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- FOR DRAMA NAMES, activate the subtitles.
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- There are not many dramas because I was very picky. And even the ones included are not perfect.
I wanted to make this video to show that healthy relationships exist after seeing comments under my videos about toxic relationships. Healthy relationships do exist and toxic relationships are avoidable if you know your worth and know the signs of abuse.
But it was very frustrating to make this video and I am posting it with a bitter taste on my tongue. I kept very few dramas from the long list I started with.
I asked you guys to recommend dramas with healthy relationships and I got a lot of suggestions. But when I started looking for content, I came across surprise kisses, hand grabbing, bad jealousy. I did a huge sorting, and even among the ones I kept, some moments are imperfect and disturbing.
A relationship can't be perfect because people aren't. But there are ways to correct mistakes, handle situations and be respectful.
There are a lot of dramas that I didn't include, not because they were toxic relationships but because they weren't completely healthy relationships either. I couldn't afford to make a video about healthy relationships using just "passable" relationships. It's way too risky and would go against all my previous videos.
So, even among these kdramas that I kept, I ask you to have some perspective, they are not perfect. There are some that I haven't seen, haven't finished or have included with some doubt.
I also ask you not to blame me for not including some dramas (Vincenzo, strong girl bong soon, weightlifting fairy kim bok-joo, her private life....). I didn't forget them, I decided not to include them.
If you don't agree with the inclusion of a certain drama (Camelia Blooms for example), please do so in a respectful way. I am open to discussion and I know that not all of these dramas are perfect.
Overall, I wanted to include dramas that feature healthy relationships and not just "non-toxic" ones (because there are many of the latter).
To me, a healthy relationship is one that fully respects the other, while a non-toxic relationship is simply one that is not abusive. I think there is an important nuance and I am willing to elaborate if you wish (but it will remain just my opinion).
Thanks for watching, see you soon for a new video!
I am so happy that you made this edit. All the feels and butterflies at the right place. love and respect go hand in hand in any relationship and that is given, it is not something novel. Lots of love to you ❤️.
Thanks for the edit!
But I can't get the captions, is it just me?
@@kookieslostcookies5044 same here..I am also not getting cc
@@artsysooleft5183 they stated that it’s coming later.
I have a lot of respect to you, thank you for enlightening us ❤
We need more dramas like this and also the dramas that grow awareness about toxic relationship rather than romantising them.
Omg yeeees even in this vid most of the dramas r not really that popular"most of them I didn't even hear about and never watched and I watch kdramas always " I totally agree with u💜
I feel like one spring night sort of had that in its story mainly with jeong-in’s sister seo-in
yes more k dramas need to show healthy relationships and less toxic relationships!!
Wonderful job and video ! Great ! 👏🏻 ❤️
Nevertheless
Thank you so much for including Mr.Sunshine and Run On! Both are so underrated in the non-Korean fanbases from what I've seen. It's nice to see somebody edit them into videos because they are some of my favorites.
There are so many hidden healthy relationship dramas in Korea; it's just sad that they don't get the spotlight
YES YES YES OMG I LOVE THIS SM, I have seen so many toxic relationships in kdramas that always made me mad but the fact there some that really shows the healthy relationship. Thank you
The fact that the drama numbers did not cross over 10 really depicts the current k media and their viewers. Tbh i really didn’t expect more than 5 drama.
I avoided Kdramas like a disease because of the amount of normalized toxic relationship traits. I'm a 90's kid so the traits highlighted in the toxic relationship videos were so prevalent (my father hates Kdramas with a passion as he did not want me to normalize the toxicity and abuse).
Watching this video, it inspires me give Kdramas another chance since there are many that are moving towards a positive, communicating, and healthy relationship. Thank you for all the hard work and awesome messages to your videos!
I highly recommend you Run on. It is one of the most calm and healthiest dramas. The male lead and female lead have mutual respect, trust, calm, loving and easy with each other. The male lead is one of the most kind, respectful and down to earth male lead. The female is not lead than. I can't get enough of how much good it is. Please try it. You can watch it on Netflix
@@ambroseazariah5336 Thank you for the recommendation! Definitely will give the drama a watch!
@@Chaipuffai you are welcome. I myself too hate those clichés, bully to lovers, arrogant male leads and unhealthy or abusive relationships. I hope you will like Run on. Their dialogues /conversations is one of the best best beautifully written
ah, to see A Piece Of Your Mind in the list feels so nice. many said the drama was boring due to its pace but i thought the pacing was just right. they were learning and most importantly they found what they lost in each other. ngl i cried when they hugged for the 1st time. the fact they were trying though. dhajdhsj
one spring night.. I think that kdrama is a good example of a healthy relationship too c:
Ahh I'm so happy that A Piece Of Your Mind is include in this video ❤️
You have become my new favourite yt content maker. And kang haneul's character in when the camellia blooms is so sweet.
Come and Hug me, Run On, 30 but 17, When the Camellia Blooms have some of THE FINEST MEN that set my standards to THE SKY.
THIS
This was beutiful!! I love this song and I'm adding all these dramas to my list
Run on is one of my favorite dramas rn
Love it! This a really good video with a great message. Thank you for posting this!
Ok I don't if anyone is interested in Chinese drama I can suggest some that I found healthy as well (also plus point they're easily found on YT😉)
PERFECT AND CASUAL
FOREVER LOVE
GENERAL'S LADY
MY LITTLE HAPPINESS
THE DAY OF BECOMING YOU
I wanna add YOU'RE MY HERO too. It's such an amazing Cdrama
@@xoxad2705 thx I'll make sure to check it 😊
@@loua3690 ah...you can like...not like it yknow😅 ah I mean, our opinion on said drama may be different; you may not like it and that's okay. I just, I reallt liked it so I recommended it to you, that's all ehe~
The fact that I have watched none of the dramas that were mentioned here(I have few of em in my watchlist) ,kinda makes me feel weird idk like makes me think maybe I support toxic relationship or something 🤦♀️I scare myself 💀
Anyway the comments say run on is good so ig I will try watching it soon…..also the editing was really good 🥰🥺👌✨
Not necessarily! Some of those drama are not really famous!
@@marietb true… but they should be ig….I mean healthy relationships need and should be given more attention 🥺✨
Normalicen poner él nombre de los kdramas en la descripción o en los comentarios fijado plis :)
Solo debes activar los *subtítulos* en inglés que tiene el vídeo, allí están los nombre de los dramas :0
Hong Du shik and Yoon Hye Jin in Hometown cha cha cha were also a great example of healthy relationship....no hand pulling, no treating each other like shit, no shouting or anything....
run on was the most healing drama I have ever watched - there was communication, respect and dealt with important issues like confidence, racism and sexuality
Fr, they just showed the reality.
I think even My Roommate is a Gumiho is like that..
Ah, I should watch Run On now. ❤️
@@yuvashreep7035 you definitely should! it's super healing :)
true! it’s the kdrama I watched when I took a break since I was diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety!! I wasn’t allowed with extremely emotional dramas that time cause it might mess up my mood. Run on definitely helped me ease the boredom I was feeling WITHOUT messing me up HAHAHAHA lighthearted and healing indeed!!
Run On was a gem...A really precious one...
Yes definitely my favourite drama
I'm so sad that not many people around me that watch dramas watched it, I loved it
@@MeruHina Same
YES!! the osts, the script, the actors, THE SETS, everything so beautiful in Run On🥺🤍
@@aynift Agreed!
Run On surprised me so much with their healthy relationship, I was so sick and tired of dramas with a lot of jealousy and toxic behaviors. Run On did a cleanse in my list of dramas Haha, now I really can't continue a drama that is toxic and with guys that keep pulling the girls as if they were their property
Sameee
Fr! Run on is one of the best..didn't make me cringe..didn't make me uncomfortable
Really wholesome and happy(may even become one of my comfort shows)
Even though the leads weren't perfect
They didn't impose their issues on others and I can't stop man ! It was so good
Talking about it make me wanna watch again
Can u tell me where I can watch it
Is my room mate is a gumiho a good one? Please suggest..
Run on was such a good example of healthy relationship and some people founded it boring, funny how ppl hype toxic relationship in kdrama
I loved the couple but relationships and plots are different. Some dramas have better plots with murders, actions or fantasy elements. I don't thjnk its fair to judge a drama only by the relationship of the main leads. Run on is not the most compelling or interesting story but great couple.
Run on is so underrated.
It was so much more than dramatic plots and suspense.
It was like a beautiful journey where life teaches you about simple pleasures of existence. I always love such kind of dramas.
probably found it boring because they're used to toxic relationships or are toxic themselves. people hype toxic relationships because they're emotional rollercoasters. They get addicted to extreme highs and lows and the uncertainty.
right??? like- i'm so annoyed of dramas with tsundere type male leads, toxic love interests and dramatic plot points. run on had just enough drama to keep it from being boring but some people disliking it just shows how toxic relationships have been normalized to be the standard of romantic relationships and i think that's really sad. love all the actors and the production in general was just perfect
boring bc of slow pace
I hate the fact that abusive and toxic relationships (like True beauty, BOF or Heirs) often gets more spotlight than these healthy relationships.
But I don’t think true beauty is really toxic. Its flawed, true. But that is also from insecurity, not real abuse.
@@alindaschaap no it’s 100% toxic eunwoo** (edit, i put the wrong name lmao) made me so uncomfortable because he reminded me of my ex half the time
ALSO LOVE ALARM. Hyeyoung was such a good choice he respected her so much more than sunoh
Why do you say that true beauty was toxic?
@@livialiviliv Because Suho was too controlling of Jugyeong and he was also a really jealous person. I suggest you to watch the videos on toxic relationships by Marie TB (this youtuber) to understand it better.
0:53 There is nothing sexier than consent, I literally got butterflies in my stomach from this scene 😭✋🏽
Yeah I definitely believe that it is beautiful and very respectful! I sorta wished kdramas had role switches tho. It always seem like the male is the initiator in the kisses and gets the consent from the woman, usually not the other way around. Unless it has always been this way? Nonetheless, asking is always respectful!!
Come and Hug Me is such a good drama. 🥺
@@michaelnguyen3159 Wait, you're right I've never noticed that before 😳 Hmm much to think about 👀
Btw I think Hyena has the female lead initiate the kisses in the second part of the show?...I'm not sure 🤔 In any case she was the one leading things in their couple even if the male lead was more in charge of the "emotional part" of their couple
(Which is a nice role switch)
Saame
@@noxdawn4949
But that relationship was the epitome of toxicity. A kiss shouldn't be the only thing to judge a healthy relationship, their interaction and consideration for each other should be. Hyena didn't have a healthy relationship or even a realistic one, it had very ambiguous characters trying to achieve and gain profits. Although the sexual tension between them was there, the chemistry wasn't. She was just hurting him throughout and never did anything to change herself.
Im going to note down and watch each and every one of the kdramas listed in here, because I am done, I am fuckin done of watching normalized toxic traits which is repeated to the point you wonder if this is a healthy relationship. To the point where it manipulates the viewers to this oh so sweet sugary world but in reality its just fuckin sad and pathetic. As a person who used to find certain toxic traits and scenes comedic and actually liked it because i never knew this isn't good, thank you for all your video's relating to this topic.
What are certain examples of dramas that u are talking about? I just want to gain more knowledge on these unfortunately nornalized toxic traits in kdramas. One that comes on top of my head, is boys over flowers
@@marufgazi9025 I recommend you to check out the other videos on the TH-cam Channel of this videomaker, she has a Playlist dedicated to toxic relationships & abusive behaviors. Just make sure to turn on the subtitles when watching those videos and to read her pinned comment every time, you'll learn a lot!
@@noxdawn4949 tnxx i have watched all of them regularly.. i really like these original but necessary videos on kdrama youtube❤
@@marufgazi9025 You can find these normalized traits in almost every k-drama. Try revisiting the dramas's you've watched and you can see it. For eg: the hand pulling. It irritates me because women are then treated like objects. Then the stalking. Some person said, it's not stalking if the guy's cute and you have these dramas to blame for that statement. Portrayal of jealousy. Jealousy is a human emotion, we all feel it at some point. But there are healthy and toxic versions of it too. Most drama's portray the toxic sides of it. If the guy see's the girl talking to another guy, it's end game. The girl breathes next to a male species, yes time to lock her up. Statement like: I only want you to smile for me, I only want you to look pretty for me etc used to sound cheesy and romantic for me, but now it just sounds obsessive and sadistic? I can't pinpoint it. I wish they would alter the sentences. There are many examples, the ones which we tend to overlook are so normalized, that if that behavior ain't normal, k-dramas wouldn't exist.
and like @Nox Dawn said, this channel creates videos based on toxic relationships which are accurate and beautifully done, you should definitely check them out.
Also, I think the portrayal of Baek Kyung in extraordinary you is a good example of different aspects of toxic behavior. Baek kyungs character was toxic, but he didn't want to be. For eg: the scene where the fl gifts him the racket and he has to involuntary act like a typical toxic rich guy who gets the girl in the end and after the scenes over, he snaps back to his own self and apologizes. And then there's this whole tension and angst later, but you can understand that. He's battling who he is supposed to be and who he actually is. If the characters weren't aware of themselves and the ml didn't come, baek kyung would have def ended up with the fl, and for that, i really love extra ordinary you, because it puts boys over flowers and all other dramas that have a toxic ml like that to shame, it says it's not okay.
my god, run on was THE shit. literally no other couple can go up to the pedestal i hold these two at, it was so fucking healthy
Run On was like the peak of romance, honestly, I don't think I can get into a relationship anymore if it isn't at that standard
Thought the exact same, then I watched Hometown Cha Cha Cha and imo they are the new best healthy couple
In terms of healthy relationships, I'm not 100% sure but I think the main couple in Tale of the Nine Tailed come a bit close.
Healthy relationships and consented skinships are more heart fluttering that the sudden, forced kisses. One of my favorite healthy relationships is Haru-DanOh in Extraordinary You, they were so appreciative of their love for each other and the ML didnt act like he owns the FL
I totally agree that Danoh and Haru had a healthy relationship which was so comforting to watch.
I've seen so many talking about how they wanted Danoh to be in a relationship with Baek Gyeong while he was treating her like sh*t in the beginning and even though he has changed in the end, that wouldn't have been healthy for Danoh.
@@paulat.4694 So true! i especially loved when haru said dan-oh is no one's woman but she is her ownself. We could blame it on the manhwa writer for making baek kyung's character toxic on stage but he was still rude in the shadow even after he got the awareness.
Yahhh!! Extraordinary you is my favrt...i love the way how even being a cute n warm hearted girl the writer doesn't give her any dumb character scene...n how haro always a sweet warn n kind boyfriend 💗💗..who always respects her choice!
@@026manasvisharma9 exactlyy! you worded her character so well
@@pebble8031 💗💗
Run On was just a breath of fresh air. It’s that kind of drama where you just want to enjoy the little things and not always have huge situations that leads to endless misunderstandings. Highly recommend to watch. Both actors portrayed the characters in such a good way and was so much fun to watch
You should definitely watch hometown cha cha cha then
@@shyfairis6078 i'm actually on episode 14 right now
Kang Haneul's role in when the camelia bloom is dream guy
True
He’s truly obsessed with dongbaek yet he protected her at all costs 🥺
Yess
Yesss
TRUUUEEEE 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️
Run On and Come and Hug Me definitely the hidden gems. Soo frustrated that this dramas don't get the hype they supposed to get. Everything about these drama is perfect! From casting to the plot. Definitely recommended.
I loved the message at the end!
Most people believe that a relationship is all about love when in reality for a relationship to work you need respect, trust, support and communication.
Because just like with any other relationships, someone saying they like you don't mean that they actually do. The best way to prove your feelings for someone is by treating them with respect and by trusting & supporting them ❤
Don't ever settle for someone who doesn't treat you like you treat them!! You deserve to be as happy as the people in this video ❤ Those kind of relationships exist, never lower your standards 🗣
Yes👏 well 👏said👏
Wooow exactly
And the fact that most of the dramas in this vid are underrated is just so sad…
When the Camellia Blooms was so beautiful, it broke so many stereotypes on masculinity, I enjoyed how he always respected her space, supported her through everything and she accepted him.
come and hug me is such a healthy relationship but with toxic environment around them😭
It shows that love and trust can make you a better person and family does not always have to be blood related
And it shows how one is not destined by his/her family and past. There is always an element of free choice.
I loved the fl when she doesn't blame her mother death on him most fls do that
How did I know before watching this that no Lee Min Ho kdrama would make the list😂 No offence to LMH.
They're good to watch, but the amount of awkward and uncomfortable surprise kisses is just not it😬
I had a feeling too, cuz his entire career is based off of arrogant, rude and rich boy persona.
@@virfah yeah can't agree more
@@victoriach.6753 TKEM is pretty good. Tbh Lee Gon is one of my favorite LMH characters. He was much more calm and less aggressive than his usual characters. I bet LMH was also relieved not to play a disrespectful but 'misunderstood' 🙄 mean guy for once😂
I think his character of TKEM Lee Gon was good and he was r that rude lol
@@victoriach.6753 he was super stalkery tho... like went to her guest room uninvited, had his bodyguard follow her and stuff like that like guys RED FLAGS ARE FLASHING
A piece of your mind is a beautifully written drama . The highlight of their love was the respect they had for each other and how they gave privacy to each other .Even their were some times where they could not understand what the other person feels , but still they respected the other's feelings. When the actress asked him the second last episodes that she needs some time alone and wants to get separated for some time , he didn't question her or forced her to stay. I am happy that you included this masterpiece in your video.
i agree!
I'm still mad that they cut some episodes of this drama and rushed the ending. This drama deserved more. Sadly the dramas which portray healthy relationships are always portrayed as "boring" and it genuinely baffles me
@@min1705 agreed! It was such a good drama. I wanted to see more of their relationship develop. It happened so naturally. It’s a real shame.
@@min1705 Agree.
I could not settle into the drama because the ML's obsession with his ex was extremely toxic. Extremely so.
i knew ‘still 17’ would be included in this edit, i mean i fell hard for kong woojin because of how considerate and patient he was with woo seo ri 🥺🥺
Oh yes still 17 couple it’s awesome, cute and healthy 💖
So true ❤️❤️
Still 17 and Run On was one of the best healthy-romance KDrama for me. I enjoyed every single episode! The way characters respect each others boundaries
I was waiting for the appreciation of Still 17. Finally, thank you.
There is something so sweet of males asking "can i kiss you" rather than forcing a kiss.This is the ideal DIFFERENCE between healthy and toxic relationships. To ask permission to hold hands rather than pulling their arms abrubtly.
When the camelia blooms shows such a healthy relationship
run on really has the healthiest relationship, as much as seon gyeom is the consent and respectful character i also feel obligated to learn from mijoo to not take anything too personally and to give space for the significant other, it really is a masterpiece
I just hate how rare healthy relationships are in kdramas
The "Can I kiss you" and when they finish their kissing they laugh together 🥺
I much love when someone ask PERMISSION to kiss someone they love rather than grab someone just to kiss her.
Run on was one of the best ever they equally struggled and helped eachother through it and once gave eachother the space they needed THE BEST
FINALLY A HEALTHY ONE
Also weightlifting fairy kim bok joo !
there will never be an drama like that :(
I miss them
I never wished for some thing as i wish my first realationship to be healthy i just want to start every thing with love and respect i hope i can make it
I wish the same for you!! It is so important not to accept second best..because you are worth First best..do not accept any less...
pls keep educating urself like this. I had to learn it the hard wau. Good luck
"When the weather is fine" is a drama that changes the definition of love amd relationship....you fall in love with it everytime you watch it ❣
I agree with you. For me was A piece of your mind the best! And after that I watch "WTWIF".
@@MariAruba "A piece of mind" is also a masterpiece ..God knows why these dramas are underrated 🤔😍
I was scrolling to find a comment about WTWIF. This drama filled my heart like no other drama has
@@ThuNguyen-ew3zn not everyone understood the beauty of "when the weather is fine" and those who understood will never be able to take it out from their heart ♥
It was slow and peaceful like reading a book in front of fire! Of course Seo Kang Joon was an eye candy to watch😋
I was thinking there is a scene in dr romantic 2, as well when cha eun jae is crying and seo woo jin wants to hug her to comfort her... and puts his hand on her arms first, to confirm if she is okay and comfortable with the touch, and when he realizes she is.. that's when he hugs her wrapping his arms around her. ❤ Secondly, in strong woman do bong soon.. maybe in ep 11-12 when the guy (ahn min hyuk) wants to kiss her several times, but realizes she isn't ready yet so he doesn't.. and waits for her to come to him, for the kiss when she is ready. And also how he liked her since their first meetup, but she was head over heels over her first love.. so he waited to confess to her, until he realized she was getting over him, and was ready.. these little things just make you realize how much theu respect their loved one/partner.. which is very appreciative💞🥰.. sorry just realised after watching this video about these 2 couples, 3 scenarios 18:52 wed
I really appreciate them asking for permission first before kissing, that's shows respect and all. Not unlike those other male leads that just suddenly grab the female lead and kiss them.
They grab them, they kiss them without notice, they manipulate them but viewers still romanticize that.
When your partner starts to manipulate you that's not love anymore THAT'S OBSESSION and OBSESSION IS NOT A LOVE. If he starts to be possessive and abusive you need to break up as soon as possible, if not, you're gonna face the worst that even sorry won't work anymore.
And I got disgusted by some so far jealousy scenes which are more abusive than possesive and its really toxic but viewers romanticize it and make it highly overrated
There were some kiss scenes where I actually felt afraid because of how violent and rough it was. They would just grab them and pull them in and the poor unwitting victim would stand there completely shocked. Then the camera would zoom in on their faces while romantic music played. It made me feel like puking.
This makes me realize even more that most huge/ extremely successful dramas with biggest and most well known actors/actresses do often have some toxicity in the relationships portrayed and yet people eat those up like candies.
A lot actually find excuses and reasons to justify concerning behaviors or even swoon watching them. They get amazing ratings and views. I wonder why?
Us humans are really strange creatures sometimes.
Because when we don’t understand true love we try to get quick fixes. Why have the couple slowly get closer and ask permission to kiss each other when someone can constantly shower them with the other person with attention by constantly stalking them, bothering them and surprise skinship.
@@user-insight and many people have been socialized into believing that this kind of thing is "romantic". Our society wants men to be aggressive and persistent and women to be agreeable and pliant, especially when it comes to relationships. People have it in their heads that manhandling, stalking and such are manly, and hence, attractive - and that women allowing it to happen are "in love" - and such toxic relationships are thus romantic. All these dramas didn't blow up and they all have similar audience reactions: "too slow" "boring" "male lead is not aggressive enough". People don't want communication, consent, and respect for the same reason that assaulters say they don't ask for permission - they think it kills the mood.
Mr. Sunshine being in this list! Aside from being a healthy relationship drama, they're also such a power couple!!!
Its always on my watch list but does it have a happy couple ending? I dont need something tragic to watch on my holiday...
@@ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου *SPOILER ALERT* do not scroll beyond this point if you dont want one
It doesn't have a happy couple ending, but I guess it's what makes it more deep in meaning and emotionally rich. It's beautiful because of the multiple layers of elements in it that is not just about like the relationship romance. I guess it's more of life romance. I'd highly recommend this though if you're in for top-tier quality dramas.
@@kskeososkeje thanks! I guess i will watch it sometime since it's in my top list but it was a stressful years in hospital so i want a light drama to watch for holiday...
Not me criying over this couple again after 100 hours of that
They look like father and daughter. No thanks.
run on is my fav it actually made me believe that there's someone who'll love without judging >
Run on
Mr sunshine
Still 17
Come and hug me
When the camelia bloom
Record of youth
Prison playbook
Rookie historian
The beauty inside
A piece of your mind
When the weather is fine
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Thank you so much. ❤😍 love from India.
i've been smiling like an idiot since the starting of the video.
and yes, we need to have more dramas with healthy relationships rather than the toxic ones. like purity dripping out of them is just-
I watched Run On almost on a whim, and I'm so glad I did - it's so calming, healing, and healthy the way the writer portrayed diff types of relationships!!!
there was mention of asexuality (and explaining what it is! as ace myself, I rly appreciated it), there was still affection and understanding in a relationship that ended (just bc certain relationships end doesnt mean they werent meaningful), and there was the emphasis on taking care of yourself and remembering not to put yourself last.
i swear run on and a piece of my mind has the healthiest relationship of all.
Rookie Historian is really so amazing! It showed how much respect they had for each other and the way Yirim was understanding and respected Haeryung's boundaries was wonderful. They really showed the beauty of companionship and growth of a relationship
That same actor was toxic in 'True Beauty'.
@@bluebubble5454ummm, you do not need to bring that in. My gosh, I’m getting so sick of these true beauty and seojun biased people 😭
yesss lessgooooo
Ok, but I've never seen anyone use a Piece of your Mind before, underrated drama
record of youth and run on are EXTREMELY recommended
It's really hard to find a healthy relationship in Kdramas. I haven't found one yet but I hope I do! There are many kdramas here that I haven't watched. I'll surely watch some of them for sure. Thank you for the video. ❤️
I think itaewon class has a healthy relationship.
Also angel's last mission: love, for me their relation is healthy.
I would start with run on it wasn’t your typical drama and it was really sweet
@@jazminmejia8304 I don't think so. Itaewon Class's relationship wasn't healthy on my opinion due to some issues.
@@notusingkor yeah, but I think this is on the side of the girl (maybe the boy too but I don't remember)
✨HEALTHY reLaTioNshIpS✨
Most of the popular kdramas = What the heck is that!!?😗 It just made the story less interesting..😣 Gotta add tons of toxicity!😏😏
M E A N W H I L E
Underrated or few good kdramas = we just inspire our viewers for seeking love in the right person not a duck head who just disrespects u for his/her selfish desires!!! 😁😁
I hope the writers and directors would pay attention to show us more of a reality. Y'all watch kdramas to escape from our regular life of heartbreaks, toxicity, judgements and steretypes of different things...just to fantasize a dream life there. And there too we get the bitter reality and that too which is whitewashed as 'ROMANTIC INTIMACY' and what not! Atleast show us how ppl fight against it.
Writers and directors make the drama but the people are the ones who make it popular, if people don't watch dramas with toxic relationships then the writers and directors will make less dramas with that concept.
I just love the way you discuss various social issues and bring those to attention at the same time as introducing us great dramas. Your edits are amaizing. Thanks.
I'm sooo happy that I found your channel I really love your videos. And I just want you to know that u r really helping changing people's lives with your videos and really making us conscious , and helping us loving and appreciating our selves more, whenever I feel like I'm not worth it I watch one of your videos, sometimes they even make me cry but they definitely make me stronger, really thank you from my heart please continue what you r doing , it is really a great thing 💜
Exactly! This channel is also very underrated
Have a good week army 💜
@@cysy.g32 thank u 💜💜💜 you too have a great day 💜
RUN ON SUPREMACY ✨
When the camellia has became my favourite drama ever since I watched it for the first time and nothing can beat it till now. Young Sik character was so new and fresh to me. I've never seen such a healthy male lead character .I was always smiling whenever Yong sik speaks xD His love for Dong baek is so pure and cute
My top Healthy Relationship Kdramas is
1. Come and Hug Me ( 2018 )
2. When the Camellia Blooms ( 2019 )
3. You are My Spring ( 2021 )
4. Find Me in Your Memory ( 2020 )
♥️♥️♥️ love it
Do you think Clean for Passion Now is toxic??
It was amazing to think that The Heir and Mr Sunshine are written by the same person, and one is in modern world (but toxic) while other is in old period (but healthy)
still 17 is one of the best kdramas i've ever watched recommend 1000% it's so under appreciated
Consent is so hot me says😌✋
Honestly, we need more healthy relationships like these in kdramas
I already know this will be amazing!
i am really happy to see come and hug me in a video like this. the show is a real gem, everything is on point; visuals, plot, acting, couples chemistry. plus their relationship is really healthy. they show the audience that a realtionship is not about leaving scars to the person you love but to heal the old ones.
I think I just found my favourite video on the internet:
- it’s about kdramas;
- Zayn’s song;
- healthy relationships;
- beautiful edit;
- I got some kdrama recommendations from it.
Thank you ❤️
run on is definitely a must watch, it's so simple but so gooooood
I FEEL SO PROUD FOR HAVING RUN ON IN THIS VIDEO! all the love for mijoo and seongyeom~
"...even among the ones I kept (those listed in the video), some moments are imperfect and disturbing". First, it's good that you're aware no relationships are perfect. I hope that means you're also aware that no relationships are completely healthy. But you're right that people can learn and do better. Both sides would have to put in the effort of teaching the other and making the other aware of their mistakes. So, these drama in the video may not fit in your completely healthy list but they are at least healthy enough (I can't say to all of them in the video but I've watched some of them and I do agree for them to be included). That said, don't give up. And thank you for sharing, your videos are necessary.
Can I promote still 17? I really loved that drama. It was the first depiction of a relationship in any media form that truly made me want a relationship. I hope more people will watch it, it’s truly a wholesome experience!
Ikr. I’ve been waiting for still 17 comments. I really truly love that drama
It's still my favourite kdrama
I'm watching it currently and it's really goood
Run On is really beautiful. I really like the fact that they also focused on self love. There’s this dialogue that Ki Seon Gyeom said, “Out of all the things I’ve loved, why have I never loved myself?” and that makes me question myself. So I want to try loving myself too
I was wondering what new drama to watch, this is how i get recommendations. I trust your judgment
thanks for including still 17, it's so underrated and it's one of my favorite dramas, i loved woojin
17 but thirty was so stinking good ! Another really good one is hometown cha cha cha my fav k drama 😩
the understanding and communication in Come and Hug Me was 🤌🤌🤌 MUAH
So happy to see ' A piece of your mind' here. One of my favourite dramas and my favourite couple ❤
Underrated one❤
I can't wait to see this, I'm so happy!
"Run On" definitely changed my mind about kdramas! It's a breath of fresh air 🌼
I LOVED RUN ON the main male lead was so cute also the the second boy was cute
STILL 17!!!!! the cutest leads ever 😭
Run On totally gave us the best relationship (and the best chemistry) to ever grace a Korean drama. So sad at how underrated it was.
in a world that idealizes characters/boyfriends like sunoh from love alarm and suho from true beauty, be/fall in love with someone like ki seongyeom from run on.
As I mature, I start loving dramas with couples that has healthy relationship, it is more fluttering and romantic. I have looked back on dramas that i considered classic but now I can’t stomach.
I’m hoping you can make more videos with healthy relationship, please watch Hospital Playlist 1 & 2, and hopefully you can include it’s couples (it has four loveline), season 2 gives so much more scenes and development on its loveline so you just need to watch both to see their progress though it’s still ongoing right now.
Waiting ..... but iam excited 🤗🤗🤗
So happy Still 17 made it to this list because that drama was so precious 🥺
I loved it so much!
Thank you so much for the effort, I can imagine how frustrating it might have been... That's what bothers me about most K-Drama, even if they start good, there are still sooo many moments which are just not healthy or are adressed properly.
Run On was such a gem... beautiful dialogues, so well-written and progressive!
Na moo and nak won getting the recognition they deserve🤧💖
:3 yay!
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