I agree with Jed. To not live together after living together is going backwards. If you wanted to live by yourself for your own independence you should have done that before moving in with a partner.
You can buy a house together and it’s still an achievement .. makes no difference whether you do it alone or do it together it’s still a big achievement buying a house. I do see it as going backwards if you move back out together to buy your own houses after only just living together agree with Jed x
I 100% agree, being independent is amazing! but you can still be that when you're living with your significant other, and in my opinion, if you feel like you can't then it's not the right relationship for you. Also I agree that buying a house together is still a huge achievement, I think its even more so because you're able to do it with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with! it's something you both can look back on and say wow we did that. I agree with Jed too, in my opinion if that was my relationship It would almost feel like a break up because its taking a huge step backwards. I understand Imogen wants that safety net, but you should have thought about this before moving in together, and should have lived alone first before taking this step forward because moving in together is a huge thing in a relationship, now you want that taken away after a year living together its kind of a punch in the face to Jed. I also believe that this conversation should of happened before moving to this place because I don't think you guys would be living together right now if this was out in the opened. Love to both of you. xx
As a property lawyer, I've seen many go down this route and return back to our firm a few months later to sell the property because they broke up. It is not wise, and most decent lawyers would advice against boyfriends and girlfriends buying properties together (especially since they're very young). Imogen is wise. They can purchase their individual properties and live together in one of the properties. Women who can afford it should have their own assets.
@@SA-xk7lk I understand completely, but Jeds argument wasn't that she couldn't buy her own place, she was saying she wants to live separate after a year living together already, so Jeds point is that, its going backwards in the relationship if she wants to go from living together, to living separate
Chill out love, obviously that isn’t going to happen realistically. Imogen was just stating a goal she has always had I.e before she even met Jed and saying it, there’s nothing wrong with that.
@@allybx4560 I never said there was anything wrong it but it’s just an opinion I have! I’m not judging I think they make a nice couple and they’ll probably make the right decision when the time comes
Not trying to be negative, but I'll just spit it out and say what I think I'm seeing... First thing I noticed is Imogen doesn't look happy. Like I don't know the two of these two well, but she just looks miserable. If she's with you for the money or the hanging onto your 15 seconds on TH-cam it won't last... just saying. Then I saw all the comments... Yeah I agree. Red flags everywhere.
Red flags Jed 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 also spending to much time together can make you bicker, I can’t understand why she wants to buy her own place and you both live separately? I understand investing in a property, and the no mortgage until engaged is like a kind of manipulation, compromise is the key and don’t feel pressured into anything your not ready for, everything happens for a reason and if she is not the one then the one is still out there, also we only see 30min ish of your day/weeks so can’t really judge a relationship on that, anyway really do wish you both the best and hope you get it sorted xx
U both need to chill and enjoy what u got today don't worry about years down the road .yur both young enjoy yur life together and everything else will fall into place as and when it's meant to xxxx
I agree with Jed unless you buy a house and rent it out and get another house together then I get it but to live separately after a year then it’s going backwards I think your such a lovely couple not hate but I agree with Jed
You could buy property and still love together. Rent/do it up etc but agree with Jed living separate after living together is moving backwards. You don’t need to be engaged/married to get a mortgage the financials protect both but if that’s a goal then go for it. Try not to put pressure on plans and things always change ☺️
It took us 8 years to get engaged, and we got engaged 4 years ago! Absolutely no rush at all! There’s also SO much protection in place when you buy a house, to ensure both parties have their entitled share :) we know a married couple who brought their first home and divorced within 4 months 😂
You guys will sort any and everything as it comes up in your relationship. I'm a planner and need to know whats coming, but it's great having a partner that's more chilled. It's a great balance!!! ❤ 😁
I think sharing relationship prospects on the internet when you're not entirely sure/decided on it yourselves is a recipe for disaster. Figure it out together and share the decision once its made, that's my advice! ❤️
Imogen doesn’t make sense she says she wants to buy house herself but then says she wouldn’t buy house unless engaged or married …she’s needs to relax and chill out …..student days have changed flats in Canary Wharf …very good !!!!
Easy solution: One person buys a flat in London, the other buys a country house or a vacation property *but I agree, don’t get a mortgage until you’ve got a ring on it! 💥
I completely understand where Imogen is coming from, but I do understand Jeds POV. Like I want to get married etc but then I'm like do I? To want to be married by a certain point and kind of expecting it will be a big down fall if it doesn't happen! Live in the moment, enjoy your time while it happens, dont think too far ahead! xxx
I agree with Imogen. She wants to set her self up. It also works in Jed’s favour. This is a long term investment and she has a business mindset. I think her point is that one day either one of them can rent one out so it can be paying itself off while the other is their home. Or alternatively, sell both in the future and buy a family home together. This is a good idea and regardless if Jed thinks it’s a good idea or not, you should go through with it. You are setting yourself up and if you have the opportunity to buy an investment, why wouldn’t you.💖 I understand why people are saying it’s a step backwards to not live but these are options you can explore when you have an investment. 💖
I just bought my first ever home with my partner of 4 years at the age of 24. We aren't engaged. Buying a home together is a bigger commitment than a engagement ring. Many people have a ring and never get the full commitment. Its easier to get out of a mortage than a marriage as there's so much in place.
Absolutely love this video 😂😂 guys, you at soooooo young: RELAX, you have no idea what the life will throw at you. It's good to have goals but don't put a time pressure on these things, see where you are in a year and how you feel. You can then decide what you want to do next.
Imogen is right! Why would you get a mortgage with someone who you aren't married or engaged too? What happens when you separate and all the financially aspect? It gets all messy and unnecessary.
This is in the moment moving in together. U just don't match. She is just too much. She has her own ideas for the future. You can buy a house together. Woman you are definitely not making sense. Enjoy it why it lasts
Sweetheart you are absolutely right. This relationship is not for life I know that’s harsh but it’s reality. Go and get your own property relationship or not you need to invest in yourself and this is healthy and brilliant for your future even if you rented it out. Get on the property ladder asap if you can believe me it’s the best thing you can do. Don’t let Jed talk you out of that I’m not being nasty but he’s not really the business man type and he isn’t very smart. I mean what does he do for a living? Being realistic just don’t ever let a man especially at your age stand in the way of your future. You’re a very intelligent girl with goals… never lose that. All the best with your degree.. beginning of achievements, another thing for your bright future. All the best x
@@lauslora6511 I said this relationship isn’t for life. I mean it wasn’t a dig it’s reality and they are both young. Think it would be a shame if this girl didn’t get a house and get those goals in place at her age which is the perfect time and she has her head screwed on. Go buy that property girl!! (If she even reads this lol) best thing you will ever do believe me! Why not do this young so you don’t have to worry when you’re older you’ll have it all 😁This guys own sister knows what I’m talking about she’s doing exactly what this girl wants to do but Jed is trying to stop her because he thinks that it’s not normal for a relationship? He should be encouraging her to go do it 💯
@@lauslora6511 And whatever she does…. DO NOT get no mortgage with a partner! Especially at her age! Big mistake get your own place in YOUR name and nobody can take that from you. Little nest egg
Wow, bit harsh? You say he isn't the business type and not very smart yet he's currently living in Canary wharf.. yeah, sounds like he hadn't got a clue.. 😂
I agree. I think it's a step backwards, I understand Imo though and it being an independent thing to do. but once you're in a relationship you have to consider the other & merge lives. That could've happened before moving out with someone
Every home looks more cosy with a woman’s touch 🥰 I moved into my partners house 3 years ago and finally felt comfortable putting my touch on the place, it’s grey white and silver with a bit of baby pink and everyone compliments on how better it looks and feels, but a lot of men have good taste and styles too x
I totally agree with Jed if Imogen feels like that then she clearly doesn’t enjoy living with Jed because I know if I moved in it’s my boyfriend I would hate him leaving me for an hour let alone not live with me after a year
After watching this, my relationship is soo much like yours and Jeds. I'm 25, my partner is 22. I'm always thinking about future goals and wanting to know when we can hit them/for them to happen so I can prepare myself. I like to know when things will happen😂 My partner on the other hand is like jed, just chilled and laid back. I guess when us woman want something soo much and so badly, we want to know when it'll happen. We are only young for a while. Before you know it, you're 80 and can't do what you have always wanted to do. Time goes very quickly when you're a bit older
Red flag right here !! Why would you move in with a boyfriend then want to buy your own house by yourself !! Dont really see the sense in that !! Strange !!
There are no rules to these things. Maybe she wants to experience living alone too, she may be unhappy if she doesn’t get to achieve this. I also think couples staying together is rare these days because of dating apps etc it’s not going backwards if she gets her own house, she’s still young. Don’t be in a rush to progress the relationship on. Enjoy both being independent if needed. Personal development is so important these days I feel.
You are both 20….TWENTY! Slow down and just know you can’t plan these ‘life events’ you have mentioned! Just enjoy being young and taking on all the job, opportunities you can take and your relationship will naturally develop alongside it all! You have all the time in the world to settle down together!
I’m exactly the same as Imogen w all her viewpoints n my bf is the same as Jed lol I have individual goals that I want. Same w the proposal n house thing lol x
I'm also guessing you both don't currently live together. Because Jed and Imogen's situation is much different in the sense that they both agreed to live together, for her to only say now that in a years time she wants to live separate. that's 100% taking a step back and I think that's why he feels like that. If she decided to get her own place before this one, then it would be a different story. You can be independent and live with someone, if you can't. wrong relationship. ( I LOVE that she has these goals, but c'mon Jed is right for feeling like their relationship is going backwards, it would feel like a break up)
To buy different houses and not live together is taking such a step backwards! You shouldn’t need to live alone to be independent! You can buy a property and rent it out… but you should t move backwards from living together and then not! It’s silly! Massive red flag!!! 🙈
I completely get where Imogen is coming from, just boils down to the fact that Jed is still relatively young but there’s plenty of guys who wouldn’t react like that when the topic of marriage is brought up! I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a boyfriend. Just my opinion! :)
I totally agree were there both coming from but sometimes you can test a relationship out by loving together she might be having doubts about living together that's my opinion. But if she does want to buy a house and Jed doesnt then if they both split up they will still have a morgage together and there only young. Safe arguments buy a house next door to each other lol but love there vlogs.
If you're having it as a safety net good for you sweet but its like you can not trust the relationship with jed, but then if you want your own houses fair enough everybodys different, you might have a baby and it all change xx
Married woman here with a little boy! Suggestion.. why not live together BUT Imogen have your own savings so if you want to invest in something one day or have a “safety net” for yourself, have a seperate account and instead of money going into a property have it in the bank and not touch it.. who knows where you’ll be in 2/6 years at least you’ll have a massive chunk of money ❤️
Red flags 🚩🚩 As soon as Imogen mentioned her wanting to buy her own house and live in it, seeing Jed’s reaction I was gobsmacked. He’s definitely not mature enough to think logically about this, whereas Imogen was making so much sense, knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to speak of it, which she shouldn’t be anyway. Jed says he’s supportive of this decision, but he’s not instead he’s being toxic and disagreeing and basically telling them they have to live together and won’t look at it in any other way. I think that Imogen is being really smart, and is doing really well for herself. Just because she wants to do this does not mean she’s rejecting you Jed, she’s honestly thinking of the future and doing something a lot of young people wish they could do also!
I agree with Imogen my dad is always said by your own House first before anyone else as say if you split up you’re left with a mortgage to pay together!
I get it but i think it would be a waste of money slightly sorry You could get a house and have a building on the property like guesthouse/ one them could decorate it like Imogen.
I think maybe you should buy a house together and then you Imogen could buy a house but not live in it just work on it and maybe sell it as a personal step or accomplishment
the answer is clear i think she said it but doesnt want to admit it she insecure and want to feel like she is in a stable relationship so the answer to that is time and patience and jed just needs to just reinforce the fact he is hers problem solved and in time the having two houses will be a thing of the past
Personally I don’t think it’s a step backwards.. it’s important to have your own independence and experience your own independence especially at a young age. You learn so much just figuring out bills by yourself, budgeting by yourself, setting your own rules. There’s so much self independence you learn by living alone I think it’s important initially. You Both are young to experience this and then live together later on.
I totally agree with Imogen, having your own goal and achievements in life are massive. Wanting to buy your own house totally makes sense. If Imogen wants to buy her own house Jed could live in Imogen’s house with her until they are ready to move further in their relationship and are willing to commit to each other for the rest of their lives. I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a partner that I wasn’t engaged to. I feel nowadays the younger generation and a lot smarter and care about what happens. If you bought a house together and then broke up it would be a lot more tying with a house involved. Totally agree with Imogen just looking out for herself and her future. At such a young age I feel she’s very street smart
Being 29 and have come out of a 7 year relationship, I personally think different houses are a good idea just for space and independence I think he will understand when he sees it x
I agree with imagen I love the old traditional lifestyle do whatever makes you both happy even though your in the public eye doesn't mean you shouldn't be individuals ❤️
I agree with Jed. To not live together after living together is going backwards. If you wanted to live by yourself for your own independence you should have done that before moving in with a partner.
100% agree
You can buy a house together and it’s still an achievement .. makes no difference whether you do it alone or do it together it’s still a big achievement buying a house.
I do see it as going backwards if you move back out together to buy your own houses after only just living together agree with Jed x
I 100% agree, being independent is amazing! but you can still be that when you're living with your significant other, and in my opinion, if you feel like you can't then it's not the right relationship for you. Also I agree that buying a house together is still a huge achievement, I think its even more so because you're able to do it with the person you're planning on spending the rest of your life with! it's something you both can look back on and say wow we did that. I agree with Jed too, in my opinion if that was my relationship It would almost feel like a break up because its taking a huge step backwards. I understand Imogen wants that safety net, but you should have thought about this before moving in together, and should have lived alone first before taking this step forward because moving in together is a huge thing in a relationship, now you want that taken away after a year living together its kind of a punch in the face to Jed. I also believe that this conversation should of happened before moving to this place because I don't think you guys would be living together right now if this was out in the opened. Love to both of you. xx
As a property lawyer, I've seen many go down this route and return back to our firm a few months later to sell the property because they broke up. It is not wise, and most decent lawyers would advice against boyfriends and girlfriends buying properties together (especially since they're very young). Imogen is wise. They can purchase their individual properties and live together in one of the properties. Women who can afford it should have their own assets.
@@SA-xk7lk I understand completely, but Jeds argument wasn't that she couldn't buy her own place, she was saying she wants to live separate after a year living together already, so Jeds point is that, its going backwards in the relationship if she wants to go from living together, to living separate
If you’ve already lived together why change it after a year! Jed right Imogen it’s going backwards after that!
Chill out love, obviously that isn’t going to happen realistically. Imogen was just stating a goal she has always had I.e before she even met Jed and saying it, there’s nothing wrong with that.
@@allybx4560 I never said there was anything wrong it but it’s just an opinion I have! I’m not judging I think they make a nice couple and they’ll probably make the right decision when the time comes
Not trying to be negative, but I'll just spit it out and say what I think I'm seeing...
First thing I noticed is Imogen doesn't look happy. Like I don't know the two of these two well, but she just looks miserable. If she's with you for the money or the hanging onto your 15 seconds on TH-cam it won't last... just saying.
Then I saw all the comments...
Yeah I agree. Red flags everywhere.
I agree with Jed completely.
so much to say about this but yet so little needs to be said. I think you needed to have this chat off camera and shouldn't of uploaded the video
Red flags Jed 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 also spending to much time together can make you bicker, I can’t understand why she wants to buy her own place and you both live separately? I understand investing in a property, and the no mortgage until engaged is like a kind of manipulation, compromise is the key and don’t feel pressured into anything your not ready for, everything happens for a reason and if she is not the one then the one is still out there, also we only see 30min ish of your day/weeks so can’t really judge a relationship on that, anyway really do wish you both the best and hope you get it sorted xx
Felt like I was watching couples therapy
they won't last
Maybe a video not for the world to see 🥰 hope you manage to compromise and find a middle ground x
U both need to chill and enjoy what u got today don't worry about years down the road .yur both young enjoy yur life together and everything else will fall into place as and when it's meant to xxxx
I agree with Jed unless you buy a house and rent it out and get another house together then I get it but to live separately after a year then it’s going backwards I think your such a lovely couple not hate but I agree with Jed
You could buy property and still love together. Rent/do it up etc but agree with Jed living separate after living together is moving backwards. You don’t need to be engaged/married to get a mortgage the financials protect both but if that’s a goal then go for it. Try not to put pressure on plans and things always change ☺️
It took us 8 years to get engaged, and we got engaged 4 years ago! Absolutely no rush at all! There’s also SO much protection in place when you buy a house, to ensure both parties have their entitled share :) we know a married couple who brought their first home and divorced within 4 months 😂
Why would yous move in and then live sepretley. That wouldnt work. Big red flag Jed…
I agree with imogen would only want to buy a house with someone i married/engaged with
Jed thinks ‘together’ Imogen thinks ‘me me me’
Massive red flags 🚩🚩
I think that is so mature of Imogen to want her own house for herself as a safety net
Omg you are both SO young still to be stressing about this stuff, everything will work out how it should
You guys will sort any and everything as it comes up in your relationship. I'm a planner and need to know whats coming, but it's great having a partner that's more chilled. It's a great balance!!! ❤ 😁
I think sharing relationship prospects on the internet when you're not entirely sure/decided on it yourselves is a recipe for disaster. Figure it out together and share the decision once its made, that's my advice! ❤️
Imogen doesn’t make sense she says she wants to buy house herself but then says she wouldn’t buy house unless engaged or married …she’s needs to relax and chill out …..student days have changed flats in Canary Wharf …very good !!!!
Easy solution: One person buys a flat in London, the other buys a country house or a vacation property *but I agree, don’t get a mortgage until you’ve got a ring on it! 💥
Buy separate houses…than rent one out… its not backwards move.. its a good choice.. buy two next to each other… hehe… than long term combine them haha
I completely understand where Imogen is coming from, but I do understand Jeds POV. Like I want to get married etc but then I'm like do I? To want to be married by a certain point and kind of expecting it will be a big down fall if it doesn't happen! Live in the moment, enjoy your time while it happens, dont think too far ahead! xxx
I agree with Imogen. She wants to set her self up. It also works in Jed’s favour. This is a long term investment and she has a business mindset. I think her point is that one day either one of them can rent one out so it can be paying itself off while the other is their home. Or alternatively, sell both in the future and buy a family home together. This is a good idea and regardless if Jed thinks it’s a good idea or not, you should go through with it. You are setting yourself up and if you have the opportunity to buy an investment, why wouldn’t you.💖 I understand why people are saying it’s a step backwards to not live but these are options you can explore when you have an investment. 💖
‘We don’t argue’ to this video leading too so many arguments
They 'don't argue' yet they argue in every video... so contradicting.
You should let jed talk
Like saffron lol
No just NO
I agree with Jed
I just bought my first ever home with my partner of 4 years at the age of 24. We aren't engaged. Buying a home together is a bigger commitment than a engagement ring. Many people have a ring and never get the full commitment. Its easier to get out of a mortage than a marriage as there's so much in place.
Absolutely love this video 😂😂 guys, you at soooooo young: RELAX, you have no idea what the life will throw at you. It's good to have goals but don't put a time pressure on these things, see where you are in a year and how you feel. You can then decide what you want to do next.
Imogen is right! Why would you get a mortgage with someone who you aren't married or engaged too? What happens when you separate and all the financially aspect? It gets all messy and unnecessary.
It’s the exact same process
true but that is what couples do when they consider their partner long term....
@@EmmaM-q1l true but its a very big risk! Speaking from experience
Didn't work out and became a big mess when we separated
This is in the moment moving in together. U just don't match. She is just too much. She has her own ideas for the future. You can buy a house together. Woman you are definitely not making sense. Enjoy it why it lasts
Sweetheart you are absolutely right. This relationship is not for life I know that’s harsh but it’s reality. Go and get your own property relationship or not you need to invest in yourself and this is healthy and brilliant for your future even if you rented it out. Get on the property ladder asap if you can believe me it’s the best thing you can do. Don’t let Jed talk you out of that I’m not being nasty but he’s not really the business man type and he isn’t very smart. I mean what does he do for a living? Being realistic just don’t ever let a man especially at your age stand in the way of your future. You’re a very intelligent girl with goals… never lose that. All the best with your degree.. beginning of achievements, another thing for your bright future. All the best x
whatttt if you do not think the relationship is for life then you need to end things.
@@lauslora6511 Who?
@@lauslora6511 I said this relationship isn’t for life. I mean it wasn’t a dig it’s reality and they are both young. Think it would be a shame if this girl didn’t get a house and get those goals in place at her age which is the perfect time and she has her head screwed on. Go buy that property girl!! (If she even reads this lol) best thing you will ever do believe me! Why not do this young so you don’t have to worry when you’re older you’ll have it all 😁This guys own sister knows what I’m talking about she’s doing exactly what this girl wants to do but Jed is trying to stop her because he thinks that it’s not normal for a relationship? He should be encouraging her to go do it 💯
@@lauslora6511 And whatever she does…. DO NOT get no mortgage with a partner! Especially at her age! Big mistake get your own place in YOUR name and nobody can take that from you. Little nest egg
Wow, bit harsh? You say he isn't the business type and not very smart yet he's currently living in Canary wharf.. yeah, sounds like he hadn't got a clue.. 😂
Not sure why you need to be engaged to buy a house
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Move in together again after a yesr.. imogen can save and buy herself another property then to rent out. Anything else. Red flag ! Weird.
just live here now embrace moment focus what have
100% agree with Jed 🤦♀️ doesnt make sence atall
I agree. I think it's a step backwards, I understand Imo though and it being an independent thing to do. but once you're in a relationship you have to consider the other & merge lives. That could've happened before moving out with someone
different houses? lmaoooo?
You could buy your own properties, live together and rent them out then you still have your own properties but still live together x
maybe you should just see how you both get on living together first. you guys are great
Imogen let him speak! 😂
Another Saffron
Every home looks more cosy with a woman’s touch 🥰 I moved into my partners house 3 years ago and finally felt comfortable putting my touch on the place, it’s grey white and silver with a bit of baby pink and everyone compliments on how better it looks and feels, but a lot of men have good taste and styles too x
I totally agree with Jed if Imogen feels like that then she clearly doesn’t enjoy living with Jed because I know if I moved in it’s my boyfriend I would hate him leaving me for an hour let alone not live with me after a year
Same hahaha!! My partner goes out for a couple hours and im missing him already
After watching this, my relationship is soo much like yours and Jeds. I'm 25, my partner is 22. I'm always thinking about future goals and wanting to know when we can hit them/for them to happen so I can prepare myself. I like to know when things will happen😂 My partner on the other hand is like jed, just chilled and laid back. I guess when us woman want something soo much and so badly, we want to know when it'll happen. We are only young for a while. Before you know it, you're 80 and can't do what you have always wanted to do. Time goes very quickly when you're a bit older
Wanting to live alone after living together is definitely moving backwards 🏮⚠️
Red flag right here !! Why would you move in with a boyfriend then want to buy your own house by yourself !! Dont really see the sense in that !!
Strange !!
If you aren’t ready to get married you probably aren’t ready for a mortgage 😂 you guys are stressing me out haha
There are no rules to these things. Maybe she wants to experience living alone too, she may be unhappy if she doesn’t get to achieve this. I also think couples staying together is rare these days because of dating apps etc it’s not going backwards if she gets her own house, she’s still young. Don’t be in a rush to progress the relationship on. Enjoy both being independent if needed. Personal development is so important these days I feel.
I can agree but she also had the chance to live alone before moving in with Jed, It would almost feel like a breakup
You are both 20….TWENTY! Slow down and just know you can’t plan these ‘life events’ you have mentioned! Just enjoy being young and taking on all the job, opportunities you can take and your relationship will naturally develop alongside it all! You have all the time in the world to settle down together!
I’m exactly the same as Imogen w all her viewpoints n my bf is the same as Jed lol I have individual goals that I want. Same w the proposal n house thing lol x
I'm also guessing you both don't currently live together. Because Jed and Imogen's situation is much different in the sense that they both agreed to live together, for her to only say now that in a years time she wants to live separate. that's 100% taking a step back and I think that's why he feels like that. If she decided to get her own place before this one, then it would be a different story. You can be independent and live with someone, if you can't. wrong relationship. ( I LOVE that she has these goals, but c'mon Jed is right for feeling like their relationship is going backwards, it would feel like a break up)
@@BiggyKay14 guessed wrong
Same as ne and my man. Very much like these two
Go with the Flooowww and stop over thinking
To buy different houses and not live together is taking such a step backwards! You shouldn’t need to live alone to be independent! You can buy a property and rent it out… but you should t move backwards from living together and then not! It’s silly! Massive red flag!!! 🙈
Love the very raw content just a suggestion if it’s a mum bang you want to set the camera so the food is in the frame through our
I agree with Jed but I understand Imogen
What is the point in Living together to go separately
I completely get where Imogen is coming from, just boils down to the fact that Jed is still relatively young but there’s plenty of guys who wouldn’t react like that when the topic of marriage is brought up! I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a boyfriend. Just my opinion! :)
I totally agree were there both coming from but sometimes you can test a relationship out by loving together she might be having doubts about living together that's my opinion. But if she does want to buy a house and Jed doesnt then if they both split up they will still have a morgage together and there only young. Safe arguments buy a house next door to each other lol but love there vlogs.
If you're having it as a safety net good for you sweet but its like you can not trust the relationship with jed, but then if you want your own houses fair enough everybodys different, you might have a baby and it all change xx
The most “destined for breakup” relationship I’ve witnessed 🥴
i agree 100% they are the total opposite is the impression i get. They don't agree on anything
Relationships are about compromise x
Imogen seems like high maintenance
So?
Why?
Just thought she did in that vid, I do really like her btw just an observation I had
she's a brat and she used Jed to get famous in a few years she will leave him
Buy a house together?? You can invest together its, buy properties together doesn't mean youre not independent x
God he's annoying, all about him, he's trying to dictate everything. You do what you think it right for you
Married woman here with a little boy! Suggestion.. why not live together BUT Imogen have your own savings so if you want to invest in something one day or have a “safety net” for yourself, have a seperate account and instead of money going into a property have it in the bank and not touch it.. who knows where you’ll be in 2/6 years at least you’ll have a massive chunk of money ❤️
Red flags 🚩🚩
As soon as Imogen mentioned her wanting to buy her own house and live in it, seeing Jed’s reaction I was gobsmacked. He’s definitely not mature enough to think logically about this, whereas Imogen was making so much sense, knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to speak of it, which she shouldn’t be anyway. Jed says he’s supportive of this decision, but he’s not instead he’s being toxic and disagreeing and basically telling them they have to live together and won’t look at it in any other way. I think that Imogen is being really smart, and is doing really well for herself. Just because she wants to do this does not mean she’s rejecting you Jed, she’s honestly thinking of the future and doing something a lot of young people wish they could do also!
Also I want to add on; sorry Imogen’s goals are too big for your ego.. 😏
Omg im same as imogen! I need to have a plan and something to work towards and aspire for. X
I agree with Imogen my dad is always said by your own House first before anyone else as say if you split up you’re left with a mortgage to pay together!
I get it but i think it would be a waste of money slightly sorry You could get a house and have a building on the property like guesthouse/ one them could decorate it like Imogen.
Why dont you both live at home go traveling and wait till youre ready, ready for engagements have fun xx
The y could be bio degradable forks and knives
You two are so cute together! Love you both millions!😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Jeeeeeez RELAX
So happy for u guys and how well ur relationship is going🥺❤️
Haven’t seen it but probs click bait
@@chloenoice4475 it was an assumption that someone made… There was an assumption about engagement/marriage too… So isn’t click bait hun xx
You guys are 20, you have so much time ahead to do all those things. Enjoy life while you are young
probably feels pressured into it because of jed’s siblings…
I think maybe you should buy a house together and then you Imogen could buy a house but not live in it just work on it and maybe sell it as a personal step or accomplishment
the answer is clear i think she said it but doesnt want to admit it she insecure and want to feel like she is in a stable relationship so the answer to that is time and patience and jed just needs to just reinforce the fact he is hers problem solved and in time the having two houses will be a thing of the past
If you knew you was for the long haul, engagement or marriage… shouldn’t affect the house! 🙈
Love this content !
new sub x
You can still buy a house together after this house. To live together and then buy a separate house is going backwards. I agree with Jed
She wants commitment 🥰
Imogen is right re each of you having your own properties 😊
Anyone else see baby in the title and click straight on it 😂😂
That's why he did it jed is great at clickbait
Personally I don’t think it’s a step backwards.. it’s important to have your own independence and experience your own independence especially at a young age. You learn so much just figuring out bills by yourself, budgeting by yourself, setting your own rules. There’s so much self independence you learn by living alone I think it’s important initially. You Both are young to experience this and then live together later on.
I've been with my partner 13 years with 6 year old and no ring and no marriage as other half doesn't even belive in marriage
I totally agree with Imogen, having your own goal and achievements in life are massive. Wanting to buy your own house totally makes sense. If Imogen wants to buy her own house Jed could live in Imogen’s house with her until they are ready to move further in their relationship and are willing to commit to each other for the rest of their lives. I wouldn’t want to buy a house with a partner that I wasn’t engaged to. I feel nowadays the younger generation and a lot smarter and care about what happens. If you bought a house together and then broke up it would be a lot more tying with a house involved. Totally agree with Imogen just looking out for herself and her future. At such a young age I feel she’s very street smart
It makes so much sense to have your own lives but still chose to spend them together ❤️
The fact that you discuss different houses is a good thing learning to understand eachother 🥰
Great video
I agree with Imogen
Being 29 and have come out of a 7 year relationship, I personally think different houses are a good idea just for space and independence I think he will understand when he sees it x
ahah aw no , clickbait tile
Love you guys
I agree with imagen I love the old traditional lifestyle do whatever makes you both happy even though your in the public eye doesn't mean you shouldn't be individuals ❤️
where is imogen from
Bro literally lives for food