I'm so happy I stumbled across this channel! My father's employer is hosting a formal holiday dinner and I didn't want to make a fool of myself! Thanks so much Gloria for posting this!
Marie Aponte Thank you for the lovely compliment. I offer my training Programs worldwide. Here is the link to some of the upcoming training programs: GloriaStarr.com/event-calendar
So glad you enjoyed the video. I work all over the world, wherever clients hire me. Please view my web site click on upcoming events to view and yes, you can request training in New Orleans.
I don't understand why this video has 9 dislikes. Anyways, thank you. I wish you had a Boston office, in the mean time I will continue watching your videos. Thanks again
+Jess Thanks for your positive feedback, greatly appreciated. I am located in Palm Beach, Florida and work all over the world. I can easily fly to Boston to work with you!
So glad you are enjoying the videos. I work all over the world.... Boston is only a 3 hour flight from my office. Upcoming programs are listed at www.gloriastarr.com/event-calendar
I'm only 13 years old but I have to learn this things because of my family. We're not nobles, or something like that but since I'm the oldest daughter, I have to learn this things for the formal parties that I will attend with my parents or relatives in the future. But I get nervous when I'm meeting such high class people, especially when they ask me to perform or to entertain them or when they ask things about me. Should I also answer them formally? Or should I just answer them normally?
Thank you for your instructional video. I have been looking for this type of video for a long time. I plan to instruct my 5th grade class in school the proper way to act and perform in a dining setting. Only one thing I noticed from your video that seemed odd to me. As you passed the salt and pepper among other things, it seemed your sleeve to your shirt could have dragged into your food plates. Wouldn't you say then that your choice of dinner attire was incorrect?
at 7:50 how would the flute glass get filled with water? Did the host or hostess offer that option at the start of the meal rather than champagne? Each diner should always have a filled water glass at the start of the meal.
Hi Gloria. I am right-handed. If the bread is on my left and I only butter one tiny piece at a time then the next time I go to butter another small piece I always drag my right arm through my food. I can't remember to lift my arm up high enough. Also, if my fork is turned downwards in my left hand how is it possible to eat the vegetables? Do you ever come to Toronto Ontario Canada? I really need an in person instruction.
Hello Sherry, I would be pleased to arrange an etiquette lesson for you at an upscale restaurant and teach you these essential skills. I am in Burlington, ON now so we can make this happen. Gloria@GloriaStarr.com 905-901-3414
Saying "thank you" to the staff depends on the culture, the level of sophistication of the restaurant, etc. In Taiwan at the Private Club I was invited to by my Hosts, you do not acknowledge the staff by looking at them or saying "thank you" instead you tap your knuckle on the table to say "thank you" to the staff. I personally like to acknowledge the staff (whether good or poor service) by speaking to them. GloriaStarr.com
I find that thinking BMW works better than the trick you did with your fingers. B for bread, M for meal and W for water/wine, and you just spell it across the table to find the right place for each. :)
Wonderful demonstration Gloria :) quick question, I've noticed that some forks are different? I have trouble distinguishing which fork is for the salad and which is for the main course (for example Fettuccine or any other pasta)
Mari Felix Great Question Mari. The salad is usually eaten prior to the entrée so it will be the fork on the outside left. Some Europeans eat their salad after the entrée, so is this case, the fork for the entrée will be the fork on the outside and the salad fork will be closest to your dinner plate. The entrée would be eaten using the dinner fork and after completion, the plate and fork and knife will be removed. The dinner fork is usually larger than the salad fork.
Ms. Starr, I have two questions for you:1) If I will be serving dinner for my guests at 6 PM, at what time should I invite them to come over? and 2) How long should it be since guests arrive until the actual dinner? And during this time, should I serve a drink? or a little entree? Please, your feed back will be precious to me. Thank you very much, SylvannaFraga.com
If the dinner will be served at 6 pm, I would invite my guest to arrive at 5 pm. Yes, serving a beverage shortly after the guests arrive is appropriate.
i love your videos .one thing that i think they need to change in proper etiquette is you should always blow on your coffee or tea before you drink it .i can't tell you how many times i have seen people spit out there coffee or tea at the table because it was to hot i always blow on my cup to cool it off
Thank you for the compliments on my videos. I do not recommend that you blow on your coffee or tea to cool it down prior to drinking the beverage. Just wait a few minutes and the hot drink will have time to cool. Lady Gloria Starr
I agree that very few people want to lead an elegant lifestyle. But never give up or lower your standards. You will outgrow your current friends and you will shine at the next level....GloriaStarr.com
Thanks for the positive feedback. Truly appreciated.
I'm so happy I stumbled across this channel! My father's employer is hosting a formal holiday dinner and I didn't want to make a fool of myself! Thanks so much Gloria for posting this!
You are such an elegant woman. I love the way you teach
I wish i could take classes with you in person. How wonderful that you are teaching us on you tube. Thank you for the knowledge.
Marie Aponte Thank you for the lovely compliment. I offer my training Programs worldwide. Here is the link to some of the upcoming training programs:
GloriaStarr.com/event-calendar
I love your videos. Thanks for all the helpful information.
MissMuffin1971 Many Thanks! GloriaStarr.com
Thank you Gloria for this wonderful demonstration of
proper dinning etiquette. I salute you. :)
So glad you enjoyed the video. I work all over the world, wherever clients hire me. Please view my web site click on upcoming events to view and yes, you can request training in New Orleans.
you are such an elegant lady with some great advice! i wish the world nowadays was more formal like it was in the past
Thanks for the videos. You are a very classy lady with great knowledge. Please share them with us. Love you.
This is a real good video and you are so graceful and charming . Thank you
You should see the etiquette I have now looking at your videos. I am from the hood and I have learned a lot from your videos . Thank you
Awesome! I am so pleased for you.
That was really good. Look forward to seeing more of it.
Thanks Gloria for that wonderful easy to understand Tips. I appreciate your presentation it was so dignified.
VERY HELPFUL! Very eloquent :)
In appreciation! GloriaStarr.com
I love this! Thank you!!!! You're fabulous!
I need to learn etiquette for a play I am in. This is a big help! Thank you!
very nice video with a lot of essential information. great ease in explaining stuff. thanks for sharing so much.
again wonderful video. can watch it any number of times. thanks for sharing.
Thank you for this graceful demonstration
You look stunning ! Thank you so much very helpful tips
I don't understand why this video has 9 dislikes. Anyways, thank you. I wish you had a Boston office, in the mean time I will continue watching your videos.
Thanks again
+Jess Thanks for your positive feedback, greatly appreciated. I am located in Palm Beach, Florida and work all over the world. I can easily fly to Boston to work with you!
So glad you are enjoying the videos. I work all over the world.... Boston is only a 3 hour flight from my office. Upcoming programs are listed at www.gloriastarr.com/event-calendar
Thanks for the video. Perhaps I'm ready for any luncheon or dinner meetings.
I love your videos & how you explain things. You're si classy. Im a fan. ❤❤❤
Reigning Regine Thank You for such a lovely compliment, much appreciated!
@@ExpertGloriaStarr 😘❤❤❤
Lovely, as usual!
Thank you.
I'm only 13 years old but I have to learn this things because of my family. We're not nobles, or something like that but since I'm the oldest daughter, I have to learn this things for the formal parties that I will attend with my parents or relatives in the future. But I get nervous when I'm meeting such high class people, especially when they ask me to perform or to entertain them or when they ask things about me. Should I also answer them formally? Or should I just answer them normally?
I love your videos Gloria! Your so chic!
Very well done the video, objective and effective
Such a great video! Thank you very much for all the tips!
Thank you for your instructional video. I have been looking for this type of video for a long time. I plan to instruct my 5th grade class in school the proper way to act and perform in a dining setting. Only one thing I noticed from your video that seemed odd to me. As you passed the salt and pepper among other things, it seemed your sleeve to your shirt could have dragged into your food plates. Wouldn't you say then that your choice of dinner attire was incorrect?
This was a demonstration without food. This suit with fur cuffs is ideally suited to a cocktail party rather than a dinner party. Lady Gloria Starr
at 7:50 how would the flute glass get filled with water? Did the host or hostess offer that option at the start of the meal rather than champagne? Each diner should always have a filled water glass at the start of the meal.
Amazing class!
This really needs to be implemented in American schools so bad.
Love this! Thank you! I will start practicing! (:
Outstandingly elegant.
Thank you very much. I love you video.
Lovely Gloria !!
Hi Gloria. I am right-handed. If the bread is on my left and I only butter one tiny piece at a time then the next time I go to butter another small piece I always drag my right arm through my food. I can't remember to lift my arm up high enough. Also, if my fork is turned downwards in my left hand how is it possible to eat the vegetables? Do you ever come to Toronto Ontario Canada? I really need an in person instruction.
Hello Sherry, I would be pleased to arrange an etiquette lesson for you at an upscale restaurant and teach you these essential skills.
I am in Burlington, ON now so we can make this happen.
Gloria@GloriaStarr.com 905-901-3414
Thanks lot for sharing your knowledge
Aiym Iskakova Thank you! GloriaStarr.com
Hi Gloria. Nice Video. Really liked it.
I am extremely impressed thank you very much for this video.
Awesum Gloria Starr thank you
Do you say thank you to the staff while they take things away or while they serve? 🤔
Saying "thank you" to the staff depends on the culture, the level of sophistication of the restaurant, etc. In Taiwan at the Private Club I was invited to by my Hosts, you do not acknowledge the staff by looking at them or saying "thank you" instead you tap your knuckle on the table to say "thank you" to the staff.
I personally like to acknowledge the staff (whether good or poor service) by speaking to them. GloriaStarr.com
@@ExpertGloriaStarr thank you for your reply. I'll remember that.
I find that thinking BMW works better than the trick you did with your fingers. B for bread, M for meal and W for water/wine, and you just spell it across the table to find the right place for each. :)
Thank you. I was actually rather curious about sugar packet placement.
Thank you very much !!!
Ps: I like it when you say : " what are you thinking ?!" lol
Excellent video.
i love it !!!! thank you so much !!! very clear and nice voice :)
Thank you for the tips!!very helpful!!
do you have a video with signaling the waiter?I never know how to signal a server at the restaurant. eg when I want a menu.
so very helpful. Thank You
Look at those cuffs on that jacket... wonderful:)
Wonderful demonstration Gloria :) quick question, I've noticed that some forks are different? I have trouble distinguishing which fork is for the salad and which is for the main course (for example Fettuccine or any other pasta)
Mari Felix Great Question Mari. The salad is usually eaten prior to the entrée so it will be the fork on the outside left.
Some Europeans eat their salad after the entrée, so is this case, the fork for the entrée will be the fork on the outside and the salad fork will be closest to your dinner plate. The entrée would be eaten using the dinner fork and after completion, the plate and fork and knife will be removed.
The dinner fork is usually larger than the salad fork.
Gloria Starr Thank you :D
you are superb
Thank-you very much.
you done great job..
That aint proper english.
Classy 👏🏾
Beautiful table cloth
Thank you! I purchased the tablecloth in a bazaar in Dubai. I believe it was made in India.
+Gloria Starr Oh, wow that's wonderful!
should a person remove gloves to eat, can jewelry be worn on outside of gloves, formal.
+cute Ruth Brown Yes, remove your gloves to eat.
Yes, you can wear a bracelet over a glove.
LOVE It!
Ms. Starr, I have two questions for you:1) If I will be serving dinner for my guests at 6 PM, at what time should I invite them to come over? and 2) How long should it be since guests arrive until the actual dinner? And during this time, should I serve a drink? or a little entree? Please, your feed back will be precious to me. Thank you very much, SylvannaFraga.com
If the dinner will be served at 6 pm, I would invite my guest to arrive at 5 pm. Yes, serving a beverage shortly after the guests arrive is appropriate.
Thank you.
I love that jacket.
Very informative!
i love your videos .one thing that i think they need to change in proper etiquette is you should always blow on your coffee or tea before you drink it .i can't tell you how many times i have seen people spit out there coffee or tea at the table because it was to hot i always blow on my cup to cool it off
Thank you for the compliments on my videos.
I do not recommend that you blow on your coffee or tea to cool it down prior to drinking the beverage. Just wait a few minutes and the hot drink will have time to cool. Lady Gloria Starr
thank for your kind advice
When will you be coming to england :)
Wonderful ! Thank you !
Simple and easy rules. But where is the water glass? :)
Thank you for the great video
dat ws soo elegant..:)..
Thanks..very useful video!
I just subscribed. ❤❤❤
Reigning Regine Excellent!!
i like this lady
I put my spoon on top of the sugar paper so as not to drip on the saucer
Interesting
Thank you.
I would have loved to take you out for dinner, you're so elegant!
thanks.
ILove you
thank u :)
pay attention boys
I have strived so hard to be a lady and no one appreciates it!
I agree that very few people want to lead an elegant lifestyle. But never give up or lower your standards.
You will outgrow your current friends and you will shine at the next level....GloriaStarr.com
Are American's supposed to eat with their forks turned upside down these days? I thought only the British did that.
Both the American and the European ways of dining are acceptable.
Thank you so much. I loved the video, you covered so much so quickly.
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