OPs mother is a mess, and self absorbed. Not that any of this mess is OPs fault. But, why did OP let her mother take over the wedding. Her grandmother was a retired wedding planner, and would have been the best person to ask for help.
It's even worse when they say the kids are to blame. Like no actress or artist or whoever ever had kids. Ursula Von der Leyen has seven! Like, if she was so darn talented, she couldn't still go on auditions and get enough money with her lead roles to pay for a nanny. Yeah, right.
I’m sorry OP mom never got her dream but don’t take it out on your kid. You could’ve given her up for adoption. Sounds like she would’ve had a better life that way, but then she never would’ve met her fiancé who sounds wonderful.
I wouldn't have been STUPID enough to let my toxic mother who resented me get involved with the wedding planning AT ALL. I wouldn't have even gone to look at venues she chose. OP ignored ALL sorts of red flags. She brought this on herself, just as her now husband tried to warn her about. No sympathy.
Yes, this. Also, since there was security at the venue she should have had that toxic woman and her boy toy removed immediately instead of letting her carry on through the entire event.
@@pianolady10 that was the most infuriating part. We didn't find out until the end there was security. As soon as I saw her in that wedding gown I would have had her removed.
How can you be smart enough to finish a law school, but stupid enough to believe someone who you know hated you your whole life? Plus not listening to your future husband, who clearly saw through the MIL.
A glass of red wine does wonders to a white a wedding gown. Opie can try to get married again without her mother. She can have a wedding that she is wanting to have.
My mother is toxic also. I finally seen what my X husband and husband were saying was true. She set me up to be SA and then denied it. I was made to be care giver and provider for my siblings. While she pampered herself for her bfs. While she was married and dad provided for her and my siblings. He wasn’t aware of what ALL she was doing. Best years of my life has been without her
I been without mine in my life since my teens. She tried to play me to get kicked out of my grandparents and loose family support It all ended when we finally moved states. I was living next door to her (not recommended if avoidable). She won't even admit her wrong doings or her husbands. Most we heard was "he was mean to her". Mean is not the word. She had her chance to be my mother, failed and so she now has to live with the consequences.
My confusion here was OP's grandmother was a retired professional planner, and didn't offer to help? Not even offer to help with her business contacts if they were still around? Really? That sounds odd to me. We aren't talking about the daughter of a friend or a distant relative, this is her own granddaughter. Also, my advice is if someone shows up in a white wedding dress to a wedding, do everything you can to keep anyone from looking, pay no attention, make no reaction. It'll drive them crazy.
these type of stories make me wish the tv seres i redo was still airing new episode. this poor o.p deserves a second wedding without that nightmare. which is what the show was about. people whose first weddings didnt go well from either insane mothers or something happened to the dresses etc ruined it. this o.p deserves to have her dream wedding from begining to end without that wicked mother having ruined the beginning and uglifying the reception decoration, fortunately security came in time before she could even end her sabotage with a proposal. to her play boy. im glad she's out of op's life but still i wish a show like I redo was still running, i think the host of the show would immediately help o.p and hubby give them a wedding that would not be taken by a disgusting mother from hell.
Just make this into a funny story: "Remember that one time my crazy mother wore white to our wedding?" Kinda makes you wish she was at least drunk or on drugs. It's scary to think she was sober.
Wow I can't believe op mother who hates her daughter so much for her wedding and ruining everything I think Op is time to cut her off immediately that is the only way to cut off your contact with some toxic parents
Not only should OP go complete NC with her mother, she and her fiance should move to another state, put their wedding on hold, and have a courthouse ceremony, to make their marriage legal.
Part of the story reminds me of the show Yes to the dress. A mother tried on a wedding dress at the fitting with her daughter. She had also test out some wedding dresses.
Nope ..my mother was a mess..I never asked her to help plan my wedding..I was perfectly capable of doing it on my own. My Dad told me not to get her involved because she would go overboard!! You walked right into her TRAP..Silly woman!!
I hope she sues her mother for her part of the wedding sence she changed it to what she wanted...i sure would...maybe then she would see how messed up she is.. but first I would get the wedding book back so the daughter can show the court what she planned... that way they can see how her egg donor did change it to suit her self for her wannabe wedding
I don’t know why Hoppe didn’t just ask her grandma to do it because I’m positive that grandma would’ve come out of retirement to help. Listening to the story I thought maybe grandma had passed on, but then when grandma showed up again at the end, I realise that Hoppe was stupid in not asking grandma for help.
My mom never liked me. As I go through chemo, radiation and pain she would not say much. But as soon as my doc says congrats your in remission, mom couldn't wait to start back with belittle me, smack me around and tell me I'm the reason she can't get it right and that I'm the death of her. What type of person says that? All my life I walk on egg shells and continues to insult me till this very day, everytime I relapse she keeps quiet but never loves me. My brother told me he was leaving and never coming back, he also said you ñeed to leave right away, there's something wrong with mom!!" My brother did leave and never returned. I hated that I'm so naive so scared of mom and too forgiving. I feel like this is why I keep getting sick.
OP needs to sue the mother because it is obvious that she didn’t do anything she wanted and did it out of spite to ruin her daughters wedding because of her mom’s jealousy of OP.
Op, I can understand that she's your mother, but for a woman as bright as you, I can't believe that you were caught unawares of what your mom was planning. This way you will end up paying for it secondly, she loves you the only way she knows how, but it's a selfish love. Your fiancee spoke truth, she's jealous of you, and she sees this as her last chance at marriage. You give in but not gracefully. My ? Is this are you gonna be able to handle it, because you're gonna have to go no contact.
You were given so many red flags and you didn't do anything? And don't use the excuse you didn't know, so many red flags like so many of them. Probably more than you put in the story
I have seen in RL and on Reddit that that age group of woman who have female children are so jealous and hateful towards them its ridiculous. My own Mother is jealous that I am with my husband and that I have moved away and living my life. And now catering to her.
Op did right thing. Her mother only have one what ever get our her mother. There was no love there. And bet he had a new sugar mom already waiting in wings.
Nope, I would have thrown her out the minute she showed up in that wedding dress. I would have made sure that everybody saw her getting dragged out. No I believe her boyfriend was going to break up with her long before that he just needed an excuse.
I shopped for my wedding dress all by myself so my equally pushy mother wouldn’t push her opinions on me. Can you believe that was 38years ago 😂😮😅😊 She still mentions it lol
That’s funny. Maybe she has had her first lesson and listen to your man. She got exactly what she deserves for putting trust in a mother that has never cared for her
OP is not, in the slightest, responsible for her mother's break-up. If anything, the mother showed her boytoy how selfish SHE was. If he said anything about "such a selfish child," he was referring to the MOTHER. As in, "I could never marry such a selfish child," not "I could never marry anyone with such a selfish child." I hope the OP doesn't have to deal with her "mother" every again. It IS sad that she had to give up her dream of being a professional actress. However, if acting is her dream, she could have lived that dream, while maintaining a stable income, by getting into community theater, instead. It's a LOT less stressful, and a LOT MORE FUN. She just didn't have enough creativity to "think outside the box," but was just pouring all her thwarted creativity into thinking of new ways to hurt her own child.
I will never understand why people who know that someone has been toxic and horrible their whole life think that they're gonna be any different when they Invite them to something that is important to them and then they act shocked when that Toxic person does what they do best !? Mother sounds like a horrible person o p did not ruin her life her mother Is the one who got pregnant. As a mom myself I want my girls to do better than me in life and i'm extremely proud. I don't dwell on the things that I could have done because I decided to have children. Should have listened to your fiance And what you've known about your mother your whole life
Well she sure didn't protest when she let her mom pick things out for the wedding. So she shouldn't complain at all. It's OPs fault. Glad she finally had enough of her horrible mother and cut ties
This lady is a covert narcissist, and I say that with certainty. Everything she does is just to hide who she really is. I'm glad OP as able to let her go and find peace. Most importantly, keep that door shut and don't ever let that horrible woman back in!
OP's mother should do grateful that OP wants help and be on OP's important day of OP's life. "Go ahead and get married to the jerk, but I am cut ties with you" OP's mother wearing a white dress on OP's special day is rude and disgraceful.
Dude I always feel bad when the original poster's in the beginning of these stories always have to explain oh don't look at me as heartless or this and that and it's a dude I don't understand how you can anybody heartless for having to cut out a terrible tumor in life that you call a parent family member toxic friend or all of the above you do when you had to do we all get it but at the same time I don't blame these people after they've been under the thumb of terrible people that make them think that up they do one thing to keep these people out of their life all of a sudden they're the monster
Dude all I can say by the end of this whole entire story thank God the original poster grew some balls to throw her mom out of the wedding and continue her night as a new married woman to the man who loves and cares about her but I'm not going to lie I feel like her soon-to-be husband still should have stepped in and cut off any type of efficient funds or money to certain things that didn't make any sense on his bank statement I'm just saying
I'd have grabbed something liquid, walked down that isle, walked up to MOMMY DEAREST and dump said liquid over her head, tell her is was going to sue her ass for destroying MY wedding and to GTFO. I'd have also have asked the bridesmaids to please destroy all the decor at the reception. I'd have also announced to EVERYONE at the venue that my mom is a BIG, FAT, LIAR!
:( Two Self Absorbed , Modern Feminist :( Nothing to see hear ! She is no victim and neither is her Mother ! They both are the Same, just different approach !
OP and husband should have announced at the reception that OPs mother had lied to her, stolen her money to hijack the wedding to make it her own. That they are leaving and will be suing her mother and new step father for all costs, damages and distress. Then tell the mother that if she makes any fuss, or any attempt to contact through anyone else other than the lawyers, the Police will be called.
I'm sorry it's all your fault, I'm sure you know how she is after all these years and you didn't even check before hand on the event? It doesn't make since
Why didn't you kick her out as soon as she showed up in a white dress, I don't understand! I would have had one of the ushers, family member, anyone tell her to leave before the wedding even started. Mother or no mother somebody like that has to have been like that your whole life. Like the old saying says fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!!
To be honest you let this happen so I can't really feel bad about this since you were given so many red flags even your husband knew that this was bad and you still went wrong with it
All I had to do I read the title and smdh at what an IDIOT OP is. ELOPING became a thing for a reason! I don't feel sorry for OP, she got exactly what SHE deserved for NOT having a shiny spine.
Have some empathy not everyone can be strong like you, seriously reevaluate how you see things sometimes, did you actually read the whole story or listen to it?
This idiot did it to herself knowing how her mother is. Ethen even warned her and she wanted to act like he was being negative 🤷🏻♂️ this entire situation is entirely her fault for not being adult enough to cut her mouth from the entire event, let alone planning it.
OPs mother is a mess, and self absorbed. Not that any of this mess is OPs fault. But, why did OP let her mother take over the wedding. Her grandmother was a retired wedding planner, and would have been the best person to ask for help.
I can't stand women who envy their kids. They knowingly took the risk of getting pregnant. It's not the kids' fault their dreams died🤷
It's even worse when they say the kids are to blame. Like no actress or artist or whoever ever had kids. Ursula Von der Leyen has seven! Like, if she was so darn talented, she couldn't still go on auditions and get enough money with her lead roles to pay for a nanny. Yeah, right.
Nah, OP ain't responsible for such a narcissist of a mom ruining her own relationship LMAO
That mother is immensely childish and immature
Talk about being rude wearing white dress and even ruder for imposing her will on the wedding
I’m sorry OP mom never got her dream but don’t take it out on your kid. You could’ve given her up for adoption. Sounds like she would’ve had a better life that way, but then she never would’ve met her fiancé who sounds wonderful.
I wouldn't have been STUPID enough to let my toxic mother who resented me get involved with the wedding planning AT ALL. I wouldn't have even gone to look at venues she chose. OP ignored ALL sorts of red flags. She brought this on herself, just as her now husband tried to warn her about. No sympathy.
Yes, this. Also, since there was security at the venue she should have had that toxic woman and her boy toy removed immediately instead of letting her carry on through the entire event.
@@pianolady10 that was the most infuriating part. We didn't find out until the end there was security. As soon as I saw her in that wedding gown I would have had her removed.
Same. If you're going to be dumb, u need to accept the consequences
Exactly.. ZERO sympathy from me, she deserved exactly what she got
Thats what im thinking. Cmon how are some people so oblivious
How can you be smart enough to finish a law school, but stupid enough to believe someone who you know hated you your whole life? Plus not listening to your future husband, who clearly saw through the MIL.
I would through her out. Sue her Mom and go no contact.
A glass of red wine does wonders to a white a wedding gown. Opie can try to get married again without her mother. She can have a wedding that she is wanting to have.
Lol this made me laugh. As i was told by i friend i am this person. After a few TicToks we have found out i am "Unicorn Kid" lol 😅
Ethan tried to warn her.
My mother is toxic also. I finally seen what my X husband and husband were saying was true. She set me up to be SA and then denied it. I was made to be care giver and provider for my siblings. While she pampered herself for her bfs. While she was married and dad provided for her and my siblings. He wasn’t aware of what ALL she was doing. Best years of my life has been without her
Omg that's evil, wish you a great life.
I been without mine in my life since my teens. She tried to play me to get kicked out of my grandparents and loose family support It all ended when we finally moved states. I was living next door to her (not recommended if avoidable). She won't even admit her wrong doings or her husbands. Most we heard was "he was mean to her". Mean is not the word. She had her chance to be my mother, failed and so she now has to live with the consequences.
Of my mom just showed up at the venue when I said no, I'd send the stalker home right there. Not join her for lunch afterwards.... boundaries people!
A double wedding no it’s not supposed to be a double bed. It’s supposed to be OP wedding day only.
OP 👍 Send mom half the wedding bills.
Don’t pick up a viper unless you want to get bitten.
I think the feeling is mutual and if you wanna double wedding, you ask the person if it’s OK you just don’t assume that her mother is so selfish.
If anyone gets a redo wedding, it should beOP.
You never should’ve let your mother help you plan the wedding. You should’ve got a wedding planner
Nta op mom is a massive A ... even nasa can see that from mars
My confusion here was OP's grandmother was a retired professional planner, and didn't offer to help? Not even offer to help with her business contacts if they were still around? Really? That sounds odd to me. We aren't talking about the daughter of a friend or a distant relative, this is her own granddaughter.
Also, my advice is if someone shows up in a white wedding dress to a wedding, do everything you can to keep anyone from looking, pay no attention, make no reaction. It'll drive them crazy.
What's this? Come to someone's wedding in a white dress? Nothing a glass of dark wine can't fix.
My mother would have been escorted out before the wedding.
I would have kicked her out at the wedding. As soon as I saw the wedding dress she would have been gone.
these type of stories make me wish the tv seres i redo was still airing new episode. this poor o.p deserves a second wedding without that nightmare. which is what the show was about. people whose first weddings didnt go well from either insane mothers or something happened to the dresses etc ruined it. this o.p deserves to have her dream wedding from begining to end without that wicked mother having ruined the beginning and uglifying the reception decoration, fortunately security came in time before she could even end her sabotage with a proposal. to her play boy. im glad she's out of op's life but still i wish a show like I redo was still running, i think the host of the show would immediately help o.p and hubby give them a wedding that would not be taken by a disgusting mother from hell.
She'd probably invite her mom
See.. she's can't leave her teenager fades.. dear mother of O.P who's can't be adult and responsible like mother should..
Thanks god she's banned..
Just make this into a funny story: "Remember that one time my crazy mother wore white to our wedding?" Kinda makes you wish she was at least drunk or on drugs. It's scary to think she was sober.
Should have sued her and had a redo!!!
Wow I can't believe op mother who hates her daughter so much for her wedding and ruining everything I think Op is time to cut her off immediately that is the only way to cut off your contact with some toxic parents
Not only should OP go complete NC with her mother, she and her fiance should move to another state, put their wedding on hold, and have a courthouse ceremony, to make their marriage legal.
There’s nothing wrong with that age gap between OP mother, and her boyfriend they are allowed to get married just not at her daughters wedding.
Part of the story reminds me of the show Yes to the dress. A mother tried on a wedding dress at the fitting with her daughter. She had also test out some wedding dresses.
Nope ..my mother was a mess..I never asked her to help plan my wedding..I was perfectly capable of doing it on my own. My Dad told me not to get her involved because she would go overboard!! You walked right into her TRAP..Silly woman!!
Stupid story! Nobody would just turn over their wedding plans to a mother like that.
Apparently u had a great childhood and adult relationship with ur mommy dearest
@@amberleeannalee1999 obviously!
It's really sad that a mother feels the need to be in competition with their own child!
I hope she sues her mother for her part of the wedding sence she changed it to what she wanted...i sure would...maybe then she would see how messed up she is.. but first I would get the wedding book back so the daughter can show the court what she planned... that way they can see how her egg donor did change it to suit her self for her wannabe wedding
The gigantic Venus Flytrap is funny 😂😂
In for good measure, I will receive the mother for the cost of all the stuff that she bought the OP never wanted.
I thought a knee length maxi dress was so cute
I can't believe op mother did that no mother should do that and I'm glad op mother boyfriend break up with her i don't think op is to blame
I hope you are having a fantastic Memorial weekend Mr Reddito 😀 😊
I would have told security to never let her in.
I have a doormat award for OP🏆
Should have said ok mom let me write the prenups.
I don’t know why Hoppe didn’t just ask her grandma to do it because I’m positive that grandma would’ve come out of retirement to help. Listening to the story I thought maybe grandma had passed on, but then when grandma showed up again at the end, I realise that Hoppe was stupid in not asking grandma for help.
If OP’s grandmother was a wedding planner why didn’t she ask her
My mom never liked me. As I go through chemo, radiation and pain she would not say much. But as soon as my doc says congrats your in remission, mom couldn't wait to start back with belittle me, smack me around and tell me I'm the reason she can't get it right and that I'm the death of her. What type of person says that? All my life I walk on egg shells and continues to insult me till this very day, everytime I relapse she keeps quiet but never loves me. My brother told me he was leaving and never coming back, he also said you ñeed to leave right away, there's something wrong with mom!!" My brother did leave and never returned. I hated that I'm so naive so scared of mom and too forgiving. I feel like this is why I keep getting sick.
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OP needs to sue the mother because it is obvious that she didn’t do anything she wanted and did it out of spite to ruin her daughters wedding because of her mom’s jealousy of OP.
Where IS SECURITY?!?
Op, I can understand that she's your mother, but for a woman as bright as you, I can't believe that you were caught unawares of what your mom was planning. This way you will end up paying for it secondly, she loves you the only way she knows how, but it's a selfish love. Your fiancee spoke truth, she's jealous of you, and she sees this as her last chance at marriage. You give in but not gracefully. My ? Is this are you gonna be able to handle it, because you're gonna have to go no contact.
Wouldn't the op and the psycho mom's boyfriend been around the same age? Ew.
You were given so many red flags and you didn't do anything? And don't use the excuse you didn't know, so many red flags like so many of them. Probably more than you put in the story
You Go Girl 👍👍👍👍
I have seen in RL and on Reddit that that age group of woman who have female children are so jealous and hateful towards them its ridiculous. My own Mother is jealous that I am with my husband and that I have moved away and living my life. And now catering to her.
Op did right thing. Her mother only have one what ever get our her mother. There was no love there. And bet he had a new sugar mom already waiting in wings.
Hell Yes!!!!!
Did she not realize it was the bridesmaids job to help her plan the wedding she literally brought all of this on herself 🤦🏽♀️her man warned her
I hope u sue ur mom for ur wedding being ruined & her bf.... ASAP
What a narcissist! Mom will never understand that she's not the center of the universe.
If i would have a wedding i would hire a few people as "(off-)white bouncers"
Nope, I would have thrown her out the minute she showed up in that wedding dress. I would have made sure that everybody saw her getting dragged out. No I believe her boyfriend was going to break up with her long before that he just needed an excuse.
When your mother dies, hold a vow renewal and reception that you organize and celebrate that ... Ding dong! The witch is dead!
A garden wedding sounds gorgeous and it’s not her moms wedding. It’s her daughters she needs to back off and keep her opinions to herself.
Your mother and Mark are perfect for each other. Yikes!
I shopped for my wedding dress all by myself so my equally pushy mother wouldn’t push her opinions on me.
Can you believe that was 38years ago 😂😮😅😊
She still mentions it lol
I highly doubt the boytoy called OP selfish.
That’s funny. Maybe she has had her first lesson and listen to your man. She got exactly what she deserves for putting trust in a mother that has never cared for her
Your mother should have been given the wrong date. What an awful parent.
Mom needs serious therapy lol.
Why the heck dosent she talk to her grandmother unless gram has dementia. Because her mom is definitely toast.
Stuff like this is why kids un-alive their parents
OP is not, in the slightest, responsible for her mother's break-up.
If anything, the mother showed her boytoy how selfish SHE was. If he said anything about "such a selfish child," he was referring to the MOTHER. As in, "I could never marry such a selfish child," not "I could never marry anyone with such a selfish child."
I hope the OP doesn't have to deal with her "mother" every again.
It IS sad that she had to give up her dream of being a professional actress. However, if acting is her dream, she could have lived that dream, while maintaining a stable income, by getting into community theater, instead. It's a LOT less stressful, and a LOT MORE FUN.
She just didn't have enough creativity to "think outside the box," but was just pouring all her thwarted creativity into thinking of new ways to hurt her own child.
I will never understand why people who know that someone has been toxic and horrible their whole life think that they're gonna be any different when they Invite them to something that is important to them and then they act shocked when that Toxic person does what they do best !? Mother sounds like a horrible person o p did not ruin her life her mother Is the one who got pregnant. As a mom myself I want my girls to do better than me in life and i'm extremely proud. I don't dwell on the things that I could have done because I decided to have children. Should have listened to your fiance And what you've known about your mother your whole life
Op should have known her mother would ruin the wedding. So stupid and it was extremely obvious
Why would she be wearing a White dress???
Well she sure didn't protest when she let her mom pick things out for the wedding. So she shouldn't complain at all. It's OPs fault. Glad she finally had enough of her horrible mother and cut ties
Must be nice to have a normal childhood or strong boundaries. Op doesn’t and didn’t until now
This lady is a covert narcissist, and I say that with certainty. Everything she does is just to hide who she really is. I'm glad OP as able to let her go and find peace. Most importantly, keep that door shut and don't ever let that horrible woman back in!
OP's mother should do grateful that OP wants help and be on OP's important day of OP's life.
"Go ahead and get married to the jerk, but I am cut ties with you"
OP's mother wearing a white dress on OP's special day is rude and disgraceful.
Dude I always feel bad when the original poster's in the beginning of these stories always have to explain oh don't look at me as heartless or this and that and it's a dude I don't understand how you can anybody heartless for having to cut out a terrible tumor in life that you call a parent family member toxic friend or all of the above you do when you had to do we all get it but at the same time I don't blame these people after they've been under the thumb of terrible people that make them think that up they do one thing to keep these people out of their life all of a sudden they're the monster
Dude all I can say by the end of this whole entire story thank God the original poster grew some balls to throw her mom out of the wedding and continue her night as a new married woman to the man who loves and cares about her but I'm not going to lie I feel like her soon-to-be husband still should have stepped in and cut off any type of efficient funds or money to certain things that didn't make any sense on his bank statement I'm just saying
Sorry people it is OP fault…she knew how mom was, but she gave mom card blanche. If she was overwhelmed get grandma aunt anyone to help her
Always keep a bucket of Kool-ade on hand if you have any pushy relatives that are trying to take over your wedding.
Buh Bye Mommy Dearest 👋👋👋
I'd have grabbed something liquid, walked down that isle, walked up to MOMMY DEAREST and dump said liquid over her head, tell her is was going to sue her ass for destroying MY wedding and to GTFO.
I'd have also have asked the bridesmaids to please destroy all the decor at the reception.
I'd have also announced to EVERYONE at the venue that my mom is a BIG, FAT, LIAR!
Sorry
I WOULD HAVE 😠😠😠😠😠😠🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬👊
:( Two Self Absorbed , Modern Feminist :( Nothing to see hear !
She is no victim and neither is her Mother ! They both are the Same, just different approach !
OP and husband should have announced at the reception that OPs mother had lied to her, stolen her money to hijack the wedding to make it her own. That they are leaving and will be suing her mother and new step father for all costs, damages and distress. Then tell the mother that if she makes any fuss, or any attempt to contact through anyone else other than the lawyers, the Police will be called.
I'm sorry it's all your fault, I'm sure you know how she is after all these years and you didn't even check before hand on the event? It doesn't make since
Why didn't you kick her out as soon as she showed up in a white dress, I don't understand! I would have had one of the ushers, family member, anyone tell her to leave before the wedding even started. Mother or no mother somebody like that has to have been like that your whole life. Like the old saying says fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!!
To be honest you let this happen so I can't really feel bad about this since you were given so many red flags even your husband knew that this was bad and you still went wrong with it
All I had to do I read the title and smdh at what an IDIOT OP is. ELOPING became a thing for a reason! I don't feel sorry for OP, she got exactly what SHE deserved for NOT having a shiny spine.
Have some empathy not everyone can be strong like you, seriously reevaluate how you see things sometimes, did you actually read the whole story or listen to it?
@@tracygardner6318 It's her and her SO's wedding day. NOONE ELSES. Grow a shiny titanium spine or get walked all over. it's honestly that simple
This idiot did it to herself knowing how her mother is. Ethen even warned her and she wanted to act like he was being negative 🤷🏻♂️ this entire situation is entirely her fault for not being adult enough to cut her mouth from the entire event, let alone planning it.