Part 2 be fair don't compare. To each their own

Be supportive and don't criticize people when you're trying to help them meet their goals. After losing my vision, I've had a few friends try to encourage me to meet my goals, but I found it more destructive because it made me reflect too much about myself as well as feeling judged and criticized

[@kwintos88]

This is a very good life lesson thnx 👍

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

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[@marianar2948]

Mark being a voice of reason as always! :)

[@markehlert979]

And thank you! But not always. I have my moments too. Ha ha

[@michaael2393]

Thank you again Mark. Currently going through a tough time and your vlogs help me feel connected and supported

[@markehlert979]

You're welcome, I'm glad I can be able to help. But sorry if you are going through a rough time right now. You're welcome to reach out if I can do anything or you need a friend to talk to

[@michaael2393]

@@markehlert979Thank you- what is the best way to reach out?

[@markehlert979]

@@michaael2393 best place find me on Facebook and send a PM

[@mitch5222]

It is not easy not to compare for me. I just don't get why life is so unfair.

[@markehlert979]

Yeah, it really is easy to compare ourself to others. It's something I used to do all the time. but when I started realizing how much it was affecting me make me feel worse, I realize it's something I didn't want to do. Rather than wanting what other people have and ask myself why I can't get it, I do positive talks. I explained to myself why I'm not there yet to justify and give myself reasons. And then I try to think of ways to get to where I want to be and meet my goals

[@mitch5222]

@@markehlert979 i admire u.

[@markehlert979]

And thank you so much! That means a lot to me. And I want you to know that you can be able to get to this point too. I really admire and congratulate you for being so honest and being aware of these things about yourself. Because that's the first step to help yourself