*NEW VIDEO: PROACTIVE V. REACTIVE TASKS!* I made a video explaining it a little more clearly! th-cam.com/video/t2Snl1IHrTA/w-d-xo.html | Thank you so much for your comments below telling me to make this deep dive video! Your feedback is making me so much better a teacher! xo
I wish this content was taught to high school students. I know it seems like common sense but so many teenagers don't have this guidance. This content is gold.
There’s one thing that really inspired me in this video. You use the word “desire” instead of goals, dreams, bla bla. I’ve watched so much similar videos but nobody used the word “desire”. I found it artificial and not so easy to come up goals and dreams, but when I think of desire, they come out so easily. Also, much more true to me.
I look at the Brain Dump as the 1,000 steps in my journey. The planning with the Eisenhower matrix helps me choose which step to make first. It might be "Sort through the 50 boxes in the garage." The matrix will say, "Schedule 30 minutes each day to sort through 3 boxes in the garage." I have 3 "Brain Dumps" to make for 3 parts of my life, so now it will be easier to take each step each day. As someone once said, "An hour of work on a mess is an hour of work on a mess." Thank you for this video (and the one that came before). It will help me set my "agenda" for planning for each week. Now I just have to do it.
PROACTIVE VS. REACTIVE TASKS! A (hopefully better) explanation: Proactive tasks are things that you need to do that directly contribute to making your goals happen. Reactive tasks are things that usually hold you back in your individual situation. They tend to sound like excuses. Reactive tasks could be inspired by negative thoughts such as: “I don’t have enough help with my kid to focus on my dreams.” Or “People come into my office and bother me too much, preventing me from real focus.” Or “I always get thrown off when something changes in my schedule and I don’t know what to do next.” When you have your “reasons” why things don’t get done, coming up with the tasks that help you solve for those reactive moments will help your plans get executed a little more effectively. Is this helpful? Should we do a video of this all on its own? Would love your thoughts!
as a mom, homeschooler, entrepreneur, and bible study teacher, I have a lot on my plate and this was fantastic for me as a planner! Thank you so very much!
Right! I’m also a mom and homeschooler and my youngest son is on the spectrum so I really want to be more intentional about supplementing his speech therapy and physical therapy at home along with other things…
You're a hero without a cape 👏🏼 start your own chanel, I'm a christian too, no kids, not married and I can't even handle myself lolol... you gotta have a LOT to teach girl! Bravo!
I really need this! I have add and depression issues. I got sober about 4 years ago and while I have made great improvements. I still don’t plan anything out really. I really want to live my life with intention and purpose. I think watching your videos will help me reach my goals. I’m purchasing a planner today so that maybe I can become a happier person.
Creating this MAP overwhelmed me but I kept pushing because this is something important to me and I really want to achieve my goals instead of just saying I should do them💪 Thank you so much for this fresh perspective on goal setting ❤
This is so helpful. Sometimes l get frozen because I can't do it all, and I feel like I should. I needed this permission slip to let somethings go and focus on what is most important. In my quest to do it all, I've done nothing. Thank you for this valuable tool. I believe it will help me focus.
I needed this a lot! I'm a college student living paycheck-to-paycheck and while my deadline of getting my goals achieved is way out (I set it for 2030 when I'm 35), I think a lot of these day-to-day goals can be put into place a lot easier! Thank you for sharing!
Hi Amy thanks for sharing this great content, I found your wisdom so inspirational. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
@eiraAntoinette I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
This channel actually shows how to do it....... I follow many productivity enhancer youtuber so to say..... But they just blabber the same thing....... But she is different....... I'm so happy that I found your channel.....🌻
things I found helpful and could help improve this method through out the video: 1: at desires I recommend putting a time limit before you write them down parts like month ,weeks and years example I want organize my room and make it stay that way I give my self a week at first to see how its going if it went good ill go 1 month then ill bump its to 2 months if it goes wrong ill bump back down etc. 2: again at desires I recommend not crossing them out put setting them for after you complete the goal 3: at brains dump is a helpful way for people who don't know how to express there emotions or dump their brain like me I recommend to take time and really think about what you can do if its still hard I recommend dividing the 3 goals and doing it separately try having at least 3 pro and 3 re for every goal 4: I found the matrix the most helpful of the steps it lets you continue to organize your thoughts and find different way to pic your brain if you need help like I did just reply to my comment and ill help with a solution to organizing and motivational
This is a wonderful video! I often find myself with a disconnect between my dreams, and what to actually DO on a daily basis. I like the idea of brain dumping all the tiny actions that will get me to my goal. It makes them much less intimidating 😊
Amy Landino, you are the funniest lady. I am only 1.28 mins into this video & it looks like you are not only going to be entertaining but provide value as well. I’m not a newbie to business but I am a newbie to getting all stuck in my own “business”. I love it when the Universe provides us with exactly what we need when it’s really important. I have put aside October for a full review of 2023, what still needs to get done for the year to finish on a high & mapping for 2024. I have started mapping all of this out of my head but felt a little cluttered & fuzzy. I had just finished journaling this morning & doing some Innercising on Procrastination when up popped an iPhone Photography notification. 😮 When I clicked on it 😮“distraction”😊 it didn’t land so I went looking for it & found an attractive image (your video - “distraction”) 😂 but it turned out to be a good distraction. I’m looking forward to keeping in touch some more. 🎉❤
I have to thank you so much for this. I've gotten really skeptical about a lot of organization, self improvement, planning methods over the years, but the M.A.P. format flipped a switch in me like nothing else ever has. I always felt (and still feel, really) like I've got SO much to do, so much to accomplish and its all overwhelming because I could never prioritize or focus on any one thing, so it all felt urgent and it was paralyzing to the point of not doing anything at all. You really helped me get it all down, narrow my focus to the top 3 most important things and really gun it. I've made leaps and bounds over the last year and into 2024 that I've been stalled out on for almost a decade now. Thank you so much, Amy.
I literally had to pause the video when she said 'desires'. I DESIRES that organizer, so pretty. It will help me want to write in it. Ok back to the video, so far so good. 😁
the moment you mentioned you intend to reach 1M subscribers, i instantly subscribed to your channel because i feel the desire in you. Guy please borrow a leaf from this madam and always voice out your needs, you never know who your audience are
So, proactive is something that you're starting new? And reactive is something that you have to change? I needed this video! So so so helpful, thank you!!!
Amy, THANK YOU!! I've seen the grid before but no one has broken it down task--by-task like you did. Other people who have shown this to me assume I know what goes in what boxes. But to my mind everything is important and urgent, so it left me feeling like a bull charging at red capes in every direction. Now this grid system makes sense.
By the way you give clarity and direction to many I can tell you're changing alot of lives alot more than alot of people that have 1 million subscribers. Hope you make it to 1 million if not thank you for doing the impossible keeping a good soul and helping people get their lives together. Thank you for this tip I really needed this. Thank you. 💐
I love you, Amy. Been watching you for years. You inspire me every time. Hope to be more like you and work with you one day. Meantime, thank you for always giving me hope and wise advice in my unique life situations. All my love, Jamie
I am home with my two kids every day. I have big goals and live overstimulated, reactive and unable to prioritise anything before home tasks and looking after my babies. I needed this video more than anything! Saving, rewatching, subscribing! Working on my TH-cam channel and my podcast are huge goals for me and I stumbled across your channel at the perfect time! 🤍🤍🤍
Amy, this was just what I needed! Thank you so much!! 😍I hope you don't mind me sharing a mom regret with you? Please don't make "fulltime daycare" a goal. That's a big regret for me as I realized later how much our littles need us and not strangers at a daycare. 🙏❤
Daycare is not strangers, kids get to know and love their daycare providers! Each kid is different and full time daycare works super well for a lot of families. I understand if it didn't work for you but I wouldn't assume it'll be the same for others.
I agree. It didn’t make sense to me to have someone else raise my daughter, as good as the daycare provider was. That’s why I left my full-time job and homeschool. I don’t regret my decision at all!❤
@@lizeeveeI’m not even a parent and I would avoid day care as much as possible because of all the true crime I watch and all the evil workers who are day care workers. You just never know. Same fear with nursing homes! lol
@@lizeeveeMy daughter works at the top daycare in our area (rated 5 stars.) The workers more often than not ignore the children and stand in groups talking, (My daughter is the only one paying attention to them. One day 19 little ones tried to hug her and she almost fell over.) Kids call her ‘Mommy.’ If she wasn’t there the kids would largely be ignored by the workers. The one time workers show up is to demand the kids look like they’re doing crafts even when they’re special needs & don’t want to. They don’t care how upset they get while they set up the pictures for the website. Daycare is a revolving door of changing faces so be prepared once your kid is attached - they usually leave due to low pay and / or hating their job. No one will ever love your kid like you do. If you were a child and scraped your knee, would you rather run to your Mommy or a daycare provider?
This is the blessing I did not know I needed!! I just subscribed to your channel. You're now one more subscriber closer to reaching 1 mil subscribers. Thank you for this helpful tool!
Love you Amy, have been watching you for years and if I was a youtuber in another life, I would've been doing exactly the same topics, same colors, same themes.. absolutely a delight to watch your Channel.. wish you all the best
Hi there, as a mum of a 4 year old: The little ones need their mums and dads, not just an hour before bedtime... a person with a strong bond to the family is a secure and strong person, so maybe you can rethink the decision to give her to all day daycare... Otherwise: Great Video, thanks for sharing 😘
I’ve always searched for how to plan my life and this is the only one video that explains perfectly well how to go about it. You don’t know what you have done for me by posting this 😢🥺🥺. Thank you so so much
Thank you for the creative solution ❤🎉🎉🎉❤ i'm so grateful and happy about it, i'm very appreciate that, really thank you so much, God bless you and your family ❤❤❤
So, I see lots of videos and tutorials on planning. But almost all of the time I am inspired, then confused. At the end, I am unsure how to implement what I "learned". This video was perfect because you walked us through actual thought processes. I don't think I ever saw a functional purpose for the Eisenhower Matrix until now! It just felt like "make work". Thanks!
I am back here to watch again!!! I have created a few plans and I am soooooo excited still 5 days later!! This video really helped me get clear about what I desire, the important tasks, a map, a brain dump which was a game changer for me! My go to video for motivatioin & inspriation xoxo love this video! : )
I just got you one subscriber closer to 1 million subscribers! Really enjoying your content. I am a woman who was diagnosed in my mid 50’s with ADHD. THAT…was a relief and sadly not a surprise. While not specific to ADHD I find your content doable and seemingly easy(ish) to implement.
I have been loving your videos lately! As a working mom, it’s so refreshing to hear someone who is also balancing that life. Best of luck getting Bianca into full-time care!
This a great video. Just watched while on the treadmill. Thank you for the practical tips. I wish I had seen it yesterday (Sunday) to help plan out my week. Instead I'm all over the place already this morning.
I love an actionable plan! I’ve never done the quadrants before, great idea. Combining this with time blocking on the calendar I’m certain will show results 👏
I love you, Amy! Been a follower sincen 2018 and it's only now that I've gotten back to your content again!! Rooting for you and your road to 1M subs!!
Can you help me understand the difference between proactive and reactive tasks? Thank you for this video! I’m sharing it with my real estate team to help them enhance their productivity ❤️
Hi! No problem I wish I explained it a little better for you. Basically the reactive column is to help you think of the things that tend to hold you back in your individual situation that usually sound like excuses. Like: “I don’t have enough help with my kid.” Or “People come into my office and bother me too much for me to focus.” Or “I always get thrown off when something changes in my schedule and I don’t know what to do next.” Or something like that. When you have your “reasons” why things don’t get done, coming up with the tasks that help you solve for those reactive moments will help your plans get executed a little more effectively. Is that more helpful?
I look at reactive as things that you have to respond to, as things come up, the lead was initiated from someone/something else, whereas proactive are things that you are choosing to do, you are taking the lead on or initiating, trying to get ahead of or prevent or start something.
WOW I really love this video! My problem is I try to do too much and feel like I'm not getting anything done! This will definitley help me focus and get a handle on this crazy roller coaster I seem to be on. Thank you!
This was a really good video. For someone who is always on go and always want more things done but at the same time feel like enough isn’t getting done! Thanks for this 🎉
Girl I SO needed this! I’m in the middle of taking several classes for a pretty massive career change, all while working full time and taking care of the household (Which is almost a full time job in itself 😂). This was so so helpful, thank you ❤
My Time Management is pretty bad, so this video was great! Would love to see even more content on structuring your days. What’s your advice to someone spending too much time on entertainment? I know “spend less time on it” would be common sense, but it’s almost like an addiction to binge 3-4 hours of TH-cam per night.
Came back for a second watch after the proactive/reactive video and found I was already halfway thru a second watch lol Thanks so much! Found you a month ago and your calendar blocking has worked SO STINKIN' WELL!
Amy, this is the video I needed! Thank you! I realized as I was narrowing my list to three that if I accomplish those three the others that I crossed out could be more easily accomplished. Thank you for helping me gain that vision!
Yes! I realised that too! If we become the people who can and do achieve our 3 chosen goals, that leads naturally on to some of our other goals! Oh, it's a beautiful thing!
This is so neurodivergent friendly. For someone who struggles with figuring out how to mentally attack challenges this strategy really gets right at the uncertainty that usually makes me tend to procrastinate. Bujo has failed me so this looks super promising! Thanks so much!
Thanks for adding humor into the video it totally keeps me interested. This video is also unlike any getting your shit together video I’ve seen. I just subscribed!
I hate the Eisenhower matrix. I have a really hard time determining which quadrant to put things. I don't think I can differentiate between urgent and important very well. My inclination is that everything should be in quadrant 1, but I know that some things have to go in the other quadrants, so I will put some things in the other quadrants, even though my true self would put them in quadrant 1 (maybe quadrant 2). I never feel like I do this exercise "correctly" (read: perfectly) which makes me feel like a failure before I even start. However, I did take away from the video the importance of prioritization. I'm going to try a day-by-day approach. Each morning I'll choose one thing I need to get done (apart from the daily things that always need to be done, like feed the children). I've already chosen my priority thing for today. Wish me luck!
*NEW VIDEO: PROACTIVE V. REACTIVE TASKS!* I made a video explaining it a little more clearly! th-cam.com/video/t2Snl1IHrTA/w-d-xo.html | Thank you so much for your comments below telling me to make this deep dive video! Your feedback is making me so much better a teacher! xo
I think proactive are long term and reactive are jhs short things done for a while to fix sth.
I wish this content was taught to high school students. I know it seems like common sense but so many teenagers don't have this guidance. This content is gold.
Agreed! 🙏🏻❤️
This is why I want to be a highschool guidance counselor.
There’s one thing that really inspired me in this video. You use the word “desire” instead of goals, dreams, bla bla. I’ve watched so much similar videos but nobody used the word “desire”. I found it artificial and not so easy to come up goals and dreams, but when I think of desire, they come out so easily. Also, much more true to me.
I totally relate! Isn’t it so crazy how the smallest shift can open your mind so much more? That’s very intuitive of you!
I look at the Brain Dump as the 1,000 steps in my journey. The planning with the Eisenhower matrix helps me choose which step to make first. It might be "Sort through the 50 boxes in the garage." The matrix will say, "Schedule 30 minutes each day to sort through 3 boxes in the garage." I have 3 "Brain Dumps" to make for 3 parts of my life, so now it will be easier to take each step each day. As someone once said, "An hour of work on a mess is an hour of work on a mess." Thank you for this video (and the one that came before). It will help me set my "agenda" for planning for each week. Now I just have to do it.
PROACTIVE VS. REACTIVE TASKS! A (hopefully better) explanation:
Proactive tasks are things that you need to do that directly contribute to making your goals happen.
Reactive tasks are things that usually hold you back in your individual situation. They tend to sound like excuses.
Reactive tasks could be inspired by negative thoughts such as:
“I don’t have enough help with my kid to focus on my dreams.”
Or
“People come into my office and bother me too much, preventing me from real focus.”
Or
“I always get thrown off when something changes in my schedule and I don’t know what to do next.”
When you have your “reasons” why things don’t get done, coming up with the tasks that help you solve for those reactive moments will help your plans get executed a little more effectively.
Is this helpful? Should we do a video of this all on its own? Would love your thoughts!
Definitely want a video on it!
Please do a video
Thanks cause I was a little lost 💀
Thank you so much!!!
Thank you for this video. It’s heaven sent ❤
Holy cow. This blew my mind. This is exactly what I needed.
😂😂😂😂
as a mom, homeschooler, entrepreneur, and bible study teacher, I have a lot on my plate and this was fantastic for me as a planner! Thank you so very much!
Wonderful!
There's zero value in that bible so you could snap out of it, it's hypnosis, and enjoy a better life with no fictional jewish ghost in the way.
Right! I’m also a mom and homeschooler and my youngest son is on the spectrum so I really want to be more intentional about supplementing his speech therapy and physical therapy at home along with other things…
You're a hero without a cape 👏🏼 start your own chanel, I'm a christian too, no kids, not married and I can't even handle myself lolol... you gotta have a LOT to teach girl! Bravo!
I really need this! I have add and depression issues. I got sober about 4 years ago and while I have made great improvements. I still don’t plan anything out really. I really want to live my life with intention and purpose. I think watching your videos will help me reach my goals. I’m purchasing a planner today so that maybe I can become a happier person.
Creating this MAP overwhelmed me but I kept pushing because this is something important to me and I really want to achieve my goals instead of just saying I should do them💪
Thank you so much for this fresh perspective on goal setting ❤
Samesies🥲
I've always loved making lists, but struggled to put everything I've noted into action. This video has helped so much!
Stop. Making. Lists. DO stuff.
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin wow thanks for your input
@nicolefine I’ve also struggled with this. This video broke down the process into something manageable.
This is so helpful. Sometimes l get frozen because I can't do it all, and I feel like I should. I needed this permission slip to let somethings go and focus on what is most important. In my quest to do it all, I've done nothing. Thank you for this valuable tool. I believe it will help me focus.
Rooting for you to get to 1 million before your 40th birthday!!
I needed this a lot! I'm a college student living paycheck-to-paycheck and while my deadline of getting my goals achieved is way out (I set it for 2030 when I'm 35), I think a lot of these day-to-day goals can be put into place a lot easier! Thank you for sharing!
Why was this SO helpful?
I’ve heard this before. Amy makes it click. Thank you!
Hi Amy thanks for sharing this great content, I found your wisdom so inspirational. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it!
I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations ma'am, Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you that's a great accomplishment keep it going 🎉
@eiraAntoinette I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
I noticed you used two cameras at once, and your content is starting to feel like a mini-lecture. It's the next level.:)
This channel actually shows how to do it....... I follow many productivity enhancer youtuber so to say..... But they just blabber the same thing....... But she is different.......
I'm so happy that I found your channel.....🌻
things I found helpful and could help improve this method through out the video:
1: at desires I recommend putting a time limit before you write them down parts like month ,weeks and years
example I want organize my room and make it stay that way I give my self a week at first to see how its going if it went good ill go 1 month then ill bump its to 2 months if it goes wrong ill bump back down etc.
2: again at desires I recommend not crossing them out put setting them for after you complete the goal
3: at brains dump is a helpful way for people who don't know how to express there emotions or dump their brain like me I recommend to take time and really think about what you can do if its still hard I recommend dividing the 3 goals and doing it separately try having at least 3 pro and 3 re for every goal
4: I found the matrix the most helpful of the steps it lets you continue to organize your thoughts and find different way to pic your brain
if you need help like I did just reply to my comment and ill help with a solution to organizing and motivational
This is a wonderful video! I often find myself with a disconnect between my dreams, and what to actually DO on a daily basis. I like the idea of brain dumping all the tiny actions that will get me to my goal. It makes them much less intimidating 😊
100%!! Really makes you look at what you must do very differently when it’s right in front of you!
I shared this with my son. He needs this even more than I do!!
Amy Landino, you are the funniest lady. I am only 1.28 mins into this video & it looks like you are not only going to be entertaining but provide value as well. I’m not a newbie to business but I am a newbie to getting all stuck in my own “business”. I love it when the Universe provides us with exactly what we need when it’s really important. I have put aside October for a full review of 2023, what still needs to get done for the year to finish on a high & mapping for 2024. I have started mapping all of this out of my head but felt a little cluttered & fuzzy. I had just finished journaling this morning & doing some Innercising on Procrastination when up popped an iPhone Photography notification. 😮 When I clicked on it 😮“distraction”😊 it didn’t land so I went looking for it & found an attractive image (your video - “distraction”) 😂 but it turned out to be a good distraction. I’m looking forward to keeping in touch some more. 🎉❤
I have to thank you so much for this. I've gotten really skeptical about a lot of organization, self improvement, planning methods over the years, but the M.A.P. format flipped a switch in me like nothing else ever has. I always felt (and still feel, really) like I've got SO much to do, so much to accomplish and its all overwhelming because I could never prioritize or focus on any one thing, so it all felt urgent and it was paralyzing to the point of not doing anything at all. You really helped me get it all down, narrow my focus to the top 3 most important things and really gun it. I've made leaps and bounds over the last year and into 2024 that I've been stalled out on for almost a decade now. Thank you so much, Amy.
I literally had to pause the video when she said 'desires'. I DESIRES that organizer, so pretty. It will help me want to write in it. Ok back to the video, so far so good. 😁
The amount of times I've come back to this video to go through the process! It is so helpful. This needs to be a planner in itself.
Starting job
After five months off on Monday. Met you on Saturday.even though I’m a big planner this video was
So helpful.
the moment you mentioned you intend to reach 1M subscribers, i instantly subscribed to your channel because i feel the desire in you. Guy please borrow a leaf from this madam and always voice out your needs, you never know who your audience are
So, proactive is something that you're starting new? And reactive is something that you have to change? I needed this video! So so so helpful, thank you!!!
I wanted to verify that too.
Same.🙂
I love that this is raw and real! It’s not just writing down 300 affirmations or desires of what you want to do or need. Thank you 🎉
I’ve actually never understood that grid until now. Thank you for the breakdown.
Amy, THANK YOU!!
I've seen the grid before but no one has broken it down task--by-task like you did. Other people who have shown this to me assume I know what goes in what boxes. But to my mind everything is important and urgent, so it left me feeling like a bull charging at red capes in every direction. Now this grid system makes sense.
By the way you give clarity and direction to many I can tell you're changing alot of lives alot more than alot of people that have 1 million subscribers. Hope you make it to 1 million if not thank you for doing the impossible keeping a good soul and helping people get their lives together. Thank you for this tip I really needed this. Thank you. 💐
It's so nice to hear your version of the quadrants! Love this model! Thank you!
wow, i like this , fun, short and sweet, sure applicable, wishing everyone success here.
I love you, Amy. Been watching you for years. You inspire me every time. Hope to be more like you and work with you one day. Meantime, thank you for always giving me hope and wise advice in my unique life situations. All my love, Jamie
I am home with my two kids every day. I have big goals and live overstimulated, reactive and unable to prioritise anything before home tasks and looking after my babies. I needed this video more than anything! Saving, rewatching, subscribing! Working on my TH-cam channel and my podcast are huge goals for me and I stumbled across your channel at the perfect time! 🤍🤍🤍
Get action plan blueprint. Probably the hardest thing is doing the little things we overlook! - You guys got this! - God Bless!
Amy, this was just what I needed! Thank you so much!! 😍I hope you don't mind me sharing a mom regret with you? Please don't make "fulltime daycare" a goal. That's a big regret for me as I realized later how much our littles need us and not strangers at a daycare. 🙏❤
Totally understand. We’re just trying to figure out the balance for our family and she has shown amazing results of being surrounded by other littles.
Daycare is not strangers, kids get to know and love their daycare providers! Each kid is different and full time daycare works super well for a lot of families. I understand if it didn't work for you but I wouldn't assume it'll be the same for others.
I agree. It didn’t make sense to me to have someone else raise my daughter, as good as the daycare provider was. That’s why I left my full-time job and homeschool. I don’t regret my decision at all!❤
@@lizeeveeI’m not even a parent and I would avoid day care as much as possible because of all the true crime I watch and all the evil workers who are day care workers. You just never know. Same fear with nursing homes! lol
@@lizeeveeMy daughter works at the top daycare in our area (rated 5 stars.) The workers more often than not ignore the children and stand in groups talking, (My daughter is the only one paying attention to them. One day 19 little ones tried to hug her and she almost fell over.)
Kids call her ‘Mommy.’
If she wasn’t there the kids would largely be ignored by the workers.
The one time workers show up is to demand the kids look like they’re doing crafts even when they’re special needs & don’t want to. They don’t care how upset they get while they set up the pictures for the website.
Daycare is a revolving door of changing faces so be prepared once your kid is attached - they usually leave due to low pay and / or hating their job.
No one will ever love your kid like you do. If you were a child and scraped your knee, would you rather run to your Mommy or a daycare provider?
This is the blessing I did not know I needed!! I just subscribed to your channel. You're now one more subscriber closer to reaching 1 mil subscribers. Thank you for this helpful tool!
Love you Amy, have been watching you for years and if I was a youtuber in another life, I would've been doing exactly the same topics, same colors, same themes.. absolutely a delight to watch your Channel.. wish you all the best
Thank you! This is definitely going to assist me in achieving meaningful goals and desires.
Hi there, as a mum of a 4 year old: The little ones need their mums and dads, not just an hour before bedtime... a person with a strong bond to the family is a secure and strong person, so maybe you can rethink the decision to give her to all day daycare...
Otherwise: Great Video, thanks for sharing 😘
I’ve always searched for how to plan my life and this is the only one video that explains perfectly well how to go about it. You don’t know what you have done for me by posting this 😢🥺🥺. Thank you so so much
thank you for showing us how to breakout all of the things into manageable and prioritized tasks. 😊
It's a must to say that I'm loving the new format of the videos.
I am watching your videos for the first time and I like it so much.
Damn!!! This beautiful lady is sharing awesome things for free.
Hurrrah!!!! Amy you got another fan just love whatever you are doing.
The intro to this video hooked me, and then the content captured my type A heart. New subscriber 😊
This is great. Love the b-roll so cute!
So glad the TH-cam picked this for me!!! It knows…..
Thank you for the creative solution ❤🎉🎉🎉❤ i'm so grateful and happy about it, i'm very appreciate that, really thank you so much, God bless you and your family ❤❤❤
So, I see lots of videos and tutorials on planning. But almost all of the time I am inspired, then confused. At the end, I am unsure how to implement what I "learned". This video was perfect because you walked us through actual thought processes. I don't think I ever saw a functional purpose for the Eisenhower Matrix until now! It just felt like "make work". Thanks!
Omg this comment brings me so much joy! This is exactly what I try to aim for 🙏🏻
I am back here to watch again!!! I have created a few plans and I am soooooo excited still 5 days later!! This video really helped me get clear about what I desire, the important tasks, a map, a brain dump which was a game changer for me! My go to video for motivatioin & inspriation xoxo love this video! : )
Ah!!! Shelly!!! you fill my heart! thank you for sharing that it's working for you!
i really hope that u get the 1M suscribers, the way that you explain things is amazing, thank u!
I just got you one subscriber closer to 1 million subscribers! Really enjoying your content. I am a woman who was diagnosed in my mid 50’s with ADHD. THAT…was a relief and sadly not a surprise. While not specific to ADHD I find your content doable and seemingly easy(ish) to implement.
I have been loving your videos lately! As a working mom, it’s so refreshing to hear someone who is also balancing that life. Best of luck getting Bianca into full-time care!
This a great video. Just watched while on the treadmill. Thank you for the practical tips. I wish I had seen it yesterday (Sunday) to help plan out my week. Instead I'm all over the place already this morning.
Thank you so much. This has helped me beyond words.
Thank you Amy! I'm working on my plans these days and this was what I needed!
You're so welcome!
You just gained another subscriber through this video - it was exactly what I needed! Keep up the great work and I know you’ll reach your goal
That means so much to me thank you 🙏🏻
Same 🥹🙌🏽 I knew when she began talking. I didn’t know she’d be walking us through this and I’m so grateful for it 😇👏🏽🙌🏽
And for the umpteenth time, just what I need right when I need it 💖 Thank you, Amy🌻
I love an actionable plan! I’ve never done the quadrants before, great idea. Combining this with time blocking on the calendar I’m certain will show results 👏
You can do it!
Read Stephen Covey's 'First Things First'.
I love this!! It narrows everything down to where you can get things done!!
My goodness I stumbled upon your page and this was so helpful. Thank you! Consider me one step closer to your 1 million TH-cam followers.
My phone is a huge distraction. I need to structure its use better. Thank you for this... extremely helpful!
The grid of priority is very Franklin Covey task management. Love it
A great practical development of Tony Robbins' MAP concept. Nicely done! 👋 👋👌
Thanks
I love you, Amy! Been a follower sincen 2018 and it's only now that I've gotten back to your content again!! Rooting for you and your road to 1M subs!!
Love your planner videos ❤
Can you help me understand the difference between proactive and reactive tasks? Thank you for this video! I’m sharing it with my real estate team to help them enhance their productivity ❤️
Hi! No problem I wish I explained it a little better for you. Basically the reactive column is to help you think of the things that tend to hold you back in your individual situation that usually sound like excuses. Like:
“I don’t have enough help with my kid.”
Or
“People come into my office and bother me too much for me to focus.”
Or
“I always get thrown off when something changes in my schedule and I don’t know what to do next.”
Or something like that.
When you have your “reasons” why things don’t get done, coming up with the tasks that help you solve for those reactive moments will help your plans get executed a little more effectively. Is that more helpful?
Yes thank you! I’ll circle back around with an example when I do this to make sure I’m on the same page
I look at reactive as things that you have to respond to, as things come up, the lead was initiated from someone/something else, whereas proactive are things that you are choosing to do, you are taking the lead on or initiating, trying to get ahead of or prevent or start something.
WOW I really love this video! My problem is I try to do too much and feel like I'm not getting anything done! This will definitley help me focus and get a handle on this crazy roller coaster I seem to be on. Thank you!
Full-time day care: been there, done that My 3 children are now all at college. Keep in mind....you can't get that time back.
Wow, this is my first video of yours. Love your clean videos and especially your personality, rooting for you!
Thank you, I love it! Id also like to mention that you are beautiful and I like your glowing skin! ❤🎉
I am extremely overwhelmed at the moment (and the last 2 weeks!!!) Found this video, hope it is gonna be GameChanger for me!!!!
BEST VIDEO EVER !!!!!!! Thank god for you ❤
thanks for being honest and sharing your goals
This video is packed with value!
This was a really good video. For someone who is always on go and always want more things done but at the same time feel like enough isn’t getting done! Thanks for this 🎉
What a wonderful video
Girl I SO needed this! I’m in the middle of taking several classes for a pretty massive career change, all while working full time and taking care of the household (Which is almost a full time job in itself 😂). This was so so helpful, thank you ❤
My Time Management is pretty bad, so this video was great! Would love to see even more content on structuring your days. What’s your advice to someone spending too much time on entertainment? I know “spend less time on it” would be common sense, but it’s almost like an addiction to binge 3-4 hours of TH-cam per night.
I hear you. My problem, too.
I struggle with this alot.but I decided to set up timers on my apps....
Actually your beautiful daughter doesn't need a full time daycare. She needs you. You are appreciated. Thanks.
Love this! Perfect timing. So needed this!
Came back for a second watch after the proactive/reactive video and found I was already halfway thru a second watch lol
Thanks so much! Found you a month ago and your calendar blocking has worked SO STINKIN' WELL!
Amy, this is the video I needed! Thank you! I realized as I was narrowing my list to three that if I accomplish those three the others that I crossed out could be more easily accomplished. Thank you for helping me gain that vision!
Yes! I realised that too! If we become the people who can and do achieve our 3 chosen goals, that leads naturally on to some of our other goals! Oh, it's a beautiful thing!
This is so neurodivergent friendly. For someone who struggles with figuring out how to mentally attack challenges this strategy really gets right at the uncertainty that usually makes me tend to procrastinate. Bujo has failed me so this looks super promising! Thanks so much!
Thanks, Amy!
Love the new format!
Thanks for adding humor into the video it totally keeps me interested. This video is also unlike any getting your shit together video I’ve seen. I just subscribed!
Most practical and sound advice to inch oneself towards their goal achievement. Really great, and to the point. Thanks a million!
Amy, you look more beautiful in each video. Great tips, thanks.
This is an incredible method for prioritizing major goals!! Thank you Amy for providing such a hassle-free approach in this wonderful video.
I was really needing something like that right now. Thank you.
Everyone tells about that quadrant but you practically show how to do that, awesome🤩
Thanks for the video😊 btw you are gorgeous.....
Omg thank you because this has been the most challenging thing in my life. Organising and prioritising things to do 😭
This is such a valuable video ! Thank you so so much !!
LITERALLY your best and most actionable video to date! I love the MAP! #goafterthelifeyouwant
I hate the Eisenhower matrix. I have a really hard time determining which quadrant to put things. I don't think I can differentiate between urgent and important very well. My inclination is that everything should be in quadrant 1, but I know that some things have to go in the other quadrants, so I will put some things in the other quadrants, even though my true self would put them in quadrant 1 (maybe quadrant 2). I never feel like I do this exercise "correctly" (read: perfectly) which makes me feel like a failure before I even start. However, I did take away from the video the importance of prioritization. I'm going to try a day-by-day approach. Each morning I'll choose one thing I need to get done (apart from the daily things that always need to be done, like feed the children). I've already chosen my priority thing for today. Wish me luck!
I'm excited to start trying this!
Hi, just found you today - great reminders of effective planning!