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1.You censor what you say around them 2. You feel like it’s a chore 3. You don’t feel secure with your partner 4. You can’t imagine a future together 5. Your close ones don’t know them 6. Only in it for the relationship 7. Thinking of other partners
1 You censor yourself around them 2 Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted 3 You don’t feel safe in your relationship 4 You don’t see a future together 5 Your family and friends haven’t met them 6 Having a relationship is their only interest 7 You’re thinking of someone else
Don’t wait too long. I’m probably in a different yet same position as you. Maybe it’s just me ignoring or not admitting that feeling or I’m just too stupid to know who’s right or who’s wrong. Stay strong! Listen to your heart. Not mind.
Yes I’ve fallen for the wrong person and it doesn’t end nicely. Everyone make sure you set realistic boundaries and expectations for that person. Thanks for the vid 🙏🏾☺️❤️
Yup been there done that. Was toxic as hell. They turned a lot of ppl against me even old “friends” even tho I weren’t even allowed friends when I was with them
No god but Allah Islam way for peace and the real monotheism Search for the truth and right way with honest heart And ask him for the right way for his mercy.
Here are some signs you might be with the wrong person. Your self-esteem has taken a hit. ... You're not yourself. ... You don't feel safe. ... You're pining for someone else. ... You're emotionally drained. ... There's unequal effort. ... You're afraid the relationship could end at any moment. ... You can't see a future together.
Tbf for me personally, I'm afraid that a relationship could end at any moment, but that's just my anxiety. And yes it has ruined the last 2 relationships I had.. I'm seriously trying to better myself with little effort
So true. I like the poetic way you've stated this. Taking off those rose tinted lenses is difficult to do especially early on in a relationship and yet that is when you need to keep your eyes open for the truth.
Just because your partner is censoring themselves around you/is emotionally exhausted being with you, doesn't automatically mean you're wrong for them - rather, they could just be suffering from anxiety/trauma that means they struggle opening up to anyone they love, and they're constantly worrying about you abandoning/hurting them. It's important to establish which it is, cause if its the later, therapy/medication etc could seriously help those issues. If they refuse to even speak to their doctor... They probably weren't ready for any kind of intimate relationship.
• man, that fear of being alone is the biggest challenge, but it’s also the gateway to everything else we want - if we learn to enjoy our solitude, then we achieve self-love, which gives us the confidence that attracts positive energy; that’s what healthy relationships are made of - usually, we’re afraid to be alone because we’re a stranger to ourselves. that’s exactly when we need to be by ourselves. it’s the key to genuine fulfillment.
@Psych2Go i’m BAFFLED i didn’t expect a response bahahah but i watch you guys on my phone so i have easy access to emojis there :>> hehe also i just want to say i love the channel and keep up the good work! 🤍🤍
loner hours Prettyboy i know it's not my place to say but you matter and you shouldn't take your life. people care about you and you're worth so much. please reach out to someone ❤️
Honestly, throughout my life, been through tough relationships and all, now hitting in my 20s....I know being single isn't bad or anything but I mean just wish I could always have someone at least close and happy
This is so relatable cuz I just saw a comment saying "we maybe have low self worth so we date a toxic person because that's who we think we deserve" but that's not the case for me cuz I think I deserve the best but it's just I'm too lonely and there is no one who is making an effort except for this one person soo
I’ve been with my girlfriend for exactly 13 months now and I couldn’t be happier. I’m sorry if this seems in bad taste with the video, I’m just rly happy about it.
Don't be sorry. I'm glad to see wonderful and inspiring comments like these being made! It gives me hope for my future relationships to know that wonderful couples like you and your girlfriend really do exist and I will find my missing piece, too, one day. Congrats! ❤️❤️
I was in a toxic relationship for 6.5 years but didn’t see it. I didn’t get to see my family, could only hang out with friends if she was there, and my dreams and achievements were put down. I never told her how I felt about anything as she put me down, and leaving was the best thing ever. I used to miss the good times, but after watching this I realise that it’s not that I used to miss them, it’s that I used to hope she would change. I’m dating someone else now, in a better place, and honestly, being told that I’m beautiful and mean the world to them is so overwhelming as nobody ever said those words to me before
@@tessarae9127 Wow, I really enjoyed the song, it really is as good as you say! I usually don't hear songs much like it, but it reminded me of in my head by bedroom ^^
My Husband! We are currently separated and I recently filed for divorce. I felt guilty at first leaving, but I feel so much better now. The relationship was emotionally exhausting. Thank you for the video!
Remember though, relationships require commitment, if you see one of these, it's not over. It could just be a passing thing, giving up too early isn't the best idea, maybe try to see if it gets worse or better, or to try talking it over with them. It may even break their hear to see you go in such a way.
Luckily my first impressions of people are weirdly good. Saw a girl on the first day of school in 8th grade and the first thing that I thought was “She’s defiantly not a nice person.” One of my best friends became close with her, so I started to hang out with her more and figured that my instincts were wrong. Nope. She had a trans brother who she relentlessly taunted and had her friends call him the wrong name and gender. Her brother is way nicer and I became friends with him and completely ditched her
Right when this was uploaded I was getting sad cause I said ily to my bf and he left me on opened again...,,, THE UNIVERSE SHOWED ME THIS AT THE RIGHT TIME HAHA
Me : Oh! I might need this for the future when I'm going to start a relationship! My introvert soul : *lmao look at this simp* My overthinking mind : *Bold of you think that you'll start one.*
Yes, been there, done that. My problem on my end was that I didn't get to know those people very well. Toxic, verbally abuser, user people, people who are "borrowing" money right away , knowing each other for few months only. I don't want to experience that ever again.
I was in a relationship with an emotionally abusive partner for many years. I was always finding excuses for his bad behaviour. I swallowed so many embarrassing comments when with others. I was always scared that I would upset him when with others. He would often lash out at me when with friends or family. He was jealous even of the priest at church. I'm so glad i had the courage to leave him.
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Omg one of the signs girl be careful with your relationship but it's just one maybe your having trouble to trust this relationship try working things out and get to them better
Just want to tell you, you're doing great. Don't need to exhaust yourself, and push yourself too much. If you don't feel like doing anything, or feel it's not good for for you, just don't. Just ne HAPPY. Have a good day, have a good life. I love you.
This is true. It was my first relationship. I've always wanted it to grow naturally to those levels but he didnt want it like that. I felt so drained and exhausted. My anxeity became worse. He seemed really fine as he was still receiving the affection he wanted.Started pressuring me to tell him I see a future with him very early in the relationship. I know relationships don't work that way but he seemed one step ahead of me(he is almost 25 I'm 18). Also, I saw those red flags as well and I just had this feeling that something is off. I tried to end it tho. I did but I got hoovered back in without even realising. I told him I wanted to be friends for a while and needed time to make those decisions only within few weeks of a relationship. The pressure persisted tho. He didn't understand me or the reasons I gave him. My parents are quite traditional so we don't date until 20 or 21. So I told him those are big decisions to make and I feel it's too early given the fact that I'm still dependent on my family and told him to let it reach that level. But the one thing that was confusing was that he was "nice" and at the same time him behaviour and the things he said sometimes were making me wonder. Ally went on from there. I tried to talk to him about certain things that really hurt and yeah the blame was flipped to me and all sort of accusations. I didn't know who was typing then. I asked myself if it's the same person. I usually just kept things peacefully and so didn't want to start complaining. Somehow, I'm still having a hard time letting go cuz he is "nice". I went low contact as I felt I needed time to think through. so he became very apologetic and I ended up forgiving cuz he seemed sincere and was hoping he won't make me feel like I'm loosing my mind or make me feel like I'm a horrible person. I don't know what to do tbh. I feel like he is what I deserve. Any advice would really help
@@ahoneekesong9004 I hope you are doing okay and safe and just letting you know that is a major red flag in my opinion and I'm not an expert at dating or anything but that person reminded me a lot of people I encounter a long time ago and they would make it seem like they are right and make you in the wrong and willing to bring you down to make him/her the bigger person. I just hope you are not with him or associate in any kind of way because that just means you forgive him and he will do it again until you try to leave and be apologetic and your back into his trap over and over. You can forgive him and try to cope with it but don't let him in your life when there are other people that can treat you better than him. Stay safe and goodbye.
One of the many reasons I don't date is because the other person always expects you to "Complete" them, to make them "full", and that's nonsense They put this pressure on you for something only they can give themselves which is self love, and since you are unable to deliver they blame you, because they're expecting other people to give them value and respect, and it's dumb because if they don't love themselves no amount of external love will be enough I'm tired of dating half-people waiting for others to complete them
I just got out and still in the process of cutting ties. He is trying to hover me back by using my daughter against me. It is really challenging though 😔 its physically and i Emotionally draining
Thanks guys appreciate the support. yeah I have been dealing with him alone for months now maybe that is the reason why he acts aggressively because he knows I somewhat have insecurities that he can use against me. I recently told my mom and my sister my predicament and he somewhat lie low but still doing it. His friend told me to seek legal counsel if he doesn’t stop doing the things he do. I guess even if you don’t tell people there are some that can really tell your distress just by looking and observing you. Good thing he has good friends that watches my back as well.
I've recently gotten out of my first relationship. I'm 21 and I started dating this guy at 20. I was never interested in dating till I met him because we just clicked, I guess. But I ignored the red flags and was settling. He was verbally abusive during arguments (name-calling, being sarcastic,...) and always made a big deal out of the smallest things. I felt drained at the end, and walking on eggshells. Now that i'm single though, I feel upset all the time. He of course had good qualities and I keep clinging onto it because he said he wanted to change and didn't want to let me go. But It's upsetting that it took a break up to make him realize he really needed to change. I keep thinking,"what if I go back to it and he does change?". I know deep down that it's stupid to think about the "what if's". He was just my first true love. Super hard to come to terms with this all.
If you decide to give him a second chance, let him know that there will be NO THIRD CHANCE...and set SERIOUS BOUNDARIES WITH HIM...so he knows that if ever crosses those boundaries, you’ll be GONE IN A FLASH....!! Hopefully he will get the message. Goodluck to you both. I wish you the best..❤️
Maybe it's best to stop dating this is showing all the most important signs it's better to find someone else that's truly appreciate you and you will find true happiness it can also be different genders who knows
Hmm... 🖤 You remind me of me, a past version of myself. I fell really hard for this guy and I thought there was more emotional depth to him than there actually was... as time went on he was increasingly shallow, same thing during arguments, very black and white thinking, tried to pacify me when I was upset about really, really hard things, which doesn’t seem bad but I think he didn’t really say what was on his mind, and saying those pacifying things didn’t do anything to actually solve my problems... as time went on he was less and less capable of holding space for complex truths, choosing instead to sort it into black and white. during arguments when he later became the source of a lot of pain in my life he would shame spiral and basically beat himself up without any real constructive change... but I also wanted to believe he would mature eventually and grow into being the person I needed, the person I thought he was. In the end I thought it was me, he failed to stand up for me from his bully friends and I thought I deserved it. I walked away feeling like shit. Six months we weren’t together and I managed to really make some terrible decisions in that time because I was in so much pain.. I’m writing all this because I did go back at the end of those six months. He never said he changed. But I felt so strongly towards him and just wanted to believe he did... nothing did change in the end. And so I guess I’m writing you because I see myself in you, in my past relationship. I’m not going to say that I regret going back the second time. But I’m also not going to pretend that I never regretted it either. I think I ended up devaluing myself, not even because I took him back a second time, but because I stayed long after I lost respect for him. He treated me bad and I told myself I could forgive him, but when I got really, really honest with myself I was actually never able to. The closest thing to redemption I saw with him was him trying superficially to appeal to me, but in his heart he didn’t know how to treat me kindly to begin with. You’re at a crossroad of sorts. Either way you can learn from your choice, so take comfort in that. But I will say, we either love someone just as they are now, or we don’t. In the end with mine, it was really heartbreaking to find so much of what we had was a fantasy... I saw him as something so much more until so much shit had actually happened that I couldn’t see the fantasy anymore. Maybe that’s not forgiveness but sometimes thats the world we live in. Intermittent reinforcement is extremely addictive... so just be careful. I hope at least some of this resonates with you. Every time you stay around when something hurts your soul it makes the love go away a little more... I haven’t dated in a while so I can’t say that you’ll find it in someone else what you saw in him. But I used to be really sad, with him. And now... I’m just actually happy... or I guess a better word would be, at peace. Of course it’s better to love and have lost than to never love at all... but sometimes we forget to love ourselves too in the process. Even though going back showed me more of the same of who he was before, I am now that much more certain in where I stand, more secure within myself. The love I have for him doesn’t really go away, but now I hold it alongside the love I have for myself in knowing I don’t need to stay in a painful situation that I could no longer grow in. 🖤 I hope that you find clarity no matter your choice.
@@tessarae9127 I'm sorry you had to go through that experience, I'm glad you are at peace now. I agree with u that we either live the person as they are now, in the moment or we don't. I think that when it comes to change they can, but the thing is that most don't. Changing takes a lot of time and effort, and not everyone is willing to go through that process.
@@tessarae9127 I needed this so much. I know I made the right choice because I kept forgiving him multiple times but it just ended up happening again. I guess everything pilled up and I snapped at the end and didn't give into his pleas for forgiveness and saying he was going to change. It's just really hard accepting it all, especially since he was my first everything . You love someone so much but know they're not good for you. But i've learnt that I can't change someone when they're not ready to change themselves. It's just an fked feeling like you're going to explode with all these emotions. I let him cross lines with disrespect and at the end, I realized I had zero self respect...I totally lost myself in that relationship. Love makes you do some crazy sutff. But your story 100% resinates with me, and I appreciate it so much. Glad to know I am not alone
HEY GUYS Remember that I've been talking about someone I felt for? She's toxic, and I'm free now!!! I feel so much happier, and my heart is not tied to some bitch anywhere. PRAY FOR FREEDOM!!! Btw, I marked all points when I look in the past. Happy that I'm fine.
This just happened to me and it was so hard to end things because nothing really "happened" and I felt like I loved him very much but something just wasn't right. This video verified that my feeling was correct.
I've always fallen in for the wrong persons, the past 3-4 years, I was always full of commitment but with weird attachment styles since I've had a troubled childhood. Today I step back and do psychoanalysis to be a better version of myself and attract people with secure attachments, we'll see how it goes, I'm 21. Never give up, it's never too late and you only have to be alive to experience life and its adventures :)
Well you would feel sometimes like a heart attack or butterflies in your stomach or maybe a little ache if your crush is near you would feel more open you like them being around you some might blush or feel really shy and you would see a different you when your near them or have mix feelings with what they say and when you yourself notice you have a crush on them some people might try to ignore it and some just go with it
The last sign really hit a nerve for me because when I ended my last relationship, my mind kept wandering to someone else. It started to bother me because I am a monogamous person. I did not have an affair, it gave me the courage to end the relationship once and for all.
Wow....you're in BC? Me too! I've fallen for far too many wrong guys. People kept telling me to lower my standards and it was terrible. I'd rather be alone than with someone incompatible. Something I heard that really stuck with me was....never be with anyone you wouldn't want to be.
I hope you don't mind, but I have a video request if you all are interested: what about something like the difference between feeling a friendship towards somebody versus having a crush on somebody.. I don't know if that makes sense but just an idea.. ^^'
You helped me so much, I needed to have a talk with my boyfriend, and I just did because I remembered one of your videos saying "If he really loves you, he will understand"
1. Communication issues can be a sign of a problem within yourself like unresolved baggage. 2&3 are very valid 4 makes sense with the exception of the need for personal independence 5 is flawed. Family is not to be considered as an indicator of who you can and cannot love 6 makes sense, but it’s possible that they just haven’t considered their future much. Be honest with yourself: Have you? Do you have a flexible and actionable plan? Probably not. 7. Ayup. Loyalty is important, if it’s not there then the relationship might as well be as imaginary as your waifu. Either fix yourself (in that relationship) or fix yourself (flying solo). You could also just kinda give up and rot in your own stubbornness but that’s just depressing and it won’t get you anywhere good. This has been: calling it like I see it.
The "your parents don't know about them" part doesn't really sit right with me. For some people, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community, it is really hard to gain the courage to tell others about a partner, especially if they don't already know the type of people you prefer in a relationship. Not only that, but there are some people who are put in danger if they ever openly spoke about their relationship because the people they are telling may react badly due to homophobia, transphobia, and sometimes even racism. I mean, yes its important to be open with your loved ones, but not in every relationship. If you're closeted or hiding a relationship because of someone who is homophobic or racist, don't worry! Please only tell people who you know won't hurt the relationship!
this is true af for me. my family is full of very religious jews and they are great people but my gf and I have been together for over 2 months and nobody knows, because they would never approve of someone who wasn't Jewish. I love her so much and that's the only sign in the vid that applies to us, but I cannot introduce her to my family
Right I mean I’ve been with my gf for 5 months now and like I came out to my parents this June, I told my dad and he didn’t yell at me or anything but just gave me a whole religious lecture bc he’s Christian but ngl I was very scared to tell him bc I just didn’t know how he was going to react but I got the courage to tell him anyways and of course he told my mom and they were talking how they wanna take me to therapy or some shit like tf? What these people don’t know is that here in California conversation therapy is illegal so they clearly didn’t do their research but whatever and well this is technically the second time my mom knows that I am bisexual bc literally last year ALSO in June I came out to her but she didn’t tell my dad and over time she just completely forgot that I was bisexual and just thought of me as straight and as to now both of my parents are doing that again so now both of them in their mind I am now straight because they refuse to think of me as otherwise 🙄🤦🏻♀️
I think what it really means is 'have you shared them with others in your life that you love/have a good relationship with/that know who you are and accept you' Like, if you have a best friend that knows everything about you and is ride-or-die: do you talk about the person you're in a relationship with to them? have they met them?
I fell for the wrong person BIG TIME. Then one day I just woke up and ended it. Good call too, cause the next few day he was hitting it off with another person. And I felt a burden lifted off my shoulders. I'm much happier now.
I've been infatuated with the wrong person, but thankfully I was able to notice when it started going down hill, and broke it off when the time was right
Most important sign is when the person feel that they don’t want to be with you in the future. But if your partner feel this you will even never know. Which is sad.
2:49 This is true for me, but only because I don't fit in with my family, and my partner doesn't fit in the same ways I don't, I think that's acceptable.
My ex boyfriend was ALL of these. Man oh man i am so glad im not with him anymore. Being Emotionally exhausted and abused is probably the worst. Im recharging now and it feel absolute amazing!
That's great I hope you recover from that relationship I might have never been in a relationship but I know bad relationship before I watched this video but thanks to the video I know what to do if my friends need help
Simon Chen Thankyou thats so sweet of you to wanna help your friends! Good friend you must be. ❤️ And also i broke up with him before one time, and that was because i saw all the redflags, but the nice/warm person that i am took him back because i always wanna see the best in people even though i damn well know its not good for me. And the stupid thing is is that i skipt many opportunities that if i wasnt with him i probably could have been enganged by now. God is good god is great. Cuz i heard that woman stay with the abusive man for like 7 - 10 years😥. Glad it was only a year for me and that I had the strength and self love to get the fuck out! Now ive learnt so so much that the awful closure that i had with him dont matter anymore. Its oke. Much love💋💋
I would say that sometimes one is the wrong one, we have a lot to learn in life and we can't expect someone else to accept us fully without growing but asking them for change and be in perfect balance. Basically, what I mean is that we also need to have a good relationship with ourselves to have a good relationship with others ♡
Is it possible to get a video about "age gap relationships"? I could see myself in some of these points, but for different reasons (for example, we *can* and *do* see a future together, but don't know if we *should*). The age gap is 20 years btw, her older than me. She's also getting a lot of doubts, not about our sincere love, but mostly wondering if we're doing a "good" thing...
Title: 7 Signs You're Falling For The Wrong Person. Me: Asexual And Aromantic. Also Me: Clicks Anyways Because I Finished All My Work For Today Early And Decides To Continue Being A Hot Mess OCD Crackhead On The Internet Again. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I’m definitely with the right person, but I had to break up with him and run away from him to find out. I was incredibly lucky he gave me another chance when I came back crying.. But this is what I needed to be sure, and I haven’t doubted ever since...
Oh my fucking god okay, I am glad I made the right decision. Sorry, I'm fed up over my ex rn. He wasn't a bad person or anything like that, I just felt like he only liked me for the relationship he wanted, he didn't seem to want me for who I truly was (and I likely was doing the same to him). He had great traits, he was okay, but there was something missing. He did overstep some boundaries, he didn't seem to let me breathe, ever, and I was finding that I loathed spending time with him. Glad to be gone even if I keep wanting to go back thinking I made this all up.
1. You censor yourself around them 2. Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted 3. You don't feel safe in your relationship 4. You don't see a future together 5. Your family and friends haven't met them 6. Having a relationship is their only interest 7. You're thinking of someone else
@@maniccheesewizeater7739 my pleasure! I always search for the comments myself, even if I'm watching the whole thing anyway But it's better to have it written somewhere
Every time one of these videos gets recommended to me i have so much anxiety that i’m going to relate to them.....even tho i’m in a stable, happy relationship
1:52 I feel unsafe cause...ya know, at our school, dating is illegal, and...yeah, last week, we got caught and because of that we need to meet the counselor but at the different time( meaning that we can stay together in one room when the counselor want to talk to us) so I go first while he wait outside. After that terrible day, Him and I now are little bit scared to talk to each other in class( we sit next to each other), we afraid that "if we got caught again we have to break up, or one of us need to change class/school". Yup, that's what the counselor told us. Sorry for my bad English 😌
7 Signs You Are Falling For The Wrong Person : 1. You censor yourself around them 2. Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted 3. You don't feel safe in your relationship 4. You don't see future together 5. Your family and friends haven't met them 6. Having a relationship is the only interest 7. You're thinking of someone else
Everyone is the wrong person, I have never found anyone who was willing to even try to have a relaitonship with me beyond the superficial or easy. It seems that I am doomed to be alone, no matter how many times I fall head over heels for someone.
The first one AHHHHHHHHH! I felt like if I wanted to say something, I had to think how he will react first. I can't believe I just kept telling myself that he's sensitive....
So only 2 of these apply. One is the censor about politics However the second one was about the fact that we moved extremely fast into a relationship and we both paused our life to be in lala land with eachother. We definitely had passions outside of the relationship We broke up a year ago and I can’t let go.
I like this certain guy. And he's been showing signs that he likes me too. But I felt like I have to be more feminine (I'm not saying being feminine is wrong, just do you) inorder for him to keep on liking me. Like there is nothing wrong being feminine, but I felt like I can't be 100% me everytime I'm with him. Like I felt like if I show my other parts to him, I felt like it would make him like me less or will turn him off. Sometimes, I felt embarrassed when I get clumsy or do things that are not that 'feminine' when he's there. He's an extremely masculine muscular guy. I really like him alot but I really fear the day when he stops liking me once he sees the parts of me that I felt like undesirable for him. Help y'all :(
It is currently 2:12PM here in Vancouver, BC. What time is it right now? Comment below and try to guess the person above location. Use this format [your guess, your time]. Posted a video yesterday with a similar pin :)
7:20 am in Australia
4:21 pm
2:21 pm
11:21 pm
11:21 p.m in Spain :)
1.You censor what you say around them
2. You feel like it’s a chore
3. You don’t feel secure with your partner
4. You can’t imagine a future together
5. Your close ones don’t know them
6. Only in it for the relationship
7. Thinking of other partners
When you check all of the boxes...
My first relationship turned into something like that after three or four months of relative happiness
Funny how that works, eh
4/7 fuck My life
My close ones don't know her
I’m only 1/7
1 You censor yourself around them
2 Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted
3 You don’t feel safe in your relationship
4 You don’t see a future together
5 Your family and friends haven’t met them
6 Having a relationship is their only interest
7 You’re thinking of someone else
*closeted people looking at 5 like * 👁️👄👁️
Rory Jordan that do be true doe. I’m lesbian but single Pringle not ready to mingle
@Loutrenarde I'm a trans bi guy dating a girl.
@Lixfe Chillz Greetings !
Why number 6 is a red flag ?
We all know that feeling that they aren’t right but we hope it works out 😔
Oof.
This is sad
Don’t wait too long. I’m probably in a different yet same position as you. Maybe it’s just me ignoring or not admitting that feeling or I’m just too stupid to know who’s right or who’s wrong. Stay strong! Listen to your heart. Not mind.
Bruhhhhhh 😔😔😔
I hate myself because of this.
Yes I’ve fallen for the wrong person and it doesn’t end nicely. Everyone make sure you set realistic boundaries and expectations for that person. Thanks for the vid 🙏🏾☺️❤️
Are you currently seeing someone new? :)
Yup been there done that. Was toxic as hell. They turned a lot of ppl against me even old “friends” even tho I weren’t even allowed friends when I was with them
What do you mean by realistic boundaries and expectations?
No god but Allah
Islam way for peace and the real monotheism
Search for the truth and right way with honest heart And ask him for the right way for his mercy.
I hope everyone is having a good day
Aww thanks!
You as well! :)
Thanks
@@IsaacOnyait I hope a goodnight
Nope iam not having a.good day...
Here are some signs you might be with the wrong person.
Your self-esteem has taken a hit. ...
You're not yourself. ...
You don't feel safe. ...
You're pining for someone else. ...
You're emotionally drained. ...
There's unequal effort. ...
You're afraid the relationship could end at any moment. ...
You can't see a future together.
the unequal effort hit home💔
Unequal effort for me and my ex.
Tbf for me personally, I'm afraid that a relationship could end at any moment, but that's just my anxiety.
And yes it has ruined the last 2 relationships I had.. I'm seriously trying to better myself with little effort
Stargirl :3 Damn it ruined the last 2
@@Thowzand_ Yes.. it is not fun seeing yourself destroy something that was working perfectly fine and only realizing what you have done afterwards
"When you're wearing rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like... normal flags"
Haha real funny but these flags are real important
So true. I like the poetic way you've stated this. Taking off those rose tinted lenses is difficult to do especially early on in a relationship and yet that is when you need to keep your eyes open for the truth.
bojack horseman :D honestly that show "saved" me from a lot of toxic situations and relationships. i love that quote.
@@simonchen5284 You don't get it do you
Welp, then I'm looking for 2 years trough those glasses 😅😔
Psych2go: signs youre falling to the wrong person
Me: stop, stop, dont cut my hopes
Meanwhile....
2020: *"Ah, lets ruin someone hope by uploading this video 😏 "*
A bear 🐻 almost got into my house
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Their not cutting your hopes they just want to make sure you are not in a very bad relationship too
Guys... I think the chicken was joking .-.
Just because your partner is censoring themselves around you/is emotionally exhausted being with you, doesn't automatically mean you're wrong for them - rather, they could just be suffering from anxiety/trauma that means they struggle opening up to anyone they love, and they're constantly worrying about you abandoning/hurting them.
It's important to establish which it is, cause if its the later, therapy/medication etc could seriously help those issues. If they refuse to even speak to their doctor... They probably weren't ready for any kind of intimate relationship.
I love how they always thank me for watching. It feels nice
We don’t choose healthy, safe relationships because our fear of being alone makes us desperate and needy
I...ouch.
So true
So true please look for the red flags People!!!
• man, that fear of being alone is the biggest challenge, but it’s also the gateway to everything else we want - if we learn to enjoy our solitude, then we achieve self-love, which gives us the confidence that attracts positive energy; that’s what healthy relationships are made of - usually, we’re afraid to be alone because we’re a stranger to ourselves. that’s exactly when we need to be by ourselves. it’s the key to genuine fulfillment.
Me: hoping this will help me get over my crush
Also me: realising my crush is the complete opposite, and that this describes my ex instead 🌚
this video: shows all the signs
me: 👩🏻🦯👩🏻🦯👩🏻🦯
Very adorable! How do you put emojis on comment?
@Psych2Go i’m BAFFLED i didn’t expect a response bahahah but i watch you guys on my phone so i have easy access to emojis there :>>
hehe also i just want to say i love the channel and keep up the good work! 🤍🤍
If you're on windows if you press the windows key and the '.' Button and wait a minute it gives you emojis 🤗
@@Psych2go Right mouse click on the reply box. First menu item is "emoji".
🙏🏼 thanks for the emoji's keys guys 💖
literally 99% won’t see this but if you do, God bless you, stay safe and have a wonderful day
God bless you, too! I hope you have a fantastic rest of your day, staying as safe as possible!
i’m planning to kill myself today
loner hours Prettyboy please don't!! do you have someone you can talk to?
loner hours Prettyboy i know it's not my place to say but you matter and you shouldn't take your life. people care about you and you're worth so much. please reach out to someone ❤️
Thank you :³
Honestly, throughout my life, been through tough relationships and all, now hitting in my 20s....I know being single isn't bad or anything but I mean just wish I could always have someone at least close and happy
Wait till you hit 30 or 40....
This is so relatable cuz I just saw a comment saying "we maybe have low self worth so we date a toxic person because that's who we think we deserve" but that's not the case for me cuz I think I deserve the best but it's just I'm too lonely and there is no one who is making an effort except for this one person soo
I’ve been with my girlfriend for exactly 13 months now and I couldn’t be happier. I’m sorry if this seems in bad taste with the video, I’m just rly happy about it.
That’s amazing!! Being with the right person really changes your life 🥰
Bianka G yep 100%
That’s so good to hear, wish you nothing but the best 💞
Don't be sorry. I'm glad to see wonderful and inspiring comments like these being made! It gives me hope for my future relationships to know that wonderful couples like you and your girlfriend really do exist and I will find my missing piece, too, one day. Congrats! ❤️❤️
This is beautiful. Never apologise for being happy
ok... but like, how do you guys know exactly what I need to hear at just the right moment? I love this channel 🥺
Glad you enjoy it!
* is in a healthy relationship *
"7 Signs You're Falling for the Wrong Person"
* watches video to make sure *
#relatable xD
I was in a toxic relationship for 6.5 years but didn’t see it. I didn’t get to see my family, could only hang out with friends if she was there, and my dreams and achievements were put down. I never told her how I felt about anything as she put me down, and leaving was the best thing ever. I used to miss the good times, but after watching this I realise that it’s not that I used to miss them, it’s that I used to hope she would change.
I’m dating someone else now, in a better place, and honestly, being told that I’m beautiful and mean the world to them is so overwhelming as nobody ever said those words to me before
I know who I'm falling for:
Gravity 😍
🤓🤓🤓 have u heard that modest mouse song gravity rides everything? Soo good...
@@tessarae9127 No but I'll give it a go! ^°^
@@tessarae9127 Wow, I really enjoyed the song, it really is as good as you say! I usually don't hear songs much like it, but it reminded me of in my head by bedroom ^^
Ah a classic!
Ahaha
"I'm eternally alone"-geras from mk 2019
Falling to the wrong person could turn to be the best thing that happens to you
I know it's been 4 years, but could you please elaborate? Thanks in advance.
My Husband! We are currently separated and I recently filed for divorce. I felt guilty at first leaving, but I feel so much better now. The relationship was emotionally exhausting. Thank you for the video!
That's great I hope you recover
When You Look at Someone through Rose-Colored Glasses, All the Red Flags Just Look Like Flags
I see. Do you find this video relatable?
The animation makes me more comfortable and relaxed 🧸💗
Thank you! Glad you like this animation! :)
ASHA, YOU ARE NOT FALLING FOR THE WRONG. PERSON. BECAUSE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. PROVE IT
ASHA I HAVE WAITING FOR OUR LOVE FOR SO,SO LONG.
Remember though, relationships require commitment, if you see one of these, it's not over. It could just be a passing thing, giving up too early isn't the best idea, maybe try to see if it gets worse or better, or to try talking it over with them. It may even break their hear to see you go in such a way.
This made me realize how I was the wrong person for the one who was right for me.
Luckily my first impressions of people are weirdly good. Saw a girl on the first day of school in 8th grade and the first thing that I thought was “She’s defiantly not a nice person.” One of my best friends became close with her, so I started to hang out with her more and figured that my instincts were wrong. Nope. She had a trans brother who she relentlessly taunted and had her friends call him the wrong name and gender. Her brother is way nicer and I became friends with him and completely ditched her
I feel pain and sadness everytime in before sleep, makes me stay up later than I should.
I feel sorry for you just stay positive and try to fix the problem on why you feel this way even the smallest change can make a difference to you
Right when this was uploaded I was getting sad cause I said ily to my bf and he left me on opened again...,,, THE UNIVERSE SHOWED ME THIS AT THE RIGHT TIME HAHA
You should leave him :( its so sad that he treats you like that. Its defienetly not love
If all the signs show it's rather to fix some problems or leave him that is all I can help with sorry
I've never fallen in a relationship but i watch every video of this channel for that magically calm narrator voice✨✨❤️. I would fall for it😂
Me : Oh! I might need this for the future when I'm going to start a relationship!
My introvert soul : *lmao look at this simp*
My overthinking mind : *Bold of you think that you'll start one.*
Happens to many ppl LOL Dw it will be alright
Yes, been there, done that.
My problem on my end was that I didn't get to know those people very well.
Toxic, verbally abuser, user people, people who are "borrowing" money right away , knowing each other for few months only.
I don't want to experience that ever again.
i love these visuals so much... please keep in touch with the artist
I was in a relationship with an emotionally abusive partner for many years. I was always finding excuses for his bad behaviour. I swallowed so many embarrassing comments when with others. I was always scared that I would upset him when with others. He would often lash out at me when with friends or family. He was jealous even of the priest at church. I'm so glad i had the courage to leave him.
This art is TOO DARN CUTE 😔✨🥺❤️
Thank you so much! Would you like too see more of this animation ?
Psych2Go yes please! It’s absolutely adorable
I want to add, abuse is not always threatening or striking. It is any situation where your autonomy is being disregarded and deminished.
Literally I just told my sister I don't see a romantic future with my current partner
+2347026399847......this is the number of a v ery pow erful ma n w h o hel ped me my ex-hus band, who o left me for years and now my ex- husband has returned to me
Whtasapp him
Omg one of the signs girl be careful with your relationship but it's just one maybe your having trouble to trust this relationship try working things out and get to them better
Just want to tell you, you're doing great. Don't need to exhaust yourself, and push yourself too much. If you don't feel like doing anything, or feel it's not good for for you, just don't. Just ne HAPPY. Have a good day, have a good life. I love you.
Here's another one: your relationship feels like work that must be forced rather than something you're naturally driven to.
This is true. It was my first relationship. I've always wanted it to grow naturally to those levels but he didnt want it like that. I felt so drained and exhausted. My anxeity became worse. He seemed really fine as he was still receiving the affection he wanted.Started pressuring me to tell him I see a future with him very early in the relationship. I know relationships don't work that way but he seemed one step ahead of me(he is almost 25 I'm 18). Also, I saw those red flags as well and I just had this feeling that something is off. I tried to end it tho. I did but I got hoovered back in without even realising. I told him I wanted to be friends for a while and needed time to make those decisions only within few weeks of a relationship. The pressure persisted tho. He didn't understand me or the reasons I gave him. My parents are quite traditional so we don't date until 20 or 21. So I told him those are big decisions to make and I feel it's too early given the fact that I'm still dependent on my family and told him to let it reach that level. But the one thing that was confusing was that he was "nice" and at the same time him behaviour and the things he said sometimes were making me wonder. Ally went on from there. I tried to talk to him about certain things that really hurt and yeah the blame was flipped to me and all sort of accusations. I didn't know who was typing then. I asked myself if it's the same person. I usually just kept things peacefully and so didn't want to start complaining. Somehow, I'm still having a hard time letting go cuz he is "nice". I went low contact as I felt I needed time to think through. so he became very apologetic and I ended up forgiving cuz he seemed sincere and was hoping he won't make me feel like I'm loosing my mind or make me feel like I'm a horrible person. I don't know what to do tbh. I feel like he is what I deserve. Any advice would really help
@@ahoneekesong9004 I hope you are doing okay and safe and just letting you know that is a major red flag in my opinion and I'm not an expert at dating or anything but that person reminded me a lot of people I encounter a long time ago and they would make it seem like they are right and make you in the wrong and willing to bring you down to make him/her the bigger person. I just hope you are not with him or associate in any kind of way because that just means you forgive him and he will do it again until you try to leave and be apologetic and your back into his trap over and over. You can forgive him and try to cope with it but don't let him in your life when there are other people that can treat you better than him. Stay safe and goodbye.
One of the many reasons I don't date is because the other person always expects you to "Complete" them, to make them "full", and that's nonsense
They put this pressure on you for something only they can give themselves which is self love, and since you are unable to deliver they blame you, because they're expecting other people to give them value and respect, and it's dumb because if they don't love themselves no amount of external love will be enough
I'm tired of dating half-people waiting for others to complete them
I just got out and still in the process of cutting ties. He is trying to hover me back by using my daughter against me. It is really challenging though 😔 its physically and i
Emotionally draining
You should call a relative or a friend to help you make sure to keep the trying don't let him get to you
Thanks guys appreciate the support. yeah I have been dealing with him alone for months now maybe that is the reason why he acts aggressively because he knows I somewhat have insecurities that he can use against me. I recently told my mom and my sister my predicament and he somewhat lie low but still doing it. His friend told me to seek legal counsel if he doesn’t stop doing the things he do. I guess even if you don’t tell people there are some that can really tell your distress just by looking and observing you. Good thing he has good friends that watches my back as well.
Stay strong ⭐️❤️
Well, no one is perfect to have all good qualities but great points there!!!
I've recently gotten out of my first relationship. I'm 21 and I started dating this guy at 20. I was never interested in dating till I met him because we just clicked, I guess. But I ignored the red flags and was settling. He was verbally abusive during arguments (name-calling, being sarcastic,...) and always made a big deal out of the smallest things. I felt drained at the end, and walking on eggshells. Now that i'm single though, I feel upset all the time. He of course had good qualities and I keep clinging onto it because he said he wanted to change and didn't want to let me go. But It's upsetting that it took a break up to make him realize he really needed to change. I keep thinking,"what if I go back to it and he does change?". I know deep down that it's stupid to think about the "what if's". He was just my first true love. Super hard to come to terms with this all.
If you decide to give him a second chance, let him know that there will be NO THIRD CHANCE...and set SERIOUS BOUNDARIES WITH HIM...so he knows that if ever crosses those boundaries, you’ll be GONE IN A FLASH....!! Hopefully he will get the message. Goodluck to you both. I wish you the best..❤️
Maybe it's best to stop dating this is showing all the most important signs it's better to find someone else that's truly appreciate you and you will find true happiness it can also be different genders who knows
Hmm... 🖤 You remind me of me, a past version of myself. I fell really hard for this guy and I thought there was more emotional depth to him than there actually was... as time went on he was increasingly shallow, same thing during arguments, very black and white thinking, tried to pacify me when I was upset about really, really hard things, which doesn’t seem bad but I think he didn’t really say what was on his mind, and saying those pacifying things didn’t do anything to actually solve my problems... as time went on he was less and less capable of holding space for complex truths, choosing instead to sort it into black and white. during arguments when he later became the source of a lot of pain in my life he would shame spiral and basically beat himself up without any real constructive change... but I also wanted to believe he would mature eventually and grow into being the person I needed, the person I thought he was.
In the end I thought it was me, he failed to stand up for me from his bully friends and I thought I deserved it. I walked away feeling like shit. Six months we weren’t together and I managed to really make some terrible decisions in that time because I was in so much pain..
I’m writing all this because I did go back at the end of those six months. He never said he changed. But I felt so strongly towards him and just wanted to believe he did... nothing did change in the end. And so I guess I’m writing you because I see myself in you, in my past relationship.
I’m not going to say that I regret going back the second time. But I’m also not going to pretend that I never regretted it either. I think I ended up devaluing myself, not even because I took him back a second time, but because I stayed long after I lost respect for him. He treated me bad and I told myself I could forgive him, but when I got really, really honest with myself I was actually never able to. The closest thing to redemption I saw with him was him trying superficially to appeal to me, but in his heart he didn’t know how to treat me kindly to begin with.
You’re at a crossroad of sorts. Either way you can learn from your choice, so take comfort in that. But I will say, we either love someone just as they are now, or we don’t. In the end with mine, it was really heartbreaking to find so much of what we had was a fantasy... I saw him as something so much more until so much shit had actually happened that I couldn’t see the fantasy anymore. Maybe that’s not forgiveness but sometimes thats the world we live in. Intermittent reinforcement is extremely addictive... so just be careful.
I hope at least some of this resonates with you. Every time you stay around when something hurts your soul it makes the love go away a little more...
I haven’t dated in a while so I can’t say that you’ll find it in someone else what you saw in him. But I used to be really sad, with him. And now... I’m just actually happy... or I guess a better word would be, at peace.
Of course it’s better to love and have lost than to never love at all... but sometimes we forget to love ourselves too in the process.
Even though going back showed me more of the same of who he was before, I am now that much more certain in where I stand, more secure within myself.
The love I have for him doesn’t really go away, but now I hold it alongside the love I have for myself in knowing I don’t need to stay in a painful situation that I could no longer grow in. 🖤 I hope that you find clarity no matter your choice.
@@tessarae9127 I'm sorry you had to go through that experience, I'm glad you are at peace now. I agree with u that we either live the person as they are now, in the moment or we don't. I think that when it comes to change they can, but the thing is that most don't. Changing takes a lot of time and effort, and not everyone is willing to go through that process.
@@tessarae9127 I needed this so much. I know I made the right choice because I kept forgiving him multiple times but it just ended up happening again. I guess everything pilled up and I snapped at the end and didn't give into his pleas for forgiveness and saying he was going to change. It's just really hard accepting it all, especially since he was my first everything . You love someone so much but know they're not good for you. But i've learnt that I can't change someone when they're not ready to change themselves. It's just an fked feeling like you're going to explode with all these emotions. I let him cross lines with disrespect and at the end, I realized I had zero self respect...I totally lost myself in that relationship. Love makes you do some crazy sutff. But your story 100% resinates with me, and I appreciate it so much. Glad to know I am not alone
The art work gets better and better 🤣
HEY GUYS
Remember that I've been talking about someone I felt for? She's toxic, and I'm free now!!!
I feel so much happier, and my heart is not tied to some bitch anywhere. PRAY FOR FREEDOM!!!
Btw, I marked all points when I look in the past. Happy that I'm fine.
That's great but please don't swear
This just happened to me and it was so hard to end things because nothing really "happened" and I felt like I loved him very much but something just wasn't right. This video verified that my feeling was correct.
I've always fallen in for the wrong persons, the past 3-4 years, I was always full of commitment but with weird attachment styles since I've had a troubled childhood. Today I step back and do psychoanalysis to be a better version of myself and attract people with secure attachments, we'll see how it goes, I'm 21. Never give up, it's never too late and you only have to be alive to experience life and its adventures :)
ive never had feelings for anyone ;-; i wonder what its like to love someone...
Well...i pray when you do they like you back... Coz its suck falling for a person you can never have.... 😭😭..you wish you hadn't
Well you would feel sometimes like a heart attack or butterflies in your stomach or maybe a little ache if your crush is near you would feel more open you like them being around you some might blush or feel really shy and you would see a different you when your near them or have mix feelings with what they say and when you yourself notice you have a crush on them some people might try to ignore it and some just go with it
The last sign really hit a nerve for me because when I ended my last relationship, my mind kept wandering to someone else. It started to bother me because I am a monogamous person. I did not have an affair, it gave me the courage to end the relationship once and for all.
"If you look at someone through rose tinted glasses, all the red flags just look like flags." -Wanda, Bojack Horseman
This made me realise that I had really fallen for him and he’s the wrong one. Now it’s time to move on. ➡️
I don't know why I'm crying so randomly but when I do I always go to the bathroom
Hugs for you. Maybe you should talk with someone about how you're feeling or write things down that are in your head and heart. Take care.
Wow....you're in BC? Me too!
I've fallen for far too many wrong guys. People kept telling me to lower my standards and it was terrible. I'd rather be alone than with someone incompatible. Something I heard that really stuck with me was....never be with anyone you wouldn't want to be.
I used to really like this guy but it's pretty much clear I don't feel all comfortable around him
Kinda sad to have that realization dawn on me.
Sometimes we fall in love with the wrong person, but that wrong person prepared us for the right one.
I hope you don't mind, but I have a video request if you all are interested: what about something like the difference between feeling a friendship towards somebody versus having a crush on somebody..
I don't know if that makes sense but just an idea.. ^^'
That video kinda has been done it was about falling in love and having a crush
Yes, I really need that TwT
You helped me so much, I needed to have a talk with my boyfriend, and I just did because I remembered one of your videos saying "If he really loves you, he will understand"
I have a problem trying to decide if I need to leave or if I just need to compromise on certain things because not everyone is perfect.
1. Communication issues can be a sign of a problem within yourself like unresolved baggage.
2&3 are very valid
4 makes sense with the exception of the need for personal independence
5 is flawed. Family is not to be considered as an indicator of who you can and cannot love
6 makes sense, but it’s possible that they just haven’t considered their future much. Be honest with yourself: Have you? Do you have a flexible and actionable plan? Probably not.
7. Ayup. Loyalty is important, if it’s not there then the relationship might as well be as imaginary as your waifu. Either fix yourself (in that relationship) or fix yourself (flying solo). You could also just kinda give up and rot in your own stubbornness but that’s just depressing and it won’t get you anywhere good. This has been: calling it like I see it.
How are you supposed to break up with someone and say that you don't think they are the right one??
Oh man, the one about bring exhausted. I got so tired and from that, I realized it needed to end. Thanks for these videos! They're very insightful
The "your parents don't know about them" part doesn't really sit right with me. For some people, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community, it is really hard to gain the courage to tell others about a partner, especially if they don't already know the type of people you prefer in a relationship. Not only that, but there are some people who are put in danger if they ever openly spoke about their relationship because the people they are telling may react badly due to homophobia, transphobia, and sometimes even racism. I mean, yes its important to be open with your loved ones, but not in every relationship. If you're closeted or hiding a relationship because of someone who is homophobic or racist, don't worry! Please only tell people who you know won't hurt the relationship!
this is true af for me. my family is full of very religious jews and they are great people but my gf and I have been together for over 2 months and nobody knows, because they would never approve of someone who wasn't Jewish. I love her so much and that's the only sign in the vid that applies to us, but I cannot introduce her to my family
Yeah, a few of these are debatable
Right I mean I’ve been with my gf for 5 months now and like I came out to my parents this June, I told my dad and he didn’t yell at me or anything but just gave me a whole religious lecture bc he’s Christian but ngl I was very scared to tell him bc I just didn’t know how he was going to react but I got the courage to tell him anyways and of course he told my mom and they were talking how they wanna take me to therapy or some shit like tf? What these people don’t know is that here in California conversation therapy is illegal so they clearly didn’t do their research but whatever and well this is technically the second time my mom knows that I am bisexual bc literally last year ALSO in June I came out to her but she didn’t tell my dad and over time she just completely forgot that I was bisexual and just thought of me as straight and as to now both of my parents are doing that again so now both of them in their mind I am now straight because they refuse to think of me as otherwise 🙄🤦🏻♀️
I think what it really means is 'have you shared them with others in your life that you love/have a good relationship with/that know who you are and accept you' Like, if you have a best friend that knows everything about you and is ride-or-die: do you talk about the person you're in a relationship with to them? have they met them?
I fell for the wrong person BIG TIME. Then one day I just woke up and ended it. Good call too, cause the next few day he was hitting it off with another person. And I felt a burden lifted off my shoulders. I'm much happier now.
1. You live in Alabama.
2. You refer to them as 'cousin', 'bro', or 'sis'.
I've been infatuated with the wrong person, but thankfully I was able to notice when it started going down hill, and broke it off when the time was right
“Red flags just look normal when viewed through rose colored glasses”
This is exactly my situation. And that #1 is so tiring. But I've made up my mind to leave him asap.
I just had sleep paralysis like a hour ago again and this video popped up. Don't love anyone, but thank you for existing
I haven't even been in a "real" relationship. Now I know what to watch out for.
Oh I know I’m falling for the wrong person ...
he’s an anime character
T-T
Most important sign is when the person feel that they don’t want to be with you in the future. But if your partner feel this you will even never know. Which is sad.
the real question is how many of us saw all the signs and ignored them anyway?!
Every single thing was wrong! 😀 and I still wanted to get going and he took 8 months to REALISE that It's all wrong and WE SHOULD MOVE ONNNN
Me having a crush on an anime antagonist:
Ye but. Sure.
2:49 This is true for me, but only because I don't fit in with my family, and my partner doesn't fit in the same ways I don't, I think that's acceptable.
My ex boyfriend was ALL of these. Man oh man i am so glad im not with him anymore. Being Emotionally exhausted and abused is probably the worst. Im recharging now and it feel absolute amazing!
That's great I hope you recover from that relationship I might have never been in a relationship but I know bad relationship before I watched this video but thanks to the video I know what to do if my friends need help
Simon Chen Thankyou thats so sweet of you to wanna help your friends! Good friend you must be. ❤️
And also i broke up with him before one time, and that was because i saw all the redflags, but the nice/warm person that i am took him back because i always wanna see the best in people even though i damn well know its not good for me.
And the stupid thing is is that i skipt many opportunities that if i wasnt with him i probably could have been enganged by now.
God is good god is great. Cuz i heard that woman stay with the abusive man for like 7 - 10 years😥. Glad it was only a year for me and that I had the strength and self love to get the fuck out!
Now ive learnt so so much that the awful closure that i had with him dont matter anymore. Its oke.
Much love💋💋
I would say that sometimes one is the wrong one, we have a lot to learn in life and we can't expect someone else to accept us fully without growing but asking them for change and be in perfect balance. Basically, what I mean is that we also need to have a good relationship with ourselves to have a good relationship with others ♡
Is it possible to get a video about "age gap relationships"? I could see myself in some of these points, but for different reasons (for example, we *can* and *do* see a future together, but don't know if we *should*). The age gap is 20 years btw, her older than me. She's also getting a lot of doubts, not about our sincere love, but mostly wondering if we're doing a "good" thing...
@@takosan388 I'm 26
That's normal my parents are 10 years apart and they aren't in a bad relationship
The new closing animation at the end is so adorable! Hope it sticks around for videos to come
It definitely will stick around for awhile :D
Title: 7 Signs You're Falling For The Wrong Person.
Me: Asexual And Aromantic.
Also Me: Clicks Anyways Because I Finished All My Work For Today Early And Decides To Continue Being A Hot Mess OCD Crackhead On The Internet Again. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am asexual and aromantic too 🖤 i don’t even know why i clicked 😂
Same lmao
@@yaeslover I don’t likes the LGBT that much but thank u for helping with population control, I salute asexuals
@@shoooja Yup.
Thats the spirit!
Yeah I’m definitely with the right person, but I had to break up with him and run away from him to find out. I was incredibly lucky he gave me another chance when I came back crying.. But this is what I needed to be sure, and I haven’t doubted ever since...
Damn, just when I thought they covered everything
Oh my fucking god okay, I am glad I made the right decision. Sorry, I'm fed up over my ex rn. He wasn't a bad person or anything like that, I just felt like he only liked me for the relationship he wanted, he didn't seem to want me for who I truly was (and I likely was doing the same to him). He had great traits, he was okay, but there was something missing. He did overstep some boundaries, he didn't seem to let me breathe, ever, and I was finding that I loathed spending time with him. Glad to be gone even if I keep wanting to go back thinking I made this all up.
1. You censor yourself around them
2. Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted
3. You don't feel safe in your relationship
4. You don't see a future together
5. Your family and friends haven't met them
6. Having a relationship is their only interest
7. You're thinking of someone else
Thank you! :D
@@maniccheesewizeater7739 my pleasure! I always search for the comments myself, even if I'm watching the whole thing anyway
But it's better to have it written somewhere
Every time one of these videos gets recommended to me i have so much anxiety that i’m going to relate to them.....even tho i’m in a stable, happy relationship
1:52 I feel unsafe cause...ya know, at our school, dating is illegal, and...yeah, last week, we got caught and because of that we need to meet the counselor but at the different time( meaning that we can stay together in one room when the counselor want to talk to us) so I go first while he wait outside.
After that terrible day, Him and I now are little bit scared to talk to each other in class( we sit next to each other), we afraid that "if we got caught again we have to break up, or one of us need to change class/school". Yup, that's what the counselor told us.
Sorry for my bad English 😌
The fact that this is so calm and full of education ❤️
7 Signs You Are Falling For The Wrong Person :
1. You censor yourself around them
2. Your relationship makes you emotionally exhausted
3. You don't feel safe in your relationship
4. You don't see future together
5. Your family and friends haven't met them
6. Having a relationship is the only interest
7. You're thinking of someone else
Everyone is the wrong person, I have never found anyone who was willing to even try to have a relaitonship with me beyond the superficial or easy. It seems that I am doomed to be alone, no matter how many times I fall head over heels for someone.
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The REAL 1st person
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The first one AHHHHHHHHH! I felt like if I wanted to say something, I had to think how he will react first. I can't believe I just kept telling myself that he's sensitive....
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So only 2 of these apply. One is the censor about politics
However the second one was about the fact that we moved extremely fast into a relationship and we both paused our life to be in lala land with eachother. We definitely had passions outside of the relationship We broke up a year ago and I can’t let go.
20 vies and 193 likes TH-cam is drunk once again -_-
I like this certain guy. And he's been showing signs that he likes me too. But I felt like I have to be more feminine (I'm not saying being feminine is wrong, just do you) inorder for him to keep on liking me. Like there is nothing wrong being feminine, but I felt like I can't be 100% me everytime I'm with him. Like I felt like if I show my other parts to him, I felt like it would make him like me less or will turn him off. Sometimes, I felt embarrassed when I get clumsy or do things that are not that 'feminine' when he's there. He's an extremely masculine muscular guy. I really like him alot but I really fear the day when he stops liking me once he sees the parts of me that I felt like undesirable for him. Help y'all :(
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1, 2, 3 and 4 is how I naturally react to most people, except for the physical safety part. I have no idea if that's normal.