So true. He is everything I ever wanted, only thing, he's shorter then me. But funny thing now is that I love it! I love even that about him. Because in my eyes he's the biggest man I ever met.
Thank you! ❤❤❤ They are out there, just believe it, never think that this guy from your dreams doesn't exist. I thought it's impossible to find him. I mean lets be real, right? Don't be real, dream big, believe and that you will get. 🥰❤
@GA Peach exactly...."faith without works..."... just have to pray for WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT WHILE dating! As to not waste unnecessary time/ emotions...
I totally get this but please dont be mistaken..It's not for you to find him Queens.. it's for you to notice him because believe me HE WILL FIND YOU!! That's the word!!
@@chrissibrowndarling8341 This is nothing but the truth! I am a witness to this! The man will come to you and when it happens it will bear witness with your spirit and heart.
The “you need to be attracted to him” is top tier. I’ve given a couple of ugg mugs a chance and they end of smelling themselves and breaking my heart. Never again. 😂
@@goaldigger3862 just remember what you put out you get right back. He’s gonna most likely fall for a woman who will break his heart and he’ll feel it even harder. Boomerang affect. Stay strong sis ❤
@@nikkimoore3658 hurt people tend to bleed on people who didn’t cut them..I wish him well on his journey and THANK YOU SISTER!! I am actually grateful for the lesson!! #💪🏾
I always dated older men than me. I wouldn’t entertain a younger guy. My person is 7 years younger than me. Took me a while to accept it. But he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. ❤
God knows best!!! Be patient ladies! 1-You will be attracted to him,not just physically 2-You will share the same values There are more but not listed in this clip!
I love the message. But ladies please stop thinking the man God sent to you is already with someone else. He should be available to you spiritually,emotionally and physically. Meaning, he should be alone and healed. Not separated.,He's buying gifts, lying, living double lives, and sexy. It's more important to have him ready for himself and you.
I truly understand now when a man wants you he gone come get you because my current fiance never lets up on how special i am to him ! He gives me everything and i dont even ask he just wants to take care of every problem i have ! WOW I’ve never been treated so well . He respects me and is interested in all beyond the physical we still talk on the phone for hours like teenagers . A true dream come true ❤ i thank God for him I deserve him and i waited and he waited for me . True divine love 💕
Once I did all of these things, it made dating so much easier, when I met my husband, it was simple, like a breath of fresh air, and he really is more than I expected to be blessed with, I prayed and asked God to prepare me and prepare him for marriage b4 we ever met
@@Yesenia25-m8n that's false. God made attraction as a blessing. If we're supposed to have sex in marriage (the scriptures say not to deny your spouse sex), why would God send us a spouse that we wouldn't be sexually attracted to? We might as well just have deep friendships and not be married.
@@jennifer-rj2qb except men will most likely care about sex and hopefully love. Wanting sexual Intimacy is natural and healthy for both genders. If you both don't want it, that's fine. But it's important you discuss that with each other in the beginning.
@@tlc6756Biblically-speaking, I don't think there's any instance where "God sent me my person". They were ordained to make do with the person they had. Love/ romantic relaunching are an extremely recent concept. Choice/non-arranged marriages as well. People have sex with others they aren't attracted to in certain ways all the time.
This is so true. I have found someone who possesses the qualities and values I have longed for in a mate. He came along when I was not expecting it. Everything is falling into place, which usually does not happen for me. And he is 19 years younger than me, we are not the same etnicity, and it does not matter to us. We are happy and blessed. We will see where this goes. Thank you Lord.
I've been dating younger guys by 13 years and 11 years, these were past experiences. And I've been afraid that relationships like that wouldn't work long term. I think it would for me, but I'd be worried he'd eventually leave me for someone younger. I recently met a guy that's 14 years younger, I don't know what to think about this guy since he's so much younger. I don't think he's "the one" because of other reasons too, but I don't know. 🤷
The heart don’t lie! Never judge a book by its ! Age is just a number! When they complete you and have all the qualities you want and God sends him to you and you both want a relationship to work !
I was in a relationship for 19 years, and living in sin. One day he decided to leave and I was devasted. I thought I would never survive, how wrong I was, 3 years down the line and I'm still single but happier than ever before. I've decided to wait on God for the right man and to abstain from sex. God has been my strenght through it all and my faith in Him as grown stronger and stronger. I could not have done it without my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, all Praise and Glory to Him and Him alone!
I finally found him, I can’t believe it and I still am in shock thinking there’s no way I deserve him, and thinking at times he is going to screw me over, but I FOUND HIM 😱
Women of the most High God,Jesus Christ our Lord.The Man God has for you is definitely out there for you.I met the man God has for me years ago.However you must be ready to receive him when you both meet.I emphasize the words You Must Be Ready To Receive him.Its crucial,because if you don't you Will Definitely End Up Sabotaging It.Take it from me because that's exactly what I did.Pray my sister's, stay in prayer at all times.Lean not to your own understanding,turn to God and He will direct your way.Stephan has spent some very valuable time with God and he is definitely hearing from Him!..#Shalom 🙏🏿❤
@@rizzymay450 Hello Dizzy May, I am now just seeing your reply 😃,any hoo,you have to be in constant prayer and also which I found out to be very crucial is NEVER listen to the voice of the adversary,he will constantly bring up your failed marriages/relationships of the past.he will definitely show you past scenarios.The Father says my sheep know my voice and they will not listen to the voice of the adversary.🙏🏿
This video brought tears to my eyes. I usually meet wrong guys and time wasters. I still have faith that one day I will find the one. I keep praying. Thank you Stephan 🙏
My problem is that I can see through a man’s intention towards me..I have a higher intuition and that make it hard for me to date .. I want my man to come, I am ready and fully prepared..I receive my marital blessing this year 2023 ..AMEN
💯 Absolutely! ❣️.The man God has for me is my preference because it's God's intentional preference for me. I trust him and his heart posture ❤️. I believe God took my prayers, needs, and desires into consideration, so my wait is not in vain. God is in our story and the details. So my 5 years of abstinence, the journey has been intentionally for getting into the right precision. Because I don't want to fumble God's plans for my marriage and purpose. So, I will continue to trust his process and timing. So I have freedom in my Yes is Yes to his will and when I say I Love You. I Do ❤️🙏🏼
Years ago when I got married, the most prevalent advice I got was, "Pray and wait". After that, I got married to the first person to ask. Now here I am starting over with real advice as a wiser woman and I am ready.
It's very true. I prayed to God to give me a man that will love me for me and not my body alone and a man that will share Godly values and yes God gave me that man. My boyfriend and I first connection was very strong and we are much greatful to God for connecting us in a mysterious and loving way. All what I tell women is that when you drilled and tired in that relationship, let it go...
I always wondered how one can tell he is the One. Now I know God will make it VERY clear. I stopped communicating with any man that I was not 100% attracted to physically, mentally, emotionally, etc and that is when it became VERY obvious that there is one man who's perfect for me.
My husband passed away 6 years ago yesterday. I was seeing someone and he said my late husband sent him. I'm pretty sure my husband didn't send someone to be an abusive and jealous person. The one I would like to be with is living with his child's mother and has been confessing his love to me for years but we kept losing contact. No rush. I'm still waiting but not waiting too long....😢
💯Excellent video 👑🔥🔥🔥💚And I feel both a man & a woman should question themselves, when our spirit recognize each other & knows that the feelings are mutual. Because the material things, looks & even money wouldn’t even matter, if it’s True Real Love that a person is seeking for. Then ask ourselves “How long has it been since someone has touched beneath the surface of our skin and captured the attention of our SOUL?” 💚⚖️
I'm starting to notice that all these guys that keep trying to tell women to lower their standards are not good men. They say that to women, because they want those women to get inadequate not up to standard men...just like them. FR. IJS
Any guy who says something like that only says it because they aren't willing or don't know how to lift themselves up. They want the cake, but deep down they know they don't have all the ingredients to make it happen.
Boy!!!!!!! Let me tell you after a very traumatic break up and going through a healing process bout 2 yrs!!! Hunny yes!!!! This is very sound advice!!!!! I love it!!!!! Thank you for being a voice of reason & allowing God to use you🙏💞💖
Hey Stephan, I found the man who ticked all the boxes I prayed to God for. I doubted God cuz it felt too good and I decided to act my way selfishly, and then I pranked him and now he's said he doesn't want a woman he can't trust no more... I pray God helps our hearts to heal from this hurt.... If for anything, I truly want us back and better than we ever were..
I am on the reserve list. The right man will come when aGod says. God is molding my man just for me. You cant awaken love if you do you will wake up where you dont want to be. Wait and continue to pray for your man😊
At 34 and a 14yrs broken marriage and my belief and walk and path is Jesus....I finnally admitted that liking the man face,maybe not so the body,actually makes me desire to have respect and be interested into that man and want to love him. Because wanting to love a man has been a strugle for me until I realized that I actually have to like the man's face😅
I just pray I am Making the right decision- I’ve been out of the dating scene purposely for years - I’m dating someone now and I hope I didn’t pick the wrong man . We are in our 50s .
Yeah, I was out of the dating scene for 7 years. Ready to take another 7 year break. This is stressful and heart breaking for older people with a big and genuine heart that are seeking something comforting and real. Best of luck to you. It's especially annoying to get this old, to find even older uglier Men still acting childish. So disappointing. 🥴🙏
@@shereent3121 I feel you! I was gone for a 5 years. I started back last year. It's definitely NOT easy as you get older. I'm trying to stay hopeful because I do have faith that God will bring him to me. Be blessed beautiful :)
Thank you, so much. I send a 🙏 to you. Yes, faith is what I'm lacking. I'm going to try to leave it in the Lord's hands, and my only job is to stay away from the wrong ones, which can actually be quite a challenging task. The right ones can't come in, when the wrong ones are lingering around. I'm definitely taking a break from the time consuming, and disappointing online dating scene, too many guys on there regularly, and playing juvenile games. Everything in God's time, not mine. No rushing needed, I can keep my eyes open, and be open to communicate, and go to the right places to meet the right people. It's best to slow down, and be as open to being found, than it is to be looking. 🙂
This Vid is GOD given! When I was looking for answers in my mistakes I prayed and he answered! And this Aligned with what was told to me ! GOD BLESS YOU and this video especially when you said "Why would GOD put you in a relationship that HE gets no glory from!!!!!" Alleluia Amen!!!!
Thank you Lord I find my he's my Angel from God he love so much,and he's 18 younger than me,thank you Lord for unswaring my prayer ,Our God is a good God,he can do wonder 🙏🙏🤍🤍🌹🌹🌹 Amen 🙏
I thought that this guy who is a Christian like me who happens to be 15 years younger than me couldn't be a possibility because of age difference. I really, really like him, and I was told he really likes me too. Can God put you with someone younger than you?
You hit the Nail on the Head with thw Attraction part....i was going after guys that Treated the way i wanted to be treated but most of the time, those were the guys inqas not attracted to....i am taking your advise
You will heal. When you do, God can send you new love. He will do it again.. sometimes things that seem bad are actually blessings in disguise..take the time you need to heal and ask God what you was meant to learn from the situation. 💜
Ya know, I want the one God has for me, but I got to be ready in position so that I can be the woman that men of God would want and want to marry. & right now, to be honest with myself, I'm not ready, cause I got to grow up and heal & can't no men save me only God Himself.
This information is making me have second thoughts about my old and new relationships. That's why I'm asking for God's guidance. But I do know that there is 1 man that I have to remove from my life. In order for us both to find peace.💔
Thankyou stay with the Lord until you know that you know.Believe the Lord for the true person in your life. I speak from experience. Trust Him. Your soul depends on Him.. Love to all! 🕊♥️
Here’s how I know you are led by my spirit team, first I went on a date w a guy Im attracted to and he is into the same things as me , some things he stated were negative I was overthinking it hoping it’ll still work out but he showed me a riddle about square pegs going into round holes lol and you just mentioned that into this video posted only a day ago! So I definitely felt guided to watching this I’m new to dating since I’ve evolved and did healing work and want to learn as much as I can before going back into it And this was very clear for me to remain true to my values and not become willingly ignorant if things are a mis match. 😮😅
A ruler to judge- fruit of the flesh? OR Works of the Holy Spirit. If you see the Fruit of either in your Relationships or how they make you feel tells you the truths.
I have been waiting for this along time I hope that this is finally going to happen 🤣🧬 because I have always been in bad relationships this sounds to good to be true!
Wow, God just sent you to me, thank you Stephan. I am going through a Dilemma of having to pick btwn the guy I've loved for more than half of my life(he's my bestfriend) and a six figure guy .... you have literally helped me make the decision.
I was so physically attracted to a short man and he is loving/caring but he is not there financially and he doesn't seem to have solid plans even though he is 12 years older than me and I am already doing well in my career. it worried me and I ended it but I still think about how I have never been so attracted to a man before
@@Cutiejuliya There were other reasons. my spirit didn't feel right with the situation and he had some love bombing traits which I addressed but it was hard for him to change.
You are so correct stephan Everything you mentioned I experienced with my boyfriend We are on the same page about everything and want the same thing Always say this you are very good with this relationships thing cuz I know why I am saying this I learned a lot from all of your videos Everything you are saying in this videos marches everything about my relationship with my boyfriend I know that I met husband God had for me and we are getting marry this year All thanks to you for helping me understanding men better I do not watching your videos like before cuz I am working 7 day a week Am still gonna make time to watch your new videos
I'm dating a guy I have not felt attrachted to hug as such, it does not come natural and I'm not thinking like I usually do on dates now I'm more nervous if he would approach me trying to kiss me. It's a guy who is very nice and respecting and treats me very nicley. Maybe I should stay single even though guys like this is not easy to find. Been trying to feel on each date if this is more like a friend or someone that I feel comfortable to be romantic with.
What if your boyfriend was all the good stuff, but he wasn't willing to wait for you to be ready to make a commitment because you are still growing in some areas? I was very in and out. Not consistent with how I felt about him. We ultimately decided we should break up. I am still not ready for a commitment though.
My ex is a waste of time. He waste my time having kids he didn't want and cautioned me to have 15 years of lost. He needs to get the help that he needs before he starts a 3rd wife because it will not work. Narcissist person are a waste of time.
I have the understanding that he finds me, I don't find him. Why would God's Word be untrue? I do understand the potent connection part. The Word is confirmed.
I’m here ,good morning,hope you had a lovely night rest ,I’m single and waiting patiently for the one can we be friends and get to know each other why we keep the standards?
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So true. He is everything I ever wanted, only thing, he's shorter then me. But funny thing now is that I love it! I love even that about him. Because in my eyes he's the biggest man I ever met.
🥺 love that
@@abbya956 thank you, you're so kind. ❤
Awwwwww 🥰
I love this for you!! 💞
Thank you! ❤❤❤
They are out there, just believe it, never think that this guy from your dreams doesn't exist. I thought it's impossible to find him. I mean lets be real, right?
Don't be real, dream big, believe and that you will get. 🥰❤
I want the Man God has for me. I don't want to date I just want the One
Right? I find dating around to be spiritually exhausting and a bit annoying 😒
That's the catch 22 bc how can we meet him if we don't get out there & meet different people? 😫
@GA Peach exactly...."faith without works..."... just have to pray for WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT WHILE dating! As to not waste unnecessary time/ emotions...
Ask about their values. Ask the right questions to weed out. Dating/courting is important.
Dang, I'm with you.
I totally get this but please dont be mistaken..It's not for you to find him Queens.. it's for you to notice him because believe me HE WILL FIND YOU!! That's the word!!
You are so right. I saw him after he saw me. But he ultimately found me. After 2 years we gave it a shot. We're 8 mo pregnant & engaged and in love!
@NY Native Tv Congratulations!! May The Most High continue to Bless and Guide your Union!!
Amen
Trust ❤
@@chrissibrowndarling8341 This is nothing but the truth! I am a witness to this! The man will come to you and when it happens it will bear witness with your spirit and heart.
The “you need to be attracted to him” is top tier. I’ve given a couple of ugg mugs a chance and they end of smelling themselves and breaking my heart. Never again. 😂
Oh wow, me too and this last one has somewhat broken my spirit.
To, there's nothing like being played by someone you settled for.
Ugg muggs lol I feel you on that lol smh same here
@@goaldigger3862 just remember what you put out you get right back. He’s gonna most likely fall for a woman who will break his heart and he’ll feel it even harder. Boomerang affect. Stay strong sis ❤
@@nikkimoore3658 hurt people tend to bleed on people who didn’t cut them..I wish him well on his journey and THANK YOU SISTER!! I am actually grateful for the lesson!!
#💪🏾
I always dated older men than me. I wouldn’t entertain a younger guy. My person is 7 years younger than me. Took me a while to accept it. But he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. ❤
I found him♥️😭🙏🏼 praise God♥️😭
Amen
Thank the Lord!
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Awesome! I hope mine finds me soon!
He found you 😊
God knows best!!! Be patient ladies!
1-You will be attracted to him,not just physically
2-You will share the same values
There are more but not listed in this clip!
I love the message. But ladies please stop thinking the man God sent to you is already with someone else. He should be available to you spiritually,emotionally and physically. Meaning, he should be alone and healed. Not separated.,He's buying gifts, lying, living double lives, and sexy. It's more important to have him ready for himself and you.
Real talk.. God won't bring you someone else, man
Amen!
Yes!!!
I truly understand now when a man wants you he gone come get you because my current fiance never lets up on how special i am to him ! He gives me everything and i dont even ask he just wants to take care of every problem i have ! WOW I’ve never been treated so well . He respects me and is interested in all beyond the physical we still talk on the phone for hours like teenagers . A true dream come true ❤ i thank God for him I deserve him and i waited and he waited for me . True divine love 💕
I love this for you
Wow.. I just broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn’t entirely attracted to him. Now this pops up as confirmation for me. Thank you God for this.
Same for me! We broke up about two weeks ago. I love this..
Once I did all of these things, it made dating so much easier, when I met my husband, it was simple, like a breath of fresh air, and he really is more than I expected to be blessed with, I prayed and asked God to prepare me and prepare him for marriage b4 we ever met
Not to sound shallow but being attracted to one another is an important part of falling in love ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Your in error. You shouldn't be attracted to someone to fall in love
@@Yesenia25-m8n that's false. God made attraction as a blessing. If we're supposed to have sex in marriage (the scriptures say not to deny your spouse sex), why would God send us a spouse that we wouldn't be sexually attracted to?
We might as well just have deep friendships and not be married.
I don't care about sex. I'm interested in love.
@@jennifer-rj2qb except men will most likely care about sex and hopefully love. Wanting sexual Intimacy is natural and healthy for both genders. If you both don't want it, that's fine. But it's important you discuss that with each other in the beginning.
@@tlc6756Biblically-speaking, I don't think there's any instance where "God sent me my person". They were ordained to make do with the person they had. Love/ romantic relaunching are an extremely recent concept. Choice/non-arranged marriages as well.
People have sex with others they aren't attracted to in certain ways all the time.
This is so true. I have found someone who possesses the qualities and values I have longed for in a mate. He came along when I was not expecting it. Everything is falling into place, which usually does not happen for me. And he is 19 years younger than me, we are not the same etnicity, and it does not matter to us. We are happy and blessed. We will see where this goes. Thank you Lord.
Same ❤ he is 16 years younger and lives 3 hours away! When he came to see me, we had a beautiful connection and chemistry! 💕
I've been dating younger guys by 13 years and 11 years, these were past experiences. And I've been afraid that relationships like that wouldn't work long term. I think it would for me, but I'd be worried he'd eventually leave me for someone younger. I recently met a guy that's 14 years younger, I don't know what to think about this guy since he's so much younger. I don't think he's "the one" because of other reasons too, but I don't know. 🤷
Get it gurl!
Age doesn't matter .I am attracted to someone that is younger than me!!
The heart don’t lie! Never judge a book by its ! Age is just a number! When they complete you and have all the qualities you want and God sends him to you and you both want a relationship to work !
I was in a relationship for 19 years, and living in sin. One day he decided to leave and I was devasted. I thought I would never survive, how wrong I was, 3 years down the line and I'm still single but happier than ever before. I've decided to wait on God for the right man and to abstain from sex. God has been my strenght through it all and my faith in Him as grown stronger and stronger. I could not have done it without my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, all Praise and Glory to Him and Him alone!
Thank you Jesus
I finally found him, I can’t believe it and I still am in shock thinking there’s no way I deserve him, and thinking at times he is going to screw me over, but I FOUND HIM 😱
Women of the most High God,Jesus Christ our Lord.The Man God has for you is definitely out there for you.I met the man God has for me years ago.However you must be ready to receive him when you both meet.I emphasize the words You Must Be Ready To Receive him.Its crucial,because if you don't you Will Definitely End Up Sabotaging It.Take it from me because that's exactly what I did.Pray my sister's, stay in prayer at all times.Lean not to your own understanding,turn to God and He will direct your way.Stephan has spent some very valuable time with God and he is definitely hearing from Him!..#Shalom 🙏🏿❤
How can I not sabotage? Please give me tips
@@rizzymay450 Hello Dizzy May, I am now just seeing your reply 😃,any hoo,you have to be in constant prayer and also which I found out to be very crucial is NEVER listen to the voice of the adversary,he will constantly bring up your failed marriages/relationships of the past.he will definitely show you past scenarios.The Father says my sheep know my voice and they will not listen to the voice of the adversary.🙏🏿
Thank you.
This video brought tears to my eyes. I usually meet wrong guys and time wasters. I still have faith that one day I will find the one. I keep praying. Thank you Stephan 🙏
Same here 🥺🙏
Same for me
You are so right. I saw him after he saw me. But he ultimately found me. After 2 years we gave it a shot. We're 8 mo pregnant & engaged and in love!
My problem is that I can see through a man’s intention towards me..I have a higher intuition and that make it hard for me to date .. I want my man to come, I am ready and fully prepared..I receive my marital blessing this year 2023 ..AMEN
Amen!
Why is that a problem? I know it's discouraging, but your intuition helps you to weed out the one not for you. I'm the same way.
💯 Absolutely! ❣️.The man God has for me is my preference because it's God's intentional preference for me. I trust him and his heart posture ❤️. I believe God took my prayers, needs, and desires into consideration, so my wait is not in vain. God is in our story and the details. So my 5 years of abstinence, the journey has been intentionally for getting into the right precision. Because I don't want to fumble God's plans for my marriage and purpose. So, I will continue to trust his process and timing. So I have freedom in my Yes is Yes to his will and when I say I Love You. I Do ❤️🙏🏼
Years ago when I got married, the most prevalent advice I got was, "Pray and wait". After that, I got married to the first person to ask. Now here I am starting over with real advice as a wiser woman and I am ready.
That is so true. I found mine and it’s more than I ever thought about.
It's very true. I prayed to God to give me a man that will love me for me and not my body alone and a man that will share Godly values and yes God gave me that man. My boyfriend and I first connection was very strong and we are much greatful to God for connecting us in a mysterious and loving way. All what I tell women is that when you drilled and tired in that relationship, let it go...
I always wondered how one can tell he is the One. Now I know God will make it VERY clear. I stopped communicating with any man that I was not 100% attracted to physically, mentally, emotionally, etc and that is when it became VERY obvious that there is one man who's perfect for me.
My husband passed away 6 years ago yesterday. I was seeing someone and he said my late husband sent him. I'm pretty sure my husband didn't send someone to be an abusive and jealous person. The one I would like to be with is living with his child's mother and has been confessing his love to me for years but we kept losing contact. No rush. I'm still waiting but not waiting too long....😢
💯Excellent video 👑🔥🔥🔥💚And I feel both a man & a woman should question themselves, when our spirit recognize each other & knows that the feelings are mutual. Because the material things, looks & even money wouldn’t even matter, if it’s True Real Love that a person is seeking for. Then ask ourselves “How long has it been since someone has touched beneath the surface of our skin and captured the attention of our SOUL?” 💚⚖️
WOW! I was just talking to GOD earlier. Thank you, Stephan for making this video! GOD knew I needed this. Blessings sent your way. Love you❤️🙏🏽
Good morning,hope you had a lovely night rest, I’m single and would love to be friends with you so we get to know each other and keep the standards?
I'm starting to notice that all these guys that keep trying to tell women to lower their standards are not good men. They say that to women, because they want those women to get inadequate not up to standard men...just like them. FR. IJS
Any guy who says something like that only says it because they aren't willing or don't know how to lift themselves up. They want the cake, but deep down they know they don't have all the ingredients to make it happen.
@@justacoginthefkery Facts!
Boy!!!!!!! Let me tell you after a very traumatic break up and going through a healing process bout 2 yrs!!! Hunny yes!!!! This is very sound advice!!!!! I love it!!!!! Thank you for being a voice of reason & allowing God to use you🙏💞💖
Hey Stephan, I found the man who ticked all the boxes I prayed to God for.
I doubted God cuz it felt too good and I decided to act my way selfishly, and then I pranked him and now he's said he doesn't want a woman he can't trust no more... I pray God helps our hearts to heal from this hurt....
If for anything, I truly want us back and better than we ever were..
I am on the reserve list. The right man will come when aGod says. God is molding my man just for me. You cant awaken love if you do you will wake up where you dont want to be. Wait and continue to pray for your man😊
At 34 and a 14yrs broken marriage and my belief and walk and path is Jesus....I finnally admitted that liking the man face,maybe not so the body,actually makes me desire to have respect and be interested into that man and want to love him. Because wanting to love a man has been a strugle for me until I realized that I actually have to like the man's face😅
Now I knew why I was drawn to your honesty...filled with the Holy Spirit!🙏AMEN ❤
I just pray I am
Making the right decision- I’ve been out of the dating scene purposely for years - I’m dating someone now and I hope I didn’t pick the wrong man . We are in our 50s .
Yeah, I was out of the dating scene for 7 years. Ready to take another 7 year break. This is stressful and heart breaking for older people with a big and genuine heart that are seeking something comforting and real. Best of luck to you. It's especially annoying to get this old, to find even older uglier Men still acting childish. So disappointing. 🥴🙏
@@shereent3121 I feel you! I was gone for a 5 years. I started back last year. It's definitely NOT easy as you get older. I'm trying to stay hopeful because I do have faith that God will bring him to me. Be blessed beautiful :)
Thank you, so much. I send a 🙏 to you. Yes, faith is what I'm lacking. I'm going to try to leave it in the Lord's hands, and my only job is to stay away from the wrong ones, which can actually be quite a challenging task. The right ones can't come in, when the wrong ones are lingering around. I'm definitely taking a break from the time consuming, and disappointing online dating scene, too many guys on there regularly, and playing juvenile games. Everything in God's time, not mine. No rushing needed, I can keep my eyes open, and be open to communicate, and go to the right places to meet the right people. It's best to slow down, and be as open to being found, than it is to be looking. 🙂
Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this right now. God has a plan for my life and want what he wants for me. 😇❣️🙏
I thought I had found him. Turns out I didn't. I confessed my feelings, he never gave me feedback. Wish him well though.
This Vid is GOD given! When I was looking for answers in my mistakes I prayed and he answered! And this Aligned with what was told to me ! GOD BLESS YOU and this video especially when you said "Why would GOD put you in a relationship that HE gets no glory from!!!!!" Alleluia Amen!!!!
Thank you Lord I find my he's my Angel from God he love so much,and he's 18 younger than me,thank you Lord for unswaring my prayer ,Our God is a good God,he can do wonder 🙏🙏🤍🤍🌹🌹🌹 Amen 🙏
I thought that this guy who is a Christian like me who happens to be 15 years younger than me couldn't be a possibility because of age difference. I really, really like him, and I was told he really likes me too. Can God put you with someone younger than you?
I met one guy but he left me still praying for the one. Scare to date too much expections still have faith to God. 🙏💛❤💛
You hit the Nail on the Head with thw Attraction part....i was going after guys that Treated the way i wanted to be treated but most of the time, those were the guys inqas not attracted to....i am taking your advise
My man died he was so perfect for me and I am devastated 😢
I'm so sorry Sis.
Im so sorry!❤
You will heal. When you do, God can send you new love. He will do it again.. sometimes things that seem bad are actually blessings in disguise..take the time you need to heal and ask God what you was meant to learn from the situation. 💜
So sorry about your lost how ever you have to heal and be open again for love
Condolences sis
I really needed to hear this! Thank you!
Ya know, I want the one God has for me, but I got to be ready in position so that I can be the woman that men of God would want and want to marry. & right now, to be honest with myself, I'm not ready, cause I got to grow up and heal & can't no men save me only God Himself.
This information is making me have second thoughts about my old and new relationships. That's why I'm asking for God's guidance. But I do know that there is 1 man that I have to remove from my life. In order for us both to find peace.💔
Pray God send me someone Who Fear Him ...almost hated man after divorce
I am so glad I found you!!! You’re so helpful and knowledgeable. Thanks for all your help. Stay blessed!
Thankyou stay with the Lord until you know that you know.Believe the Lord for the true person in your life. I speak from experience. Trust Him. Your soul depends on Him.. Love to all! 🕊♥️
Nice topic Stephan, attraction is a must for me and God fearing.
All I can say is Amen!
I thought he said he was going to give us 7 clues😢 I only heard 2!
As it reads in the Bible what God has for me it is for me,
Here’s how I know you are led by my spirit team, first I went on a date w a guy Im attracted to and he is into the same things as me , some things he stated were negative I was overthinking it hoping it’ll still work out but he showed me a riddle about square pegs going into round holes lol and you just mentioned that into this video posted only a day ago! So I definitely felt guided to watching this I’m new to dating since I’ve evolved and did healing work and want to learn as much as I can before going back into it
And this was very clear for me to remain true to my values and not become willingly ignorant if things are a mis match. 😮😅
A ruler to judge- fruit of the flesh? OR Works of the Holy Spirit.
If you see the Fruit of either in your Relationships or how they make you feel tells you the truths.
I have been waiting for this along time I hope that this is finally going to happen 🤣🧬 because I have always been in bad relationships this sounds to good to be true!
Good morning,hope you had a lovely night rest? I’m single and would love to be friends with you and get to know you why we keep the standards?
Listen i got love u too this why i can't stop thinking of you in thank God for finding a good man will love me forever amen thank you
Thank you, Jesus!
Oh my goodness thank you so much for this lesson!! I appreciate you. 💕
Wow, God just sent you to me, thank you Stephan. I am going through a Dilemma of having to pick btwn the guy I've loved for more than half of my life(he's my bestfriend) and a six figure guy .... you have literally helped me make the decision.
So I wanna know which did you choose lol?
You better choose a 6-figure man
@@Mali-fm3rc lol... he doesn't gimme peace, he's not worth it
@@thelmahangubo6190 I would've voted Best friend too! May God bless you and your Best Friend 🙏
it’s better now thank goodness in Communication adult talk I love that from you thank you for being here as always ☮️❤️🙌⭐️👑
Sometimes I wish I never met him.. he is so emotionally closed up. If only……
I was so physically attracted to a short man and he is loving/caring but he is not there financially and he doesn't seem to have solid plans even though he is 12 years older than me and I am already doing well in my career. it worried me and I ended it but I still think about how I have never been so attracted to a man before
Was he a solid christ loving believer?
That is a shitty reason to leave a good man
@@Cutiejuliya There were other reasons. my spirit didn't feel right with the situation and he had some love bombing traits which I addressed but it was hard for him to change.
@@emilyingridlaura3419 yes but he had his flaws as we all do
@@yzma6142 that's different, should of started with that. Still though sounds like u ran too quick
Thanks for giving that glimpse of hope for us 😂😎☺️
You are so correct stephan
Everything you mentioned I experienced with my boyfriend
We are on the same page about everything and want the same thing
Always say this you are very good with this relationships thing cuz I know why I am saying this
I learned a lot from all of your videos
Everything you are saying in this videos marches everything about my relationship with my boyfriend
I know that I met husband God had for me and we are getting marry this year
All thanks to you for helping me understanding men better
I do not watching your videos like before cuz I am working 7 day a week
Am still gonna make time to watch your new videos
True. Thank you Stephan. 🙌🏼
Thank you Stephan for this rich in insights video!
This message is on point! btw, your smile and laugh are contagious! 😊😊😍😍
I hear you brother, but I have been specific with the father, He will send him, he will come with a stamp. To: T From: God!!🙏🏼☝️❤
Yes and its easier to reconciliation as well through attraction
I Totally Agree
This is sage advice.
Amen! The Lord is good and the 1st point is the GODLY truth!!!! Yes. Amen. Yessssss.
I'm dating a guy I have not felt attrachted to hug as such, it does not come natural and I'm not thinking like I usually do on dates now I'm more nervous if he would approach me trying to kiss me. It's a guy who is very nice and respecting and treats me very nicley. Maybe I should stay single even though guys like this is not easy to find. Been trying to feel on each date if this is more like a friend or someone that I feel comfortable to be romantic with.
so true, once and NEVER unatracted guy.Give me the attractive one. I WASTED SO MUCH TIME.
I appreciate your content ❤🙏❤️🙏
Dear Lord, please help me recognize Him. 💙🙏💓
💯 true, so so true, confirms my doubts 😘🙏
Thank you for what u got for me
I definitely can’t wait
This is very good. Thank you Stephen!
Stephan, Are you married or in a committed relationship?
Evey relationship is a lesson...🙄
I literally just broke up and. This appeared. Wowwwww
I got him!! I love my baby!! 😍
What if your boyfriend was all the good stuff, but he wasn't willing to wait for you to be ready to make a commitment because you are still growing in some areas? I was very in and out. Not consistent with how I felt about him.
We ultimately decided we should break up. I am still not ready for a commitment though.
Yo sé que Dios tiene el hombre correcto para mí y el va a conspirar para que nos encontremos cuando estemos readyyyy❤.
That sounds like how a man looks for his woman to be , not to many men are attracted to her inside, he’s attracted to her outside first
Speaking truth!!!
Stephen pls link the full version
Thank you so much for this videos
It's all about what's inside, looks are not all that!!
Absolutely love your videos
Thank you. This was confirmation for me.
The Lord told me no concerning two men that keeps trying to come and God said no.
My ex is a waste of time. He waste my time having kids he didn't want and cautioned me to have 15 years of lost. He needs to get the help that he needs before he starts a 3rd wife because it will not work. Narcissist person are a waste of time.
Your wants and needs are different in relationships and in every day things in general
Please pray for Shirley trying to meet a good godly soiled man by October 2024 51
I have the understanding that he finds me, I don't find him. Why would God's Word be untrue? I do understand the potent connection part. The Word is confirmed.
Good morning,hope you do have a lovely night rest ? Can we be friends and get to know each other why we keep the standards?
rule #1 got me already hehe
#attraction ?!?!That eliminated 99% 😂
👌🏿So true..🎯Thanks Stephen🏆
I'm tired of dating 😢 where's my Godly man. I'm still hoping you're out there.
I’m here ,good morning,hope you had a lovely night rest ,I’m single and waiting patiently for the one can we be friends and get to know each other why we keep the standards?