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They can't think their way out of a baggy_ give them just enough to hang themself. Like tell them half the truth and let them make up the rest_ it's always negative_ and then create an awesome positive reality. Hahahahaha
My best friend since 2014 is a covert narcissist, & I have learned some valuable lessons on how to set boundaries & make my opinions made known to him, whether he likes it or not. The stronger I get the less he has me under his authority. I chose to spend the time how I want & with whom I want. He's a believer in Christ Jesus so there is limit to how bad he reacts or treat me & our faith is what glues us together. Though sometimes I have to pull the plugg on him when he says horrible things (he just tried to make me feel bad for what I share on social media) & I told him that his opinion is not more valuable than others & he understood, but this has happened for many years. I'm not going to continue to be a by-stander for him, I can find other friends. Thank you so much dear Rebecca for your help. ❤❤❤ God's richest blessings.
I'll be glad when I reach a point in my divorce where hearing a video like this, which is essentially a spotlight on the last 10 years of my life, doesn't set off a low-level anxiety attack.
I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
Seen them trying to distance / separate a family , causing drama in their actions so they can prove they got control over one of the person in the family
A narcissist I knew would tell me we were going to talk about something. He would talk and I would listen to what he had to say. When it was time for me to say how I felt about it, he would always cut me off before I could finish the first sentence, usually 2 words in, and he would say We'll just have to agree to disagree and this is the way it's going to be. He controlled everything, right down to how much water I'd drink and when. He would say this right from the beginning even if everything I had to say was a positive. He started this early in the relationship and continued throughout. I let him continue his one sided relationship, alone. 🎉
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
This has definitely happened to me and you are so right about the dangerousness of the covert narcissist. I never knew about any of this when it was happening to me. So grateful for your information and insight.
The lovebombing was the only part of them that I really liked and enjoyed. But since the narcs are mirroring me during that time, I guess it's me I like; not them.
Oh my word! I've commented on many times on how much I agree with what you're saying and think you can't come up with anything new I've been through. Once again you've come up with another scenario that I live through! I feel like you're looking through my window when you discuss these things,. Thank you so much for your words. It feels like a hug of affirmation and understanding! I feel so alone until I hear you speak, Thank you!
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
I've seen this!!! And i thought she just always walked fast. Never connected the dots on that being a narcissistic trait. I'm 6'0 and she was 5'6 but was always in front of me. That was obviously the least of my worries given all the other bs she put me through. She would also wear really high heels and make a comment of me still being taller. Why would you WANT to be taller than your bf? Makes total sense now...
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Agreed - weird. Sounds exactly like a married woman I had to leave a church to get away from. She was even waiting for me over by my bag once which was really creepy. It was like she had decided we were together in that way when we weren't. Also her husband eventaully asked her what she was doing and she was like "I'm waiting for Douglas", at which point he took her out of there. Now it's just like a bad memory.
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
I would do a lot of those things with my phone but only cause my narcassist gf would come into my phone and read messages and delete contacts and be crazy cause she was so jealous and controlling.
The phone thing: I did all this to my phone to keep the covert narc out especially since I work with a huge client that said to keep a passcode. The narc lets me into their phone but has the conversations about me in a different language or makes sure to leave. I’m not letting the narc into my phone after seeing them go through my stuff and opening my mail “accidentally”. No thanks. They (my Narc) hit all the other covert narc marks though!
A narcissistic boss would make appointments to meet freelancers who worked for her & keep them waiting for 45 minutes. One time her reason was she was honouring herself with a walk on the beach. Knowing someone was waiting she would text them saying I will be 10 minutes so that they would not just leave .. ratbag behaviours!
Yes, it worked with the lady she just started working with me and she is like the cashier hostess supposed to be helping me in the restaurant like cleaning tables and stuff like that, and then cause it was just 2 of us basically in the breakfast time at a hotel and then she was in to making these baskets. These gift baskets which say we're nice. I'm not gonna lie but she was so involved in the gift baskets like she wouldn't be doing her actual job. So guess who was stuck doing most of the work all the time. I mean, she doesn't like hosting and cashing people out. That's her what she wanted to do and sell her baskets. And I'm the jerk because I tell my manager that it's really not working. If she's not going gonna do I mean, I could cash here myself and we could put. Please seat yourself sign in the front. You know, everybody just thought she was so great. So great, and you're just like wow.
Totally and have moree than one ohone or switch phones intended . I think a phone of mine was stolen too and my social media duplicated on a de ice if their's. Also took my phone snd changed my apps snd screen twice without permission.
my ex was like this, she didnt value my opinion, she hated hated intimacy, she hated me trying to initiating sex, my birthdays and new years were meh, and yes, alot of times, she walked in front 90 % of the time. excellent love bomber, and yes she was weird
My mother suddenly and recently passed away. In a foreign country, hers. I was the only child she spoke to. For many years, I just thought they were crazy. I went no contact about 20 years ago. Now I have to deal with them over the estate. My mom made me power of attorney. Yeah, that didn't go over well with them. My question is, one of these lovely people stole two things that belonged to her. Can I use this as leverage. We are having a Zoom meeting next week. My mom and I were very close. She trusted me. My mom wasn't good enough for them while she was alive. Now that's she passed, you can only imagine. Converts are just crazy.
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Been married to one for last 38 years I always knew something not right Bt him being hot and cold And confused me I just thought that’s how married life runs Only last few years penny big on to drop that this isn’t right Now I gone grey rock yellow rock Yessss noooo answers Only communicate via short brief txt on very important things
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Dood has put , many many hours , practicing , sitting behind me just out of view mirroring me, when i say many i mean like ive lost count long ago, this fact is creepier than the act of it, it becomes more annoying when you know whats really going on, dood got injured yesterday, wasnt center of attention , also he cant fake genuine , now were all gonna be punished, especially me , cruel would be an understatement, i think about just kicking his ass at least once every day
I think ' my' narcissist is a stalker, lawyer, who uses an IMSI catcher to use the ' law' and technological means to pick on someone nearby, just to " get his rocks off" and because it is affecting his reputation, he is preparing to commit murder.
Narcissists cause C-PTSD, "totally" trauma bonding and codependency. "Agree" "Amen" "yes" "So ready" "So true" "I've seen it" "Energy vampires" "Move on" Definitely dealing with a toddler having a tantrum...The one I am dealing with is really unstable and constantly gas-lights me.
Would've liked to have seen Rebecca go up against a narcissist I can just see an advertisement for Rebecca which says: Rebecca Zung Attorney at Law Specializing in Narc negotiations & Narc Slaying.
He told me a story about a lady that was walking ahead of him. Looked good from the back pretty long hair then she turned at round and she had wrinkles. He said, I felt so sorry for her. I was dumbfounded! Why ? He was describing me! Maybe?? !!! Why did he feel sorry for her . Maybe she’s happy with her self! Was she supposed to wear polyester baggy pants ? What’s it to him. Yuk! I know my mouth was hanging open at his absurdity He’s a wrinkle up old man with a long yucky stinky beard. But he thinks he’s really cool. Is this a thing for narcissists.., belittled others in a very weird way! Saw one of his buddies at a funeral. He came up to us and asked what wrong with bro. I told him to ask him. He’s not doing that again and by the way he sure doesn’t like you.., to me! That confirmed my suspicions. Had another buddy of his ask me at a family wedding. Said the same thing. Asked him. I don’t talk about him. But I sure have on here! So done with the backstabbing hurts. Okay I’ve stopped hurting. It’s on him !
If she runs off every year from Thanksgiving to Christmas &new year but she starts fights mouths ahead can't just say I want to take a trip and it's all my fault
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You got this! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
Still manipulate noise wake but when try put a video dont leave talk ear my conversation no talk changer the emails the 2 phones telstra change all my message dont message send your email to bin
You got this! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
You got this! We're organizing a major launch event, and you're warmly welcome to join us on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
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I'll see you all there!
so true
Signed up
On point wow!!
Yep. He walked ahead of me all the damn time. Plus he's tall and has a wider stride.
A "friend" copies everything that I do. It drives me bezerk. Like, get your own personality. It doesn't flatter me. I get angry.
They can't think their way out of a baggy_ give them just enough to hang themself. Like tell them half the truth and let them make up the rest_ it's always negative_ and then create an awesome positive reality. Hahahahaha
Same here..but its my sister😢
It happened to me with a coworker, I believe that it not only is it irritating it angers!
My best friend since 2014 is a covert narcissist, & I have learned some valuable lessons on how to set boundaries & make my opinions made known to him, whether he likes it or not. The stronger I get the less he has me under his authority. I chose to spend the time how I want & with whom I want. He's a believer in Christ Jesus so there is limit to how bad he reacts or treat me & our faith is what glues us together. Though sometimes I have to pull the plugg on him when he says horrible things (he just tried to make me feel bad for what I share on social media) & I told him that his opinion is not more valuable than others & he understood, but this has happened for many years. I'm not going to continue to be a by-stander for him, I can find other friends. Thank you so much dear Rebecca for your help. ❤❤❤ God's richest blessings.
GO, BOSS LADY! You are dead on!!! 😮❤
I'll be glad when I reach a point in my divorce where hearing a video like this, which is essentially a spotlight on the last 10 years of my life, doesn't set off a low-level anxiety attack.
Run for your life, get away from that person, because they can’t change!
I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
They value others opinions over your . . Because it’s a way of INDIRECTLY PUTTING YOU DOWN!
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Zero respect for my things. Will go through them, take things, use things, will break things and not repair or replace them, complete financial abuse.
That is so weird. My husband always cuts me off and walks in front me.
People who do that to me usually wants to show me their superiority or anger.
I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
Seen them trying to distance / separate a family , causing drama in their actions so they can prove they got control over one of the person in the family
A narcissist I knew would tell me we were going to talk about something. He would talk and I would listen to what he had to say. When it was time for me to say how I felt about it, he would always cut me off before I could finish the first sentence, usually 2 words in, and he would say We'll just have to agree to disagree and this is the way it's going to be. He controlled everything, right down to how much water I'd drink and when. He would say this right from the beginning even if everything I had to say was a positive. He started this early in the relationship and continued throughout. I let him continue his one sided relationship, alone. 🎉
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
This has definitely happened to me and you are so right about the dangerousness of the covert narcissist. I never knew about any of this when it was happening to me. So grateful for your information and insight.
The lovebombing was the only part of them that I really liked and enjoyed. But since the narcs are mirroring me during that time, I guess it's me I like; not them.
So true everything you said absolutely dead on.
Walking in front of me 100% of the time!
Oh my word! I've commented on many times on how much I agree with what you're saying and think you can't come up with anything new I've been through. Once again you've come up with another scenario that I live through! I feel like you're looking through my window when you discuss these things,. Thank you so much for your words. It feels like a hug of affirmation and understanding! I feel so alone until I hear you speak, Thank you!
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
I've seen this!!! And i thought she just always walked fast. Never connected the dots on that being a narcissistic trait. I'm 6'0 and she was 5'6 but was always in front of me. That was obviously the least of my worries given all the other bs she put me through. She would also wear really high heels and make a comment of me still being taller. Why would you WANT to be taller than your bf? Makes total sense now...
Ohhhhhhhh my gosh. Yes ma’am. Blows me away. 🤯😤
I've seen and experienced all of this.
"Yes"🎉
"Totally" "Agree" "Amen" "So ready" "So true" "Energy vampires" "Yes" "I've seen this" "Move on" They're like chameleons with others.
I have seen this multiple times
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So Ready !!!!!!!!!
Agreed - weird. Sounds exactly like a married woman I had to leave a church to get away from. She was even waiting for me over by my bag once which was really creepy. It was like she had decided we were together in that way when we weren't. Also her husband eventaully asked her what she was doing and she was like "I'm waiting for Douglas", at which point he took her out of there. Now it's just like a bad memory.
I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
I would do a lot of those things with my phone but only cause my narcassist gf would come into my phone and read messages and delete contacts and be crazy cause she was so jealous and controlling.
"Totally"🎉
Yes mirroring
So ready!!
Omg!!! My mom has always been a super fast walker ...and shes short. I was always trying to keep up with her
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The phone thing: I did all this to my phone to keep the covert narc out especially since I work with a huge client that said to keep a passcode. The narc lets me into their phone but has the conversations about me in a different language or makes sure to leave. I’m not letting the narc into my phone after seeing them go through my stuff and opening my mail “accidentally”.
No thanks.
They (my Narc) hit all the other covert narc marks though!
A narcissistic boss would make appointments to meet freelancers who worked for her & keep them waiting for 45 minutes. One time her reason was she was honouring herself with a walk on the beach. Knowing someone was waiting she would text them saying I will be 10 minutes so that they would not just leave .. ratbag behaviours!
Seen them all!
I seen it
TOTALLY! My 16 yo step son!!
Amin
Yes, it worked with the lady she just started working with me and she is like the cashier hostess supposed to be helping me in the restaurant like cleaning tables and stuff like that, and then cause it was just 2 of us basically in the breakfast time at a hotel and then she was in to making these baskets. These gift baskets which say we're nice. I'm not gonna lie but she was so involved in the gift baskets like she wouldn't be doing her actual job. So guess who was stuck doing most of the work all the time. I mean, she doesn't like hosting and cashing people out. That's her what she wanted to do and sell her baskets. And I'm the jerk because I tell my manager that it's really not working. If she's not going gonna do I mean, I could cash here myself and we could put. Please seat yourself sign in the front. You know, everybody just thought she was so great. So great, and you're just like wow.
Amen my sister!!!
Totally and have moree than one ohone or switch phones intended . I think a phone of mine was stolen too and my social media duplicated on a de ice if their's. Also took my phone snd changed my apps snd screen twice without permission.
Ready get set go
I need a book or something with this _exact_ information. Perhaps a transcript of the video is available? It exactly what I’ve been looking for.
my ex was like this, she didnt value my opinion, she hated hated intimacy, she hated me trying to initiating sex, my birthdays and new years were meh, and yes, alot of times, she walked in front 90 % of the time. excellent love bomber, and yes she was weird
See this! Every day
My mother suddenly and recently passed away. In a foreign country, hers. I was the only child she spoke to. For many years, I just thought they were crazy. I went no contact about 20 years ago. Now I have to deal with them over the estate. My mom made me power of attorney. Yeah, that didn't go over well with them.
My question is, one of these lovely people stole two things that belonged to her. Can I use this as leverage. We are having a Zoom meeting next week.
My mom and I were very close. She trusted me. My mom wasn't good enough for them while she was alive. Now that's she passed, you can only imagine.
Converts are just crazy.
I am writing key notes to help me on the zoom call its three against me. The ring leader is the worst.
Thank you for helping us
Yep. I've SEEN this!
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Your right!
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Been married to one for last 38 years
I always knew something not right Bt him being hot and cold And confused me I just thought that’s how married life runs Only last few years penny big on to drop that this isn’t right
Now I gone grey rock yellow rock
Yessss noooo answers
Only communicate via short brief txt on very important things
I’ve seen this more times than I’d like to admit. 😔
I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com
Dood has put , many many hours , practicing , sitting behind me just out of view mirroring me, when i say many i mean like ive lost count long ago, this fact is creepier than the act of it, it becomes more annoying when you know whats really going on, dood got injured yesterday, wasnt center of attention , also he cant fake genuine , now were all gonna be punished, especially me , cruel would be an understatement, i think about just kicking his ass at least once every day
I think ' my' narcissist is a stalker, lawyer, who uses an IMSI catcher to use the ' law' and technological means to pick on someone nearby, just to " get his rocks off" and because it is affecting his reputation, he is preparing to commit murder.
Narcissists cause C-PTSD, "totally" trauma bonding and codependency. "Agree" "Amen" "yes" "So ready" "So true" "I've seen it" "Energy vampires" "Move on" Definitely dealing with a toddler having a tantrum...The one I am dealing with is really unstable and constantly gas-lights me.
So true.
I know!❤
Sooooo TRUE
I knew that about him not wanting me to initiate sex. There is a deep seated reason for that in addition to the control.
yes
SEEN THIS!!!
Too happy for the m
Agreed
Would've liked to have seen Rebecca go up against a narcissist
I can just see an advertisement for Rebecca which says:
Rebecca Zung
Attorney at Law
Specializing in Narc negotiations
& Narc Slaying.
I have seen this!!!
YES ..SMFH
So true
i was only joking was used on me sooooo much
Totally!!!!
He told me a story about a lady that was walking ahead of him. Looked good from the back pretty long hair then she turned at round and she had wrinkles. He said, I felt so sorry for her. I was dumbfounded! Why ?
He was describing me! Maybe?? !!!
Why did he feel sorry for her . Maybe she’s happy with her self! Was she supposed to wear polyester baggy pants ? What’s it to him. Yuk! I know my mouth was hanging open at his absurdity He’s a wrinkle up old man with a long yucky stinky beard. But he thinks he’s really cool.
Is this a thing for narcissists.., belittled others in a very weird way!
Saw one of his buddies at a funeral. He came up to us and asked what wrong with bro. I told him to ask him. He’s not doing that again and by the way he sure doesn’t like you.., to me!
That confirmed my suspicions. Had another buddy of his ask me at a family wedding. Said the same thing. Asked him. I don’t talk about him.
But I sure have on here!
So done with the backstabbing hurts. Okay I’ve stopped hurting.
It’s on him !
YES
Totally and thank you.. Trying to help my adult children to recognize what happened to them that they are not aware of...
Asking someone to give them words of affirmation is effed up.
i ve seen this!!
If she runs off every year from Thanksgiving to Christmas &new year but she starts fights mouths ahead can't just say I want to take a trip and it's all my fault
Totally!!!
Yes
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totally
Totally amen
Namaste 🙏
Not sure if he has done 5
I’ve seen it 😮
agree
Totally
So ready
Time to move on with in marriage
the former always walked in front of me
Oh always
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Totally
I 44yrs daaling with these the narc's even my own kids
Yep
Yes!!!!
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Amen.
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I've seen this
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Sooo ready. Lol
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Still manipulate noise wake but when try put a video dont leave talk ear my conversation no talk changer the emails the 2 phones telstra change all my message dont message send your email to bin
Totally
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Yep,yep oah boy
U hv problem when u disagree with them .
U hv problem when u agreed with them .
Even if u are quiet , there is a problem ! Haa ...
Agree
Covert,,, I think that’s what we have.
Better praise him or else..
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Amen
I’ve seen this
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Always walked in front of me.
Besides walking in front of me,he scares me when I am in a vehicle with him.
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Ialways