Pastor darby married me and my husband 11 years ago its because of teachings like this is why we are still together and the grace Of God .. miss him so much
I thank God for this ministry. I remember watching this video when I was a single woman, and today I am watching as a happily married woman. God is good! This wisdom is so needed in the church.
Man I know she misses him! God please bless Mrs. Darby and keep her strong. Give her another husband as beautiful as Pastor Darby was. Make him strong in the Lord and give their children comfort and a peace that surpasses all understanding in their everyday lives! Amen.
This is an amazing teaching Pastor Darby I am a single woman and I am only 24 years old, my parent's unfortunately had me and my sisters before marriage before they got saved. But they trained me and my sisters not to make the same mistakes as them. Its hard in this day and age to keep your virtue but it's only by the grace of God.
I wish my husband would try to make our marriage work, instead of just walking away. Soul ties are real and i hope he gets freed so our marriage can be restored. Jesus can make changes not me. Thank you for this message
This was so good. My girlfriend and I are taking steps to marriage and a healthy marriage. Your helping people even from heaven. Thank you Pastor Darby. God bless you and your family always!🙏
Amen! The video titled Marriage 102 kept popping up on my recommendations, but I knew I had to come back and watch this one first. When I first watched these videos about two years ago, I was still living in sin using my body for pleasure. However, now that I am saved, God has been showing me how to conduct myself as a Holy young woman. I want to get married and learn how to let the Lord use me as a Godly woman. I believe that God has a brother out there for me and that he is preparing him to meet me one day! Thanks Pastor Darby for all the gems you have dropped with each message I hear. ❤️💯
As a single woman of God....I REALLY do appreciate the free marriage counseling from Pastor Darby and Mrs.Darby....I need the wisdom....it's so hard being patient and waiting on my future husband to come....but God give me strength!
I say God himself send me the teaching of Pastor Darby when I “stumbled” on him about a week ago as I was wondering what to do when the woman I promised to marry is pressuring me to move in with her even if we both agreed not to touch each other sexually until we are married; she says that will be a way to know each other... I know that living together will surely lead us to fornication and I do not want to displease God or open demonic portals into my life and children’s life! The teaching of Pastor Darby helped me, emboldened me to say no to my fiancée! If she refuses to be my wife because of That the be it, meaning She was not meant to be my wife. God bless you all in Jesus Name amen and amen 🙏🏾
Re watching this!! So much wisdom from Pastor Darby. I just got engaged last month. We not waiting either. We plan to marry in less than than 5months. I live in midwest relocating to where my Husbae is in east coast. Destined Ministries taught me well. All praises to The Most High!! 💍❤❤❤❤
I was listening to “Mystery of Sex” n I kid u not, the breeze blew the curtain across my phone n turned on this sermon. I’m taking that as a sign that God wants me to listen
Great teaching by pastor Darby my spiritual father been married for 13 years been following him since 2018 I wish you would have married us but we're doing great and we love Pastor and sister Darby teaching great message.
This message will live on for a great while dear ach, because this is a very misunderstood topic. Also, because you spoke to the people of the Most High, in a way that they could comprehend, and digest. I was edified by the message, and pray that our Father will allow me to meet brother Darby, in the kingdom to come. Shalom.
"LORD, let me get done!" Pastor, this word is just getting good. You can't go yet!!! Lol... Although, he has transitioned, this powerful Word remains strong and on point!
What an awesome teaching! I have been married for 23 years this year and am a witness to what you are saying in this message. Good and bad. I wish I had this message early on because even in the church I came from I was taught to Jezebel my husband not to truly submit. I thank God for you and your lovely wife. I pray God's continued favor and Grace over your family and ministry.
POWERFUL TEACHINGS ON biblical marriage. Belated Apostle Stephen Darby had that heavy mantle of Eli to deliver folks . Thank you elect Lady Darby for continuing these videos. God bless you and family in abundance with over flow . Minister Pamela Fletcher 🥰📖🙏🕊️
9:01; 50:19; 58:00; 1:02:31; Nice to see Pastor Darby included his wife in this marriage seminar. This is not the norm. Why does a man/pastors wear a ring on his right hand? This is solid teaching.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE Pastor Stephen Darby's teachings. I've listened to several of his messages. This man of God was so on point... a bold believer that stood on the word of God. The harvest truly is plenteous, but the [true] laborers are few. I'm saddened that he is no longer here with us to bring such transparency and truth. PeaceToTheLIFEofLove 🌻
My husband and I watched "Marriage 101" together. We both appreciated the teaching. Neither my husband or I receive from many pastors because unfortunately "church as usual" is dead. When you find a Pastor after God's heart it's a treasure. PeaceToTheLIFEofLove 🌻
Thank you Lord for letting me come across one of your prophets - I feel so blessed to FINALLY have found a pastor that speaks truth! An actual pastor that CARES for his ppl 🫶🏽 thank you; thank you; thank you! I’m praying that the Lord blesses my lil community (situated way up Northern in Ontario Canada, where 95% of the population is French) with a man of God like Pastor Darby 🙏🏽 there’s NOTHING that even comes close to this 😢 and it breaks my heart… so I’m asking to anyone seeing this comment, if you could please pray for this, it would be greatly appreciated ❤ praise the Lord! 🙌🏽Amen 🙏🏽
I love this collaboration with Pastor Darby and First Lady. You guys are such a blessing and I admire you for your transparency and honesty. It's so awesome that you guys are able to speak about your failures, but the fact that you are able to offer wisdom and hope to those who want to bring a bad situation and place it back under Gods will is amazing. May God continue to bless this ministry.
Steve is amazing. His message lives on. My wife has bashed me to everyone under the sun. Well the almighty has shown her. I told her not to and she suffered for it. She came to me and told me she was suffering. I said rebuke any offering from whom you spoke and live within our marriage. She is changing alright! For the better. Men must hold their women to them and the most high. Amen.
Wow!Man and Woman of God, you know I enjoy listening to your wisdom.This message is rich with nuggets and laughter. God, continue to bless you all's Union of Marriage. Keep being an awesome example for us and many other couples wanting to please God.
i love this! shared with all my children. i have brought them up in the word on marriage but shared anyway. always good to be reminded. enjoyed the "wash and put some smell good on" that was a good chuckle. love your videos Pastor Derby! Spitit is on fire every time I listen to your teachings. cause you teach truth! absolute! not what tickles the flesh but stirs the spirit. so grateful for you. i have been married 24 years. its been the grace of God, I cant take the credit lol. so enjoyed this one with your wife next to you teaching! she is a lovely Godly woman. always appreciate her. God bless you both. if i dont meet you here, we will see each other on eternity with our Lord and savior. keep posting these messages brother
All the glory belongs to you oh God! I needed this teaching! It is truly a blessing to see a marriage as blessed as this. God bless you Pastor and First Lady Darby. I didn't get it (marriage) right the first time, but thank God I am learning now in this marriage. We even did marriage counseling prior to our wedding and we discussed some of the very things you and both discussed. God has blessed you and my prayer is to keep you covered under the shadow of the Almighty hand of God. Pastor Darby I tried my best to even think of a fruitful marriage and could barley come up with 1. Hope to see you back in Texas soon. Be blessed.
Thanks for another great teaching Pastor! This message is definitely going to help my wife and I. There is so much we just don't know. Thank God for you. Blessings to you, your wife, and your ministry.
The part where they said the woman passed up a good man because of her career. Listen ladies, don’t be that woman. First Lady had a great point about the fantasy man. It’s nothing better out there. Stick with the good, hard working humble me . 💜
I enjoy all of your teachings. This message is great especially for a single born again believer like myself who's looking to get married. I will also check out the marriage 102 video. 👍🙌
I love this. I really like it when you address the PMS issues. You always keep it real. This is very informative. I also love how you and your wife work together. Thank you so much 4 this video.
This was food for my soirit this morning Hallelujah All Praise To The Most High Yah. Thank you to this man of Yah for speaking real wisdom and truth. I want to be a true son of The Most High. I dont want to use my body for sin no more. I want to work hard and get right so I can be used by TMH. I have a young woman that i been loved since a young boy however i have failed in certains aspects of my journey I do want to marry her soon so i pray I get on my purpose to be worthy of such favor
Today they put relationship problems on facebook, then next day they make up and everyone know your business. Work it out with each other. Take time to reflect then talk it out
Thanks cousin for sending me this. It definitely was worth it. This message was true real knowledge. Tomorrow i will be viewing marriage 102 . Wisdom to last a life time!!!
AMAZING WORD MAN & WOMAN OF GOD! This is so powerful to us who grew up with single parents and wasn't fortunate enough to see a marriage demonstrated before us! How Can I follow Y'all on Facebook?
I love theM. Beautiful marriage is exactly what I want. Ur truly missed brother but ur wife is doing a Great Job and I know u looking down on her smiling !!!! #JesusChrist
Amen Pastor Darby and first lady Missy yall speaking the Truth. I love the way you divide the Truth when seeking marriage counseling. The Lord has a blessing on Destined Ministry. 🙌🏾
he is teaching the truth a lot of black women are in debt because they were not taught how not to spend money and to save their money. A lot of do not know how to say no and buy and do things for people that will put them in debt. So much has to be unlearn from not being taught correctly.
Pastor darby married me and my husband 11 years ago its because of teachings like this is why we are still together and the grace Of God .. miss him so much
I thank God for this ministry. I remember watching this video when I was a single woman, and today I am watching as a happily married woman. God is good! This wisdom is so needed in the church.
More women need to listen to Stephen Darby instead of Steve Harvey for great advice on marriage.
Man I know she misses him! God please bless Mrs. Darby and keep her strong.
Give her another husband as beautiful as Pastor Darby was. Make him strong in the Lord
and give their children comfort and a peace that surpasses all understanding in their everyday lives!
Amen.
All daughters need a dad to speak this truth to them. This man’s wisdom is fathering so many of us who’s dad was not in their lives...
This is an amazing teaching Pastor Darby I am a single woman and I am only 24 years old, my parent's unfortunately had me and my sisters before marriage before they got saved. But they trained me and my sisters not to make the same mistakes as them. Its hard in this day and age to keep your virtue but it's only by the grace of God.
amen Gloria!!!
I wish my husband would try to make our marriage work, instead of just walking away. Soul ties are real and i hope he gets freed so our marriage can be restored. Jesus can make changes not me. Thank you for this message
This was so good. My girlfriend and I are taking steps to marriage and a healthy marriage. Your helping people even from heaven. Thank you Pastor Darby. God bless you and your family always!🙏
I admire how she reverence her husband. It is beautiful. ❤
Ohhhhhh I wish I would have heard this message at least 15 years ago. Im in awe of the things I let into my life. This is true wisdom here.
Amen! The video titled Marriage 102 kept popping up on my recommendations, but I knew I had to come back and watch this one first. When I first watched these videos about two years ago, I was still living in sin using my body for pleasure. However, now that I am saved, God has been showing me how to conduct myself as a Holy young woman. I want to get married and learn how to let the Lord use me as a Godly woman. I believe that God has a brother out there for me and that he is preparing him to meet me one day! Thanks Pastor Darby for all the gems you have dropped with each message I hear. ❤️💯
As a single woman of God....I REALLY do appreciate the free marriage counseling from Pastor Darby and Mrs.Darby....I need the wisdom....it's so hard being patient and waiting on my future husband to come....but God give me strength!
I say God himself send me the teaching of Pastor Darby when I “stumbled” on him about a week ago as I was wondering what to do when the woman I promised to marry is pressuring me to move in with her even if we both agreed not to touch each other sexually until we are married; she says that will be a way to know each other... I know that living together will surely lead us to fornication and I do not want to displease God or open demonic portals into my life and children’s life! The teaching of Pastor Darby helped me, emboldened me to say no to my fiancée! If she refuses to be my wife because of That the be it, meaning She was not meant to be my wife.
God bless you all in Jesus Name amen and amen 🙏🏾
This helped me alot. My marriage was in trouble but this encouraged me to fight.
Pastor Steve and the First Lady are such a lovely couple
Re watching this!! So much wisdom from Pastor Darby. I just got engaged last month. We not waiting either. We plan to marry in less than than 5months. I live in midwest relocating to where my Husbae is in east coast. Destined Ministries taught me well. All praises to The Most High!! 💍❤❤❤❤
Im 23 and Iwatch mostly all your videos. You're a great teacher.
I could listen to him all day. I appreciate this beautiful couple and their transparency. I know she misses him.
This is great teachings. I wish you would teach on when in-laws try to run your marriage.
Thank God for this man. I'm a Real Jew as well and respect you telling our people their true identity in the Bible
Sheesh!! I’ve only been watching for 44mins and the knowledge I’ve gained is priceless!! Thank you Pastor and First Lady! God Bess❤️❤️
listening to this message convictes me in so many areas in my life!!
Thank GOD for Pastor & Mrs. Darby.👏💪💯
amazing, amazing message. This could save people from having to go to seminars right here!
I never sold drugs pastor but I heard that drug dealers make the best businessman. so if they change there ways... they also make great leaders.
Prayer is indeed the glue!
Drug dealer turned preacher...that explains EVERYTHING, they don't believe in God like him. God changes
I was listening to “Mystery of Sex” n I kid u not, the breeze blew the curtain across my phone n turned on this sermon. I’m taking that as a sign that God wants me to listen
Great teaching by pastor Darby my spiritual father been married for 13 years been following him since 2018 I wish you would have married us but we're doing great and we love Pastor and sister Darby teaching great message.
This message will live on for a great while dear ach, because this is a very misunderstood topic. Also, because you spoke to the people of the Most High, in a way that they could comprehend, and digest. I was edified by the message, and pray that our Father will allow me to meet brother Darby, in the kingdom to come. Shalom.
"LORD, let me get done!" Pastor, this word is just getting good. You can't go yet!!! Lol... Although, he has transitioned, this powerful Word remains strong and on point!
Not yet married but felt the tug to watch this. Waiting on The Most High for a Godly husband.
What an awesome teaching! I have been married for 23 years this year and am a witness to what you are saying in this message. Good and bad. I wish I had this message early on because even in the church I came from I was taught to Jezebel my husband not to truly submit. I thank God for you and your lovely wife. I pray God's continued favor and Grace over your family and ministry.
POWERFUL TEACHINGS ON biblical marriage. Belated Apostle Stephen Darby had that heavy mantle of Eli to deliver folks . Thank you elect Lady Darby for continuing these videos. God bless you and family in abundance with over flow . Minister Pamela Fletcher 🥰📖🙏🕊️
The mistakes I’ve made Lord I’m glad I watched this. Thank God I dodged a bullet 🤦🏾♀️
God bless the Darby Family 💕
messages like this makes me miss marriage ministry ... so much info that will be of help to all married couples .
9:01; 50:19; 58:00; 1:02:31; Nice to see Pastor Darby included his wife in this marriage seminar. This is not the norm. Why does a man/pastors wear a ring on his right hand? This is solid teaching.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE Pastor Stephen Darby's teachings. I've listened to several of his messages. This man of God was so on point... a bold believer that stood on the word of God. The harvest truly is plenteous, but the [true] laborers are few. I'm saddened that he is no longer here with us to bring such transparency and truth. PeaceToTheLIFEofLove 🌻
My husband and I watched "Marriage 101" together. We both appreciated the teaching. Neither my husband or I receive from many pastors because unfortunately "church as usual" is dead. When you find a Pastor after God's heart it's a treasure. PeaceToTheLIFEofLove 🌻
God bless the Stephen Darby family for this yet another wonderful and timely message .
This message has truly spoken so many volumes😌🙌🏾
Thank you Lord for letting me come across one of your prophets - I feel so blessed to FINALLY have found a pastor that speaks truth! An actual pastor that CARES for his ppl 🫶🏽 thank you; thank you; thank you! I’m praying that the Lord blesses my lil community (situated way up Northern in Ontario Canada, where 95% of the population is French) with a man of God like Pastor Darby 🙏🏽 there’s NOTHING that even comes close to this 😢 and it breaks my heart… so I’m asking to anyone seeing this comment, if you could please pray for this, it would be greatly appreciated ❤ praise the Lord! 🙌🏽Amen 🙏🏽
I love this collaboration with Pastor Darby and First Lady. You guys are such a blessing and I admire you for your transparency and honesty. It's so awesome that you guys are able to speak about your failures, but the fact that you are able to offer wisdom and hope to those who want to bring a bad situation and place it back under Gods will is amazing. May God continue to bless this ministry.
Steve is amazing. His message lives on. My wife has bashed me to everyone under the sun. Well the almighty has shown her. I told her not to and she suffered for it. She came to me and told me she was suffering. I said rebuke any offering from whom you spoke and live within our marriage. She is changing alright! For the better. Men must hold their women to them and the most high. Amen.
Nice teaching on marriage pastor Steve. Love it!☝🏾️
I thank God for my Husband and this message!🙏😇
Dropping jewels. I wish I knew this 14rs ago. Lord God please help.with restoring my marriage.
Wow!Man and Woman of God, you know I enjoy listening to your wisdom.This message is rich with nuggets and laughter. God, continue to bless you all's Union of Marriage. Keep being an awesome example for us and many other couples wanting to please God.
17.08.2024 believing in You Lord for a heaven sent marriage. Thank You for teaching me and moulding me in this season.
Great word Pastor & Mrs Darby ❤
Definitely gonna sow a seed into this ministry. This is pure wisdom!!!
This such a great sermon
Excellent advice I shared on facebook.Women and men need to hear this.
Wow. I like the fact that you call it as it. no suger quoting. You are a blessing
This is chocked full of wisdom. I’m watching and listening to this again. Learning and taking notes. Thank you again Darby Family. 🙏🏽
Fantastic info as usual. It's imperative to listen to such messages from time to time, irrespective of how long you've been married.
i love this! shared with all my children. i have brought them up in the word on marriage but shared anyway. always good to be reminded.
enjoyed the "wash and put some smell good on" that was a good chuckle.
love your videos Pastor Derby! Spitit is on fire every time I listen to your teachings. cause you teach truth! absolute! not what tickles the flesh but stirs the spirit. so grateful for you. i have been married 24 years. its been the grace of God, I cant take the credit lol. so enjoyed this one with your wife next to you teaching! she is a lovely Godly woman. always appreciate her. God bless you both. if i dont meet you here, we will see each other on eternity with our Lord and savior. keep posting these messages brother
All the glory belongs to you oh God! I needed this teaching! It is truly a blessing to see a marriage as blessed as this. God bless you Pastor and First Lady Darby. I didn't get it (marriage) right the first time, but thank God I am learning now in this marriage. We even did marriage counseling prior to our wedding and we discussed some of the very things you and both discussed. God has blessed you and my prayer is to keep you covered under the shadow of the Almighty hand of God. Pastor Darby I tried my best to even think of a fruitful marriage and could barley come up with 1. Hope to see you back in Texas soon. Be blessed.
Thanks for another great teaching Pastor! This message is definitely going to help my wife and I. There is so much we just don't know. Thank God for you. Blessings to you, your wife, and your ministry.
The part where they said the woman passed up a good man because of her career. Listen ladies, don’t be that woman. First Lady had a great point about the fantasy man. It’s nothing better out there. Stick with the good, hard working humble me . 💜
I love how Mrs Darby wears skirt ☺️ so classy
MY SOUL WAS BLESSED BY THIS VIDEO ❤❤❤
I enjoy all of your teachings. This message is great especially for a single born again believer like myself who's looking to get married. I will also check out the marriage 102 video. 👍🙌
I love this. I really like it when you address the PMS issues. You always keep it real. This is very informative. I also love how you and your wife work together. Thank you so much 4 this video.
Man i wish i could of met u pastor darby
Excellent Message and great platform. My wife and I watched it together laughing and learning along the way hope to see you in Maryland!
This was food for my soirit this morning Hallelujah All Praise To The Most High Yah. Thank you to this man of Yah for speaking real wisdom and truth. I want to be a true son of The Most High. I dont want to use my body for sin no more. I want to work hard and get right so I can be used by TMH. I have a young woman that i been loved since a young boy however i have failed in certains aspects of my journey I do want to marry her soon so i pray I get on my purpose to be worthy of such favor
Beautiful marriage pastor Stephen Darby and his wife First Lady Darby..❤❤❤❤
PASTOR missy Darby you had a true jewel
Today they put relationship problems on facebook, then next day they make up and everyone know your business. Work it out with each other. Take time to reflect then talk it out
Thanks cousin for sending me this. It definitely was worth it.
This message was true real knowledge.
Tomorrow i will be viewing marriage 102 . Wisdom to last a life time!!!
Mighty man of God.you will be missed pastor darb.😞😒😔
May the good lord bless your wife and kids love y’all 😘😘
I meant pastor Stephen darby
Yes!!!!! I'm knew there would be singleness gems 💎 in this message. P O W E R F U L ! ! ! !
wow a durag on lool , this guys a legend
This is such great teaching 👏
You got a du rag on🤣🤣.. aww man I miss Pastor Darby.. bless destined ministries!!
We've always wanted and needed our men. Some men are what I call... " unliveable". We HAVE ALWAYS WANTED OUR MEN.
man was this on point!!!!!
I have been blessed today!
Wonderful message!
Excellent Teaching.
AMAZING WORD MAN & WOMAN OF GOD! This is so powerful to us who grew up with single parents and wasn't fortunate enough to see a marriage demonstrated before us! How Can I follow Y'all on Facebook?
I would watch this video every other day, 2 years ago and its still a gem today.
Pastor Darby has ALWAYS went for the juggler😂 I don't know if we will EVER see a more knowledgeable, prophetic straight forward preacher EVER
I love how the little fella in the back cheered as Pastor said they were speaking on marriage 101 lol
I love theM. Beautiful marriage is exactly what I want. Ur truly missed brother but ur wife is doing a Great Job and I know u looking down on her smiling !!!! #JesusChrist
Amen Pastor Darby and first lady Missy yall speaking the Truth. I love the way you divide the Truth when seeking marriage counseling. The Lord has a blessing on Destined Ministry. 🙌🏾
Excellent words of wisdom about marriage
I appreciate this teaching so much!!! Waiting to be chosen 😇
Excellent word!!!
Gems💎 for my future with husband to be.
GOD is great. Praise His holy name.
Hallelujah.
Amen.
I truly appreciate this teaching, I will share with many. Thank you.❤️
excellent session..
this is a Godly marriage
If he's getting the access then what is the reward!! I wish I was taught like this when I younger. Don't give up the prize😊💯
In my recommended video feed: February.14, 2020. Thank you God.
he is teaching the truth a lot of black women are in debt because they were not taught how not to spend money and to save their money. A lot of do not know how to say no and buy and do things for people that will put them in debt. So much has to be unlearn from not being taught correctly.
i learn something every message
I love this!! Beautiful message! Thank you
May God richly bless y'all in Jesus name
"_Missy, You Look Beautiful_& I Believe in You! You have So Much Wisdom _& Knowledge! We Love You! Thank You! #Prayers🙏🏾!"
I will be watching this with my honey Great nuggets.