abuse and cheats. This is 2021, don't tolerate it.
My hubby knows that if he cheats, I'm gonna do it right back so he doesn't dare. He knows he's got a pojniam nyaum, pojniam heev heev. Lol. I could treat you like a king and I can bring you down like a slave. You choose.
I dont know what it is but every women story in here painted themselves as some servant to their husband and bring food for them .I find this really hard to believe. I dont know if your reality is like my because I have not meet or seen a woman in that way. Forgive me if I am ignorant hnong men just want to be love too.
Chia Vue : 🤣🤣🤣 I thought I was the only one that felt that way too. All these stories...perfect women slaving after their man unconditionally. Lol. Where are they all? Seriously. Do they really exist in the real world? I would like to meet one myself.
Thaum nws los thawj koj es koj tsis xub report ne, koj cia nws hem koj xwb koj twb ntshai lawm , yog nws report koj los nws tuaj Ntawm koj vaj koj tsev es koj tsis mag kawg li os mog cas koj yuam tsawg ib lub tswv yim lawm os
Nej cov poj niam pheej ua mov nqa mus thawj rau nej cov txiv noj li pub miv pub aub xwb es yog tim nej cov poj niam li teeb meem xwb ua neeg nyob niam muaj niam hauj lwm txiv muaj txiv hauj lwm nyias yuav tau ua kom tag nyias qhov peev xwm xwb es nej cov poj niam tsab2 ntse xwb es nej pheej yuav los complained tias nej cov poj niam ua txiv neej qhev no mas tsis yog lawm nawb mog.
My hmong men don't need wifes to treat and feed like feeding cats and dogs if any woman who feeds the husband likes feeding cats and dogs and you women think that's very lovefully care you treating your husband that's wrong men don't think that way. But hmong lady who ever treats and feeds your husband like feeding cats and dogs and later on complains that hmong man treats you like slave that was you own fault no body ever made you to do that hmong men mostly we are not lazy we are very independent we cook and take care good of ourselves unless the wife offers to help do something.
Tu niam tsev lub qab ntuj no ca tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub taus yus li os. Tsuas muaj yus thiaj li hlub tau lawv xwb vim yus txoj kev tsuav lawv nqi os
Girl, if they wanted each other so bad, they can have each other! No point in fighting over a dog who no longer loves you. His heart is no longer yours. I'd let them have each other and kick them both out. That bish wanna lie, I'd really do some damage to make it worthwhile for me to go to jail!
Honestly I love having girlfriends. They are fun and make you feel wholesome. But this is the reason why I don't want to keep friends. You never know who is going to backstab you and how..... The saying is "Keep your friends close, your enemies closer". It's sad, have to pick one or the other.
Ntuj awww, tsis yuav lawm ces go your own separate ways. Stop torturing yourself. You said it yourself that if he brings one in, you’re out, you will not be anyone’s 1st wife or 2nd wife but when he brought her in you couldn’t leave. Stop torturing yourself sister.
Peb nyob lub teb chaw mekas no lawm tsis yog txiv neej thiaj ua tau xwb os. Poj niam yeej ua tau ib yam. Tsis muaj ib tsa cai tug hais tias poj niam ua tsis tau.
haib tshaj plaws li kuv mas luag luag tsis paub xaus li poj niam kuj heev thiab tab sis kuj heev tsis kawg thiab hos txiv neej ces thaum poj niam lwm tus cev tes kov lawm ces kawg tuag li tus thaub no. kuv ces tau qhov luag thaum kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no txog tav nov lawm ces ua ib siab ua niam 1 niam 2 mas lid
What I don't understand is why Hmong women blame Hmong men for your own hygiene. If you are a clean person you should do it for your self to felt clean. Stop blaming other people for your own hygiene problems.
Hi sister kuv hnov ib tug thaub muab koj tug hlub neb los hais tsi zoo tso rau TH-cam es yog koj hnov no tsi muaj tiag ces koj yuav tau los tawm tsam nws kom nws tsuj kiag txhob muab koj tug hlub neb hais tsi zoo os kuv ib txhwm ntxawb nqa koj nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg heev li os
Koj taug txoj kev no txhua hnub mus hauj lwm ces koj yeej txawj dhuav txoj kev ntawv. Kev niam txiv pw ua ke kuj zoo ze li no tib yam nkaus rau ob leeg thiab. Yog li ntawv thaum tus txiv tig ua hluas lawm ces tus niam thiaj tsis kam zam txim thiab nws thiaj plhws pob tw ntshis npaj yuav ua pauj.
This story is a great lesson learn for our Hmong women. I’ve heard most of May stories and it’s mostly about how the husband mistreat them and how the husband does not do any chores around the house. An advice to our Hmong women, your husband will only behave in a certain way if you allow him to. If you allow him to leave the toilet seat up, he will continue to do so. So please train him to be a grown man and clean up after himself. As a Hmong husband, I can assure you my wife and I do 50/50 of the house duties. I cook, clean, do laundry, try to fix car, attempt to diy fixing anything broken in my own home and take care of my kids. Also to our Hmong husband, do not do all the chores around the house, this can lead to your wife becoming dependent. This is vice versa.
Kuv nkag siab koj zoo os niam laus. Yus hlub nws kav nws tsis hlub yus lawm. Lub neej lwj siab ces tsis yuav lawm. Twb yog koj siab zoo kawg.
Niam laus a nrog koj tu siab thiab mob siab heev os.😭😭😭😭😭
Kav tsij ua kom koj zoo2 nkauj os nawb koj thiab li tsi muaj kev nyuaj siab os niam laus a.
That’s the ultimate betrayal of friendship
It has nothing to do with friends. It’s the guy. If he didn’t insert, penis wouldn’t/wont enter.
A person who has no intention to do wrong will never talk to, meet or see another woman or men alone. No matter how much other party call or try to meet, his or her spouse will always there with him.
And marriage.
Ceev faj yus tus phooj ywg zoo2 ntawm yus ib sab twb yog yus tus yeeb ncuab, txav kom deb2 li deb tau txawm tus phooj ywg muaj txiv thiab tsis muaj txiv los txhob qhia lub siab kom tas2 nawb cov mi niam tsev aw
Yog lawm txhob muaj py zoo dua nawb
A lesson to be mindful of your “friends.” Always check his phone, your bank accounts and everything. Your intuition is always right. You let him know there’s the line and if it’s crossed this is exactly what’s going to happen. If he cheats - make sure you are the nicest person to him, get everything in your name, take all the money than leave him in the dust before he knows. He’s already gone when he betrays you. No need to stick around and share him with anyone.
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Girl, install Spyware on that bish! Keep a joint account AND your own account. Most couples are against hiding anything but dayum! Keep that single account and it's money hidden for rainy days! (Or you could withdraw money from the joint account to keep in your single to save in case he cheats.)
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Nyob zoo os tus me niam tsev siab zoo aw, tsis txhob tu siab mog thaum mloog koj lub neej neejneeg no tag kuj pab hlub koj kawg nkaus nawb, ntau yam koj hais yeej yog lawm, pab hlub koj kawg nawb mog, tabsis txiv neej tsis yog phem tag tus mog, thaum txivneej hais kom koj ua li ub li no koj tsis kam ua ces nws thiaj li fav siab vim nws raug dab lawm ned, tsis yog txiv tub kom tsis txhob mus tua dais ua ke no los sav? tsis txhob ntseeg koj tus phoojywg tas2 no ned? pab hlub koj heev mog, tshuav Vajtswv tseem hlub koj laiv...
Ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nrog ib tug poj niam ces yeej yog zaj no xwb los mas me koj niam aw, cov neeg pheej muaj muaj phooj ywg zoo ces lawv yeej txeeb yus tus txiv ntag hos.
Ntxub cov pojnm ntxeev siab li ko kawg
What a evil friend you have. Just kick both of them out of your house and your life. Let them met their karma.
Why do some dads complain that our moms are old and no longer good? Do they not look at themselves in the mirror? Do they brush their teeth with their eyes closed? Hello?! Use mirrors to look at yourselves before you start judging our moms.
You are too Kind! I would've kicked him to the curb! Your pojlaib friend was never your friend, just a Homewrecker!!! You better not take him back! Love & Respect yourself, Hmong sister!!!
My best friend is my husband’s younger’s wife she cheated with my husband, now is my ex-husband. I left him.. I moved on remarried and much much happier. Why take your husband back when he left you for dead for another woman.
That was even worst n cruel when family do to one another. Maybe you should share your story with May lol
That's crazy! So happy you didn't put up with that shit and moved on. I wish you nothing but happiness. You deserve way better. He will miss you. Wish our mothers and some sisters would be stronger and stop tolerating all the abuse and cheatings.
Can u share your story too.
We women have to change the way Hmoob men think of us. Don't let them disrespect and treated us the way they do. We have to do the changing, it is up to us.
Thank you for your story. Hope we women learned a lesson.
It’s always someone you know.. That’s how things get started.. So sad! That’s not what a true friend is like….
Koj nyuab siab ua dab tsi os nkauj hmoob aw tseem tshuav peb nawb peb yeej txawj hlub poj niam ib yam thiab os los sis peb tseem txawj dua koj tus txiv dev ntawd os.
Don’t trust anyone even your sister in law and best friends
Yeap true
Even nieces..sisters...ive heard to many stories..
I dont even trust myself lol
Strongly agreed 👍
That’s why I don’t keep friends. And never trust your spouse 100%.
I’d also report her for trespassing. Of course an unwanted person comes into your house you have every right to “protect” yourself. 🤷🏻♀️
But ultimately I’d get rid of that dog and his flea. I find that being alone is the best thing ever! No one to complain to you, nor do you have to cook or clean after someone else, no other persons bullshit.
Girl, me, too! Friends are nothing but trouble! I don't have any friends and I like it like that. Trust? Hubby? Nope. Always one foot in the inside and the other foot on the outside. You can never be too cautious.
@@bchang227 👍👍👍
I never trust a friend an never consider any of my friends best friend. Just friend. Never gave all the love to ur friends
When are we as Hmong woman going to wake up and stop allowing this type of abuse.
kj hai yog lm os niam ntshuab teev
Tus py no mam ntxim ntxub tshaj plawv li. Poj niam siab dev.
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej npab nauj os mog me viv ncaus
Muab luag tej lub neej lod ua kev kawm os ... peb cov poj niam tsis txhob xyaum ntxeev siab rau peb poj niam/phooj ywg, txiv neej thiaj ua tsis tau li no rau peb nawj.
Saib xyuas qhuas khav kj Tus kheej zoo tshaj thisj zoo txin txisj zoo mog
thov kom lub ntuj txiav txim rau kj tus phooj ywg ces ntuj mam txiav txim rau nws xwb mas lov
Cas koj zaj dab neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj li os
Nej cov txiv xwb os peb mas noj tas los yeej pab poj niam 2 leeg sib pab nroos mab
Dayum! Ultimate betrayal!
Peb ua neeg nyob tus es yuav ua mob yus tshaj plaws ces yog tug yus pab tshaj plaws. If she was already that sad she should know her boundaries but she didn’t respect you and hates you that she have to ruined your life. Paub neeg tsis paub siab.
Niam NtsuabTeev neb mus saib niag Xyooj pov hais txog neb tej history naj
Nw tsi yog phooj ywg na nw yog yeeb ncuab xwb na tsi ta hu ua phooj ywg li os
The most painful betrayal is from your best friend and your husband. I feel for you so much. If i were u, i would kick both of the dogs out of my life. They no longer serve any purposes.
Its 2021, we Hmong women allow this to happen to us. We have laws here in America. Kick him and her out. File restraining orders against him and move on with your life.
IKR? She’d come to be a niam Yau? I was like what era is this?
Tos li kuv lub neej kuv yeej tsis toob kas ib tug phoojywg zoo zoo tas zog li ko ntag lau. Kuv tej phoojywg tsuas yog phoojywg tas mab das xwb.
thov qhua tus niam tsev no muaj peev xwv kawg
Don't blame your bestfriend only. It's your husband fault too. Why are you still with him? Drop the loser.
I say if you don't have the guts to let go your husband then don't complain
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Yog!
Cov txiv neej hmoob uas tsis txawj fwm lawv lub neej ces thaum kawg nyob qab choj xwb tiag
I don't understand she came over to your house you could have a gun, knife, whatever the weapon of your choice maybe she trespassed onto your property you have the right to defend your property so I don't know why you just didn't have them call the police... The Audacity Of It All..
Old hmong ladies ‘75, they too scare of hmong court thats why she didnt even call the cops!
That would give me the PERFECT chance to kill a bish! Lol! She gave me The perfect opportunity to get away with it!
No man or woman is worth chasing after. It's better to explore others than staying with a cheater and betrayal. Life is too short. Don't chase fake people.
What a screwed up relationship?!
Phooj twg ntxeev siab
Niag maum dev ntawv ntshe koj twb tsis paub nkawv twb sib tham puag thaum nkawv tsis tau sin nrauj lawm os. Qhov nws tus txiv tsis yuav nws ntshe nws tus txiv twb paub tab sis nej yog phooj ywg zoo es nws tsis hais xwb tsis tas li los nws twb dhuav pog txaus lawm ces dej hlob zoo did cav ces xum mus tham lwm tud kom zoo muab pog nrauj yooj yim xwb os.
This story boils my blood still! Someone would've gotten hurt. Why are there even ppl like this on earth 🤬
Cov poj niam thiab txiv neej twb yog txij nkawm lawm es pej nyiam muab txoj kev ua nkauj ua nraug hauv txaj hauv chaw los uasi no ces 99% lub neej niam txiv txij nkawm kawg puas ov. 🙅♂️🙅♀️
Txoj neej ntsi ua li xw os
Ruam tshaj.
We are living in America and it's 2021... Why do we need to ua niam hlob niam yau! Just let this dog go so he can be with your ex-friend... don't live like this. Find someone who will love you for who you are... you deserve better.
Poj nraug: Hello? Hello police? My boyfriend's wife tried killing me with a knife the other night
Cop: where at?
Poj nraug: in her house
Cop: what time did it happened?
Poj nraug: around 1 or 2am
Cop: what were you doing in her house at 2 in the morning
Poj nraug: I went to try to marry her husband
Cop: why didn't you report it that night
Poj nrauj: because I made her a deal that if she let me marry her husband, I wouldn't call the cops but she won't let me marry her husband
should've let her call the cops. Cops will think she's on drugs 😂 jokes will be on her. I hope you move on and find peace and happiness. You deserve better. Stop allowing the abuse and cheats. This is 2021, don't tolerate it.
lol. Exactly! Where is her smart daughter at! If she were my mom dang.. I’ll make sure that evil lady goes to jail!
I was thinking the same thing!🤣
Hai tau zoo mloog kawg
Ua cas e zaj neej neeg no e tseem txaus ntshai tshaj dab neeg dab na los cov phooj ywg zoo li no na👹👹
Cas tsis xuas riam ua kom tuag kiag na.
Niam tais aws koj tsawm Thaum txiv neej hmoob, twb yog koj ruam dhau thiab muab hlub koj tus txiv thiab phooj ywg dhau lawm xwb.
My hubby knows that if he cheats, I'm gonna do it right back so he doesn't dare. He knows he's got a pojniam nyaum, pojniam heev heev. Lol. I could treat you like a king and I can bring you down like a slave. You choose.
Same here. Once that door is open, its all fair game.
I always tell my husband if he do that get will get it double back ...
Agree!!!
Mloog zaj dab neeg no hnov meem txom heev
Pog rog qias neeg aw, cas koj mob covid 19 lawm sub, nyiaj TH-cam mas muaj nqis kawg yom dag noj tsis ntev yuav quaj2 nawb
👍👍👍😍😍👍👍❤❤👍
Tim nej cov poj niam ntsaw luag tej txiv zoo nraug siab dawb ne, thiaj muaj2 niam yau.
I dont know what it is but every women story in here painted themselves as some servant to their husband and bring food for them .I find this really hard to believe. I dont know if your reality is like my because I have not meet or seen a woman in that way. Forgive me if I am ignorant hnong men just want to be love too.
Chia Vue : 🤣🤣🤣 I thought I was the only one that felt that way too. All these stories...perfect women slaving after their man unconditionally. Lol. Where are they all? Seriously. Do they really exist in the real world? I would like to meet one myself.
Leej twg hais rau nej tias py es yuav ntseeg thiab zoo 100% na sister aww txhob muaj py zoo dua nawb mog thiab txhob ntseeg leej twg os..nyib twj ywm py ces yog yus tus txiv thiab yus cov me nyuam yus niam yus txiv xwb nawb mog
Tus Viv ncaus aw..Cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj es aib pog twb ua niag cwj pwm qhia koj tias nws tham koj tus txiv lawm. Thiab cas koj ho yeem swb rau niag yawg thaub yuav niam yau? Pab hlub koj kawg. Thov Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj kom koj tsuas muaj yeej txhua yam txhua tus neeg siab phem rau koj xwb.
This is why I have trust issues with friends.
And why I don’t trust my husband 100%% gotta leave that 10%
Yes, I would reported her for trespassing and protect myself.. I would never let this woman inside my house in the first place.
You got to have a limit to everything. You have to draw a line to every relationship.
Tsi yog phooj ywg zoo os poj dab xwb
That’s why I don’t keep any close men friends or woman friends or not too close to them
Thaum nws los thawj koj es koj tsis xub report ne, koj cia nws hem koj xwb koj twb ntshai lawm , yog nws report koj los nws tuaj
Ntawm koj vaj koj tsev es koj tsis mag kawg li os mog cas koj yuam tsawg ib lub tswv yim lawm os
Zoo tsaj
I had to stop listening when I learned she stayed in the marriage🤦🏻♀️
oh yau nws tuaj ntawm koj tsev tuaj thab plau koj tua lo yeej tsis txaum loj li os twb tsis yog koj mus tom nws tsev na sister aw
Nej cov poj niam pheej ua mov nqa mus thawj rau nej cov txiv noj li pub miv pub aub xwb es yog tim nej cov poj niam li teeb meem xwb ua neeg nyob niam muaj niam hauj lwm txiv muaj txiv hauj lwm nyias yuav tau ua kom tag nyias qhov peev xwm xwb es nej cov poj niam tsab2 ntse xwb es nej pheej yuav los complained tias nej cov poj niam ua txiv neej qhev no mas tsis yog lawm nawb mog.
I already told your lady!!!…men love to eat outside 99.9% doesn’t matter who you’re and what kind of husband you married too.
Kv yg ib tus ua raug cov teeb meem ko thiab tiag
Omg this story makes me heated 😤😤
My hmong men don't need wifes to treat and feed like feeding cats and dogs if any woman who feeds the husband likes feeding cats and dogs and you women think that's very lovefully care you treating your husband that's wrong men don't think that way. But hmong lady who ever treats and feeds your husband like feeding cats and dogs and later on complains that hmong man treats you like slave that was you own fault no body ever made you to do that hmong men mostly we are not lazy we are very independent we cook and take care good of ourselves unless the wife offers to help do something.
Agree. They trained their spouse that way. Why complain. Lol.
Txhua tus txiv neej Hmong tsis zoo li koj tus
Hais txij li koj tus txiv xwb os. Peb cov txivneej Hmoob tsis tub nkeeg tsis tau zoo laiv. Lawv mas khwv tshaj plaws qhov phem qhov nyhav yog lawv tag nhro xwb. Peb cov pojniam ua qhov sib ntau xwb.
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Tu niam tsev lub qab ntuj no ca tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub taus yus li os. Tsuas muaj yus thiaj li hlub tau lawv xwb vim yus txoj kev tsuav lawv nqi os
Ua cas nom pov ho muab neb ib niam txiv ces ne lov yog ua cas
Tus nov ce zoo nkau li kuv tus txiv ntag lau
Girl, if they wanted each other so bad, they can have each other! No point in fighting over a dog who no longer loves you. His heart is no longer yours. I'd let them have each other and kick them both out. That bish wanna lie, I'd really do some damage to make it worthwhile for me to go to jail!
I agree. I would just let them two animals be wit each other since they love each other so much. See how long they last.
Honestly I love having girlfriends. They are fun and make you feel wholesome. But this is the reason why I don't want to keep friends. You never know who is going to backstab you and how..... The saying is "Keep your friends close, your enemies closer". It's sad, have to pick one or the other.
May aws... kuv ntsav siab dhau lawm os xav ntau neeg lawm xwb
Ntuj awww, tsis yuav lawm ces go your own separate ways. Stop torturing yourself. You said it yourself that if he brings one in, you’re out, you will not be anyone’s 1st wife or 2nd wife but when he brought her in you couldn’t leave. Stop torturing yourself sister.
Muab kiag niag txiv dev ko ncaws tawm tsev mus nrog pog xuaj ko xwb mas niam laus
Peb nyob lub teb chaw mekas no lawm tsis yog txiv neej thiaj ua tau xwb os. Poj niam yeej ua tau ib yam. Tsis muaj ib tsa cai tug hais tias poj niam ua tsis tau.
Cov poj laib txeeb luag txiv li tus koj piav ko ntsej muag tuab heev..
Again, only friends but not make best friends to man or woman, they will steal ur lover. Never trust them
haib tshaj plaws li kuv mas luag luag tsis paub xaus li poj niam kuj heev thiab tab sis kuj heev tsis kawg thiab
hos txiv neej ces thaum poj niam
lwm tus cev tes kov lawm ces kawg tuag li tus thaub no.
kuv ces tau qhov luag thaum kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no
txog tav nov lawm ces ua ib siab ua niam 1 niam 2 mas lid
What I don't understand is why Hmong women blame Hmong men for your own hygiene. If you are a clean person you should do it for your self to felt clean. Stop blaming other people for your own hygiene problems.
Yeah is true story about Hmong old people men 😩
So sorry to said this, but You let it happened and you also opened the door for them. Why share the same men? You could've left!!!
Yup. I say leave them dogs be and get on with your life
Hais muaj ceem ua luaj thaum kawg tsis muaj dab tsis tseem Nyob tos hniag txiv dev thiab
Tej tug poj nrauj no cas tsi paub txaj muag li g txawj xav kiag
Tej tug pog coj li no tsis yog koj phooj ywg os mog. She is your worst enemy.
Hi sister kuv hnov ib tug thaub muab koj tug hlub neb los hais tsi zoo tso rau TH-cam es yog koj hnov no tsi muaj tiag ces koj yuav tau los tawm tsam nws kom nws tsuj kiag txhob muab koj tug hlub neb hais tsi zoo os kuv ib txhwm ntxawb nqa koj nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg heev li os
Koj taug txoj kev no txhua hnub mus hauj lwm ces koj yeej txawj dhuav txoj kev ntawv. Kev niam txiv pw ua ke kuj zoo ze li no tib yam nkaus rau ob leeg thiab. Yog li ntawv thaum tus txiv tig ua hluas lawm ces tus niam thiaj tsis kam zam txim thiab nws thiaj plhws pob tw ntshis npaj yuav ua pauj.
Hmong people need to stop promoting polygamy!