Hey Steve: I Was Ghosted. How Do I Win Her Back?

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  • @sid2daknee
    @sid2daknee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2375

    Man, I wish I had a mentor talk to me like this when I was his age. Just goes to show it's important to have a male influence in these young men's lives.

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      So true. Steve is being a good father to these young men, when it is so needed.

    • @kyosotacomics
      @kyosotacomics 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      #facts same here.

    • @saminsiddiquee2059
      @saminsiddiquee2059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed

    • @MHWM2014
      @MHWM2014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sidney Ware that’s why I love his show. Most people see these questions as stupid or silly, but I see people they may not have anyone to give them real genuine direction! 🙌🏾🥰

    • @Waltjoh100
      @Waltjoh100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MHWM2014 most of his shows are geared towards women if all ages not young men.
      But he does ask some interesting things. Like should women offer to pay her half on a date (which is a nice gesture but I would say no I got it)

  • @ElsaaTolaa
    @ElsaaTolaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4121

    Steve is a problem and a solution at the same time! Love him😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bubbakushog187
      @bubbakushog187 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Gifti Oro just thinking that lol

    • @sachayyyrichardson3577
      @sachayyyrichardson3577 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gifti Oro tit

    • @beckya640
      @beckya640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      😂 You summed it up perfectly.

    • @gloriamudany5115
      @gloriamudany5115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg soo truuuue!!!!😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌😂😂

    • @JoyceAmadu
      @JoyceAmadu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣so true

  • @coolmoe3289
    @coolmoe3289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2391

    Be clear about your intentions
    from the get go...

    • @Adpayne16
      @Adpayne16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That's it right there

    • @hangukhiphop
      @hangukhiphop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      nah but see then you're too pushy smh

    • @ElectroGamerSub
      @ElectroGamerSub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hangukhiphop exactly

    • @anonymousperson8301
      @anonymousperson8301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      The man said he didn't intend on dating her at first. He just developed feelings over time.

    • @jaysonlaluna234
      @jaysonlaluna234 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I see

  • @flaviafernandez2153
    @flaviafernandez2153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2457

    Whoever said “come on, Steve!” like they’re in church 😂 love it.

  • @redlake2943
    @redlake2943 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1830

    If she ghosts you it's never a good sign, brother should move on

    • @shahinzareey3033
      @shahinzareey3033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      When a girl ghosts you, it doesn’t worth your time. That is lack of character and a 15 years old behave ... you should find urself a lady not a thot

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@shahinzareey3033 they're kids. She met someone else. Would you prefer she had met someone else and still entertain him! How is she a thot! What's wrong with you people!

    • @shahinzareey3033
      @shahinzareey3033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      April Chow-chee if you’re with someone or you have a connection with someone , you have to tell him/her what’s going on , not to ghost the situation . If you find someone new that catches your eyes and from no-where you ghost the person you had beside you just because you don’t know what to tell them or not interested anymore , a short message to end or suspend the situation is better rather than ghosting . So the other person knows not to stick there or think about a “maybe” . Put this in your situation and try to see this happen to you from a guy , AND then the perspective of you doing this .

    • @sparrowhawk5673
      @sparrowhawk5673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Girls do like hard to get.Those are the one that have a number of men surrounding. For some reason guys like hard to get. The Animal beast inside that like to earn its prize to feel it.
      Like Harvey says, girls like that don't go unnoticed. So she's waiting for you to act.

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@aprilchow-chee5281 if the roles were reversed it would be so bad

  • @deronkemyrtle
    @deronkemyrtle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Steve is the man!!!

    • @connie7192
      @connie7192 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dee B you knooooww

    • @snuckumsss750
      @snuckumsss750 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It was all so natural for Steve, men of his generation where actually gentlemen like, and sware with finesse

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  • @shane_c4158
    @shane_c4158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +894

    Steve out here Breaking up all kinds of Relationships😂😂😂

  • @sugarspiceunlimited
    @sugarspiceunlimited 6 ปีที่แล้ว +733

    He seems like such a sweetheart I hope he gets her back! Most of the time women ghost when they’re not interested but sometimes it’s this exact scenario Steve is talking about! If you make it seem like you’re not trying to be with her like that, we don’t like our time wasted.

    • @chrisper3148
      @chrisper3148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She will run over him the way he is now

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@chrisper3148 huh?

    • @chadikhr7258
      @chadikhr7258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Sarah AAA lmao we also don’t like our time wasted trying to catch 1 fish that ain’t even worth it

    • @rebecadavila8432
      @rebecadavila8432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sarah AAA exactlyyyyyy!!!!

    • @mopnem
      @mopnem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If yr ghosted, than the person isn’t interested. Simple as that. Now if you “get the juice” as Steve said all yr doing is showing u might be worth it because yr better than yr previous impressions but peep that nobody cares about ghosting unless their the ones getting ghosted

  • @thereisnopandemic
    @thereisnopandemic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +753

    Steve will put this kid from friendzone to restraining order

  • @FredMud
    @FredMud 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    The best thing about Steve is that his advice is unconventional. He doesn't seek to be perfect, he is just human. 😀

    • @lovingme0608
      @lovingme0608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fred Shoko I agree. Like, it’s not out of a book but could be in a book.
      #JUSTRAWANDUNFILTERED

    • @Harp_and_Guitar_Moving_Forward
      @Harp_and_Guitar_Moving_Forward 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unorthodox yet wholesome

  • @Anoldaccount988
    @Anoldaccount988 6 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    This young man is gorgeous and Steve is the man 😂😂😂🔥

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🙌🏾

    • @Peterisfull
      @Peterisfull 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HONORARY did you get the girl? Or what happened -im a korean watching from korea. Became a fan of you. You got instagram?

    • @angelpilot9081
      @angelpilot9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He friendzoned himself 😂😂

  • @leadiakanamwa892
    @leadiakanamwa892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    He’s so cute

    • @zinebfarid3133
      @zinebfarid3133 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Leia Diakanamwa YEAH he iss 😍

    • @ajwilliam7703
      @ajwilliam7703 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Those eyes !!!
      *Captain 69* Learn how to appreciate beauty :)

    • @SuperBerya
      @SuperBerya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, he's very cute!

    • @selormvital9982
      @selormvital9982 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You pretty too... would like to friend you up

    • @esungstella2093
      @esungstella2093 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leia Diakanamwa more than cute u mean to say😍😍

  • @40III
    @40III 5 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    If she “ghosts” you then you need to put that behind you and move on. She’s likely talking to 2 or 3 other dudes anyway. Tomorrow is not promised. No time to be waiting around for your turn. Try to find somebody else.

    • @red_litty3456
      @red_litty3456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      FACTS !!!

    • @terrybradford418
      @terrybradford418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I would just move on. Because the worst thing to get friendzoned in private is getting friendzoned in front of 30 million people!

    • @briana191
      @briana191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Or find "oneself"...and she probably has at least 4 or 5 guys kissing on her....

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol my man said no need to wait around on his turn. Ain't that the truth.

    • @JesseJgonzalez86
      @JesseJgonzalez86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hell yea! Exactly what zack said, keep it movin!!

  • @mehdikhadem2576
    @mehdikhadem2576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    this dude looks heartbroken. keep your head up bro

  • @demasmoha
    @demasmoha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Steve is just making up all these advices on the spot 😂😂😂

  • @elenarotestan5823
    @elenarotestan5823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Men: stop been passive, go for it and stop wanting to look like you want to be friends, just put it out there. Steve said it be clear. It just confuses women.

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Elena Rotestan Said by the gender that almost NEVER approaches men. Please.

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Repent and Believe And that fear is valid. If women just acted righteously and said yes or no from the jump, all of this nonsense would be avoided.

    • @morris9973
      @morris9973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AllPro777 preach!!!

    • @SoundScientist1
      @SoundScientist1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There's a "thin line" between being interested & being 'thirsty.'

    • @joaopaulob80
      @joaopaulob80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Daniel Reierson 👏👏👏 best comment !!! This just make part of a game that she wants to play with you... if u accept this ghosts, she will treat u like a teenager. U will enter in a game the u already lost !

  • @mariabarajas1952
    @mariabarajas1952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Steve is so good at advice! Love him. When I'm down I put him on n he makes me laugh all the time!!!!

    • @shrgh1876
      @shrgh1876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do the same.. takes my mind off my troubles

  • @ryanamari2233
    @ryanamari2233 6 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    like musical chairs... that spot is mine by any means necessary even if I have to knock someone out of the way

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ryan tabb Lol

    • @cutienerdgirl
      @cutienerdgirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big Facts!

    • @tercial
      @tercial 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like that analogy

    • @kremove
      @kremove 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep

  • @ketshiarobillard8951
    @ketshiarobillard8951 6 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    I want an update!

    • @chefmarco305
      @chefmarco305 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

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    • @trish8321
      @trish8321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@chefmarco305 How bored are you LMAO

    • @dkiperman
      @dkiperman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He's in the friend zone still.

    • @traplordso985
      @traplordso985 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chefmarco305 lmaoooo

    • @Sophia-xn4ys
      @Sophia-xn4ys 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here, will like to know if he got her back 😆🤣

  • @lisasylvester5513
    @lisasylvester5513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Steve that's real, my boy friend did that to me smooth, the stamp of approval from someone legit

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lisa Sylvester haha lol

  • @kerryfox7706
    @kerryfox7706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Steve is it !! I love him and everything he stands for 👑🥰

  • @mrsalviboy94
    @mrsalviboy94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You don't, you move on, find your purpose and you'll find someone better my friend, trust me it works!

  • @drakecarter1780
    @drakecarter1780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Props to Steve. For an older guy, he definitely understands the younger generations.

  • @Bubbleyumizchewi17
    @Bubbleyumizchewi17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    She probably thought you two wanted to be friends 🤷🏾‍♀️ and met someone

    • @curlss.3b289
      @curlss.3b289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Bubbleyumizchewi17 that's literally what Steve harvey said you idiot

    • @wildyoda2931
      @wildyoda2931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s exactly what he said..

    • @TheUrashime
      @TheUrashime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Or just aint interested

    • @Waltjoh100
      @Waltjoh100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mmm she knew what he wanted. She lost interest & she probably met another dude that's an alpha more of a badass edge to him.

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      doesn't mean she had to ghost him though?? because even friends reply to eachother messages??

  • @gloriamudany5115
    @gloriamudany5115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This guy is actually really cute... and seems like an amazing guy😇😊😊 he really does deserve a nice lady.💑 I haven't watched the video to the end yet, but I wish him the best of luck!🖒🤗🤗🙌

  • @ngo73221nc
    @ngo73221nc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steve the real Pimp. I love his humility. Life’s mentor.

  • @ninastar5285
    @ninastar5285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Good advice Steve...I actually knew a couple who got married by being a "friend" when she was seeing someone else...When the ex messed up ... Boom!

    • @halie8386
      @halie8386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too! True.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep lol

    • @christina2311
      @christina2311 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A guy I'm currently talking to, was a friend while I date two other guys, then swooped in. 😂

    • @joshuabangs88
      @joshuabangs88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too, now we're married

    • @christina2311
      @christina2311 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@seanparker2243 No, they didn't treat me correctly, and he did.

  • @Secondadmendment
    @Secondadmendment 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Steve Harvey the man the myth the legend

  • @Trender463
    @Trender463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Steve gonna get that man deeper in the friend zone 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @manabouttongue
      @manabouttongue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep. The only way to respond to ghosting is to block and move on. Block so you don't have to keep looking at your phone you KNOW no calls aint coming.

  • @Peachplease03
    @Peachplease03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love it when Steve be throwing his cards on the ground like it's a mike drop

  • @NBaBall3r26
    @NBaBall3r26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As a guy I will admit sometimes we wait too long to let a girl know how we will feel about her.

    • @Dancediva240
      @Dancediva240 ปีที่แล้ว

      how you WILL feel meaning? you meant to say how you DO feel right?

    • @NBaBall3r26
      @NBaBall3r26 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dancediva240 yea i meant to say how we feel

  • @nickknacks123
    @nickknacks123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve is the best yes!!!...His kids are very fortunate to have him as their dad

  • @saartiaipinge7347
    @saartiaipinge7347 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "Told Steve how I felt about you that's absolutely going to win the girl over. Great Great advice to the young boy.😍😍

  • @DrBella
    @DrBella 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The boy is so charming 😍🔥

  • @LoolJohn
    @LoolJohn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I literally fell on the floor laughing when Steve did the paper drop 🤣🤣

  • @nancygonzalez9177
    @nancygonzalez9177 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Steve! I got ghosted and this came up. It made me smile…thank you Steve!

  • @aaliyahkhai.9271
    @aaliyahkhai.9271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Who else thought he said “You got a camel Rubin?”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @itsallaboutfun2009
      @itsallaboutfun2009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Arielle Renae 😂 Me too

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @BITCHY1234
      @BITCHY1234 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arielle Renae hahahahaha

    • @tommygoldstonii739
      @tommygoldstonii739 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lol i thought i was trippin.....😂😂😂

    • @tinkalinks
      @tinkalinks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am in tears!! I was like say what now Steve?!😅😅

  • @shivangimodirak8125
    @shivangimodirak8125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    As a girl who believes in gender equality i feel bad for him because if there had been a girl in his place Steve would have straight away said that she should move on cause guy who ghosted her is shady & isnt worth her time & that she can do nuch better but since its a guy he talked him into believing that his gentlemanly behaviour is what came in his way of getting the girl to like him.

    • @missscarlett186
      @missscarlett186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's because men are usually the chasers. Situations dont turn out as well when the woman chases the man. "Dont let a man tell you more than once that he's not interested."

    • @charliewright3884
      @charliewright3884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats because men are expected to be "hunters" ...

    • @missscarlett186
      @missscarlett186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charliewright3884 yes and no. It's true than its been pressured for men to do majority of the hunting, but that's also because men really are hunters, and that makes women think they don't need to try to put in effort. Women need to put in effort, but in the end it's men that are hunters, it's in their nature.

    • @littleman787
      @littleman787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only comment here that makes sense. Thank you

    • @FoundSheep-AN
      @FoundSheep-AN ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok that’s cause men can and have to chase women
      Women can’t chase a man who ghost her
      A man instead can and have to chase a woman
      The fault is yours for believing in gender equality… the man is the hunter and initiator of the relationship
      It’s the woman that get pregnant… not the man…
      Have you ever seen an egg running and chasing sperm? It’s the opposite in nature…

  • @baybeetinax3
    @baybeetinax3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Steve is spot on. I’ll be honest I ghost the others when I want to commit to that one guy. But I wouldn’t tell this guy to try to win her back I would tell him to do him and work on himself and if she happens to come back cool but he shouldn’t hope for that and simply move on to others.

    • @elkc4355
      @elkc4355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's I'm my opinion the best move

    • @David-io9lp
      @David-io9lp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's a lady's advice. Steve is giving 'the player' advice.

    • @jameshusentoff2953
      @jameshusentoff2953 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s disrespectful to ghost. Only kids do it

    • @isaiah2810
      @isaiah2810 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have some accountability and stop ghosting. It’s narcissistic and evil.

  • @marcuss5089
    @marcuss5089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How did this world get so lucky to have Steve Harvey?

    • @ebonix33
      @ebonix33 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Steve is a clown

    • @marcuss5089
      @marcuss5089 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ebonix33 he really is😂😂

  • @UrbanAfricano93
    @UrbanAfricano93 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    He’s so cute 😍

    • @philswifeforever1156
      @philswifeforever1156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ashlee Anokwuru He’s pretty 🤗

    • @keithezell8217
      @keithezell8217 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You beautiful Ashlee

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Being cute is nothing when he is not confident or funny

    • @brockohurn3673
      @brockohurn3673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello dear

    • @brockohurn3673
      @brockohurn3673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I find it really odd writing to you because I don't usually chat with fans but I want to use this medium and thank you for the likes and comments on my page. I realized how much you like and follow my page. Thank you

  • @nessie1321
    @nessie1321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Steve...great advice. You taught this young man to be multidirectional in the pursuit of his goal(s). Taught him to be a winner by applying strategy and not dwelling on hurt feelings. Excellent 😜

  • @travelguide10124
    @travelguide10124 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    He is fine! Lawd have mercy

    • @dianedizayee2439
      @dianedizayee2439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bl 1821 Not fine but So Very Fine! He seems like a prize catch.

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dianedizayee2439 Not a cash prize lol Thank you 🙌🏾

    • @guuurlforreal4734
      @guuurlforreal4734 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      HONORARY I wouldn’t ghost you hii are you single???

  • @clairmcconchie7164
    @clairmcconchie7164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love Steve!! His advice is onpoint

  • @elcompapanic1720
    @elcompapanic1720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Rip to the other guy dating her lol

  • @test1test219
    @test1test219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This gave me the best laugh ever!!! Also, great advice. Be clear with intentions from get go.

  • @lisamonsibais3623
    @lisamonsibais3623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why did they cut his shows? He is so real. I loved him. 😪💗

  • @midshipsport
    @midshipsport 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve is the only mentor who not only advices but also encourages.

  • @Alice-rl7gd
    @Alice-rl7gd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    He is cuuuute

  • @aviancag8716
    @aviancag8716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We need more men like Steve in the world

    • @ew1130
      @ew1130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We have to appreciate people for being different,we can't all be the same,life would be boring.

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Steve is right about being upfront about intentions from the get go, but wrong about other things. After she ghosted him, he should have just said if you change your mind, then give me a call. After that, he should find another girl to date. Waiting around for someone that ghosted you is a waste of time. Also, too much texting ruins attraction for a woman. The phone is for setting dates only. Conversations should be face to face. With texting you lose out on a lot of information on. Also, the last bit of "advice" that Steve is offering will make him look desperate. "Hey, I hung out with Steve, please like me." 👎🏾

    • @ivannaydenov9684
      @ivannaydenov9684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts, bro!

    • @logicalblackman8228
      @logicalblackman8228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with everything except the part about “if you change your mind.“ since she ghosted him, he needs to move onto the next one.
      And forget taking photos with Steve Harvey. No disrespect to my man; but a girl who goes for that is superficial and shallow anyway.
      I also hear from a lot of women that texting is a turn off. I’m texting to set up the date or just get your address LOL

    • @leocardenas7969
      @leocardenas7969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Andre Baxter I know this is from 2 years ago but after reading your post it reminds me of Coach Corey Wayne 👍👌 I agree with your post

    • @zameenahosein2340
      @zameenahosein2340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!! If bragging that you know Steve Harvey gets you the date, that's a red flag in itself 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @wattswatts2109
      @wattswatts2109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zameenahosein2340 I agree!

  • @simonbanda5958
    @simonbanda5958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steve is a Legend💪❤💖💞💓💗

  • @titaliebennn1290
    @titaliebennn1290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    he mad cute tho.....yaaaaaassss

  • @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595
    @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww this is a lovely young man... Bless him :o)

  • @BENYJOSE1
    @BENYJOSE1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Nah Bro...
    Move on and don't make the same mistake again. Maybe it'll work out with the first girl, and maybe it won't... but don't wait on the chance like a chump.

    • @TommyTomTompkins
      @TommyTomTompkins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't be a weasel basically

    • @m.w.5411
      @m.w.5411 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true women love to be chased it shows them your dedication and effort to get what you want

    • @nomadichorseman
      @nomadichorseman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M. W. Chasing a woman is a sure fire way to get automatically rejected. The man should chase the first 2-3 dates. By that point, if he doesn’t text her constantly and plays his cards right, she will reach out and all the man has to do is set the date.
      Your “advice” clearly isn’t in the realm of reality and it shows you have little to no experience with women and what they emotionally respond to.

    • @nomadichorseman
      @nomadichorseman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rich Rancy my man, that’s exactly what you do

    • @redlake2943
      @redlake2943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Rich Rancy Someone gets it.

  • @matthewlh6368
    @matthewlh6368 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Hahaha what if she watches this before and later he’s like: “I know Steve 😏” LMAOO

    • @SuperBerya
      @SuperBerya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Matthewlh 😂😂😂lol! unless she knows that she EXACTLY is the one that they were talking about!!! Not any other friend of his!.

  • @adreneblake1251
    @adreneblake1251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this episode😂😂😂 & the guy is super handsome👌🏽

  • @peachesncreamy9653
    @peachesncreamy9653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes Steve. He got that juice now. He's a nice looking dude too.

  • @Astrologcomedy
    @Astrologcomedy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    One cannot “win” back a ghost 👻

  • @ronsanchez703
    @ronsanchez703 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve, that was excellent advice you gave that young man!! Steve, YOU ARE THE MAN! ALL THE BEST MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO FOR OTHER PEOPLE!

  • @anonymousperson8301
    @anonymousperson8301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If it was the other way around Steve would tell her to move on.

  • @JRob594
    @JRob594 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    He should just move on if she went ghost that clearly means she's uninterested

    • @skybosman7034
      @skybosman7034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      joseph robinson untrusted is too strong a word though but l think she made her choice and it wasnt him and if he plays all these tricks to get her and he gets her how would he know that she is with him for him not because of all these steve pics with him. He will be settling to be her sloppy seconds. The girl had a right to make her choice and she didnt and that doesnt make her a bad person or untrusted either

    • @abigailmorris3654
      @abigailmorris3654 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      joseph robinson..... no it doesn't. Sometimes we want yall to come find us put the chase on just a little don't become crazy about it.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      joseph robinson
      Not necessarily

    • @ChipsAddict
      @ChipsAddict 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Not necessarily. Some girls (like me) like a guy to be clear and precise about what he wants and if he says nothing then she moves on. If you can't be clear and state ur mission by dropping hints from Day 1 then, you snooze, you lose and usually when another guy comes around, ghosting is bound to happen. Most times when people get in new relationships, they usually ghost friends..

    • @dannac_8888
      @dannac_8888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sky Bosman
      Yes, it makes the girl a BAD PERSON. She was rude and has no class. Ghosting is for immature, mean people who have no social skills or were raised to respect other people's feelings.
      Find a nice girl
      HATE GHOSTERS

  • @sweetfayce18
    @sweetfayce18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I need a laugh, Steve's right there

  • @iAmEdwinHamilton
    @iAmEdwinHamilton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Move on dude! If she likes you, she would never ghost you...

    • @dance4life1208
      @dance4life1208 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What Is Ed Talking About same thing I said

    • @Shylanta
      @Shylanta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What Is Ed Talking About that’s true

    • @MrMosh707
      @MrMosh707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Most def. When a girl really likes you she is going to answer your texts no matter what. Ghosting will be the last thing on her mind

    • @ilovepdub
      @ilovepdub 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What Is Ed Talking About not necessarily. People can get ghosted, LOL that word is so funny but people can get ghosted just because that person is honestly very busy I mean who knows what this girl does. So I think he just need to make another move in this time make a big one. Now once he do that and let her know how he feels about her then she ghost him, so it's a wrap

    • @Mr.DeJean_3516
      @Mr.DeJean_3516 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I disagree my brother. It all depends what she got going on in her life. However, if she is interested then she will respond.

  • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
    @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    ...OR, he could totally embarrass himself and be scarred for life🤣🤣🤣

    • @TemptressMoon
      @TemptressMoon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ButterFlyy Gyrl life is about taking risks and stepping out on faith. People who lead extraordinary lives take risks, not play it safe. The girl will be flattered and look at him in a new light because he was brave and bold. She'll be impressed.

    • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
      @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Livingboldlynfierce it was a joke...neither one of us know how she’ll react. Not even Steve. But I hope it does...I’m no hater 🤷🏾‍♀️I don’t know any of these people chile

  • @Sundayschoolnetwork
    @Sundayschoolnetwork 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Steve is so funny and kind. We need the follow up!

  • @NarutoBaby94
    @NarutoBaby94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Honor seems like a sweet kid. Plus he must really care about her if he went on a public tv show for advice on his relationship with her.

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aw, what a beautiful sweet kid

  • @MissMadelineMM94
    @MissMadelineMM94 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My word! I'm really enjoying these clips Steve is sooooo funny

  • @synchronicity67
    @synchronicity67 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg cracked up wen Steve circled dat chair n said that ..😂👍👍👍👍

  • @joannasnedden
    @joannasnedden 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He’s so freaking cute

  • @justlimalimaa5135
    @justlimalimaa5135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww his such a cute young boy such a sweetheart

  • @AwuraSew
    @AwuraSew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would definitely consider a guy who would Confess his feelings for me to the whole world

  • @trillionairetv7666
    @trillionairetv7666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Steve! I've been watching your shows for a while now and sometimes I would take hours here watching videos you made 3, 4, 5, and 8 years ago. You have truly been an inspiration to me and really wish I could come on the show one of these days...

  • @Th3legend27
    @Th3legend27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    0:17 the two girls in the back😂😂

  • @annal3155
    @annal3155 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    He looks like young Nelly the rapper lol

    • @NikkiSalazar.
      @NikkiSalazar. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even a lil nicer looking and suave too. Right?

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ya'll funny, I appreciate it everyone says that.

    • @femchinnas4275
      @femchinnas4275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@honorary9751 yh u a handsome young man.

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@femchinnas4275 Thank you 🙌🏽

    • @nadinebarnett304
      @nadinebarnett304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@honorary9751 did it work out in your favour, young man?

  • @honorary9751
    @honorary9751 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy Tuesday, family!
    It's hard to believe that this was filmed 5 years ago. Time has surely flown by, and I've grown and matured so much! This clip has become a "CLASSIC" random people have messaged from all over the world after seeing me on the show. People living in Africa, the Philippines, Australia, Europe, etc. All wanting to know, did I get the girl!?
    Uncle Steve, what if I told you that you actually manifested the EXACT scenario of the very next woman that the universe introduced me to!
    Uncle Steve, we have to film a part two to this story because I have SO MUCH to tell you and update you on. 🙏🏾🌟🎥🎬
    #godsplan #love #soulmates #divineintervention #purpose #passion #honorary #actor #singer #dancer #performer #qflexfitness #oneinamillion #joyride #chances #achieving #future #billionaire

    • @theOne-in4re
      @theOne-in4re ปีที่แล้ว

      Give us an update on you and the girl !!!

  • @divinerockwell
    @divinerockwell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    His first problem was catching feelings. It's not love just lust, let it go.

  • @MomentumMasterRosh
    @MomentumMasterRosh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He should be glad he had this at his age, I had to research and learn on my own from videos, books, mistakes and hurt. Still was worth it tho 🚶🏾‍♂️

  • @jennajamerson2582
    @jennajamerson2582 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    why he throw them cards like that😭😂

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jenna j lol

    • @lovingmariahgordon4432
      @lovingmariahgordon4432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jenna j he is saying done deal...

    • @kylesavage4525
      @kylesavage4525 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's his version mic drop i guess

    • @MHWM2014
      @MHWM2014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He doesn’t carry a physical mic most times, so this is the next best thing😆

  • @TheReturnOfStephan1
    @TheReturnOfStephan1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If she ghosted you, run, you got off lucky/easy!
    "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."- Maya Angelou

  • @1sgr1999
    @1sgr1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Work on yourself fellas and watch these women just gravitate towards you 💯

  • @ilovepdub
    @ilovepdub 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Perfect advice

  • @HiddenWen
    @HiddenWen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That lady behind him to his right (our left) had some hilarious facial expressions.

  • @Mario_1611
    @Mario_1611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That other guy is probably a nice dude. Y'all up in here crucifying his relationship 😂

  • @kennettabradford6566
    @kennettabradford6566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This young guy is extremely Handsome

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ghosting is an immature way of avoiding someone instead of just telling you they're not interested.

  • @munyaradzikamuzonda7758
    @munyaradzikamuzonda7758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need a follow up after this

  • @EverestNo.99
    @EverestNo.99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The CLO strikes again 💯

  • @peachesncreamy9653
    @peachesncreamy9653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said Amen yes. He has manners.

  • @fable3625
    @fable3625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The lady behind him wants some of that. She thought he was super cute. 😂

  • @pilot2bme
    @pilot2bme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done Steve, did you see the pride in his face giving that advice 😊😉

  • @nikilyons8999
    @nikilyons8999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Real Alphas makes their intentions known like a predator... He was to slow lol😂😂

    • @nikilyons8999
      @nikilyons8999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @A A Women are not met to be alpha .

    • @MarokoJin
      @MarokoJin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He's a young, innocent child.
      Most dudes are like this before they learn the hard way... Same goes for girls.

    • @saaimshah3792
      @saaimshah3792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alphas get what they want and move on......That's good right 😂😂

    • @Mister_Soyuz_on_YT
      @Mister_Soyuz_on_YT 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was in the moment, unfortunately it was that friendzone. So, she was taking applicants and interviewing him for weaknesses or reactions. I would not be a type of friend for a female. I rather be the lover above everything.

    • @DorGiftofGod
      @DorGiftofGod 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like predator! You got it, then they stay consistent and pursue🤗

  • @minmatenx
    @minmatenx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this so much. What a man.

  • @surayachristina
    @surayachristina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i fell that “come on steve” on a spiritual level

  • @patientia75
    @patientia75 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am speechless. Uncle Steve you are the MAN!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @elji3990
      @elji3990 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cousin !!!

  • @jfyne03
    @jfyne03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    "I was ghosted: how do I win her back?" You don't...move on! Simple!

    • @MysteryScienceGaming
      @MysteryScienceGaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      exactly. Guy has to have respect and love for himself before he can date a real woman. People who ghost are scum so there is nothing to win back for him.

    • @jfyne03
      @jfyne03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MysteryScienceGaming Amen! Self love is the best love.

    • @m.w.5411
      @m.w.5411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not true if a nice woman ghosted you its probably for a reason. He messed up not her. She needed a clear straight forward answer he said lets be friends.. thats not how you hunt prey 💯 thats not how you get what you want. Women dont like to waste much time she will move on if ur unclear to her

    • @m.w.5411
      @m.w.5411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Repent and Believe no a women who knows what she wants wants you to be straight forward if she doesn't like that she probably doesnt know what she wants and isnt interested in a relationship to begin with

    • @nomadichorseman
      @nomadichorseman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally this. Have some self-respect and move on. If she comes back, great! If not, that’s fine too :-)

  • @jairobinson2127
    @jairobinson2127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve!!!!!
    Tell all the real ,honest men how to be …. And win the lady/woman they need for them
    Not heartbreaking jokers…real men
    You learned what Not to do and passed it on…
    I applaud you and appreciate it
    One who has been ghosted also 🙏✝️👩🏾🤦🏾😢

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Well, girl's dont really want to waste their time. There's a lot of men out there and you’re doing nothing to win her over. Do something!

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A True Love Official No, there are a lot boys out here! Real Men are scarce these days. I Thank God for Mr. Harvey "a real man" for the wisdom and kindness of his heart and how much he invests into us young men. I do more than enough, always going above and beyond. The Truth is a lot of the girls out here these days are only too quick to dismiss the gentleman and then run, deep into some s*** with some one who was just playing their part well enough to slide in and pull out.

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@honorary9751 Hey Honnor, how did it go?? 😃

    • @honorary9751
      @honorary9751 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@StrongnBeautiful She saw the show, we had a nice conversation about the whole thing. We decided it was best to leave things as friends the main issue was lack of communication and now that is stronger than ever and things couldn't be better 😊

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@honorary9751 Aww! Keep working hard Honnor, the Lord will bless you. Give your life to Christ. Jesus is coming soon 😊🙏💓

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same thing with guys, we don’t really wanna waste our time so if a girls not gonna do something to win him over and make a move we gotta move on 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @sequoia4631
    @sequoia4631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He set him up righteous!